JustPearlyThings - Pearl Shuts Down Modern

00:00:00.000 I think I'll tell you those guys point of view though it's because like you're not a traditional

00:00:04.860 woman right like because over over traditional women really get married before 25 because they 1.00

00:00:11.140 spend their most fertile years focused on family the most traditional women want families first 1.00

00:00:15.480 right so it's not an insult it's not a bad thing it's just the most traditional it's not a bad

00:00:19.360 thing it's me yeah the most the most traditional women get married they stay married 25 and under 1.00

00:00:24.360 I would say roughly um so it's like they're like why am I paying like why am I doing the

00:00:30.240 traditional thing when I don't get the traditional outcome but that's because it's like it's like we

00:00:35.760 wanted to be equal right we wanted to go to work we wanted to spend our 20s in the workforce and

00:00:41.020 then we do that and then we're like all right now treat me traditionally and so a lot of guys are

00:00:45.640 just confused they're like I thought you guys were modern but it's also the evolution of mankind like

00:00:51.120 a lot of people might look at it like oh back in the day back in the day this that like this is

00:00:55.180 the new way of doing things everything has changed nowadays so I think that in marriages nowadays you

00:01:00.300 can't have a traditional slash modern woman because it does take some of the pressure and strain off 1.00

00:01:05.500 of the guy you can say okay you want a traditional wife who's going to be home have the kids not work 1.00

00:01:10.060 but do you really want that or would you like somebody who is 65 35 with you you spend you pay 65

00:01:15.500 of the bills I pay 35 of the bills we have the kids well do you know what traditional is it's

00:01:21.060 one bank account he controls the money if we're really going to be traditional but most of the

00:01:26.500 times right when the man works most of the time when a man works at a married situation he puts the

00:01:31.060 money in the bank who pays who actually writes out the checks for the bills the woman does that's part 1.00

00:01:35.400 of her household duty right but but I'm saying I don't think most relationships are traditional

00:01:40.060 nowadays so I don't think like using modern times like you'd really have to go back and like read like

00:01:45.340 the the history of like traditional relationships but the man would still make the final say on all

00:01:50.980 the expenses so if she was spending money would be off of a budget that he signed off of or like

00:01:55.700 he told her basically yeah but she's still the one who's dispersing the money right she's still the one

00:02:00.400 who's like okay this has to be done to say he's putting the money in the bank account she's saying

00:02:04.360 the lights are right right but my my point is though it's still like his decision in a traditional

00:02:09.200 relationship it's still one bank account like it's not her money it's the money for the family

00:02:14.680 that's traditional because traditional is family first but then isn't it the gate to abuse if such

00:02:20.260 occurs no so what is the safety as paramount situation with if he's abusive and then he takes

00:02:30.120 away all the savings so she worked at home 20 years and he worked at work 20 years they have

00:02:36.700 money together and then uh he decides to uh bang his secretary right well well then she's the one 1.00

00:02:43.740 that there used to be protections there used to be protections for women but we wanted equality so be 0.88

00:02:48.860 equal yeah under under covert law you know which is traditional or it's it's seen now as the enslavement

00:02:59.580 the financial enslavement of women um but women did have a veto over major financial decisions so a man 1.00

00:03:07.880 couldn't just go you know what we're selling this family home and we're moving to another part of the

00:03:12.400 country yeah she would have a veto um and uh men men also men also in the uk had a responsibility a legal

00:03:23.280 responsibility and could be imprisoned if they were seen to be failing to keep their wives and

00:03:29.340 children in like a state that was i know reasonable for the amount of wealth that they had so if

00:03:36.220 they've got their wife and kids dressed in rags but they're like in silk suits and they could go to

00:03:42.180 jail for that but they could also go to jail if the wife decided to just go and splurge a load of money 1.00

00:03:48.000 run up a load of debts that couldn't be paid back i saw the law recently there the the writings is like

00:03:54.820 the one in new york where they're talking about why they didn't want women to vote because they were

00:03:58.260 giving like the the privileges that women had and they're saying we don't want to be equal 0.99

00:04:02.420 and one of them was like you could um yeah you could send your husband to jail if he wasn't taking

00:04:08.380 care of you so he literally was like yeah yeah yeah but no no we wanted to be equal so be equal

00:04:14.980 send him on it well you know if you don't pay child support they'll take you to jail if you have a child

00:04:19.600 support order and you do not pay your child support you positively will go to jail until you have the

00:04:24.760 almost like a bailout of a minimum of what you have to pay just to get out which you which is

00:04:29.960 needed because think about it like men are just having babies all over the place no they're not 0.62

00:04:35.040 living their lives women are having babies all over the place by themselves this is no this is 1.00

00:04:40.600 again if a man's getting more than one woman pregnant that is the women being stupid that is 1.00

00:04:48.220 and he's not being played five stupid woman to one stupid man but that is on the women but you 1.00

00:04:54.640 got to think about it right no are you thinking about do you think a man tells you up front everything 1.00

00:05:00.640 there's so not so many right but there are men who have did you introduce him to your father did

00:05:05.800 you introduce him to your brother no no no no no women women will cry later when their friends said 0.85

00:05:15.140 he was toxic their dad said don't date him here their brother said what are you doing and then the

00:05:21.780 women will whine later about the results you can when everybody warned you no i don't believe this 0.98

00:05:28.700 whole the wool was over my eyes i had no idea you never dated a man that lied every man i've dated 0.98

00:05:36.200 that has lied to me was because i was stupid and did not listen to the men around me and the only way 0.89

00:05:42.100 i had better results was by realizing that and making better decisions but women just want to say 1.00

00:05:48.380 nothing is our fault but what if your dad everything was what if you're what if you have no brothers

00:05:53.200 no dad you don't have a male to go to to say that this man out then well then then you seek out

00:05:58.460 males that have your best interest at heart i know women that have been in that situation they

00:06:02.820 get involved in a church i know women that have been in that situation there is always a way but 1.00

00:06:07.860 how do you know what male is going to have the best interest at heart how many times has a woman been 1.00

00:06:12.740 like oh this is my average age of first marriage is 30 so you got 10 years to figure it out how would

00:06:17.720 you no no what i'm saying is that how would you know you meet a guy okay we're gonna be friends

00:06:22.340 you're thinking this is my friend is my buddy has my back and then he tries to sleep at you one day

00:06:26.300 usually i would say married couples are probably the best well yeah but you can go to you know

00:06:33.280 your church meetings or any of these kind of support groups that are full of men that are in their 70s

00:06:39.740 you know the likelihood that they're going to be

00:06:42.620 a married man's not going to try to sleep with you as well 1.00

00:06:47.120 yeah but think about hang on hang on a minute like people who are i was literally going to say

00:06:53.100 i was expecting her to say wouldn't a married man literally no no she's giving you like five 1.00

00:06:58.540 different options but you keep asking but why but why but why this is what i'm saying this is

00:07:03.260 discussion that it's all about yeah i know i'm just telling you about the psychology of it so

00:07:07.840 literally women really don't want solutions they just want to harp on about the problem no there is 1.00

00:07:13.080 there is a saying there is a saying that the most single men are married men the most single men are

00:07:18.000 married men these are you know what's a better saying women want the married men and they'll chase 1.00

00:07:22.960 them down there's a saying i went to a pickup a pickup like boot camp i don't know maybe this is what

00:07:28.820 you run i don't actually know i don't actually know i i but but it was like these guys pay to learn

00:07:34.740 how to like talk to women get laid i just like went to watch one of the instructors said that if he wears

00:07:39.860 a wedding ring he gets more attention from women i believe that yeah when he has a puppy it's true

00:07:45.900 it's pre-selection yeah yeah so it's like i i really think this is all projection like the women are 0.99

00:07:52.920 like the married men all cheap but it's like now we chase after the married men and they go for it 0.99

00:07:58.120 right you have your own choice whether you're gonna go for it or not so if you're married and i'm chasing

00:08:02.500 you and you give in is that my fault is that your fault for not remembering your vows it's like how many

00:08:07.500 people takes to get pregnant too right so how many people's responsibility it is no i would say it's

00:08:12.980 the woman's responsible if she gets pregnant yeah of course i would say yes yes yes of course it's my 1.00

00:08:19.160 responsibility i choose the partner i choose the dad for my children and you choose your birth control

00:08:24.640 you choose abortion or not i think until men have equal reproductive rights we have to put it on the 1.00

00:08:31.500 women you know i can't because i really believe right if women do nothing wrong i think women do 0.99

00:08:38.580 a lot of things wrong but i also defend women i also believe in defending women okay if women had 0.51

00:08:43.860 something in our poom pooms right that would block off a man's sperm ever even coming through whether 1.00

00:08:51.180 we're on birth control have a con no like a things happen you know my favorite slogan is things

00:08:56.660 happen right let's say let's say women wear condoms or like require the men that sleep with them wear 0.99

00:09:03.280 condoms i mean if we the point that i'm trying to make is this right the point i'm trying to make is

00:09:08.820 if we had something in our bodies right that would say i don't want to get pregnant at this time like

00:09:13.800 we had like a door that could just stop around our uterus we do it's called ovulation you can track when

00:09:18.100 you're ovulating but what i'm saying we had yeah if we had this in our bodies right we just i mean

00:09:24.760 this is i'm just making up a scenario right if we had this in our body less women would get pregnant

00:09:30.500 because think about it science is not always guaranteed right you can be on birth control

00:09:35.060 get pregnant oh i missed the pill date got pregnant oh the birth control didn't work there's so many

00:09:39.020 reasons why women could get pregnant right even if you track ovulation all that if we had something 1.00

00:09:42.980 in our body after we've had while we're having sex with these men and they're about to go ahead and 0.87

00:09:47.560 come out and we have blockers like tennis blockers less women would be pregnant girl because we'll be 1.00

00:09:53.840 right we got girl we got plan b but but yes we do have plan b but this is this is a scenario that i'm

00:10:01.300 making up this is this is a scenario okay i just want to know okay what where is the excuse when you

00:10:07.020 have okay i can tell the guys i can track when i'm ovulating then i can tell the guys that i sleep

00:10:12.940 with to wear condoms then on top of that i can take a plan b on top of that i can get an iud on

00:10:18.320 top of that i can get on the pill on top of that i can get an abortion it's like what okay so what

00:10:24.520 so i'm just say these five things right what if you don't believe in abortion right so that answers

00:10:28.920 abortion what if you can't get on birth control because it messes with your system makes you bleed

00:10:33.460 you get fat like that messes you up right what if you are allergic to condoms right what if a guy says

00:10:40.340 but i pulled out and you didn't and he didn't pull out what if you don't have money to afford

00:10:45.120 plan b like there's so many different situations that real life situations people go through

00:10:49.440 and they don't know about abstinence is for you

00:10:53.140 then at that point i just think it's time to close the legs

00:10:58.980 at this point i think it would be easier for the men to have a device in their wallet that stops the

00:11:05.300 government from reaching into their wallet to take money that will stop the problem

00:11:09.220 don't worry men can have less women will have babies if the government couldn't take money from 1.00

00:11:12.900 the men men can have a idol that speaks to them and hugs them and it's coming soon

JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023

Pearl Shuts Down Modern

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