JustPearlyThings - November 22, 2023


Pearl Reacts To Kevin Samuels


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Length

5 minutes

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189.63617

Word count

1,032

Sentence count

65

Harmful content

Misogyny

16

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Hate speech

9

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In this episode, I discuss how society teaches young boys and girls to blame their fathers for the failures of their mother and how this is a problem that is rampant in our society. I also discuss why it is so easy to blame the father for their mother's failures.

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00:00:00.000 Okay, so the next story I wanted to cover was something I saw when scrolling on TikTok last
00:00:04.820 night. Kevin Samuels was so insightful and that's one of the things that really attracted me to his
00:00:10.580 content. He would really break down problems that we see happening in society. And one problem that
00:00:17.740 we have really across the board is that young boys and young girls will blame their fathers
00:00:23.460 for their mother's shortcoming. If the mother is ever crazy, it's always the dad's fault for 0.52
00:00:28.280 picking her. If the mother ever acts a certain way, society always finds a way to blame the 1.00
00:00:34.480 men. Let's pull it up. Boys in general, black boys in particular, tend to hold their fathers 0.99
00:00:39.260 responsible for the failures of their mothers. And she told my dad, if you come for us, you'll
00:00:45.980 never see him again. Because the media ridiculed me for getting the house next door to Kim to see 0.98
00:00:53.060 my children. And they even said that I was stalking her and her new boyfriend. And that's how I knew
00:00:59.500 that my mom had said that to him. I said, Dad, you know, they moved us to one of the most dangerous,
00:01:05.880 agreed upon to be one of the most dangerous places in the world. It's almost like they tried to kill
00:01:11.040 me or something. I said, Dad, why didn't you ever, why'd you never come to get us? And that's when
00:01:18.580 he told me, that's when he told me that she was told that. That's what we, that's what boys are
00:01:23.240 taught, to hold their fathers responsible for the failures of their mother. Meaning mama can never do 1.00
00:01:28.940 nothing wrong. And whatever, whatever happened with mama, somehow it's daddy's fault. Somehow it's the
00:01:33.140 man's fault. That's why it's so easy for them to blame you, even as an adult, as a single man who
00:01:37.980 ain't never done nothing to you. That's why she finds it so easy to blame you and not smile at
00:01:40.780 you because somebody somewhere, a man was responsible for something wrong. And some woman
00:01:44.300 in her family was in their past. Bulls***. 1.00
00:01:49.300 Kevin Samuels is right. So many kids are alienated from their fathers. They're alienated from their
00:01:58.780 fathers. And they think that their dad is the bad guy when really their mother did not allow the dad
00:02:05.420 to see the child. So many men want to be with their kids. This idea that men by and large
00:02:12.560 do not want to see their children, do not want to be a part of their children's lives. The majority
00:02:17.680 of the time it is not a deadbeat father. It is a deadbeat mother. It is a spiteful woman that uses 1.00
00:02:23.280 the kids to get back at her husband. And there's an entire generation of kids that hates their fathers 1.00
00:02:29.920 without knowing that their mom was the real issue. And the comment section really, it, it backs this
00:02:35.760 up. Maurice says, I woke up this morning and I realized that I've never heard a woman say that
00:02:39.720 the failure of her relationship was her fault in person. Amak says, one of my main reasons for not
00:02:46.680 getting married yet is you're not going to guilt trip me for your life. Yes. Women are experts at 1.00
00:02:52.020 manipulation. Women are manipulation experts and we always put it on the men. It's so interesting 1.00
00:02:58.800 the amount of women I've said, I've heard say that their ex was a narcissist when really they are the 0.99
00:03:04.400 narcissistic ones. And I can tell by talking to them within five minutes because they only see things
00:03:09.360 from their point of view. Women are not taught emotional control. They're not taught how to be in 1.00
00:03:14.360 a proper relationship. We are taught that everything is the man, the evil men's fault. And we are taught this
00:03:20.520 from a young age when anytime a teenager was caught fooling around with, with the boy, it's always the
00:03:27.960 boy taking advantage of her. But we never talk about the women that take advantage of the guys.
00:03:33.640 DLotta925 said, most men look for their fathers when they reach 25 because they've started dealing
00:03:38.840 with women and they realize that women are not innocent. And many times people will say that I hate
00:03:45.780 women that I'm just trying to drag on women. But if we don't understand the nature of women and the 1.00
00:03:51.580 way that women are, so many children lose access to their fathers. And there is nothing more evil that 1.00
00:03:57.240 you can do to a child than not give that child their God-given right to see their dad and to have a good
00:04:04.480 relationship with their dad. So many women are so spited towards their exes that they give their 1.00
00:04:10.660 children a completely different version of reality than what actually happened. It takes two to tango.
00:04:16.540 And when relationships fail, the women are not these innocent victims that everything just happens 1.00
00:04:21.460 to. And I see this time and time again. If I talk about a guy, why did a guy cheat? Everyone freaks out
00:04:28.500 and says, I'm advocating for cheating. If we ever give the man's point of view, then you are demonized.
00:04:34.800 You are demonized. You are, whenever you advocate for men and children having access to their fathers,
00:04:42.240 they constantly shoot the messenger instead of talking about the actual problem. Why can't we
00:04:47.600 have a conversation about the evil nature of women without bringing men into it? It's always, 1.00
00:04:52.600 but men, but men, but men. Why? Why must, why must we speak this? Why? Why can't we have an honest
00:04:59.360 conversation about where women fall short in relationships without it be dogging on women?
00:05:05.120 We have been, for 50 years, we have talked about all the ways that men fall short in relationships.
00:05:09.640 And I hear the right and the left do this. You're not a real man. If you don't do this,
00:05:13.840 you're not a real man. If your woman works, you're not a real man. Why, why do women think they get 1.00
00:05:20.120 to decide what makes a man a real man? And it's so interesting because I never hear the men talk
00:05:25.320 about what makes a real woman. 0.67