Pearl SCHOOLED Red Haired Feminist
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to sex and why women are attracted to men who sleep with a lot of women. We also talk about the benefits and disadvantages of sleeping with lots of men.
Transcript
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Has value and runs around sleeping with a lot of women, could he be a hoe?
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Because, again, right, attraction is a very subjective term,
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and women don't typically look at a man's physical appearance to determine attraction.
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They typically look at behavior and, like, communication style.
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Okay, fine, but if he's sleeping with a lot of women,
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and if we're putting women in the same context,
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If a man sleeps with a lot of women, regardless of who he is,
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if he's sleeping with a lot of women, wouldn't he be a hoe?
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You're applying the exact same parameters, but withdrawing.
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And so there's no negative consequence to him sleeping with a lot of women.
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The implication here is that a woman who sleeps with a lot of men, right?
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Because that's easy to do, so it's easy for a woman to just sleep with a lot of guys.
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Go outside and say, does anyone want to have sex with me?
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And if a dude does that, they look at him like he's nuts.
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These guys paid thousands of dollars to learn how to get laid.
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trying to figure out how to build attraction with a girl,
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So if we bring that back to what we're talking about.
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If we bring that back to what we're talking about in terms of virginity when we were younger,
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in terms of like girls weren't really thinking about it that much.
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That men losing their virginity and sleeping with lots of women is like this,
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Because if you get laid a lot, then you're seen as, you know, successful, right?
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Because historically, most men didn't even reproduce.
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Only 40% of men reproduced historically, where 80% of women did.
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And even 8,000 years ago, 17 women reproduced for every one man.
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And I know, like now, you know, you take away the reproduction because we have birth control.
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But we've definitely developed as a society, right?
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Past that point where it's not just about reproduction.
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But I'm saying like, you can't get rid of the way people feel.
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If like men are naturally predispositioned to be repulsed by a girl that sleeps around.
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And so I'm just like the same way you, typically women like men that are taller than us.
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And men don't come to us and say, oh, you shouldn't like men taller than us.
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So I would say again that that would like, what?
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In terms of that, like, evolving over time, right?
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Biologically evolving over time, I'd say that there's other attitudes that have also evolved
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over time, kind of, and then are probably taking up more space now.
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Maybe haven't got to the same point as that same mindset.
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But I do think we can get to a point where that can shift, right?
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It's a mindset that's evolved based on what we've been taught.
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We can be taught different things and change that gradually.
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Where, like, typically before, as I said, like, I would say men are more forgiving with
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I would argue that any space that kind of promotes, like I said, acceptance and understanding
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of why we behave in certain ways and why we drift towards certain things and understanding
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Because I feel like that kind of mindset of, like, in terms of, you know, if you slept
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a lot of people, like, women as a man, you're successful is essentially harmful because it
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And I just think, like, you can live in delusion...
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I would say that that is, if we talk about the general, that is kind of the general mindset
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But does that mean it's the best mindset, right?
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But who are you to determine what's the best mindset?
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So, in terms of, like, situations like grape, right?
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Who don't maybe have that same achievement, right?
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They kind of resort to quite violent means in order to reach that same level of success
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or they feel kind of, like, you know, put out because they don't get to be able to do it.
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And that's why incel culture kind of develops because they think, like, a certain group of
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men only gets all the women because, you know, they're at this high level.
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And it can be a very destructive view when you place all the emphasis on that, like, macho...
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Not macho, which is probably not the right word to say there.
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That, like, hyper-masculine focus on sexuality and seeing it as something to achieve, right?
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When we do that and then men don't and then they don't feel masculine anymore and they
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feel emasculated by it and that can turn very violent.
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And I'm not saying this is me, you know, saying, oh, this is...
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It's a thing to talk about when we're considering what's best for everyone.
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Like, when there's a large group of men that aren't getting laid, basically, that is dangerous
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Do you know what happens when men don't get laid?
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But it's because the emphasis is on the fact, you know, and that's where we've put the
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Men become more aggressive when they don't get laid.
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But I think that's because of the emphasis that we've put on being laid and essentially...
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That comes from biology, survival, reproduction, that sort of thing.
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That is something that has evolved based on what we've been taught and through a need for survival,
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To reproduce, to be able to, you know, reproduce your bloodline and lineage and that sort of thing.
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They need to find a way in which they need to release.
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But what I'm saying to you is men are biologically wired a certain way.
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So what happens in society is that when men are not getting sexual...
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When men are not sexually gratified, they get more aggressive.
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That is the biggest logical fallacy I've ever heard in my entire fucking life.
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So you're saying that if I don't get laid, I'm going to hit someone.
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I said, do you explain why it's a logical fallacy?
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Well, you said you've never had trouble talking to women.
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So you probably wouldn't know what that's like, right?
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You said earlier in the show, you've never had trouble talking to women.
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He has a lot of study and history and knowledge on the...
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But more so than that, if a man masturbates, he can get it really...
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But I mean, I don't know if you guys ever heard of NoFap.
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And I know if I don't have sex for like, I don't know, a week or two, I start feeling
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And I think it's very common for men to feel that way.
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Because when you abstain from sex, your testosterone is increasing.
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But would you not agree that there's other ways to release other than just sexual gratification?
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Yeah, no, I've realized that I'm talking to men.
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But I can enter into the conversation and ask about it, right?
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And I'm saying, are there not other ways for you to release, not just sex?
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Through physical engagement and healthy in a controlled environment, right?
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So, Justin, you're a club promoter, you're a YouTuber, yes?
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So like your work outlet is having conversations like this and busting a nut.
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How do you manage your aggression when you feel it coming up?
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As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
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