JustPearlyThings - May 14, 2023


Pearl's Honest Opinion On Men Paying For Only Fans


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10 minutes

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In this episode we talk about social media, porn and cheating. We also get into a heated discussion about onlyfs and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We discuss the benefits and drawbacks of social media and how it can be used in our everyday lives.

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00:00:00.000 What about OnlyFans subscription, if you find it?
00:00:02.000 Ooh, tough.
00:00:03.000 Let me see.
00:00:04.000 That would turn me off massively. 1.00
00:00:06.000 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:00:07.000 You're an idiot. 1.00
00:00:08.000 OnlyFans can be used in different ways, though. 1.00
00:00:13.000 There's people that do OnlyFans that you don't need to fully do the whole...
00:00:17.000 Wait, he subscribed to one, right?
00:00:19.000 That's what you're saying?
00:00:20.000 He subscribed to OnlyFans.
00:00:21.000 I think that's sad.
00:00:22.000 I'd almost rather he cheat than subscribe to one.
00:00:26.000 Yeah, because nobody wants you to the point you have to get with it.
00:00:33.000 You have to pay just to see pictures.
00:00:35.000 And then I would wonder, I'm like, did I do something wrong?
00:00:38.000 You fumbled a bag.
00:00:40.000 I've had this conversation, though.
00:00:42.000 It's the same with maybe escorts and stuff, isn't it?
00:00:44.000 So let's say, for instance, with OnlyFans, it makes it more personal.
00:00:46.000 So let's say you could have OnlyFans and you don't probably,
00:00:49.000 but if you do and someone really wanted...
00:00:51.000 They couldn't really bother to wine and Daniel or talk to you like that,
00:00:54.000 but they really were sexually attracted to you,
00:00:57.000 they could just go through the OnlyFans,
00:00:59.000 pay that little subscription.
00:01:01.000 See everything.
00:01:02.000 In their head, you're a body now.
00:01:04.000 Yeah?
00:01:05.000 You know what I mean?
00:01:06.000 You've done whatever.
00:01:07.000 And then they can go on with their life.
00:01:08.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:09.000 Same thing with escorts or whatever.
00:01:11.000 Instead of doing a whole dating situation,
00:01:13.000 they paid for an escort, they've got that out of the system,
00:01:15.000 and they've moved on.
00:01:16.000 So it's like, I think with OnlyFans,
00:01:18.000 the only difference between OnlyFans and Pornhub is that
00:01:22.000 they might know the person.
00:01:25.000 They might know who the person is.
00:01:27.000 It's within reach.
00:01:28.000 That's why I think OnlyFans is growing,
00:01:30.000 because it's more personal.
00:01:31.000 You ain't got to do nothing though.
00:01:33.000 You know there's people like, there's female escorts. 1.00
00:01:36.000 Yeah.
00:01:37.000 The guy with like, oh, the guys.
00:01:38.000 That was spoiler-man.
00:01:39.000 They won't do nothing.
00:01:40.000 Same thing with OnlyFans.
00:01:41.000 Like you haven't got to sexually do anything.
00:01:43.000 There's a super chat.
00:01:44.000 There's a super chat.
00:01:45.000 Never go through a girl's phone. 1.00
00:01:46.000 If you believe that you need to go through her phone,
00:01:48.000 all you're doing is looking for anything to confirm
00:01:50.000 what you already believe is happening.
00:01:52.000 Mm-hmm.
00:01:53.000 Sorry, but.
00:01:55.000 That is true.
00:01:56.000 Only, that's a violation.
00:01:57.000 OnlyFans are here. 0.92
00:01:58.000 Please, please, please.
00:01:59.000 Okay, because I would genuinely look at myself and say,
00:02:02.000 what did I do to drive?
00:02:03.000 Like that he has to pay?
00:02:08.000 He can't just go online?
00:02:10.000 Like someone else.
00:02:11.000 Because paying for porn in 2023 is wild in and of itself.
00:02:17.000 But it's the same as a, I agree.
00:02:19.000 I'm just saying it's the same as a date.
00:02:21.000 Remember this, remember this.
00:02:22.000 A lot of people, it's the fault of having something that they can't have.
00:02:26.000 And it's an attraction where all we might get caught.
00:02:29.000 Everyone can have it for $5.99.
00:02:30.000 For $5.99.
00:02:31.000 But I mean, that's a sexual drive because I can't,
00:02:35.000 I'm not physically having you.
00:02:36.000 You're just someone that's on a computer screen.
00:02:38.000 It's the same thing like we're an affair.
00:02:40.000 A lot of people, an affair is sexy and they love it.
00:02:43.000 And it's an attraction until it becomes something that's like allowed.
00:02:47.000 You know, like people leave their wives for their mistress.
00:02:50.000 And they get with the mistress.
00:02:51.000 And they get with the mistress and they're like,
00:02:52.000 all of a sudden it's like, it's not as fun anymore.
00:02:55.000 It's not the same.
00:02:56.000 We all want something that we can't have.
00:02:58.000 That doesn't really happen often.
00:02:59.000 Leaving wives for mistress. 0.90
00:03:00.000 And those people are still tough.
00:03:01.000 You might get left by the wife and end up with the mistress, 0.98
00:03:03.000 but you don't leave the wife for the mistress. 0.99
00:03:05.000 You're a dummy in that situation. 1.00
00:03:07.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:03:08.000 You're a dumb ass. 1.00
00:03:10.000 Dumb ass. 1.00
00:03:11.000 Has social media ever caused an argument in a relationship? 1.00
00:03:15.000 Yeah.
00:03:16.000 Oh my God.
00:03:17.000 Yeah.
00:03:18.000 What have women argued with you or men about?
00:03:20.000 The liking game.
00:03:22.000 Back when that was a feature when I used to get me in heated discussions all the time.
00:03:27.000 But I would, I was like, I would do it for like algorithm things.
00:03:31.000 So if I know I'm about to post, I'll just like anything on my timeline.
00:03:34.000 Cause I know they're going to look and they're going to go and like my thing back.
00:03:37.000 Yeah.
00:03:38.000 That was that.
00:03:39.000 That was the vibe.
00:03:40.000 I would like picture of your grand, your ankle, whatever, dogs, anything on that timeline
00:03:44.000 at that time.
00:03:45.000 I would just, I would just think, and they'll be next to me when I do it.
00:03:47.000 It's not like I have to do it in secret, but I understand it looks crazy.
00:03:50.000 It looks crazy.
00:03:51.000 Yeah.
00:03:52.000 It looks crazy.
00:03:53.000 Anything you pop, cause as well, it puts it onto their newsfeed as well.
00:03:55.000 Remember when you can see what other people are like?
00:03:57.000 No, that's what I'm talking about.
00:03:58.000 That's when it was an issue.
00:03:59.000 That's when it was an issue.
00:04:00.000 Yeah.
00:04:01.000 Yeah.
00:04:02.000 So I used to get into, into situations about that.
00:04:03.000 But I think on the flip side, if your girl only follows 90 people, let's say for instance,
00:04:07.000 and then, and her, you know what I mean?
00:04:09.000 And then she follows that one guy.
00:04:10.000 You could be, you might be, you see 91.
00:04:13.000 Who's that?
00:04:14.000 Who's that 91?
00:04:15.000 She haven't been there.
00:04:16.000 You know what I mean?
00:04:17.000 So I think it works both ways though.
00:04:19.000 What have you gotten into arguments?
00:04:20.000 My situation was different where, um, a girl slid into my DMS on Facebook. 0.97
00:04:25.000 I like went the extra mile on Facebook to find out that she went college with my girl.
00:04:30.000 And then how, how that went was Facebook.
00:04:33.000 You know, like when you're in relationship, it says you're in relationship with this person.
00:04:36.000 I wasn't that smart when I was below 25, like I said.
00:04:40.000 Um, so what happened was, um, she was like, Oh, when we started having a conversation,
00:04:46.000 she was like, Oh, but you're in a relationship with this person.
00:04:49.000 Hold on a minute.
00:04:50.000 I think I went to the same college.
00:04:51.000 Oh, I did go to the same college.
00:04:53.000 She screenshotted my whole conversation with the girl and send it to my, um, my then girlfriend, man.
00:04:59.000 And that obviously caused an issue.
00:05:00.000 Oh, that argument is because you were cheating?
00:05:01.000 Yeah.
00:05:02.000 I was below 25.
00:05:03.000 I was below 25.
00:05:04.000 I was below 25.
00:05:05.000 I was below 25.
00:05:06.000 I was below 25.
00:05:07.000 I was below 25.
00:05:08.000 I was below 25.
00:05:09.000 I was below 25.
00:05:10.000 I was below 25.
00:05:11.000 It wasn't take seriously.
00:05:12.000 Fair enough argument.
00:05:13.000 What did you get in an argument about?
00:05:16.000 Um, it's essentially, like you said, it's one of those, like, back when you can see who
00:05:21.000 you liked and what you liked.
00:05:23.000 Back when that was a thing is like, it was like, back then, again, we were young. 0.98
00:05:28.000 We were dumb.
00:05:29.000 We didn't know where the social media was. 0.98
00:05:31.000 We grew up with social media essentially at the same time.
00:05:34.000 So you would see your partner liking all these things and then that would be an argument
00:05:39.000 because for those who don't know, who are too young to know, Instagram used to show people
00:05:44.000 who you liked, like the pictures you liked on like his own separate feed.
00:05:48.000 So that feed will get you in trouble.
00:05:52.000 Did you know that, um, I'm not sure if it's the same now, but before on Instagram, if you
00:05:57.000 were following under 200 people, it wouldn't show what order you followed people in.
00:06:02.000 Did you know that?
00:06:04.000 So like, let's say your man goes out on a night out and he starts following someone new.
00:06:08.000 Then you know, you might click on their page and you'll be like, ah, cool.
00:06:11.000 She was at the same party.
00:06:12.000 She obviously had an interaction.
00:06:14.000 However, if he was following, if he's following on, if they're following under 200, I don't
00:06:19.000 know if it's still the same feature and I don't know if he updates and stuff, but yeah,
00:06:24.000 man, those kinds of things get into, you get into arguments over that.
00:06:27.000 Well, wait, let me ask you something, right?
00:06:28.000 Because what you just said, bro, I weren't cheating.
00:06:30.000 It was a conversation through Facebook.
00:06:32.000 Bro, I don't want to hear anything.
00:06:33.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:34.000 I'm not trying to hear it, my boy.
00:06:36.000 I'm not trying to hear it.
00:06:37.000 I'm not trying to hear it.
00:06:38.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:39.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:40.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:41.000 I'm trying to hear it.
00:06:42.000 Like, I think cheating is like a physical situation.
00:06:45.000 It's not physical.
00:06:46.000 No, I don't agree.
00:06:47.000 No, it can be emotional.
00:06:48.000 You can emotionally cheat.
00:06:50.000 All right, let me ask you this.
00:06:51.000 Let me ask you this, because I don't know.
00:06:52.000 I like to hear that coming from women. 1.00
00:06:53.000 Can I ask you something?
00:06:54.000 Is it devil's advocate?
00:06:55.000 Is it really the end of the world if he's messaging another girl?
00:06:58.000 Thank you.
00:06:59.000 Like, I agree.
00:07:00.000 I agree.
00:07:01.000 It's not the end of the world, but it's not the start of the eyeball.
00:07:05.000 I just think, like, if we have open social media profiles, can we really, like, get off
00:07:12.000 our high horse sometime?
00:07:13.000 Like, because I think that attention is to women as sex is to men.
00:07:18.000 Do you guys agree with that?
00:07:19.000 Yeah.
00:07:20.000 Okay, so I'm like, if we, most of us have open Instagrams and relationships, meaning we
00:07:24.000 can get attention from high status men, and that's always on the table.
00:07:28.000 But if he sends a message, like, it's the end of the world?
00:07:31.000 No.
00:07:32.000 But if he does what he was doing.
00:07:35.000 She messaged me first.
00:07:37.000 I was just responding.
00:07:38.000 It's rude not to respond.
00:07:39.000 What kind of message we talking on?
00:07:40.000 If it's, like, you know, emojis and stuff like that, then it's a bit mad.
00:07:44.000 And I mean, if it's general conversation, then, you know, you might be able to bus case.
00:07:49.000 It's crazy.
00:07:50.000 I think I just look at things, like, differently.
00:07:52.000 I just...
00:07:53.000 No, I'm with you.
00:07:54.000 You pick the problems, innit?
00:07:55.000 You pick, like, battles and wars, I guess.
00:07:56.000 Yeah, you gotta pick battles.
00:07:57.000 Because if you're the type of person to, like, date for, like, a long-term relationship
00:08:02.000 or marriage, right, then it's like, like, in the grand scheme of things, is a message
00:08:08.000 gonna make or break your life?
00:08:09.000 Yeah, exactly. 0.98
00:08:10.000 Are you gonna die on the hill? 0.93
00:08:11.000 It's the intention about...
00:08:12.000 Do you know, I think most of it becomes that gray area of the unknown, so it's the attention
00:08:15.000 behind the message.
00:08:16.000 Alright, let me ask you a question, because I don't feel like you're on my side.
00:08:19.000 I'm not.
00:08:20.000 Okay.
00:08:21.000 Alright, alright, cool.
00:08:22.000 You're with your girl.
00:08:23.000 You've been with her a little while.
00:08:24.000 You like her on a break, yeah?
00:08:26.000 Break.
00:08:27.000 You mean she's single?
00:08:28.000 Okay, but...
00:08:29.000 Okay, she's single, she's single. 1.00
00:08:31.000 Okay, so you might agree with me on this.
00:08:32.000 Yeah?
00:08:33.000 You've been with each other for a while.
00:08:34.000 Now, I was in a situation...
00:08:35.000 Okay, you have a girl.
00:08:37.000 She's not your girl, but you know like you have not...
00:08:40.000 It sounds bad, like a backup, not a backup.
00:08:42.000 You have people on your phone that you know like you.
00:08:44.000 Right.
00:08:45.000 Now, I was in a situation where I was always with someone from like 16.
00:08:49.000 So when I wasn't with someone, I used to just grab a girl that I knew liked me because
00:08:53.000 I wanted to feel like it was a fulfilled thing, right?
00:08:56.000 Demon. 0.85
00:08:57.000 Demon. 0.97
00:08:58.000 So if I'm not with you and we've broken up for like a week and we have a sexual situation,
00:09:02.000 I didn't cheat on you because we were on a break.
00:09:05.000 And you'll mind them fingers, bro.
00:09:06.000 I hear you.
00:09:07.000 What I was saying here is the moment you are on a break, you've fed her to the wolves,
00:09:19.000 bro.
00:09:20.000 You can't...
00:09:21.000 And vice versa, bro.
00:09:22.000 You're single.
00:09:23.000 You're two single people.
00:09:24.000 It's no longer...
00:09:25.000 I know it may feel like, you know, okay, cool.
00:09:26.000 We were in a relationship, but boy, you're not under that covenant.
00:09:30.000 You're not under that contract, that obligation, that verbal commitment anymore.
00:09:34.000 So whatever you do, it might be frowned upon.
00:09:36.000 It might be whatever, but some people just move on quicker than others.
00:09:39.000 That's all I feel.
00:09:40.000 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok and we are demonetized on a daily basis
00:09:46.000 on this platform.
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