JustPearlyThings - August 26, 2023


Pearl Comes Up With The Most Based Idea

Topics
emotional abuse women men communication
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Pearl
Black DUDE Explains What ALL MEN WANT... Why Modern Relationships are NOT Working

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

204.48

Word count

1,772

Sentence count

268

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

sentences flagged

Toxicity

31

sentences flagged

Hate speech

16

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, we talk about the worst way a woman can control a man, and the best way a man can be controlled by a woman. We also talk about how women can emotionally abuse men, and why they should be punished for it.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
Topics generated with Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct.
Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 What do you think is, like, the worst ways that women try to control men? 1.00
00:00:09.460 Vagina. 1.00
00:00:10.300 Oh, yeah.
00:00:11.520 That's the main thing.
00:00:13.900 I don't think that's enough.
00:00:14.800 That's always been the main thing.
00:00:15.700 You say the worst way.
00:00:16.840 Yeah, like, how do you...
00:00:18.060 Through the children.
00:00:18.720 That's the worst thing a woman can do, is try to control a man through the children. 1.00
00:00:22.580 That's one of the lowest, lowest things.
00:00:24.680 Have you seen that before?
00:00:27.080 She's done it.
00:00:28.040 No, never.
00:00:28.720 Ever, ever, ever, never.
00:00:30.000 Never, never, never, never.
00:00:31.640 I completely disagree with any woman who tries to jeopardise any relationship a child has with their other parent. 1.00
00:00:38.920 It's evil.
00:00:39.780 It is evil.
00:00:40.460 And a child needs that parent.
00:00:41.860 I think they should face jail time. 0.87
00:00:44.680 Yeah, I think it's disgusting. 0.96
00:00:45.860 With women that do that. 1.00
00:00:47.460 And I have seen it.
00:00:48.300 I mean, I've seen it on TV and I've seen it around.
00:00:51.380 But I think that's one of the lowest things a woman could do. 1.00
00:00:56.260 I thought the worst way that you can actually, like...
00:01:00.000 I feel like abuse is, like, the worst way.
00:01:04.420 Especially, like, emotional abuse or, like, in other cases, like, I don't know.
00:01:08.780 That's the worst abuse that any man could feel, not being able to have access to their children.
00:01:12.360 I want to change my answer.
00:01:14.820 I think women can emotionally abuse men, but men can't emotionally abuse women.
00:01:18.920 And I feel like women are better at emotionally abusing men, like, when we get the time to do it. 1.00
00:01:23.460 Yeah.
00:01:23.740 I do.
00:01:24.400 Yeah.
00:01:25.580 What do you think? 0.51
00:01:27.160 I think you can emotionally abuse women. 1.00
00:01:29.560 Yeah.
00:01:30.040 I don't think so.
00:01:31.240 No?
00:01:32.520 You could be right.
00:01:33.320 Tell me why I'm wrong.
00:01:34.180 I just...
00:01:34.680 You can just...
00:01:35.360 Yeah.
00:01:35.640 You can say things.
00:01:37.340 Like what?
00:01:37.940 That chips away at... 0.99
00:01:39.380 You know, you're fat. 0.97
00:01:40.580 As a joke. 0.99
00:01:41.220 Is she fat? 1.00
00:01:41.960 She's banal. 0.93
00:01:42.940 No, she's kind of fat, but it's said it's a joke. 1.00
00:01:44.760 Okay.
00:01:45.100 Well, then, now you're just truth-telling.
00:01:46.900 And then after a while, it's just...
00:01:48.820 Do you know what I mean?
00:01:49.800 But that's what...
00:01:50.720 You're just truth-telling.
00:01:51.620 It goes back to what you said, though.
00:01:53.540 Because you said...
00:01:54.660 You said before that, you know, women can't accept the truth. 1.00
00:02:00.720 Yeah.
00:02:01.200 So it's like, you tell them in a jokey way, and it's the truth.
00:02:05.120 And it's like, fix it.
00:02:05.960 But then they, like, they go...
00:02:08.020 It's horrible, so I can't accept it.
00:02:10.560 It's a joke as well.
00:02:11.680 It's crazy.
00:02:12.100 Oh, that's even more painful.
00:02:12.880 Well, it almost...
00:02:13.720 Remember, you said we have to just take it.
00:02:15.140 Whatever the man says, we just have to take it, and just take it on the chin, and just...
00:02:18.060 Well, I think that's...
00:02:19.140 I think...
00:02:19.580 I'm not even saying...
00:02:20.000 Or give it back.
00:02:20.960 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:21.440 And then we all grow together.
00:02:22.780 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:23.800 You know?
00:02:24.360 And I'm not even saying, like, anyone's going to do it perfectly.
00:02:28.400 But I think the ideal is just to listen.
00:02:31.080 Right?
00:02:31.480 You know?
00:02:32.180 Communication, yeah.
00:02:33.260 No, no.
00:02:33.860 I think more communication is...
00:02:36.800 Like, think about this.
00:02:38.440 Has a woman ever, like, communicated with you?
00:02:41.340 And, like, then...
00:02:42.440 She's like, oh, I'm happy now.
00:02:43.680 I solved the problem.
00:02:44.900 There's the but.
00:02:45.640 She's never going to be happy.
00:02:48.040 There's always another problem.
00:02:49.300 There's always another problem.
00:02:50.620 There's always another problem.
00:02:52.880 Yeah.
00:02:53.340 So, I actually think we should communicate less.
00:02:56.300 I think communication is not the key.
00:02:58.960 Yeah.
00:02:59.120 Women love communication. 1.00
00:03:00.600 No, because we just...
00:03:01.960 Guys, guys, if I'm left, like, any chick, if we're just left, like, like, if the guy lets 0.91
00:03:07.600 us communicate as much as we want to, we're just never going to shut the fuck up.
00:03:12.860 Like, we're just going to... 0.94
00:03:13.960 It's true.
00:03:14.460 It's true.
00:03:14.680 No, I don't...
00:03:15.600 No, I don't think so.
00:03:17.040 I feel like communication, to an extent, would make sense.
00:03:20.460 But I feel like if you don't communicate as much to your partner, you're never going
00:03:24.780 to really know your partner.
00:03:25.760 It's just going to be, like, two people who are going to be mute in the house.
00:03:28.440 You know what's crazy?
00:03:29.380 Have you ever asked a woman how their day was?
00:03:32.120 And it just goes on.
00:03:34.080 And on.
00:03:35.060 Men hate that.
00:03:36.260 I'm not a woman like that, bro.
00:03:37.340 We're just...
00:03:38.060 It's the polite thing to do, but it just goes on.
00:03:41.340 Yeah.
00:03:41.600 And on.
00:03:42.020 It's crazy.
00:03:42.660 And what if you don't ask, Kat?
00:03:43.280 With really nothing situations as well.
00:03:45.060 Nothing happens. 0.99
00:03:45.780 But if you stop listening, it's all fucked. 0.99
00:03:48.620 It's all just... 1.00
00:03:49.460 It's fucked up. 0.99
00:03:50.100 If you don't ask, though, how her day was, then you're not going to win either. 0.99
00:03:53.360 Do you know what?
00:03:53.940 Why haven't you asked about her day?
00:03:55.860 Like Pearl said, maybe less communication, more understanding.
00:03:58.940 More understanding.
00:04:00.220 Okay.
00:04:00.520 Imagine.
00:04:01.400 Okay.
00:04:01.760 I have this thought.
00:04:02.760 All right.
00:04:02.920 I want you guys to hear it.
00:04:04.000 I want you to...
00:04:04.860 All right.
00:04:05.060 I think the world would be a better place.
00:04:07.300 Okay.
00:04:08.020 Imagine.
00:04:08.700 Women got, like, a talking stick. 1.00
00:04:12.240 Okay.
00:04:12.580 And you get, like, two hours of talking a day or three.
00:04:15.300 Whatever.
00:04:15.760 Like, we can negotiate what it is.
00:04:17.740 And the guy granted you how much you got to talk based on your behavior for that day.
00:04:23.460 So it's like, if you had sex with him in the morning, you get 30 minutes, you know.
00:04:27.800 Then it's like, okay. 0.77
00:04:29.260 So you get...
00:04:29.840 Then it's like, okay, you cooked him lunch or dinner.
00:04:32.720 Okay.
00:04:33.100 Now you get another hour.
00:04:34.300 You see, like, we just keep adding on.
00:04:36.960 What do you...
00:04:37.380 Do you guys think the world would be a better place if we had that?
00:04:39.920 No, I feel like men will abuse the stick.
00:04:43.260 They'll be like, because of your tightness, you only get 15 minutes to talk today.
00:04:47.340 Like, I feel like men will abuse that.
00:04:49.520 No, because they're going to want, like...
00:04:51.840 So they're going to abuse it, like...
00:04:53.920 Yeah, they're going to... 0.99
00:04:54.580 The more sex I get, the more you can talk. 0.98
00:04:56.340 Well... 0.99
00:04:56.780 Literally.
00:04:59.100 I think their true feelings would come out, no?
00:05:01.700 So if they don't want to speak to you, you'd find out very quickly.
00:05:04.600 Maybe.
00:05:06.380 Yeah.
00:05:07.040 Yeah? 0.79
00:05:07.400 But they're going to want sexual favors, right?
00:05:09.380 But then what if...
00:05:09.960 But then what if you got your hair done and you're like, oh, babe, am I okay to use, like,
00:05:15.300 the stick to just tell you, like, I just want to ask your opinion on my hair?
00:05:19.980 Maybe you can have, like, 15 minutes, like, off the bat.
00:05:22.900 Yeah, just, like...
00:05:23.320 Like, that'll be nice, you know?
00:05:24.040 Just, like, a little venting session about how your hair is and then...
00:05:27.120 No, maybe 10 minutes for the day so you don't talk too much.
00:05:30.180 No venting session.
00:05:31.820 Two minutes, man.
00:05:33.100 Two minutes.
00:05:33.600 Two minutes.
00:05:34.280 You've got to be quick with it.
00:05:35.640 I heard a guy say that he felt like he could have a great relationship with a woman that
00:05:41.260 didn't speak his language.
00:05:42.960 Wow.
00:05:43.980 And that really changed my view.
00:05:45.940 I was like, wow, men really don't like talking to us that much.
00:05:50.020 The thing is, women talk about communication so much, but what I've come to realize is 1.00
00:05:55.220 it's not actually communication.
00:05:57.080 Women just want to talk. 1.00
00:05:58.420 Yeah.
00:05:58.660 So what it is, is I think the stick will work so well because what will happen is women 1.00
00:06:03.060 will start learning how to actually communicate.
00:06:05.520 You've been thinking about the stick.
00:06:07.660 I feel like you've been thinking about the stick.
00:06:09.880 I've pitched this before.
00:06:11.760 Oh, so he's been thinking about the stick.
00:06:13.820 I mean, if you've only got 15 minutes, you're going to get out the important stuff in 15.
00:06:17.480 I think women are better talkers, but men are better communicators. 1.00
00:06:24.700 Yeah.
00:06:25.000 They just get straight to the point.
00:06:26.180 They just get straight to the point.
00:06:28.020 Definitely.
00:06:29.280 While we've got that time, we just want to get everything out.
00:06:31.640 Oh, yeah.
00:06:31.940 Remember the other day.
00:06:32.720 But then I also feel like, as women though, like, you know, because women are submissive 1.00
00:06:38.280 to our men.
00:06:39.060 Yeah.
00:06:39.280 I feel like we want to make our men into our best friend in a way.
00:06:44.100 And we want that person to like, you know, when they come home, we want to be their piece,
00:06:47.980 but we also want them to be like our treasure, if that makes sense.
00:06:51.820 I think women do naturally just cut everybody off and just want to be by their man. 1.00
00:06:55.860 Yeah.
00:06:56.100 Men are not really like that.
00:06:57.080 I feel like that's a part of being submissive as well because realistically, like, there's
00:07:01.700 some couples out there when they have problems in the relationships, they don't actually
00:07:04.760 go to their friends or anything.
00:07:06.360 Like, they actually just work that out in their relationship.
00:07:08.980 So I feel like, in a way, that's what you would naturally do for your man.
00:07:12.840 Like, you will just cut the world off for your man because you do want to, you know what
00:07:16.780 I mean?
00:07:16.920 You want to make sure you can work on problems together, not everyone else can help you
00:07:20.180 work on those problems.
00:07:21.320 What did you say?
00:07:22.000 I said, I think that's the mistake.
00:07:23.580 Like, thinking that your partner can be your everything.
00:07:25.840 Yeah.
00:07:26.660 Yeah.
00:07:27.240 Absolutely.
00:07:27.740 You need your friends separately.
00:07:30.040 He needs his friends separately.
00:07:31.000 He needs his time.
00:07:31.760 You need your time.
00:07:32.520 You need your things.
00:07:33.360 Yeah.
00:07:33.840 He needs his hobbies.
00:07:35.260 That's where women go wrong. 1.00
00:07:36.140 And you come back together when it's right.
00:07:38.220 Yeah.
00:07:38.960 To an extent.
00:07:39.780 Yeah.
00:07:40.120 You know how much pressure is, like, just put on men just on a daily basis.
00:07:45.660 There's a lot. 1.00
00:07:46.440 And then we go home and then just get shit. 1.00
00:07:49.320 Yeah. 1.00
00:07:49.720 It's crazy.
00:07:50.380 You guys do have a lot to deal with.
00:07:52.580 Yeah.
00:07:53.500 It's crazy. 1.00
00:07:54.160 And then we don't have the talking stick, so we're fucked. 0.98
00:08:01.040 I feel like everyone's going to take that stick idea from today. 0.94
00:08:04.380 I mean, you know, once I had a boyfriend and I was telling him a story and he just looked
00:08:10.240 at me and he's like, I don't care.
00:08:13.800 I was like, ah.
00:08:15.300 Did you cry on the walk home?
00:08:17.300 I've done that a lot.
00:08:17.720 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:18.440 I've done that a lot.
00:08:19.480 No, I just.
00:08:20.180 I'm so honest.
00:08:21.040 I'm really honest.
00:08:21.620 Yeah.
00:08:21.960 No, I kind of respect it.
00:08:23.340 I just kind of took it.
00:08:24.760 I mean, my feelings were a little hurt, but I was like, maybe my story wasn't as funny
00:08:29.660 as I thought.
00:08:30.820 It never is.
00:08:32.300 It never is.
00:08:34.180 It never is.
00:08:36.620 Oh, women think they're funny. 1.00
00:08:38.820 Hey, I'm hilarious.