Pearl Is Brutal With Modern
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Summary
In this episode, I sit down with my good friend and former co-worker, to talk about why women are so hard to find a good husband. We talk about what it means to be a good wife, what it takes to be an excellent wife, and how to be the best wife you can be.
Transcript
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When I was dating, right, I'm 37 now, so when I was 25, there were men that I was dating.
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Good job, and I would be like, yo, I want to get married.
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Okay, so what skills do you have that are like wife?
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Because the whole show you've been talking about how you were raised to work, which is fine.
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But it's possible that maybe they just didn't see you as wife material.
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So my mother taught, instilled in me, okay, you have to cook for your husband.
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I did cook most of the family meals growing up.
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But at the end of the day, I still have to survive.
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And I'm not, like, I don't know your situation, but I'm saying, like, if I'm trying to get married
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and all the men are saying, no, I don't want to marry you, no, I don't want to marry you,
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like, maybe it's just something you've got to fix.
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Like, I'm not even talking about you personally.
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If the men don't want to marry us, it's like, maybe we need to improve.
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But women will blame the buyer instead of fixing the product.
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Well, yeah, but I think maybe women are actually, it's kind of, they're going for the wrong market.
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Like, all the women are throwing themselves at, like, a small minority and often players, you know,
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But, you know, whereas there would be plenty of men who would be good husbands.
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But that still goes with, like, that's the marketing, right?
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Like, instead of it being everybody else, like, maybe we, if we're not, if we're not.
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Yeah, but it's like, it's like the product is good, the marketing, you know,
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It's often suspect, but even when the product is good, it can be marketing issues.
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You know, because for a while I was like, why are the men upset?
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In my 20s, it's not that a lot of men might say, in your 20s, it's not that most men are saying,
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I don't want to marry, you're not marriage material.
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I need to build my, I need to make sure I'm solid before I can now provide for a household.
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So at a younger age, unless you decide to date older, if you're going to date in your age range at 25,
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most men are going to want to wait until they are established, they have the money.
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But again, that's trying to make a guy that's clearly not ready to be a husband, a husband.
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I don't know why you keep, like, it's not all you have to, you know it's not all you have to pick from.
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We're having, you know what I'm saying, devil's health conversation.
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We got to, you know, off camera, it might be a different story.
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But, you know, this is, you know, I'm always going to always think different.
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I'll defend men too sometimes, but I will always defend women because it is not everybody is just privileged to certain situations.
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So we have to, we're going to speak about women and speak about all women.
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I want to, I want to say women are all privileged.
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We have, we have female privilege in the fact that we have.
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Can you read the super chats that have come in?
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We're ready for the hate mail because, you know, it's going to be like that delusional girl in the green.
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A 37-year-old baby mama, bartender blaming men is peak delusion.
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If she's a bartender and can go wherever she wants, when she wants, who's taking care of her daughter?
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I want you to know, even though you are not married, your show has made me a much better wife.
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Communist and socialist is the female energy and simps of the inverted truth called lies.
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I work in education and there are no gender-specific incentives for men to be teachers.
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The guy's New York dates barely break five figures annually, maybe even biannually.
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Ladies, lady on the left could not define love.
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Love definition biblically is the Ten Commandments.
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It's truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
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Why the Adam and Eve judgment is what we are experiencing.
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As a married woman, you know when they don't pull out.
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Never love your job because your job will never love you back.
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But if she was 20, I bet you men will line up to pay for her meal because there is a chance
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Stop making the black community seem like ignorant, ain't got no money, can't do anything
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Even like being women, like women of the world or women of the year, that's it, isn't it?
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I was trying to think of one thing women could do better.
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And then I was like, well, we're better parents.
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And then I looked up the stats on like single mother versus single father.
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Where like the top, like it was always dominated by men.
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I'm finding out we need two teachers to do what one man could do.
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So when you do that Google search, something that's in favor of a man is probably always
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So if you go deeper in, I'm sure there'll be different statistics.
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I live by real life, real situations I live in.
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The real life, real situations I live in, that's what I go back.
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I'm just saying we're not as important as we think.
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I said not as important as feminism has deluded us to believe.