Pearl DEBUNKS Female Discrimination
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with Andrew Tate and discuss why women should not have the right to vote and why we should stop blaming men for the lack of women in the workplace. I talk about the history of why women have not been able to vote, and how we can fix it.
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want to work 60, 70 hours a week. I interviewed top like, I decided I wanted more rich friends
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when I lived in Milwaukee. And I just asked the executives if I could like a billion dollar
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companies, if I could sit there, have a coffee with them and just interview them about their
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life. And both of them that I got to interview, I could see the one deficit they had in their
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life. Neither of them really had families. And it was really sad. And you can tell both of them
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like missed out on a part of life and you could tell they regretted it. You can't have everything.
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And women don't want to do those roles because they are ungodly hard. Can you imagine having
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like, some women do. But it's a lot harder. You've got to think like in the 90s, women
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couldn't even vote. This is how. In the 90s? In the 90s? Yeah, it was like 1980. No, no,
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that's not true. It's like the 20s. No, no, it was 1918. Oh, 18. Oh, 18. I think you said
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it is. Okay. But why women couldn't even vote. So remember, but why? Why didn't women
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have the right to vote? Women? So historically, men had to go to war and fight. That is why
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women couldn't vote was because we if you had the choice today in 2022, and we were in
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war, and you had to go fight on the front lines, would you pick it? Personally, and this
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is where people will take me out of context and say I don't think women should vote. Personally,
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if I, in 2022, had the choice where I had to go fight in the front lines, just like
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the men, in a war, or I could give up my right to vote, I would give up my right to
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vote. And that's what happened back then is they equated voting with going to war
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because it's all I'm trying to put it in. I agree with that. Because yeah, men do take
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a lot on themselves. The fact that they fight for us. I appreciate men. The stuff that they
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do. But I'm saying we weren't discriminated against. It was just how society run. We weren't
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discriminated against. We had a freedom, like that was a freedom that came with the
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responsibility of getting drafted. That wasn't discrimination. If you wanted to be
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equally drafted, go vote. Yeah, but what I'm trying to say is that's how society...
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Who's picking that? Who's? Anyone? Anyone? Yeah, she's like, I would give it up.
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But that's my point. Because they couldn't vote. I don't like politics.
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And it's also the same thing. Women didn't have access to education until very long ago.
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They couldn't own property. Which means that realistically...
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You could typically remember back then, it was typical for people to get married young.
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So it was typical for them. So the reason was when you were married, you were looked at as one.
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And typically women submitted to their husbands and trusted their husbands with their judgment.
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So that's why the property thing happened. And same with the property. It was like women still
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could own properties if they did not get married.
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But you know... But typically then women got married.
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I'll tell you, I'll tell you, if we want to go back into history, I'll tell you something about
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history that I think, and this is why earlier... Shout out Emily in Pankhurst.
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I mentioned, that's why I mentioned to Andrew Tate that my problem wasn't necessarily with men.
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It is with the men that are running the machine that obviously controls our societies. Because
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when women first started going to work, they started going to work out of the fact that there was a
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lack of men in the country because there was war going on. War wars. So women had to pick up,
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go to work and do their thing. Cool. From the aftermath of war, there's women that are already in
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the workplace. And then there's women that are also left widowed, which means that they now have a
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choice. Either you starve at home with your family and stay a housewife, or you're going to get up and
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you're going to go to work. And that's how a lot of women have become what they call masculine,
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because they come out of trauma. They come out also the consequences of history. And this is why,
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at this point, and what I've been trying to say for time is, let's stop trying to blame women
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for what's going on in society right now. Let's understand that this is a construct and a
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consequence of history. And let's start, let's start respecting because we cannot go back.
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And I agree with you. I'm not, I'm not saying it's one gender or the other. I'm just saying,
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like, we have been talking about the men forever. It's like, we like they, I don't want no scrubs,
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scrubs. Yeah. Like there's, there's no, there's no, there's no song saying, I don't want no whale.
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Like nobody's saying that. And I'm saying like, we, they have had, like, we have had decades where
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we talk. It's like, now the men are finally talking and we can't even give them their...
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To be fair, that's kind of true because even men, when they were singing about women,
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they sang a lot about... Love songs. It was nice.
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Ooh, my dear. And I think it's sad to see that men are not making that music.
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I feel like from the moment you're born, I don't know if it's just in an African home,
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in an African home, you're literally raised to cater for your man. From as long as I was,
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my mom, I was eight. My mom was like, you need to know how to cook for your man. You need to look good for
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your man. You should be thankful you were naturally taught game. A lot of girls didn't get
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taught them. I didn't get that. Yeah. Like a lot of, a lot of women would love, like even,
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I mean, my parents just started dating. My parents, my parents started dating when they were 17. My
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mom taught me no game. She's like, meet your husband in high school. A lot of women aren't
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taught the basic necessities of being a woman, like cooking, cleaning. This is shocking to me.
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Yeah. So it's a privilege. Like you, you have something in your holster, in your bag that you can
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whip out whenever you need to for a man. Like, okay, I can cook for him. I can clean for him
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because you have it on you. A lot of women had to learn that on their, on their own,
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or just had to go throughout life and learning it. They, they never were taught it or they never
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needed to have it until they were in a position where like, oh, I can't do this on my own. I can't
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cook. I can't clean. I can't work a simple vacuum. I can't do this because things have been done for me
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my whole life or I was never taught that. And so you shouldn't look at it as it like, oh,
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I was taught this from jump. I was taught how to cater to my man or be a woman.
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Yeah, I mean, that was my reality. And like African women, like women like me,
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Nigerian background, especially, that's all we know. It's about, even like now I'm 26,
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my mom tells me if I'm 30 without a husband, I am basically useless.
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Okay. Okay. But you, you at least, so, so if you look at dating app data, she's right.
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She's absolutely right. So, so, so if you look at dating app data, that's when the numbers change
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where like women typically have more like leverage on dating apps than, than men until 30. And then men
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typically do, I, I can't remember it. Some girl was going over the study, but, but, and so like,
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she was being honest. And if anything, you should be thankful for how well they prepped you for the
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world because a lot of girls hit 30 and have no idea. Not like, this is a privilege. A lot of girls don't
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have a dad or a mom to like, tell them these things. And even me, like my mom didn't know
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shit about dating or the dating landscape. And yeah. And it's like, so you at least know this
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at 26, where you can still make choices that, that would get you in a better position at 30,
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where other girls are going to hit 30 completely blind and screwed.
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Oh, but you know what? I, although today I'm not in your side, I will agree with her. And the only
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thing I will do is say slightly different. I will say like, for example, for me, like I mentioned,
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my dad passed away when I was 12, but I grew up seeing my mom catered to my dad. So I learned a lot
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from him. But then after he was gone, what my mom did is teach me these survival skills that you need
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any ways to be able to make it through the world. So I believe that even things like cooking, sewing,
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this, this, that, that's all type of kind of like self care. And once you learn to take care of
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yourself, you'll be able to learn to take care of someone else. But the fact that a lot of the time,
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a lot of women also have the ability to take accountability means you're not taking care of
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yourself because you don't even know what you're doing wrong. So you can't even be better. So when you
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go into a relationship, you land yourself in trouble. That's what it is. What you should be able to
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do for yourself or you can do for others. If not, then there's no point in you trying to say,
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oh, but you know, I'm a woman. And why am I going to do this for a man? Do it for yourself. How can
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you not cook? What's going to happen if you can't cook? What about the fact that as a woman, you're
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going to be the mother? And as I mentioned earlier, as the mother, as the woman, you're going to be more
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nurturing. So these basic life skills, forget about even for a man, do it for you. And for the fact that
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one that you may want to be a mother, then everything falls into place. If that makes it an easy appeal to