JustPearlyThings - Pearl's Most Controversial opinion

00:00:00.000 like he said you need to move with the times because people may have the similar

00:00:04.500 foundations to what they would have had before but the ideals and what the way

00:00:07.920 people see the world is different so you need to communicate with them

00:00:10.780 differently so we can't just try and discipline people the same way and give

00:00:14.560 them certain morals that no longer are valued in the world that they in today

00:00:18.260 because as much as you want to influence that person there's a million other

00:00:21.660 people and a million different things that they see every single day that

00:00:24.300 influences them even more than you you're just one voice out of so many so

00:00:28.340 again like he said it's about evolving with the times we can't go back

00:00:33.140 how do you evolve what do you mean evolved i think we need to explain the fact that

00:00:38.360 the new generations believe extremely in the freedom of expression the freedom of

00:00:42.920 self you are who you are you have your opinion that's why a lot of people so if

00:00:56.100 people are believing in freedom of expression people are believing in the

00:00:59.400 freedom of self you need to actually speak to people in a way where you still

00:01:02.860 going to say to encourage that but you're going to also try and supplement

00:01:07.620 that you can't force and you can't say this is how it should be this is how it's

00:01:10.680 going to be instead potentially start doing things a little bit more

00:01:14.000 entertaining that that communicate with what they know such as one thing that

00:01:17.720 again i was a teacher i know that she was i was a special education like measure

00:01:24.560 myself with anyone i'm explaining things from my experience and what my

00:01:27.340 perspective on this is the point is people switch off the moment that things

00:01:30.820 don't seem interesting to them so you need to speak to them on the level and

00:01:33.380 speak to them in a language that they speak that's why he'll say people right now

00:01:36.800 if you go as an adult i've had to had serious challenge with kids because they

00:01:40.760 don't respect my authority because i'm an adult

00:01:47.760 let me not let me not tell you are you no nigerian do not go against some of the 0.99

00:01:53.720 ideals that your parents wrote you up with to an extent but all i'm saying is

00:01:57.020 you've like someone said at the start this whole thing your foundations they

00:01:59.960 start home if your parents are swearing 24 7 you're going to pick that up if your 0.97

00:02:05.320 parents are holy you're gonna pick that up whether you now go to a different

00:02:08.960 community or whatever and you learn from that community it's then now up to you

00:02:12.460 to decide what you're gonna do kind of thing yes i learned from my stuff at home

00:02:16.880 the foundations and yes i've learned from other people but if i now go with what

00:02:20.540 i've learned in my communities where i grew up i'd be wayward right now and that's

00:02:23.780 the facts of the matter but the issue now is that people both parents work now so

00:02:28.200 people kids are raised by the state like we all got our idea of how uni was from

00:02:32.600 american pie we get ideas from dating from tv we all get so you know as much as i

00:02:38.420 understand auntie's sentiments i think you can't really turn back that clock for a

00:02:42.480 number of reasons you don't really have lifetime jobs like that so people are way

00:02:45.860 more mobile than they used to be you know there's all these there's all these

00:02:48.480 international factors that that kind of mean that communities can't can't be as

00:02:53.000 stable and last as long as they used to be back in the day

00:02:55.180 you don't have to have your kids have a phone and also like if you don't if you

00:03:19.900 don't like the school if you don't like the school system there's i mean i don't

00:03:23.320 know how it works in the uk but like in the us you can homeschool yeah you can

00:03:26.160 and you can raise them in an environment where you're like you have relatives and

00:03:33.060 you have good people that are influencing them around like around them but you

00:03:36.640 shouldn't exclude people in society that people wants to be friends with their kids

00:03:40.860 you're not friends no no absolutely you're not friends yeah but you know what you know

00:03:44.880 why that is because a lot of these people are having kids while they're still kids

00:03:48.260 themselves that's the problem yeah that's one but plus two when this new modern

00:03:52.980 day where it's like oh you can't do this you can't do whatever but at the end of

00:03:57.520 day you've got to discipline your kid and they should discipline each other bring back 0.64

00:04:01.980 bullying if you were if you weren't called ugly once in your childhood it was too good bring back

00:04:12.660 that's why i think it's so important to have like masculine role models in in culture because

00:04:25.500 i think right now a lot of our issues are from you know the mainstream media kind of

00:04:30.400 feminizing men yes and so these boys are growing up and i was a teacher as well

00:04:34.100 men feminize themselves brunt 0.99

00:04:35.540 i don't know what planet you're about

00:04:38.940 wait wait what are you talking okay what do you what do you explain

00:04:42.140 i'll explain shortly and like five sentences

00:04:46.560 nowadays nowadays men are just like us petty men are just like yeah because we we made them that way

00:04:57.580 because because no no no how many times has girl have girls said i want a guy that's emotionally

00:05:03.040 available it's crazy because we only fight for men's rights when it benefits us because we

00:05:07.280 like we want them to be more emotionally available for us we don't like that it's not even about

00:05:11.820 how many men are now the ones leeching off the woman like that's feminine to me 0.91

00:05:16.540 okay okay if you if you okay okay okay okay if you like bums speak for yourself 0.99

00:05:21.460 like if you're dating bums that's on you that like most women are more broke than men even if they 0.91

00:05:50.780 out earn and we outspend them we make 70 to 80 percent of consumer buying decisions we own two

00:05:55.300 thirds of the world's debt we we don't make good monetary decisions how are you going to go to men 0.59

00:06:00.080 and say you guys are the broke ones we're the broke ones we don't know how to manage our money

00:06:03.680 and we make less in the uk i don't think it's quite like that a lot of women the uk actually 1.00

00:06:08.200 you're right you're just whatever no no okay you're you're correct you're correct you're correct

00:06:13.400 like like some women under 30 like do out earn men in certain cities 0.99

00:06:16.960 but we still outspend them so it's like you think you're the ship but you outspend them

00:06:21.060 well i make my money i'll spend for me and then not only that because we outspend it because we

00:06:24.880 got financial power then that's why a lot of men now see that as a plus and they start leeching off

00:06:29.700 it again feminization no no no again again again again if you like bums speak for yourself 0.99

00:06:33.740 can i say something so basically like let's go back to traditional homes so a man is basically

00:06:52.120 like he's the head of the family he he like pays for everything right or like sometimes if your mom

00:06:58.040 wanted to go grocery shopping or get stuff for the house or manage the house your dad would give her

00:07:02.180 the money and then she would manage it would she not like she would be like okay this goes for

00:07:05.980 groceries this goes for this this goes for that so how could you say like women are bad at managing 1.00

00:07:09.900 money because because because statistically we are we hold most of the words world's debt we make

00:07:15.300 most of the consumer buying decisions we we hold most of the world's debt that's why we're bad with

00:07:19.840 money where even though we make less money where is it found you can you can literally google it

00:07:25.920 which country you can live it's a worldwide we all hold two-thirds of the world's debt or the world's

00:07:32.280 debt worldwide okay guys guys guys okay let's just let's just take anecdotally how many of us

00:07:38.200 have our freaking nails done here let's just anecdotal like that's what i'm saying we spend money on 0.99

00:07:42.920 stupid shit what do you think what does she think she ain't said nothing of what like about the 1.00

00:07:50.260 conversation yeah but what part there's been a lot of this all right so about like girls like spending 1.00

00:07:56.160 money on junk and stuff like that would you you agree with that or yeah i feel like the the um world

00:08:02.140 that we're living in at the moment is like really consumer based like social media adverts you talk

00:08:06.080 about something it pops up um i don't know too much about statistics of men and women but i i would

00:08:11.060 believe yeah can i make a can i make a point where a lot of times the the phrase the world is being

00:08:17.200 used a lot the world the world the world i think it's important to say that this is largely the

00:08:20.760 modern west thank you yeah this is not the majority of the world i'd even say that it's very big city

00:08:26.780 based right london the london's the new york city's the la's the miami's the mentality and the society and

00:08:33.180 the culture there versus even within the same country in in more rural areas or smaller towns or

00:08:39.620 villages the mentality is very very different let alone in developing parts of the world so-called

00:08:44.980 second and third world countries you know there's different types of people everywhere but the

00:08:49.620 mentality is very different i think that a lot of this is very much based on actually a small

00:08:55.460 microcosm of society and we're speaking as if this is kind of like everyone and i don't think it is i

00:09:02.300 i think it's the it's the i would say big city modern mentality i would say i agree with you 100%

00:09:06.780 like because obviously for my experiences and everything i really talk from uk london and then

00:09:11.940 the usa but the thing is with um the western side of the world the areas you're talking about they have

00:09:17.100 the biggest influence yeah that you're saying worldwide so it is relevant to talk about these

00:09:22.280 these regions yeah i know i'm certainly saying it's relevant i'm just i'm just saying i think

00:09:26.160 it's important to be aware for ourselves and for the audience that this is not the it's not like a

00:09:32.340 global norm yeah a lot of what we're talking about is actually a global anomaly even when you're talking

00:09:38.020 about you know oh you know single single mothers it's like that's not the global norm the usa has the

00:09:43.320 highest single parenthood rate in the entire world right usa number one that's probably not one that they

00:09:47.960 should be too proud of i mean in many many countries like it's it's very rare yeah even now in

00:09:53.140 2022 it's rare yeah because in countries if you're a single mom you're done you're done bro yeah but

00:09:58.980 yeah it's also the culture though it's what's normalized yeah you know and i think one one of

00:10:03.740 the big issues we have in the west and it goes beyond this issue but it's like we don't even strive

00:10:08.400 for a good standard anymore and i think that's a problem right it's one thing to have a standard

00:10:13.200 and for people to and understand some people are going to fall short of it right and we we do this

00:10:18.420 with everything right even with with health and fitness oh you can be healthy at any size body

00:10:22.020 positivity fat except it's like no it's bad to be obese right yeah like let's not be don't get

00:10:28.120 canceled i can't be canceled bro like i'm immune to this but like but with everything it seems like

00:10:35.360 we're just saying okay well some people are struggling to meet the standard so let's abolish

00:10:38.540 the standard yeah right and i think that's a really dangerous mentality because you can just see how the

00:10:43.140 culture is sliding and sliding and sliding into this descent and at some point you need to say tell

00:10:49.840 people look guys we need to we need to step this up people need to take responsibility people need

00:10:54.060 to take accountability we need to empower people individually and we need to take accountability we

00:10:59.460 can all do better men women everybody it doesn't need to be it to me it's an adult thing men men are

00:11:05.100 forced to take accountability women don't yeah but even a lot man there's a lot of we can't pretend 0.98

00:11:10.040 there aren't millions of men who are also running running screaming from it

00:11:12.840 yeah

00:11:13.260 i still want to ask

00:11:15.080 come on bro

00:11:17.540 i don't know about that you're my brother

00:11:19.220 you guys are telling me there are not millions of men who are running from accountability and responsibility

00:11:24.160 amen

00:11:24.980 let me say this one thing

00:11:27.640 hold on hold on hold on hold on hold on my people

00:11:31.180 listen yeah okay first of all what i've noticed in my life yeah

00:11:35.040 if you want to talk about a lot of guys running away from accountability

00:11:37.620 a lot of times like for instance with the single mother thing yeah which is a huge thing in society 1.00

00:11:42.880 right a lot of times these single these that these guys that are creating these single mothers 0.99

00:11:47.660 they'll have multiple baby mamas bro multiple these are the guys that women are gravitating to 1.00

00:11:52.920 even if they know they are adding themselves to a roster of four

00:11:56.100 let me add myself as well because he's six foot four because he's cute because he's funny

00:12:01.320 bro like come on bro like i don't think it's like the majority of guys i don't even think it's

00:12:06.360 even 50 percent of guys who are just running around recklessly

00:12:09.780 i never said it was creating problems

00:12:11.620 that would be insane it's still millions i said millions it's millions

00:12:16.880 yeah yeah across the west there's what yeah

00:12:19.080 yeah i can still represent a small percentage though

00:12:22.940 yeah i never said it didn't yeah i'm just saying

00:12:24.620 yeah yeah but when it's like i don't know what 30 40 percent of women 1.00

00:12:28.660 where it's like maybe five ten percent of guys like who's really the problem

00:12:32.680 if it's if it's and even i i man it's more than 10 percent of young men that are not taking proper

00:12:38.800 responsibility no i i would disagree because it's not

00:12:41.500 what percent what percent what they're not doing anything they're not even chasing proper careers

00:12:47.740 let me let me let me let me let me what percent of men actually get laid 0.79

00:12:50.800 the other the other guys guys face consequences for their decisions like that's the whole point is like

00:12:55.720 sure like like men when they make a bad decision they always have a consequence women don't and that's why 1.00

00:13:00.380 the women are worse because one one gender has consequences one doesn't 1.00

00:13:04.060 and to say and to say it's like equal i just think isn't like fair because like men when they 0.98

00:13:11.320 make a bad decision they have the consequence immediately where women don't we're bailed out 1.00

00:13:14.720 of everything how are we bailed out of everything okay okay okay every bad decision that you make

00:13:19.260 you're bailed out of if you want to sleep around there's birth control if you get pregnant you don't 0.97

00:13:22.140 want to keep it there's an abortion if you get pregnant and you want to get married to the guy and 1.00

00:13:26.300 leave and take half you can do that and you can do it under the guise of being happy and you

00:13:30.220 know and society will accept you and some simple probably marry you after and then and then on top 1.00

00:13:35.960 of that if you're if you're bad with your money what are you going to do you're going to go to a

00:13:39.600 women's shelter or the government will pay you if you also if you leave and you're a single mother

00:13:43.560 and you're the fifth baby mama or whatever you can also go to the government they'll pay you 0.94

00:13:47.760 oh you can cheat you're right you can cheat and if you cheat and if you cheat what'll happen oh people

00:13:52.900 will ask you well why did she cheat da da da da da where men's just where men are just a dog

00:13:57.020 yeah what is that that these systems are put into place because it is a man's world because 0.94

00:14:02.760 us as women are my now are minorities no that's just that's just that's just that's just lazy 0.98

00:14:07.500 that's just lazy we're not minorities we're the majority we're 55 of the population majority but like in terms of status men rule the world

00:14:16.200 so therefore we do the things that you don't want to do

00:14:20.260 have you noticed that like modern women always have an answer you could be like two plus two is four 1.00

00:14:27.800 and she'll be like yeah but you know in my experience me and my girls

00:14:32.880 five you know and so but i wanted to ask pearl and zibi an actual question right okay sure so we're

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JustPearlyThings - March 14, 2023

Pearl's Most Controversial opinion

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