JustPearlyThings - August 09, 2023


Pearl DESTROYED This Delusion Modern Woman With FACTS

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Hannah Pearl Davis
This Is What Feminism Does To Men Single Mother REFUSES To Accept This Fact

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the controversial topic of whether or not it's selfish to post naked pictures of your kids online when you know you're going to have kids later. Do you think it sets a good example for your children? Is it a wise thing to do? Should you protect your kids from seeing their own private parts on the internet when they grow up? Do you want them to grow up in a safe environment where they are not exposed to the same things you were exposed to when you were growing up? Are you a good mother because of the things you post about yourself on social media?

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00:00:00.000 do you guys think it's selfish to put promiscuous things on the internet knowing that you want to
00:00:04.640 have kids later yeah yeah yeah no very i hate to say it yeah who said who said no i said no why
00:00:12.320 because you're your own human being and i think that you should shelter your children from that
00:00:16.560 until they're of age to understand that you are an adult that's made your own choices
00:00:21.760 um and that they are an adult and they can make their own choices you don't think the family comes
00:00:25.440 before you because that just sounds like me me me i'm my own person but a family's supposed to be
00:00:30.800 one unit it's so difficult though to make those decisions before you're a mother because it does
00:00:34.720 change like you can regret you can change there are there are women who i think are fantastic mothers
00:00:39.680 that have been corn stars that have been prostitutes that can move on get married have kids and just 1.00
00:00:46.160 have a normal life i like shannon rose on youtube she's a big ex-corn star i think she's a great
00:00:50.640 mother it's not to say that they can't be a great mother but we're talking about the decision
00:00:56.320 the decision like why would you put something on the internet when you have kids later you might
00:01:00.480 not want children then but even so it's like if i don't think that's why i said that's why i said
00:01:05.120 knowing you're going to have kids later i didn't say you don't want kids i don't think that you should
00:01:09.040 live your entire life of like oh what would my children think like i just really i do i think you
00:01:14.720 should have a legacy that you'd be proud of that you want your kids to see i don't think that that
00:01:18.720 defines you though i don't think posting some racy pictures on the internet is what defines you
00:01:22.880 don't think your your actions define who you are like your choices your life choices we see time
00:01:27.920 and time again that all these tick tock trains of going like look how hot my mum was when she was 0.97
00:01:32.320 young you know like people don't care they love seeing racy pictures of their parents but you're
00:01:35.520 not going to see like videos of your mom that's a rarity that ain't true i might see a picture of my mum at a party back in the day
00:01:45.440 that's different than sleeping with someone but if people are posting pictures of like
00:01:51.920 their parents because their parents look good like people look good you go i mean that people
00:01:56.560 are not just attractive now they've been attractive yeah but like if you're going around and you're
00:02:01.280 posting pictures of yourself naked on the internet and stuff like that like and you know you want kids
00:02:06.800 later you gotta remember everything comes around 360 you want your kids to look at you after they've
00:02:12.480 seen you so modest your whole life and then they're seeing you just posting yourself and
00:02:16.800 flaunting yourself on the internet like you've got no respect for yourself like i just it doesn't set
00:02:22.080 a good example especially if it's something you can't take off okay what do you think it's about
00:02:26.480 go ahead i think you're just an adult that can make your decisions again trisha paytas another example
00:02:31.200 she has a terrible history on the internet she's done everything wrong you could possibly do but
00:02:34.800 everything i see of her as a mother i think she's fantastic i think she's a great mother i think that her
00:02:38.640 children you think a woman with bipolar disorder she's got borderline personality girl how do you
00:02:44.560 know if she's a good mother literally what we see on social media yeah but are the best mothers 0.99
00:02:52.000 putting their kids on social media is that a wise thing to do i understand the the point that you're
00:02:57.520 making but all i can do is use the examples that i see in the media because i don't know anyone in my
00:03:01.760 personal life that's done corn and then gone on to have children which is why i have to use those
00:03:04.960 examples um but what i would say is that like i think it's important to shelter your children from
00:03:09.600 a period of time and then when they're old enough have an adult conversation of being like mum did
00:03:14.560 this here it is you know like just with the internet you can't you don't have that you don't have that
00:03:20.160 choice like some kid in the playground when they're eight years old is going to find it and you know
00:03:23.920 that you don't have that ownership of the of the entire web like and i'm not saying i'm one way or the
00:03:28.560 other but you can't say that i'm gonna wait until they're 16 years old and then it's all gonna be fine
00:03:32.240 because they'll find out way before i think the main point is it doesn't make you a bad mother i
00:03:36.160 think that's wild to say that doing corn makes you a bad mother it's more a case of just know that
00:03:42.240 all your actions have consequences yeah and i think your kids reap that consequence yeah but usually
00:03:48.080 every time someone has that sort of past and they have kids it's almost as if they want a clean state
00:03:53.360 and they want to erase it for example black china's trying to do that kim kardashian is trying to do that so
00:03:59.440 it just comes i think it's just something about motherhood and you know having your own kids that
00:04:04.720 you don't want them to see what you had to do or that choice that you made because at that time
00:04:09.920 you're just doing what kind of works for your lifestyle but once you become a mother and you're
00:04:14.000 trying to set an example that's where it comes in where you're like actually i don't want my kids to
00:04:18.880 see that because one you don't want your kids to follow in those sort of footsteps you know sorry no
00:04:25.200 it's just nothing to say that they're bad parents but it's just a proven you know opinion that i think
00:04:30.480 they're worse parents do you think so yeah yeah i do i think you're you're probably a balance of
00:04:36.880 if i had to guess you're probably a worse parent if you did corn than the people that didn't most
00:04:43.200 likely if i had to guess if i had to like bet on it i would probably bet on the one do you not think
00:04:48.560 they're just going to be trying to prove exactly no i think that people that make those decisions think
00:04:54.160 about themselves before their future families and i think a lot of those people are selfish and they
00:04:58.720 they want a quick they want a quick out um they want quick money as opposed to doing things the
00:05:03.840 hard way or the right way yeah i don't disagree with that but also you've got the you're talking
00:05:08.080 about future children that you may never have and you may not be able to have so you're living your
00:05:12.960 life for 30 years of your life for these imaginary children that you could never have i think the best
00:05:21.360 mothers wanted to be mothers from a young age so if i had to pick yeah if i had to pick the the women 1.00
00:05:26.800 typically that make the best mothers like if i had an a plus you wanted that from a young age and that's 0.99
00:05:31.840 all they wanted and i think being a parent i think the bottom and top line of being a great parent is
00:05:37.840 being selfless yeah and i think you know that's one of the hardest traits a woman um any human that
00:05:44.880 can actually do because being so you you're naturally selfish anyway you know you go out to get money for
00:05:49.680 yourself well obviously it's for the family and stuff but it's for you to also look after yourself
00:05:53.840 do certain things and whatever so we're naturally selfish i think mastering you know the trait of
00:06:00.560 being selfless is what makes you a good mother a good mother or good father trust me that comes
00:06:05.840 naturally like as soon as you have children but then lips i think you have to try and be selfless
00:06:11.040 beforehand and i think like you said you might you i could be preparing for kids god forbid but i could
00:06:15.440 never have but i've got nieces coming up behind me i've got women coming up behind me that i also 0.98
00:06:20.640 have a duty that i feel to influence and i don't want to influence them in the wrong way and i don't
00:06:25.600 want people on the street word on the street is your auntie's doing x y and z i don't want my nieces 1.00
00:06:30.000 going through that you'll speak or your parents or your siblings like if i like if i didn't corn tomorrow
00:06:35.760 like that's that's me if tomorrow i started an only fans like i would be thinking of myself over my
00:06:41.440 family that's so embarrassing to my whole family my mom went through all that labor for me to go
00:06:45.920 out and do that i don't think all of us here though is speaking from a point of privilege where we have
00:06:49.840 a choice like we have a choice everyone here has a job we earn a living we're fine there are a lot of
00:06:55.200 people coerced into corn there are a lot of people that find themselves trapped in it i think that it's
00:06:59.840 unfair to say that those people i think it's perfectly fair because men are in the same situation and
00:07:04.240 they don't have an out they just go to mcdonald's it's not if the women don't want to go to mcdonald's 1.00
00:07:08.400 that they choose to do they tend to join the army but yeah well joining the army is better than giving
00:07:14.480 that yeah but that's the point like women women we have a choice and so if they make the selfish choice 1.00
00:07:20.720 it's i think we can assume they're more selfish i don't i mean women are trafficked every day and 1.00
00:07:24.880 then end up in corn and then we're not we're not we're not talking about women that are trafficked 0.97
00:07:30.560 we're talking about women but like you keep going to an exception and not the rule we're talking about
00:07:34.800 women that choose to do corn i'm not i'm not talking about women that work trafficked yeah so 0.95
00:07:40.080 do you think women that have done that in their past should not have the privilege of having children 0.69
00:07:45.840 no i think i think everyone should everyone should have kids yeah everyone should have the choice but
00:07:53.280 you can't take away the accountability of knowing that that action was selfish and that you have to
00:07:58.000 take accountability for what your kids could go through and you've got to take responsibility for that
00:08:03.440 and at one point in your life you might have to apologize for that and i think that's where
00:08:06.800 women don't that's what women don't do it's like no but they shouldn't be going through this because 1.00
00:08:10.800 of x y that and they shouldn't yeah that's just life it's like i shouldn't have to always have to
00:08:14.240 think about locking my doors and locking my windows if i leave my house but i have to be why because
00:08:18.320 i might not come back to no yard i'm going to answer your question i think that women that have done 0.96
00:08:22.480 of or corn should be able to have children if they want however i think that men should not get them 1.00
00:08:29.600 pregnant yeah why would i tell a guy to pick her when he could pick someone that didn't doesn't do 1.00
00:08:35.120 it like would you want your brother to pick someone that did corn or of or your son
00:08:42.960 someone will always do it though so that'll yeah yeah but then also too that that maybe comes from
00:08:48.320 the part that if you do corn then you're like like you're written off as a woman that's what you know
00:08:54.080 like it's you know it's like like people like what they like and i just think that if that's the
00:09:02.480 path that you had to take whether it was your choice or not then there's there just has to be
00:09:06.720 some accountability when you do have kids and be like okay this was me and can i just say when you
00:09:11.920 said sorry that choice i think you know when it even comes to men that say you know you don't want to
00:09:17.680 work in mcdonald's you don't want a normal job you gotta do whatever it is you want to do most of these
00:09:22.000 things normally stem from which is you want more money to do more things that are actually not
00:09:27.440 substantial they're not things that you need they're things that you want so ultimately that
00:09:32.240 choice isn't coming from a place of need it's coming from a place of one you don't want to work
00:09:36.720 in mcdonald's because you don't want to wear primark you don't want to work in mcdonald's because you
00:09:40.400 don't want to always have to eat let's say corn beef and rice you want to be going fat crab and you
00:09:44.960 want to be doing stk like what what is the reasons for you making these choices is it for a reasonable
00:09:51.920 sacrifice or is it because it's just selfish again for the for the reasons of your own well-being
00:09:57.840 to be heightened most people in corn aren't earning big money though that's a small percentage
00:10:03.520 of people that are earning big bucks do people go into corn to make little money is that their
00:10:09.120 intention nobody goes into any job to make little money okay so it's still her point is still the
00:10:14.400 same you do it for a quick money hmm people go into just because just because you're bad at it
00:10:21.360 like you still went in for the same intention yeah i'd be so embarrassed i'd be so embarrassed if i
00:10:27.120 started an ounce and nobody bought it like do you think people go to start a line to make
00:10:32.640 guys don't go to start a line or do certain things to be making the same wage yeah as a man that's earning
00:10:37.280 30k i think from a guy point of view as i said like i don't think it writes you off as a woman as you said
00:10:42.560 there's always going to be men that do go for go for that especially if they think the girl is 1.00
00:10:46.880 beautiful and everything like that they'll still go there but i think it's just i think where it
00:10:52.000 only just winds me up is you know like mia khalifa for example goes into corn makes loads of money does 1.00
00:10:59.200 really well decides it's not for her and then it's like well no one should be judging me for what i've
00:11:05.120 done and that's just the world that we live in she didn't make loads of money that's why she's annoyed 1.00
00:11:09.440 she didn't make anything no she still did do very well no there's a number one she was the number
00:11:14.400 one yeah and she didn't get the money for it she got a small pay for what she did initially this is
00:11:19.360 her whole thing that's why she's on social media speaking out against how much did she make i think 1.00
00:11:23.440 it was like 10 000 pounds no i'm pretty sure it was and then she said the production company took
00:11:29.120 everything else because that was that was like the first tick tock i saw from her was her talking about
00:11:32.640 how like she was taken advantage of taken advantage oh come on she was not taken advantage of i mean
00:11:41.040 she's a very young girl and she did some extremely regret she was like what 18 i don't i don't know
00:11:48.560 in my first job at a uni i took a job very very silly because it was very it's quite near my home
00:11:53.520 it was like a recruitment job for like 16 500 pounds i could sit there and say that i was taking 0.97
00:11:59.760 advantage of no i was just silly i made a very stupid and dumb choice and it is what it is i 0.98
00:12:04.960 learned from it like come on we all have to be accountable for our choices i can't just say oh 0.98
00:12:10.160 because she was a young girl come on i think you're underestimating how manipulative these industries are
00:12:18.400 she chose to get into it she wanted to make money she made money she's upset about the amount she made
00:12:24.320 cool but she wanted to make that money anyway so regardless whether she made 20 pounds or 1.00
00:12:29.760 100k like and even what she wanted and even if you just saw the stats there as well even if she 0.78
00:12:34.560 made 10 000 which i know it was more than that but let's say it was 10 000 that's a lot of money for
00:12:39.120 a girl that i'm not saying that she didn't get ripped off by the production company i agree with
00:12:42.960 you on that but that's still a substantial amount of money i don't think that's a lot of money for what
00:12:48.400 you're doing and the fact that you then can't go back and it's the same with like um lana rhodes that's
00:12:52.960 another one that speaks out constantly about how she was coerced into doing more and more and more
00:12:57.280 and she was constantly told by this production company we've done it now you can't go back you've
00:13:00.160 done it now you can't go back but do you see the tendency stories it's all time she was made to
00:13:05.360 drink her own sick she chose to drink her own she just like like why do we say coerce when it's a 1.00
00:13:11.520 choice you chose something this is the consequence nobody's gonna respect you ever and why did the
00:13:17.600 crazy thing is these corn stars they still use their corn names if you're so ashamed why do you still
00:13:22.720 have your corn name go back to your legal name that's the only way that she can make money now 1.00
00:13:26.640 is by influencing essentially she has so she still makes money off her name mcdonald's is hiring she 0.99
00:13:34.880 could go to mcdonald's she just wants the lifestyle and the attention or she could chain make money off 1.00
00:13:39.360 of changing the narrative literally she is that's exactly what she's doing she's still using her name
00:13:45.600 exactly and she knows that people are still going to look for her under her name for that reason and
00:13:49.600 you still use it because it makes her money it's a continuation of what that gave her the
00:13:55.360 popularity and she's now using it to to get the income that she now feels that she deserves basically 1.00
00:14:01.440 i think she is totally entitled to that she's her own personality now and her whole thing is speaking 0.96
00:14:05.200 out against the corn industry but i support her but the reason why she's using that name is because
00:14:09.040 it's like it's funny when your parents talk to you and things come back to you it's like
00:14:14.160 you know that's what they say sometimes do the best things that you want to be and be who you
00:14:18.400 want to be while you're young because ultimately the reason why they're still using these cornstar
00:14:22.960 names is because they're on borrowed time now they wasted all this time if you know if you notice the
00:14:27.680 bottom line in all these situations people are angry because this is time time is the currency you can
00:14:32.240 never get back i mean i think it's just back to accountability like women don't want to take 1.00
00:14:35.760 accountability for anything yeah like she i mean i would respect it more sorry i would respect it more 0.99
00:14:43.520 if she doesn't use words like i was coerced like and she just owned it like i did it it was stupid 0.89
00:14:48.800 i'm moving on yeah and changed her name i just can't how much can you regret it if you have the
00:14:53.200 same name like if if that was me and i was so ashamed i wouldn't want to have anything to do with
00:14:58.320 it i wouldn't want anyone to associate that name with me yeah but i think it's devil's advocate again
00:15:03.280 i just believe that they're using these names like he said they're not taking accountability one
00:15:07.200 but two because they feel like they're on borrowed time so they're trying to find this minimal thing
00:15:12.240 to help them still reap the benefit of that time that they wasted do you see what i mean yeah i
00:15:17.520 disagree i feel like it's almost like another bailout for women's bad decisions so you can go on like a
00:15:24.080 whole apology tour it's like you can do that and then go back and make more money apologizing for it
00:15:30.800 it's like a it's like a system yeah that needs to be broken to be honest