JustPearlyThings - Pearl DESTROYS Feral Feminist for Saying This

00:00:00.000 I need you to talk about, like, what time period you're talking about.

00:00:04.140 So, 1,800, 1,700.

00:00:04.780 When people use the farm.

00:00:05.960 No, okay, okay, so you don't even know the time period. 0.99

00:00:08.040 No, I don't, and I don't give a fuck either. 0.99

00:00:09.640 All I know is right now, you don't need to have 10 kids. 0.99

00:00:13.300 I know the time period. 0.99

00:00:14.600 Who the fuck wants 10 kids now? 1.00

00:00:16.080 They had 10 kids for labor. 1.00

00:00:17.120 They had kids, right, to put them to work.

00:00:18.840 No, no, but even, so, like, factories came in the late 1800s,

00:00:23.840 and still, people still had 5-plus kids early 1900s.

00:00:27.500 Because they were just used to what was traditional.

00:00:29.500 But here now, the tradition is having two or three. 0.99

00:00:32.440 You don't have to have fucking 10 kids. 0.99

00:00:34.020 And whose choice is that? 1.00

00:00:35.540 It's ours as a whole. 1.00

00:00:36.620 We're overpopulated as fuck. 1.00

00:00:37.120 Whose choice is that men or women? 1.00

00:00:38.300 We're not overpopulated.

00:00:39.100 Also, just in general, like, you can't really afford 10 kids these days.

00:00:42.280 Right, they cost a lot more.

00:00:43.460 Poor people have more kids than rich people.

00:00:45.540 Yeah, and they're our government assistance.

00:00:47.900 Because they're not being responsible.

00:00:49.620 Exactly, so the human people are breeding.

00:00:51.720 Okay, wait, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:00:53.620 No, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:00:54.900 Who controls access to sex, men or women? 0.79

00:00:58.160 Women. 0.81

00:00:58.520 Women. 0.81

00:00:58.760 It's the women's fault, not the men's. 1.00

00:01:00.460 Unless you're a rapist, which happens a lot. 0.78

00:01:02.600 Exactly, which is very, that doesn't happen a lot. 0.90

00:01:04.180 No, it doesn't happen a lot.

00:01:05.120 It definitely does.

00:01:05.740 It really does.

00:01:06.720 It really does.

00:01:07.580 If I pull the stats up when she's talking, and I tell you the stats, you're going to say

00:01:11.020 facts don't matter?

00:01:11.240 So that's only what's been reported.

00:01:13.100 Yeah.

00:01:14.000 Exactly.

00:01:14.320 I do understand what you're saying.

00:01:17.640 In the perfect world, if we have all these high-value men walking around, we should be

00:01:21.240 a certain way.

00:01:21.760 Okay, great.

00:01:22.380 No.

00:01:22.820 High-value men need to go get a sniff. 1.00

00:01:24.140 Unfortunately, don't.

00:01:24.920 Well, I- Sorry.

00:01:26.040 I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you.

00:01:27.960 Go, go, go, go.

00:01:29.440 So my mom did not raise me to be a wife.

00:01:32.100 She raised me to be an independent woman, because she had dated such terrible men that

00:01:36.780 acted like they were going to be this provider, this person, got married to them, or ended

00:01:41.300 up having a kid, and then all of a sudden, they were abusive, alcoholics.

00:01:45.700 She's lying.

00:01:46.340 This whole thing.

00:01:47.720 She's lying.

00:01:48.220 You know, this is my mom's experience, and I know my mom is not a liar.

00:01:52.040 She's probably lying.

00:01:53.580 They usually lie.

00:01:55.520 No, it's like, because it's like-

00:01:57.320 Call your mom right now.

00:01:59.080 Call your mom.

00:01:59.880 No, no, she'll say that.

00:02:01.280 No, I'm not saying it's your mom.

00:02:02.540 No, yeah.

00:02:02.740 But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story and say, oh. 1.00

00:02:05.500 I understand what you're saying.

00:02:06.260 But I'm saying, if it's more than one guy, she's the common denominator. 0.99

00:02:09.920 It's like her picker is, like, fucked up or something. 0.99

00:02:11.400 No, I don't think it's picker. 1.00

00:02:12.540 She's probably abusive. 1.00

00:02:13.380 Like, because it's like, what do the women do to bring this out of the men? 1.00

00:02:17.140 If it's multiple men, that means she's probably doing something.

00:02:19.780 But why is it that, like, you feel that we're doing something to-

00:02:23.520 It's almost like, it's almost like, oh.

00:02:25.480 No, no, no.

00:02:26.060 What you're saying to me is, like, I walked down the street just looking like this, and 0.99

00:02:29.600 I got raped. 0.99

00:02:30.280 Well, what was your fault? 1.00

00:02:31.520 Because I look at-

00:02:32.980 What did you do?

00:02:33.460 What did you do?

00:02:33.560 I'll tell you why, because when women get power, we're not benevolent. 1.00

00:02:38.300 When men get power, they are. 0.99

00:02:39.580 If men wanted to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages. 0.99

00:02:44.340 That's what happens when men get power. 1.00

00:02:45.940 When women get power, we tend to abuse men. 1.00

00:02:48.140 We would destroy you. 0.98

00:02:49.640 Has anyone- 0.99

00:02:50.340 How are you going to make more men? 1.00

00:02:52.180 Because we have the pussy. 1.00

00:02:53.340 We're just going to rape us and, like, just take him? 1.00

00:02:55.400 We'll fucking- 1.00

00:02:55.960 I would rather kill a fucking baby than you make me fucking have a baby without my fucking- 1.00

00:03:00.340 Okay, let me get this straight. 1.00

00:03:01.660 You think you would beat him in a fight?

00:03:03.040 Really?

00:03:03.740 Yeah, he's going to impregnate me. 1.00

00:03:05.720 When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker, I swear to God. 1.00

00:03:09.060 No, no, no, no, no. 1.00

00:03:09.820 She's not talking about that.

00:03:10.880 It's not coming out.

00:03:12.220 So how are you going to have babies without women? 1.00

00:03:14.440 How are you going to have babies without women? 1.00

00:03:16.940 We're not talking about it.

00:03:18.160 We're not talking about that.

00:03:19.540 I'm telling you, you sound fine.

00:03:20.900 You said men-

00:03:21.480 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:03:22.500 You said men will over-dominate women no matter what time you create life. 0.97

00:03:26.660 Hello, hello.

00:03:27.380 Right?

00:03:27.920 Hello, hello.

00:03:28.140 Everybody over here is agreeing.

00:03:29.540 Yelling-

00:03:30.220 Hold on, hold on.

00:03:30.940 What she was saying is, who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman? 0.87

00:03:36.000 We can overpower women physically. 1.00

00:03:38.200 We can dominate if we wanted to.

00:03:40.180 So if we wanted to, we could take control.

00:03:42.880 If there was-

00:03:43.940 Physically.

00:03:44.400 Right.

00:03:44.920 Yes.

00:03:45.220 Not mentally.

00:03:46.200 Ever.

00:03:47.080 In life.

00:03:47.860 Go back to your statement about a benevolent-

00:03:49.520 Yeah, because when men get power, we're naturally benevolent.

00:03:52.680 When women get power, they're not. 1.00

00:03:54.160 And the problem is, we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their

00:03:59.500 dads were the bad guy, and usually they're not.

00:04:01.980 And I understand that.

00:04:03.260 I do actually agree with that.

00:04:05.440 It's happened.

00:04:06.060 My mom was actually really good at not instilling negative thoughts about my father and allowing

00:04:10.740 me to understand who he was.

00:04:12.380 I think what Pearl was saying, and not to attack you or your mom, but in any situation, even

00:04:19.000 a man, if a guy's like, oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive,

00:04:23.800 it's like, okay, whoa, what did you do?

00:04:26.120 There's an exception to the rule.

00:04:27.260 But I've seen ladies that have been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically 1.00

00:04:33.320 abused.

00:04:34.000 And I'm like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that, but that particular

00:04:37.540 woman, she's doing something. 0.53

00:04:39.060 I'm not agreeing it.

00:04:39.860 I'm not justifying that the guy should be physical, but 10 relationships-

00:04:43.720 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:04:44.540 Let me finish.

00:04:45.260 10 relationships? 0.99

00:04:46.040 10 relationships, what the fuck are you doing to cause these men to get violent with 0.99

00:04:49.580 you? 0.99

00:04:49.880 Well, I think-

00:04:50.420 Oh, I'm not doing anything.

00:04:51.780 I'm not doing anything.

00:04:52.720 No, you are the problem.

00:04:54.040 I think it's worth the attack that she attracts.

00:04:55.780 No, I don't think so.

00:04:56.960 No, no.

00:04:57.560 Well, I'm just thinking, like, what?

00:04:59.340 Okay, so he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you.

00:05:01.920 There was no argument.

00:05:02.920 You weren't trying to control him.

00:05:04.000 Because I believe the natural order of the world is God, men, and women.

00:05:09.000 And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal to men and that we have an ability,

00:05:12.620 like, that we should be able to control men, that's when evil happens. 0.92

00:05:15.800 I don't think there's equality with men and women at all.

00:05:17.740 Right, right.

00:05:18.320 But I think we're supposed to submit to men's authority. 0.98

00:05:23.920 And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens.

00:05:26.160 And so typically, when there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying 1.00

00:05:30.640 to impose her will on the man.

00:05:32.440 Look, I understand what you're saying.

00:05:34.040 Because I've been red-pilled.

00:05:35.580 And I'm 100% not a feminist. 0.99

00:05:38.300 I do believe in the red pill.

00:05:39.840 I think you're a little bit more extreme in the mentality of it.

00:05:42.580 Hell yeah.

00:05:43.080 And I'll say this, my first, my first, so I dated a guy, 5'4", he did have a really

00:05:50.220 nice body, great in bed.

00:05:51.920 5'4".

00:05:52.400 5'4".

00:05:53.020 No job.

00:05:53.820 Wow.

00:05:54.580 I was making a lot of money, so I paid for him.

00:05:59.620 But after school, everything, I wanted him to be better.

00:06:01.520 I did submit to him.

00:06:02.780 He didn't deserve it, but I did.

00:06:04.160 And I did start getting the disrespect, I started to disrespect him because he was not, like,

00:06:11.000 pushing him.

00:06:11.380 He wasn't giving you security.

00:06:12.300 He wasn't doing it.

00:06:13.020 He wasn't trying to level up like I wanted him to.

00:06:14.840 He didn't have any job?

00:06:15.880 He didn't have no job.

00:06:17.240 Girl.

00:06:17.980 Yeah.

00:06:18.340 It happened.

00:06:18.980 Well, he had a job, but I met him.

00:06:20.320 Okay.

00:06:20.620 But that's where, go ahead.

00:06:22.140 But listen.

00:06:22.900 So this is my first, my first thought. 0.99

00:06:25.260 When I was laying in bed and I lost, my job ended up going under and I was like, fuck, 0.97

00:06:29.340 like, I have no money to take care of this person next to me and me. 0.99

00:06:32.720 If this house is burning down, I'm going to have to put him on my back, my dog in my

00:06:36.080 hand, and save us both.

00:06:37.640 Wow.

00:06:37.840 I was like, it was the biggest pressure I've ever had.

00:06:39.960 And then I thought to myself, if I have to make this person my long-term partner and

00:06:43.480 get married, what if I need to be bedridden with a child?

00:06:48.080 He cannot take care of us. 1.00

00:06:49.580 And he doesn't have that mentality of, you know what, I'm going to go shovel shit on the 0.99

00:06:53.380 corner just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head. 0.98

00:06:56.920 So I was like, this is the most stressful I've ever been.

00:06:59.240 And I will never do this again every day of my life.

00:07:01.700 So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I do want 0.84

00:07:08.080 a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very dominant.

00:07:11.160 But the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of our lifestyle means. 1.00

00:07:16.120 So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in lifestyle.

00:07:19.120 Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was making $45,000 a

00:07:23.400 year and she relied on solely one income.

00:07:25.160 They only had, I know you see, she's like, oh my God, how would I do that?

00:07:28.400 I like, but the thing is, but the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want 1.00

00:07:36.440 to go down in lifestyle for a family.

00:07:38.360 And that was expected before.

00:07:40.040 They knew you'd have to work harder to have, like women would work jobs even like with 1.00

00:07:44.620 kids.

00:07:44.900 And they knew they would, they would get it.

00:07:46.900 They would get married and they would work harder and still have less because they had

00:07:51.100 kids.

00:07:51.520 But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle expectations 0.86

00:07:56.700 because we've been living by ourselves for so long.

00:07:59.300 And I agree because it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it?

00:08:02.140 You're being the man that you want in your life.

00:08:04.360 So you're providing for yourself and stuff.

00:08:06.240 And I, I do agree with that.

00:08:07.980 And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine of a

00:08:13.100 woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way.

00:08:16.380 Like I really am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be 0.99

00:08:21.620 like, and I think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like you'll

00:08:26.160 date a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying

00:08:29.040 to like beat the odds.

00:08:30.300 So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think.

00:08:32.820 And then you have potential.

00:08:33.980 Yeah. 0.99

00:08:34.160 And then you're like, damn it. 1.00

00:08:35.420 I've fucked in my ass for this. 1.00

00:08:36.840 Cause yeah. 1.00

00:08:37.820 And I'm like, so then you end up becoming the other stereotype where you're like, I

00:08:42.140 need to date the guy that has more money or the guy that does this or something.

00:08:45.040 Well, I just wanted to say that, um, to your point, uh, Pearl, I understand back then

00:08:50.940 family was everything.

00:08:52.180 Right.

00:08:52.620 And time has changed to where as though family is not really a priority, meaning that if you're

00:08:59.020 going through something with your husband or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend, you

00:09:03.200 kind of keep it to yourself because you don't want your family or your friends to judge you

00:09:06.980 and you're making all of these huge decisions by yourself, which is very hard because you're

00:09:12.760 not seeing it from multiple, uh, perspective.

00:09:15.460 And again, we don't want our relationship, et cetera, to do a judgment though, because at the

00:09:20.920 end of the day, you have to regulate how you feel about some things.

00:09:24.860 No, no.

00:09:25.180 What I'm talking about is a support system.

00:09:27.060 So whereas though you have a huge family, you have a huge support system, maybe it is,

00:09:31.820 you know, it has to do with the church or what your pastor, et cetera.

00:09:35.140 You have these people who can counsel, who can try to help you guys before you do decide

00:09:39.800 to say, Hey, this isn't working for whatever the reason.

00:09:42.820 But today's society is more so who's on my team.

00:09:46.680 It's like, Oh, I hate him.

00:09:48.500 You hate him too.

00:09:49.300 Or I hate her.

00:09:50.220 I, you know what I mean?

00:09:51.140 So it's more so like thinking about emotions instead of thinking about the long-term effect

00:09:56.520 of if you do this, you know, the girls that might say, Hey, we're going to go slash his 1.00

00:10:00.960 tires.

00:10:01.260 You might have a crew of girls that's down with that, but nobody's thinking logically like,

00:10:05.620 okay, we can slash his tires.

00:10:06.900 There's social medias.

00:10:07.700 There's ring cameras.

00:10:08.640 There's this, there's that.

00:10:09.500 And we all can go to jail and we may have kids that we're going to leave behind.

00:10:13.000 So it's so like emotional thinking.

00:10:15.960 Well, and I think you're right.

00:10:17.400 That's why I say like a hundred years ago, there was, there was five kids.

00:10:20.820 And so like, they all had families and you'd all like raise kids together and it would be

00:10:25.440 like a community.

00:10:26.300 But now it's like, we have so many single mothers and single mother homes where it's 1.00

00:10:30.100 like, we don't have that community and that council we used to have.

00:10:33.520 And now women are making decisions on their own. 1.00

00:10:36.160 And we make, and we make, and we make terrible mates.

00:10:39.500 We make mate selection on our own, unfortunately.

00:10:42.480 Something I want to bring up, and it's interesting.

00:10:44.240 And again, I'm not going against the women, but have you heard of one female rap artist 1.00

00:10:50.220 that is positive about men?

00:10:54.160 No.

00:10:54.920 No.

00:10:56.260 I mean, unless there's conscious rap, you know, let's see something like that.

00:10:59.840 You hear what I'm saying?

00:11:00.620 What male's positive about women? 1.00

00:11:02.560 Exactly.

00:11:03.540 Yeah. 0.99

00:11:03.720 So a lot of the music, Queen Latifah said, who you calling a bitch? 1.00

00:11:08.720 Right. 0.99

00:11:08.860 No, you and I T Y.

00:11:11.160 That's my point.

00:11:12.060 The culture and what we're listening to, you got negative input coming in.

00:11:15.220 We got people around us.

00:11:16.160 And what happens is nobody is going to anybody for guidance on how to be successful in what

00:11:20.880 they want.

00:11:21.320 And it's all about me, me, me.

00:11:22.600 Right.

00:11:22.940 Yeah.

00:11:23.200 And then when, you know, who suffers the most is the kids, the children.

00:11:26.060 Yeah.

00:11:26.600 And then they get raised and then there's these problems.

00:11:28.520 And now what's happening is there's no nuclear families anymore.

00:11:31.800 It's almost a negative.

00:11:33.080 Yeah.

00:11:33.360 Right.

00:11:33.640 And it should be a positive.

00:11:34.820 Yeah.

00:11:35.260 You know, and there's so much input.

00:11:37.600 Like, I remember a long time ago, I was like in a relationship and then the guy put me in

00:11:41.600 my place because I was drinking too much.

00:11:43.240 He had told me, hey, you need to slow down.

00:11:45.260 And I think my friends had heard him say that to me.

00:11:48.000 And I was like, OK, sorry.

00:11:49.560 And then on the side, she messages me and she goes, wow, you're going to let him like tell

00:11:54.600 you what to do like that.

00:11:55.480 And I think like a lot of like dynamics happen like that where we should be listening because

00:12:01.120 that's their partner.

00:12:01.840 If I was.

00:12:02.940 You don't know.

00:12:03.780 They don't know the man that you know.

00:12:05.740 It's a good influence.

00:12:08.680 So the women only, my friends only heard.

00:12:11.640 He's trying to control you.

00:12:13.100 Right.

00:12:13.320 But what he's saying is facts. 0.99

00:12:14.800 Well, and the problem too is we have a generation of really shitty wives between the ages of like 1.00

00:12:20.320 35 to like 65. 0.99

00:12:22.260 They're just not good wives. 1.00

00:12:23.560 And a lot of them got divorced and a lot of them didn't obey their husbands. 0.81

00:12:26.740 And a lot of them didn't listen to their men and didn't teach us what it meant to be

00:12:31.080 traditional because I just don't see modern relationships working.

00:12:35.180 I think if you want to do it fine.

00:12:36.340 I got I got no qualms doing what you want to do.

00:12:38.500 I just don't see relationship like when there's a kingdom.

00:12:41.900 Right.

00:12:42.240 There's one king, not two.

00:12:43.720 If there's two kings, they'd be fighting all the time.

00:12:45.400 There's a reason there's one.

00:12:46.380 And I think when there's two people trying to have control and power all the time, someone

00:12:50.360 has to give.

00:12:51.840 And unfortunately, nowadays, it's more likely to be the men because they're just they're

00:12:56.900 just tired of the women. 1.00

00:12:58.080 And they're like a lot of guys will just suffer in silence.

00:13:01.180 Yeah.

00:13:01.420 Yeah.

00:13:01.560 There's a reason that we have those phrases.

00:13:03.600 It's cheaper to keep her because there's a bunch of guys that they don't really have 0.98

00:13:07.240 good wives that we that we can learn from, but they're still married. 1.00

00:13:10.400 And it's just like, you know, and they're and they're almost like not even the king.

JustPearlyThings - August 21, 2023

Pearl DESTROYS Feral Feminist for Saying This

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