JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


Pearl EXPOSES This EVIL SECRET Behind Child Custody


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In this episode we talk about feminism and why it's not fair. We also talk about the women's shelter system and why men should get custody of their kids. We discuss the difference between a feminist and a non-femalephile.

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00:00:00.000 Feminists, like, they know what they're doing, the women writing these laws, because the thing is, like, I even hear at women's shelters, they tell women what to say in court. 1.00
00:00:08.820 So there's a whole system where, like, the women's shelters have all these feminists in them that have all been trained by the same, like, doctrine, basically. 1.00
00:00:16.020 And it's in the schools, too.
00:00:17.300 It's all same people.
00:00:19.680 And so the women go to the women's shelters, and they have a whole storyline for you for what you should say about your husband. 0.91
00:00:27.160 So if he's Nigerian, they'll give you one story. 1.00
00:00:30.640 Oh, they're controlling their, they're this.
00:00:32.260 If he's from India, they'll give you another. 1.00
00:00:34.520 Is this really true?
00:00:35.700 Yes.
00:00:36.080 I've seen court documents of, I mean, the women's shelter is hearsay.
00:00:41.140 I'll say that's just based on, you know, you meet 10 people with the same story.
00:00:45.120 Yeah.
00:00:45.540 You start to think, okay, maybe there's something there.
00:00:48.060 So they do this so that they can get custody of the children.
00:00:49.900 Correct.
00:00:50.260 Because the women's shelters, it's all like a money scheme, basically. 1.00
00:00:54.280 The women's shelters, like, are paid by getting the women the kids. 1.00
00:00:59.300 So they have a monetary incentive to go to court and help them win so they get more women. 0.99
00:01:04.360 It just blows my mind.
00:01:05.640 So should it not be fair so, like, the kid goes to, you know, whoever is the best parent or, like, 50-50?
00:01:11.140 So, yeah, why aren't feminists that say they're feminists, why don't they want 50-50 custody off the bat? 1.00
00:01:16.880 And the funny thing...
00:01:17.280 I feel like, as a feminist, though, that's what I would want. 1.00
00:01:19.740 You would think, right?
00:01:21.080 Yeah.
00:01:21.440 But I'm telling you, there's no... 0.99
00:01:23.200 You see a slut walk, but I don't see a give men their kids walk. 1.00
00:01:27.500 But I feel like feminists do care about... 1.00
00:01:29.340 I mean, me anyway, I care about those kind of issues as well.
00:01:32.740 So why aren't you speaking about them then?
00:01:34.980 Well, I'm speaking about them right now, my God.
00:01:36.940 So, did you ever hear the stat that men only get custody of their kid 10% of the time?
00:01:43.820 I think maybe, yeah, I've heard something similar.
00:01:45.580 I don't know if I knew that it was that low.
00:01:47.360 Yeah.
00:01:47.640 And I do think that that is really unfair.
00:01:49.540 And I feel like it should be more equal.
00:01:50.980 But my thing is, if feminists really cared about it, we would see movements on their side. 1.00
00:01:55.400 Yeah, and I wish that there was.
00:01:56.380 Like, me as a feminist, I would love to see a movement about that as well. 1.00
00:01:59.100 You could start one.
00:02:00.160 Maybe I should, yeah.
00:02:01.060 Guys, come on, come and get on my movement. 0.70
00:02:02.720 But this is the problem you're going to face, is all of the feminists are paid off of this system. 1.00
00:02:07.900 Right, okay.
00:02:08.400 All of these systems, like, there's money going into it.
00:02:10.680 I just feel like they're not real feminists then, in my opinion. 0.99
00:02:13.400 No, I think they're exactly the real feminists. 1.00
00:02:15.520 Because I'm telling you, that book over there, that's one of my books.
00:02:19.160 Yeah.
00:02:19.600 It goes through, like, all of the ways, like, feminists have come in and changed the definition of laws. 1.00
00:02:25.160 And it gives women power. 1.00
00:02:26.640 But then to me, that's not a real feminist.
00:02:29.160 Well, the question is, like, what's a real feminist? 1.00
00:02:31.440 Yeah, so I guess somebody that does believe in equality, but for both sides, and about choice.
00:02:36.380 And it's more, I guess, obviously, men and women are different.
00:02:39.160 But I believe that we should be treated in a way that's fair, you know, with taking into account our differences as well.
00:02:45.020 What is fair?
00:02:47.760 Can you give me, like, an example?
00:02:49.180 No, like, what is the fairness that they're looking for?
00:02:52.040 Well, I just, I guess so that, you know, we're on an equal playing field.
00:02:56.600 Okay, how do we get on an equal playing field?
00:02:59.680 How do we get on an equal playing field?
00:03:01.660 I honestly don't know.
00:03:02.960 Like, I feel like, you know, maybe certain laws need to change, maybe the way that people have viewed needs to change.
00:03:08.780 Like, obviously, with this example, you know, with, like, men only get in custody 10% of the time, maybe it is a case of going back in and rewriting the wording of these laws to make it more fair.
00:03:19.640 So, yes, but what have feminists done? 1.00
00:03:23.980 What have they done?
00:03:25.240 Yes.
00:03:25.800 What do you mean, what have they done?
00:03:27.020 I'm saying the feminists have changed the laws. 1.00
00:03:29.480 But is it feminists that have done that? 1.00
00:03:30.920 Yes.
00:03:31.000 Is that real feminists that believe in equality? 1.00
00:03:33.140 Yes.
00:03:33.380 I would say yes.
00:03:34.720 Yes.
00:03:35.360 I can pull up their names.
00:03:36.880 You know what's so funny about what she's saying?
00:03:38.940 Like, I understand where she's coming from, but it's not her fault.
00:03:41.780 It's like, it's, it's, that's how propaganda works, isn't it?
00:03:44.920 Yeah.
00:03:45.400 So, for example, the Nazis that fought in the world war, if you were to interview all of them, they actually thought they were fighting for a good cause.
00:03:55.520 Oh, yeah.
00:03:57.580 But the real Nazis that were pushing it, they had their nefarious agenda in it. 0.82
00:04:01.980 So it's kind of like the same thing.
00:04:03.720 She thinks she's the real feminist, but your, what you think is feminism is what has been put in your head to kind of distract you from what is actually going on. 1.00
00:04:13.160 Yeah, I understand what you're saying.
00:04:14.820 And I think there's obviously bad and good in everything.
00:04:17.860 I wouldn't say that I agree with, you know, all feminists, but my version of feminism, I guess, is that it's about equality. 0.99
00:04:25.900 I think, I think men and women cannot be equal. 1.00
00:04:28.580 I think that's where we go wrong.
00:04:30.200 And why, why do you think that?
00:04:31.240 Because men are superior. 0.96
00:04:32.800 You think that men are superior to women? 0.73
00:04:34.500 Yes.
00:04:35.000 Name one thing women are better at than men. 0.99
00:04:38.800 Taking care of children. 0.94
00:04:40.280 They're more likely to kill infants. 0.74
00:04:42.500 Right.
00:04:43.320 Yeah, I guess.
00:04:44.060 And single mother homes have way worse numbers than single father homes.
00:04:47.820 Single father home stats are better than women. 1.00
00:04:50.520 Okay.
00:04:51.200 What about being nurses?
00:04:52.480 I swear, like, isn't it like 90% of nurses are female? 1.00
00:04:55.880 How, what's, what's higher, a nurse or a doctor?
00:04:59.160 A doctor.
00:04:59.920 Okay.
00:05:00.280 Who, who's more doctors?
00:05:01.720 I don't know.
00:05:02.160 You tell me the statistics.
00:05:03.260 Men, men, okay.
00:05:04.240 I think women actually are. 1.00
00:05:06.720 Because I think even if it's higher, it doesn't mean that it's less important.
00:05:10.140 But, but, but it, yes, it does.
00:05:11.820 Yes, it does.
00:05:12.240 Do you think?
00:05:13.240 But see, this is what feminism does. 1.00
00:05:14.960 It says, even if you're better, we're still equal.
00:05:17.940 Right.
00:05:18.420 But a brain surgeon is better than a nurse. 0.98
00:05:21.060 Yeah.
00:05:21.380 Like objectively.
00:05:22.360 But I still think that it can be important as well.
00:05:25.540 So we're not saying not important, but I'm saying, what are women better at?
00:05:32.360 I feel like it's hard because it's like such a broad question.
00:05:35.320 It's okay.
00:05:35.720 It's okay.
00:05:35.800 You've never thought about it.
00:05:37.240 Yeah.
00:05:37.480 Because I use, I, I've genuinely for months been trying to find something.
00:05:41.240 I mean, I've never, I've never thought about what men are better at, but I can name a few.
00:05:49.000 So wait, what would you say that men are better at then?
00:05:51.660 Everything.
00:05:52.280 But like what?
00:05:52.840 Give, give me an example.
00:05:54.220 Um, building the buildings, paving the roads.
00:05:57.220 Oh, I know.
00:05:57.800 I've got a good one, right?
00:05:58.680 So I feel like we're, men do all the, all the infrastructure, right?
00:06:02.120 Yes.
00:06:02.440 Women, we kind of are the biggest consumers. 1.00
00:06:05.060 So I feel like we influence culture more.
00:06:07.900 So maybe that's our strength.
00:06:08.980 And how, and did we do, and what has the world come to?
00:06:12.820 Yeah, so you're going to say, oh, you're going to say, oh, great, it's terrible.
00:06:15.220 So it's our fault.
00:06:16.640 Yes.
00:06:17.140 Yes.
00:06:17.420 I think, I think the culture right now is worse than a hundred years ago, I would say, because
00:06:21.840 I think family is more important than individuality.
00:06:24.700 Yeah.
00:06:25.100 And I think right now it's all about like me.
00:06:26.920 Yeah.
00:06:27.680 And I think that's what women have done to the culture. 1.00
00:06:30.300 I think when women are guided by men, we can be great wives and mothers and be very
00:06:35.580 great for the culture.
00:06:37.040 Yeah.
00:06:37.620 But without men.
00:06:39.060 All hell breaks loose.
00:06:40.220 Yeah.
00:06:40.380 I think the natural order of thing is God, men, women. 0.92
00:06:44.940 I think women are below men. 1.00
00:06:46.620 Wow.
00:06:47.580 And I don't even say this for months.
00:06:49.760 I've been trying to think of one thing.
00:06:52.280 Yeah.
00:06:52.760 And I, and I don't, I don't mean.
00:06:54.280 You can't think of one thing that women are better at. 1.00
00:06:56.340 No.
00:06:56.700 And it's not to say that women are bad at things. 1.00
00:06:58.500 Yeah.
00:06:58.720 I can think of great women, smart women, great wives and mothers. 1.00
00:07:02.500 But the point is that men will always figure out a way to do things better.
00:07:07.120 Literally.
00:07:07.640 The only thing women are better at men at, are things that men can't do. 1.00
00:07:11.860 So for instance, giving birth. 0.62
00:07:13.480 But you see, even that, which women are supposed to be so good at, they are really doing a terrible 1.00
00:07:18.640 job at doing that because the birth rate is dropping.
00:07:20.840 Yeah.
00:07:21.020 It's like below replacement.
00:07:22.600 Yeah.
00:07:22.760 So, so my, my, the whole premise of feminism is that we're equal. 1.00
00:07:28.880 And my, my thing is we cannot be equal because men pay the majority of the taxes. 1.00
00:07:33.460 They do all of the hard jobs in society.
00:07:36.060 Yeah.
00:07:36.660 They, they make the majority, they pay the majority of the taxes.
00:07:40.840 They do the majority of the hard jobs.
00:07:42.640 Um, they run the biggest employers in the United States or UK.
00:07:48.000 So I think it makes sense that they get more of a say.
00:07:54.040 Right.
00:07:54.540 Yeah.
00:07:54.960 That that's my thing.
00:07:56.200 And I think that like the premise that men and women are equal is lying to women because 1.00
00:08:00.800 we are not equal.
00:08:01.720 They do everything better objectively.
00:08:03.860 Right.
00:08:04.380 I was thinking cooking.
00:08:05.360 And then I looked up the top Michelin chefs. 0.99
00:08:07.340 I was like, damn it. 0.99
00:08:07.940 Oh no. 1.00
00:08:09.280 Another one.
00:08:10.360 And I, I couldn't, I for months.
00:08:12.640 I've been trying to find one thing.
00:08:15.160 I I've heard that women can detect facial, um, like, like, um, emotion better than men.
00:08:23.460 Yeah.
00:08:23.840 Yeah.
00:08:24.060 From a psycholo, yeah.
00:08:24.940 From a psychological perspective, there must be loads of things like that.
00:08:28.020 Yes.
00:08:28.260 And so you would think we would dominate and make money off of that, but we don't.
00:08:33.260 The top salesmen are still men.
00:08:35.540 It's like, what am I supposed to like?
00:08:38.180 Maybe we should just all go home and be stay at home wives then after all. 1.00
00:08:41.720 Well, you know, society works better that way.
00:08:44.780 I'm not saying everyone should do that.
00:08:46.220 There's always been high IQ women in history that have been very influential and have done
00:08:50.240 really great things.
00:08:50.920 I guess it's individualistic as well.
00:08:52.480 Obviously you can make generalizations.
00:08:53.940 So generally, okay, maybe men are better at all of these other things, but there's got
00:08:57.900 it.
00:08:58.060 There's got to be individual women. 1.00
00:09:00.060 There have been individual women that are high IQ in history that men have even traveled
00:09:05.020 for miles to like get wisdom from or whatever.
00:09:08.760 Is there probably, she's probably talking rubbish anyway, but there's always been high IQ women 1.00
00:09:14.960 in history.
00:09:15.500 But the thing is, most of the women making a lot of money monetize beauty in some way. 1.00
00:09:19.360 Me and you are both in entertainment that's monetizing beauty.
00:09:21.920 Yeah, of course.
00:09:22.460 It's a lot easier for me or you to blow up than it is for a guy. 0.97
00:09:25.540 Yeah, 100%.
00:09:26.080 And I know this because I've managed men and women.
00:09:28.380 Gosh, women are so much easier. 1.00
00:09:30.280 It's so much easier.
00:09:31.420 So it's like the industries that we dominate in aren't based on competence.
00:09:36.700 It's based off of beauty.
00:09:38.160 Right.
00:09:38.520 That is a hard pill to swallow, isn't it?
00:09:42.400 I don't say this.
00:09:43.320 But then do you think that that's because of the way that society is and because it is
00:09:47.240 kind of a man's world?
00:09:48.840 Do you think that that's the reason?
00:09:50.420 I think if women could make it a woman's world, we would have built a world. 1.00
00:09:54.200 Right.
00:09:54.560 So you think that we would have done that by now?
00:09:56.200 Correct.
00:09:56.520 I think we've had thousands of years to build a world and we couldn't do it.