Pearl Exposes Deluded Feminist
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We discuss cheating within a relationship and how cheating should be dealt with within a marriage. We also talk about cheating in single relationships and what to look out for when dealing with cheating.
Transcript
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I think I'd be all right with cheating, honestly.
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If you could do it in front of me, that'd be fine.
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Now I would be, I'd have to think about certain,
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if it was the first time I'd have to think about that.
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then I don't think he's taking me serious, really.
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I think it's just a play play thing, I wouldn't.
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yep, it's all about, I wasn't looking into a man.
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I'm not saying, you know, there's so much about,
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There is so much around it and I can't just sit here
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But I do know that back then I would have been like, no.
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But I think it's cause I experienced it when I was younger
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If you cheat on me, I swear, I'm never gonna deal with it.
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Like, I just find that like, like, if you're worried about cheating all the time,
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Oh, I don't, I don't know about, no, I don't know.
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I feel like going into a relationship without thinking about cheating
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If you're there thinking about it, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
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I don't feel like that's a deal breaker within marriage.
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I feel like it's something that you can work out as a couple.
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But I feel like it's different for a woman to have sex,
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cheat in a marriage than it is for a man to cheat in a marriage.
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I know it's going to sound so bad, but it is very different.
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Yeah, I think it's something that you can work through.
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Do you feel like, were you able to let it go or did you still bring it up?
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I feel like if a guy's making you feel like inferior to that other woman
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or makes you feel like no self-worth and stuff, then that's really wrong.
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But then, like, if he does it in a way where he kind of just keeps that, like, to himself, like, oh, no.
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I don't know, like, when he starts to wreck the home or say the woman becomes a home wrecker,
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the woman that is, like, flirting with or whatever, and she starts phoning you and abusing you
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and sort of, like, causing disruptions with the home, then I feel that that's, like, really, really wrong.
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If it was a flinging napper, then you'd be like, right.
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I wouldn't be happy about it, but, however, I don't know.
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Well, I've come to the understanding when it comes to cheating, when the male is cheating anyway,
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is that there's a reason why the male has cheated,
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and it's most likely because the female is lacking something within that relation.
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So it can be worked upon if they have that conversation or communicate that,
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and then, obviously, that female is going to feel hurt, or what a case may be.
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If I wasn't lacking anything, and he was cheating for the sake of cheating,
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I know I'm going to get drawn up for this, but I consider myself as a high-quality woman.
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So compared to a lot of females out there, I would see myself as high-quality currently today.
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The things that I lack wouldn't be so much of a big deal to a male.
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That's literally the first thing that would make the man go and cheat, that you're annoying.
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When he can get someone that's just going to say,
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oh, yeah, you're the best man in the world, and then he comes home to you, and you're just being annoying.
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Okay, well, your siblings can be annoying, but you're not going to hate them for it,
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or you're not going to now say they're not your siblings.
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My annoying, I don't mean annoying in the times where you would hate me.
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Obviously, you wouldn't even be with me in the first place.
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But I'm annoying in the sense where, you know, like how your siblings would be annoying,
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There's some aspects of all of us that will, you know, that's annoying to other people.
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But my whole point was, you don't think there's any areas you could improve it.
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And you said, well, I'm annoying, but that wouldn't make him cheat.
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She did say she was going to get drawn out right now.
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Okay, I would say, oh, please save me the draw.
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Like, some men can have their cake, their cherry, and their icing and still cheat.
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And they're still just, they're just them guys that just like going out.
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Yeah, but supposing she's doing none of all those things then,
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and she's doing like, what a wife's supposed to do.
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What if she's doing everything that a wife's supposed to do?
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Well, actually, actually, I'll tell you what she's probably lacking in femininity,
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Well, you just said that men will cheat regardless.
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No, I would say men, I said men, no, no, no, I said men want to cheat regardless.
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And you even said that women should just accept it.
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I said go into the marriage assuming it may happen and try to work through it.
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Yeah, but it's in our biological system to want to reproduce it.
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Therefore, there's more chances for men to cheat.
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Without it being any fault on the woman, it's still...
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There's no more chances for men to want to cheat.
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What you're saying is just how that comes with the male makeup.
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So for a man to actively go out and look for a woman to cheat with
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Either way, my point is for a man to actively go out.
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for him to actually leave his woman who is meant to be, obviously...
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But it's in our makeup, like you're saying, bro.
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but I read this book by a guy who was a pimp in New Orleans,
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because that's how he just saw his environment,
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it doesn't matter what kind of woman he's going to be with.
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But the whole point is most men don't even get the opportunity to do that.
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Like, it's only 15, 20% of men that can really cheat like that.
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It's just a type of quality a woman he's not going to get.
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I went to, like, a pickup artist conference once.
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And this is where, like, men pay thousands of dollars
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to know how to get laid, to learn how to get laid.
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There's one out of three men that are very, very lonely.
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That, like, most women, I think, would be very hard
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So, when I was very young, I was working at Domino's.
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And I saw two people having sex in front of my car on the bonnet.
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And the man was just penetrating her in front of my car.
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So, a guy can have sex if he wants to have sex.