JustPearlyThings - July 12, 2023


Pearl SCHOOLED Her With A Red Pill TRUTH


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12 minutes

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2,702

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1

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Misogyny

39

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the lack of female empowerment in the engineering industry and why women are not getting the jobs they want. We also talk about female empowerment and why it is so important to have female empowerment.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 and they tried this they really tried this they went out into the wilderness
00:00:03.680 they put men on an island and they put women on an island and they said survive 0.94
00:00:08.220 the men because men naturally order themselves with hierarchy so the men will say you do this
00:00:15.420 you do this they'll naturally listen to the most competent men men like size each other up in a
00:00:20.840 room i don't get it i'm a woman but that's just what they do women would just bicker and they 1.00
00:00:26.780 they they trend more towards egalitarianism we're all equal so they they literally had to be rescued
00:00:33.380 within like two days but what the men can we go next time too but what but again what type of woman 1.00
00:00:40.200 is that if you if you're going to pick 10 women who you know have you know jobs where they're not 1.00
00:00:45.860 getting their hands but they've never really been out and doing this do that but all of the women 0.99
00:00:50.540 are not picking these jobs so i just listed to you all the women there's no barriers we can work 1.00
00:00:55.860 whatever we want we're not strong we're not our belt is different we're built differently it's not
00:01:00.940 even that you know what a big initiative that they're doing in america right now a big initiative
00:01:04.340 is that they're trying to get more women into these spaces physics and pilots all different types of 1.00
00:01:10.180 stuff like that because and they think about it convince us to do the hard job they're doing it
00:01:15.140 women are doing it no no no men still out one one front way is engineering and the men are still
00:01:21.740 there's all these programs to get women in engineering my roommate my freshman year was 1.00
00:01:26.600 an engineer all these programs all these grants basically had free school for her they can't 1.00
00:01:31.240 convince women to do these jobs but it has to start somewhere if i'm growing up and i'm taught that do 1.00
00:01:35.660 this do this do that that's what i'm gonna go at the more and more that we show women you can work in 1.00
00:01:40.880 the more and more and we're just not we're just not doing that for over 50 years that's all we
00:01:46.040 heard growing up you can do anything but you have the female empowerment but once you actually start 1.00
00:01:50.860 seeing women that are top engineers top there's now more women are going to be like oh okay a woman 1.00
00:01:55.800 has done and then you also got to think the competition in the world i disagree if i'm a
00:02:00.180 construction worker i don't know i don't need to i don't think that these would you like to work in
00:02:04.340 construction is uh i don't think it's attractive no but this is what i'm saying if me and you both
00:02:08.540 show up to a construction site who do you think they're going to hire first they're going to hire
00:02:12.440 you no i would guess you because there's all these government grants especially in those industries
00:02:17.100 yeah yeah yeah depends what you wear they're like a woman finally we needed uh we needed to check off 1.00
00:02:24.060 a box like you would like inclusivity yes yes they would be like you let's do this girl quick you
00:02:29.920 are on your feet i do i really love it i know a lot about this topic i know a lot about it let's get
00:02:35.860 helmets and boots and then get it on but i like it if you took that out of it if you really took that
00:02:40.460 out of it we were like like seriously if we both show up they're gonna go for the mail so a lot of
00:02:44.640 times these women try to get jobs in these these these you know uh job these all right i'll tell you 1.00
00:02:50.740 saying i went i went to college and i studied engineering i was actually going to go into
00:02:54.520 motorsport engineering that was my passion that's what i wanted to do and as i was studying it you
00:02:58.460 know as you can imagine it's predominantly all men boys should we say um but there's one girl
00:03:03.680 and you could see it was something in her that she she she wanted to go that direction she wanted
00:03:08.200 to go against the grain she wanted to get her hands dirty and um you know and then i went to see 0.91
00:03:13.800 her in a work placement and then after a year or two she just dropped out she wanted she didn't
00:03:19.680 want to be in a masculine she wanted to be in touch with a feminine so she found something that 0.59
00:03:25.340 was more suited towards that and um you know that's my reference point i i i think it may sound
00:03:32.960 attractive to go in that direction but i don't think that you would be selected as a mate because 0.98
00:03:37.980 it's it's not feminine what it's either you enjoy your job or not or you do it but it's not about
00:03:43.020 that it's not about that it gets to a point where it's just like men aren't finding me attractive
00:03:47.440 oh men are not finding her attractive because she's doing a manly job yeah and i'm i'm seeing 1.00
00:03:53.200 this is a big big thing in society at the moment we're we're experiencing a lot more women that are 1.00
00:04:00.980 stepping into the masculine and they're not being selected they end up single because they're they are
00:04:08.140 seen as a threat i think they're seen as not mother material i think men want yeah pretty and agreeable 1.00
00:04:19.500 and pleasant and interesting but also they want a woman who will look after their children well 0.99
00:04:25.900 and if you've got a woman who has been so focused on her career you know it's like is the kid even
00:04:31.260 going to be breastfed or is she going to be like i've done my six weeks maternity leave i'm back to the 0.69
00:04:37.180 office like give the kid to anyone but but it's also as well like if you are in a relationship and
00:04:43.740 your job uh wants you to have these masculine traits then you're going to take that energy back 0.99
00:04:48.700 into the home and then what happens is the man then feels like he hasn't got a place
00:04:54.060 to step into his masculine so the polarity's off and that's when he starts to lose interest and find
00:05:00.300 someone that does allow him to to to be so then should men there is a fine line in between the
00:05:06.940 balance should men start earning more money so they can fully take care of women so women don't 1.00
00:05:11.500 have to go out it's not necessarily that it's just it's just it's we're seeing a rise in femininity 0.93
00:05:16.940 coaches right now it's prevalent there is more need than ever for for these people these modalities
00:05:22.300 and they're just helping women get back in touch with their feminine side and like you can have these 0.93
00:05:26.460 jobs but make sure that you've you're not losing that side you don't bring it home my question for
00:05:31.260 you is why do you always put it on the men like the men need to earn more why don't the women be 1.00
00:05:35.740 more of wife material because because most women even if they met a guy that could provide all of the 1.00
00:05:42.860 bills and like i meet guys that want to take care of the their women all the time but there's not a lot
00:05:47.420 of wives on the market right now like women that actually know how to be a wife which is well which is 1.00
00:05:52.700 true because again it the way you are raised the way you're brought up definitely affects how you're
00:06:00.060 going to be as an adult so if you come where you're used to working and all that yes there are women 1.00
00:06:05.900 that do need to learn how to be wives yes i agree with that but why i say it comes down to the men men
00:06:12.460 stop taking care of women in the households and women were forced to go get jobs so once you're out 1.00
00:06:17.100 there getting a job once you're watching somebody that's not true though that's not they they were
00:06:21.660 not forced this is what the government no the government the government said hey we'll pay you
00:06:28.940 guys to leave here is money for being a single mother the women did not have to take it so how 1.00
00:06:35.180 were they going to provide for their kids so no before the fathers were in the home a hundred years ago
00:06:41.180 85 percent of people were married and they stayed married i don't know exactly what the divorce rate was 0.82
00:06:46.460 but i know is significantly lower now people don't even want to get married because the divorce laws
00:06:51.580 are so bad but but my my whole point is women are offered incentives to leave so if you leave you get 1.00
00:06:59.260 money from the government if you leave you can take money from his pocket and women choose to take that 0.57
00:07:05.980 but at the same time say that they're equal well if you're equal to a man then be a man pay your own
00:07:11.740 way but i don't think that women choose to take that i i definitely believe that the government 0.97
00:07:17.180 has broken up families that's why like you said they offer the money and all that so the government
00:07:21.340 definitely has a hand in breaking up a lot of families but how is the woman supposed to survive 1.00
00:07:25.420 if i get pregnant and i have to take care of a child i can't take that child i say i say give the 0.99
00:07:29.340 kid to the person that can afford it it doesn't make sense for you to have the kid if you can't afford
00:07:33.580 it so you leave you leave the family and now he has to pay for it but how is the majority and the majority
00:07:38.700 of women are the ones that leave so the idea that men leave and a lot of people think that generation
00:07:44.540 of men left but it's actually the women mostly drove them out of the house and left if you look 0.96
00:07:50.300 at the numbers it doesn't support the deadbeat like dad narrative it's not there but if you okay so
00:07:56.460 you can but that's the thing if you're looking at statistics that's just what people are reporting
00:08:00.460 if you actually in real life what is driving so you know i've done a lot of these interviews because i
00:08:06.540 interview guys that have like um that are trying to get custody of their kids women can be very 1.00
00:08:11.820 spiteful and use the kids as a pawn to hurt the dad but are men only trying to get the custody so they
00:08:17.340 don't have to pay child support because a lot of times there's men who fight to try to get custody
00:08:21.980 because they don't want to pay well i don't well one i don't i don't think men should pay any child 0.57
00:08:26.940 support i i think i think if you leave that's like that's on you i i that's my personal opinion i don't
00:08:32.860 know why we're rewarding bad behavior what is the teamwork i would say i would say the kids and
00:08:39.580 that's why dads should be awarded custody off the back because every every data statistic will tell
00:08:44.140 you that single father homes fare better than single mother homes well yeah but when um parents
00:08:50.300 separate it is the as close to equal time with both parents that is the it provides the best outcomes and
00:08:59.340 so that is what you're aiming for like as close to 50 50 as is humanly possible so let me ask you
00:09:05.660 this question you say that men are needed to build these homes build everything sewage plumage how are
00:09:10.940 they going to do that if they have custody of the kid who's going to watch the kid well i i think the
00:09:15.020 person that can afford the kids should have that choice so he can still like it's not like i'm saying
00:09:20.860 he should never give the mother access but i think he should have the primary decision so what does it 0.68
00:09:25.740 mean afford to have a nanny what he of course to have a nanny well i'd imagine men aren't as spiteful
00:09:32.060 as women they'd be much more willing to let the mother like watch the kids the women are the ones 1.00
00:09:36.300 that use the kids as a tool they certainly agree with you i agree with you with that i definitely
00:09:41.100 agree with you with that but i will still say if you got if you think about it men especially alpha
00:09:46.780 males are not putting in 40 hours a week they might be putting in 80 hours a week who is going to if
00:09:52.220 they have custody of the children who's going to watch the children so if so there's a man and a
00:09:56.380 woman and the woman leaves right right that's that's the situation we're talking about that's the
00:10:01.100 situation that i'm talking about yes and maybe he has to work a lot okay i think he should get primary
00:10:07.100 custody and decision making because she decided to leave and he earns more meaning he can afford the
00:10:11.820 kids i i'm not saying that he should not let the mother see the kids i i think when he cannot watch the
00:10:17.980 kids the mother should and if he's working 80 hours a week she's going to get plenty of time
00:10:22.140 with the kids exactly so if he's working 80 hours a week she's going to have the kids anyway she's
00:10:27.900 the one who is teaching them their morals their values they're cooking for them taking care of
00:10:32.860 them teaching them everything loving them doing all of that so why would the man have primary
00:10:37.020 custody why because he can't afford it if he's not going to be there anyway then what like i mean
00:10:41.740 honestly off the off the bat i think it should be 50 50 if it's mutual but i'm saying if the woman 0.86
00:10:47.500 chooses to leave i'm saying woman is abused and she chooses to leave because she's beaten up or she's
00:10:53.340 just mental abuse various things various scenarios can be millions of them what if she chooses to
00:10:58.620 leave because she cannot survive there and she would be dead if she didn't leave then what then
00:11:03.420 it's interesting how we always go to like the worst case scenario it's realistic yeah
00:11:09.580 those situations do happen and so we would have to have safeguards so that women could escape really 1.00
00:11:16.780 unhealthy relationships um and so if there was that safeguard but if you know unless you proved that
00:11:24.940 you were abused you knew that the father was going to get full custody then what would happen is that
00:11:30.940 false allegations would skyrocket i just and you know i really want to just take the whole uh child
00:11:37.660 access issue out of the courts you know you're dealing with families who are struggling to split up
00:11:45.180 amicably and do what's in the best interests of their children by minimizing conflict
00:11:50.380 and the way we respond to it is by throwing it into an adversarial court system it's insane oh
00:11:55.900 interesting this is a public health issue everyone involved needs to get down to the like psychiatrist's
00:12:01.820 office and we need to you know we need to go back yeah yeah these kids they need both their parents
00:12:09.420 they need all their aunties and uncles they need their grandparents it's so you don't think the
00:12:14.460 family court system should exist at all no wow i've never heard that view that's i agree absolutely
00:12:19.820 not at all really with you on the subject that women play up too much and all these fake allegations of
00:12:25.100 xyz and i'm not going to mention because i can't remember the keywords it did happen actually i hate it so 0.67
00:12:30.700 much i think the people who falsely allege someone of a crime that they have not committed they should be
00:12:36.140 punished of unequal punishment that would have been in the court yeah just like you know