Pearl Explains Why Women Are The Problem
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In this episode, we discuss the statistics and statistics on virginity in the black community and the statistics in the west, as well as the statistics on black women dating a single black man. We discuss the difference between virgins and virgins in the white population, and why women are more sexually experienced than men.
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percentage of male are virgin under wedding well but women don't but women don't select for that
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like women don't give a about a man's virginity true women don't care about purity so it's not
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the same stability is what well like dirty most women after a certain age go for yeah but women
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still out earn men you know it's funny because women like if we're gonna go for traditional
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values like maybe men don't make like enough for one income but they still make more money um than
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women but i would say most women are more sexually experienced than most men i doubt that this
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doesn't sound right well because i yeah because i just one out of three men are either virgins or
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having had sex in the past year i don't see that same trend but i don't see that same trend women
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when you when you look at those statistics you got to remember that's just a uh like a small
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population that they sit there and and you know study and ask these questions so this is not in
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no they got no they got it from um doctors i think that's how they gathered that data it was
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from everybody like are you kidding me but we can argue they're lying by 10 but if they do it in
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multiple cities and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the west you start to see a trend
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but this is right you know what i'm saying because like like i mean if you want to take like body count
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statistics for women tend to be way more variable than like men because again they'll do it in different
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cities to see but which is but it's still a targeted populated audience it's not like in whole because
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if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went to every single different group every
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cultural race wise all of that those statistics would be so much different but they sit there and
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it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results that they want to get in multiples it's
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like so in multiple cities they're all talking to each other and saying try to get these results
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when are we talking about worldwide so when in the west it's it's like they've done it in different
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cities and it's roughly the same europe but yes uk and us okay so if you look in the uk and us right
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did they sit there and go to the same demographic as far as like hospitals or whatever like did they
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sit there and go to maybe all of the well-to-do hospitals or were they going to the hood as well
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accidents like were they going into every single region coach like different cultural regions to
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get these statistics probably not there was probably one set group that they wanted what numbers would
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you like to go off of that i mean it's like i said it's different i'm a i'm a i'm a black woman so
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the statistics that are given to us is actually one in 23 for black women dating a single black man so
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it's it that's why one in 23 what like as far as like to get a single man one in 23 for black women
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to get a single black man like that's that's what we're looking at 23 women at one man 23 women a
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one man wow for a straight a straight man i thought i thought there it was like 45 percent were single
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child listen in the middle class of black men i could be wrong but i thought it was like 35 to 45
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but a single straight black man single straight black man this is why it's so hard this is why
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so many black women are unmarried and it is hard for us to get by because we are fighting with
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thousands of other women just to get one man well but but this is the problem as women it's like
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we'll kind of blame the men instead of looking at the quality of women because the trend of women not
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getting married is across the board like like i think white women it's 50 percent like and and
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every generation it's coming less and less and less so a lot of times it's like we'll blame the
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men when it's like we don't look at the quality of the women but these are good these are good quality
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women these are doctors these are lawyers these are good but you're looking at the things that like
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men want in like that women want in men like men don't care about your career they don't care if
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you're a doctor they don't care if you're a lawyer they don't care if you make money they just want
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you to be hot but which is true but think about it if you're a man and you have 20 different hot
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women in front of you it's like the hunger games you're literally playing the hunger games to get a
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man these days just i i think that you're kind of removed from the average male's experience dating
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because i i don't think that's the average guy's experience dating at all that what there's many
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women to choose from no the average the average joe definitely there's definitely if you look at
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each man right the average man he's at least probably talking to six women no no you don't
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think no because the data shows the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps
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yeah so so a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life but it is now that's the number one way
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that people are meeting under 30. so what percent of the time do you think women swipe right and say yes
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i'd like to go on a date with this man just swipe just a swipe not even what percent yeah it's
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vanishingly small isn't it like what one in 20 pictures or something like that one in 20 okay what
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do you think no idea i've never been no one but i have actually friends who met on tinder and got
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married okay well what percent what person what the percent of of men do you think oh how many pics
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she swipes until she says yeah what percent um um let's say 35 okay 35 what do you think
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as an avid dating app user i would probably say less than 10 percent is less than 10 what do you
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think yeah i'd say one in 50. it's five percent so if women the number one way people are meeting is
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dating apps and we're only swiping right five percent of the time how is it how is a guy going to talk to
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six chicks at a time because as soon as you walk out your bed yo ma hey ma can i talk to you
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the approach we try to date smarter as women we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's
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easier for us to you know not waste our time in public like some men may be intimidated to come
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up and walk to a woman and be like hey let me come hit on you or whatever like that okay so how how
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many girls how many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number i would say probably
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like if every 15 to 20 girls maybe 15 to 20 are you are you yeah i mean it depends on someone's
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ability and uh you know how much reference they have but i mean if i was out of a guy and see him
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throw it down he's probably going to do 10 interactions till we find one what what kind of average are we
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talking about though are we talking about you know the average for johnny or are we talking about the
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average for all men average guy okay all men how many earners like how many how many women are they
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gonna have to approach to get a number and like they're not gonna you know like there's no there's
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no trickery like yeah oh i've got a well i was gonna parcel that's yours can i borrow your number
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like this is legitimate yeah we know what it's about yeah um i'm working with these guys i'm i mean i
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think that there's well yeah but i i don't think they're average men johnny you've been taking them
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to india to meet the delai lama that's a certain sex but that's not for yeah to be quite honest um i
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think that there are a huge number of men who could walk around asking women for their number for the rest
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of their lives and they wouldn't get one so you said you do this all the time yeah i've had 15 years
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of experience doing okay tell me tell me your experience well i mean you know you've got the
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opportunity to meet someone for the first time as soon as you leave your house and that's we like
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to encourage people to do men or women um when it comes to strategy you've got to have a bit of an
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audit on how you live in your life where you're spending it who you're spending it with and be honest
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is it giving you a good return on your time if not let's move some parts around to get that better
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return on your time who's giving you the access to the demographic that you want
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and also you need to improve your confidence you need to do it you need to start talking to people
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you're going to get shot down it's going to hurt but you're going to get better and then eventually
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you're going to show up as the version that they want to experience of you and that's when you start
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getting a high percentage of of their contact details and i think though there is a real difficulty
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for young men in particular they've been fed these messages that women are all terrified of them
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and a lot of women are actually terrified of them feminism is teaching women that actually in any
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you know if um if a man gets a chance he will want to sa you or whatever yeah um and so yeah boys
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or young men are scared to try because they don't want to scare a woman um and you know if they don't
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try then they're not going to build the confidence they're not going to build the resilience they're
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never going to learn how to do it and it's not only the societal messages we've got you know the force
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of the law behind um you know it's kind of misogyny as a hate crime laws and all of this kind of stuff
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that is threatening and certainly hr departments you know you go and ask one of your colleagues who if
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you're say a man who's not overly confident but he knows this woman because he works with her all the
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time so maybe he could ask her for a coffee if she responds badly and goes to hr he's lost his job
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it's i know i know someone that got kicked out of a gym for looking at a girl the wrong way
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he got kicked out i bet that the evidence was on her phone as she filmed herself for tick tock
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a girl now you know it was crazy she was wearing the sluttiest outfit and so women will wear these
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trashy outfits that clearly men are going to want to look and then they get mad that when they look
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it's like what did you think was going to happen it's like at the gym yeah they do stretches
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overly extensively in your face like me as a girl i i'm like oh my god let just me go but you have to
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do with a man we as women are fighting for equality i know people hate that right i'm not a feminist
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sometimes i do have feminist ways i'm not a feminist but i do believe that you should
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have the right to wear what you want if i want to go i'm going to be hot in the gym right so
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why can't i work out in something that small what am i supposed to wear a sweatpants and a nightgown
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yeah so to work out because men can't control because i respect people you can wear what you
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want but don't whine about the consequences yeah don't tell them oh my god i hate whiners
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it's like okay that's fine go go go dress like a hooker i don't whine when men look i i agree with
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you to an extent but too i don't think women can ever be equal to men never but they need to be we
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can be equal as an understanding we are not the same we should celebrate our differences and our
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similarities and work together as a team and not say oh my god i want to be i don't want to be same like
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dude i want to be me and that is okay just you find your own ways to work as a team and this
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separation of like oh my god let me be like a man but then if he doesn't pay the full bill right when
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he invites me for the dinner i get offended because he asked me to split 50 50 but it's not about that
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i can pay for whole dinner today and he can pay for it tomorrow and it's not about offense it's about
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communication but when you were saying like you're fighting for equality i don't think women can
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ever be equal to men because men will always have to enforce like women will always have to ask men
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to enforce our rights i don't the thing is i don't think women because how how would you enforce it
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so if i said okay i want men to stop um looking at me in the gym how would we enforce that i'd have to
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go to the men and say enforce this you go to women's gym only no but but i'm saying in a society how
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how do you how do you get the gym yeah how do you how do you if i wanted to start a woman's gym then how
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do i how do i start it easy i have to go to come to me i'll help you no no no i'm saying like i have
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to go i have to get a building right how do you get a building the men have to build it so everything