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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of single motherhood and the role of a single mother in raising their children. We also talk about birth control, abortion, and who is to blame when it comes to getting pregnant?
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Sometimes you have part-time dads that sometimes see you.
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They will come and see you every now and again when they're free,
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You've got some dads that literally live their life.
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They've separated from the partner and their family and they're going out
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and they're living their best life and big up all the single moms,
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by the way, because that is a very, very, very, very big job.
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Big down because it was your life choice and you shouldn't have did that.
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You should have stayed with the father or your kid.
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No, no, no, no, no, because some men will walk out
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on their women and the women will be on their knees begging them to stay
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And plus, those women, half the time, they pick men that have impregnated
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like three girls and you're like, of course he's going to leave.
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Yeah, but there is those men that will be happy to have that woman there
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and happy to use them to stay at their house, et cetera,
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and then expect to see three people at the same time.
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So obviously the woman's going to get frustrated.
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Yeah, I blame that on the woman because like, why do we blame so much on the women?
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It's like, you go through a process before you actually get a guy.
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Like, we're blaming the women for a lot of things
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that actually some men are heavily responsible for.
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It just breaks those statistics because he's mad.
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You don't think you're, so if you have a child,
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But we agree, we agree that women are in control of sex, right?
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So if women are in control of sex, who is responsible when you get pregnant?
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If you're not in a relationship and you're single and you want to find someone to have sex,
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it's easier for a woman to go out and find that.
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Does he know when you're ovulating or does he know when you're ovulating?
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Are you not talking about it as a partnership, as a team, though?
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Do men know if the women are ovulating or do women know if the men are ovulating?
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If we talk about in general the women that I'm around, we know and we talk about that with the people that we are in front.
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I can't talk about everybody that I don't know.
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Do we know if we're on birth control or do the men know if we're on birth control?
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If I was a man, I wouldn't be sleeping with someone without protection ever.
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So do we get to choose if we get an abortion or do the men get to choose if we get an abortion?
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The men shouldn't be sleeping with someone without protection.
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Okay, on the women, though, it depends whether you were tricked because, yes, if that man
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is obviously not going to be good to you, I do personally think it is stupid to have
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Like, do the men get a choice in if we get an abortion or not?
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Because it could be a thing where they can manipulate the woman and say, look, I don't
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They could convince her, but at the end of the day, who gets to pick?
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So, now who gets to pick if we get an IUD or not?
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So, if we get to do all this picking, don't you think we should take more of the responsibility?
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Like, it's more on us since, because when we have sex, right, we know if they're wearing
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a condom or not, but the men don't know if we're on birth control or not.
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We know if we're ovulating or not, where the men don't know if we're ovulating or not.
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So, we're the one with all the information, where the men don't always have all the information.
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But men know that women do baby trap sometimes, so just use protection.
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I feel like it's a shared responsibility with all adults.
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I would say it's more on the women for picking who you have a child with.
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Do you know what, I like this because I have daughters, so I'm trying to...
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I feel like you're really right, because at the end of the day...
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Tell them to communicate with whoever they're dealing with.
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Yeah, I know, but like you said, it is the woman...
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Like, let's be respectful here, but at the end of the day, it is the woman's control
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You know, if you want to have a baby, you can be like, oh, I'm having a baby with or without
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You know the man is not ready, but then you still make the choice to go ahead and have
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You know, if you know you're going to have unprotected sex, you should prepare for that.
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If you go in and have unprotected sex, you're both consenting adults.
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Men are just in control of who they have sex with.
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But women are 100% in control of who gets born.
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My question isn't why are you having unprotected sex with men who shouldn't be fathers?
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I do agree with you, but what if they've made you think that they're a good guy?
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But that's the woman's judgment, though, in a way.
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So, like, it's like, what were you doing making a baby?
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You don't think you should get married before you have a kid?
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I think it is better to get married and have children.
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Reason why is because there's more stability, yeah?
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There's more like, okay, we put each other first, we are loyal to each other first, and we made something signed and sealed, we can now, you know, conquer life.
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You know, the whole having babies out of wedlock always seems to be the reason why a lot of relationships fail.
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And that's, you know, I'm not going to say it's facts, but I'm saying that's my opinion.
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But for me, it's a thing where, you know, if you're married, you already built already a foundation of how you're going to raise your child.
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And your child's going to look at you too and be like, okay, well, you look on my example of how I should, you know, live my life and meet somebody and kind of do the same thing.
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I hope we're talking about what can be changed because this generation right now is...
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If you're fortunate enough to find someone that you can marry and settle down with and do all that, then good for you.
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It is hard to find a guy that meets all of your requirements as a woman.
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In general, let's just call a spade a spade here.
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And I do think it is hard for women to find a guy that meets all their requirements.
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If you're saying, okay, I can't find a guy that meets my requirements.
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Well, it's maybe you're not good enough, so you should probably try to be better.
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Um, or, or maybe lower the requirements and get a guy that's on your level.
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I would say those are, you know, if nobody's buying, you got to figure out what's the problem.
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And either fix the problem or lower what you want.
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There's also a lot of women that go for guys that are emotionally unavailable.
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I think when they say emotionally unavailable, it just means he doesn't like me that much.
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Yeah, so, like, she's a five, a six, maybe a seven, going for a nine or a ten.
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And he's emotionally unavailable because he doesn't like her.
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There's some guys, though, if they've experienced trauma, they've got trust issues.
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And actually, they still wouldn't be able to maintain it because they would purposely be avoiding, or their subconscious would, because they're afraid of abandonment and stuff like that.
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I do think women sometimes pick men that aren't husbands.
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And then get surprised when they don't act like husbands, when he wasn't raised to be a husband.
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I don't know why we're surprised that, you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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