JustPearlyThings - May 03, 2023


Pearl Reveals What Men Love In Women


Episode Stats

Length

6 minutes

Words per Minute

218.76111

Word Count

1,435

Sentence Count

102

Misogynist Sentences

16

Hate Speech Sentences

3


Summary

In this episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, we sit down with the host of the hit Bravo TV show "Wife School" and talk about what it's like being a woman in a male-dominated industry.


Transcript

00:00:00.640 Why is it that you bring that to the table?
00:00:04.260 Like, because a lot of people have controversial opinions,
00:00:08.060 but they don't feel like there's any point
00:00:09.640 in putting it out there
00:00:10.620 because they can't be bothered with the hassle.
00:00:12.540 Yeah, I've just always been that girl
00:00:14.540 that gave her opinion when no one asked, to be honest.
00:00:18.360 I would say a lot of the things I say are basic
00:00:20.920 and I grew up as just those are basic.
00:00:23.360 Like, for example, I always say that,
00:00:26.200 and I say this in no offense to you,
00:00:28.000 but my mom always taught me as a woman,
00:00:30.400 like, you shouldn't get tattoos.
00:00:31.920 And I felt like that was like a basic truth.
00:00:34.420 Like, men don't typically like girls with like sleeves.
00:00:37.080 And to me, that's just like something I was grown up with.
00:00:40.420 So I'll tweet it and then people get mad.
00:00:42.120 Well, the interesting thing about you is you've said things
00:00:45.100 like a woman's place is in the kitchen.
00:00:46.700 Watching you build a production company, build a business,
00:00:50.000 be the lady at the forefront of that business
00:00:52.920 who people have to listen to and the boss,
00:00:54.840 and then hear you to be coming up with these old school things.
00:00:58.860 I'm like, but your role in your life is kind of at odds
00:01:02.700 with some of your opinions.
00:01:03.800 Is that not right?
00:01:04.660 That's interesting.
00:01:05.500 I've gotten that criticism a lot.
00:01:07.160 I wouldn't say it's criticism, by the way.
00:01:08.600 Well, yeah.
00:01:09.120 I mean, observation maybe better.
00:01:11.780 And I would say, yeah, I think it's grown,
00:01:13.500 it's blown up a little faster than I thought.
00:01:15.340 And it came with a lot of problems that I wasn't expecting.
00:01:18.300 And I would say I also have a lot of room to grow and learn.
00:01:21.520 This last year, I've actually taken it upon myself
00:01:23.760 to learn how to cook better.
00:01:26.140 I just did a white, we started a second channel
00:01:28.080 called Wife School, where I actually, I learn.
00:01:30.820 And so I was kind of, I was thinking about this.
00:01:32.800 I was like, who else could figure out how to make it their job,
00:01:35.760 how to be a better wife?
00:01:37.200 I love it.
00:01:38.320 I do, because I kind of did a lot of the same.
00:01:40.600 I kind of see like what you're doing
00:01:42.040 is you're taking your interests
00:01:43.300 and you're turning them into a career.
00:01:45.580 Just like I did with boxing or whatever, you know?
00:01:48.080 So I admire your admission of like,
00:01:52.320 maybe I need to learn this.
00:01:53.480 So I'm just going to do it in public.
00:01:54.800 And if people want to shame me, then so be it.
00:01:57.740 Like, I don't know this, I don't know that.
00:01:59.340 Yeah.
00:01:59.960 No, I just did a wife's school episode
00:02:01.920 where it was like going through
00:02:03.720 what I would cook for my husband in a day.
00:02:05.620 And I fed my whole staff.
00:02:08.020 So like we went through and like what you would cook
00:02:10.380 for like a family of four,
00:02:11.600 because I want four kids.
00:02:12.480 Wow, you've really made your mind up.
00:02:14.700 I like it.
00:02:15.420 Yeah, I mean, ideally, you can't really.
00:02:18.020 Yeah, and it's weird
00:02:19.240 because you're in a relationship type show
00:02:22.020 where it's constantly picking apart
00:02:24.560 what men and women should expect from one another
00:02:26.720 and where the truth is.
00:02:28.860 I would say it's more like
00:02:29.960 based on the outcomes you want.
00:02:31.940 So a lot of times, like as women,
00:02:34.360 we demand traditional outcomes,
00:02:36.140 but we don't have any traditional skills.
00:02:38.780 So it's like, how would you demand that?
00:02:40.420 I don't really care if you want a modern outcome.
00:02:42.700 Like that's not really my problem.
00:02:44.300 Like you live your life how you want to live your life.
00:02:46.480 But if you're asking for traditional outcomes
00:02:49.020 and you don't have a traditional resume,
00:02:50.760 how are you supposed to get that?
00:02:52.540 And the first step is admitting you don't have that
00:02:54.800 and then working on skills to get there.
00:02:58.240 Yeah.
00:02:58.820 And it does feel like you call people out on your show
00:03:02.820 for kind of wanting their cake and eating it.
00:03:06.660 A lot of girls come in with this like,
00:03:09.120 well, I won't expect this from a man
00:03:10.760 and that from a man.
00:03:11.440 And you're like, okay, but what are you bringing?
00:03:13.480 And I've seen girls who thought they were a 10.
00:03:16.220 Oh my gosh.
00:03:16.800 And like one girl in particular,
00:03:18.500 there was a clip that went viral where,
00:03:19.960 you know, she was what people would class as overweight.
00:03:23.120 You know, and you kind of-
00:03:24.380 A whale.
00:03:26.040 Yeah.
00:03:27.100 She was a bigger girl.
00:03:28.200 Whaling it, yeah.
00:03:28.860 And look, and some men would love that, obviously,
00:03:31.100 but like, you know, she had a-
00:03:32.540 Not really.
00:03:33.120 Her perception of herself in reality,
00:03:35.500 you were kind of having to drop some truth on her
00:03:38.320 in that moment.
00:03:39.220 But not just that,
00:03:40.000 there's women who expect men to have six packs,
00:03:42.500 high income, yada, yada.
00:03:43.880 The whole works.
00:03:44.840 And you're looking at them like,
00:03:46.000 but what are you though?
00:03:47.460 And a lot of times,
00:03:48.680 I grew up in a 1% family.
00:03:50.940 So my dad owns a software company
00:03:52.680 with like 200 to 300 people.
00:03:55.620 Most of my brothers make six figures.
00:03:57.400 And I just know like,
00:03:59.740 they would never get in the door.
00:04:01.100 Not even about,
00:04:02.000 I mean, that girl based on her looks.
00:04:03.960 But a lot of the girls,
00:04:04.840 a lot of the girls,
00:04:05.780 they wouldn't get in the door
00:04:06.620 based on how they carry themselves.
00:04:08.220 You know what men are looking for.
00:04:10.840 I know what those type of guys are looking for.
00:04:13.500 Like again,
00:04:14.340 like even with the tattoo thing,
00:04:15.900 like some guys want the girls with the sleeves.
00:04:18.460 They don't care.
00:04:20.220 But like where I'm from,
00:04:21.800 that's just not,
00:04:22.780 you know, for girls,
00:04:23.560 that's not a big thing.
00:04:24.560 I feel bad.
00:04:25.140 I feel like I'm picking on you.
00:04:26.000 No, no.
00:04:26.540 Look, it's fine.
00:04:28.460 It's fine.
00:04:28.820 You can bully me at this point.
00:04:30.560 I've seen how you rule the roost.
00:04:32.320 But one thing that does seem to ring true about you
00:04:34.820 is you seem very aware that
00:04:36.920 men want to be respected
00:04:39.420 and you have a better understanding of men
00:04:41.580 than a lot of women do.
00:04:43.280 And you also understand men's problems with women.
00:04:46.100 It's as if you've been a man
00:04:47.300 and been in a relationship with a woman.
00:04:49.020 You clearly have done research.
00:04:50.660 Where did you come up with this information?
00:04:53.400 A couple of different places.
00:04:54.680 One was my relationship with my little brother.
00:04:58.540 His name's Adam.
00:04:59.940 And me and Adam,
00:05:00.780 Adam is like what I would call
00:05:02.260 like a natural like alpha or,
00:05:04.280 you know, leader.
00:05:05.960 Adam, it's like his way or the highway.
00:05:08.380 And a lot of my sisters like
00:05:09.920 would always fight with Adam.
00:05:11.760 Like Adam was,
00:05:12.420 he just,
00:05:12.920 if you don't do it Adam's way.
00:05:14.060 And what I realized was
00:05:15.000 me and Adam always got along
00:05:16.660 and we didn't when we were younger.
00:05:18.380 And what switched was
00:05:19.660 I just started to stop arguing with him
00:05:21.680 and I just listened to him
00:05:22.820 and took his opinion.
00:05:23.740 And what I realized was
00:05:24.500 I was like,
00:05:25.600 he was willing to do like more for me
00:05:28.620 than I realized.
00:05:29.700 Like he,
00:05:30.400 there's no one that helps me more
00:05:31.800 like behind the scenes
00:05:32.820 than my little brother Adam and my dad.
00:05:35.040 And it's because I genuinely like
00:05:36.560 respect their opinion
00:05:37.460 and listen to them.
00:05:38.500 And it was a really big like
00:05:39.640 turning point for me
00:05:40.640 in my relationship with Adam.
00:05:41.740 It was like when I was like 12.
00:05:42.780 So this was years ago,
00:05:43.820 you know,
00:05:44.220 but where I would always argue
00:05:45.880 and like fight with him
00:05:46.820 than when I just listened to him.
00:05:48.180 And it's also from being on the show
00:05:49.660 where I just started to realize
00:05:51.260 like a lot of times girls,
00:05:52.680 we just cap a lot.
00:05:55.020 And it's just,
00:05:55.780 then I started to feel like a guy
00:05:57.040 because even when I was recruiting
00:05:58.180 for the show,
00:05:59.020 it was like the guys
00:06:00.800 would show up on time.
00:06:02.580 The girls,
00:06:03.220 we would start the show
00:06:04.020 like an hour late
00:06:04.780 because all the girls
00:06:05.380 are like 45 minutes,
00:06:06.600 an hour late.
00:06:07.360 So I would just say
00:06:09.020 it's from partially
00:06:09.780 from like dealing with women
00:06:10.900 on the show,
00:06:11.940 my family and,
00:06:13.320 you know,
00:06:13.500 past relationships too.
00:06:14.800 I haven't always been perfect
00:06:15.980 and you know,
00:06:16.680 you learn from that.
00:06:17.700 As many of you know,
00:06:18.380 I was just banned on TikTok
00:06:20.500 and we are demonetized
00:06:22.220 on a daily basis
00:06:23.460 on this platform.
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