JustPearlyThings - May 14, 2023


Pearl's Honest Opinion On Men Paying For Only Fans

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Demon Daniel
Delusional Modern Women Millionaire Picked His Wife In The Most Unique Way

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Length

10 minutes

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210.05

Word count

2,174

Sentence count

265

Harmful content

Misogyny

6

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Toxicity

16

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Hate speech

3

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In this episode we talk about social media, porn and cheating. We also get into a heated discussion about onlyfs and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We discuss the benefits and drawbacks of social media and how it can be used in our everyday lives.

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00:00:00.000 What about OnlyFans subscription, if you find it?
00:00:02.000 Ooh, tough.
00:00:03.000 Let me see.
00:00:04.000 That would turn me off massively. 1.00
00:00:06.000 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:00:07.000 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:00:08.000 OnlyFans can be used in different ways, though. 1.00
00:00:13.000 There's people that do OnlyFans that you don't need to fully do the whole...
00:00:17.000 Wait, he subscribed to one, right?
00:00:19.000 That's what you're saying?
00:00:20.000 He subscribed to OnlyFans.
00:00:21.000 I think that's sad.
00:00:22.000 I'd almost rather he cheat than subscribe to one.
00:00:26.000 Yeah, because nobody wants you to the point you have to get with it.
00:00:33.000 You have to pay just to see pictures.
00:00:35.000 And then I would wonder, I'm like, did I do something wrong?
00:00:38.000 You fumbled a bag.
00:00:40.000 I've had this conversation, though.
00:00:42.000 It's the same with maybe escorts and stuff, isn't it?
00:00:44.000 So let's say, for instance, with OnlyFans, it makes it more personal.
00:00:46.000 So let's say you could have OnlyFans and you don't probably,
00:00:49.000 but if you do and someone really wanted...
00:00:51.000 They couldn't really bother to wine and Daniel or talk to you like that,
00:00:54.000 but they really were sexually attracted to you,
00:00:57.000 they could just go through the OnlyFans,
00:00:59.000 pay that little subscription.
00:01:01.000 See everything.
00:01:02.000 In their head, you're a body now.
00:01:04.000 Yeah?
00:01:05.000 You know what I mean?
00:01:06.000 You've done whatever.
00:01:07.000 And then they can go on with their life.
00:01:08.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:09.000 Same thing with escorts or whatever.
00:01:11.000 Instead of doing a whole dating situation,
00:01:13.000 they paid for an escort, they've got that out of the system,
00:01:15.000 and they've moved on.
00:01:16.000 So it's like, I think with OnlyFans,
00:01:18.000 the only difference between OnlyFans and Pornhub is that
00:01:22.000 they might know the person.
00:01:25.000 They might know who the person is.
00:01:27.000 It's within reach.
00:01:28.000 That's why I think OnlyFans is growing,
00:01:30.000 because it's more personal.
00:01:31.000 You ain't got to do nothing though.
00:01:33.000 You know there's people like, there's female escorts. 1.00
00:01:36.000 Yeah.
00:01:37.000 The guy with like, oh, the guys.
00:01:38.000 That was spoiler-man.
00:01:39.000 They won't do nothing.
00:01:40.000 Same thing with OnlyFans.
00:01:41.000 Like you haven't got to sexually do anything.
00:01:43.000 There's a super chat.
00:01:44.000 There's a super chat.
00:01:45.000 Never go through a girl's phone. 1.00
00:01:46.000 If you believe that you need to go through her phone,
00:01:48.000 all you're doing is looking for anything to confirm
00:01:50.000 what you already believe is happening.
00:01:52.000 Mm-hmm.
00:01:53.000 Sorry, but.
00:01:55.000 That is true.
00:01:56.000 Only, that's a violation.
00:01:57.000 OnlyFans are here. 0.92
00:01:58.000 Please, please, please.
00:01:59.000 Okay, because I would genuinely look at myself and say,
00:02:02.000 what did I do to drive?
00:02:03.000 Like that he has to pay?
00:02:08.000 He can't just go online?
00:02:10.000 Like someone else.
00:02:11.000 Because paying for porn in 2023 is wild in and of itself.
00:02:17.000 But it's the same as a, I agree.
00:02:19.000 I'm just saying it's the same as a date.
00:02:21.000 Remember this, remember this.
00:02:22.000 A lot of people, it's the fault of having something that they can't have.
00:02:26.000 And it's an attraction where all we might get caught.
00:02:29.000 Everyone can have it for $5.99.
00:02:30.000 For $5.99.
00:02:31.000 But I mean, that's a sexual drive because I can't,
00:02:35.000 I'm not physically having you.
00:02:36.000 You're just someone that's on a computer screen.
00:02:38.000 It's the same thing like we're an affair.
00:02:40.000 A lot of people, an affair is sexy and they love it.
00:02:43.000 And it's an attraction until it becomes something that's like allowed.
00:02:47.000 You know, like people leave their wives for their mistress.
00:02:50.000 And they get with the mistress.
00:02:51.000 And they get with the mistress and they're like,
00:02:52.000 all of a sudden it's like, it's not as fun anymore.
00:02:55.000 It's not the same.
00:02:56.000 We all want something that we can't have.
00:02:58.000 That doesn't really happen often.
00:02:59.000 Leaving wives for mistress. 0.90
00:03:00.000 And those people are still tough.
00:03:01.000 You might get left by the wife and end up with the mistress, 0.98
00:03:03.000 but you don't leave the wife for the mistress. 0.99
00:03:05.000 You're a dummy in that situation. 1.00
00:03:07.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:03:08.000 You're a dumb ass. 1.00
00:03:10.000 Dumb ass. 1.00
00:03:11.000 Has social media ever caused an argument in a relationship? 1.00
00:03:15.000 Yeah.
00:03:16.000 Oh my God.
00:03:17.000 Yeah.
00:03:18.000 What have women argued with you or men about?
00:03:20.000 The liking game.
00:03:22.000 Back when that was a feature when I used to get me in heated discussions all the time.
00:03:27.000 But I would, I was like, I would do it for like algorithm things.
00:03:31.000 So if I know I'm about to post, I'll just like anything on my timeline.
00:03:34.000 Cause I know they're going to look and they're going to go and like my thing back.
00:03:37.000 Yeah.
00:03:38.000 That was that.
00:03:39.000 That was the vibe.
00:03:40.000 I would like picture of your grand, your ankle, whatever, dogs, anything on that timeline
00:03:44.000 at that time.
00:03:45.000 I would just, I would just think, and they'll be next to me when I do it.
00:03:47.000 It's not like I have to do it in secret, but I understand it looks crazy.
00:03:50.000 It looks crazy.
00:03:51.000 Yeah.
00:03:52.000 It looks crazy.
00:03:53.000 Anything you pop, cause as well, it puts it onto their newsfeed as well.
00:03:55.000 Remember when you can see what other people are like?
00:03:57.000 No, that's what I'm talking about.
00:03:58.000 That's when it was an issue.
00:03:59.000 That's when it was an issue.
00:04:00.000 Yeah.
00:04:01.000 Yeah.
00:04:02.000 So I used to get into, into situations about that.
00:04:03.000 But I think on the flip side, if your girl only follows 90 people, let's say for instance,
00:04:07.000 and then, and her, you know what I mean?
00:04:09.000 And then she follows that one guy.
00:04:10.000 You could be, you might be, you see 91.
00:04:13.000 Who's that?
00:04:14.000 Who's that 91?
00:04:15.000 She haven't been there.
00:04:16.000 You know what I mean?
00:04:17.000 So I think it works both ways though.
00:04:19.000 What have you gotten into arguments?
00:04:20.000 My situation was different where, um, a girl slid into my DMS on Facebook. 0.97
00:04:25.000 I like went the extra mile on Facebook to find out that she went college with my girl.
00:04:30.000 And then how, how that went was Facebook.
00:04:33.000 You know, like when you're in relationship, it says you're in relationship with this person.
00:04:36.000 I wasn't that smart when I was below 25, like I said.
00:04:40.000 Um, so what happened was, um, she was like, Oh, when we started having a conversation,
00:04:46.000 she was like, Oh, but you're in a relationship with this person.
00:04:49.000 Hold on a minute.
00:04:50.000 I think I went to the same college.
00:04:51.000 Oh, I did go to the same college.
00:04:53.000 She screenshotted my whole conversation with the girl and send it to my, um, my then girlfriend, man.
00:04:59.000 And that obviously caused an issue.
00:05:00.000 Oh, that argument is because you were cheating?
00:05:01.000 Yeah.
00:05:02.000 I was below 25.
00:05:03.000 I was below 25.
00:05:04.000 I was below 25.
00:05:05.000 I was below 25.
00:05:06.000 I was below 25.
00:05:07.000 I was below 25.
00:05:08.000 I was below 25.
00:05:09.000 I was below 25.
00:05:10.000 I was below 25.
00:05:11.000 It wasn't take seriously.
00:05:12.000 Fair enough argument.
00:05:13.000 What did you get in an argument about?
00:05:16.000 Um, it's essentially, like you said, it's one of those, like, back when you can see who
00:05:21.000 you liked and what you liked.
00:05:23.000 Back when that was a thing is like, it was like, back then, again, we were young. 0.98
00:05:28.000 We were dumb.
00:05:29.000 We didn't know where the social media was. 0.98
00:05:31.000 We grew up with social media essentially at the same time.
00:05:34.000 So you would see your partner liking all these things and then that would be an argument
00:05:39.000 because for those who don't know, who are too young to know, Instagram used to show people
00:05:44.000 who you liked, like the pictures you liked on like his own separate feed.
00:05:48.000 So that feed will get you in trouble.
00:05:52.000 Did you know that, um, I'm not sure if it's the same now, but before on Instagram, if you
00:05:57.000 were following under 200 people, it wouldn't show what order you followed people in.
00:06:02.000 Did you know that?
00:06:04.000 So like, let's say your man goes out on a night out and he starts following someone new.
00:06:08.000 Then you know, you might click on their page and you'll be like, ah, cool.
00:06:11.000 She was at the same party.
00:06:12.000 She obviously had an interaction.
00:06:14.000 However, if he was following, if he's following on, if they're following under 200, I don't
00:06:19.000 know if it's still the same feature and I don't know if he updates and stuff, but yeah,
00:06:24.000 man, those kinds of things get into, you get into arguments over that.
00:06:27.000 Well, wait, let me ask you something, right?
00:06:28.000 Because what you just said, bro, I weren't cheating.
00:06:30.000 It was a conversation through Facebook.
00:06:32.000 Bro, I don't want to hear anything.
00:06:33.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:34.000 I'm not trying to hear it, my boy.
00:06:36.000 I'm not trying to hear it.
00:06:37.000 I'm not trying to hear it.
00:06:38.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:39.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:40.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:41.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:42.000 Like, I think cheating is like a physical situation.
00:06:45.000 It's not physical.
00:06:46.000 No, I don't agree.
00:06:47.000 No, it can be emotional.
00:06:48.000 You can emotionally cheat.
00:06:50.000 All right, let me ask you this.
00:06:51.000 Let me ask you this, because I don't know.
00:06:52.000 I like to hear that coming from women. 1.00
00:06:53.000 Can I ask you something?
00:06:54.000 Is it devil's advocate?
00:06:55.000 Is it really the end of the world if he's messaging another girl?
00:06:58.000 Thank you.
00:06:59.000 Like, I agree.
00:07:00.000 I agree.
00:07:01.000 It's not the end of the world, but it's not the start of the eyeball.
00:07:05.000 I just think, like, if we have open social media profiles, can we really, like, get off
00:07:12.000 our high horse sometime?
00:07:13.000 Like, because I think that attention is to women as sex is to men.
00:07:18.000 Do you guys agree with that?
00:07:19.000 Yeah.
00:07:20.000 Okay, so I'm like, if we, most of us have open Instagrams and relationships, meaning we
00:07:24.000 can get attention from high status men, and that's always on the table.
00:07:28.000 But if he sends a message, like, it's the end of the world?
00:07:31.000 No.
00:07:32.000 But if he does what he was doing.
00:07:35.000 She messaged me first.
00:07:37.000 I was just responding.
00:07:38.000 It's rude not to respond.
00:07:39.000 What kind of message we talking on?
00:07:40.000 If it's, like, you know, emojis and stuff like that, then it's a bit mad.
00:07:44.000 And I mean, if it's general conversation, then, you know, you might be able to bus case.
00:07:49.000 It's crazy.
00:07:50.000 I think I just look at things, like, differently.
00:07:52.000 I just...
00:07:53.000 No, I'm with you.
00:07:54.000 You pick the problems, innit?
00:07:55.000 You pick, like, battles and wars, I guess.
00:07:56.000 Yeah, you gotta pick battles.
00:07:57.000 Because if you're the type of person to, like, date for, like, a long-term relationship
00:08:02.000 or marriage, right, then it's like, like, in the grand scheme of things, is a message
00:08:08.000 gonna make or break your life?
00:08:09.000 Yeah, exactly. 0.98
00:08:10.000 Are you gonna die on the hill? 0.93
00:08:11.000 It's the intention about...
00:08:12.000 Do you know, I think most of it becomes that gray area of the unknown, so it's the attention
00:08:15.000 behind the message.
00:08:16.000 Alright, let me ask you a question, because I don't feel like you're on my side.
00:08:19.000 I'm not.
00:08:20.000 Okay.
00:08:21.000 Alright, alright, cool.
00:08:22.000 You're with your girl.
00:08:23.000 You've been with her a little while.
00:08:24.000 You like her on a break, yeah?
00:08:26.000 Break.
00:08:27.000 You mean she's single?
00:08:28.000 Okay, but...
00:08:29.000 Okay, she's single, she's single. 1.00
00:08:31.000 Okay, so you might agree with me on this.
00:08:32.000 Yeah?
00:08:33.000 You've been with each other for a while.
00:08:34.000 Now, I was in a situation...
00:08:35.000 Okay, you have a girl.
00:08:37.000 She's not your girl, but you know like you have not...
00:08:40.000 It sounds bad, like a backup, not a backup.
00:08:42.000 You have people on your phone that you know like you.
00:08:44.000 Right.
00:08:45.000 Now, I was in a situation where I was always with someone from like 16.
00:08:49.000 So when I wasn't with someone, I used to just grab a girl that I knew liked me because
00:08:53.000 I wanted to feel like it was a fulfilled thing, right?
00:08:56.000 Demon. 0.85
00:08:57.000 Demon. 0.97
00:08:58.000 So if I'm not with you and we've broken up for like a week and we have a sexual situation,
00:09:02.000 I didn't cheat on you because we were on a break.
00:09:05.000 And you'll mind them fingers, bro.
00:09:06.000 I hear you.
00:09:07.000 What I was saying here is the moment you are on a break, you've fed her to the wolves,
00:09:19.000 bro.
00:09:20.000 You can't...
00:09:21.000 And vice versa, bro.
00:09:22.000 You're single.
00:09:23.000 You're two single people.
00:09:24.000 It's no longer...
00:09:25.000 I know it may feel like, you know, okay, cool.
00:09:26.000 We were in a relationship, but boy, you're not under that covenant.
00:09:30.000 You're not under that contract, that obligation, that verbal commitment anymore.
00:09:34.000 So whatever you do, it might be frowned upon.
00:09:36.000 It might be whatever, but some people just move on quicker than others.
00:09:39.000 That's all I feel.
00:09:40.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:09:46.000 on this platform.
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00:09:57.000 Alright.
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