Pearl's Honest Opinion On Men Paying For Only Fans
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Summary
In this episode we talk about social media, porn and cheating. We also get into a heated discussion about onlyfs and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We discuss the benefits and drawbacks of social media and how it can be used in our everyday lives.
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What about OnlyFans subscription, if you find it?
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OnlyFans can be used in different ways, though.
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There's people that do OnlyFans that you don't need to fully do the whole...
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I'd almost rather he cheat than subscribe to one.
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Yeah, because nobody wants you to the point you have to get with it.
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And then I would wonder, I'm like, did I do something wrong?
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It's the same with maybe escorts and stuff, isn't it?
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So let's say, for instance, with OnlyFans, it makes it more personal.
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So let's say you could have OnlyFans and you don't probably,
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They couldn't really bother to wine and Daniel or talk to you like that,
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but they really were sexually attracted to you,
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they paid for an escort, they've got that out of the system,
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the only difference between OnlyFans and Pornhub is that
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You know there's people like, there's female escorts.
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If you believe that you need to go through her phone,
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all you're doing is looking for anything to confirm
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Okay, because I would genuinely look at myself and say,
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Because paying for porn in 2023 is wild in and of itself.
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A lot of people, it's the fault of having something that they can't have.
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And it's an attraction where all we might get caught.
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But I mean, that's a sexual drive because I can't,
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You're just someone that's on a computer screen.
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A lot of people, an affair is sexy and they love it.
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And it's an attraction until it becomes something that's like allowed.
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You know, like people leave their wives for their mistress.
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And they get with the mistress and they're like,
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all of a sudden it's like, it's not as fun anymore.
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You might get left by the wife and end up with the mistress,
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Has social media ever caused an argument in a relationship?
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Back when that was a feature when I used to get me in heated discussions all the time.
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But I would, I was like, I would do it for like algorithm things.
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So if I know I'm about to post, I'll just like anything on my timeline.
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Cause I know they're going to look and they're going to go and like my thing back.
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I would like picture of your grand, your ankle, whatever, dogs, anything on that timeline
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I would just, I would just think, and they'll be next to me when I do it.
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It's not like I have to do it in secret, but I understand it looks crazy.
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Anything you pop, cause as well, it puts it onto their newsfeed as well.
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Remember when you can see what other people are like?
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So I used to get into, into situations about that.
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But I think on the flip side, if your girl only follows 90 people, let's say for instance,
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My situation was different where, um, a girl slid into my DMS on Facebook.
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I like went the extra mile on Facebook to find out that she went college with my girl.
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You know, like when you're in relationship, it says you're in relationship with this person.
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I wasn't that smart when I was below 25, like I said.
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Um, so what happened was, um, she was like, Oh, when we started having a conversation,
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she was like, Oh, but you're in a relationship with this person.
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She screenshotted my whole conversation with the girl and send it to my, um, my then girlfriend, man.
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Oh, that argument is because you were cheating?
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Um, it's essentially, like you said, it's one of those, like, back when you can see who
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Back when that was a thing is like, it was like, back then, again, we were young.
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We grew up with social media essentially at the same time.
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So you would see your partner liking all these things and then that would be an argument
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because for those who don't know, who are too young to know, Instagram used to show people
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who you liked, like the pictures you liked on like his own separate feed.
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Did you know that, um, I'm not sure if it's the same now, but before on Instagram, if you
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were following under 200 people, it wouldn't show what order you followed people in.
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So like, let's say your man goes out on a night out and he starts following someone new.
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Then you know, you might click on their page and you'll be like, ah, cool.
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However, if he was following, if he's following on, if they're following under 200, I don't
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know if it's still the same feature and I don't know if he updates and stuff, but yeah,
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man, those kinds of things get into, you get into arguments over that.
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Because what you just said, bro, I weren't cheating.
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Like, I think cheating is like a physical situation.
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Is it really the end of the world if he's messaging another girl?
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It's not the end of the world, but it's not the start of the eyeball.
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I just think, like, if we have open social media profiles, can we really, like, get off
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Like, because I think that attention is to women as sex is to men.
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Okay, so I'm like, if we, most of us have open Instagrams and relationships, meaning we
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can get attention from high status men, and that's always on the table.
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But if he sends a message, like, it's the end of the world?
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If it's, like, you know, emojis and stuff like that, then it's a bit mad.
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And I mean, if it's general conversation, then, you know, you might be able to bus case.
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I think I just look at things, like, differently.
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Because if you're the type of person to, like, date for, like, a long-term relationship
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or marriage, right, then it's like, like, in the grand scheme of things, is a message
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Do you know, I think most of it becomes that gray area of the unknown, so it's the attention
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Alright, let me ask you a question, because I don't feel like you're on my side.
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She's not your girl, but you know like you have not...
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You have people on your phone that you know like you.
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Now, I was in a situation where I was always with someone from like 16.
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So when I wasn't with someone, I used to just grab a girl that I knew liked me because
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I wanted to feel like it was a fulfilled thing, right?
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So if I'm not with you and we've broken up for like a week and we have a sexual situation,
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I didn't cheat on you because we were on a break.
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What I was saying here is the moment you are on a break, you've fed her to the wolves,
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We were in a relationship, but boy, you're not under that covenant.
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You're not under that contract, that obligation, that verbal commitment anymore.
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It might be whatever, but some people just move on quicker than others.
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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