Pearl CLAPS BACK At Her Twitter HATERS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the sexualization of women and the impact it has on our society. Is it a good thing or a bad thing that women cover up? Is it bad that men sexualize women? And why do we need to protect our daughters from sexualization?
Transcript
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Why do you say the men are responsible for the sexualization?
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I wouldn't say they're completely wholly responsible,
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but I do think some sick men that we all are influenced by or have heard of,
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that's the reason why a young girl will be told,
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okay, well, you've got a cover-up or anything like that.
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But she learns that because really the biggest influence tends to be that sick man that does whatever.
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But even without the sick man, why is it bad to teach your daughter to cover up?
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Isn't that a skill that would be good throughout her life?
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So then why do we paint that as a bad thing, like it's men sexualizing women?
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We wouldn't have to cover ourselves up if it wasn't for men.
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We wouldn't have to, like, if men weren't here, we wouldn't.
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I think that you have nudity laws for a reason.
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I have women tweeting their naked pictures at me.
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I'd much rather you say that, though, rather than the predatory man.
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Right, but I'm saying, like, why do we put it on the man?
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I think if there is 20 men that aren't like that, and there's one that is, we're going
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to remember that one, and we're going to protect the however long.
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But what does that have to do with women covering up?
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So I want to pull on his amazing point here to your answer right here.
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In the human species, women attract mates often by showing their body, and so we see
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that as obscene, whereas men attract mates like a peacock often by showing their wealth
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I think we would live in a better society if we treated a man who drove around in an ultra
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expensive car he didn't need the same way we treat a woman who walks around with little
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stickers on her breasts, because he's doing the same thing.
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He's showing an obscene gender and sexual display to try to get partners in a way that
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is completely unproductive to our society, in a way that moves society backwards.
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You're wrong, because, and I'm not saying you should flaunt it and be overt with it, but
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it takes character for a man to build a career.
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And I respect the man that's worked for himself.
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And it's the same saying, like, why is this guy with big muscles and a six pack, like,
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showing it off, because he worked really hard to achieve that.
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And I might, and I can't look at that with resent.
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Now, to your point about why your dad might say, I have two daughters myself, and I've
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had times where my older daughter, you know, she's wearing, like, whatever she's wearing
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at home, playing her iPad, and I have people coming over.
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It's just, like, it's a respect between dudes thing, because if I went to another man's
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house and his young daughter is dressed very scantily, I'm like, you're not protecting
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It's just a protective mechanism, and men protect.
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I was in church the other day, and this, like, woman brought her two daughters, and
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it honestly made me sick, the way they were dressed, because they were so young, and they
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were, like, they were, like, you could tell it was a single mother, you know, and they
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were literally, like, dressed like hookers, and they're, like, like a dog, like, they're
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And I'm thinking, like, I don't think that's a, like, I'm not sexualizing the kid, because
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I want them to be covered up, and I don't think that's because of men.
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Right, but before, you guys were saying that the men were sexualizing you, because your
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dad told you you had to cover up as a kid, and I'm saying, I think that's just human
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decency, and I don't understand why we're making that into a creepy man thing.
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So when I see a guy in life, when I see a guy, I don't go, oh, I really want to sleep
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with him, whereas a man will pass me and go, oh, I would sleep with him.
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So for women, okay, so for women, the social recourse for sex is way higher.
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For women, the social risk for sex is way higher.
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For women, the bodily damage and all that comes with babies is way higher.
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The economic risk is higher, and yet women still choose to have sex.
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So the access for women, the punishment is so much higher.
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And by the way, just coming back to your point, if I were you and you're encouraging fertility
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rates, I would encourage way more married men to buy supercars, because what it did for
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my wife when I got my first, we have four kids, and she used to go, she's like, hey,
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let's go to the movies, and she's like, let's take that car.
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So you should be encouraging the opposite of what she said.
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I think, okay, so I think that women are more sexual than men.
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And the reason, I know this is unpopular opinion, the reason I came to this conclusion is sometimes
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I think men just couldn't even be bothered with women and sex.
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Like, they'll get into this phase of their life where they're just like, I'm done with
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So I once, like, went to, um, when I was, and this is just anecdotal, I guess, but I
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went, um, and visited my grandma in high school, and my mom was mad at me one summer.
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She, like, sent me to my grandma's house for the summer.
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And I remember I was sitting with, like, a bunch of mostly widowed 70, you know, 60-something
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old, and they were talking the same way about boys that, like, me and my friends did,
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But it's like, like, I don't think, go ahead, go ahead.
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Like, even, like, um, male, like, female books that we read, they're always romantic.
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It's like, you know, Lord of the Rings or whatever.
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When you look at expenditures per industry, when you look at corn versus romance novels, which
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I love it when I have a theory that I'm working on and someone gives me a...
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And the funniest thing, though, is, you know, most men aren't looking at corn on the,
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But the thing is that the dynamics are different, and this is why we don't recognize it, is women
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are much more aroused by dominance and submission, not the actual, like, visual, like, whatever
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Whereas men are typically more, you know, aroused by the actual visual stuff, which is why you
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But don't, do not mistake for a second what romance novels are about.
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Even some of these TV shows, too, now, like the female TV shows, like The Notebook, Titanic.
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It's how, like, a lot of shows on Netflix have gotten really frisky.
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You can't watch anything now without any sexual purpose.
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Also, I've never heard of a long line of men lining up in front of, like, a mental institution
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writing letters to some crazy woman that killed a kid.
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But then you see the story of this Dahmer guy, these serial killers, and you see women
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But I think one thing that we also need to remember was this, and it's really an interesting
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phenomenon, and you had Sandman on your show, and he's talked about this in the past as
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He says, when you look at the men's rights activists who are of, like, Gen Z, they now
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are able to do something that no men's rights activist before was really able to do in large
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I'm not even trying to, like, not be interested in girls.
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And I think that generationally, whether it's due to pollutants or due to lower testosterone
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rates or whatever is causing this in society, young men are just much less interested in
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sexuality and sex than they ever have been historically.
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Yeah, no, I've noticed that, too, because I was thinking even, like, boys' nights versus
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Like, girls' nights just get together to talk about boys, and then boys will just, like,
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But then when you say that men are not as sexual these days, it makes me wonder, because
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nowadays men are paying for sex, subscribing on OnlyFans and many other avenues.
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So I think men are very sexual these days, but just in the wrong way, if you know what
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That's actually a really good point, because you're doing the semen retention thing.
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Like, a really interesting thing that has happened in society, there's, like, lots of
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very cool studies on it, is men are just less desperate.
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And so what happens is, because there's corn on available or whatever, lack of desperation
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So more desperate men take more risks to produce more status-signaling behavior, because
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So what that means is, something like 95% of men have never approached a woman randomly
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on the street or in a store just to say that they like her and ask for her number.
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And the reason is, they're just not desperate enough to do it, right?
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Because right now, a young man can see more naked, beautiful women by the time he's 12
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than the greatest kings in history I've ever seen, right?
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And so what happens is, there's no desperation to push the action into a risk-seeking behavior.
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So we just sit at home and, that word that you used, but there's two really interesting
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studies I read recently, which I thought I'd share, is women enjoy a tremendous amount
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When asked, when women are asked, what would be the ideal number of sexual partners they've
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had last year versus what they imagined they would or wanted to have, women's numbers are
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The number of partners they want to have is generally what they have.
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That goes for both promiscuous and unpromiscuous women.
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So if a woman is highly promiscuous, she'll say, I wanted 15 partners last year, she'll get
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A man's ideal number of partners that he would like to have is substantially higher than his
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The second statistic is what kind of sex men and women want.
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A man's attractiveness to a woman generally grows with the woman's age.
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So a 20-year-old woman will find a 25-year-old guy attractive.
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A 50-year-old woman will still find a 55-year-old guy attractive, et cetera, et cetera.
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Whereas for men, they consistently, across all age groups, rank 23-year-old women as the most
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So as men get older, and they're obviously copulating with older women, usually their
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wife or whoever, they're not having the ideal sex.
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So women get the number of sex partners they want and the kind of sex they want, and men
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I just thought it's kind of cool because we don't talk about it.