JustPearlyThings - June 05, 2023


Pearl DEBUNKS Female Discrimination

Topics
basic life skills
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Andrew Tate
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Length

8 minutes

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216.24

Word count

1,808

Sentence count

161

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

14

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In this episode, I sit down with Andrew Tate and discuss why women should not have the right to vote and why we should stop blaming men for the lack of women in the workplace. I talk about the history of why women have not been able to vote, and how we can fix it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 want to work 60, 70 hours a week. I interviewed top like, I decided I wanted more rich friends
00:00:05.620 when I lived in Milwaukee. And I just asked the executives if I could like a billion dollar
00:00:09.720 companies, if I could sit there, have a coffee with them and just interview them about their
00:00:13.300 life. And both of them that I got to interview, I could see the one deficit they had in their
00:00:18.420 life. Neither of them really had families. And it was really sad. And you can tell both of them
00:00:22.440 like missed out on a part of life and you could tell they regretted it. You can't have everything.
00:00:26.680 And women don't want to do those roles because they are ungodly hard. Can you imagine having 1.00
00:00:32.840 like, some women do. But it's a lot harder. You've got to think like in the 90s, women 1.00
00:00:40.320 couldn't even vote. This is how. In the 90s? In the 90s? Yeah, it was like 1980. No, no,
00:00:46.300 that's not true. It's like the 20s. No, no, it was 1918. Oh, 18. Oh, 18. I think you said
00:00:53.180 it is. Okay. But why women couldn't even vote. So remember, but why? Why didn't women 1.00
00:00:59.060 have the right to vote? Women? So historically, men had to go to war and fight. That is why 1.00
00:01:04.420 women couldn't vote was because we if you had the choice today in 2022, and we were in 1.00
00:01:10.200 war, and you had to go fight on the front lines, would you pick it? Personally, and this
00:01:14.940 is where people will take me out of context and say I don't think women should vote. Personally,
00:01:18.520 if I, in 2022, had the choice where I had to go fight in the front lines, just like
00:01:22.120 the men, in a war, or I could give up my right to vote, I would give up my right to
00:01:26.580 vote. And that's what happened back then is they equated voting with going to war
00:01:31.220 because it's all I'm trying to put it in. I agree with that. Because yeah, men do take
00:01:35.560 a lot on themselves. The fact that they fight for us. I appreciate men. The stuff that they
00:01:40.860 do. But I'm saying we weren't discriminated against. It was just how society run. We weren't
00:01:47.140 discriminated against. We had a freedom, like that was a freedom that came with the
00:01:51.760 responsibility of getting drafted. That wasn't discrimination. If you wanted to be
00:01:55.280 equally drafted, go vote. Yeah, but what I'm trying to say is that's how society...
00:01:58.880 Who's picking that? Who's? Anyone? Anyone? Yeah, she's like, I would give it up.
00:02:02.360 But that's my point. Because they couldn't vote. I don't like politics.
00:02:05.740 And it's also the same thing. Women didn't have access to education until very long ago. 1.00
00:02:10.480 They couldn't own property. Which means that realistically...
00:02:13.700 You could typically remember back then, it was typical for people to get married young.
00:02:18.100 So it was typical for them. So the reason was when you were married, you were looked at as one.
00:02:25.060 And typically women submitted to their husbands and trusted their husbands with their judgment. 0.74
00:02:31.180 So that's why the property thing happened. And same with the property. It was like women still 1.00
00:02:37.820 could own properties if they did not get married.
00:02:42.620 But you know... But typically then women got married. 1.00
00:02:44.700 I'll tell you, I'll tell you, if we want to go back into history, I'll tell you something about
00:02:49.500 history that I think, and this is why earlier... Shout out Emily in Pankhurst.
00:02:52.380 I mentioned, that's why I mentioned to Andrew Tate that my problem wasn't necessarily with men.
00:02:58.620 It is with the men that are running the machine that obviously controls our societies. Because
00:03:03.660 when women first started going to work, they started going to work out of the fact that there was a 1.00
00:03:07.660 lack of men in the country because there was war going on. War wars. So women had to pick up, 1.00
00:03:13.180 go to work and do their thing. Cool. From the aftermath of war, there's women that are already in 1.00
00:03:18.460 the workplace. And then there's women that are also left widowed, which means that they now have a 1.00
00:03:22.300 choice. Either you starve at home with your family and stay a housewife, or you're going to get up and 0.84
00:03:26.860 you're going to go to work. And that's how a lot of women have become what they call masculine, 1.00
00:03:31.260 because they come out of trauma. They come out also the consequences of history. And this is why,
00:03:35.580 at this point, and what I've been trying to say for time is, let's stop trying to blame women
00:03:41.340 for what's going on in society right now. Let's understand that this is a construct and a
00:03:45.900 consequence of history. And let's start, let's start respecting because we cannot go back.
00:03:50.300 And I agree with you. I'm not, I'm not saying it's one gender or the other. I'm just saying,
00:03:54.860 like, we have been talking about the men forever. It's like, we like they, I don't want no scrubs,
00:04:01.180 scrubs. Yeah. Like there's, there's no, there's no, there's no song saying, I don't want no whale.
00:04:08.460 Like nobody's saying that. And I'm saying like, we, they have had, like, we have had decades where
00:04:14.380 we talk. It's like, now the men are finally talking and we can't even give them their...
00:04:18.860 To be fair, that's kind of true because even men, when they were singing about women,
00:04:22.140 they sang a lot about... Love songs. It was nice.
00:04:25.500 Ooh, my dear. And I think it's sad to see that men are not making that music.
00:04:29.180 I feel like from the moment you're born, I don't know if it's just in an African home,
00:04:33.660 in an African home, you're literally raised to cater for your man. From as long as I was,
00:04:39.260 my mom, I was eight. My mom was like, you need to know how to cook for your man. You need to look good for 0.95
00:04:44.060 your man. You should be thankful you were naturally taught game. A lot of girls didn't get 1.00
00:04:48.780 taught them. I didn't get that. Yeah. Like a lot of, a lot of women would love, like even,
00:04:54.300 I mean, my parents just started dating. My parents, my parents started dating when they were 17. My
00:04:58.860 mom taught me no game. She's like, meet your husband in high school. A lot of women aren't 1.00
00:05:02.780 taught the basic necessities of being a woman, like cooking, cleaning. This is shocking to me. 0.87
00:05:07.740 Yeah. So it's a privilege. Like you, you have something in your holster, in your bag that you can
00:05:13.820 whip out whenever you need to for a man. Like, okay, I can cook for him. I can clean for him 0.96
00:05:17.740 because you have it on you. A lot of women had to learn that on their, on their own, 1.00
00:05:22.220 or just had to go throughout life and learning it. They, they never were taught it or they never
00:05:28.140 needed to have it until they were in a position where like, oh, I can't do this on my own. I can't
00:05:33.420 cook. I can't clean. I can't work a simple vacuum. I can't do this because things have been done for me
00:05:40.140 my whole life or I was never taught that. And so you shouldn't look at it as it like, oh,
00:05:45.580 I was taught this from jump. I was taught how to cater to my man or be a woman.
00:05:50.060 Yeah, I mean, that was my reality. And like African women, like women like me, 0.70
00:05:53.740 Nigerian background, especially, that's all we know. It's about, even like now I'm 26,
00:05:59.340 my mom tells me if I'm 30 without a husband, I am basically useless.
00:06:03.020 Okay. Okay. But you, you at least, so, so if you look at dating app data, she's right.
00:06:08.860 She's absolutely right. So, so, so if you look at dating app data, that's when the numbers change
00:06:14.220 where like women typically have more like leverage on dating apps than, than men until 30. And then men
00:06:19.580 typically do, I, I can't remember it. Some girl was going over the study, but, but, and so like,
00:06:25.420 she was being honest. And if anything, you should be thankful for how well they prepped you for the
00:06:29.820 world because a lot of girls hit 30 and have no idea. Not like, this is a privilege. A lot of girls don't 1.00
00:06:36.540 have a dad or a mom to like, tell them these things. And even me, like my mom didn't know
00:06:42.620 shit about dating or the dating landscape. And yeah. And it's like, so you at least know this 0.94
00:06:48.540 at 26, where you can still make choices that, that would get you in a better position at 30, 0.81
00:06:53.900 where other girls are going to hit 30 completely blind and screwed. 1.00
00:06:57.820 Oh, but you know what? I, although today I'm not in your side, I will agree with her. And the only
00:07:05.180 thing I will do is say slightly different. I will say like, for example, for me, like I mentioned,
00:07:12.700 my dad passed away when I was 12, but I grew up seeing my mom catered to my dad. So I learned a lot
00:07:17.740 from him. But then after he was gone, what my mom did is teach me these survival skills that you need
00:07:25.260 any ways to be able to make it through the world. So I believe that even things like cooking, sewing,
00:07:31.340 this, this, that, that's all type of kind of like self care. And once you learn to take care of
00:07:36.300 yourself, you'll be able to learn to take care of someone else. But the fact that a lot of the time,
00:07:40.220 a lot of women also have the ability to take accountability means you're not taking care of 1.00
00:07:44.220 yourself because you don't even know what you're doing wrong. So you can't even be better. So when you
00:07:48.380 go into a relationship, you land yourself in trouble. That's what it is. What you should be able to
00:07:52.700 do for yourself or you can do for others. If not, then there's no point in you trying to say,
00:07:56.940 oh, but you know, I'm a woman. And why am I going to do this for a man? Do it for yourself. How can
00:08:00.940 you not cook? What's going to happen if you can't cook? What about the fact that as a woman, you're 1.00
00:08:05.180 going to be the mother? And as I mentioned earlier, as the mother, as the woman, you're going to be more
00:08:09.260 nurturing. So these basic life skills, forget about even for a man, do it for you. And for the fact that
00:08:14.540 one that you may want to be a mother, then everything falls into place. If that makes it an easy appeal to
00:08:19.580 someone.