JustPearlyThings - November 06, 2023


Pearl's Fight Against Female Delusion


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9 minutes

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1,610

Sentence count

91

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Misogyny

21

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Toxicity

13

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16

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In this episode, I talk about how to recognize micro-cheating in a relationship and how to deal with it. I also talk about the difference between modern day chicks and our great-great-grandmothers.

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00:00:00.000 Starting today. Psychology Today has really gone off the chains in the last couple of years.
00:00:08.600 You know, when I was younger, I really thought that Psychology Today was like a credible news
00:00:14.900 source. But the older I get, the more I see it's just women complaining about dating out of their 1.00
00:00:22.380 league. That's really what it is. As you guys know, you know, 100% of women want 20% of men.
00:00:27.980 So what we really see in Psychology Today is a bunch of run through chicks psychoanalyzing 1.00
00:00:33.380 the guys that really didn't like them that much, you know. And we used to live in a society where
00:00:39.200 women could take L's in peace. You know what I mean? Like, all right, you don't think our grandmothers
00:00:44.420 or great grandmothers or great great grandmothers took L's. You don't think they ever batted a
00:00:50.820 little out of their league and, you know, got their heart broke, feelings hurt, whatever it was.
00:00:56.340 That totally happened. That absolutely happened. The difference is us women today psychoanalyze 1.00
00:01:04.040 and bitch for a lifetime and then make albums, TV series, whatever it is just out of L's. 1.00
00:01:12.240 You know, men take L's every day. But you don't really see like the men writing an article 0.97
00:01:19.580 about that gold digger bitch that, you know, he was dating for six months and realized was just there 1.00
00:01:25.700 for his money. So now, you know, as I've said, modern women love to be cheated on. Now, everybody 1.00
00:01:31.960 thinks I'm crazy for this opinion. They're like, Pearl, that's not true. But I just had the realization
00:01:36.980 after doing over a hundred episodes of my show, the pregame, which I do on Thursday and Friday nights,
00:01:45.940 where I would interview modern chicks. And I would just find that everybody has a cheating ex-boyfriend. 1.00
00:01:55.360 So it's like, if we don't like cheaters, why do we keep picking them? And it goes back to that we keep
00:02:00.680 dating out of our league and whining. So now this is a psychoanalysis from some crazy lady. I don't 1.00
00:02:09.140 know who wrote this, but I guarantee it was a chick. So how to recognize micro cheating in a 0.90
00:02:16.020 relationship. So we're to the point where we are, we're bitching about micro cheating. The generation
00:02:23.600 of women with asses on Instagram that walk around half naked are now bitching about micro cheating. 1.00
00:02:30.380 So what is micro cheating, you ask? Micro cheating involves actions or behaviors by your partner 0.99
00:02:37.800 that make you question their emotional or physical commitment to your relationship. So let me get this
00:02:43.220 straight. Anything, and this is the problem where we tell women our feelings are valid. Guys, I am a 0.98
00:02:50.620 woman and I will tell you, we have a million feelings every day. And 90% of the time they're dramatic and
00:02:56.700 they're not valid. And the problem is we have lied to women about our nature. So we tell us that we 0.91
00:03:02.440 have perfectly reasonable thoughts and all of our, our feelings are perfectly reasonable when we're not
00:03:10.100 reasonable beings. Sorry guys, we're just, we're very swayed by propaganda. We're very swayed by our
00:03:16.080 environment and our feelings change every day. So this idea that now you're going to bitch at your 1.00
00:03:21.980 boyfriend or your husband for micro cheating because you questioned his emotional or physical
00:03:29.380 commitment to the relationship. You know, I've heard guys say that they, they cheat because they're just
00:03:36.800 so tired of their woman bitching about cheating. Now I know you guys, you're, you're thinking that's
00:03:41.400 crazy, but let's try to, let's try to go from their point of view for a second. It's like every day,
00:03:47.260 if someone's accusing you of stealing, did you rob me? Did you rob me? Did you rob me? It's like
00:03:53.100 by the hundredth time, you're like, I might as well fricking rob you because every day you're 0.91
00:03:57.420 bitching about it. Um, and this is how a lot of men feel. I'm not saying it's okay, but a lot of you 0.69
00:04:02.920 chicks are so crazy. You drive men to cheat and nobody wants to have this conversation because 1.00
00:04:08.420 honestly it makes women look bad. So this can include actions like regularly texting someone they find 0.94
00:04:14.580 attractive or obsessively liking social media posts. So let me get this straight. Okay.
00:04:22.280 Now you're going to be checking whose pictures he's liking. And this is what I mean when I say
00:04:28.540 women, we just like look for problems. Like I think sometimes we just like problems because we go 1.00
00:04:34.560 looking for them. Um, and you know, our grandmothers, our great grandmothers, they couldn't
00:04:42.340 help if our husbands were flirting with the secretary at work and they didn't go looking 1.00
00:04:48.200 for it. And that's like the difference between modern day chicks and older chicks. Like modern 0.98
00:04:53.600 day chicks, it's like, we just want the drama. We just want problems. Um, so a 2020 study published
00:04:59.780 in psychological reports found that a lack of trust in your partner can wreak havoc in your
00:05:05.240 relationship, leading to emotional instability, conflicts, and even the intention to break up.
00:05:10.500 What's more people who don't trust their partners are more likely to snoop through their cell phones,
00:05:15.020 which can make problems worse. Do you see how, okay, let's just be honest guys. Men aren't really
00:05:21.900 looking through phones like that. Maybe more feminine men do, but in general, let's just, 0.94
00:05:27.040 let's just be honest. Women are much better cheaters than men. Let's just call it what it is. And I know 1.00
00:05:32.140 you can find some study that says men cheat more than women, but in my opinion, education has just been
00:05:38.260 infiltrated by feminists and you really can't trust a lot of these studies. But if I go to the streets 1.00
00:05:44.880 and ask the people who cheats more men or women, they usually say women. If I go to the streets and
00:05:50.660 ask the people who's better liar, men or women, it's typically women. It's typically, they're just 0.99
00:05:56.540 typically better cheaters. You know, men, it's kind of like, if you catch them, they're like, all right,
00:06:05.500 all right. But the women, they'll deny it to the grave. It's so funny. There was an article in like
00:06:10.920 the 1900s of a guy who is just so perplexed by how women, when they were guilty of a crime,
00:06:19.160 how they would just never admit it. They would just never. Were the men, it's like, okay,
00:06:24.100 when the evidence came out, they would kind of, they would be like, all right, I did it. But that's
00:06:28.720 female nature. Like female nature is just much more deceptive than male nature. But it's just 1.00
00:06:36.040 funny because we always want to hide the bad parts of female nature, but we're never, we never hide 1.00
00:06:43.040 the bad parts of female nature. So it's interesting in this article because they're putting the onus of 0.99
00:06:50.240 responsibility on the men because they say people who don't trust their partners are more likely to
00:06:55.140 snoop through their cell phones. So it's not people that snoop through cell phones are more likely to
00:07:00.940 be crazy. It's their fault, right? You didn't trust them. So it's their fault that you snooped.
00:07:08.920 Rather than jump the gun on the issue emotionally, separate yourself from the information you just
00:07:13.580 received, weigh the signs that your relationship is strong, happy, and fulfilling against the signs
00:07:19.180 that your partner has one foot out the door. For instance, before you react to the secret that
00:07:25.620 was kept from you, ask the following question. How meaningful is this information to you? Has your
00:07:32.460 partner ever given you a reason to doubt their faithfulness? Have you ever kept similar secrets
00:07:37.440 from your partner? What was your motivation behind keeping this information secret from them?
00:07:43.340 As hard as it may be to hear, if your partner has a history of cheating, even the most innocuous
00:07:51.120 behaviors may fit the description of micro-cheating should be viewed as a red flag. A 2018 study published
00:07:58.360 in the Journal Archives of Sexual Behavior found that people who have cheated in a previous relationship
00:08:05.240 were three times more likely to cheat again in a subsequent relationship. This suggests that past
00:08:11.700 infidelity is a strong predictor of future infidelity and that some people may have a tendency to engage
00:08:18.540 in repeated acts of dishonesty or betrayal. Therefore, if you notice that your partner is frequently
00:08:23.900 texting, flirting, or holding things from you and they have cheated before, you may want to reconsider
00:08:29.520 whether you can trust them. It's so funny though because most women know what kind of guy their partner is
00:08:38.400 or their boyfriend. I hate the word partner. And it's really interesting because women will complain 1.00
00:08:45.640 about all of these red flags that we saw before we even dated. It's like we'll date guys similar to
00:08:52.240 Chris Brown, Jason Derulo, and then cry when we get cheated on. And ladies, I just want us as a group
00:09:00.080 to decide we have no sympathy. None. I just think as a group, if you date a rapper, an entertainer,
00:09:07.920 um, and you get cheated on, I got, I got nothing for you. Um, if you date a guy in the top 10% of men,
00:09:15.560 um, you could date the top 50% of men and not really have top 10% problems, but all these chicks 0.88
00:09:22.660 date the top five, 10% of men in terms of looks, in terms of income, and then whine when they get cheated
00:09:29.720 on. And I'm sorry, guys, I'm not saying it's okay, but I really think we should understand
00:09:35.520 what the probabilities are when we go into a relationship and really pick our battles here.