JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES Female Delusion


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8 minutes

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190.5121

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1,684

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143

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Misogyny

34

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Toxicity

3

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15

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In this episode, we discuss how society has made women think they are more valuable than they actually are and why this is a problem. We also talk about how social media has changed the way women think about themselves and how they view their worth.

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00:00:00.000 So what does the average woman bring in 2023? 1.00
00:00:03.480 As I said, average means already that it doesn't bring much.
00:00:06.780 Okay.
00:00:07.400 Okay.
00:00:07.740 So she doesn't bring much.
00:00:09.320 Average people don't bring much to the table, either men or women.
00:00:12.900 Average is already size.
00:00:13.880 I would argue that the average man does bring more to the table in terms of like society.
00:00:19.780 Like 40, you know, half of men have infrastructure jobs.
00:00:22.920 That means one out of every two men you meet is running the infrastructure.
00:00:25.240 Yeah, but you mean bring to the table to society or to the relationship?
00:00:28.640 Well, I'm saying a lot of times average women think they're better than average men. 0.99
00:00:33.000 In society, what they bring to society or in relationship?
00:00:36.660 I would argue that the average man brings more than the average woman to a relationship 0.99
00:00:41.160 because the average man makes more than the average woman,
00:00:44.240 but the average woman is fatter than the average man. 1.00
00:00:47.060 And she's only having requests.
00:00:49.360 The average woman, she will have lots of requests. 1.00
00:00:52.240 What?
00:00:52.720 She will have lots of requests.
00:00:54.160 If she's the average woman? 0.99
00:00:55.320 Yes.
00:00:55.560 She will request, but she will not give what she's requesting.
00:00:59.540 And also, part of what social media has done to our society is,
00:01:03.640 back in the day before social media,
00:01:05.760 it would be usually very hard for a woman to even date outside of her social class. 0.80
00:01:10.820 Back in the days, there was no table.
00:01:12.160 Because she was not going without the husband.
00:01:14.420 Hold on, hold on.
00:01:15.100 The point is, these days, a lot of women think they are more valuable than they actually are. 1.00
00:01:22.680 And I'm not saying that to be this.
00:01:24.320 In terms of a woman who sleep with maybe a celebrity that went in her DM, 1.00
00:01:28.020 and automatically in her head, she thinks that she can only get married to someone on that level.
00:01:33.320 That's true.
00:01:33.980 That is what messes up a lot of women. 1.00
00:01:35.540 The reality is, most of those guys just look at those women as,
00:01:40.280 okay, well, this is better than my hand.
00:01:42.220 But then the woman goes after that, and then she thinks,
00:01:44.660 okay, well, I slept with LeBron James, so now I can only get married to a basketballer. 0.99
00:01:50.840 Meanwhile, she would actually be more equally yoked to get married to like a plumber. 0.99
00:01:55.020 For most women who see themselves as above being married to a plumber.
00:01:58.560 That's the problem with society.
00:01:59.660 Because they are unrealistic.
00:02:01.840 They cannot make the difference between the reality and what they have in their heads.
00:02:07.740 Also, sorry, sorry.
00:02:09.880 Also, the person that goes and sleeps with someone willy-nilly like that,
00:02:13.000 with anyone, whether just because they're a celebrity, is like weird.
00:02:15.460 I wouldn't even say it's willy-nilly.
00:02:16.980 I'd say women date celebrities for a couple months, a year, two years, 0.81
00:02:21.520 and think they're on the level.
00:02:22.920 But usually those celebrities have multiple girlfriends. 0.99
00:02:26.560 So it's just one of many.
00:02:27.900 So it's a hype.
00:02:29.740 So it all sounds like a hype.
00:02:32.120 That's a specific type of woman. 1.00
00:02:33.780 Which is okay.
00:02:34.660 Which is okay.
00:02:35.300 But it's a hype.
00:02:36.060 That's not a lot of women. 1.00
00:02:37.520 That's a certain, that's like a few women. 1.00
00:02:39.160 I would say that's attractive women. 1.00
00:02:41.400 Yeah, but not all attractive women.
00:02:43.120 Not all, but I would say more do than don't.
00:02:45.700 I think it's a mentality type though, right?
00:02:48.480 It's not the same thing.
00:02:49.560 So like to generalize that is really quite sweeping.
00:02:52.260 But we have to talk in generalities.
00:02:54.140 I agree.
00:02:55.240 It's all women because this is the thing. 1.00
00:02:57.060 Every woman, unless the woman is probably, she has mental problems or she has like trauma, 1.00
00:03:03.480 usually women will go after men that are better than them. 1.00
00:03:06.500 The problem is how do you secure that man?
00:03:09.620 So usually what should happen is a woman, if she's getting with this man, she can't secure 1.00
00:03:15.620 him, gets to the next man, and they are all high value men, she should actually look and
00:03:19.300 see why have I not been able to secure any of these men.
00:03:21.900 What is wrong with me?
00:03:22.700 She's probably playing out of my league. 0.99
00:03:25.060 But they wouldn't do that.
00:03:26.040 No, they would rather keep trying to get to the next man who is probably even higher than
00:03:31.140 all the men they've had.
00:03:32.540 So instead of trying to find their level, they are trying to go higher.
00:03:36.060 It's like the same thing with the analogy of the women that go to the husband's store.
00:03:39.520 You go on the first floor, you have men that have like one thing that all women want, 0.99
00:03:44.480 and then you want to go to the next floor.
00:03:46.020 The next floor has the man has something better, and then you keep going until you get to the
00:03:49.920 seventh floor and you find out that there are no men left.
00:03:52.080 That's usually what happens to most women, and I would say most women. 1.00
00:03:55.420 Yeah, that's true, and I agree that social media plays a very big role on that, because
00:03:59.980 if you check like girls and influencers that they get more followers and likes, it's because 0.50
00:04:05.560 they expose their bodies, right?
00:04:07.360 And now the value of someone is measured on how many followers and likes they have, and
00:04:13.600 that's been happening in professional side and also into relationships, right?
00:04:18.900 And I've seen also like men that they will, you know, follow this girl or this or that or
00:04:23.800 like that is going to be who's the hottest.
00:04:25.700 And I have a lot of friends of mine, males, that they really want to be in a relationship
00:04:30.020 and say like, so why are you not?
00:04:31.840 Instead, because there are many options.
00:04:33.700 And there is.
00:04:34.840 So social media, that's why we need to have critical thinking, you know, as a woman, as 0.94
00:04:39.980 a man, what social media is adding value to, and it's brainwashing everyone.
00:04:46.020 So what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023? 1.00
00:04:49.860 First of all, lots of requests.
00:04:52.400 Lots of requests.
00:04:54.020 Lots of requests.
00:04:55.980 No, like when I'm speaking about this, I'm thinking about most of the women that I met
00:05:01.360 in this life, like colleagues, maybe friends, old friends, and I think their level was quite
00:05:09.720 mediocre, but what they were requesting from their partners or from the future partners
00:05:16.860 because they didn't have a partner due to this request and their level.
00:05:21.500 No, this is reality.
00:05:22.720 Like, it's not funny.
00:05:23.880 It's funny in a way, but it's sad because they are not able to make the difference anymore
00:05:29.220 about what I was saying, about the reality and about what they can have.
00:05:34.560 Right.
00:05:35.340 So they request too much.
00:05:36.880 Yeah.
00:05:37.560 Okay.
00:05:37.740 What do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023? 1.00
00:05:41.080 I would say less dependency.
00:05:43.280 There's less need to look after a woman financially now. 1.00
00:05:47.300 There's the two, in fact, combined, they're stronger together.
00:05:52.300 And I think that's the beautiful thing about modern times is that they're more powerful.
00:05:57.660 Do you think that's a good unit?
00:05:59.220 Do you think it's a good thing that women are more independent? 1.00
00:06:02.860 Yes, I think it takes some of the pressure off men.
00:06:05.240 I think men suffer quite a lot from expectation and burden sometimes financially, and that keeps
00:06:11.180 them maybe in jobs that they wouldn't be happy in, perhaps.
00:06:14.340 Who is more likely to leave?
00:06:17.640 A woman that's independent or dependent? 1.00
00:06:20.420 No idea.
00:06:21.000 An independent woman.
00:06:22.760 An independent woman would be more willing to leave. 1.00
00:06:25.020 It's something I want to say.
00:06:26.520 It's the most interesting answer I've heard right now, but actually this is a negative thing
00:06:30.400 when it comes to a relationship because the fact that you can provide this, you can give, that doesn't
00:06:36.640 mean that the man really want that.
00:06:38.540 You understand?
00:06:39.860 It's an interesting answer.
00:06:41.220 No, to be looked after.
00:06:42.220 No, no, no.
00:06:43.220 To be independent.
00:06:44.220 The man will not feel that he's a man anymore if the woman is too independent. 1.00
00:06:52.360 And that's a problem nowadays, because who watches the kids if the woman's independent 1.00
00:06:59.360 and works?
00:07:00.360 Who watches the kids?
00:07:01.360 The men.
00:07:02.360 The nanny.
00:07:03.360 The nanny.
00:07:04.360 The nanny.
00:07:05.360 The nanny.
00:07:06.360 The grandparents.
00:07:07.360 The parents and the grandparents.
00:07:08.360 If a man watching the kids.
00:07:09.360 In a family tree, in a family system, you're not going to trust anybody besides family.
00:07:13.360 No, a kid will be in the hands of the institutions, from the government.
00:07:16.360 Yeah, where do they send them in the UK?
00:07:18.360 School.
00:07:19.360 And?
00:07:20.360 And?
00:07:21.360 Where they will.
00:07:22.360 And?
00:07:23.360 You know the answer.
00:07:24.360 And?
00:07:25.360 School and?
00:07:26.360 Clubs, nurseries.
00:07:27.360 Yeah, nursery.
00:07:28.360 Yeah.
00:07:29.360 What's better for a kid?
00:07:30.360 The parents watching them or the strangers watching them?
00:07:34.360 I mean, I'm going to come here as a teacher now. 0.99
00:07:37.360 I'm going to say that depends because some parents don't do shit with their kids and they literally 0.98
00:07:41.360 just put them behind TV, put them in behind an iPad. 0.97
00:07:43.360 And if they go to like an after school club, there's actually going to be professionals
00:07:47.360 who actually do activities with the children.
00:07:48.360 So some, I know I'm not allowed to say the words, but.
00:07:52.360 Is it the majority?
00:07:54.360 Is it generally better for strangers to watch the kid or the parents?
00:07:58.360 No, the parents.
00:07:59.360 Logically.
00:08:00.360 Generally.
00:08:01.360 But then we're talking about ideal parents.
00:08:05.360 And also, again, it depends location, social things.
00:08:08.360 Of course, we'll always be the parents, but in some cases.
00:08:11.360 In general.
00:08:12.360 In general.
00:08:13.360 In general.
00:08:14.360 It should be parents.
00:08:15.360 It should be the parents I want.
00:08:16.360 Logical.
00:08:17.360 Do you think?
00:08:18.360 It's funny.
00:08:19.360 It's funny.
00:08:20.360 Guys, I'm just curious.
00:08:21.360 In general, who's it better to watch the kids?
00:08:23.360 A stranger or the parents?
00:08:24.360 I'm just curious.
00:08:25.360 Logically, parents, family, anybody that's in the bloodline.
00:08:29.360 Okay.
00:08:30.360 What do you think?
00:08:31.360 What do you think?
00:08:32.360 First of all, I need to say that all the questions are pretty straightforward.
00:08:36.360 We can overcomplicate it as much as we want, but it's like parents.
00:08:39.360 Parents.
00:08:40.360 Parents.
00:08:41.360 It's funny.
00:08:42.360 We'll say women are better communicators. 1.00
00:08:44.360 Come on.
00:08:45.360 This is the most standard question.
00:08:48.360 They can't answer straight questions.
00:08:49.360 I know.