JustPearlyThings - Pearl Explains Why Women Are The Problem

00:00:00.000 percentage of male are virgin under wedding well but women don't but women don't select for that 0.93

00:00:05.840 like women don't give a about a man's virginity true women don't care about purity so it's not 1.00

00:00:10.480 the same stability is what well like dirty most women after a certain age go for yeah but women 1.00

00:00:15.440 still out earn men you know it's funny because women like if we're gonna go for traditional 0.96

00:00:19.440 values like maybe men don't make like enough for one income but they still make more money um than

00:00:26.000 women but i would say most women are more sexually experienced than most men i doubt that this

00:00:33.520 doesn't sound right well because i yeah because i just one out of three men are either virgins or

00:00:39.200 having had sex in the past year i don't see that same trend but i don't see that same trend women 0.96

00:00:43.600 when you when you look at those statistics you got to remember that's just a uh like a small

00:00:48.480 population that they sit there and and you know study and ask these questions so this is not in

00:00:53.920 no they got no they got it from um doctors i think that's how they gathered that data it was

00:00:59.280 from everybody like are you kidding me but we can argue they're lying by 10 but if they do it in

00:01:05.520 multiple cities and they're coming up with the same conclusion in the west you start to see a trend

00:01:10.000 but this is right you know what i'm saying because like like i mean if you want to take like body count

00:01:13.920 statistics for women tend to be way more variable than like men because again they'll do it in different

00:01:19.760 cities to see but which is but it's still a targeted populated audience it's not like in whole because

00:01:26.800 if you actually look at it in whole and you like fairly went to every single different group every

00:01:34.560 cultural race wise all of that those statistics would be so much different but they sit there and

00:01:40.160 it's a certain audience they target so they can get the results that they want to get in multiples it's

00:01:45.600 like so in multiple cities they're all talking to each other and saying try to get these results

00:01:50.320 when are we talking about worldwide so when in the west it's it's like they've done it in different

00:01:55.120 cities and it's roughly the same europe but yes uk and us okay so if you look in the uk and us right

00:02:02.160 did they sit there and go to the same demographic as far as like hospitals or whatever like did they

00:02:08.000 sit there and go to maybe all of the well-to-do hospitals or were they going to the hood as well

00:02:13.680 accidents like were they going into every single region coach like different cultural regions to

00:02:19.600 get these statistics probably not there was probably one set group that they wanted what numbers would

00:02:24.880 you like to go off of that i mean it's like i said it's different i'm a i'm a i'm a black woman so

00:02:31.040 the statistics that are given to us is actually one in 23 for black women dating a single black man so

00:02:37.200 it's it that's why one in 23 what like as far as like to get a single man one in 23 for black women 1.00

00:02:44.880 to get a single black man like that's that's what we're looking at 23 women at one man 23 women a 1.00

00:02:50.160 one man wow for a straight a straight man i thought i thought there it was like 45 percent were single

00:02:56.800 child listen in the middle class of black men i could be wrong but i thought it was like 35 to 45

00:03:01.840 but a single straight black man single straight black man this is why it's so hard this is why

00:03:10.400 so many black women are unmarried and it is hard for us to get by because we are fighting with 1.00

00:03:16.640 thousands of other women just to get one man well but but this is the problem as women it's like 1.00

00:03:21.760 we'll kind of blame the men instead of looking at the quality of women because the trend of women not 1.00

00:03:26.880 getting married is across the board like like i think white women it's 50 percent like and and 1.00

00:03:32.080 every generation it's coming less and less and less so a lot of times it's like we'll blame the

00:03:36.640 men when it's like we don't look at the quality of the women but these are good these are good quality

00:03:40.800 women these are doctors these are lawyers these are good but you're looking at the things that like

00:03:46.080 men want in like that women want in men like men don't care about your career they don't care if 0.96

00:03:51.360 you're a doctor they don't care if you're a lawyer they don't care if you make money they just want

00:03:54.160 you to be hot but which is true but think about it if you're a man and you have 20 different hot

00:03:59.920 women in front of you it's like the hunger games you're literally playing the hunger games to get a 1.00

00:04:04.560 man these days just i i think that you're kind of removed from the average male's experience dating

00:04:12.000 because i i don't think that's the average guy's experience dating at all that what there's many

00:04:17.280 women to choose from no the average the average joe definitely there's definitely if you look at

00:04:24.160 each man right the average man he's at least probably talking to six women no no you don't

00:04:28.960 think no because the data shows the number one way people under 30 are meeting is dating apps

00:04:34.480 yeah so so a lot of people say dating apps isn't real life but it is now that's the number one way

00:04:39.280 that people are meeting under 30. so what percent of the time do you think women swipe right and say yes 1.00

00:04:44.640 i'd like to go on a date with this man just swipe just a swipe not even what percent yeah it's

00:04:49.920 vanishingly small isn't it like what one in 20 pictures or something like that one in 20 okay what

00:04:54.880 do you think no idea i've never been no one but i have actually friends who met on tinder and got

00:05:00.320 married okay well what percent what person what the percent of of men do you think oh how many pics

00:05:05.760 she swipes until she says yeah what percent um um let's say 35 okay 35 what do you think

00:05:13.200 as an avid dating app user i would probably say less than 10 percent is less than 10 what do you

00:05:20.080 think yeah i'd say one in 50. it's five percent so if women the number one way people are meeting is 1.00

00:05:27.600 dating apps and we're only swiping right five percent of the time how is it how is a guy going to talk to

00:05:32.960 six chicks at a time because as soon as you walk out your bed yo ma hey ma can i talk to you 1.00

00:05:38.160 the approach we try to date smarter as women we go on these dating apps a lot of time because it's 1.00

00:05:45.360 easier for us to you know not waste our time in public like some men may be intimidated to come

00:05:50.720 up and walk to a woman and be like hey let me come hit on you or whatever like that okay so how how

00:05:54.480 many girls how many girls does a guy typically have to approach to get a number i would say probably

00:06:00.240 like if every 15 to 20 girls maybe 15 to 20 are you are you yeah i mean it depends on someone's

00:06:07.840 ability and uh you know how much reference they have but i mean if i was out of a guy and see him

00:06:12.720 throw it down he's probably going to do 10 interactions till we find one what what kind of average are we

00:06:18.080 talking about though are we talking about you know the average for johnny or are we talking about the

00:06:24.240 average for all men average guy okay all men how many earners like how many how many women are they 0.97

00:06:30.880 gonna have to approach to get a number and like they're not gonna you know like there's no there's

00:06:35.680 no trickery like yeah oh i've got a well i was gonna parcel that's yours can i borrow your number

00:06:41.280 like this is legitimate yeah we know what it's about yeah um i'm working with these guys i'm i mean i

00:06:48.160 think that there's well yeah but i i don't think they're average men johnny you've been taking them

00:06:54.320 to india to meet the delai lama that's a certain sex but that's not for yeah to be quite honest um i

00:07:03.440 think that there are a huge number of men who could walk around asking women for their number for the rest

00:07:10.640 of their lives and they wouldn't get one so you said you do this all the time yeah i've had 15 years

00:07:17.360 of experience doing okay tell me tell me your experience well i mean you know you've got the

00:07:21.920 opportunity to meet someone for the first time as soon as you leave your house and that's we like

00:07:25.200 to encourage people to do men or women um when it comes to strategy you've got to have a bit of an

00:07:31.120 audit on how you live in your life where you're spending it who you're spending it with and be honest

00:07:37.760 is it giving you a good return on your time if not let's move some parts around to get that better

00:07:42.880 return on your time who's giving you the access to the demographic that you want

00:07:47.520 and also you need to improve your confidence you need to do it you need to start talking to people

00:07:51.920 you're going to get shot down it's going to hurt but you're going to get better and then eventually

00:07:56.480 you're going to show up as the version that they want to experience of you and that's when you start

00:08:00.240 getting a high percentage of of their contact details and i think though there is a real difficulty

00:08:06.960 for young men in particular they've been fed these messages that women are all terrified of them

00:08:13.760 and a lot of women are actually terrified of them feminism is teaching women that actually in any 1.00

00:08:20.320 you know if um if a man gets a chance he will want to sa you or whatever yeah um and so yeah boys

00:08:30.800 or young men are scared to try because they don't want to scare a woman um and you know if they don't

00:08:39.760 try then they're not going to build the confidence they're not going to build the resilience they're

00:08:43.360 never going to learn how to do it and it's not only the societal messages we've got you know the force

00:08:49.360 of the law behind um you know it's kind of misogyny as a hate crime laws and all of this kind of stuff

00:08:55.840 that is threatening and certainly hr departments you know you go and ask one of your colleagues who if

00:09:02.080 you're say a man who's not overly confident but he knows this woman because he works with her all the

00:09:07.920 time so maybe he could ask her for a coffee if she responds badly and goes to hr he's lost his job

00:09:15.200 it's i know i know someone that got kicked out of a gym for looking at a girl the wrong way 0.99

00:09:21.200 he got kicked out i bet that the evidence was on her phone as she filmed herself for tick tock

00:09:26.880 a girl now you know it was crazy she was wearing the sluttiest outfit and so women will wear these 1.00

00:09:33.840 trashy outfits that clearly men are going to want to look and then they get mad that when they look

00:09:39.600 it's like what did you think was going to happen it's like at the gym yeah they do stretches

00:09:43.920 overly extensively in your face like me as a girl i i'm like oh my god let just me go but you have to

00:09:50.640 do with a man we as women are fighting for equality i know people hate that right i'm not a feminist

00:09:55.840 sometimes i do have feminist ways i'm not a feminist but i do believe that you should

00:09:59.520 have the right to wear what you want if i want to go i'm going to be hot in the gym right so

00:10:04.480 why can't i work out in something that small what am i supposed to wear a sweatpants and a nightgown

00:10:09.280 yeah so to work out because men can't control because i respect people you can wear what you 0.51

00:10:14.720 want but don't whine about the consequences yeah don't tell them oh my god i hate whiners 0.98

00:10:20.560 it's like okay that's fine go go go dress like a hooker i don't whine when men look i i agree with 0.92

00:10:29.360 you to an extent but too i don't think women can ever be equal to men never but they need to be we 0.77

00:10:34.720 can be equal as an understanding we are not the same we should celebrate our differences and our

00:10:40.320 similarities and work together as a team and not say oh my god i want to be i don't want to be same like

00:10:45.440 dude i want to be me and that is okay just you find your own ways to work as a team and this

00:10:51.360 separation of like oh my god let me be like a man but then if he doesn't pay the full bill right when

00:10:57.040 he invites me for the dinner i get offended because he asked me to split 50 50 but it's not about that

00:11:02.080 i can pay for whole dinner today and he can pay for it tomorrow and it's not about offense it's about

00:11:06.720 communication but when you were saying like you're fighting for equality i don't think women can 0.99

00:11:12.800 ever be equal to men because men will always have to enforce like women will always have to ask men 0.98

00:11:17.440 to enforce our rights i don't the thing is i don't think women because how how would you enforce it 1.00

00:11:22.320 so if i said okay i want men to stop um looking at me in the gym how would we enforce that i'd have to

00:11:28.640 go to the men and say enforce this you go to women's gym only no but but i'm saying in a society how

00:11:34.560 how do you how do you get the gym yeah how do you how do you if i wanted to start a woman's gym then how 1.00

00:11:39.360 do i how do i start it easy i have to go to come to me i'll help you no no no i'm saying like i have

00:11:45.200 to go i have to get a building right how do you get a building the men have to build it so everything 0.66

00:11:49.920 we do in society relies on men 1.00

JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023

Pearl Explains Why Women Are The Problem

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