JustPearlyThings - August 12, 2023


Pearl Didn't Hold Back On This Controversial Statement


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Length

8 minutes

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1,723

Sentence count

58

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Misogyny

15

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Toxicity

13

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11

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In this episode, we discuss the age old question of what is too young to get married? Do women cheat at a young age? How old is a woman too old to cheat? What is the age when a woman cheats on a man?

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00:00:00.000 what I'm trying to say is I think if a woman takes a guy seriously under the 0.98
00:00:09.900 age of 21 and he's cheated that's on you because we're not our mentality women to 1.00
00:00:15.800 me mature far more than men at a different age my childish men or women
00:00:22.380 men there's men that's all like 40 50s to playing PlayStation is to do you know
00:00:27.000 how do you know I see with um generally speaking with women that have kids yeah
00:00:33.680 I feel like they they learn a certain sense of responsibility and that no one's
00:00:37.980 coming to save them because they had to yeah I mean up until then I think they
00:00:42.900 can be a bit childish in in society playing a step down I actually think that
00:00:47.880 men are more mature than women I don't think no I think men are more mature than
00:00:52.500 women really yeah I see you know my there's this saying that's like right 0.77
00:01:00.000 when a woman starts to receive attention from men she like doesn't age mentally
00:01:03.900 so like she's like whatever you age it was so 13 14 15 and I went out and I had
00:01:09.900 this like red pill moment a couple years ago my mom I got in trouble in high
00:01:13.080 school so she sent me to my grandma's house and I was at and it was weird
00:01:17.300 because a lot of the grandmas were like widows right so the grandmas all went like 1.00
00:01:21.660 to this like karaoke bar and it's like a weird small time and the way they're
00:01:25.380 talking I was like this sounds like me and my friends we're like 14 but I think 0.89
00:01:33.420 like in media they always paint women as the smart ones and men as the dumb ones
00:01:37.800 and I think that like if you think of the Simpsons it's always you know Marge is 0.99
00:01:42.040 smart Bart is dumb yeah almost dumb 0.99
00:01:45.760 I think like in general women play way more childish games than men do mm-hmm but 1.00
00:01:54.420 women are a lot smarter and a lot smarter and same thing like when women cheat 1.00
00:01:57.800 because women men we're not that good like women would do smart thing my ex my 1.00
00:02:07.980 ex-partner used to do stuff like when I was sleeping would just do the
00:02:11.040 fingerprint thing and go through my messages that's a smart thing to do I'm
00:02:14.780 she knows I'm a deep sleeper because I think that question is very is a very
00:02:30.540 nuanced question because there are there are a lot of areas in society where
00:02:34.500 women are like a lot more mature than men in certain areas like when it comes 1.00
00:02:37.940 like emotional like how to do with one's emotions I mean I got that Pat since day
00:02:42.420 one because that's literally most of what they do from what women are in 1.00
00:02:50.880 control of them I didn't say in control I said I said no I didn't say get down
00:02:55.620 part I just said you have have the ability to look at their emotions and be
00:02:59.860 one with their most of the guys don't accept that I accept it I'm not saying
00:03:04.380 that they even they've mastered it yeah but like the fact that women have gone 1.00
00:03:08.160 through this emotional turmoil when they go through all the time and I give
00:03:11.220 you see a dog dies is this like the worst thing in the world and have you
00:03:16.020 guys ever gone through a guy's phone
00:03:21.680 really my ex has come through my night zoinks I appreciate why'd you go through
00:03:31.680 his phone cuz I knew he was doing something dodgy yeah I wouldn't do it
00:03:37.500 unless I had the suspicion and and I had a suspicion and I was right and every
00:03:41.760 time I've done it I've been right would you but now I've got to a point where I
00:03:45.460 will never do it because every time I've done it I found something and I actually
00:03:49.200 really like my boyfriend so I like how I used to get all the time my my ex-girlfriend like
00:04:07.440 girlfriend I've had it's gone one Pacific partner has gone through my phone and woke me up at like
00:04:12.600 three in the morning and like oh blah blah blah I'm like but how did you know and I've been my younger
00:04:20.400 days like I would just feel like but how did you even know I was talking to her on Facebook or how
00:04:25.860 did you know what what made you think a woman always knows I'm like okay so it's like we we pick up on 0.91
00:04:42.520 little social cues that like men don't right so like okay we'll see it well we'll notice let's say if you
00:04:50.500 don't like text us around the time you normally text us yeah or like or if you don't do something
00:04:55.120 you normally do that you wouldn't like think anything of like women we notice or if like you
00:05:00.300 have a certain interaction with a girl and you think well that's how he used to interact with me
00:05:04.580 guys have this as well and guys you know the whole the whole thing of like guys knowing who that one
00:05:12.760 guy friend who's actually trying to fuck guys also see this as well so we all we understand this is
00:05:17.360 very it's just kind of different how we go about dealing with it so guys will go go around be like 0.96
00:05:23.220 oh that one friend we'll just say it directly because guys are way more direct than women we're
00:05:27.760 like yo that friend Zeke or whatever his name is Zach or I'm trying to think of random names oh Zach's 0.98
00:05:33.380 trying to fuck you like there's gonna be the ones where guys will tell their girlfriend no no he's 0.98
00:05:37.520 not he's just like a brother to me blah blah blah a girl will do will look at the same information 1.00
00:05:42.720 and instead of just saying it outright like yo Sarah's trying to have sex with you bro 0.99
00:05:46.460 they'll be like they'll go around and be like get you to see it through their words type of thing
00:05:53.120 you know I mean it's very different approaches that guys and go to the approach that we take 0.72
00:05:58.240 sometimes as guys is like we think that that's gonna repulse the girl the girl likes sex bro 0.99
00:06:02.220 and she likes to take attention if you say you know you know that male friend you want to fuck you 1.00
00:06:06.000 you know he wants to fuck you she's not gonna be like oh no she might be like oh is it you know what I mean she probably knows already but you know at the end of the day that's why I feel like with male friends with women and guys like having that friendship it's very much um it works in a woman's favor a lot of the time so you wouldn't let me be friends with your girl sorry you wouldn't let me be friends with your girl you 0.99
00:06:12.660 you know you know you know you we're good bro we're good but but I've I would I would treat you like a male friend that she has in it so the boundaries will be there ain't no let's get changed together you can't come in one day and you're in the chain all right listen to this yeah I once had a girl what was she she wanted to come on 0.99
00:06:34.660 There ain't no, let's get changed together.
00:06:36.760 You can't come in one day and you're in there changing.
00:06:39.280 All right, listen to this.
00:06:40.140 Yeah, I once had a girl, what was she? 1.00
00:06:42.080 She wanted to come around my yard and work or something. 1.00
00:06:45.420 And she was like, oh, her boyfriend won't allow her
00:06:48.460 because it's just me and her.
00:06:49.380 I was like, but why though?
00:06:50.880 It's just me and her.
00:06:51.880 She's working from, instead of working from home,
00:06:53.760 she's working from my life.
00:06:54.620 It's about not putting her, so her boyfriend said no.
00:06:58.220 Yeah.
00:06:58.700 It's about her not being in a space or in a situation
00:07:01.820 where something could happen.
00:07:03.560 There should be boundaries in place
00:07:05.080 if you're in a great relationship.
00:07:06.560 She's just a friend of mine.
00:07:07.740 She was a good friend of mine.
00:07:09.920 Yeah, but put it like this.
00:07:11.200 I was in a situation where I helped a girl do her assignment,
00:07:13.860 but by the end of the night, did we finish your assignment?
00:07:16.080 No.
00:07:18.560 You finished another assignment.
00:07:19.800 No, no.
00:07:21.280 Because one-on-one in those type of situations
00:07:24.260 and those type of times, I can 100% understand
00:07:26.420 the guy being like, I feel a bit aware.
00:07:30.740 You're looking at your face, you were even scheming.
00:07:32.700 I can see your face.
00:07:34.200 Bro, Wayne is that guy that cheats on you,
00:07:36.480 and then he'll say to you.
00:07:37.240 No, before 25, don't count.
00:07:38.940 Before 25, don't count.
00:07:39.660 You know you have them man that will be like,
00:07:41.280 yo, my girl's trying to say I was cheating on her. 1.00
00:07:43.260 And I'm like, yeah, but bro, you were.
00:07:44.260 But you were.
00:07:46.220 It's me.
00:07:47.200 It's me you're talking to, bro.
00:07:48.580 I'm like, Wayne, it's us.
00:07:49.680 Yeah, it's us.
00:07:50.620 It's fine.
00:07:51.260 We get in.
00:07:52.100 We understand.
00:07:52.900 You just don't want to put yourself in a situation
00:07:55.080 where something could come back.
00:07:56.740 Let's say the girl lies, 1.00
00:07:58.100 and you can't really defend yourself.
00:07:59.560 It's her word against yours.
00:08:01.140 I think that there should be boundaries in place.
00:08:03.260 Like, I don't think it's okay if you are,
00:08:06.220 if she's in a relationship,
00:08:07.000 it's not okay for her to be bopping up to your room to work. 1.00
00:08:10.020 Like, why?
00:08:10.640 I don't understand.
00:08:11.900 No, but you're just chilling.
00:08:13.120 You're working from home.
00:08:14.120 You usually work from home.
00:08:15.300 Did you, when she said that to you,
00:08:16.860 did you say, you know what?
00:08:17.860 I understand.
00:08:18.720 That's a really, like, that's great.
00:08:20.060 Your boyfriend had boundaries.
00:08:21.080 Or did you say, oh, that's horrible.
00:08:23.460 I said to her, but he knows I'm by, though.
00:08:26.440 That doesn't help.
00:08:28.960 Have you and her been intimate before?
00:08:31.540 Like, back in the day?
00:08:32.080 We, we, we, no, we haven't.
00:08:33.320 We got in a situation where I knew she had feelings for me.
00:08:36.580 Oh.
00:08:37.180 In the, no, no, no.
00:08:40.180 Two plus two is more.
00:08:42.900 No.
00:08:44.160 No.
00:08:45.200 I'm a nice guy.
00:08:47.880 This is why we don't trust you, bro.
00:08:49.720 This is why we don't trust you.