Pearl Calls Out This Double Standard In Society
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss why women should cover up, why men should not cover up and why women need to cover up. We also talk about why women are sexualized by society and why men need to be protected.
Transcript
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I think that you have nudity laws for a reason.
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It's like, I don't want to see, I'm, I'm actually quite tired on Twitter of women tweeting their
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I'd much rather you say that though, rather than the, the predatory man.
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I mean, now we, now we have generalized, I wouldn't say every man.
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But I, but I'm saying like, why do we put it on the man?
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I think if there is 20 men that aren't like that, and there's one that is, we're going
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to remember that one and we're going to protect.
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But what does that have to do with women covering up?
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Like, I don't understand why does that have to be a sexual thing?
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So I want to pull on his amazing point here to, to your answer right here in, in our human
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species, women attract mates often by showing their body.
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And so we see that as obscene, whereas men attract mates like a peacock, often by showing
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I think we would live in a better society if we treated a man who drove around in an ultra
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expensive car he didn't need the same way we treat a woman who walks around with little
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stickers on her breasts because he's doing the same thing.
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He's showing an obscene gender and sexual display to try to get partners in a way that
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is completely unproductive to our society in a way that moves society backwards.
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You're wrong because it takes, you're wrong because, and I'm not saying you should flaunt
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it and be overt with it, but it takes character for a man to build a career.
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And I respect the man that's worked for himself.
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And I, it's the same saying like, why is this guy with big muscles and a six pack, like
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showing it off because he worked really hard to achieve that.
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And I might, and I, and I can't look at that with resent now to your point about why your
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dad might say that I have two daughters myself and I've had times where my older daughter,
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um, you know, she's wearing like whatever she's wearing at home, playing her iPad and
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It's just like, it's a respect between dudes thing.
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Because if I went to another man's house and his young daughter is dressed very scandally,
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I'm like, you're not protecting your daughter, which is a father's duty.
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It's just the protective mechanism and men protect.
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I was in church the other day and this like woman brought her two daughters and it honestly
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Cause they were so young and they were like, they were like, you could tell it was a single
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mother, you know, and they were literally like dressed like hookers.
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And they're like, like a dog, like, like they're in a crop top.
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And I'm thinking like, like, I don't think that's a, like, I'm not sexualizing the kid
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But before you guys were saying that the men were sexualizing you because your dad told
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And I'm saying, I think that's just human decency.
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And I don't understand why we're making that into a creepy man thing.
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So when I see a guy in life, when I see a guy, I don't go, oh, I really want to sleep
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Whereas a man will pass me and go, oh, I would sleep with him.
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So for women, the social recourse for sex is way higher.
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For women, the social risk for sex is way higher.
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For women, the bodily damage and all that comes with babies is way higher.
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The economic risk is higher, and yet women still choose to have sex.
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So the access for women, the punishment is so much higher.
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If I were you and you're encouraging fertility rates, I would encourage way more married men
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Because what it did for my wife when I got my first, we have four kids and she used to
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She's like, you know what, I'm feeling pretty good about this.
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So you should be encouraging the opposite of what she said.
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I think, okay, so I think that women are more sexual than men.
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And the reason, I know it's unpopular opinion, the reason I came to this conclusion is sometimes
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I think men just couldn't even be bothered with women and sex.
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Like, they'll get into this phase of their life where they're just like, I'm done with
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So I once, like, went to, when I was, and this is just anecdotal, I guess, but I went
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She, like, sent me to my grandma's house for the summer.
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And I remember I was sitting with, like, a bunch of mostly widowed 70, you know, 60-something
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And they were talking the same way about boys that, like, me and my friends did, and I was
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Like, even, like, male, like, female books that we read, they're always romantic.
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It's like, you know, Lord of the Rings or whatever.
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When you look at expenditures per industry, when you look at corn versus romance novels,
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I love it when I have a theory that I'm working on.
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And the funniest thing, though, is, you know, most men aren't looking at corn on the subway.
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But the thing is that the dynamics are different, and this is why we don't recognize it, is women
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are much more aroused by dominance and submission, not the actual, like, visual, like, whatever
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Whereas men are typically more, you know, aroused by the actual visual stuff, which is why you
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see these different industries, but don't, do not mistake for a second what romance novels
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I've been reading it since I'm like 14, 14, like, 14, like, 14, you know.
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Even some of these TV shows, too, now, like the female TV shows, like The Notebook, Titanic.
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It's how, like, a lot of shows on Netflix have gotten really frisky.
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You can't watch anything now without any sexual purpose.
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Also, I've never heard of a long line of men lining up in front of, like, a mental institution,
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writing letters to some crazy woman that killed a kid, but then you see the story of this
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Dahmer guy, these serial killers, and you see women literally writing letters to them
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But I think one thing that we also need to remember with this, and it's really an interesting
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phenomenon, and you had Sandman on your show, and he's talked about this in the past
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He says, when you look at the men's rights activists who are of, like, Gen Z, they now
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are able to do something that no men's rights activist before was really able to do in large
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numbers, which is just be like, I'm not even trying to, like, not be interested in girls.
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And I think that generationally, whether it's due to pollutants or due to lower testosterone
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rates or whatever is causing this in society, young men are just much less interested
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in sexuality and sex than they ever have been historically.
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No, I've noticed that, too, because I was thinking even, like, boys' nights versus girls'
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Like, girls' nights just get together to talk about boys, and then boys will just, like,
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But then when you say that men are not as sexual these days, it makes me wonder, because nowadays
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men are paying for sex, subscribing on OnlyFans and many other avenues.
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So I think men are very sexual these days, but just in the wrong way, if you know what I
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Because you're doing the semen resension thing.
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Like, a really interesting thing that has happened in society, there's, like, lots of
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very cool studies on it, is men are just less desperate.
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And so what happens is, because there's corn unavailable or whatever, lack of desperation
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So more desperate men take more risks to produce more status-signaling behavior, because risk
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So what that means is, something like 95% of men have never approached a woman randomly
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on the street or in a store just to say that they like her and ask for her number.
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And the reason is, they're just not desperate enough to do it, right?
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Because right now, a young man can see more naked, beautiful women by the time he's 12
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than the greatest kings in history I've ever seen, right?
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And so what happens is, there's no desperation to push the action into a risk-seeking behavior.
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So we just sit at home and, that word that you used.
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But there's two really interesting studies I read recently, which I thought I'd share,
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is women enjoy a tremendous amount of sexual privilege in the marketplace.
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When women are asked, what would be the ideal number of sexual partners they've had last year
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versus what they imagined they would or wanted to have, women's numbers are generally very close.
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The number of partners they want to have is generally what they have.
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That goes for both promiscuous and unpromiscuous women.
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So if a woman is highly promiscuous, she'll say, I wanted 15 partners last year, she'll get 15 partners, right?
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A man's ideal number of partners that he would like to have is substantially higher than his actual partners that he's generated.
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The second statistic is what kind of sex men and women want.
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A man's attractiveness to a woman generally grows with the woman's age.
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So a 20-year-old woman will find a 25-year-old guy attractive.
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A 50-year-old woman will still find a 55-year-old guy attractive, etc., etc.
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Whereas for men, they consistently, across all age groups, rank 23-year-old women as the most beautiful.
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So as men get older, and they're obviously copulating with older women, usually their wife or whoever,
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So women get the number of sex partners they want and the kind of sex they want,
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I just thought it's kind of cool because we don't talk about it.