JustPearlyThings - October 10, 2023


Pearl Leaves Panel Speechless After Saying This

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Woke Woman ENDS Her Marriage And REGRETS IT!!! Pearl Educates Toxic Feminist

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9 minutes

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197.92

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1,939

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266

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Misogyny

33

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Toxicity

3

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be a good communicator, how to communicate with a man, and how to deal with the expectations of a woman in a relationship. We also discuss the difference between a man and a woman, and why it's important to have good communication.

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00:00:00.000 90% of women would never get the man they want, and this is because most women want 1.00
00:00:06.620 a man that is assertive, confident, strong, a leader, and all of that good stuff, has
00:00:11.820 money, tall, beautiful, whatever, but at the same time they say, well, he can't tell me
00:00:17.680 what to do. Typically, a man that's like that is not going to take your direction. He's
00:00:22.700 going to do what he does, and he's going to expect you to follow. So it's very funny
00:00:26.840 when women come out and say, I want this guy, I want that guy, but then they still 1.00
00:00:30.340 come out and try to act like they are the man in the relationship. It never works, and
00:00:33.620 it's never going to work. I mean, the earlier women start to understand that. Either you 1.00
00:00:37.960 want that guy, or you just go for a guy you can control. Usually there's no middle ground.
00:00:43.320 And it's interesting that they want all these things, but they cannot really offer something
00:00:48.260 in return, something that is worth enough for what they ask. Do you disagree?
00:00:54.080 No, many times it is. But I think it comes a lot with maturity as well, and also a lot
00:01:00.180 of the brainwash, because I don't agree with many things. And that's why I always say, like,
00:01:04.460 I'll protect my family and my relationship, right? And there is some, if you're really
00:01:09.940 like a mature, mature woman, you will know what you have to do and what a man, I don't agree 0.98
00:01:14.460 that they are equal, that they do the same things. No. And especially inside a home, you know,
00:01:20.580 it works in different ways. So I think it demands a lot of intelligence, wisdom and maturity
00:01:26.620 to, you know, to occur this dynamic between men and women. And I think we've been programmed.
00:01:32.460 That's why we are so resistant and things like this and why so many relationships don't work.
00:01:36.440 What do women bring to the table in 2023? 1.00
00:01:38.680 Okay, I don't understand. What is this table? Where do we find this table? Is it a marriage
00:01:44.000 about a table? Like, this is what I was trying to say before. When I came to the table, what
00:01:49.980 table are we talking about?
00:01:51.180 Okay, what should women bring to a relationship? Like, when you go on a date with a man, you 1.00
00:01:58.280 typically expect him to pay for it, right?
00:02:00.640 No.
00:02:00.900 No. Not me. Not me. I've been with a homeless guy for two and a half years. So you don't
00:02:09.720 know me.
00:02:10.340 Homeless guy? 0.73
00:02:11.120 You don't know me.
00:02:12.820 Were you homeless too?
00:02:14.020 Yeah.
00:02:14.960 But this is the thing. That's not like a good rebuttal to what she's saying. You're saying
00:02:19.040 that like, that's okay because you've been a homeless guy. So that's not good.
00:02:22.560 No, no, no. One second. One second. I said that because she just mentioned, oh, like,
00:02:27.040 if you pay. It's not me. I'm not about the pay. I'm saying it's not that. I don't have
00:02:31.600 like, it needs to be this or it needs to be this.
00:02:34.200 She's talking about the standard that women expect. So you're saying that is not really
00:02:38.200 like answering the question. You're just trying to throw off the question without really answering
00:02:42.300 it.
00:02:43.020 I'm saying not me. Not me. I'm talking about me. I can answer just as me, not like other
00:02:50.680 women. I'm saying not me. 1.00
00:02:52.780 Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. So she wants nothing. So, okay.
00:02:56.280 What about, what about, what about you? What, what does the average woman bring to the table 1.00
00:03:01.500 in 2023?
00:03:03.120 Well, um, so I don't know.
00:03:09.500 Can I say, can I say something?
00:03:10.600 Exactly.
00:03:11.140 Wait, wait, wait, no, no, wait. I want to, I want to give a good, a good, a good actual
00:03:16.040 answer. I mean, there are many things, you know, you have to, you have to sort of be mentally
00:03:21.020 aligned because you want to have like good communication. You want to be able to talk about stuff,
00:03:25.360 experiences and, you know, things.
00:03:26.980 Are women good communicators? 1.00
00:03:28.580 Some are.
00:03:29.700 Are, are, is the average woman a good communicator? 0.99
00:03:32.160 Um, some are.
00:03:33.920 No, no. I said, is the average woman a good communicator? 1.00
00:03:35.700 I am.
00:03:36.280 Okay. Okay. So.
00:03:37.720 No.
00:03:38.740 Yes.
00:03:39.240 Okay. So do men typically want communication from women? Is that what they seek?
00:03:43.660 They want, they want communication. They want, um, they want femininity as well, to be honest. 0.91
00:03:48.140 Okay. And they, and they want, they do want attractiveness, obviously. 1.00
00:03:51.360 Okay.
00:03:51.860 But you, you can't, it's, you can't be that superficial for like, for one date. Yes. Maybe
00:03:57.140 two. But then the third date.
00:03:58.540 So men do want communication. 0.99
00:04:00.560 Yeah.
00:04:01.080 Okay. So the average woman brings communication. What else? 0.98
00:04:04.700 Well, I don't know about the average woman, but you know, good women. 1.00
00:04:07.620 Okay.
00:04:08.180 That get good.
00:04:08.820 Okay. Okay. Keep going.
00:04:10.620 What else?
00:04:10.940 Good women that get good husbands. 0.98
00:04:12.040 Um, they also want, um, yeah, they want someone that looks good. They want someone that, you
00:04:17.300 know, is their level, to be honest.
00:04:20.800 Okay. So they, they want to grow. So they bring looks and communication. What else?
00:04:24.400 Care, femininity, whatever that includes.
00:04:27.500 Are women feminine in 2023? 1.00
00:04:29.220 Not really. There's a lot of alphas out there.
00:04:31.260 Okay. So.
00:04:32.600 But you kind of have to be.
00:04:33.740 Okay.
00:04:34.100 Because, you know, it's a dog eat dog world.
00:04:35.540 So maybe.
00:04:36.020 There are a lot of fake alphas, though.
00:04:37.600 What, what, what, what?
00:04:39.060 There are a lot of fake alphas out there, including men.
00:04:42.040 Yeah, that's true.
00:04:43.560 Okay. So women, women bring femininity sometimes, sometimes. Okay. What, what else do women bring? 1.00
00:04:49.200 Um, well, they can bring status, depending what they do as well.
00:04:54.260 Do men care about status? 0.88
00:04:55.860 I don't know. I think some do. Some do. My ex actually did.
00:04:59.200 Okay. Does the average man care about status?
00:05:02.000 I don't know about average men. I've only dated quite, you know, good.
00:05:06.840 Okay. I mean, yeah, you and everyone.
00:05:09.040 Does the man women typically want care about status? 1.00
00:05:14.500 No, because he'll probably bring her up if you're going to go average.
00:05:17.520 But I do think that if you are a certain level of guy, then you want something more than just a pretty girl on the arm.
00:05:24.220 Okay. Okay. So the average woman brings communication. 1.00
00:05:28.280 No, no, not the average woman. Okay.
00:05:30.560 The slightly above average woman.
00:05:31.900 Okay. The slightly above average woman brings communication, femininity, and looks. 1.00
00:05:36.840 They should.
00:05:37.480 I like how you're not answering the question I asked.
00:05:40.300 It's like women, when we, you don't like the answer that, that we would have to give. 1.00
00:05:44.380 It's like, let me answer how I want to answer.
00:05:46.900 Okay. So ask the question one more time.
00:05:48.500 I'll give you the straight answer.
00:05:49.160 What does the average woman bring to the table in 2023? 1.00
00:05:52.620 So the average woman, it depends. 1.00
00:05:56.320 Usually, I guess.
00:05:57.800 Don't remember, that's a banned word.
00:05:59.360 Yes, it's banned.
00:06:00.440 Okay. So the average woman, I guess, is everyone that is on social media. 0.86
00:06:04.520 So they bring looks.
00:06:05.940 How about that?
00:06:06.640 Okay.
00:06:06.800 As simple as that.
00:06:07.480 Anything else?
00:06:08.520 I mean, I'm sure there are.
00:06:09.620 But if you're going on a date and you don't know the person, how do you know it?
00:06:11.920 You get to know them.
00:06:12.360 Okay. Okay.
00:06:13.080 What does the average woman bring in 2023? 1.00
00:06:14.740 So we're talking about average.
00:06:16.180 Average means already that it doesn't bring much, right?
00:06:18.840 And women are being forced to bring on the table things that I think for men is not very useful anymore. 0.98
00:06:26.140 So we're being forced.
00:06:27.720 Like if you talk to most of girls here, they have like really good jobs working for governments, high education. 1.00
00:06:33.240 And that's not what men need.
00:06:34.700 Like in a relationship, like sex, if you put on the top for men is number one, right?
00:06:38.760 And unfortunately, the other things affect women on this way and things like this.
00:06:43.120 Why were women forced to get jobs? 1.00
00:06:44.820 You don't think it was a choice?
00:06:45.940 Pardon?
00:06:46.340 Women were forced to get jobs? 1.00
00:06:48.280 I think nowadays it has a very big pressure.
00:06:52.000 Okay.
00:06:52.400 A really big pressure.
00:06:53.820 For women to be very well educated and have a job. 1.00
00:06:58.680 Of course, if you live in London, if you don't work, if you don't make money, the city is going to struggle.
00:07:02.380 Right.
00:07:02.800 Do men typically want to marry young women? 0.80
00:07:05.600 Yes, of course.
00:07:06.240 So what was stopping us from getting married at 21?
00:07:11.180 Yeah, that's a really good question.
00:07:13.200 We wanted to be more, we wanted to be independent.
00:07:15.680 And this is the problem nowadays.
00:07:17.640 Yeah, but hold on.
00:07:18.580 I'm going to get to you, but I'm going to let her answer.
00:07:20.340 Yeah, for me at least I wanted to do more things.
00:07:23.720 Right.
00:07:24.300 It was my personal choice, right?
00:07:26.240 So that's one of the main reasons why not.
00:07:30.180 Correct.
00:07:30.840 But I'm saying like, it was still a choice.
00:07:33.860 We weren't forced.
00:07:34.560 Yeah, of course.
00:07:36.660 A man of value, like maybe didn't propose.
00:07:39.420 Maybe it wasn't the right man, like that proposed.
00:07:41.740 Why would a man not propose?
00:07:45.160 I don't know.
00:07:45.600 Because you're too young, maybe.
00:07:47.280 Or it's not, or you don't bring, like you're saying the young people, right?
00:07:51.000 In London, it doesn't really, like, I don't know that many people that got married.
00:07:53.940 They've had long relationships, but they don't get married in their, like, 20s.
00:07:57.640 They just don't.
00:07:58.380 Right.
00:07:58.720 But I'm saying, why would a man not propose?
00:08:01.460 Probably because economically he wants to be of a certain stature.
00:08:04.400 Okay, why couldn't she get a guy that is high, that makes a lot of money? 0.99
00:08:10.120 Well, I think at 21 you don't have the maturity enough to handle a house nowadays.
00:08:14.980 Nowadays, you know, for example, if you look for...
00:08:17.460 My mom had 21. 0.99
00:08:19.340 My mom the same.
00:08:20.800 But nowadays, like, I'm a teacher as well, right?
00:08:23.260 I see the girls, you know, even if I talk to many friends of mine there.
00:08:27.340 So now in the past years, things have been happening that people are not.
00:08:32.400 And that's what's going to happen.
00:08:33.720 If you're married, it means in a while you're going to have kids.
00:08:36.360 Well, maybe...
00:08:37.060 These people are going to...
00:08:37.700 No, that's wrong.
00:08:38.860 No, but mostly, we're talking generally, you're going to have kids, right?
00:08:42.360 If you get married, right?
00:08:43.760 So the thing is, nowadays, people are being brainwashed.
00:08:47.200 People are not getting mature.
00:08:48.320 They are not taking responsibility.
00:08:49.900 What is the most important?
00:08:51.380 People are not able to take responsibilities.
00:08:53.260 If you get married young nowadays with the brain that they are having,
00:08:56.560 they're not going to be able to raise kids properly. 0.99
00:08:59.820 And that's going to fuck up the kid, right? 0.84
00:09:02.080 That's what I see in schools happening. 0.98
00:09:03.740 Do you think it's harder for women to change the older they are or the younger they are?
00:09:08.160 I think for every human being, it's harder the older you get.
00:09:10.700 And that's proven scientifically.
00:09:12.820 Okay, so wouldn't it make more sense to get married younger rather than older?
00:09:16.880 So you can molt, like you can grow together with the man?
00:09:20.200 So it depends.
00:09:21.360 The younger you get, usually the rate of divorces are higher.
00:09:25.600 So it's not about the age, it's about maturity.
00:09:28.480 Because you can find people 40, 30, 50 years old, they're not mature.
00:09:33.120 And I've seen people getting married in a young age.
00:09:35.200 So there's the wrong question, first of all.
00:09:37.580 But it's a matter of maturity.
00:09:40.200 Do you think that's what men want, maturity?
00:09:43.880 Of course, if a wise man wants maturity, otherwise what happens with men?