JustPearlyThings - Pearl Gets into A HEATED DEBATE With Feminist

00:00:00.000 do you know any 82 year old women that have had kids i don't know what the oldest is is it someone 1.00

00:00:06.120 in her 70s i don't know no no there's al pacino just fathered a child at 82 yeah you know damn

00:00:13.340 well no women are doing that i well i don't know what the oldest woman is i'm pretty sure i don't 1.00

00:00:17.560 even know what you're arguing like you know that men do not you know that women drop off on

00:00:21.980 fertility issues not all men are fertile at 18 i didn't i didn't say all men but i said women have

00:00:26.900 it worse the older they get is that i mean we have a doctor here am i am i wrong my only comment

00:00:32.040 was it's a 50 when people are dealing with you know infertility they're having to seek options

00:00:37.160 where where where from because you've got a very much asking how many how many people were in that

00:00:41.720 study it was a pretty big study that i i like i mean you could probably google it for fertility

00:00:46.740 issues i don't have the website to mine i have some of them written down but not all of them

00:00:50.720 usually government websites that are holding these statistics so fertility issues you've got to be

00:00:56.060 in mind some men and some women just were never fertile in the first place right we're all assuming

00:01:00.580 that everyone's fertile all of the time it's not the case some people are fertile longer right some

00:01:04.620 people i'm saying no but i just i'm saying that it's not the same for men and for women it's not the

00:01:09.980 same at 35 a man can have a kid pretty easily women it's geriatric pregnancy my mom this is this is 0.94

00:01:17.440 okay i'm not talking about you i'm talking about your mom i'm saying 35 is if you're able to get

00:01:22.980 no no no no but i'm saying it's still geriatric pregnancy if you hit 30 the numbers say if you're

00:01:28.060 single by 30 you're more likely to not have a child than to have one as a woman but we're already

00:01:32.560 talking about geriatric pregnancy so they did i i i i i'm saying that it is not the same for men and

00:01:38.880 for women i don't know what you're arguing i never said it was the same i'm saying that okay okay

00:01:43.500 fertility issues are 50 50 so so no i'm saying that you know that the older we get we have more

00:01:48.920 fertility issues and so do men no i said i said we have more than men the older we get yeah that i

00:01:54.860 agree with you okay yeah i agree that's because you're brainwashed by some very old men having kids

00:02:00.460 doctor that's not typical at a young age men are going to have more issues and but then at that

00:02:07.460 changes over time so men's fertility is probably lower to begin with but it drops off more

00:02:13.080 gradually whereas women you know if you're right about this 50 50 split would have more fertility at 1.00

00:02:18.220 a younger age but then it drops very rapidly after age 35 if you put it on the screen i can i just was

00:02:24.300 looking at this today it drops after 35 i'm just gonna show it to you because i've heard so many

00:02:33.940 bad stories about people that have been pregnant after like four women but i don't know i've not

00:02:40.880 seen no stories on guys i've not seen any stories about bad things happening with guys can you show

00:02:47.220 the screen king i'm gonna show you this and i just want you to accept it that's it i just want you i

00:02:54.480 just nothing nothing i just want you to look at the chart well of course not women are having kids 1.00

00:03:00.940 that late okay i just want you i just want you to look at the chart i just want all right so this is

00:03:06.660 this has nothing to do with what i was saying wait wait wait wait i just want you to say okay that's it

00:03:11.380 that's it so this is the this is the fertility chart and this is different statistics than what i was

00:03:17.640 talking about okay so can we just this is what i was talking about so you do you understand this

00:03:23.020 yeah i was never debating it in the first place okay thank you thank you i'm curious so you're a

00:03:28.180 doctor yeah did you like what's your experience with have you ever like worked with doctors that

00:03:34.080 have done abortions or what's your oh wow uh yeah i actually have a friend who ran bpass the largest

00:03:39.580 abortion provider in the country she was the ceo but she's a very sincere honest woman who think

00:03:44.280 she's doing the right thing for women and so you know um yeah we we have a good friendship um i

00:03:50.380 have plenty of colleagues who do abortions i obviously disagree with them you know in the

00:03:54.000 hippocratic oath it's it literally explicitly says i will not do abortions it's been pretty pretty

00:03:58.340 integral to the medical profession for centuries and centuries um i did not know that yeah it's um

00:04:05.540 most people don't know actually someone said did you not take an oath why are you pro-life and the

00:04:09.800 oath literally says you can't do abortion so it's um it's pretty wild um yeah for me you know this is

00:04:16.080 this is an issue that is both ethical but it's also medical like when you look at the outcomes women who

00:04:21.780 have abortions for an unwanted pregnancy this is women who have an unwanted pregnancy if you have an

00:04:26.780 abortion you have a 30 increased risk of anxiety a 70 increased risk of suicide a 130 increased risk of

00:04:34.600 alcohol abuse and a 300 increased risk of drug abuse and that's if you don't have one if you if

00:04:41.000 you have an if you have one yeah yeah compared to the same women with the same previous psychiatric 1.00

00:04:45.600 issues the same socioeconomic stuff the same unwanted pregnancy correlation doesn't equal causation there

00:04:52.240 could be a number of variables for those reasons but that's why they take into account all of those

00:04:56.200 things so they adjust for socioeconomic status for previous psychiatric history for domestic violence for

00:05:01.360 all sorts of things and they find even when you keep those constant the women who have abortions 0.99

00:05:05.520 have much worse mental health outcomes well and i and i think it's just common sense to be honest

00:05:10.320 this is why sometimes i'm like you don't even need to study to tell you that like i know women 1.00

00:05:13.920 that have had abortions they're never happy after the women that are keeping them are more likely to 0.99

00:05:18.880 be in happy relationships in the first place if they have the support they're going to have

00:05:21.920 better but this is like it's always a cope it's always there's something you know it's like coping

00:05:30.000 women have never heard that argument when when we're talking about um well we're talking about um 0.97

00:05:37.440 pay gap so you would never hear a woman say well there are so many other factors that could contribute

00:05:43.600 to it but it's funny how you say that that was never my argument either we weren't talking about

00:05:50.160 you well he was pointing at me but i think it's funny it's so funny it's just something i notice

00:06:00.080 with girls it's always like they take the argument and it's like they always use me but it's not about

00:06:04.480 you well here i was the one saying it and he was looking at me i'm not talking about you i'm talking

00:06:09.840 about in general um so you said you're i'm curious can you tell me what happens during an abortion

00:06:17.840 yeah it really depends on the kind of abortion so there's two main kinds there's medical which 0.99

00:06:22.080 means using pills or they're surgical so in a medical abortion you take two pills the first pill will

00:06:27.680 you know deprive the baby of oxygen and nutrients so that it basically suffocates and then the second

00:06:32.560 pill misoprostol will eject the baby and cause you know labor and cause a miscarriage at a very late

00:06:38.320 stage because the baby could be born alive like if you do this at 22 weeks the baby might come out

00:06:43.040 of the womb alive you have to perform a procedure called fetus side which you can guess what that 0.58

00:06:47.520 means it's the killing of a fetus and that's one of the reasons for thinking this is a living thing

00:06:52.160 right they wouldn't call it fetus side if it wasn't alive wait so they'll they'll kill it after it comes 0.96

00:06:56.800 out no no so what they do is before they do the abortion they will put a needle through the 0.98

00:07:01.840 mummy mother's tummy and they will stick it into the baby's heart or sometimes into the head and 1.00

00:07:07.120 they will pump in potassium chloride and that will kill the baby now this has been banned potassium

00:07:12.640 chloride in capital punishment so if you look at human rights groups they say you cannot use this

00:07:17.840 chemical in capital punishment because it's inhumane to kill rapists and murderers this way but this is

00:07:24.480 exactly the same chemical they use to perform fetus side in late-term abortions now those are a small

00:07:29.680 number but you know they still occur there's still um hundreds of them each year in in this country

00:07:35.040 surgical abortions are quite different at an early stage you use a vacuum so that basically vacuums

00:07:39.840 the baby and destroys the baby through the force of the vacuum after about 12 13 14 weeks the baby is

00:07:46.480 too kind of big and tough to be vacuumed and so you have to dismember it so you basically just pull the

00:07:51.040 limbs off the baby bit by bit um it's horrible to think about horrible to say i don't like saying it but

00:07:56.400 it's just the reality it's a dismemberment basically um if the baby's head is too big to remove from the

00:08:02.400 womb they will have to crush the head um bring it out so it's it's pretty horrendous um and if you read

00:08:09.200 academic papers where abortion providers give their thoughts on it many of them say

00:08:14.320 actually this is terrible many abortion providers say i'm only going to do it up to 12 weeks because

00:08:18.720 after that it's just too horrible um so it's it's something that you know most abortions are in the

00:08:24.640 first trimester i'm not pretending that most abortions are these horrible gruesome late-term

00:08:28.720 things but just as an example there are 3 000 abortions in this country after 20 weeks each year

00:08:35.200 so after 20 weeks five months when the baby's pretty much viable 3 000 abortions take place by those sorts

00:08:42.320 of methods and so it's still something that you know if 3 000 children were being killed by that method

00:08:47.600 in any other circumstance we'd say that's way too many that's 3 000 too many um yeah sorry that was very

00:08:53.440 deep and heavy answer so what what happens in the first one you said they're deprived of nutrients

00:08:57.920 can i challenge you on that because i've looked up both of these drugs so you spoke about my

00:09:02.400 misoprostol but mifopristone is the the first one that's more common it's an anti-progestogen yes

00:09:08.960 and it causes the cervix and uterine vessels to dilate um and then it causes a contraction i don't see in

00:09:14.160 anywhere where it's like doing what you're saying

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JustPearlyThings - July 12, 2023

Pearl Gets into A HEATED DEBATE With Feminist

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