Pearl EXPOSED Their Spineless Nature
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the dangers of condom use and how to deal with them in the modern world. We also talk about why we should or shouldn t wear a condom when we have sex and how we should deal with it.
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It's like obesity pandemics through the news, through education.
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Most women, they would have gone to school when they know how the body works.
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You're saying that how would she get better if everybody are wrong?
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As women, we go through life, everybody lies to us.
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They don't tell us that geriatric pregnancy starts at 35.
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They don't tell us that, yay, you're not worth as much as a single mother to the dating market.
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They don't tell us that, hey, when you're fat, you're not valuable.
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When people aren't as attracted to you when you're overweight, they just lie.
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We go through society and everybody lies to women instead of just telling us what it is.
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You can be valuable outside your weight, though.
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If I need gym and my arms smelling, I want somebody to tell me my arms smelling, to be honest.
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It's like the Western world is just greedy in so many different senses.
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But then places like America, the portions they do and stuff, I do think it's important
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that the government do inform people and they do make steps because it is a bit out of hand.
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Do you think it's like, I think it's more on the people, like to inform each other.
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Like, I genuinely think if you really care about someone, you're honest with them.
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And I think it's like easier to just say, oh, you go, girl, instead of saying, hey, no, get on the track.
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Do you genuinely believe that these people do not understand what they're doing?
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And it is all based on reactions from other people.
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Honestly, I'm telling you, like, I'm just making a stupid scenario.
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And I feel really good about myself that I shouldn't wear a condom.
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This girl has been around having sex with other men.
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But I feel good in myself that confident enough, I may not get anything.
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I'm saying as, so, okay, on your point that you're saying.
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And also, we're talking about mentally and physically as well.
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Regardless of what anybody says to you, you, as a grown man, are responsible for your own actions.
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No matter who is saying whatever to you, whatever advice, you are responsible.
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While I agree with that, you didn't say to me that because you feel good,
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As long as you feel good, go ahead and do what you have to do.
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As long as you feel good, go ahead and do what you have to do.
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Because that's not the point that I was actually discussing at the time.
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I was, I, the question that I asked is, do you actually really think that she doesn't understand
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Being a responsible, an adult, I don't know about a responsible adult,
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but being an adult, understanding the consequences of her actions.
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That's what I'm trying to get to is our reaction to it.
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We said that she feels confident, she feels good, and that's all you care about.
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If you feel good, if you feel good about yourself, knowing the risks, if you as a grown man,
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if you know the risks of what you're getting yourself into, it is none of my business to
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be telling you what you should or should not do.
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If it makes you feel good and you're coming to me and say, I feel really great about this,
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And if you see me posting that kind of thing all over social media, you wouldn't feel
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So what are you trying to say is, if you're talking about this woman, you're trying to
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Let me just ask you a question in kind of what you're saying.
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Are you saying that because she's obese, she should hide herself?
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She should feel, oh, I should feel every bit disgusting as much as people think that I am.
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No, no, no, but I'm saying because she's out there, glamorizing herself, feeling good
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about herself, but there's people that are going to be very negative and trying to pin
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her down into a position where she should hide herself, lock herself, and never come
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out and see the day of life because she's so fat.
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It's not what she did, but she could do it in a different way where it could become more
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She's just, she could start a journey that's going to help herself get better, which is
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going to motivate others just like her to get better.
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But based on that, you don't know what she's doing.
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No, but what I'm saying, you're right, but you're missing a point.
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She's showing you that no matter how you look, how dark you are, how white you are, how hairless
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you are, how armless you are, whatever the hell you are.
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Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
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Why would I let anybody else tell me different?
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Let me go back to the scenario that I brought to her.
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Are you going to tell me, do what you have to do?
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But I'm looking at it as a different form of positivity.
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No, no, but we're looking at it visually, physically.
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I'm looking, I'm listening to her, her spiritually.
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We are, you know, saying to everybody in the audience that I feel good.
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So the same way you will tell me, bro, I do advise you to do that.
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It's the same way I'll advise her not to do the same.
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And you wouldn't like me to go promoting out to others.
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Yo, ask all my brothers, listen, feel confident in yourself, feel good on yourself.
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I think the question is though, would you guys encourage your friend to see that there
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Because if this is dualistic, we're talking about two different points in this, because
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we appreciate that she's encouraging everyone, whoever you are, to feel good about yourself.
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But yes, we'd also want to encourage someone in a caring way.
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But in doing this, I'm going to do it without...
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But you're comparing an action to somebody that actually is telling you how they feel.
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No, but I'm just telling you, I feel good about it.
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Reason being, it's because you're saying you feel good.
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But you're also pointing out a very big curveball here.
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You're saying you want to have sex with a girl unprotected because you feel good.
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But how you feel, I can't tell you how you feel is wrong because it's how you feel.
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But I can tell you that what you're about to do isn't a good idea.
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No, that's the same energy that we want to have for her as well.
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But she says, I look good because she thinks she looks good.
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That's also mean that she's going to continue doing what she's doing.
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And posting it and bringing awareness to these people who look like her, to be like her.
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Yeah, but it brings awareness to show that you can love yourself.
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She said as well, she might just feel good that day or be appreciating how she looks that day.
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She's not saying like, guys, I'm obese and I think it's a good thing.
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Like, that's when we get like plus size influencers, plus size models.
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It's not good to have more plus size unhealthy people.
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I disagree with obesity because it is a health issue.
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Would you agree that her heart is actually in a poor condition?
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Don't you think, though, obesity is, the bar of the obesity is a bit low.
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Like, there's people that are classed as obese that aren't that big.
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I think that, actually, most people that are obese don't even know they're obese.
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And I actually think that, like, a lot of girls think they're in shape.
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You could be slim and obese for your height and age.
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No, I think there's, like, a lot of girls, like, it's weird.
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They'll think they're normal size, and I'm like, I'm looking at you.
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What would you consider, like, normal size for a woman?
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Like, obviously, you've got plus size, and you've got, I wouldn't know.
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I mean, you guys' sizes run a little different here, but I would say, depending on a girl's
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I'd just say obesity's body fat percentage is according to how high or low the body fat percentage is.
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But you guys' stuff runs differently, the sizes.
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She has a good big ass, but she's really tiny in the rest of her frame.
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And I think she told me she was classed as obese, which is absolutely mental.
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Yeah, well, and, yeah, not even her legs that much.
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It could be your boobs, you could have massive boobs.
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Some people get in the legs, the bum, the hips.
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It's interesting because it's different opinions and different views.
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And my opinion is I feel like you guys are wrong that think overweight straight away.
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The message that she gave in that video was the fact that she accepts...
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That's how she looks and she feels good about it.
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We also needed a pearl here to be fair because some of us...
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On some subjects, we agreed with each other pretty much.
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I don't think I agreed with a single thing you said tonight.
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Actually, I really appreciate the mentality as well.
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Remember, I was talking about the men in court.
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Yeah, and the greatness about being a single dad.
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We can agree to disagree and it's all opinions, you know what I'm saying?
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There's different walks of life though, do you know what I'm saying?
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You can't judge somebody when you haven't walked their walk.
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I think I'm the nicest because I'm honest about it.
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If body positivity is good, why does it only apply to women?
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If it were a man on TikTok, it would be met with jokes.
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I think I said his last name wrong and I don't want to hear about it.
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The obesity discussion illustrates why women and simps want to be lied to.
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I think he meant asteroid, but it was a spelling error.
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What's traumatizing is listening to that guy on the couch.
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The real reason, the reason why men don't talk about their problems is because women use them
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That's why there's an increase in people going to therapy.
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My fiance used to listen to you and I got a little jealous when he said he agreed with a lot of
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And then I started listening and I became hooked.
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You got, you have helped me become a better wife and a mother.
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Um, I recently put out a video where I learned how to cook for a family of four in a day.
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British Dave East is light skin tatted where pearly whites look and looks like he's six foot
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or more trying to tell himself he'll move to girls that have hit the wall would be,
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Um, David, British Dave East, um, is a light skinned, is he talking about you?
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I don't know who Dave East, I don't know who Dave East is.
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He's a bit above my, I don't know who the Dave East is.
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He is light skinned, tatted and with pearly whites and he looks like he's six foot or more
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trying to tell himself he'll move to girls that have hit the wall the same he would have
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It's because you said you'd date 50 year olds or you would, you would be attracted to them.
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He's saying, yeah, he's a, he's a bit of a capper.
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I like, I like your cool guy, but I just, there's been so much cap tonight.
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It's just been, it's just been like an exhausting, like cap, cap, cappity cap.
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You know, the obese thing between male and females, the reason why it's more celebrated
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than women is because we do have more pressure in terms of the way we look.
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So I'm going to, I'm going to obliterate that with just one fact.
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Who has more pressure when women find 80% of men unattractive and ugly?
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Well, we don't, we don't object to find slate men in the same way that they would.
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Fifty Shades of Grey was a bestseller, let me tell you.
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I've read boys group chats who actually are like, come across as gentlemen and they're crazy.
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Okay, but can we just stick to the beauty standards?
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Wouldn't you agree that if women find 80% of men is ugly, that they have harder beauty standards?
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Not necessarily because men obviously are out there just to, just to have sex sometimes.
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It doesn't mean they'll drop them for a girlfriend.
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I think in most couples, the female is more attractive.
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And I personally think it's the, it works better like that because men are more shallow in terms of looks.
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Men find like half of women is good enough to have sex with.
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So yeah, so it's harder for men to get into a relationship.
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So they have to drop their standards for that bit.
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Do you guys think, maybe not even yourselves, but if you see it in friends.
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Come on, we hear these females talking on Instagram.
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Yeah, I do see that in some of my friends and I don't agree with it.
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That's one of the reasons why I'd purposely would be like 5'7".
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So you think women have higher standards than men?
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Just in general though, like just what they do and like, yeah.
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So can you think of many friends or yourself that would go for girls to be in a relationship
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that are much less attracted to them in stereotypical terms?
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Or do you think it's more, do you see more females going out with men?
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Okay, I'm going to give you, one out of three men are either sexless or that haven't had sex
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No, but if I think about my class at school or my uni, like 100% more than one in three is
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Wait, because your class at school, those men have made it to school.
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No, but I'm saying like they're already of a certain standard to make it into school.
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So like in terms of the UK, school is up before uni, before college.
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When last you guys have been to the club or pub or anywhere, you see how these girls are
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Remember you was talking about you see girls that are 10 and men, you want to know how
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If you go like with a box pack now, you can see most of these girls with men who didn't
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Also, I do think girls sometimes sleep with people just to feel good about themselves or
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Like at the end of the day, girls in general do have lower sex drives than men.
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So like when they're having casual sex, this is my, from my experience, a lot of, and I speak
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to a lot of people, normally gals don't feel very good after.
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Normally they haven't done it for the right reason.
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But the thing is women are sleeping with a smaller and smaller percentage of men because
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So, so like literally throughout all of history, throughout all of time, like historically 17
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women reproduced for every one man 8,000 years ago.
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So it's like, like literally historically monogamy, like there's always been more women to men.
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So it's like now with social media, like women are, are sleeping with a smaller and smaller
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Wait, what were you saying that means that, oh, that they have higher standards in terms
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of, well, cause relationships start with sex nowadays.
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And so like women are more selective with who they have sex with.
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Four or five years ago, you had to wait a year or two years.
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Men, you must say men that just sleep with you.
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We absolutely should be picky with who we sleep with.
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I'm not even saying women shouldn't go for like the best guy.