Pearl Shuts Down Modern
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the difference between a traditional wife and a modern wife, the differences between the two and how they differ in the way of life in the modern world. We also discuss what it means to be a modern woman in a traditional relationship and why it's not a bad thing.
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I think I'll tell you those guys point of view though it's because like you're not a traditional
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woman right like because over over traditional women really get married before 25 because they
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spend their most fertile years focused on family the most traditional women want families first
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right so it's not an insult it's not a bad thing it's just the most traditional it's not a bad
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thing it's me yeah the most the most traditional women get married they stay married 25 and under
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I would say roughly um so it's like they're like why am I paying like why am I doing the
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traditional thing when I don't get the traditional outcome but that's because it's like it's like we
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wanted to be equal right we wanted to go to work we wanted to spend our 20s in the workforce and
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then we do that and then we're like all right now treat me traditionally and so a lot of guys are
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just confused they're like I thought you guys were modern but it's also the evolution of mankind like
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a lot of people might look at it like oh back in the day back in the day this that like this is
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the new way of doing things everything has changed nowadays so I think that in marriages nowadays you
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can't have a traditional slash modern woman because it does take some of the pressure and strain off
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of the guy you can say okay you want a traditional wife who's going to be home have the kids not work
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but do you really want that or would you like somebody who is 65 35 with you you spend you pay 65
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of the bills I pay 35 of the bills we have the kids well do you know what traditional is it's
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one bank account he controls the money if we're really going to be traditional but most of the
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times right when the man works most of the time when a man works at a married situation he puts the
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money in the bank who pays who actually writes out the checks for the bills the woman does that's part
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of her household duty right but but I'm saying I don't think most relationships are traditional
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nowadays so I don't think like using modern times like you'd really have to go back and like read like
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the the history of like traditional relationships but the man would still make the final say on all
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the expenses so if she was spending money would be off of a budget that he signed off of or like
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he told her basically yeah but she's still the one who's dispersing the money right she's still the one
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who's like okay this has to be done to say he's putting the money in the bank account she's saying
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the lights are right right but my my point is though it's still like his decision in a traditional
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relationship it's still one bank account like it's not her money it's the money for the family
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that's traditional because traditional is family first but then isn't it the gate to abuse if such
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occurs no so what is the safety as paramount situation with if he's abusive and then he takes
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away all the savings so she worked at home 20 years and he worked at work 20 years they have
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money together and then uh he decides to uh bang his secretary right well well then she's the one
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that there used to be protections there used to be protections for women but we wanted equality so be
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equal yeah under under covert law you know which is traditional or it's it's seen now as the enslavement
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the financial enslavement of women um but women did have a veto over major financial decisions so a man
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couldn't just go you know what we're selling this family home and we're moving to another part of the
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country yeah she would have a veto um and uh men men also men also in the uk had a responsibility a legal
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responsibility and could be imprisoned if they were seen to be failing to keep their wives and
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children in like a state that was i know reasonable for the amount of wealth that they had so if
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they've got their wife and kids dressed in rags but they're like in silk suits and they could go to
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jail for that but they could also go to jail if the wife decided to just go and splurge a load of money
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run up a load of debts that couldn't be paid back i saw the law recently there the the writings is like
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the one in new york where they're talking about why they didn't want women to vote because they were
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giving like the the privileges that women had and they're saying we don't want to be equal
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and one of them was like you could um yeah you could send your husband to jail if he wasn't taking
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care of you so he literally was like yeah yeah yeah but no no we wanted to be equal so be equal
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send him on it well you know if you don't pay child support they'll take you to jail if you have a child
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support order and you do not pay your child support you positively will go to jail until you have the
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almost like a bailout of a minimum of what you have to pay just to get out which you which is
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needed because think about it like men are just having babies all over the place no they're not
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living their lives women are having babies all over the place by themselves this is no this is
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again if a man's getting more than one woman pregnant that is the women being stupid that is
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and he's not being played five stupid woman to one stupid man but that is on the women but you
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got to think about it right no are you thinking about do you think a man tells you up front everything
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there's so not so many right but there are men who have did you introduce him to your father did
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you introduce him to your brother no no no no no women women will cry later when their friends said
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he was toxic their dad said don't date him here their brother said what are you doing and then the
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women will whine later about the results you can when everybody warned you no i don't believe this
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whole the wool was over my eyes i had no idea you never dated a man that lied every man i've dated
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that has lied to me was because i was stupid and did not listen to the men around me and the only way
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i had better results was by realizing that and making better decisions but women just want to say
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nothing is our fault but what if your dad everything was what if you're what if you have no brothers
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no dad you don't have a male to go to to say that this man out then well then then you seek out
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males that have your best interest at heart i know women that have been in that situation they
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get involved in a church i know women that have been in that situation there is always a way but
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how do you know what male is going to have the best interest at heart how many times has a woman been
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like oh this is my average age of first marriage is 30 so you got 10 years to figure it out how would
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you no no what i'm saying is that how would you know you meet a guy okay we're gonna be friends
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you're thinking this is my friend is my buddy has my back and then he tries to sleep at you one day
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usually i would say married couples are probably the best well yeah but you can go to you know
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your church meetings or any of these kind of support groups that are full of men that are in their 70s
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you know the likelihood that they're going to be
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a married man's not going to try to sleep with you as well
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yeah but think about hang on hang on a minute like people who are i was literally going to say
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i was expecting her to say wouldn't a married man literally no no she's giving you like five
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different options but you keep asking but why but why but why this is what i'm saying this is
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discussion that it's all about yeah i know i'm just telling you about the psychology of it so
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literally women really don't want solutions they just want to harp on about the problem no there is
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there is a saying there is a saying that the most single men are married men the most single men are
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married men these are you know what's a better saying women want the married men and they'll chase
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them down there's a saying i went to a pickup a pickup like boot camp i don't know maybe this is what
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you run i don't actually know i don't actually know i i but but it was like these guys pay to learn
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how to like talk to women get laid i just like went to watch one of the instructors said that if he wears
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a wedding ring he gets more attention from women i believe that yeah when he has a puppy it's true
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it's pre-selection yeah yeah so it's like i i really think this is all projection like the women are
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like the married men all cheap but it's like now we chase after the married men and they go for it
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right you have your own choice whether you're gonna go for it or not so if you're married and i'm chasing
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you and you give in is that my fault is that your fault for not remembering your vows it's like how many
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people takes to get pregnant too right so how many people's responsibility it is no i would say it's
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the woman's responsible if she gets pregnant yeah of course i would say yes yes yes of course it's my
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responsibility i choose the partner i choose the dad for my children and you choose your birth control
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you choose abortion or not i think until men have equal reproductive rights we have to put it on the
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women you know i can't because i really believe right if women do nothing wrong i think women do
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a lot of things wrong but i also defend women i also believe in defending women okay if women had
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something in our poom pooms right that would block off a man's sperm ever even coming through whether
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we're on birth control have a con no like a things happen you know my favorite slogan is things
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happen right let's say let's say women wear condoms or like require the men that sleep with them wear
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condoms i mean if we the point that i'm trying to make is this right the point i'm trying to make is
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if we had something in our bodies right that would say i don't want to get pregnant at this time like
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we had like a door that could just stop around our uterus we do it's called ovulation you can track when
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you're ovulating but what i'm saying we had yeah if we had this in our bodies right we just i mean
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this is i'm just making up a scenario right if we had this in our body less women would get pregnant
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because think about it science is not always guaranteed right you can be on birth control
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get pregnant oh i missed the pill date got pregnant oh the birth control didn't work there's so many
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reasons why women could get pregnant right even if you track ovulation all that if we had something
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in our body after we've had while we're having sex with these men and they're about to go ahead and
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come out and we have blockers like tennis blockers less women would be pregnant girl because we'll be
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right we got girl we got plan b but but yes we do have plan b but this is this is a scenario that i'm
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making up this is this is a scenario okay i just want to know okay what where is the excuse when you
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have okay i can tell the guys i can track when i'm ovulating then i can tell the guys that i sleep
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with to wear condoms then on top of that i can take a plan b on top of that i can get an iud on
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top of that i can get on the pill on top of that i can get an abortion it's like what okay so what
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so i'm just say these five things right what if you don't believe in abortion right so that answers
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abortion what if you can't get on birth control because it messes with your system makes you bleed
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you get fat like that messes you up right what if you are allergic to condoms right what if a guy says
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but i pulled out and you didn't and he didn't pull out what if you don't have money to afford
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plan b like there's so many different situations that real life situations people go through
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and they don't know about abstinence is for you
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then at that point i just think it's time to close the legs
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at this point i think it would be easier for the men to have a device in their wallet that stops the
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government from reaching into their wallet to take money that will stop the problem
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don't worry men can have less women will have babies if the government couldn't take money from
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the men men can have a idol that speaks to them and hugs them and it's coming soon