JustPearlyThings - Pearl Educates Deluded Feminist

00:00:00.000 I'm going to ask the men after because I know it'll be quicker.

00:00:03.460 What does the average woman bring to... 1.00

00:00:05.300 No, no.

00:00:05.820 No, I didn't answer.

00:00:06.720 No, I didn't answer.

00:00:07.640 Please.

00:00:08.000 I didn't answer.

00:00:08.400 Okay, okay.

00:00:08.820 I'm going to give you the chance, but if you talk about your homeless exes, I'm going to

00:00:12.280 go to the next one, okay?

00:00:14.460 Go ahead.

00:00:15.380 Okay.

00:00:16.420 I just think there is no table.

00:00:18.900 Are we calling a relationship table?

00:00:21.980 Okay.

00:00:22.220 Okay.

00:00:22.880 Next, next, next, next.

00:00:24.160 Okay.

00:00:24.440 Okay, next.

00:00:25.280 No, I agree.

00:00:25.840 I agree.

00:00:26.640 I think a lot of women now are way more independent. 1.00

00:00:28.500 And we don't need the men to pay for everything anymore.

00:00:31.440 Okay.

00:00:31.700 We...

00:00:32.340 And that's what we bring.

00:00:33.640 I think so.

00:00:34.440 Do you think that's useful to men?

00:00:36.180 I think so.

00:00:37.080 I think that takes some pressure off men.

00:00:38.800 Okay.

00:00:39.220 Is that typically what men look for in wives? 1.00

00:00:42.160 No.

00:00:44.020 Do we typically want men that don't provide for us? 0.99

00:00:47.200 No.

00:00:48.600 Thank you.

00:00:49.300 Oh, you guys are so much better now.

00:00:51.960 But to be fair, like, I can't just talk about myself, but I know myself and like, I have

00:00:57.840 quite a lot, a big group of strong women around me. 1.00

00:01:00.460 Okay.

00:01:01.460 We can take care of ourselves.

00:01:02.960 You can, but...

00:01:03.700 Yeah.

00:01:04.180 But the reason, if the girl doesn't offer any kind of... 1.00

00:01:07.020 But this is a lie.

00:01:08.320 Like, men do not want emotionally detached women that can take care of ourselves. 0.84

00:01:12.920 Like, it's this brainwashing they fed to us for like 15 years.

00:01:16.540 And it's really sad because we end up at the end of this single by ourselves with a bunch

00:01:20.960 of cats.

00:01:21.360 You know, if you hit 30, you're not married, you're more...

00:01:23.580 Honestly, at the moment...

00:01:24.380 Shh.

00:01:25.000 You know, if you hit 30 and you're not married, you're more likely to not have children than

00:01:28.400 have them.

00:01:29.240 I mean, there's more than a 50% chance you will never have a child, never reproduce.

00:01:33.640 That's the end of what they've taught us because what we bring to the table is independence.

00:01:38.060 But why is reproducing so important?

00:01:40.220 Exactly.

00:01:40.600 Why is it still now that it has to happen?

00:01:42.020 Well, it doesn't have to happen, but 80% of women said they wanted it to happen before. 1.00

00:01:46.640 So, and women are more depressed.

00:01:49.540 Like, you know how lonely is when your looks go?

00:01:51.600 Life is lonely.

00:01:52.940 Like, if you're when your looks go and you don't get attention from men like you used

00:01:56.840 to, you don't get help from men like you used to, people don't talk to you on the street

00:02:00.700 like you used to.

00:02:01.620 It is lonely if you do not have a family around you.

00:02:04.600 And it's funny when women ask questions like, why is reproduction so important? 1.00

00:02:08.800 Meanwhile, if you had to, if we had to start listing all the things that men were good

00:02:12.200 at and all the things that women were good at, reproduction is the first thing that will 1.00

00:02:15.140 come out of women's mouth. 1.00

00:02:16.640 And also, like, if reproduction wasn't so important, like, how did you get here?

00:02:21.780 Like, it's just sometimes.

00:02:23.500 I know, but I think it's a bit, it's a bit much all this expectation to talk about that.

00:02:28.200 I mean, I just had surgery and I can't have children and I don't take, I don't feel differently

00:02:33.260 about myself.

00:02:33.980 I don't want people to look at me differently.

00:02:35.640 And I think it's, it's almost offensive these days for everyone to expect that women must 1.00

00:02:40.520 want kids or to be part of that circle.

00:02:42.740 Conflating the general topic with your personal circumstance, because you didn't say, why

00:02:47.060 is reproduction so important to me?

00:02:49.160 You said, why is reproduction so important?

00:02:51.120 Yeah, because I do think it's important for the, for the human race to continue.

00:02:56.040 Without reproduction, that is literally the end of the human race.

00:02:58.560 And right now, and this is the thing, like, it's very easy for you to be stuck in your

00:03:04.860 personal circumstance and not think about the knock-on effect that your decisions have

00:03:10.060 on the entire population.

00:03:12.320 I'm not making decisions.

00:03:13.140 No, I know, I know.

00:03:13.820 But the point is, right now, the human race, especially in the Western world, is, is at

00:03:18.920 a point where we're not replacing the people that are dying at an effective rate to keep

00:03:23.700 society going eventually.

00:03:25.720 So if, if, if we keep thinking like this, it's literally going to be the end of Western

00:03:30.000 civilization.

00:03:31.060 So when people say, oh, why is this important?

00:03:32.920 Why is this so important?

00:03:33.940 It's really like, yeah, if you look at it from your point of view, it might not be that

00:03:37.500 important, but on a general scale, the fact that you live in society, society runs because

00:03:42.740 there are some men that really don't want to get up in the morning at 6 a.m. that need

00:03:47.160 to go and run the trains.

00:03:48.920 Society runs because there are some men that really don't want to, but they have to go 0.96

00:03:52.640 and do the plumbing.

00:03:53.960 Society runs because there are some men that really don't want to, but they have to go 0.96

00:03:56.580 on oil rigs in the high sea, risk their lives, and make sure that you have oil to run your

00:04:02.620 gas and all of this stuff.

00:04:04.420 These things are not things that men want to do, but we have to do them.

00:04:07.500 But the one thing that women claim is God's giving power to them, which is reproduction, 1.00

00:04:12.320 which is what they know that they can do, that men can't do, that's the one thing you're

00:04:15.680 still failing at doing.

00:04:17.460 So it's just funny because women only want to make use of those arguments when it benefits 1.00

00:04:23.280 them, but when it makes them look bad, then automatically there are these reasons why

00:04:27.740 it's not important or why we should all have a say.

00:04:32.220 And the truth of the matter is when women don't have kids, we get depressed. 0.85

00:04:36.360 Single childless women are on antidepressants at a higher rate than anyone else.

00:04:41.180 It's right after our looks go, we get pretty sad because now we're not attractive to men

00:04:47.780 anymore.

00:04:48.280 They don't even, they're starting to not even want to sleep with us barely.

00:04:51.280 And then we're just by ourselves at Christmas.

00:04:54.180 It's not a happy, bright future.

00:04:56.040 It's pretty sad.

00:04:56.820 I'm pro kids.

00:04:57.700 And I think everyone, I want to have a big family.

00:04:59.820 And I hate when people say like, oh, it's too expensive to have a child.

00:05:05.300 I'm like, poor people have more kids than rich people.

00:05:08.000 Yeah, that's true.

00:05:08.920 So I see this is the first thing that I hear.

00:05:11.700 So I always say like, people have kids.

00:05:13.640 But that's what I realized.

00:05:15.300 They train us.

00:05:16.040 They first tell us to go after a career and women are so easy to propagate. 1.00

00:05:20.420 So we do.

00:05:21.220 And then they basically, they tell us you can't afford to have kids, which isn't even

00:05:25.580 true.

00:05:26.580 I've talked to women that were stay at home moms on a single salary. 1.00

00:05:30.280 Then they give us the social media to think we deserve a lifestyle and a man that we don't.

00:05:34.340 And it's just, it's just crazy.

00:05:35.860 And also like, that's why I always say like feminists and we as women, we have to need, 1.00

00:05:40.120 we need to be critical because now they, these people in institutions, they are promoting

00:05:46.020 this.

00:05:47.020 They started promoting more and about feminism.

00:05:49.600 They are profiting on you and they're already starting to fulfill markets for single women 0.99

00:05:55.100 in the future.

00:05:56.160 So they are doing a lot of stuff for potential clients for single women.

00:06:00.340 So these things that they're happening now, they've been planned and they're, you know,

00:06:05.440 and half of us, half of us will never get married and never have kids.

00:06:08.680 That's what they're predicting half of us.

00:06:11.120 And first of all, like they're already in the planet, more women than men. 0.99

00:06:14.680 So that's why when I sit there, I say like, well, I will do everything to protect my relationship

00:06:19.280 and my family when, when I have it.

00:06:22.000 So I think that's some, a message that has to be spread.

00:06:24.920 So women have critical thinking. 1.00

00:06:26.660 I know for some kind of, you know,

00:06:33.800 Okay, what, what do women bring to the table in 2023? 1.00

00:06:38.840 2023 women bring to the table, let's see. 1.00

00:06:49.280 Let's say image, communication, boundaries.

00:06:54.920 Wow, boundaries.

00:06:56.200 Yeah, we all got them right.

00:06:58.240 No, I think it's just women. 1.00

00:06:59.680 Yeah.

00:07:00.560 Boundaries.

00:07:01.760 It's either, it's either women say that or a woman teaches a man to say that. 1.00

00:07:06.640 But the average woman comes with boundaries. 1.00

00:07:09.080 What is the average woman? 1.00

00:07:10.080 The average woman.

00:07:11.080 I'm asking.

00:07:12.080 I'm just asking.

00:07:13.080 I don't know.

00:07:14.080 5'4", 170 pounds.

00:07:15.080 What?

00:07:16.080 What?

00:07:17.080 5'4", 170 pounds.

00:07:18.080 I don't know what that is in kgs.

00:07:21.080 Average women brings some sort of... 1.00

00:07:24.080 Alright, so social media, let's say has changed what an average woman can bring. 1.00

00:07:35.080 Okay.

00:07:36.080 And unfortunately what society, not as a greater whole, but people see what a woman can bring. 1.00

00:07:44.080 Could be image, could be beauty, could be a social group, could be connections with people.

00:07:54.720 And that's what some may see it as.

00:07:56.720 Okay.

00:07:57.720 But what it should bring, I mean, there is no should.

00:08:00.720 It's just women should... 1.00

00:08:03.720 Not that should, I mean that's okay.

00:08:05.720 A woman should be herself. 1.00

00:08:08.720 Okay.

00:08:09.720 And enjoy her presence around an individual, around class.

00:08:13.720 Should a woman have to do anything in a relationship? 1.00

00:08:16.720 Not that she shouldn't want to, no.

00:08:18.720 I didn't ask what she want, I said should she...

00:08:21.720 You know how men should protect and provide?

00:08:23.720 Okay, should protect.

00:08:24.720 Should women have to do anything in a relationship? 1.00

00:08:26.720 Support.

00:08:27.720 Love and nurture and support.

00:08:28.720 Yes.

00:08:29.720 Stand ground.

00:08:31.720 Stand ground.

00:08:32.720 And stand ground would be if you take your time to share or partake or come into a union

00:08:39.720 with someone, then yeah, you agree on that.

00:08:42.720 Okay, so she should stay?

00:08:45.720 No, you see.

00:08:47.720 No, she shouldn't.

00:08:48.720 So she shouldn't stay?

00:08:50.720 No.

00:08:51.720 Okay, so should she do anything?

00:08:55.720 Well, you see, honestly, I know we've been going at the...

00:08:59.720 Yeah, we're at a back and forth right now.

00:09:01.720 The thing is, I was going to say, I know we've been going at the women a lot throughout 0.82

00:09:04.720 the show, but really and truly, let's be real, like, bro, come on.

00:09:08.720 Like, this is the reason why a lot of women complain. 1.00

00:09:10.720 Like, men need to, like, really figure their shit out and understand what their purpose 0.99

00:09:15.720 is and be able to direct their women. 1.00

00:09:18.720 Bro, like, literally, you need to be able to answer a question.

00:09:22.720 Like, come on.

00:09:25.720 All right, women should stand her ground. 1.00

00:09:27.720 Know where she's at.

00:09:28.720 Know that if that's the man that she's with, that's the solemn man that she's with,

00:09:32.720 that he represents her and they represent each other.

00:09:34.720 And if they go on forth, so be it.

00:09:36.720 If they want to have bicker and have problems along the way, so be it.

00:09:39.720 They figure it out along the way, whether they stay together or not, so be it.

00:09:43.720 But there should be a minimum base of communication, whether it is to understanding or misunderstanding.

00:09:51.720 Okay.

00:09:52.720 I don't feel like you answered my question of what women should bring in 2023. 0.99

00:09:58.720 Or I said, should women do anything? 1.00

00:10:02.720 Bring anything to a relationship?

00:10:06.720 No.

00:10:07.720 Nothing.

00:10:08.720 Okay.

00:10:09.720 Thank you for being honest.

00:10:10.720 All right.

00:10:11.720 Should, so what do average women bring to the table in 2023? 1.00

00:10:15.720 I mean, on my Instagram, the average woman is actually quite pretty. 0.66

00:10:19.720 Like, but.

00:10:20.720 Okay, so beauty?

00:10:21.720 Okay.

00:10:22.720 Yeah.

00:10:23.720 I mean, that's all the same, really.

00:10:25.720 Like, to get, like, I invited Laura to the, to the podcast.

00:10:32.720 She came, but to get to Laura, actually not even to get to Laura.

00:10:35.720 I knew Laura would come.

00:10:36.720 But even then I was asking, like, loads of girls to come out. 0.65

00:10:40.720 And I put up my story.

00:10:42.720 It's all the same game.

00:10:43.720 Like, I'll DM them.

00:10:45.720 Hey, come out.

00:10:46.720 Come to this podcast.

00:10:47.720 They say I'm too scary.

00:10:49.720 They do say you're scary.

00:10:50.720 Yeah, I know.

00:10:51.720 When they research you, they say you're scary.

00:10:52.720 Yeah.

00:10:53.720 I'm very scary.

00:10:54.720 But it's fine.

00:10:55.720 Like, but then they'll go, and this is game four, guys.

00:10:59.720 They'll be like, hey, how about let's meet up on the weekend?

00:11:03.720 So it's like, and it's a big circle.

00:11:06.720 I'll show that I'm having fun on the podcast.

00:11:09.720 Same again.

00:11:10.720 Like, girls would message me back again. 0.97

00:11:12.720 And, and it's the same again.

00:11:14.720 Like, date, date, date, date.

00:11:15.720 Yeah.

00:11:16.720 But looks.

00:11:17.720 That's it.

00:11:18.720 Like, and then I'll put them on the, on my profile store again.

00:11:23.720 And then I'll be like.

00:11:24.720 Is that your strategy?

00:11:25.720 Is that your strategy?

00:11:26.720 It is my strategy.

00:11:27.720 And all men should be like. 0.98

00:11:28.720 So women shouldn't do anything in a relationship. 1.00

00:11:31.720 Just look nice.

00:11:32.720 Be nice.

00:11:33.720 Like, be kind.

00:11:34.720 Be nice.

00:11:35.720 Be kind.

00:11:36.720 Be kind to your dude.

00:11:37.720 Okay.

00:11:38.720 What do you think?

00:11:39.720 I will not get into details what they bring.

00:11:42.720 I'm just going to say that whatever the average, or I would say even a little bit above

00:11:47.720 average woman brings is irrelevant to what a relationship needs. 1.00

00:11:52.720 So cannot really be something important.

00:11:56.720 You worry.

00:11:57.720 Estab hard toする końca.

00:11:58.720 You can do anything.

00:11:59.720 There you go.

00:12:00.720 We have to wait.

00:12:01.720 People play.

00:12:03.720 I'm there like a differentufuane room there.

00:12:04.720 Maybe.

00:12:05.720 Right.

00:12:06.720 Maybe we'll have to make a new David.

00:12:07.720 But I think it might seem to do anything.

00:12:09.740 But I think about these Ini tensions.

00:12:10.720 This's going to be a gambling problem.

00:12:12.800 My hair is 22.

00:12:14.720 I think about this thing.

JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023

Pearl Educates Deluded Feminist

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