JustPearlyThings - November 08, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES Instagram Baddies

Topics
Instagram and AI girlfriends
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Marilyn Monroe David Beckham Futurama
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Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

214.55

Word count

1,994

Sentence count

207

Harmful content

Misogyny

22

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Toxicity

6

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Hate speech

14

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about AI girlfriends and why we should all be worried about them. We also talk about why women should be more modest and why they should not be required to be so in order for men to get their ideal woman, they need to be willing to take things to the next level.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And if you think things are bad now, wait until there are AI girlfriends out there. 0.99
00:00:03.880 If you think it's hard to get a guy to settle for you now, and same for girls. 0.87
00:00:07.500 Oh, it is right around the corner.
00:00:09.380 And when we talk about prenatalism, I'm like, look, we're playing on easy mode now.
00:00:13.260 Convincing people it's worse, dealing with another human being for the rest of your life,
00:00:17.500 that's going to be dramatically hard to motivate in the near future.
00:00:19.980 We don't like each other, clearly.
00:00:22.260 We don't trust each other.
00:00:24.340 How soon do you see that happening, the AI girlfriends? 0.99
00:00:27.220 It's now.
00:00:27.600 Now.
00:00:28.040 Now they're just not perfect yet.
00:00:30.980 They're just not what?
00:00:31.840 They're just not perfect yet.
00:00:32.920 But, I mean, they're out there now.
00:00:34.460 I'm not telling people to go out there and start dating AI.
00:00:37.480 I think Futurama is their robo-sexuality episode.
00:00:40.860 Marilyn Monroe.
00:00:42.560 It's because you can get everything that you want.
00:00:45.100 You can take everything off, you see?
00:00:46.640 Like, when you get a 10, you want an 11.
00:00:48.540 When you got an 11, you want a 12.
00:00:50.020 Is the equivalent of an AI girlfriend the equivalent to women as Instagram?
00:00:54.420 Because you're getting all the attention that you would have gotten from your husband?
00:01:00.000 From Instagram?
00:01:00.900 Can I do this one?
00:01:01.520 Because I really almost see Instagram as, like, a new religion for chicks. 0.74
00:01:05.480 Yeah.
00:01:06.240 Yeah, because it's like, and this was kind of an interesting thought I had.
00:01:10.020 So, this is why I brought this up.
00:01:11.840 Who here, raise of hands, thinks that women owe society modesty? 1.00
00:01:15.340 Okay, yeah.
00:01:18.120 Okay, no, no, all right.
00:01:19.080 No, no, yes, yes, yes.
00:01:19.840 It's all right, it's all right.
00:01:20.420 No, no, it's all right.
00:01:21.680 So, my thought was, I feel like when you become a wife and a mother, you're supposed to move a little bit differently.
00:01:28.400 You're not really, you know, and I'm not even pro, you know, dressing super provocatively.
00:01:33.960 But, you know, I think back in the day, they'd raise the skirt a little bit, show the ankles.
00:01:38.300 And, you know, it would signal that they were single, right?
00:01:41.860 But now it's like you have women that are married, wives, mothers with children, signaling that they are single when they're in a relationship.
00:01:50.200 Because they settled.
00:01:51.940 Yeah, exactly.
00:01:53.440 I say it like this.
00:01:54.640 If your wife is a feminist, you didn't work hard enough. 1.00
00:01:57.280 And so, there's a really interesting thing about the AI girlfriend.
00:01:59.820 There's a strong correlation here.
00:02:01.020 So, for example, an AI girlfriend, what does that imply?
00:02:03.720 It implies that a man can choose the perfect features, let's say, physically for what he imagines his ideal woman to be.
00:02:08.720 And then also modulates for the personality trait that a woman exhibits towards him. 0.99
00:02:14.360 And he's probably not going to maximize for nagging and hate.
00:02:17.320 He's going to maximize for compliance and loving on a second, right?
00:02:20.520 And so, a question I would ask is, let's say a man without any, like, proliferation of technology or anything like that.
00:02:25.300 How would a man be able to maximize for the ideal physical specimen that treats him the best?
00:02:29.540 What would a man have to do?
00:02:30.420 And I tell my friends this, and I say that your wife or your girlfriend will treat you exactly as good, as just a little better than the next girl that would be available to you.
00:02:42.920 I.e., if you're a low-value man and your wife treats you like crap, the reason she's doing it is because she doesn't believe you have better options in the marketplace. 0.84
00:02:50.900 Otherwise, the market would steal you away from her. 0.98
00:02:52.680 Does that make sense?
00:02:53.220 So, in the past, in order for a man to iterate up to the point that he gets his ideal woman, he would have to be an ideal man. 0.69
00:03:00.140 So, for example, if you're David Beckham and you're ridiculously good at sports, like you've worked your ass off to do that, and you've kept yourself in shape and you've kept yourself in a straight line, you get to pick a Spice Girl, right?
00:03:10.660 Right.
00:03:10.980 But with the AI model, again, we eliminate the desperation because the man can have what they want without paying the prices that they owe to society to get what they want.
00:03:18.480 And this is why religions often augment this with negative externalities from moving between partners.
00:03:25.400 This is why, in most traditional religious cultures, they'll say, oh, you left your wife.
00:03:30.500 Now, your value on the market is, like, super, super low because you're an oath-breaker.
00:03:34.680 Do you know that this also explains why 95% of billionaires and 89% of millionaires are married?
00:03:40.080 Because the negative repercussions of leaving your spouse shows the other men in the community that you're untrustworthy, and then you lose the business.
00:03:45.720 So, people think that, like, the rich guys do all the bad stuff.
00:03:48.020 There is some of that.
00:03:48.880 But 95% of billionaires and 89% of millionaires are married because of maintaining the social norm to maintain trust within their community.
00:03:55.280 But this also comes to modesty.
00:03:56.340 The reason I didn't raise my hand when you say, do women owe society modesty? 0.90
00:03:59.460 Women owe their husbands or future husbands modesty. 0.97
00:04:03.340 That is the person who will suffer most for your immodesty.
00:04:06.900 I don't think it's something you owe society or even yourself.
00:04:09.740 It's something you owe the person who is going to dedicate their life to you.
00:04:13.080 And you will get a lower-quality partner if you do not.
00:04:16.800 Like, it hurts you.
00:04:17.640 Well, I actually, I think children deserve a world where they're not seeing private parts.
00:04:22.220 Sorry, I know maybe you liked it.
00:04:24.420 Sorry, I don't know.
00:04:26.180 But I just, that's what I think.
00:04:28.000 I just think you should have a culture that does not reward.
00:04:31.620 And really, I think we should shame, you know, especially when you're married.
00:04:36.900 Like, that's the biggest thing.
00:04:37.960 I think when you're married, you're supposed to move differently than when you are not.
00:04:41.560 So, I decided let's do some social shaming.
00:04:44.820 So, I want us to decide.
00:04:46.500 I want us to decide as a group.
00:04:48.640 I had some comments on some of these pictures.
00:04:52.500 And I want us, for posting as a wife and a mother, I want you to raise your hand if you think that this is wrong or right.
00:05:00.960 Like, I'm going to, we're going to show the picture, okay?
00:05:03.160 Here we go.
00:05:03.920 Well, no, I just want to, I want to know the rules of, like, when you're married.
00:05:07.400 Is this appropriate for a wife and a mother or inappropriate? 0.52
00:05:10.880 Okay, let's pull it out.
00:05:11.900 The answer is no.
00:05:13.020 Okay, so number one.
00:05:14.860 All right.
00:05:15.320 I want to, I want to hear from the men first.
00:05:17.400 Would you be okay with your wife posting this?
00:05:21.560 Who wants to go first?
00:05:22.460 To be honest, if she's in a hot country and I'm topless and I look good as well next to her, then why not?
00:05:29.740 No, no, just this one.
00:05:30.720 Just this one?
00:05:31.220 Just herself.
00:05:31.860 So, the question is?
00:05:33.100 I didn't say the picture with you.
00:05:34.860 I said this one.
00:05:35.920 This girl?
00:05:36.700 Yes.
00:05:37.800 Okay, what's the specific question about this picture?
00:05:40.300 No, the question is, like, you added a caveat where you're in the picture.
00:05:44.940 I'm saying you're not in the picture.
00:05:46.260 If I'm not in the picture, is that appropriate for my wife to dress like that? 1.00
00:05:49.740 If she's not dressed like that, to post this picture on Instagram.
00:05:53.860 Personally, I wouldn't want her to.
00:05:55.540 Okay.
00:05:56.540 What do you think?
00:05:58.000 I mean, she's on holiday.
00:06:00.080 She's not really doing nothing crazy.
00:06:02.220 I'm fine with that.
00:06:03.040 You're fine with this one?
00:06:04.080 Personally.
00:06:04.280 For her to post it?
00:06:05.820 On Instagram, personally.
00:06:06.400 Okay, you're fine with this one.
00:06:10.000 I don't know, man.
00:06:11.880 I think, I'm going to say no.
00:06:16.140 No?
00:06:16.800 Okay, what do you think?
00:06:18.020 Honestly, I have more trouble with the tan than the swimsuit.
00:06:20.620 A tan is a sign of vanity that shows that you've traded years of your life to show off to other people on social media.
00:06:27.700 Okay, so the tan would do it for you.
00:06:30.500 Well, I don't like vanity that costs you your health because that's what your kids rely on.
00:06:35.880 Yeah, I don't even, it's not even about the swimsuit.
00:06:38.560 It's about, like, what are you posting it for?
00:06:41.260 It's a cry for help.
00:06:42.740 What we're missing, she clearly has an eating disorder. 1.00
00:06:45.140 This woman needs help. 1.00
00:06:46.460 She's asking for help.
00:06:48.340 And she looks like she gems.
00:06:50.080 Yeah.
00:06:50.800 I think she's like a bodybuilder. 1.00
00:06:54.320 You can tell she does that vacuum. 0.99
00:06:55.560 You can tell she does that vacuum with the stomach. 1.00
00:06:58.200 You can tell she does that vacuum thing with her stomach. 1.00
00:07:00.060 I don't know.
00:07:00.160 But I'm more just asking, like, okay, raise of hands.
00:07:03.000 Who thinks this is appropriate for a wife and a mother? 0.94
00:07:05.940 No wife and a mother. 0.97
00:07:06.620 My wife doesn't have the time to do this kind of stuff because she's trying to make the world a better place. 1.00
00:07:09.660 She's not in the bedroom.
00:07:10.860 Okay, so.
00:07:11.440 I think her wife took that photo.
00:07:12.460 I want to hear from you three.
00:07:13.540 Why do you think this is appropriate for a wife and a mother?
00:07:15.880 I don't feel like there's anything wrong with the picture.
00:07:18.400 I think she looks good.
00:07:19.460 She's mind their business. 0.99
00:07:20.480 She's clearly on holiday or somewhere tropical or something.
00:07:22.920 Even if that's her backyard, she's got a nice house.
00:07:24.300 But I feel like because of the nature of the picture, it doesn't look inappropriate.
00:07:29.240 Whereas if she was just somewhere, I don't know, in ends or just in, like, underwear, like a Savage X Fenty kind of pose, then, yeah, cool.
00:07:38.420 I would say that's more sexualized.
00:07:39.880 That's fine.
00:07:40.700 Okay, what do you think?
00:07:41.940 I think based on 2023 standards, this is normal.
00:07:45.120 Yeah.
00:07:45.380 What mother does not do this online to show their combat body and how great they are as moms? 0.99
00:07:50.420 They look sexy.
00:07:51.600 They have kids, this and that.
00:07:52.760 I don't think it offends anybody.
00:07:55.540 Obviously, a stomach kind of offends me because how do I get that?
00:07:59.460 But, like, it doesn't really offend me.
00:08:01.680 But obviously, I don't have kids yet, so I can't really speak on it.
00:08:04.340 I think if I had kids and I had to, I was thinking, oh, I want to feel, dude, I want to post it.
00:08:09.080 But I don't know.
00:08:09.820 I'd actually just choose my kids and be like, you know, forget it.
00:08:12.540 What do you think?
00:08:13.100 It's not lingerie.
00:08:14.500 She's not in a bedroom.
00:08:15.820 She's not over-sexualizing herself. 0.98
00:08:17.940 She's not even sucking on that straw the way some females would. 1.00
00:08:21.920 So, for me, that is completely appropriate.
00:08:24.980 Is she posting it because she looks good and she wants attention? 0.74
00:08:27.600 Probably.
00:08:28.680 Is she pushing her chest out?
00:08:30.180 Yeah.
00:08:30.660 But if she's with a secure man, that's really not going to faze him.
00:08:34.440 That's what females do. 1.00
00:08:35.080 It's not about being a secure man.
00:08:36.320 No way.
00:08:36.600 It is, though, because you're worried that she's posting something.
00:08:39.020 You're worried that she's going to get DMs and likes and attention. 0.97
00:08:41.780 You don't want your woman to listen. 1.00
00:08:42.960 I have a question.
00:08:44.760 Why would you put yourself in a situation where you can get DMs and likes from other men?
00:08:51.720 Why would you put yourself in that situation?
00:08:53.800 Because she's not going, oh, I'm posting this for men.
00:08:56.880 She's genuinely going, she's posting it for herself.
00:08:59.160 But when you post something, you know other men will see it. 0.99
00:09:02.080 But you can post a picture of yourself and attract someone to get shit out of it. 0.97
00:09:04.900 We can take the comments. 0.95
00:09:05.880 No, but I'm saying when you post something, when you post something, you know other men will see it.
00:09:10.820 Yeah.
00:09:11.160 So why would you, when you are a wife and a mother, why would you put yourself in a situation like that?