Pearl CRASHED Their Disney Fairy Tales
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about love, sex and sex. We discuss the difference between being a virgin and being in love with someone you care deeply for and what it means to be in love. We talk about our experience with our first love and how we fell in love and fell out of love.
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you guys go on another date with a guy if he didn't pay the bill yeah positive to be fair
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i've been on dates where i've paid for for the day yeah and it hasn't bothered me though did
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you sleep it never yeah no i did no i did okay i did you did because it doesn't it does stuff
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like that doesn't get to me i'm not that kind of person um yeah yeah no it doesn't but it wasn't
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at one time then i never saw him again there you go but it wasn't it wasn't just because it wasn't
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because of that i just didn't really like him like that but only in a relationship i will
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yeah i'm talking about paying yeah what about um what about you if you had to go back would you
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you'll never change no no it's just it's crazy to me because you know it caused you trauma like
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you said that and you said you see how it's damaging like why wouldn't you because to me if i like if i
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know if i know a relationship like you know because people are like oh i wouldn't change anything and i
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think i would absolutely maybe then yeah like what you know it didn't work yeah i see where you're
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coming from but i don't know i just don't like being bored i feel like i'd have too much temptation
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i'm not patient i'm not a patient person so i feel like have you ever been in love probably
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love i'd know never that's why then you have to find a guy that you probably love and that you're
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gonna say loyal to him for the rest of your life you have to find a guy that you proper love yeah
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maybe i just haven't had them emotions what do you think love is i think love is i believe in
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love i can't like yeah what do you think it is is it more than just a feeling it's when i think
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it's different for boys and girls i can't like yeah i think so too so for girls it's a feeling
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obviously it's not like it's not a physical thing is it so when a girl as she only thinks about him
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she sees the future of him only thinks in her head i can't replace this guy so i can't get anything
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better than him i'm gonna stick with him he's the love of my life i respect him do you know what i'm
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saying and for the man like that's a beautiful thing for a woman yeah like and but the guy has
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to be high value you know what i'm saying a girl can't just be head over heels in love with a guy
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that's not high value i can't be a homeless guy that speaks words like you're saying that poems and
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that you she won't fall head over heels in love with him that's in fairy tales that's to be high
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value for the value to matter to the love to matter do you know i think that's what i go through like
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i feel like it's just a lust all the time yeah it's just a feeling yeah you know you know you know
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what i did the other day you can be in love more than once what men yeah yeah anyone really i mean
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i don't know about men but i can speak for women on behalf like how come how come like we have exes
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right um there must have been something there you clearly was in love with them and then you move like
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that didn't work out and now you're in love with someone else so so it's just a feeling so you can have
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it with anyone okay i have a question do you feel like the older you get you can't fall in love as hard
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because i i think there's nothing like your first love yeah like i think the first guy that you're
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really in love with like you don't ever fall in love that hard i think that's actually true for men
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and for women like i i just think there's nothing like your first love and so it's like why would
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i not want to feel that with my husband because now it's like the the love you experience with your
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husband isn't the same level of deep as the one you experienced before i don't you know what i don't
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think i've ever been in i feel like in the moment i feel like i'm in love but then even with my first
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going back it was definitely just a lost thing yeah definitely just a love thing like the feeling of
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the affection and you like the feeling of being comforted someone being there just kind of like
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a friend not them obviously being a friend but like someone being there like your mom you know just
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the feeling of it and if you don't have that you hold on to it more and when especially with like
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damaged people if people have gone and and came back gone and came back and you get attachment
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issues so when you when you do find that person that actually wants to be there and loves you the
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way that yeah no and then and then they go do you think that's love but like sometimes well they
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wouldn't have gone if it's love yeah yeah they'll always be in your life but i disagree with that i think
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that people that love you can leave if you treat them poorly oh yeah yeah yeah and i think a lot of times
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like women we always put ourselves as like the victim in relationships when a lot of times we
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took him for granted or we treated him poorly and so he left and maybe he loved you but he left
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because he just got sick of the i think we're sold to dream like we're told you of this prince charming
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that's waiting and you're just perfect enough to do nothing like even you when i asked you like what
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skills are you working on to be a wife or to be a mother you were like uh i know i've thought of
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some now to be there no but but it's like if you were really working on it all the time it would be the top of
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your head which is i don't think you're abnormal but it's like we're not told we have to work for
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the men we want yeah i think definitely in in this day and age in this society obviously women are very
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much more encouraged to go and chase their dreams so i think at the moment i'm in i am in my selfish
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my selfish era of thinking about what i want for my future but in two years time when i've achieved
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most of those things my perspective again will be different i mean i can cook i can clean i can i can
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take care of myself first and foremost which means i can take care of someone else so i'm working on
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myself to be a better person for my future husband if that makes sense how many meals did you cook this
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week if you asked me two weeks ago it would have been better but i've had quite a few days i'm not
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gonna lie to you no it's okay i just think sometimes like as girls we think that we do things more than
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we do and i just noticed like i'll ask girls like they'll say they can cook but they haven't cooked in
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a month or two months to be fair no i do i every week i will have a cooked home cooked meal um but
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it's more than most to be honest you see that study that came out that women are now like the increase
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in takeaway like americans don't it's like they don't eat out as much but it's mostly like microwave
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meals something like that it's easy it's easy it's convenient it's convenient like i don't have like a
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normal nine to five schedule lifestyle i'll be like tonight i'm gonna be home late so i won't wanna
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cook anything yeah i'll just i'll grab something quick from my phone that i can do because food's
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so accessible it makes sense but this is why we don't have as many traditional women nowadays yeah
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because you have to you have to do something i would say you have to do something pretty much
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every day to get really good at it you know like you have to work out every day to be good at working
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out you have to cook every day to be good at cooking yeah but does cooking make you a good wife
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like is this are we talking about like kids gotta eat don't they yeah yeah yeah yeah but like like let's just
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say like whole meals like is is that just something you have to do i can't explain this in a way i mean
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it doesn't it doesn't make it doesn't make yeah like what makes a good wife um i think a wife that's
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loyal um i think it's good if you have traditional skills like you know how to keep a household you
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know how like if you want five kids and you say i know how to feed a family of four i've done it these
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times you know you know i think good with kids loving caring uh what else would you add what makes a good
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wife obviously being a virgin makes a good wife oh yeah i forgot obviously my wife has to be a
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virgin before i met her otherwise it won't run because i can't have the thought in my head that
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she sucked obviously obviously mama wasn't him i don't know obviously my man like he was like i
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couldn't get my finger my point across in it because of my man and you know what i'm trying to say
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is like like when you would you wait till marriage with a girl of course i would oh you would okay
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but yeah you have a no back and what myself yeah like you can't sleep with her until you're married
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no her but other girls yes but her no i would wait of course of course i'd wait because i respect her
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decision you know what i'm saying okay but obviously i'll speak you don't sleep with other girls it's not
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a big deal i'll still love my girl i'll get married to her easy as do you know what i'm saying
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it's not that it's not complicated what if you don't like the fall of you sleeping with other
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girls why would she not bro did she not love me yeah but that's why it would hurt her because she
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doesn't love you okay but some some things in life hurt if i'm not gonna have sex with you for how
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many years i'm obviously yeah but you'd find it hard though birkin you're a man at the end of the
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day you've got needs for to have sex with other girls and her yeah a woman has needs as well
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i'll respect her decision to wait because i respect that if she wants to wait or if she wants
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to give it to me i still respect it because i'm gonna look after her i'm gonna get married to her
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do you know what i'm saying so if she's a virgin and i take her virginity it's good if she's a virgin
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and i take it and i don't take a virginity you wait till marriage then i take it and it's still good
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do you know what i'm saying so i think i think virginity is very important guys if you're listening
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get married to a virgin brown camera get married to a virgin bruv johnson what are you gonna tell
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you what are you gonna tell your kids i'll tweet about this what are you gonna tell your kids
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what are you gonna tell your kids oh your mom sucked another dick before getting married to me
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what kind of is that why would you say that though i think if men had that standard women would be
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better i think it's great that you have that standard exactly like genuinely and this is and i'm not a
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virgin but i could tell you like if men had that standard and you knew that if you had sex with
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someone else you probably wouldn't get married every girl would wait but not everyone wants to
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get married and the bad thing is the bad thing is like every time yeah after you lose a virginity
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every time you have sex with another guy you're gonna want to do more of other guys and more and
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more it's just like a spiral to wholeness johnson yeah so it's good to like wait till marriage to find
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the guy that you love and get married to him like have a nice family with him do you know what i'm saying
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