JustPearlyThings - November 22, 2023


Pearl TRIGGERS Tradcons On Twitter


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Length

7 minutes

Words per minute

194.29597

Word count

1,551

Sentence count

132

Harmful content

Misogyny

36

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

25

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about the dangers of the Red Pill Movement and how it can destroy a marriage. I also talk about why women should seek counseling when it comes to cheating on their husbands and why it s a red flag.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So, you know, there's a lot of women right now that are coming at me. 1.00
00:00:03.080 And I call them, these are the women that cope.
00:00:05.120 These are the women that are just very delusional and just coping. 1.00
00:00:08.680 Cope, cope, cope.
00:00:09.460 A lot of these are tradcon women that just say I'm too harsh, mean, because I won't acknowledge that women are not special.
00:00:15.380 They're not that nurturing. 0.87
00:00:16.440 They're actually more violent than men.
00:00:18.380 And I just tell men, apparently I just tell men to cheat willy-nilly left and right.
00:00:22.940 Apparently that's what I said.
00:00:23.820 I didn't even know I said that.
00:00:25.400 But apparently I say, I say cheat on me, please.
00:00:28.180 That's apparently the narrative.
00:00:30.240 A DM I receive. 0.92
00:00:32.020 The red pill manosphere and Pearl are just as toxic as feminism or worse. 1.00
00:00:37.620 Oh, let me just try my ribbon.
00:00:40.120 Oh my God.
00:00:41.240 It poisons, ruins relationships.
00:00:44.160 The figurative blood of broken marriages and families will be on their hands.
00:00:49.040 I love how dramatic these chicks are. 1.00
00:00:50.840 They have the most dramatic women on the planet. 1.00
00:00:52.920 They're so dramatic.
00:00:54.260 Like, I can't.
00:00:55.460 I can't.
00:00:56.060 Again, if my opinion didn't hold some kind of validity, I would not have blown up as fast as I did.
00:01:03.960 I would not have the following I did.
00:01:05.500 I do.
00:01:06.560 Men are not easy to fool.
00:01:08.600 You don't get a big male following. 0.99
00:01:09.920 You can get a big female following selling nonsense and bullshit, but male, not the same. 1.00
00:01:16.360 Okay. 1.00
00:01:16.660 Her stuff is so discouraging.
00:01:18.180 I'm married, but my husband is heavily into the red pill agenda and it is destroying our 0.96
00:01:22.660 marriage to the point where divorce is heavily considered.
00:01:25.140 So apparently this is the story.
00:01:27.400 He's now trying to condition my mind to believe it's okay for him to sleep with other women
00:01:33.520 while being married to me because there's no emotional attachment.
00:01:36.980 He's turned abusive and verbally and emotionally damaging.
00:01:41.840 Okay.
00:01:42.120 So this is a red flag.
00:01:43.600 Women, let's say emotionally abusive. 1.00
00:01:46.300 I want you guys to put that in your mind as this is a red flag.
00:01:51.340 I want another red flag verbally damaging.
00:01:55.620 What does that mean?
00:01:57.020 Is that just words you don't like?
00:01:59.220 Okay to sleep with other women. 1.00
00:02:01.500 My question is why?
00:02:03.380 Why is he bringing this to you? 0.98
00:02:04.780 Are you having sex whenever he wants?
00:02:06.780 All he does is send me red pill content and tells me that I need to accept these truths. 0.82
00:02:11.960 I thought I married a man of God.
00:02:14.520 I don't think a man of God would be pushing you to do this.
00:02:17.500 Why are you not involved in your church?
00:02:22.420 Why are there not older people in the church that he's talking to?
00:02:26.220 But he has shown me he doesn't want to follow the ways of the Lord.
00:02:29.440 I'm so grateful for your content because it shows I'm not crazy and delusional.
00:02:33.100 She probably is.
00:02:34.420 And that the marriage with truly godly principles is the right way.
00:02:38.660 At some point, ladies, you have to give up control. 1.00
00:02:41.260 You have to let the men be men. 0.94
00:02:43.640 You cannot stop men from cheating.
00:02:45.420 You cannot stop men from doing what they're going to do.
00:02:48.480 If you got a truly masculine man, he is going to do what he is going to do.
00:02:53.040 All you can do is give your input and hope for the best.
00:02:55.880 Women cannot fathom having this little control of men. 0.98
00:02:59.200 They cannot do it.
00:03:00.100 They hate the idea of losing control.
00:03:02.520 I think that this story is fishy.
00:03:05.280 It sounds like we're missing details and I wouldn't come to any conclusions until I talk to the husband.
00:03:09.920 My question is how would your husband say that you are as a wife?
00:03:13.240 Are you this perfect angel wife, really?
00:03:15.900 And so many times women do think that they are the perfect angel wives that do no wrong. 1.00
00:03:20.480 There is such a lack of humility from wives today. 0.93
00:03:23.260 It is unheard of and absolutely disgusting.
00:03:26.280 Traditional wives actually have a sense of humility about them. 1.00
00:03:29.840 But instead of asking the right questions, women like Bernadette will encourage these women to leave and control their husband instead of staying. 1.00
00:03:38.120 My input, my two senses, there's more to the story.
00:03:43.340 Rachel Wilson, one of the few women that I know that actually live in reality, you guys should follow her, Rach for Patriarchy. 1.00
00:03:49.680 She said, if she married a man of God, where is the priest or pastor in all of this?
00:03:52.660 No solid Christian. 1.00
00:03:53.980 Church would permit adultery. 1.00
00:03:56.240 Christianity is not meant to be a DIY religion.
00:03:59.120 If their marriage is at this point, they should seek counseling through the church.
00:04:02.820 Yeah, exactly.
00:04:04.360 Yes.
00:04:05.060 And I comment, I said, and she's just the innocent victim here and it happened exactly like that.
00:04:09.440 Right.
00:04:10.060 This story sounds fishy.
00:04:11.280 You guys never ask the right questions.
00:04:12.880 Is the wife even sleeping with him? 1.00
00:04:14.480 Who's considering the divorce?
00:04:17.420 These godly women will shame the men all day. 1.00
00:04:21.180 They'll say, oh, oh, the evil men, the evil men. 0.99
00:04:25.220 Oh, they're so evil.
00:04:26.780 Like, let's say he did commit adultery.
00:04:29.400 And my question to the women is, so you've never committed adultery?
00:04:32.580 You've never flirted with another guy?
00:04:34.760 You've never had a conversation with a man that you know is sexually attracted to you?
00:04:38.680 You've never had a guy friend?
00:04:40.120 Like, women are not these innocent beings that have never cheated. 0.99
00:04:44.340 Women are out cheating men. 0.97
00:04:45.680 So this idea that the men are just cheating left and right, most men can't even cheat.
00:04:49.700 And the same women that will call their husbands ungodly are the same women that consider divorce.
00:04:55.500 You believe women's stories at all costs without even hearing the man's side and just assume they're innocent victims when women are known for lying or omitting important details. 0.86
00:05:03.640 Yes.
00:05:04.120 Yes.
00:05:04.420 That's female nature. 1.00
00:05:05.800 We tend to over-exaggerate things because the way we view the world is through our emotions.
00:05:10.520 Revellino also agrees with me, or he quoted me, I'm assuming, because it was a good quote.
00:05:14.760 You believe women's stories at all costs without ever hearing the man's side and just assume they're innocent victims when women are known for lying or omitting important details. 0.78
00:05:23.700 I don't know anything about this particular story, but I do know playing the victim is a special gift women have. 0.97
00:05:29.320 It's related to the concept, everything is your fault, nothing is her fault I have been talking about.
00:05:33.740 The feminine has a hard time taking blame for any failure. 1.00
00:05:37.020 Verbally and emotionally damaging.
00:05:38.660 That's all you really need to know, isn't it?
00:05:40.400 If he was punching her in the face, we'd have heard about that.
00:05:44.460 She's just unhappy.
00:05:47.200 Yeah.
00:05:47.860 And then these Bernadette-type chicks, and I've seen them. 0.99
00:05:50.820 They're like the trad con chicks that are like fake. 0.98
00:05:53.620 They're like fake feminists. 1.00
00:05:54.940 You just kind of know them when you see them.
00:05:57.060 They'll encourage these women to get divorced and find a godly husband, but no godly husband is going to want a divorcee. 1.00
00:06:02.860 Maybe you might be able to get a naive 25 and under guy, but over the age of 25, guys have caught on.
00:06:08.380 And Jeremy says, any girl that uses toxic and manosphere in the same sentence is run. 1.00
00:06:13.200 That's not your girl, fellas. 1.00
00:06:14.880 Yes, yes, yes.
00:06:16.240 Leonardo, her not sleeping with him does not justify him telling her he's allowed to sleep around.
00:06:21.100 And the evidence for manosphere teaching sexual promiscuity is evident.
00:06:25.240 You guys don't even see men sleeping around as cheating. 0.62
00:06:28.260 You claim to be Catholic.
00:06:29.340 So then there's the thing that they do.
00:06:31.500 They attack my faith and say that I say things that I do not say.
00:06:35.640 I do not encourage cheating.
00:06:37.180 I don't think cheating is good.
00:06:38.820 My point is women will play the victim and say that they should leave divorces and marriages because of cheating, but don't talk about not sleeping with their husband. 0.94
00:06:48.700 You know, many times, they also don't talk about belittling their husband.
00:06:52.360 They also don't talk about what they did.
00:06:54.680 You know, women accept sexual attention from men all the time. 0.93
00:06:58.460 I would argue that women accepting attention from men is similar to men sleeping with another woman. 0.97
00:07:04.580 I know that's a hard pill to swallow, but most women would prefer to look young and beautiful for a lifetime rather than have sex with whoever they want. 1.00
00:07:12.740 For men, it is the opposite.
00:07:14.200 What does that tell us? 0.98
00:07:15.980 Women value getting sexual attention from men where men value having sex with beautiful women. 1.00
00:07:21.380 I think that men have put up and accepted a lot of us cheating. 0.80
00:07:26.140 They have absolutely done it.
00:07:27.480 So, you know, I think that we should look in the mirror before demonizing men for cheating.
00:07:32.240 That's my view on it.
00:07:33.420 I think that marriages should be worked through, and sometimes that is something that you have to work through really for the children's sake.
00:07:40.020 And I don't think that is even unbiblical.
00:07:43.080 I actually think that the Bible would back me up, saying that you should stay together at all costs.
00:07:50.140 Not to say that there aren't situations where divorce is warranted.
00:07:53.620 I'm sure there are, but they are rare, and more often women contribute to the situations that they complain about. 1.00