JustPearlyThings - July 28, 2023


Pearl TRIGGERS Twitter AGAIN With This Red Pill


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

167.15364

Word Count

1,373

Sentence Count

108

Misogynist Sentences

35

Hate Speech Sentences

21


Summary

Is monogamy a thing that only happens in the top 20% of men? Or is it something everyone should expect from every man? In this episode, I talk about why men cheat, why women cheat, and why monogamy is a bad thing.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So I've recently been triggering some people on Twitter
00:00:06.300 because I really do not think you should expect monogamy
00:00:10.000 from the top 20% of it.
00:00:12.380 Now, a lot of people will say,
00:00:14.460 Pearl, are you saying that all rich men cheat?
00:00:19.920 No.
00:00:21.780 But can we just call it what it is, guys?
00:00:24.640 Are millionaires and billionaires known for being faithful?
00:00:28.840 Are rich, handsome, successful men
00:00:31.800 known for not having side chicks for being family men?
00:00:36.640 Or is it usually that when they are family men,
00:00:40.340 it comes out later that they were cheating?
00:00:42.520 Let's take Bill Gates.
00:00:43.900 For years, everyone's like, this is a family man.
00:00:47.580 Not a cheater.
00:00:49.620 And then it comes out, his wife lets him go
00:00:52.420 deal with his side chick once a year.
00:00:55.480 Now, did his wife say, oh, Bill, but you can't?
00:00:58.880 No, his wife understood that's what came with it.
00:01:02.060 And in a lot of these super rich men,
00:01:04.320 their wives understand that's what comes with it.
00:01:07.320 And I honestly am just really tired of people exposing these cheating men.
00:01:12.340 Well, we know rich men cheat.
00:01:14.080 They've always cheated.
00:01:15.340 The top 15% of men have always had harems of women.
00:01:19.140 And this is not me putting a morality on it.
00:01:23.240 This is not me saying this is a good thing or a bad thing.
00:01:26.460 This is me saying, all right, if you go for this type of guy,
00:01:30.180 this is probably what you can expect.
00:01:32.680 And I think as women, it's better to just accept that may happen
00:01:36.520 and that you should stick it out
00:01:38.700 and that sex isn't the same for men or for women.
00:01:41.520 I think that's a more honest message than telling women to live in this delusion
00:01:47.460 where we expect monogamy from the top 20% of men.
00:01:52.060 I'm not saying you got to be happy about it.
00:01:54.740 I'm not saying you should encourage it.
00:01:57.080 I'm not even saying it's a good thing.
00:01:59.480 But to tell women that that will never happen
00:02:03.080 when that's one of the leading reasons people get divorced,
00:02:07.280 maybe it's just something we should think could happen.
00:02:10.520 Maybe expect, hope it doesn't happen, right?
00:02:14.260 Not encouraged.
00:02:15.760 But the one thing I was thinking about is women broke the monogamy contract first.
00:02:20.480 Women will go off all day about men not being monogamous.
00:02:24.660 But only 4% of women are saying that they're virgins on their wedding day.
00:02:32.320 That's 4%.
00:02:33.380 So if women are sleeping with multiple men before marriage,
00:02:37.660 it's almost like a catch-22 where they say,
00:02:41.300 well, I can do what I want before marriage,
00:02:43.660 but after marriage when men have the most sexual capital
00:02:47.980 because men, you know, peak around like 35, right?
00:02:51.860 And even on some dating apps say men peak at 50
00:02:54.360 or women peak at 21.
00:02:56.520 So when women are at their sexual marketplace value at the highest,
00:03:01.400 like when they have the most agency, the most power,
00:03:03.560 we don't pick marriage because we keep pushing it off.
00:03:07.280 So it's almost like a catch-22 where when women have the most power,
00:03:11.300 we don't pick monogamy.
00:03:13.220 But when men have the most power, they're expected to,
00:03:16.940 where it's kind of become an unfair contract when you think about it.
00:03:20.660 So there's a woman that really talked about this a bit more in depth,
00:03:26.440 how men are not programmed to be monogamous where women are.
00:03:30.720 Hold the clip.
00:03:32.660 Biologically, sex is designed for one main purpose, procreation.
00:03:38.240 Anything else, that's extra.
00:03:40.780 The female reproductive cycle comes around once a month.
00:03:43.640 For a man, it's every day.
00:03:45.640 For each sexual act, the woman's one egg is matched by the man's 120 million sperm cells.
00:03:52.000 Now let's do some calculation.
00:03:53.780 120 million sperm cells a day, every day,
00:03:56.740 as opposed to one egg a month every month,
00:03:58.820 means, assuming all the cells are viable,
00:04:01.380 that it will take only 30 men to impregnate all the women in the world.
00:04:05.940 This points to one clear fact.
00:04:07.880 A man is, by nature, polygamous.
00:04:10.980 Monogamy and fidelity are unnatural situations
00:04:13.340 promulgated by religious beliefs and social pressures.
00:04:16.280 Take those away, every man will cheat.
00:04:18.640 It's simply biological.
00:04:20.400 Now let's look at the extra.
00:04:21.340 It's a known fact that women, for the most part, are more emotional than men.
00:04:26.020 So it's natural that after a sexual encounter, she'll be attached.
00:04:29.260 But because a man is visual and logical in nature,
00:04:32.120 there's no emotion involved.
00:04:33.840 For him, it's just a physical release that's got nothing to do with love.
00:04:37.640 A man loves his woman by protecting and providing for her.
00:04:41.420 Period.
00:04:42.260 It's really quite simple.
00:04:43.740 For a man, the physical and the emotional, two separate entities.
00:04:47.340 Thank you.
00:04:48.220 And that's honest.
00:04:49.600 And that's what people think I'm like pushing cheating
00:04:52.580 or like saying this is a good thing.
00:04:54.540 What I'm promoting is honesty.
00:04:57.680 And the God to honest truth is that men will screw damn near anything.
00:05:02.160 Let's just call it what it is.
00:05:03.660 All right.
00:05:04.100 And the honest truth is that men are programmed to have sex with a lot of people.
00:05:10.260 A lot of women, sorry.
00:05:11.620 But there's societal pressures and there's religious pressures.
00:05:14.280 And I'm not saying those are bad things.
00:05:16.440 Monogamy is a good thing.
00:05:18.480 However, I do think it's dishonest to say men aren't how they are.
00:05:23.940 And women aren't how they are.
00:05:26.000 And there's a reason that the men with money, power, look, status tend to have multiple women.
00:05:35.600 Like I don't.
00:05:36.480 And the funny thing is relationships start nowadays non-monogamous.
00:05:40.860 Because you guys have heard me interview woman after woman on the show.
00:05:44.620 Most women will admit to being in a situationship.
00:05:47.320 What is that?
00:05:48.240 It's non-monogamy probably with the top 20% of men.
00:05:51.940 Whether we want to admit it's a thing.
00:05:54.520 Women have had the most sexual selection in the last 100 years.
00:05:59.960 So in the past 100 years, women have had more mate selection than we have ever had in history.
00:06:05.380 Typically, your family would pick out your husband.
00:06:07.820 Your dad would pick out your husband.
00:06:09.620 Your brothers would help you find a husband.
00:06:11.500 Now, women have complete control and autonomy.
00:06:15.000 And it's actually interesting because the more control that women have had,
00:06:19.380 the more mate selection women have had,
00:06:21.660 the more women have picked non-monogamy.
00:06:24.980 Now, I know what you're saying.
00:06:26.520 Pearl, what about the good women?
00:06:28.360 Pearl, what about what?
00:06:30.120 But the good women don't pick that.
00:06:31.700 Well, are only 4% of women good?
00:06:34.340 Because 96% of women are not virgins on their wedding day.
00:06:37.860 That is non-monogamy.
00:06:39.420 Now, and I think this is a lot more honest of a conversation than, you know, just find a good woman.
00:06:47.280 I think women are programmed to get the best man they can, and they'll accept non-monogamy if that's the case.
00:06:53.380 And men are programmed to screw a bunch of chicks.
00:06:57.160 Monogamy is supposed to be the middle ground we meet on.
00:07:00.360 And the exchange in value is that, you know, the women come in as a virgin.
00:07:04.980 They give the man purity.
00:07:06.400 And they say, okay, I could try to get the next highest guy, but I'm not going to do that.
00:07:11.640 I'm going to compromise.
00:07:12.960 I'm not going to go for a higher and higher guy.
00:07:15.700 I'm not going to.
00:07:16.300 I will be the merchant's wife.
00:07:19.480 I won't be the king's concubine like I want.
00:07:22.660 And the guy says, well, I want to impregnate the whole entire world, but, you know, since you came to me with this purity, you're pretty young, you're a hottie.
00:07:32.800 All right, I'll give that up.
00:07:34.320 I won't screw the entire town.
00:07:36.000 I'll just screw you.
00:07:37.540 And the women want to say, well, hey, why are you cheating?
00:07:42.040 Which now women are out cheating men.
00:07:44.500 That's a whole different conversation.
00:07:46.720 But, you know, now the women are coming in and saying, oh, but you break the monogamy contract.
00:07:51.180 But when you think about it, women broke the monogamy contract first.
00:07:55.660 But whenever I say a stat or have a conversation that makes women look bad, people get mad at me.
00:08:03.760 But I think it's the most important that we live in reality.
00:08:08.620 I think it is so important that we fight for truth and we live in reality.