Pearl Uses Logic On A Feminist
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Summary
Feminism is a hate group? Are women sexualized at a young age? Are they sexualized too young? Is it a choice? Or is it just a fact of life? In this episode, we discuss these questions and more.
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So, my assertion today is that I think feminism is a hate group.
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And a hate group is a social group that advocates and practices hatred, hostility, or violence
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towards members of a race, ethnicity, nation, religion, gender, gender identity, sexual orientation,
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I don't know how to say this, but the big thing that feminism wants to talk about, I don't
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I think it's about just opening a conversation.
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I don't know why you think it's a hate group and it's not about.
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It's just about wanting the same things and the same opportunities and the same voices.
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So, my question to you is, what in 2022, what opportunities are women not afforded that men
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I mean, in certain places like feminism, I think...
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I just want to say I'm not from the UK or the US.
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For me, feminism is about not only fighting for yourself, but for all the women, all the
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So, women who don't have the same opportunities that women from the UK or from France or from
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I mean, in certain places, there's still discrimination about women.
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You're not taking with the same credibility as men.
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They still have, like, harassment, sexual harassment going on.
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You know, a phrase that I like, it's not all men, but it's all women.
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Do you not, as a woman, have any problems or, like, aggressions or, like, commentaries
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Because you're a woman or sexualized at a young age or stuff like that, you know?
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I think it's not about if you're ugly, if you're pretty or not.
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People just will sexualize you in many different forms.
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Do you think women sexualize ourselves, though?
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You see girls, like, taking off their clothes and, like, getting...
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Like, from a young age, you see girls taking off their clothes and getting on social media.
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And, like, shoving their boobs and, like, shaking their butt on social media.
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Do you think the problem is them or not the person sexualizing them?
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I mean, I think you can't take accountability from women.
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If I walked around here butt naked, I can't be mad if men sexualize me.
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But I think if a 16-year-old girl just wants to have fun and just wants to get a picture with her friends
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and not expecting to be sexualized immediately and just wants to have just a picture with her friends looking good and, you know...
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It's not like they're just taking a picture at the beach.
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And I think as, like, an older generation of women, we need to, like, tell younger women, like, that's not acceptable behavior.
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Because, like, men, the wrong... you're gonna get the wrong type of attention.
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But you're taking all the accountability off of the women and just putting it all on the men.
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I think if someone wants to walk up butt naked, that's the fucking choice.
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I'm not gonna say that you can do that because I don't agree with that.
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I wouldn't do it personally, but I won't judge you.
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Like, I think women should have the choice to do whatever they want to choose.
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Like, within reason, I think there should be, like, nudity laws, you know?
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At the same time, I think you need to warn women of the outcomes.
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And if you dress a certain way and you act a certain way...
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And I tell them if you dress a certain way and you act a certain way, men are gonna look at you a certain way
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and you don't want them to look at you like that.
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You agree that the problem is the men's sexual life?
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But what I do think is, like, you have to take some accountability as women for the way we're acting and presenting ourselves.
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And I'm not just gonna put all the blame on men.
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You're actually minimizing the suffering of women who have experienced, like, rape, sexual aggressions, and things like that
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How am I minimizing the experience of those women when I'm just talking about female accountability?
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Because you're putting all the blame on women and you're just...
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...minimizing the things and saying you shouldn't do that because that's the outcome that's gonna get...
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I'm saying I want women to be able to protect themselves.
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It's a small percentage of men that commit a lot of crimes.
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And so, why would I not tell my sisters to protect themselves and dress a certain way?
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I also don't want my sisters to be known as, like, a hoe.
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So, I'm saying we need to take some accountability as women.
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And if you walk around half naked, like, we can't be shocked if the men look.
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I mean, I think you're very lucky if you think that it's a minority and that women don't experience that and that it doesn't affect them.
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And I think women just want to have fun and just how they want.
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You're lucky if you think that it doesn't happen every day or that it doesn't affect the women as much as you think it does.
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Because I don't think women who post themselves on social media automatically want to be sexualized or want this type of attention.
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I think they just want to have fun and not having to think about, oh, it's going to get this attention or it's going to get that or this.
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I want to post myself and my friends because it was a good time and I think I look nice.
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So you don't think women ever sexualize themselves?
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And I don't think there is a problem with that.
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But I'm not, what I'm not saying is there's a problem.
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I think people should be able to do what they want to do.
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But what I am saying is if you're choosing to post those images online, you can't be mad if people sexualize you.
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Like, I'm not going to victimize women that are getting, like, sexualized.
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I think some girls definitely want to be sexualized and not in a bad way.
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Sometimes you just want to post yourself and not have creepy men in your DMs saying disgusting stuff, you know.
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So why don't you just turn off your message requests?
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Again, you're just making all the wrongs and all the bad on the women and not on the men.
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Why are you putting the blame on women and not on the men who are creepy and sending these dirty messages?
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It's like, let's just not talk about what we're supposed...
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