JustPearlyThings - August 21, 2023


Pearl DESTROYS Feral Feminist for Saying This


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

224.98679

Word Count

2,981

Sentence Count

270

Misogynist Sentences

41

Hate Speech Sentences

26


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 I need you to talk about, like, what time period you're talking about.
00:00:04.140 So, 1,800, 1,700.
00:00:04.780 When people use the farm.
00:00:05.960 No, okay, okay, so you don't even know the time period.
00:00:08.040 No, I don't, and I don't give a fuck either.
00:00:09.640 All I know is right now, you don't need to have 10 kids.
00:00:13.300 I know the time period.
00:00:14.600 Who the fuck wants 10 kids now?
00:00:16.080 They had 10 kids for labor.
00:00:17.120 They had kids, right, to put them to work.
00:00:18.840 No, no, but even, so, like, factories came in the late 1800s,
00:00:23.840 and still, people still had 5-plus kids early 1900s.
00:00:27.500 Because they were just used to what was traditional.
00:00:29.500 But here now, the tradition is having two or three.
00:00:32.440 You don't have to have fucking 10 kids.
00:00:34.020 And whose choice is that?
00:00:35.540 It's ours as a whole.
00:00:36.620 We're overpopulated as fuck.
00:00:37.120 Whose choice is that men or women?
00:00:38.300 We're not overpopulated.
00:00:39.100 Also, just in general, like, you can't really afford 10 kids these days.
00:00:42.280 Right, they cost a lot more.
00:00:43.460 Poor people have more kids than rich people.
00:00:45.540 Yeah, and they're our government assistance.
00:00:47.900 Because they're not being responsible.
00:00:49.620 Exactly, so the human people are breeding.
00:00:51.720 Okay, wait, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:00:53.620 No, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:00:54.900 Who controls access to sex, men or women?
00:00:58.160 Women.
00:00:58.520 Women.
00:00:58.760 It's the women's fault, not the men's.
00:01:00.460 Unless you're a rapist, which happens a lot.
00:01:02.600 Exactly, which is very, that doesn't happen a lot.
00:01:04.180 No, it doesn't happen a lot.
00:01:05.120 It definitely does.
00:01:05.740 It really does.
00:01:06.720 It really does.
00:01:07.580 If I pull the stats up when she's talking, and I tell you the stats, you're going to say
00:01:11.020 facts don't matter?
00:01:11.240 So that's only what's been reported.
00:01:13.100 Yeah.
00:01:14.000 Exactly.
00:01:14.320 I do understand what you're saying.
00:01:17.640 In the perfect world, if we have all these high-value men walking around, we should be
00:01:21.240 a certain way.
00:01:21.760 Okay, great.
00:01:22.380 No.
00:01:22.820 High-value men need to go get a sniff.
00:01:24.140 Unfortunately, don't.
00:01:24.920 Well, I- Sorry.
00:01:26.040 I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you.
00:01:27.960 Go, go, go, go.
00:01:29.440 So my mom did not raise me to be a wife.
00:01:32.100 She raised me to be an independent woman, because she had dated such terrible men that
00:01:36.780 acted like they were going to be this provider, this person, got married to them, or ended
00:01:41.300 up having a kid, and then all of a sudden, they were abusive, alcoholics.
00:01:45.700 She's lying.
00:01:46.340 This whole thing.
00:01:47.720 She's lying.
00:01:48.220 You know, this is my mom's experience, and I know my mom is not a liar.
00:01:52.040 She's probably lying.
00:01:53.580 They usually lie.
00:01:55.520 No, it's like, because it's like-
00:01:57.320 Call your mom right now.
00:01:59.080 Call your mom.
00:01:59.880 No, no, she'll say that.
00:02:01.280 No, I'm not saying it's your mom.
00:02:02.540 No, yeah.
00:02:02.740 But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story and say, oh.
00:02:05.500 I understand what you're saying.
00:02:06.260 But I'm saying, if it's more than one guy, she's the common denominator.
00:02:09.920 It's like her picker is, like, fucked up or something.
00:02:11.400 No, I don't think it's picker.
00:02:12.540 She's probably abusive.
00:02:13.380 Like, because it's like, what do the women do to bring this out of the men?
00:02:17.140 If it's multiple men, that means she's probably doing something.
00:02:19.780 But why is it that, like, you feel that we're doing something to-
00:02:23.520 It's almost like, it's almost like, oh.
00:02:25.480 No, no, no.
00:02:26.060 What you're saying to me is, like, I walked down the street just looking like this, and
00:02:29.600 I got raped.
00:02:30.280 Well, what was your fault?
00:02:31.520 Because I look at-
00:02:32.980 What did you do?
00:02:33.460 What did you do?
00:02:33.560 I'll tell you why, because when women get power, we're not benevolent.
00:02:38.300 When men get power, they are.
00:02:39.580 If men wanted to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages.
00:02:44.340 That's what happens when men get power.
00:02:45.940 When women get power, we tend to abuse men.
00:02:48.140 We would destroy you.
00:02:49.640 Has anyone-
00:02:50.340 How are you going to make more men?
00:02:52.180 Because we have the pussy.
00:02:53.340 We're just going to rape us and, like, just take him?
00:02:55.400 We'll fucking-
00:02:55.960 I would rather kill a fucking baby than you make me fucking have a baby without my fucking-
00:03:00.340 Okay, let me get this straight.
00:03:01.660 You think you would beat him in a fight?
00:03:03.040 Really?
00:03:03.740 Yeah, he's going to impregnate me.
00:03:05.720 When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker, I swear to God.
00:03:09.060 No, no, no, no, no.
00:03:09.820 She's not talking about that.
00:03:10.880 It's not coming out.
00:03:12.220 So how are you going to have babies without women?
00:03:14.440 How are you going to have babies without women?
00:03:16.940 We're not talking about it.
00:03:18.160 We're not talking about that.
00:03:19.540 I'm telling you, you sound fine.
00:03:20.900 You said men-
00:03:21.480 Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:03:22.500 You said men will over-dominate women no matter what time you create life.
00:03:26.660 Hello, hello.
00:03:27.380 Right?
00:03:27.920 Hello, hello.
00:03:28.140 Everybody over here is agreeing.
00:03:29.540 Yelling-
00:03:30.220 Hold on, hold on.
00:03:30.940 What she was saying is, who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman?
00:03:36.000 We can overpower women physically.
00:03:38.200 We can dominate if we wanted to.
00:03:40.180 So if we wanted to, we could take control.
00:03:42.880 If there was-
00:03:43.940 Physically.
00:03:44.400 Right.
00:03:44.920 Yes.
00:03:45.220 Not mentally.
00:03:46.200 Ever.
00:03:47.080 In life.
00:03:47.860 Go back to your statement about a benevolent-
00:03:49.520 Yeah, because when men get power, we're naturally benevolent.
00:03:52.680 When women get power, they're not.
00:03:54.160 And the problem is, we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their
00:03:59.500 dads were the bad guy, and usually they're not.
00:04:01.980 And I understand that.
00:04:03.260 I do actually agree with that.
00:04:05.440 It's happened.
00:04:06.060 My mom was actually really good at not instilling negative thoughts about my father and allowing
00:04:10.740 me to understand who he was.
00:04:12.380 I think what Pearl was saying, and not to attack you or your mom, but in any situation, even
00:04:19.000 a man, if a guy's like, oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive,
00:04:23.800 it's like, okay, whoa, what did you do?
00:04:26.120 There's an exception to the rule.
00:04:27.260 But I've seen ladies that have been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically
00:04:33.320 abused.
00:04:34.000 And I'm like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that, but that particular
00:04:37.540 woman, she's doing something.
00:04:39.060 I'm not agreeing it.
00:04:39.860 I'm not justifying that the guy should be physical, but 10 relationships-
00:04:43.720 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:04:44.540 Let me finish.
00:04:45.260 10 relationships?
00:04:46.040 10 relationships, what the fuck are you doing to cause these men to get violent with
00:04:49.580 you?
00:04:49.880 Well, I think-
00:04:50.420 Oh, I'm not doing anything.
00:04:51.780 I'm not doing anything.
00:04:52.720 No, you are the problem.
00:04:54.040 I think it's worth the attack that she attracts.
00:04:55.780 No, I don't think so.
00:04:56.960 No, no.
00:04:57.560 Well, I'm just thinking, like, what?
00:04:59.340 Okay, so he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you.
00:05:01.920 There was no argument.
00:05:02.920 You weren't trying to control him.
00:05:04.000 Because I believe the natural order of the world is God, men, and women.
00:05:09.000 And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal to men and that we have an ability,
00:05:12.620 like, that we should be able to control men, that's when evil happens.
00:05:15.800 I don't think there's equality with men and women at all.
00:05:17.740 Right, right.
00:05:18.320 But I think we're supposed to submit to men's authority.
00:05:23.920 And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens.
00:05:26.160 And so typically, when there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying
00:05:30.640 to impose her will on the man.
00:05:32.440 Look, I understand what you're saying.
00:05:34.040 Because I've been red-pilled.
00:05:35.580 And I'm 100% not a feminist.
00:05:38.300 I do believe in the red pill.
00:05:39.840 I think you're a little bit more extreme in the mentality of it.
00:05:42.580 Hell yeah.
00:05:43.080 And I'll say this, my first, my first, so I dated a guy, 5'4", he did have a really
00:05:50.220 nice body, great in bed.
00:05:51.920 5'4".
00:05:52.400 5'4".
00:05:53.020 No job.
00:05:53.820 Wow.
00:05:54.580 I was making a lot of money, so I paid for him.
00:05:59.620 But after school, everything, I wanted him to be better.
00:06:01.520 I did submit to him.
00:06:02.780 He didn't deserve it, but I did.
00:06:04.160 And I did start getting the disrespect, I started to disrespect him because he was not, like,
00:06:11.000 pushing him.
00:06:11.380 He wasn't giving you security.
00:06:12.300 He wasn't doing it.
00:06:13.020 He wasn't trying to level up like I wanted him to.
00:06:14.840 He didn't have any job?
00:06:15.880 He didn't have no job.
00:06:17.240 Girl.
00:06:17.980 Yeah.
00:06:18.340 It happened.
00:06:18.980 Well, he had a job, but I met him.
00:06:20.320 Okay.
00:06:20.620 But that's where, go ahead.
00:06:22.140 But listen.
00:06:22.900 So this is my first, my first thought.
00:06:25.260 When I was laying in bed and I lost, my job ended up going under and I was like, fuck,
00:06:29.340 like, I have no money to take care of this person next to me and me.
00:06:32.720 If this house is burning down, I'm going to have to put him on my back, my dog in my
00:06:36.080 hand, and save us both.
00:06:37.640 Wow.
00:06:37.840 I was like, it was the biggest pressure I've ever had.
00:06:39.960 And then I thought to myself, if I have to make this person my long-term partner and
00:06:43.480 get married, what if I need to be bedridden with a child?
00:06:48.080 He cannot take care of us.
00:06:49.580 And he doesn't have that mentality of, you know what, I'm going to go shovel shit on the
00:06:53.380 corner just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head.
00:06:56.920 So I was like, this is the most stressful I've ever been.
00:06:59.240 And I will never do this again every day of my life.
00:07:01.700 So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I do want
00:07:08.080 a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very dominant.
00:07:11.160 But the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of our lifestyle means.
00:07:16.120 So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in lifestyle.
00:07:19.120 Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was making $45,000 a
00:07:23.400 year and she relied on solely one income.
00:07:25.160 They only had, I know you see, she's like, oh my God, how would I do that?
00:07:28.400 I like, but the thing is, but the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want
00:07:36.440 to go down in lifestyle for a family.
00:07:38.360 And that was expected before.
00:07:40.040 They knew you'd have to work harder to have, like women would work jobs even like with
00:07:44.620 kids.
00:07:44.900 And they knew they would, they would get it.
00:07:46.900 They would get married and they would work harder and still have less because they had
00:07:51.100 kids.
00:07:51.520 But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle expectations
00:07:56.700 because we've been living by ourselves for so long.
00:07:59.300 And I agree because it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it?
00:08:02.140 You're being the man that you want in your life.
00:08:04.360 So you're providing for yourself and stuff.
00:08:06.240 And I, I do agree with that.
00:08:07.980 And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine of a
00:08:13.100 woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way.
00:08:16.380 Like I really am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be
00:08:21.620 like, and I think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like you'll
00:08:26.160 date a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying
00:08:29.040 to like beat the odds.
00:08:30.300 So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think.
00:08:32.820 And then you have potential.
00:08:33.980 Yeah.
00:08:34.160 And then you're like, damn it.
00:08:35.420 I've fucked in my ass for this.
00:08:36.840 Cause yeah.
00:08:37.820 And I'm like, so then you end up becoming the other stereotype where you're like, I
00:08:42.140 need to date the guy that has more money or the guy that does this or something.
00:08:45.040 Well, I just wanted to say that, um, to your point, uh, Pearl, I understand back then
00:08:50.940 family was everything.
00:08:52.180 Right.
00:08:52.620 And time has changed to where as though family is not really a priority, meaning that if you're
00:08:59.020 going through something with your husband or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend, you
00:09:03.200 kind of keep it to yourself because you don't want your family or your friends to judge you
00:09:06.980 and you're making all of these huge decisions by yourself, which is very hard because you're
00:09:12.760 not seeing it from multiple, uh, perspective.
00:09:15.460 And again, we don't want our relationship, et cetera, to do a judgment though, because at the
00:09:20.920 end of the day, you have to regulate how you feel about some things.
00:09:24.860 No, no.
00:09:25.180 What I'm talking about is a support system.
00:09:27.060 So whereas though you have a huge family, you have a huge support system, maybe it is,
00:09:31.820 you know, it has to do with the church or what your pastor, et cetera.
00:09:35.140 You have these people who can counsel, who can try to help you guys before you do decide
00:09:39.800 to say, Hey, this isn't working for whatever the reason.
00:09:42.820 But today's society is more so who's on my team.
00:09:46.680 It's like, Oh, I hate him.
00:09:48.500 You hate him too.
00:09:49.300 Or I hate her.
00:09:50.220 I, you know what I mean?
00:09:51.140 So it's more so like thinking about emotions instead of thinking about the long-term effect
00:09:56.520 of if you do this, you know, the girls that might say, Hey, we're going to go slash his
00:10:00.960 tires.
00:10:01.260 You might have a crew of girls that's down with that, but nobody's thinking logically like,
00:10:05.620 okay, we can slash his tires.
00:10:06.900 There's social medias.
00:10:07.700 There's ring cameras.
00:10:08.640 There's this, there's that.
00:10:09.500 And we all can go to jail and we may have kids that we're going to leave behind.
00:10:13.000 So it's so like emotional thinking.
00:10:15.960 Well, and I think you're right.
00:10:17.400 That's why I say like a hundred years ago, there was, there was five kids.
00:10:20.820 And so like, they all had families and you'd all like raise kids together and it would be
00:10:25.440 like a community.
00:10:26.300 But now it's like, we have so many single mothers and single mother homes where it's
00:10:30.100 like, we don't have that community and that council we used to have.
00:10:33.520 And now women are making decisions on their own.
00:10:36.160 And we make, and we make, and we make terrible mates.
00:10:39.500 We make mate selection on our own, unfortunately.
00:10:42.480 Something I want to bring up, and it's interesting.
00:10:44.240 And again, I'm not going against the women, but have you heard of one female rap artist
00:10:50.220 that is positive about men?
00:10:54.160 No.
00:10:54.920 No.
00:10:56.260 I mean, unless there's conscious rap, you know, let's see something like that.
00:10:59.840 You hear what I'm saying?
00:11:00.620 What male's positive about women?
00:11:02.560 Exactly.
00:11:03.540 Yeah.
00:11:03.720 So a lot of the music, Queen Latifah said, who you calling a bitch?
00:11:08.720 Right.
00:11:08.860 No, you and I T Y.
00:11:11.160 That's my point.
00:11:12.060 The culture and what we're listening to, you got negative input coming in.
00:11:15.220 We got people around us.
00:11:16.160 And what happens is nobody is going to anybody for guidance on how to be successful in what
00:11:20.880 they want.
00:11:21.320 And it's all about me, me, me.
00:11:22.600 Right.
00:11:22.940 Yeah.
00:11:23.200 And then when, you know, who suffers the most is the kids, the children.
00:11:26.060 Yeah.
00:11:26.600 And then they get raised and then there's these problems.
00:11:28.520 And now what's happening is there's no nuclear families anymore.
00:11:31.800 It's almost a negative.
00:11:33.080 Yeah.
00:11:33.360 Right.
00:11:33.640 And it should be a positive.
00:11:34.820 Yeah.
00:11:35.260 You know, and there's so much input.
00:11:37.600 Like, I remember a long time ago, I was like in a relationship and then the guy put me in
00:11:41.600 my place because I was drinking too much.
00:11:43.240 He had told me, hey, you need to slow down.
00:11:45.260 And I think my friends had heard him say that to me.
00:11:48.000 And I was like, OK, sorry.
00:11:49.560 And then on the side, she messages me and she goes, wow, you're going to let him like tell
00:11:54.600 you what to do like that.
00:11:55.480 And I think like a lot of like dynamics happen like that where we should be listening because
00:12:01.120 that's their partner.
00:12:01.840 If I was.
00:12:02.940 You don't know.
00:12:03.780 They don't know the man that you know.
00:12:05.740 It's a good influence.
00:12:08.680 So the women only, my friends only heard.
00:12:11.640 He's trying to control you.
00:12:13.100 Right.
00:12:13.320 But what he's saying is facts.
00:12:14.800 Well, and the problem too is we have a generation of really shitty wives between the ages of like
00:12:20.320 35 to like 65.
00:12:22.260 They're just not good wives.
00:12:23.560 And a lot of them got divorced and a lot of them didn't obey their husbands.
00:12:26.740 And a lot of them didn't listen to their men and didn't teach us what it meant to be
00:12:31.080 traditional because I just don't see modern relationships working.
00:12:35.180 I think if you want to do it fine.
00:12:36.340 I got I got no qualms doing what you want to do.
00:12:38.500 I just don't see relationship like when there's a kingdom.
00:12:41.900 Right.
00:12:42.240 There's one king, not two.
00:12:43.720 If there's two kings, they'd be fighting all the time.
00:12:45.400 There's a reason there's one.
00:12:46.380 And I think when there's two people trying to have control and power all the time, someone
00:12:50.360 has to give.
00:12:51.840 And unfortunately, nowadays, it's more likely to be the men because they're just they're
00:12:56.900 just tired of the women.
00:12:58.080 And they're like a lot of guys will just suffer in silence.
00:13:01.180 Yeah.
00:13:01.420 Yeah.
00:13:01.560 There's a reason that we have those phrases.
00:13:03.600 It's cheaper to keep her because there's a bunch of guys that they don't really have
00:13:07.240 good wives that we that we can learn from, but they're still married.
00:13:10.400 And it's just like, you know, and they're and they're almost like not even the king.