JustPearlyThings - Pearl Shuts Down Delusional Fat Chick

00:00:00.000 women um glorify wrongdoings more so than men but i agree to disagree on your word okay okay 0.98

00:00:07.960 um but you don't see how women glorify wrong during doings when we have a slut walk 1.00

00:00:13.620 i mean that's one example there's so many other things okay both okay what about the body positive

00:00:20.460 walk or the body positive movement and what's that's bad according to whoever is deciding that

00:00:27.080 that's your opinion okay that's bad would you would you not agree that being more likely to die

00:00:31.880 is bad i well we all have to die for one but i agree that you know making decisions that are

00:00:38.100 going to shorten your life could be considered bad if that's what you value everybody has a range of

00:00:43.040 things so we shouldn't celebrate it right um i think you should celebrate whatever you want to

00:00:48.120 celebrate if you want to celebrate feeling confident in however whatever state you are in today that's

00:00:53.220 your business exactly and men would say you shouldn't celebrate whatever you want to

00:00:57.540 celebrate there are things that are worth celebrating there are things that should never be celebrated

00:01:00.760 that's what most level-headed men would think but most women have this idea of oh egalitarian fairytale 1.00

00:01:08.300 land where everything can be whatever it wants where if you think something is good then it should be

00:01:12.860 good if you think something is bad they should be bad no there are objective truths about life

00:01:16.560 that's the fact okay another movement that we celebrate is the trans movement that's 80 percent

00:01:24.020 women most women are a part of that and support that and people that do actually i've actually

00:01:30.500 interviewed people that do that surgery they're more likely to commit suicide a lot of them have

00:01:35.440 really bad complications after and i personally don't think that's something that should be celebrated

00:01:41.120 maybe because women are naturally nurturers that we're taking that negative judgmental 1.00

00:01:46.380 factor out of our maybe because me personally just speaking from my personal life experience i'm not

00:01:52.340 i don't i don't care about what you do because the same way you're having an opinion on something that

00:01:56.860 i do the fact that i'm overweight the fact that i'm this i'm that maybe you have something that's

00:02:01.200 like you said everybody has a flaw something that they're dealing with so who are we to judge and

00:02:06.120 decide that just because somebody is accepting that this is what people are going to do with their lives

00:02:11.600 anyway and not you know casting another sin of judgment onto them um so i i don't disagree

00:02:19.480 everybody's got struggles right everyone's got problems i totally agree but where i disagree is

00:02:24.660 i don't agree with celebrating it i don't agree with celebrating i don't wait wait wait i don't agree

00:02:30.220 with celebrating the fact that taylor swift has 10 failed relationships i don't think that's something

00:02:35.160 we should yay hurrah i don't think we should celebrate you know nikki minaj saying you ho 0.99

00:02:40.840 you ho you ho i don't i don't think we should celebrate cardi b having a song about wop i don't 0.93

00:02:47.220 think we should celebrate being overweight because i think those are all negative things so that that's

00:02:53.460 where i disagree i don't disagree that everybody's got problems everybody's got struggles nobody's

00:02:58.560 perfect obviously everyone in your circle is going to have problems and struggles you know i'm not

00:03:03.540 going to not be friends with someone just because they're overweight right um but where i disagree

00:03:08.680 is the celebrating that's where i disagree so how do you feel about pub culture because you know

00:03:13.660 some people might look at that as alcoholism or like even just drinking culture in general oh i'm not

00:03:18.360 a fan people that drink smoke cigarettes i'm not a big i'm not a big drinker i wouldn't celebrate that

00:03:23.960 either i guess but when i walked in they told me to get a drink so i'm just like trying to

00:03:29.660 understand the balance of like you know it's the men and women thing for me yeah everybody

00:03:34.760 has a choice and it's like okay we can sit here and we can pay many women against each other 1.00

00:03:38.900 i never i never i never i never i never i never i never i never i was gonna say we made

00:03:40.460 we have coffee we make cups of tea

00:03:44.900 okay yeah i don't i don't i was like no i don't make anybody

00:03:49.900 i'm just saying like if that's the case if we're going to put some type of like

00:03:53.460 you're bad because you sat here and you ate xyz and now you're 500 pounds

00:03:57.980 it's not an issue of your bad because it's not an issue of you're bad because you drink it's not 0.54

00:04:03.220 an issue of you're bad because you're overweight you're bad no no no no that's not it it's this

00:04:08.180 is bad for you it actually comes from a nice place and you're hearing it as judgment and you're saying

00:04:14.280 you know like who are we to judge each other and i get where you're coming from you think that's coming

00:04:18.020 from a nice place but the truth is that's not nice at all because if you have someone who is

00:04:23.020 self-harming and you give them the razor how are you helping because they want to do it in their

00:04:28.260 mind it helps it relieves something it helps me the same with anorexia if someone believes they

00:04:33.500 are huge but they are actually seriously seriously anorexic if you reaffirm that broken problem in

00:04:40.240 their mind and you go well if you're happy and you give them laxatives or diet pills how are you

00:04:45.340 helping them the truth is is that without tolerance we can't discern what's good and bad for society

00:04:50.240 and that actually comes from a place of love if we can decide collectively it's not good to be

00:04:55.460 overweight so we don't celebrate it it's not good and i agree pop culture it's not good to celebrate

00:05:00.180 drugs and alcohol if we can make definitive decisions on what's good and bad it's not about

00:05:05.140 your individual spirit being good or bad no no no it's just telling you you're making a decision

00:05:10.720 that ultimately in reality isn't going to be good for you and it's like if you go with the whole

00:05:15.960 mentality of who are we to judge each other how far does that go because if we don't judge each other

00:05:21.180 how do we decide murderers are bad no i agree i agree because you said everyone can can you know

00:05:28.160 it's that egalitarian mindset that king was referring to if you're if you're deciding okay

00:05:34.280 everyone can can do what they want and you can celebrate what you want to celebrate

00:05:38.220 some people are really messed up and some people want to celebrate murderers and and what you think

00:05:43.820 we should just let them absolutely not we should collectively decide as a society what is good for

00:05:48.300 us and what is bad for us because without that we descend into chaos it's not about you being bad

00:05:55.220 it's about you making a choice that's bad for you every nail on the head

00:05:58.360 yeah i agree but i also feel like everybody is entitled to especially as far as there is a line

00:06:07.140 because we have laws so there is definitely a line that you know has been established and voted and

00:06:12.000 agreed upon that this is what everybody has collectively agreed that's wrong if you're not

00:06:16.720 hurting somebody if you're drinking if you're smoking if you're vaping if you're overeating you're hurting

00:06:20.620 yourself so no but what is it to you to go and project your opinion on someone else in this country

00:06:26.620 you're then gonna put your um health issues onto the nhs which is gonna cost in tax and other things

00:06:33.180 everyone else has to pay for like everyone has to pay for the air pollution because everybody's

00:06:38.280 outside smoking cigarettes and vaping everybody has to pay for it no no a lot of thoughts no not

00:06:42.860 no it's not comparable that's not that like okay you think that vaping has the same effect on the

00:06:49.500 health care system and our taxes as maybe not but i think that everything you die too young you're

00:06:57.100 gonna upset your family and your friends what about that's gonna cause a ripple effect what about like

00:07:01.860 yeah what about your kids there's a lot of things involved yeah so i'm not arguing that being

00:07:06.320 overweight is somehow like an exception or it's okay i'm not even arguing over the overweight topic

00:07:11.940 at all i'm overing over the arguing over the fact that it's not your say or your decision or

00:07:17.460 yeah so i'm not saying you're a bad person women are celebrating things that are bad if there's a group 1.00

00:07:22.280 of people who want to get together and celebrate whatever it is then that's their right but so so what

00:07:26.820 what i'm disagreeing with is you said it doesn't affect anyone it does and and that's where i'm

00:07:31.780 disagreeing i'm saying it does because when you have health issues everyone around you has to take

00:07:37.520 care of you and then the health system has to pay for it so that that's where i'm saying i disagree

00:07:42.800 that it doesn't affect anybody and the point of freedom like i also agree with people should be

00:07:47.740 allowed to exercise their freedoms to do whatever they want like ultimately if if people are telling

00:07:52.620 you don't do this don't do this and you still decide to do it you know i'm not a tyrant i'm not then

00:07:57.180 going to absolutely put a gun to your head until you do what i want you to do because it's coming 1.00

00:08:01.400 from a place of love if you decide not to listen and you kill yourself that is ultimately your fault 1.00

00:08:06.920 at the end of the day but the point that pearl was making was about celebration and the thing that's

00:08:11.480 what i was talking about the thing with body positive body positivity and the trans movement the two

00:08:15.640 uh examples that we just gave is that when you celebrate something you are encouraging it so

00:08:22.960 without the celebration because it's like people can still do that right trans people can still exist

00:08:27.020 people can still be overweight and be positive in themselves but it's the point the point is is

00:08:32.400 that it's projected and celebrated upon society and we shouldn't be doing that because it's not good

00:08:38.960 for individuals but if individuals decide that they want to do that great i don't think anyone should

00:08:43.380 be forced to do anything in life but if you celebrate it you encourage it and what good does that do

00:08:49.740 in encouraging people you know we had a woman on the front of sports illustrating magazine he was 300 pounds

00:08:54.600 if we all know girls girls we've all heard this narrative for years you know it was in the 90s

00:09:01.760 it was girls are seeing women who are too skinny so girls are then starving themselves okay well now

00:09:07.540 they're seeing women who are too fat so now they're thinking oh well that's okay and that's celebrated and 0.96

00:09:13.200 the truth is either way that's not good so i think the point is is that people can do what they want

00:09:19.420 but as a society we should not celebrate the things that are bad for humankind that's the point and

00:09:26.480 ultimately if you then decide to go against that um you know more power to you but don't go out and

00:09:32.400 project it onto the rest of the world because it's not good for people

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JustPearlyThings - November 04, 2023

Pearl Shuts Down Delusional Fat Chick

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