JustPearlyThings - October 15, 2023


Pearl Explains Why Women Are Heartless


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

195.65022

Word Count

2,177

Sentence Count

273

Misogynist Sentences

24

Hate Speech Sentences

15


Summary

In this episode, we talk about the dating market and why women are looking for a man who is taller than them, stronger than them and smarter than them. We also talk about how much money a man should make and how much a woman should make.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 You have too many options, so you're like,
00:00:02.260 oh, don't worry, if that don't work out, this next one.
00:00:04.620 But don't you?
00:00:05.060 That's why girls get the ick so quick.
00:00:06.600 But don't you?
00:00:07.300 No.
00:00:07.960 Me?
00:00:08.460 Don't you have a lot of options?
00:00:09.700 Me?
00:00:09.960 Listen, I'm just focusing on me at the moment.
00:00:11.740 I can admit I'm confused.
00:00:13.340 Do you know what I mean?
00:00:13.860 Well, most men don't have a lot of options.
00:00:16.100 One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:00:19.240 Really?
00:00:19.580 Wow.
00:00:20.020 Yeah, I'm going to, I actually, I'm going to get to you,
00:00:22.680 but I kind of want to show you guys something on the whiteboard.
00:00:24.380 You're going to get to the virgins.
00:00:25.340 Okay.
00:00:29.180 Okay.
00:00:30.000 So, we've got, all right, we're going to get the women here.
00:00:34.800 Oh, my God.
00:00:46.040 Up here in the sky.
00:00:56.960 All right.
00:00:57.660 So, I'm going to show you guys the dating.
00:00:59.380 All right.
00:01:02.700 So, would you guys agree that you want someone in general that makes more money than you in general?
00:01:07.240 Of course.
00:01:07.800 Yes.
00:01:07.900 Okay.
00:01:08.120 Would you agree that you want someone taller than you?
00:01:10.520 Yeah.
00:01:10.760 Absolutely.
00:01:11.360 Okay.
00:01:11.740 Would you agree that you want someone smarter than you?
00:01:14.760 Yeah.
00:01:15.040 Yes.
00:01:15.320 In general.
00:01:15.980 Okay.
00:01:16.120 So, now the problem is, we all do.
00:01:19.320 So, here's the dating market.
00:01:21.040 So, this is going to be, the lines are going to be sex, because we're not getting married
00:01:26.100 anymore.
00:01:26.500 So, this is just sex.
00:01:27.760 So, they have sex.
00:01:30.300 They have sex.
00:01:31.820 They have sex.
00:01:33.560 I'm going to add another.
00:01:34.280 So, this is the dating market, because women date across and up hierarchies, because we
00:01:43.060 want someone taller, stronger.
00:01:44.520 So, basically, we're just all screwing these guys.
00:01:48.360 And ones get left behind.
00:01:49.220 Yeah.
00:01:49.500 And these guys are virgins.
00:01:51.520 So, it used to be.
00:01:52.900 Well, they might get lucky sometimes.
00:01:54.500 They might get lucky.
00:01:55.020 They get lucky.
00:01:55.640 Here or there.
00:01:56.540 They might.
00:01:57.080 They might.
00:01:57.420 They might.
00:01:57.520 They might.
00:01:57.600 They might.
00:01:57.700 They might.
00:01:57.880 They might.
00:01:58.020 They might.
00:01:58.080 They might.
00:01:58.140 They might.
00:01:58.600 Yeah.
00:01:58.700 Yeah.
00:01:59.040 Yeah.
00:01:59.200 Yeah.
00:01:59.420 They might pick like this.
00:02:00.980 Like, this chick might be like, all right, fine.
00:02:04.040 But he'll get her like once, and then she's done.
00:02:06.460 She's like, I'm going back.
00:02:07.620 Yeah.
00:02:08.060 I'm going back.
00:02:08.680 Because women, it's so funny, we would rather share, we would rather be the king's concubine
00:02:14.820 rather than the peasant's wife.
00:02:16.520 Throughout all of time, yeah, if a stronger guy came in, and we're like in a tribe, we're
00:02:22.480 all together, and then, you know, my bouncer comes in and kills these guys, then boom, now
00:02:27.560 we belong to the bouncer.
00:02:28.800 You see what I mean?
00:02:29.940 Yeah.
00:02:30.520 So.
00:02:30.760 The bouncer.
00:02:31.500 The bouncer.
00:02:32.260 Yeah.
00:02:32.780 Because basically, like, if a guy, like, bigger, stronger, richer, whatever came in, you
00:02:38.300 you just, you were forced to, yeah.
00:02:40.020 So that's why women were kind of heartless.
00:02:42.100 We just leave after, no offense, but after 19 years, you know?
00:02:46.740 And, and yeah, so, and the other problem is then.
00:02:50.140 Can I say something?
00:02:50.640 Yeah, go ahead.
00:02:51.020 Go ahead.
00:02:51.900 When I was with him, he was down there.
00:02:53.620 Oh.
00:02:54.140 Okay.
00:02:54.440 How tall was he?
00:02:55.860 He's not that much taller than me.
00:02:57.160 I'm quite tall anyway.
00:02:57.740 Okay.
00:02:57.900 So.
00:02:58.220 I'm 5'8".
00:02:58.740 So he was about 6 foot.
00:03:00.160 Okay.
00:03:00.520 So that's top 15% of men.
00:03:02.680 Okay.
00:03:04.160 Okay.
00:03:04.520 How much, how much money did he make?
00:03:05.900 Like, I mean, we were teenagers, so nothing.
00:03:09.180 No, now.
00:03:09.800 Like, after the 19 years, like, roughly.
00:03:11.760 After the 19.
00:03:12.820 I mean, he, he made the most money in between, I think.
00:03:17.300 I think he, I think I make more money than him now.
00:03:19.300 Okay.
00:03:20.140 Okay.
00:03:20.680 Well, that's usually when women leave.
00:03:22.300 Shame.
00:03:22.580 So thank you for, I had a suspicion.
00:03:25.020 Okay.
00:03:25.460 So, so, so, how, how much money did he make, roughly?
00:03:29.360 When?
00:03:29.820 Which one?
00:03:30.420 When you were together.
00:03:31.500 Just give me a rough salary.
00:03:32.580 So he started from, started from the bottom now.
00:03:34.700 No, he still started, no, he still started here.
00:03:38.180 If he was top 15% of height, okay, at least.
00:03:41.720 So then how much money did he make?
00:03:44.760 What, in between?
00:03:45.660 In the middle?
00:03:45.840 Oh my God.
00:03:46.440 Just, just, you know, just say 20 to 25 a year.
00:03:48.980 I mean, normal wage, nothing.
00:03:50.600 Okay.
00:03:51.200 25.
00:03:51.600 25 grand a year.
00:03:52.680 Okay.
00:03:53.080 Okay.
00:03:53.440 So a normal.
00:03:54.680 So, okay.
00:03:55.120 But he was still above average in height.
00:03:57.240 Yeah.
00:03:57.980 He was muscly and.
00:03:59.820 Okay.
00:04:00.180 So he was hot.
00:04:01.180 He was a hottie.
00:04:02.040 All right.
00:04:02.560 So he was still up here.
00:04:04.000 Now we get to the root.
00:04:05.140 Now we get to the root of this.
00:04:07.600 Yeah.
00:04:08.120 And so maybe.
00:04:09.260 You're going to be watching this thinking, why is she talking about it?
00:04:10.720 Yeah, no, but this is, this is what the women, like, this is what we do.
00:04:13.500 We usually go for the hot guys when we're younger.
00:04:15.800 Yeah.
00:04:16.060 And then later we're like, oh shit, I want to like have a better lifestyle.
00:04:19.340 So I'm either going to make money myself and leave, or I'm going to, I'm going to find
00:04:24.620 a guy that's richer.
00:04:25.600 These are trends.
00:04:26.600 It's not every chick.
00:04:27.480 What about.
00:04:28.140 You want to find yourself.
00:04:29.580 Well.
00:04:30.300 You spent so many years with a man and you forgot about yourself.
00:04:32.980 So this is the problem.
00:04:35.160 I'll tell you, I'll tell you finding my, this is what I found.
00:04:37.940 So here's Instagram.
00:04:39.840 Okay.
00:04:40.400 That really spins a little bit as well.
00:04:42.160 So here's Instagram.
00:04:43.120 So the problem with Instagram is they make all these chicks over here think they're hotter
00:04:48.420 than they are.
00:04:49.120 Oh, trust me.
00:04:49.700 So they think, so we, we have this thing where we just like believe Instagram.
00:04:54.300 So I've seen the trend of finding yourself.
00:04:56.860 It's like these chicks do these tick tocks, like leaving their boyfriends and like moving
00:05:00.600 to a new country or something.
00:05:02.000 Yeah.
00:05:02.500 I've seen this.
00:05:03.720 And yeah, Instagram is like, yes, the streets are super fun.
00:05:08.280 And so the women that are married here, right.
00:05:11.240 And they, maybe, maybe she snagged this might, you know, maybe she snagged this guy or this
00:05:15.740 guy.
00:05:15.940 She was like, all right, I can't, these guys keep pumping and dumping.
00:05:18.320 So I got to stop here.
00:05:19.420 And so now they get married here, right.
00:05:23.340 But Instagram comes in and basically, and convinces her that she can get this guy now or this
00:05:30.080 guy, or maybe she starts to make more money than usually thinks she can do better or just
00:05:35.040 make enough money to live without them.
00:05:37.260 And so basically when women don't need men, we tend to leave them for whatever reason.
00:05:43.100 We just tend to go.
00:05:44.680 Yep.
00:05:44.960 Leave them for more money.
00:05:46.340 Is that awful or is that bad?
00:05:47.760 I would say it's our fault for leaving.
00:05:49.680 Yeah.
00:05:50.160 Yep.
00:05:50.960 Do you know what?
00:05:51.620 Yeah.
00:05:52.320 Old school relationships used to actually work on the issues and their problems and communicate
00:05:57.020 and actually stuck it out.
00:05:59.060 This is why we shouldn't vote.
00:06:01.260 All right.
00:06:01.880 So what if the man stops leading a woman?
00:06:04.680 So what happens then if he stops leading on which a man is typically supposed to do?
00:06:08.900 Well, did you, well, did you, did you stop following?
00:06:12.140 If you stop leading, then I'm going to stop.
00:06:13.840 Well, well, I, I think, you know, I think that's kind of an excuse.
00:06:17.760 Because I think when you think of the most docile feminine women, I'm not saying it's
00:06:21.860 me, but I'm saying like when we think of like the most docile women, they're going to be
00:06:26.040 led, even if a guy isn't like the strongest lead.
00:06:29.420 Guys naturally lead.
00:06:31.140 That's part of who they are.
00:06:32.020 I mean, but what if they naturally stop leading?
00:06:34.200 Okay.
00:06:34.320 What does that mean?
00:06:35.460 Stop leading?
00:06:36.480 Stop being a man.
00:06:37.520 Okay.
00:06:37.780 What does that mean?
00:06:38.760 Just fall back.
00:06:39.580 This is what I find.
00:06:40.740 I find that usually, okay, it'll start, start man because God are above the man and then the
00:06:46.560 women.
00:06:46.880 This is just my beliefs.
00:06:47.920 Okay.
00:06:48.300 So, you know, take this or leave it.
00:06:49.860 But I think usually when I hear that, it means she's a really argumentative domineering woman
00:06:54.480 that, you know, basically made his life hell for 20 years and he just got tired of like
00:07:00.460 listening to her bitch.
00:07:01.500 So he just gave up.
00:07:02.740 I'm not saying it to you.
00:07:03.940 I don't know.
00:07:04.500 Of course it's not me.
00:07:05.140 This is just, this is just what I find.
00:07:06.980 Because like usually a guy will tell you something and do you listen or do you accuse him of not
00:07:12.600 leading?
00:07:13.800 You know, this is.
00:07:14.580 It depends what he says.
00:07:15.260 Well, see, that means you can't follow.
00:07:17.400 Well, I think what he does.
00:07:18.280 See, but it shouldn't depend.
00:07:19.940 This shouldn't depend.
00:07:21.120 When you, when you tell your kids something, do you say, do they say it depends when I'm
00:07:24.420 going to listen?
00:07:25.780 No.
00:07:26.140 I mean.
00:07:26.420 No, they're just supposed to listen.
00:07:28.280 Because they're below.
00:07:29.900 There he, ah, so you're saying the woman is below the man, so she should just listen.
00:07:34.740 Yeah, that's the hierarchy.
00:07:35.440 What he says.
00:07:36.280 If he says, you know, just jump off a cliff.
00:07:39.140 Well, I think if he tells you, I think, you know, I think there are some extremes.
00:07:43.580 Right.
00:07:43.740 I'll give you an example when, I'll give you an example.
00:07:46.460 Well, as long as there's no rocks at the bottom.
00:07:47.720 I'll give you an example when I, I don't believe in birth control.
00:07:50.460 So, I wouldn't, if a guy told me go on birth control, I'd be like, look, I think that's
00:07:54.260 against.
00:07:54.580 That's true.
00:07:55.400 Against, yeah.
00:07:56.140 I don't believe in birth control either.
00:07:57.300 So, so, you know, but that's.
00:08:00.020 What is it, a pull out method?
00:08:01.940 What do you mean?
00:08:03.040 What do you look at?
00:08:03.860 You don't know what a pull out method is.
00:08:04.840 I don't, I think when you get married, you should just, yeah.
00:08:07.560 All right, not pull out.
00:08:08.700 Yeah.
00:08:08.980 I think you just, you know, see what happens.
00:08:11.340 No pull out.
00:08:11.640 But, but yeah, so that's what I think.
00:08:16.200 I think usually when relationships end, it's the woman's fault.
00:08:20.620 Yeah.
00:08:20.760 Really?
00:08:21.280 Do you know what?
00:08:21.820 No, no.
00:08:22.820 I don't agree.
00:08:23.480 So, what if it's a situation, what if it's a situation, as you said, the man, the man not
00:08:28.740 being the leader anymore.
00:08:30.140 What if he just lacks motivation?
00:08:31.940 What if he lacks teaching you better or bettering you?
00:08:34.300 Okay, so how, okay, tell me like what motivation is, give me an example.
00:08:38.220 Um, for example, okay, cool.
00:08:40.080 Um, I'm like, oh, babe, I want to set up a cake shop, um, just, you know, to better us.
00:08:46.320 You can manage it, but, um, I want you to, like, help set up a cake shop.
00:08:51.280 He's probably not going to motivate you or push you in the direction of you can simply
00:08:55.320 get in the stuff of, you know, the cake cutters or tools that you would need.
00:08:59.000 I'll give you, I'll give you an example with this cake shop.
00:09:01.520 You know, men are more logical.
00:09:03.100 So, most men would probably say that's a stupid idea.
00:09:05.780 They will.
00:09:06.680 Yeah, and that's the thing, because women, we're led with our emotions, what's like fun
00:09:10.220 in the moment, right?
00:09:11.400 You know, but men are just a little more logical.
00:09:14.000 So, I think a lot of times we have stupid ideas and we bring them to men and they kind
00:09:18.380 of like nicely tell us no, but we don't take a hint.
00:09:21.880 You guys can tell me if I'm wrong.
00:09:23.640 No, but the other side of this is like, it's his investment.
00:09:26.680 Like, he's investing into this.
00:09:29.000 Into your idea for a cake shop?
00:09:31.160 For a cake shop.
00:09:32.020 Okay, but maybe, okay, did he say yes to the cake shop?
00:09:36.180 I asked him.
00:09:37.020 I wanted him to motivate me.
00:09:38.800 Okay.
00:09:39.280 Why is it his job to motivate you?
00:09:41.180 Because he's the man.
00:09:42.240 He's the leader, not the motivator.
00:09:44.640 Like, you want to be sure that comes into it.
00:09:47.760 I'm sure that comes into it.
00:09:49.500 Well, it's like, he can...
00:09:50.720 He wants to motivate your children and your women.
00:09:52.080 Oh, yeah.
00:09:52.540 Not really.
00:09:53.600 Okay, so...
00:09:54.420 Why can't you motivate yourself?
00:09:56.720 Because now you're a strong, independent woman and you're finding yourself.
00:10:02.060 But you don't want to be an independent woman.
00:10:04.100 You want to be behind you.
00:10:07.000 But now you want to...
00:10:07.680 No, no, no, no, no.
00:10:08.520 No, let's fix it.
00:10:09.660 You're behind him.
00:10:11.740 He's in front.
00:10:12.960 Yeah.
00:10:13.300 He's the leader.
00:10:13.800 Yeah, he's the leader.
00:10:14.900 But if he's not leading for you or the children...
00:10:17.400 If he's out, okay, if he's out spending five days a week in the club...
00:10:21.140 And he's drinking and he's whatever and he's partying and you don't see him at night.
00:10:26.000 He doesn't see the children.
00:10:27.880 What do you do then?
00:10:28.820 Is he leading?
00:10:29.500 Okay, okay.
00:10:30.400 So then I would ask, why are you with a guy that spends five days a week in the club?
00:10:36.200 And that's why a woman leaves.
00:10:37.640 And that's why a woman leaves.