Pearl Reacts To Kevin Samuels
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Summary
In this episode, I discuss how society teaches young boys and girls to blame their fathers for the failures of their mother and how this is a problem that is rampant in our society. I also discuss why it is so easy to blame the father for their mother's failures.
Transcript
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Okay, so the next story I wanted to cover was something I saw when scrolling on TikTok last
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night. Kevin Samuels was so insightful and that's one of the things that really attracted me to his
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content. He would really break down problems that we see happening in society. And one problem that
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we have really across the board is that young boys and young girls will blame their fathers
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for their mother's shortcoming. If the mother is ever crazy, it's always the dad's fault for
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picking her. If the mother ever acts a certain way, society always finds a way to blame the
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men. Let's pull it up. Boys in general, black boys in particular, tend to hold their fathers
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responsible for the failures of their mothers. And she told my dad, if you come for us, you'll
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never see him again. Because the media ridiculed me for getting the house next door to Kim to see
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my children. And they even said that I was stalking her and her new boyfriend. And that's how I knew
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that my mom had said that to him. I said, Dad, you know, they moved us to one of the most dangerous,
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agreed upon to be one of the most dangerous places in the world. It's almost like they tried to kill
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me or something. I said, Dad, why didn't you ever, why'd you never come to get us? And that's when
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he told me, that's when he told me that she was told that. That's what we, that's what boys are
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taught, to hold their fathers responsible for the failures of their mother. Meaning mama can never do
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nothing wrong. And whatever, whatever happened with mama, somehow it's daddy's fault. Somehow it's the
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man's fault. That's why it's so easy for them to blame you, even as an adult, as a single man who
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ain't never done nothing to you. That's why she finds it so easy to blame you and not smile at
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you because somebody somewhere, a man was responsible for something wrong. And some woman
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Kevin Samuels is right. So many kids are alienated from their fathers. They're alienated from their
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fathers. And they think that their dad is the bad guy when really their mother did not allow the dad
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to see the child. So many men want to be with their kids. This idea that men by and large
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do not want to see their children, do not want to be a part of their children's lives. The majority
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of the time it is not a deadbeat father. It is a deadbeat mother. It is a spiteful woman that uses
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the kids to get back at her husband. And there's an entire generation of kids that hates their fathers
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without knowing that their mom was the real issue. And the comment section really, it, it backs this
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up. Maurice says, I woke up this morning and I realized that I've never heard a woman say that
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the failure of her relationship was her fault in person. Amak says, one of my main reasons for not
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getting married yet is you're not going to guilt trip me for your life. Yes. Women are experts at
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manipulation. Women are manipulation experts and we always put it on the men. It's so interesting
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the amount of women I've said, I've heard say that their ex was a narcissist when really they are the
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narcissistic ones. And I can tell by talking to them within five minutes because they only see things
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from their point of view. Women are not taught emotional control. They're not taught how to be in
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a proper relationship. We are taught that everything is the man, the evil men's fault. And we are taught this
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from a young age when anytime a teenager was caught fooling around with, with the boy, it's always the
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boy taking advantage of her. But we never talk about the women that take advantage of the guys.
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DLotta925 said, most men look for their fathers when they reach 25 because they've started dealing
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with women and they realize that women are not innocent. And many times people will say that I hate
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women that I'm just trying to drag on women. But if we don't understand the nature of women and the
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way that women are, so many children lose access to their fathers. And there is nothing more evil that
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you can do to a child than not give that child their God-given right to see their dad and to have a good
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relationship with their dad. So many women are so spited towards their exes that they give their
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children a completely different version of reality than what actually happened. It takes two to tango.
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And when relationships fail, the women are not these innocent victims that everything just happens
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to. And I see this time and time again. If I talk about a guy, why did a guy cheat? Everyone freaks out
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and says, I'm advocating for cheating. If we ever give the man's point of view, then you are demonized.
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You are demonized. You are, whenever you advocate for men and children having access to their fathers,
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they constantly shoot the messenger instead of talking about the actual problem. Why can't we
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have a conversation about the evil nature of women without bringing men into it? It's always,
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but men, but men, but men. Why? Why must, why must we speak this? Why? Why can't we have an honest
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conversation about where women fall short in relationships without it be dogging on women?
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We have been, for 50 years, we have talked about all the ways that men fall short in relationships.
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And I hear the right and the left do this. You're not a real man. If you don't do this,
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you're not a real man. If your woman works, you're not a real man. Why, why do women think they get
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to decide what makes a man a real man? And it's so interesting because I never hear the men talk