JustPearlyThings - May 02, 2023


Pearl SUCCESSFULLY TRIGGERS Male Only Fans Model


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9 minutes

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Word count

2,072

Sentence count

169

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Misogyny

35

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23

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In this episode, we discuss taking the easy way out of life and why women should not have to work as much as they do. We also talk about the lack of appreciation that women receive from men and how they should be more appreciative of what they do have.

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00:00:00.000 Sorry, what is it you do for a living?
00:00:02.720 I direct, model and dance.
00:00:04.740 Okay, okay.
00:00:05.340 Yeah, I do like commercials, like adverts on TV and stuff.
00:00:08.340 I mean, I'm not saying it's an easy job, but it's a fun job,
00:00:12.140 something that you look forward to going to.
00:00:14.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:00:14.720 Not all of it is easy, some of it is hard.
00:00:16.140 Would you say out of the two options that you presented,
00:00:18.420 that B would be the easier way out?
00:00:20.520 It would be, yeah.
00:00:21.180 It is.
00:00:21.600 It is the easier way out.
00:00:22.860 So we need to keep that energy then.
00:00:24.160 It is the easier way out.
00:00:24.720 Well, we look at OnlyFans creators and say that we've taken the easy way out.
00:00:28.260 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:00:29.360 I trigger you.
00:00:30.820 No, I like consistency.
00:00:32.900 As he said, I don't like hypocrites.
00:00:34.460 So when he pulled me up, he's right, he's right.
00:00:36.560 When you were right, you were right.
00:00:37.860 But if we're going to go and say that you're going to go for plan B,
00:00:40.780 then please, we can't have the energy.
00:00:42.680 I'm talking about OnlyFans creators.
00:00:45.280 No, no, I'm talking about the Bs in the room. 1.00
00:00:47.340 Don't then say, ah, you took the easy way out,
00:00:49.460 because you've just confessed with your own mouth
00:00:50.680 that if you had the opportunity between the hard and the easy way,
00:00:52.780 you took the easy way.
00:00:53.900 But I think in life, most people take the easy way.
00:00:56.520 Yeah, the majority.
00:00:57.360 It just depends if it interferes with your morals and values.
00:01:03.040 So it's like, that's the...
00:01:04.320 The thing that surprised me as a man in this day and age
00:01:07.260 is knowing how many women have to work these days. 1.00
00:01:10.200 When I was in situations where I was able to say to women,
00:01:13.960 you don't have to work anymore.
00:01:15.420 I'm going to look after you, all of that.
00:01:17.020 The lack of appreciation.
00:01:19.700 Staggering.
00:01:21.020 Staggering.
00:01:21.500 I'm talking, like, within a couple of months,
00:01:23.880 they're acting like they've always been this way.
00:01:25.960 They have, like, this memory.
00:01:27.960 You know, you've had a men in black where they've deleted the memory.
00:01:30.760 It was like they'd never worked a day in their life.
00:01:32.340 So women get comfortable fucking super quick. 1.00
00:01:34.920 And that surprised me more than anything.
00:01:37.500 No, I believe exactly what you're saying.
00:01:38.720 I feel like the majority of females nowadays
00:01:40.420 are taking the plan B.
00:01:42.460 Nowadays, that's why guys aren't really taking them serious.
00:01:45.020 And I feel like that's just the way it is.
00:01:47.420 Yeah, but then if you as a man are going to a woman saying,
00:01:50.240 I can offer you this and I can offer you that,
00:01:51.900 of course a woman's going to be like, 1.00
00:01:52.780 do you know what?
00:01:53.260 Let me take that offer then.
00:01:54.500 No, but I feel like...
00:01:55.240 You've got to think of it like this.
00:01:56.340 You're going to a job interview, yeah?
00:01:58.000 You're going, I don't know,
00:02:00.220 you've gone to Starbucks, for instance.
00:02:02.640 Starbucks is offering you a manager role for 30 grand a year.
00:02:06.340 You go to another Starbucks,
00:02:07.860 that Starbucks is offering you 40 grand a year for the same job.
00:02:11.460 Which one are you going to pick?
00:02:12.460 No, I get it.
00:02:13.640 But I'm just saying from a guy's point of view,
00:02:16.540 just in this day and age,
00:02:17.780 I just feel like girls don't really put in that effort. 1.00
00:02:20.740 Girls don't really show that appreciation. 1.00
00:02:22.500 They just want, want, want.
00:02:23.320 Same like a girl not long ago 0.95
00:02:26.360 where she's messaged me on Instagram,
00:02:29.180 like, oh, like, blah, blah, blah.
00:02:31.100 Spoke a little bit through Instagram
00:02:33.400 and then she's talked around.
00:02:34.280 Oh, yeah, she's been, I'm like,
00:02:35.400 oh, what are you doing this week?
00:02:36.180 She's telling me, oh, so where are you taking me?
00:02:39.140 Like, you've messaged me.
00:02:40.360 What do you mean, where am I taking you?
00:02:41.520 Like, I don't, do you know what I mean?
00:02:43.500 Instead of thinking, instead of her saying,
00:02:45.260 oh, like, this week I'm free.
00:02:47.640 If you're free, I will take you somewhere.
00:02:49.540 Or let me cook you dinner.
00:02:51.480 Cook you dinner, do you know what I mean, Paul?
00:02:53.000 Something like that.
00:02:53.860 That's more appreciation.
00:02:55.000 That's what makes the growth of a man
00:02:56.700 to go towards a female. 0.99
00:02:57.740 I've had like,
00:02:58.860 I've been fairly successful on the old internet
00:03:00.940 and I've been dating websites.
00:03:02.500 Not once has a girl said,
00:03:03.940 let me come over and cook you dinner.
00:03:05.360 Never.
00:03:05.380 The onus is on the man
00:03:06.740 and I've got no problem with that necessarily
00:03:08.440 because I'm old school
00:03:09.340 and I don't mind taking the open out.
00:03:10.720 But that would blow my fucking mind
00:03:12.160 if a woman said that. 1.00
00:03:12.880 I'd be like, wow, maybe she is wise.
00:03:15.080 Can you imagine?
00:03:15.500 That's what would make a guy more,
00:03:16.900 like, grow that growth towards a woman. 1.00
00:03:18.400 I'd use that next time.
00:03:19.900 Now you're going to get women, didn't you? 1.00
00:03:21.520 I'll cook you dinner.
00:03:22.600 I'm not as stupid as I'm not cooking.
00:03:26.620 I put my hands up.
00:03:28.220 Like, anything I can make.
00:03:29.840 I'm a good fucking cook.
00:03:30.660 What's your favourite dish?
00:03:31.960 Can all of you girls cook? 1.00
00:03:33.600 Yeah.
00:03:34.120 African foods.
00:03:35.500 What's your speciality?
00:03:37.840 Cheese on toast?
00:03:39.080 No.
00:03:40.400 I'm playing.
00:03:41.100 I'm trying to get messed up.
00:03:43.120 Women need to come with the wifey skills, man. 1.00
00:03:46.380 You know what I mean?
00:03:46.940 As a guy coming from a Caribbean household
00:03:49.880 and everything,
00:03:50.380 my mum sort of taught me to be independent
00:03:52.020 so I can cook my own food.
00:03:53.720 I can, you know,
00:03:54.560 generally do skills which are associated
00:03:57.000 with women,
00:03:58.660 like sewing.
00:04:00.060 I can sew.
00:04:00.840 You know what I mean?
00:04:01.600 That type of stuff.
00:04:02.780 So when a woman comes to the table, 1.00
00:04:04.820 she needs to be able to offer me,
00:04:06.280 if she wants the idea of being in a relationship
00:04:09.600 to come into fruition,
00:04:10.960 she needs to be able to offer a lot of wifey skills. 1.00
00:04:14.660 Stuff which, generally, I know how to do that,
00:04:16.840 but I can't be bothered to do.
00:04:18.040 Can I chime in on this?
00:04:18.620 Because I think women don't realise, 1.00
00:04:20.420 they're looking for this big moment
00:04:21.980 to show their skills.
00:04:22.840 If you meet a guy and you really like him,
00:04:26.080 the thing that will trick him
00:04:27.600 more than anything else
00:04:28.640 is one day he realises,
00:04:30.040 fuck mate, 0.99
00:04:30.740 my life is way better with her, isn't it?
00:04:32.520 She does this for me,
00:04:33.400 she does that for me. 0.72
00:04:34.140 Like I haven't asked her to do any of these things.
00:04:35.880 She's just trying to make me, 1.00
00:04:37.560 make my life better.
00:04:38.820 Whereas like,
00:04:39.940 and this whole mentality
00:04:42.040 that we've got these days
00:04:42.940 with this exchange of
00:04:43.980 what can you do for me?
00:04:45.280 And men are just as bad, 0.55
00:04:46.240 I'm not saying that we're not,
00:04:47.440 but like when women do that, 1.00
00:04:48.940 you catch yourself like,
00:04:49.860 okay,
00:04:50.000 but you don't have to say,
00:04:51.580 you just have to show him.
00:04:52.760 Absolutely.
00:04:53.760 That stems from what we were saying,
00:04:55.380 we both need to build each other.
00:04:56.900 Do you know what I noticed though?
00:04:58.980 It's like the women that, 1.00
00:05:00.120 because I always hear this on the shows
00:05:01.760 where it's like,
00:05:02.320 oh,
00:05:02.380 I gave him everything
00:05:03.460 or I did all this for him.
00:05:05.000 And I realised the girls that say this,
00:05:06.700 they're actually spiteful
00:05:07.800 and they keep score.
00:05:08.760 Because the most giving women I know,
00:05:10.860 they don't keep score
00:05:11.860 and they never talk about
00:05:13.460 what they did for a guy.
00:05:15.080 And so that's what I realised.
00:05:16.380 It's like,
00:05:16.640 it's actually a red flag
00:05:17.640 when she's like,
00:05:18.280 oh,
00:05:18.420 I did all this
00:05:19.140 because she views herself
00:05:20.780 as the victim
00:05:21.580 and like,
00:05:22.560 she did nothing wrong.
00:05:23.600 It was all him.
00:05:25.100 Yeah.
00:05:25.400 A million,
00:05:26.000 my experience,
00:05:27.180 when women, 1.00
00:05:27.960 like women be like detectives, 1.00
00:05:29.840 they start digging up old shit
00:05:31.040 that they did for you two years ago
00:05:32.580 that you've forgotten about.
00:05:34.020 And that,
00:05:34.740 I think that that's a really bad,
00:05:36.220 a point scoring.
00:05:37.080 Like when you're in an argument
00:05:38.580 and you start going back and forward
00:05:40.240 and it's like,
00:05:41.100 well,
00:05:41.220 you did this,
00:05:41.700 no,
00:05:41.820 you did that.
00:05:42.360 And what started this?
00:05:43.340 And it's like,
00:05:43.800 I'm never getting a sorry,
00:05:45.060 so fuck it.
00:05:46.020 Fuck it.
00:05:46.440 That's why I don't like our argument.
00:05:47.080 I think sometimes as well,
00:05:48.580 like women can't help it 1.00
00:05:49.780 that we just store this
00:05:51.100 like in the back of our heads.
00:05:52.520 I get it.
00:05:53.020 Because we're so like,
00:05:54.240 emotional.
00:05:54.980 Yeah.
00:05:55.380 And in that emotion,
00:05:56.920 I personally feel like
00:05:58.080 when women are really upset with men,
00:05:59.960 like you guys,
00:06:01.920 you want to vent
00:06:03.380 and you want to like
00:06:04.180 take that out on us.
00:06:05.140 And I understand that,
00:06:06.060 but you're not,
00:06:06.440 we're not solving anything.
00:06:08.020 But that's why I think like women, 1.00
00:06:09.980 having women friends
00:06:11.260 that actually want you to win
00:06:12.740 is so important.
00:06:13.920 Like they have to be married.
00:06:15.180 They can't be single
00:06:16.040 and they have to be happily married
00:06:17.720 because it's like,
00:06:18.500 we don't,
00:06:18.860 we can't dump all our problems
00:06:20.280 on the guys.
00:06:21.040 They don't want to hear about it.
00:06:22.000 That's why I was saying earlier,
00:06:22.900 I don't think men and women 1.00
00:06:23.760 are like supposed to be best friends.
00:06:25.680 Yeah.
00:06:26.080 Makes sense.
00:06:26.820 But wouldn't it be beautiful
00:06:27.600 if they were?
00:06:28.440 Exactly.
00:06:28.680 I think that's what like society's been pushing
00:06:34.060 to be honest
00:06:34.840 and I don't think it's working.
00:06:36.560 But you know,
00:06:37.080 like marriage now,
00:06:38.000 people are closer to best friends
00:06:39.480 than they were a hundred years ago
00:06:40.820 and marriage doesn't work now.
00:06:42.640 That's true.
00:06:44.000 Yeah,
00:06:44.440 I think you should be able to
00:06:45.520 enjoy stuff together.
00:06:47.120 But marriage doesn't work
00:06:47.900 for so many other more profound reasons.
00:06:49.920 The likes of social media,
00:06:52.120 the likes of promiscuity.
00:06:53.440 Yeah,
00:06:53.800 I think marriage not working
00:06:55.220 is women's fault. 1.00
00:06:56.660 Wow.
00:06:57.220 Yeah.
00:06:57.540 Mate,
00:06:57.700 you are amazing.
00:06:58.840 You're like a breath of fresh air.
00:06:59.880 I've never heard of women. 1.00
00:07:01.520 Confess.
00:07:02.100 No,
00:07:02.440 I'll tell you why.
00:07:03.520 Because look at the numbers.
00:07:05.020 Okay,
00:07:05.220 look at the numbers.
00:07:05.920 If you look at,
00:07:06.440 okay,
00:07:07.060 no fault divorce got initiated in the 90s
00:07:09.740 and what did women do? 1.00
00:07:10.600 They left.
00:07:11.480 80% of the time,
00:07:12.300 women are leaving.
00:07:13.260 And when men leave, 0.68
00:07:14.080 like the number one reasons,
00:07:15.440 it's like abuse,
00:07:16.680 infidel.
00:07:17.500 It's not that they're more serious
00:07:19.640 where women's, 0.99
00:07:20.320 it's like financial
00:07:21.280 and one other thing.
00:07:22.200 I'm butchering them.
00:07:23.140 But the last time I checked,
00:07:24.320 that's what they were.
00:07:25.400 And so it's like women, 1.00
00:07:27.300 like the average age
00:07:28.020 or the average length
00:07:29.020 of a first marriage
00:07:29.640 is eight years.
00:07:30.180 It's not marriage anymore.
00:07:31.200 Marriage is not marriage today
00:07:32.360 because you change
00:07:33.280 the whole institution
00:07:34.280 by letting people be divorced
00:07:35.760 because marriage is supposed
00:07:36.660 to be for better or for worse.
00:07:38.340 Forever.
00:07:39.400 And so when women 1.00
00:07:40.660 got the chance
00:07:41.700 to leave,
00:07:42.280 they did.
00:07:43.420 Because women don't need 1.00
00:07:44.500 men financially as much.
00:07:46.160 Correct.
00:07:46.360 And that's one of the main problems
00:07:47.500 is now women are out here 1.00
00:07:48.900 earning as much,
00:07:49.740 if not more,
00:07:50.240 than men.
00:07:50.800 Equal pay.
00:07:51.200 They're looking at men like,
00:07:52.420 well,
00:07:52.660 what do I really need them for?
00:07:54.420 Yeah,
00:07:54.620 and women would rather be alone 1.00
00:07:56.140 than be with a guy
00:07:56.860 that she views as equal or less.
00:08:00.040 And that's what you see
00:08:01.440 because that's the general trend
00:08:02.700 since women started 0.98
00:08:03.500 entering the workforce
00:08:04.360 in the 20s.
00:08:05.600 Yeah.
00:08:06.960 Society's fucked.
00:08:07.760 And that's why women 1.00
00:08:08.760 list their things
00:08:09.680 that they're looking for
00:08:10.460 in a man.
00:08:10.960 It'll be taller than me,
00:08:11.940 makes more money than me,
00:08:12.860 bigger, stronger than me,
00:08:13.920 more intelligent than me.
00:08:15.080 Like,
00:08:15.440 they want a superior
00:08:16.160 in a lot of ways.
00:08:18.020 And most women 0.98
00:08:19.460 won't ever settle
00:08:20.460 if they don't get,
00:08:21.440 like,
00:08:21.560 and that's the partially
00:08:22.460 that social media
00:08:23.340 came in and said,
00:08:24.200 oh,
00:08:24.360 you should all,
00:08:24.900 and Disney,
00:08:25.680 you should all have
00:08:26.260 Prince Charming,
00:08:27.040 he should sweep you 0.88
00:08:27.820 off your feet,
00:08:28.520 he should do all of that.
00:08:29.440 That's what I said,
00:08:30.060 we've been conditioned.
00:08:31.520 Yeah,
00:08:32.020 but Disney never said
00:08:33.820 what did Cinderella 0.95
00:08:34.640 bring to the table.
00:08:35.540 Exactly.
00:08:35.980 Again,
00:08:36.280 we've been conditioned
00:08:37.020 to,
00:08:37.280 we've seen this from young,
00:08:38.420 so automatically we're like,
00:08:39.540 oh,
00:08:39.820 that's what I want,
00:08:40.400 it's conditioning.
00:08:41.080 We've all been conditioned
00:08:41.920 to think that's the norm.
00:08:42.700 the whole thing about
00:08:43.560 bringing stuff to the table,
00:08:45.220 like,
00:08:47.300 I'm just confused by it
00:08:48.860 because
00:08:49.340 when our parents
00:08:51.460 got together,
00:08:52.780 they came from nothing
00:08:54.100 and came together
00:08:55.580 and made something.
00:08:57.060 So,
00:08:58.460 I don't know,
00:08:59.060 maybe I'm just a little bit.
00:09:00.260 As many of you know,
00:09:06.140 I was just banned
00:09:07.280 on TikTok
00:09:08.180 and we are demonetized
00:09:09.900 on a daily basis
00:09:11.160 on this platform.
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