JustPearlyThings - Pearl CRASHED Their Disney Fairy Tales

00:00:00.000 you guys go on another date with a guy if he didn't pay the bill yeah positive to be fair

00:00:06.800 i've been on dates where i've paid for for the day yeah and it hasn't bothered me though did

00:00:12.400 you sleep it never yeah no i did no i did okay i did you did because it doesn't it does stuff

00:00:20.080 like that doesn't get to me i'm not that kind of person um yeah yeah no it doesn't but it wasn't

00:00:27.280 at one time then i never saw him again there you go but it wasn't it wasn't just because it wasn't

00:00:32.320 because of that i just didn't really like him like that but only in a relationship i will

00:00:38.640 you only sleep with a guy in a relationship

00:00:44.560 yeah i'm talking about paying yeah what about um what about you if you had to go back would you

00:00:49.520 stay a virgin until you're married no

00:00:52.240 you'll never change no no it's just it's crazy to me because you know it caused you trauma like

00:01:00.080 you said that and you said you see how it's damaging like why wouldn't you because to me if i like if i

00:01:05.680 know if i know a relationship like you know because people are like oh i wouldn't change anything and i

00:01:10.960 think i would absolutely maybe then yeah like what you know it didn't work yeah i see where you're

00:01:16.880 coming from but i don't know i just don't like being bored i feel like i'd have too much temptation

00:01:23.280 i'm not patient i'm not a patient person so i feel like have you ever been in love probably

00:01:27.920 love i'd know never that's why then you have to find a guy that you probably love and that you're

00:01:32.720 gonna say loyal to him for the rest of your life you have to find a guy that you proper love yeah

00:01:36.800 maybe i just haven't had them emotions what do you think love is i think love is i believe in

00:01:42.880 love i can't like yeah what do you think it is is it more than just a feeling it's when i think

00:01:47.200 it's different for boys and girls i can't like yeah i think so too so for girls it's a feeling

00:01:51.600 obviously it's not like it's not a physical thing is it so when a girl as she only thinks about him

00:01:56.800 she sees the future of him only thinks in her head i can't replace this guy so i can't get anything

00:02:03.120 better than him i'm gonna stick with him he's the love of my life i respect him do you know what i'm

00:02:07.760 saying and for the man like that's a beautiful thing for a woman yeah like and but the guy has 0.58

00:02:13.440 to be high value you know what i'm saying a girl can't just be head over heels in love with a guy 0.58

00:02:18.160 that's not high value i can't be a homeless guy that speaks words like you're saying that poems and

00:02:22.800 that you she won't fall head over heels in love with him that's in fairy tales that's to be high

00:02:27.440 value for the value to matter to the love to matter do you know i think that's what i go through like

00:02:31.600 i feel like it's just a lust all the time yeah it's just a feeling yeah you know you know you know

00:02:36.560 what i did the other day you can be in love more than once what men yeah yeah anyone really i mean

00:02:45.120 i don't know about men but i can speak for women on behalf like how come how come like we have exes 0.85

00:02:50.320 right um there must have been something there you clearly was in love with them and then you move like

00:02:56.320 that didn't work out and now you're in love with someone else so so it's just a feeling so you can have

00:03:00.800 it with anyone okay i have a question do you feel like the older you get you can't fall in love as hard

00:03:04.960 because i i think there's nothing like your first love yeah like i think the first guy that you're

00:03:10.000 really in love with like you don't ever fall in love that hard i think that's actually true for men

00:03:14.720 and for women like i i just think there's nothing like your first love and so it's like why would

00:03:20.000 i not want to feel that with my husband because now it's like the the love you experience with your

00:03:25.280 husband isn't the same level of deep as the one you experienced before i don't you know what i don't

00:03:30.640 think i've ever been in i feel like in the moment i feel like i'm in love but then even with my first

00:03:36.000 going back it was definitely just a lost thing yeah definitely just a love thing like the feeling of

00:03:42.720 the affection and you like the feeling of being comforted someone being there just kind of like

00:03:48.640 a friend not them obviously being a friend but like someone being there like your mom you know just

00:03:53.040 the feeling of it and if you don't have that you hold on to it more and when especially with like

00:03:58.160 damaged people if people have gone and and came back gone and came back and you get attachment

00:04:03.360 issues so when you when you do find that person that actually wants to be there and loves you the

00:04:08.160 way that yeah no and then and then they go do you think that's love but like sometimes well they

00:04:16.000 wouldn't have gone if it's love yeah yeah they'll always be in your life but i disagree with that i think

00:04:21.040 that people that love you can leave if you treat them poorly oh yeah yeah yeah and i think a lot of times

00:04:26.000 like women we always put ourselves as like the victim in relationships when a lot of times we

00:04:29.840 took him for granted or we treated him poorly and so he left and maybe he loved you but he left

00:04:34.880 because he just got sick of the i think we're sold to dream like we're told you of this prince charming

00:04:39.200 that's waiting and you're just perfect enough to do nothing like even you when i asked you like what

00:04:43.280 skills are you working on to be a wife or to be a mother you were like uh i know i've thought of

00:04:48.480 some now to be there no but but it's like if you were really working on it all the time it would be the top of

00:04:54.400 your head which is i don't think you're abnormal but it's like we're not told we have to work for

00:04:58.160 the men we want yeah i think definitely in in this day and age in this society obviously women are very 1.00

00:05:04.240 much more encouraged to go and chase their dreams so i think at the moment i'm in i am in my selfish

00:05:10.560 my selfish era of thinking about what i want for my future but in two years time when i've achieved

00:05:16.480 most of those things my perspective again will be different i mean i can cook i can clean i can i can

00:05:21.200 take care of myself first and foremost which means i can take care of someone else so i'm working on

00:05:25.680 myself to be a better person for my future husband if that makes sense how many meals did you cook this

00:05:30.880 week if you asked me two weeks ago it would have been better but i've had quite a few days i'm not

00:05:37.920 gonna lie to you no it's okay i just think sometimes like as girls we think that we do things more than

00:05:43.920 we do and i just noticed like i'll ask girls like they'll say they can cook but they haven't cooked in

00:05:48.960 a month or two months to be fair no i do i every week i will have a cooked home cooked meal um but

00:05:55.200 it's more than most to be honest you see that study that came out that women are now like the increase 0.86

00:06:01.760 in takeaway like americans don't it's like they don't eat out as much but it's mostly like microwave

00:06:07.360 meals something like that it's easy it's easy it's convenient it's convenient like i don't have like a

00:06:12.640 normal nine to five schedule lifestyle i'll be like tonight i'm gonna be home late so i won't wanna

00:06:18.720 cook anything yeah i'll just i'll grab something quick from my phone that i can do because food's

00:06:23.840 so accessible it makes sense but this is why we don't have as many traditional women nowadays yeah 1.00

00:06:28.800 because you have to you have to do something i would say you have to do something pretty much

00:06:32.960 every day to get really good at it you know like you have to work out every day to be good at working

00:06:36.800 out you have to cook every day to be good at cooking yeah but does cooking make you a good wife 1.00

00:06:40.800 like is this are we talking about like kids gotta eat don't they yeah yeah yeah yeah but like like let's just

00:06:45.360 say like whole meals like is is that just something you have to do i can't explain this in a way i mean

00:06:53.040 it doesn't it doesn't make it doesn't make yeah like what makes a good wife um i think a wife that's 1.00

00:06:58.640 loyal um i think it's good if you have traditional skills like you know how to keep a household you

00:07:02.640 know how like if you want five kids and you say i know how to feed a family of four i've done it these

00:07:06.880 times you know you know i think good with kids loving caring uh what else would you add what makes a good

00:07:12.720 wife obviously being a virgin makes a good wife oh yeah i forgot obviously my wife has to be a 1.00

00:07:21.840 virgin before i met her otherwise it won't run because i can't have the thought in my head that 0.99

00:07:25.600 she sucked obviously obviously mama wasn't him i don't know obviously my man like he was like i 0.96

00:07:32.720 couldn't get my finger my point across in it because of my man and you know what i'm trying to say 0.99

00:07:36.720 is like like when you would you wait till marriage with a girl of course i would oh you would okay

00:07:42.560 but yeah you have a no back and what myself yeah like you can't sleep with her until you're married 1.00

00:07:50.320 no her but other girls yes but her no i would wait of course of course i'd wait because i respect her

00:07:55.520 decision you know what i'm saying okay but obviously i'll speak you don't sleep with other girls it's not 0.55

00:07:59.840 a big deal i'll still love my girl i'll get married to her easy as do you know what i'm saying

00:08:03.840 it's not that it's not complicated what if you don't like the fall of you sleeping with other

00:08:07.280 girls why would she not bro did she not love me yeah but that's why it would hurt her because she 0.99

00:08:13.600 doesn't love you okay but some some things in life hurt if i'm not gonna have sex with you for how 0.85

00:08:18.000 many years i'm obviously yeah but you'd find it hard though birkin you're a man at the end of the 0.94

00:08:24.960 day you've got needs for to have sex with other girls and her yeah a woman has needs as well 1.00

00:08:30.080 i'll respect her decision to wait because i respect that if she wants to wait or if she wants

00:08:34.560 to give it to me i still respect it because i'm gonna look after her i'm gonna get married to her

00:08:37.600 do you know what i'm saying so if she's a virgin and i take her virginity it's good if she's a virgin 0.98

00:08:42.960 and i take it and i don't take a virginity you wait till marriage then i take it and it's still good 0.83

00:08:46.800 do you know what i'm saying so i think i think virginity is very important guys if you're listening 0.89

00:08:51.920 get married to a virgin brown camera get married to a virgin bruv johnson what are you gonna tell 0.92

00:08:59.360 you what are you gonna tell your kids i'll tweet about this what are you gonna tell your kids 1.00

00:09:03.520 what are you gonna tell your kids oh your mom sucked another dick before getting married to me 1.00

00:09:08.400 what kind of is that why would you say that though i think if men had that standard women would be 1.00

00:09:15.360 better i think it's great that you have that standard exactly like genuinely and this is and i'm not a

00:09:20.160 virgin but i could tell you like if men had that standard and you knew that if you had sex with 0.64

00:09:24.960 someone else you probably wouldn't get married every girl would wait but not everyone wants to 1.00

00:09:29.840 get married and the bad thing is the bad thing is like every time yeah after you lose a virginity 0.52

00:09:33.760 every time you have sex with another guy you're gonna want to do more of other guys and more and

00:09:37.360 more it's just like a spiral to wholeness johnson yeah so it's good to like wait till marriage to find

00:09:43.440 the guy that you love and get married to him like have a nice family with him do you know what i'm saying

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JustPearlyThings - May 07, 2023

Pearl CRASHED Their Disney Fairy Tales

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