JustPearlyThings - November 25, 2023


Pearl Explains Why Modern Women Deserve Less


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Length

8 minutes

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189.04333

Word count

1,623

Sentence count

138

Harmful content

Misogyny

19

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Hate speech

9

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In this episode, I discuss why women should not be treated like princesses and why men should not cheat. I also discuss the Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston cheating scandal and why women deserve the best in a man.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 The first topic I wanted to talk about is growing up, you always hear as a woman that
00:00:04.680 you deserve the world.
00:00:06.500 You deserve more.
00:00:08.180 You are a queen.
00:00:09.180 You are beautiful.
00:00:10.180 You are amazing.
00:00:11.180 And we even have phrases like princess treatment.
00:00:14.340 Why do average women need to be treated like princesses? 1.00
00:00:18.040 It doesn't make sense to me.
00:00:19.620 And what it leads to is entitled women that think they deserve, I mean, we reacted to 0.99
00:00:23.880 an obese woman the other day saying she deserves a 500k man. 0.93
00:00:27.780 This delusion and oftentimes what starts as good intentions leads to women being alone 0.67
00:00:33.100 and single.
00:00:34.100 So I wanted to further talk about the conversation that I was having with Tim Pool yesterday.
00:00:38.740 It's interesting because guys, I am dedicated to finding out what is true about the world.
00:00:43.740 And overwhelmingly, when men have the option to cheat, they tend to.
00:00:48.340 Now I know you guys are saying pearl, but pearl, but pearl.
00:00:52.500 This is a bad thing.
00:00:53.500 Men shouldn't cheat.
00:00:54.720 My opinions on men cheating do not change the facts of the matter.
00:00:59.120 When men have three things, looks, money, and status, they tend to cheat. 0.90
00:01:03.140 High end businessmen are known for cheating.
00:01:06.420 Rich NBA players, NFL players are known for cheating.
00:01:10.040 Hollywood is known for cheating.
00:01:12.040 If we go into these relationships, which let's be honest, most women will not qualify 1.00
00:01:16.280 for those men anyway.
00:01:17.720 But we tell those women that you should demand a Brad Pitt and you should expect loyalty from 1.00
00:01:24.240 him.
00:01:24.460 And if he does slip up ever, he is evil and he is evil and terrible and you are amazing.
00:01:31.200 So I thought of the one and only Brad Pitt.
00:01:34.840 So as you guys know, Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston used to be married.
00:01:38.700 They were a power couple.
00:01:40.440 They were beautiful in the early 2000s.
00:01:42.760 Oh my gosh, they were such a beautiful couple and Brad Pitt cheated on Jennifer Aniston with
00:01:47.300 Angelina Jolie.
00:01:48.660 Now you could argue maybe he did get his feelings involved with her.
00:01:52.220 Obviously he married her later, but at surface level, Brad Pitt did not divorce Aniston.
00:01:57.820 Aniston divorced Brad Pitt.
00:01:59.940 And the question is now, is Jennifer Aniston in a better place? 0.50
00:02:04.180 So Jennifer Aniston opens up about feeling kind of alone in other relationship struggles.
00:02:09.180 This is in 2023.
00:02:10.920 Now guys, Jennifer Aniston is a national treasure.
00:02:13.440 She is beautiful.
00:02:14.460 She could have had any guy on the planet and she got the exact man she wanted.
00:02:18.700 I mean, what woman wouldn't want to be with Brad Pitt? 1.00
00:02:21.460 But society told her she should expect loyalty from a guy like that.
00:02:25.860 And unfortunately, men like that do not give out loyalty.
00:02:29.160 You will not get it.
00:02:30.480 And so if you get the Brad Pitt of your town and that's what you want to do instead of an
00:02:34.720 average guy.
00:02:35.300 Why do we tell women to live in delusion instead of looking at what men have always done throughout
00:02:40.760 history?
00:02:41.320 Kings have always had multiple men.
00:02:43.380 Kings have always had multiple women. 0.85
00:02:45.440 Now guys, my feelings, I am a Catholic.
00:02:48.180 I do not think that is a good thing.
00:02:50.740 But what I have noticed is we demonize one type of sin.
00:02:54.560 When men cheat, they are the end all be all.
00:02:57.180 They and Tim Pool said, you just surround yourself with bad people.
00:03:01.780 And I didn't even know.
00:03:02.780 I'm going to actually wait.
00:03:03.480 Let me, let me get this.
00:03:04.500 Let me get this.
00:03:05.800 I want to, I want to quote this exactly.
00:03:07.980 Because I have this opinion, Tim Pool says to me, I want to, I want to get this exact
00:03:13.240 quote.
00:03:13.920 Apparently I'm just the worst.
00:03:15.500 I am just the worst.
00:03:16.820 He says, Pearl is just another woman that hates men because I'm not blind. 0.59
00:03:22.060 Guys, guys, I, I can't not see what's in front of me.
00:03:26.300 I, I'm not, I'm not blind.
00:03:27.600 And I refuse.
00:03:28.460 I could, I could look good if I wanted.
00:03:30.460 I could virtue signal and say men should never cheat.
00:03:33.340 But my feelings about it doesn't change the facts.
00:03:36.760 And so many times women believe that our feelings about something should change what is reality. 1.00
00:03:42.600 I refuse to bend reality for what is true.
00:03:45.440 She sees them inherently untrustworthy and lacking discipline.
00:03:48.480 No, I just see human nature is human nature.
00:03:52.980 I mean, I think, you know, most men have never been in the position where they have eights,
00:03:58.860 nines, and tens chasing after them.
00:04:00.700 I think that's going to be very tempting for a guy over a long period of time.
00:04:05.120 Marriage gets boring and lame.
00:04:06.740 And when a hot 20 something year old comes up to a guy, not every guy, especially in the society
00:04:12.360 we're in now, which is most men are not religious.
00:04:15.040 It's going to be tough for him to, it would be tough for a religious guy to turn that down. 0.96
00:04:19.420 Now, this does not say that I advocate for it.
00:04:22.260 This does not say that I think it's good.
00:04:23.940 But I think we have to have an honest conversation as women about choices and trade-offs.
00:04:29.360 There is a trade-off for going for the top 10, 20% of men.
00:04:34.000 And that may be the trade-off.
00:04:35.920 And if that happens, what will you do?
00:04:38.660 And the interesting thing is I actually advocate for working through infidelity.
00:04:43.060 I think the kids are more important than you.
00:04:45.700 And you should work through infidelity at all costs, especially because cheating for men
00:04:50.080 and women is different. 1.00
00:04:51.060 Okay, so then she said, she, just like I said to Fresh and Fit, surrounds herself with the
00:04:56.880 worst people and assumes everyone is bad.
00:04:59.560 So see, this goes to a personal attack.
00:05:02.200 Now he's saying, Pearl, your opinions are so, gosh, awful that you just think everyone
00:05:08.620 is bad.
00:05:09.720 No guy that I know in my personal life cheats.
00:05:13.440 I don't even, I don't know anybody that cheats.
00:05:15.960 But I am not stupid to the fact that men that tend to get the opportunity more on a balance
00:05:23.380 of probabilities will do it.
00:05:25.460 And the other thing I'm not blind to is you never know what happens behind closed doors.
00:05:29.820 So I could virtue signal.
00:05:31.480 Now imagine I was, I was at advising Jennifer Aniston back in the day.
00:05:35.560 I could virtue signal and say, Jennifer, Jennifer, Jennifer, leave him. 0.60
00:05:40.180 You deserve the world.
00:05:41.180 That is a man that's so terrible and has no morals.
00:05:44.260 Or I could say, you know what?
00:05:46.080 He's human.
00:05:47.000 He's in a tough position where women are chasing him 24 seven. 1.00
00:05:52.260 Maybe you should give the guy some grace.
00:05:54.520 Now, again, this is never going to be a popular opinion amongst men or women.
00:05:59.000 But typically what I noticed is the way that men signal to women that they are attractive
00:06:03.980 as a long-term mate.
00:06:05.800 I see this a lot.
00:06:06.880 Men that don't have looks tend to get money. 0.97
00:06:10.120 And then what they do is they signal to women they're an attractive long-term mate because
00:06:14.200 they have money and they will be loyal in a way that they can compete with the guys that
00:06:19.020 are just hot.
00:06:20.180 I look for patterns.
00:06:21.480 Okay, guys.
00:06:22.200 You know, I asked the question, is Jennifer Aniston in a better place now that she left Brad
00:06:26.300 Pitt because she expected faithfulness from a man with looks, money, and status.
00:06:32.160 Am I the bad guy for asking this question?
00:06:34.340 It's like, women, we don't get to have it all. 1.00
00:06:37.180 And if you want to go for the Brad Pitts of the world, that is fine.
00:06:40.800 But they come with Brad Pitt problem.
00:06:43.940 And so many times I'm so tired of the Steve Harvey types pandering to us and saying, you
00:06:49.100 deserve it all.
00:06:50.000 If you can find it all, I'm happy for you.
00:06:53.300 You know, you go, girl.
00:06:55.460 Unicorns exist, but that doesn't change the fact that they are unicorns.
00:06:59.720 Men with the combination of the three, that is what they tend to do.
00:07:03.460 And, you know, then Larry says, I mean, she could have 99% of guys if she wanted. 0.95
00:07:08.220 And the question is, if she could have the guy she wanted, she wouldn't be by herself.
00:07:13.440 I would guess that the guy she wanted was Brad Pitt.
00:07:16.560 But she wanted a faithful Brad Pitt and they do not exist.
00:07:20.280 They are not real.
00:07:21.280 The comment says, nope, ruined her limited time that money can't buy. 1.00
00:07:25.500 Childless.
00:07:26.060 Yeah.
00:07:26.600 And she could have had a superhuman baby with Brad Pitt.
00:07:31.120 That would have been like the most attractive child ever.
00:07:34.680 Applying a unicorn scenario to populace doesn't seem science-y.
00:07:39.940 What's the data set you're using to have this perception?
00:07:42.260 So, again, guys, you could look at data and data does show that men that are richer tend
00:07:48.420 to cheat more.
00:07:49.520 Good-looking men tend to cheat more.
00:07:51.860 I mean, this is just common sense.
00:07:53.880 But even without looking at data, again, the Brad Pits of the world, fine.
00:07:58.200 Brad Pitt is exceptionally attractive.
00:08:00.100 But there is the Brad Pitt of your hometown.
00:08:02.280 The best-looking guy in your hometown.
00:08:03.900 The best-looking guy at your school.
00:08:05.740 The best-looking guy at work.
00:08:07.460 Again, men with the option to have a tendency to.
00:08:11.760 And just because I don't agree with it morally, it doesn't make it untrue.
00:08:16.600 And I've just seen women demonize male sin. 1.00
00:08:19.440 You know, I thought about this.
00:08:21.040 Like, what's worse, a nagging wife or a cheating husband?
00:08:24.940 And I had some comments say to me, Pearl, Pearl, but that is not the same.
00:08:29.000 They are totally different.
00:08:30.060 And I thought to myself, if you get cheated on and don't find out, you never find out.
00:08:34.520 You never know.