Pearl DESTROYS Feral Feminist for Saying This
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about sex, rape, and sex education. We also talk about our own personal experiences with sex and rape and how we learned to deal with it. We hope you enjoy, sit down, and have a nice drink.
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I need you to talk about, like, what time period you're talking about.
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No, okay, okay, so you don't even know the time period.
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All I know is right now, you don't need to have 10 kids.
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No, no, but even, so, like, factories came in the late 1800s,
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and still, people still had 5-plus kids early 1900s.
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Because they were just used to what was traditional.
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But here now, the tradition is having two or three.
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Also, just in general, like, you can't really afford 10 kids these days.
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Exactly, which is very, that doesn't happen a lot.
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If I pull the stats up when she's talking, and I tell you the stats, you're going to say
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In the perfect world, if we have all these high-value men walking around, we should be
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I have to say, I'm not trying to interrupt you.
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She raised me to be an independent woman, because she had dated such terrible men that
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acted like they were going to be this provider, this person, got married to them, or ended
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up having a kid, and then all of a sudden, they were abusive, alcoholics.
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You know, this is my mom's experience, and I know my mom is not a liar.
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But a lot of women, then you hear the other side of the story and say, oh.
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But I'm saying, if it's more than one guy, she's the common denominator.
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It's like her picker is, like, fucked up or something.
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Like, because it's like, what do the women do to bring this out of the men?
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If it's multiple men, that means she's probably doing something.
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But why is it that, like, you feel that we're doing something to-
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What you're saying to me is, like, I walked down the street just looking like this, and
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I'll tell you why, because when women get power, we're not benevolent.
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If men wanted to, we could all be sex slaves in caves right now, in cages.
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We're just going to rape us and, like, just take him?
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I would rather kill a fucking baby than you make me fucking have a baby without my fucking-
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When the baby comes out, I'm killing that motherfucker, I swear to God.
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So how are you going to have babies without women?
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How are you going to have babies without women?
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You said men will over-dominate women no matter what time you create life.
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What she was saying is, who's going to take control in a situation, a man or a woman?
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Yeah, because when men get power, we're naturally benevolent.
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And the problem is, we have an entire generation of daughters and sons that have been told their
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dads were the bad guy, and usually they're not.
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My mom was actually really good at not instilling negative thoughts about my father and allowing
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I think what Pearl was saying, and not to attack you or your mom, but in any situation, even
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a man, if a guy's like, oh, I've been in 20 relationships and all the women were abusive,
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But I've seen ladies that have been in relationships time and time and time again and been physically
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And I'm like, okay, first of all, men don't generally want to do that, but that particular
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I'm not justifying that the guy should be physical, but 10 relationships-
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10 relationships, what the fuck are you doing to cause these men to get violent with
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I think it's worth the attack that she attracts.
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Okay, so he comes home and he just says, I'm going to beat you.
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Because I believe the natural order of the world is God, men, and women.
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And when we try to confuse women and say we're equal to men and that we have an ability,
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like, that we should be able to control men, that's when evil happens.
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I don't think there's equality with men and women at all.
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But I think we're supposed to submit to men's authority.
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And I think when we don't, that's when evil happens.
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And so typically, when there's a dysfunction in the family, it's because the woman was trying
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I think you're a little bit more extreme in the mentality of it.
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And I'll say this, my first, my first, so I dated a guy, 5'4", he did have a really
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I was making a lot of money, so I paid for him.
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But after school, everything, I wanted him to be better.
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And I did start getting the disrespect, I started to disrespect him because he was not, like,
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He wasn't trying to level up like I wanted him to.
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When I was laying in bed and I lost, my job ended up going under and I was like, fuck,
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like, I have no money to take care of this person next to me and me.
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If this house is burning down, I'm going to have to put him on my back, my dog in my
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I was like, it was the biggest pressure I've ever had.
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And then I thought to myself, if I have to make this person my long-term partner and
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get married, what if I need to be bedridden with a child?
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And he doesn't have that mentality of, you know what, I'm going to go shovel shit on the
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corner just to make sure that this house is going to stay above her head.
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So I was like, this is the most stressful I've ever been.
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And I will never do this again every day of my life.
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So I, that day forward, I understood the dynamic between a man and a woman and how I do want
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a man to make more money or to be a little bit more responsible to be very dominant.
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But the issue we have with a lot of chicks is we're living outside of our lifestyle means.
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So like when you have kids, you're kind of supposed to go down in lifestyle.
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Like I have a friend, she had four kids and she dated a guy that was making $45,000 a
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They only had, I know you see, she's like, oh my God, how would I do that?
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I like, but the thing is, but the thing is, no, the problem is women typically don't want
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They knew you'd have to work harder to have, like women would work jobs even like with
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They would get married and they would work harder and still have less because they had
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But the problem now is like women, we, we have these unrealistic like lifestyle expectations
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because we've been living by ourselves for so long.
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And I agree because it's like you're providing, you're being, what is it?
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You're being the man that you want in your life.
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And I think my mentality lately has like, okay, I'm trying to be, I'm very masculine of a
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woman and I know this about myself, but I don't want to be that way.
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Like I really am trying to be more feminine with a man, have him have the dominant role be
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like, and I think sometimes with women, like, have you guys ever done this where like you'll
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date a guy that doesn't have a lot of money or like the nice guy and you're just trying
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So you're not trying to be a stereotype of what women think.
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And I'm like, so then you end up becoming the other stereotype where you're like, I
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need to date the guy that has more money or the guy that does this or something.
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Well, I just wanted to say that, um, to your point, uh, Pearl, I understand back then
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And time has changed to where as though family is not really a priority, meaning that if you're
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going through something with your husband or maybe your boyfriend or girlfriend, you
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kind of keep it to yourself because you don't want your family or your friends to judge you
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and you're making all of these huge decisions by yourself, which is very hard because you're
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And again, we don't want our relationship, et cetera, to do a judgment though, because at the
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end of the day, you have to regulate how you feel about some things.
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So whereas though you have a huge family, you have a huge support system, maybe it is,
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you know, it has to do with the church or what your pastor, et cetera.
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You have these people who can counsel, who can try to help you guys before you do decide
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to say, Hey, this isn't working for whatever the reason.
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But today's society is more so who's on my team.
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So it's more so like thinking about emotions instead of thinking about the long-term effect
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of if you do this, you know, the girls that might say, Hey, we're going to go slash his
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You might have a crew of girls that's down with that, but nobody's thinking logically like,
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And we all can go to jail and we may have kids that we're going to leave behind.
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That's why I say like a hundred years ago, there was, there was five kids.
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And so like, they all had families and you'd all like raise kids together and it would be
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But now it's like, we have so many single mothers and single mother homes where it's
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like, we don't have that community and that council we used to have.
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And now women are making decisions on their own.
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And we make, and we make, and we make terrible mates.
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We make mate selection on our own, unfortunately.
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Something I want to bring up, and it's interesting.
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And again, I'm not going against the women, but have you heard of one female rap artist
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I mean, unless there's conscious rap, you know, let's see something like that.
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So a lot of the music, Queen Latifah said, who you calling a bitch?
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The culture and what we're listening to, you got negative input coming in.
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And what happens is nobody is going to anybody for guidance on how to be successful in what
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And then when, you know, who suffers the most is the kids, the children.
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And then they get raised and then there's these problems.
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And now what's happening is there's no nuclear families anymore.
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Like, I remember a long time ago, I was like in a relationship and then the guy put me in
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And I think my friends had heard him say that to me.
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And then on the side, she messages me and she goes, wow, you're going to let him like tell
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And I think like a lot of like dynamics happen like that where we should be listening because
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Well, and the problem too is we have a generation of really shitty wives between the ages of like
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And a lot of them got divorced and a lot of them didn't obey their husbands.
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And a lot of them didn't listen to their men and didn't teach us what it meant to be
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traditional because I just don't see modern relationships working.
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I got I got no qualms doing what you want to do.
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I just don't see relationship like when there's a kingdom.
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If there's two kings, they'd be fighting all the time.
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And I think when there's two people trying to have control and power all the time, someone
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And unfortunately, nowadays, it's more likely to be the men because they're just they're
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And they're like a lot of guys will just suffer in silence.
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It's cheaper to keep her because there's a bunch of guys that they don't really have
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good wives that we that we can learn from, but they're still married.
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And it's just like, you know, and they're and they're almost like not even the king.