JustPearlyThings - October 19, 2023


Pearl Gets CORNERED With This Question

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Pearl McKenzie Bezos Kim Kardashian Casey Anthony Steve Jobs Elon Musk Ted Bundy Homeless Barbaric Malik James
Pearl’s Message To Jada Pinket Smith Women Are Manipulative And Spiteful

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26

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In this episode, I sit down with my good friend, Nat, to discuss controversial comments that she has made in the past and how they have been taken out of context. She is a true believer and stands by every word she has ever said.

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00:00:00.000 You've made some comments that some people deem controversial, right?
00:00:03.460 You've talked about gender.
00:00:04.560 You've talked about women.
00:00:05.620 You've talked about fat shaming, necessarily, society, religion.
00:00:11.480 There's some things that you've said that people have vehemently disagreed with.
00:00:15.660 And then some people, they're like, hell yeah, Pearl nailed it.
00:00:19.160 Someone needed to say it.
00:00:20.820 That's kind of how the way it works is when you take a stance on something,
00:00:23.960 you're going to have allies and then you're going to have people basically forming sort of in the enemy camp.
00:00:28.860 But we also know, especially with social media and YouTube and long-form content,
00:00:35.940 that short clips and little reels and clips can be taken out of context, right?
00:00:40.720 So you've said a lot of things.
00:00:42.660 Out of everything you've said, what do you think has been the most misconstrued about you?
00:00:48.180 And if there's anything you would walk back, what would it be?
00:00:52.220 If there's anything I'd walk back, I can't really think of much.
00:00:56.900 You stand by all your statements.
00:00:59.860 Um, I don't know.
00:01:01.160 It's tough because I've said so many things, but there's nothing that really comes to the top of my head, you know.
00:01:08.140 Um, hmm.
00:01:11.420 I would say one of the most misconstrued things is people think I hate women. 0.99
00:01:15.500 That's like something I get 24-7.
00:01:18.120 But I think, you know, we can't really have progress if we're not honest.
00:01:23.160 So I just, I'm all about honesty.
00:01:25.500 Got it.
00:01:25.860 So why do you think people think you hate women? 1.00
00:01:28.920 Oh, because I say things like women are dumber than men. 1.00
00:01:32.720 Yeah. 1.00
00:01:33.980 And you stand by that?
00:01:35.200 Oh, yeah.
00:01:35.580 Yeah, yeah.
00:01:35.860 So, okay.
00:01:37.100 So women are- 1.00
00:01:37.800 I just look at the top women and the top men. 0.99
00:01:40.180 It's like Kim Kardashian or Elon Musk.
00:01:42.540 Right.
00:01:43.020 Like, what conclusion am I supposed to come to when literally all the female billionaires, 1.00
00:01:47.820 like, tend to be billionaires through sex work.
00:01:51.260 Or through divorce.
00:01:52.420 Exactly.
00:01:53.040 Yeah, we're the man.
00:01:53.540 Mackenzie Bezos.
00:01:56.340 Steve Jobs' wife.
00:01:57.640 The list goes on and on and on.
00:01:58.780 Yeah.
00:01:59.160 So, you know, some people take that offensively.
00:02:02.460 And I mean it.
00:02:03.440 So, yeah.
00:02:04.440 You can be mad.
00:02:05.460 So, you're not walking anything back.
00:02:08.260 Stand by your statements.
00:02:09.180 That's how you know you're a true believer.
00:02:10.440 You're like, ah, I wish I could have a mulligan and take that thing back.
00:02:13.600 But the biggest-
00:02:14.380 I'm sure there is something.
00:02:15.260 I talk so much.
00:02:16.460 I just can't think of it now.
00:02:17.960 No doubt.
00:02:18.240 You know what I mean?
00:02:18.700 But the biggest misconception is that you hate women.
00:02:21.220 Yeah.
00:02:21.580 But you're saying that you don't.
00:02:23.180 But how do you feel about women?
00:02:26.260 I just think the last hundred years, you know, we've been given more freedom than ever.
00:02:30.400 And we've made terrible choices as a group.
00:02:32.720 You know, I just think when you look at the numbers, you can't really dispute that.
00:02:36.180 Right?
00:02:36.340 So, a hundred years ago, 85% of women are virgins. 0.72
00:02:39.920 Now we have more OnlyFans models than teachers.
00:02:42.340 You know what I mean?
00:02:46.260 Like, what conclusion am I supposed to come to when I look at these numbers?
00:02:49.780 Got it.
00:02:50.000 What else do you think are women getting terribly wrong in modern society? 1.00
00:02:53.440 I would just say women typically want a lot of freedom without the responsibility that 1.00
00:02:59.660 comes with it.
00:03:00.440 I don't have any problem with, you know, women having freedom, but you should also have the 1.00
00:03:05.560 responsibility that comes with it.
00:03:07.540 That's why women shouldn't vote, because they don't want to do the infrastructure jobs. 1.00
00:03:11.340 They don't want to be net taxpayers, and they want to take money from men through divorce
00:03:15.800 and alimony.
00:03:16.440 And I think if you're going to do that, most women do, I think you should not be able to 1.00
00:03:20.660 vote.
00:03:21.280 Yes.
00:03:21.800 Got it.
00:03:22.420 Which is also something we're going to discuss today.
00:03:24.700 Yeah.
00:03:25.040 So, Nat.
00:03:25.880 Yes.
00:03:27.360 News flash, you're a woman. 1.00
00:03:29.320 Yes, I am.
00:03:30.040 Okay.
00:03:30.560 So, we're going to get into a lot of stuff today. 0.99
00:03:33.540 When Pearl says things like, look, you're just, you're dumber than me, Nat. 0.96
00:03:37.700 I mean, that's not a crazy controversial topic, to be honest with you. 0.96
00:03:41.100 She also says someone like you shouldn't vote.
00:03:43.340 How do you process that as a woman?
00:03:44.800 Sure, I think she's smarter than some guys, though.
00:03:47.180 Yeah.
00:03:47.660 Okay.
00:03:48.040 Here's my thing, is that I'm not going to compare a man to a woman. 0.73
00:03:52.240 You know, they're meant to be doing different things.
00:03:55.320 So, for you to say, oh, a man is stronger than a woman, or a man is smarter than a woman, 0.99
00:03:59.180 and, you know, as essentially a man's resources and the things they have to do, it does give
00:04:05.300 them the skills to be smarter.
00:04:06.900 They're supposed to be smarter.
00:04:08.100 They're leading.
00:04:08.960 They're guiding.
00:04:09.620 So, like, things like that, I'm also considering, like, certain things don't trigger me because
00:04:13.900 I may not feel like I'm in that boat of, like, I'm arguing with a man, like, if they're smarter
00:04:19.240 with me.
00:04:19.960 Now, men are more resourceful, for sure.
00:04:22.300 There's a point of truth, which is supposed to be, like, biologically, but at the end of
00:04:28.700 the day, a woman's role is completely different than a man.
00:04:30.720 So, for me, it's like, you know, that's kind of just your...
00:04:33.080 Have you ever seen that episode of Survivor where they put, like, a bunch of women on an island
00:04:38.500 and a bunch of men on an island?
00:04:39.780 How does it go?
00:04:40.640 And the men are, like, they have, like, a whole system running within a day.
00:04:44.060 Yeah, they're like, yay, there's, like, a fire going, like, they're resourceful.
00:04:47.500 And the women, basically, had to be rescued. 0.90
00:04:49.420 Yeah.
00:04:50.280 But here's the thing, though.
00:04:51.580 I mean, as it should.
00:04:53.440 Like, I wouldn't...
00:04:54.320 I mean, what is a woman supposed to do? 1.00
00:04:56.020 Like, go and be good at those things and not have that nurture side as well?
00:05:00.400 So, there's strengths and there's weaknesses.
00:05:01.880 Well, women aren't even more nurturing. 1.00
00:05:03.480 Yeah, I disagree with that.
00:05:04.940 I disagree completely.
00:05:06.220 I think if you want to look at nurturing, who is the most likely one to kill infants
00:05:10.020 and the elderly? 0.99
00:05:10.840 Women. 0.81
00:05:11.800 So, I actually think we have all this propaganda saying, like, women are so nurturing and all
00:05:15.740 this stuff.
00:05:16.240 Well, I think naturally women. 1.00
00:05:16.700 When you say, hold on, let me say that for a second.
00:05:18.420 You know, you don't infant side...
00:05:18.580 When you say the infants and the elderly, you're saying abortion?
00:05:21.120 No, both.
00:05:22.120 So, even, like...
00:05:22.460 And how are they killing the elderly? 0.79
00:05:23.960 They're more likely to kill the elderly.
00:05:26.260 In what regard? 0.94
00:05:27.100 Like, they're more likely to kill an elderly person than a male.
00:05:29.480 Like, euthanasia?
00:05:30.740 No, like, like, violent, like, in nursing homes, that sort of thing.
00:05:34.160 Like, you'll see the cases pop up in the news where there's these female nurses. 1.00
00:05:39.440 But that's even more of a mental health.
00:05:41.640 That's where a woman's mentality maybe is not as strong enough as a man. 1.00
00:05:45.160 So, again, it kind of goes back to what you're comparing.
00:05:47.740 You're comparing apples to apples.
00:05:48.440 No, I actually... 0.96
00:05:49.160 I think women are more violent than men. 1.00
00:05:51.580 And if you look at one-sided abuse, 70% of the time, it's women hitting the men and 0.95
00:05:57.240 not men hitting the women.
00:05:58.500 So, I actually would argue that women are more violent than men. 1.00
00:06:00.900 They just can't be.
00:06:02.140 And I also think that...
00:06:03.240 And so, infant side, so a woman killing or someone killing a baby within the first 24
00:06:07.820 hours of life is very rare for a male to do that.
00:06:10.580 Like, it's, like, almost unheard of.
00:06:11.960 So then, but how many males are in that division to be comparing how many women?
00:06:17.960 What do you mean?
00:06:18.440 How are they measuring that?
00:06:19.580 Like, the amount of women in that field, right? 1.00
00:06:22.860 There's a lot more women in that field than men. 1.00
00:06:24.740 Are you talking about nursing?
00:06:26.640 Well, I mean, parenting, there's usually a dad and a mom.
00:06:29.180 Right, but I'm talking about, like, nursing, for example, right?
00:06:31.640 Yeah.
00:06:31.780 You see more women nurses there. 0.99
00:06:33.620 So, those numbers make sense.
00:06:35.100 No, but it's not new.
00:06:36.440 So, and this is the thing.
00:06:37.780 Like, a lot of times, the stuff you see today, you think is new.
00:06:40.000 It's not new.
00:06:40.560 In the 1800s, women were also more likely to kill infants. 1.00
00:06:44.360 Even before abortion, before nursing, before all this stuff.
00:06:47.260 Interesting.
00:06:47.700 Malik, run a poll.
00:06:48.440 Who's more nurturing, men or women?
00:06:49.860 Listen, we're going to have a wild array of conversations.
00:06:52.980 We're going to talk about...
00:06:53.800 We're going to talk about an array of topics.
00:06:57.340 I've never heard in my life that men are more nurturing than women.
00:07:04.520 So, what made you come to that conclusion?
00:07:06.200 Well, I just...
00:07:07.160 The conclusion I came to was, you know, when I think of nurturing, I think of how do you
00:07:12.940 interact with the innocent?
00:07:14.440 And I guess more of my point is that women are more violent than men, I would argue. 1.00
00:07:18.620 Because I think women are more likely to kill the innocent, where men are not. 1.00
00:07:23.220 I think men just tend to be better people, in general.
00:07:26.960 Yes.
00:07:27.580 So, men are better people.
00:07:29.540 Yeah, and I'll tell you why.
00:07:30.640 I think there's reasons for that.
00:07:31.840 Because, typically, if one guy is being too bad of a person, another guy will come and
00:07:36.240 check him.
00:07:36.820 Where women don't necessarily have that. 1.00
00:07:38.700 Even if you look at prison sentences, you see these women that constantly get bailed out 1.00
00:07:42.940 of bad decisions.
00:07:43.860 So, like, Casey Anthony got let out of jail.
00:07:46.400 Right?
00:07:46.740 She's remarried now.
00:07:47.980 And you'll see cases like that all the time.
00:07:49.860 Women don't get the same sentences that men get when it comes to prison sentences as well. 1.00
00:07:55.240 I just...
00:07:55.920 I don't see women having the same consequences in society. 1.00
00:07:59.400 And I just...
00:08:00.140 I think women have a harder time regulating emotions. 1.00
00:08:02.600 So, that's why I think they're more violent, personally.
00:08:05.060 Well, it also comes down to the amount of freedom that has been given, too.
00:08:08.140 Because women have gotten... 1.00
00:08:09.620 Numbers have gotten to this point as well, based on the eligibility that women can do certain
00:08:14.740 things now.
00:08:15.260 So, now that they have more freedom to do the things, maybe they don't know how to handle
00:08:19.160 certain emotions, behaviors.
00:08:20.900 Maybe they shouldn't be part of certain things as well.
00:08:21.820 No, but again, I said this isn't new.
00:08:24.100 That was what I said before.
00:08:25.520 So, even before they had the freedom of the right to vote, women were still more likely 1.00
00:08:29.820 to kill infants.
00:08:30.660 In the 1800s, 1700s, 1600s, this is not new.
00:08:33.640 So, can it be attributed to the fact that men are more hierarchical, women are more egalitarian.
00:08:41.160 So, if you look at a spectrum of things, men, by a wide margin, are going to be smarter,
00:08:46.720 stronger, wealthier, in your regard, more nurturing, more protective.
00:08:53.600 Where women sort of associate in the middle of the spectrum, more egalitarian. 1.00
00:08:58.660 And then all the way to the left, more men are psychopaths, murderers, absolute idiots. 1.00
00:09:05.920 More men are homeless and just don't win in life. 1.00
00:09:09.440 So, it's more like men are on the opposite sides of the spectrum, whereas women sort of 0.78
00:09:13.780 stay in the middle.
00:09:14.820 You would have to go through each and every one of those.
00:09:16.780 So, if you wanted to go through homeless, I would argue that more women would be homeless 1.00
00:09:19.680 if they actually faced consequences for their decisions.
00:09:22.700 If you want to go based on, what was the other things you said?
00:09:25.500 Homeless.
00:09:27.000 Barbaric. 1.00
00:09:27.740 Murderers. 1.00
00:09:28.320 Vicious. 0.98
00:09:28.840 So, even murderers.
00:09:30.100 Manslaughter.
00:09:30.140 Homicide.
00:09:30.900 That's like saying, women cannot murder in the same way men can murder, I would argue. 0.66
00:09:34.940 One, I don't think they're smart enough to pull it off. 0.65
00:09:37.360 I don't think you're going to even get women, Ted Bundy.
00:09:40.520 The same way you're not going to get a woman. 1.00
00:09:42.060 There's some out there, but not as many as men.
00:09:43.960 Not as many.
00:09:44.600 That's my point.
00:09:45.760 I think men are more likely to get away with it for longer.
00:09:49.480 But the second thing I would say is that I would argue that, wait, sorry, what was the
00:09:56.720 second one?
00:09:57.340 All the vicious crimes.
00:09:58.440 Oh, the vicious crimes.
00:09:59.480 Again, you have to look at abuse and who murders the innocent.
00:10:03.740 Women cannot be violent in the same way men can be violent. 0.88
00:10:07.380 They can't.
00:10:07.920 But when they can be violent, they're more likely to kill the innocent.
00:10:11.000 So when women have the opportunity to be violent towards the infants and the elderly, they are 1.00
00:10:15.420 more likely to kill.
00:10:16.200 people are extremely같이트AL.
00:10:19.180 So they're saying they're not much more likely to kill them, but they know them.
00:10:21.460 Right?
00:10:21.660 So we're why they're moving towards the James!
00:10:22.480 That's what they're playing too.
00:10:23.160 Now, what do you think? 0.98
00:10:23.780 Is that why man is also going to kill them tomorrow? 0.99
00:10:24.960 That's right. 0.99
00:10:26.040 Which is likely to kill them through days later.
00:10:27.920 Of the law?
00:10:28.920 Well, I saw no permission.
00:10:30.280 And you weren't making them them off.
00:10:32.240 Well it doesn't happen anything.
00:10:33.320 There's that don't, there's no penalty or yellow.