JustPearlyThings - Pearl vs Onlyfanz ｜ WHY DO WOMEN LOVE BEING HOES？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP151

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00:00:17.920 So, a couple announcements before we start the show.

00:00:20.980 The first, guys, is that we have two Clips channels, Just Pearly Clips and Pearl Daily.

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00:00:57.660 And over, how many likes to open up the chat, King?

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00:01:03.200 Okay, 1,500 likes, and we will open up the chat to everybody.

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00:01:33.540 Okay, guys, to start, we are going to do name, age, relationship, status,

00:01:37.920 and a fun fact about yourself.

00:01:39.580 Starting here, go around, and then second row.

00:01:41.660 My name's Rukshana, I'm 29, and a fun fact is...

00:01:48.740 I think I've just put on the spot, I don't know.

00:01:51.460 Do you have any hobbies?

00:01:56.020 Not right now, I don't know.

00:01:57.520 No hobby? Okay, all right.

00:01:59.320 Hi, I'm Beth Quinn.

00:02:01.280 I'm 26, I'm single, and a fun fact about me is that I'm a stripper turned cornstar.

00:02:08.980 Wow, amazing.

00:02:10.660 Go ahead.

00:02:11.880 Hi, I'm Bonnie, I'm 28.

00:02:15.320 I'd say I'm just a big nerd, really.

00:02:18.420 Like, space gamer nerd, that's about it, really.

00:02:22.580 Do you stream or something?

00:02:23.880 I do stream on Twitch, yeah.

00:02:25.680 Not like often, when I can, when I can.

00:02:28.500 But I game non-stop, yeah.

00:02:30.280 Hi, I'm Sakena, I'm 28, and I'm in a relationship, and I don't really know what a fun fact is about me.

00:02:40.180 I don't really know.

00:02:40.760 You're a TV presenter.

00:02:42.060 Yeah.

00:02:42.560 I've said that so many times, they know that.

00:02:43.980 And we're going to do a therapy episode soon.

00:02:47.600 Oh, yeah, we are.

00:02:47.940 You're coming with me to therapy, right?

00:02:49.900 Watch out for that.

00:02:51.020 That's going to be a good one.

00:02:52.660 All right, go ahead.

00:02:54.320 Oh, me.

00:02:55.120 Yeah, hi.

00:02:55.780 My name is Dizzy Goku.

00:02:58.200 I'm 27, single, and I'm a musician, so I'm a singer-songwriter.

00:03:03.420 That's it.

00:03:04.100 And I got a brand new song called Big Brown Eyes, so if you want to listen to that, it's on Spotify.

00:03:08.160 Hi, I am a prolific official, singer-songwriter, also businesswoman.

00:03:17.380 I am single.

00:03:18.460 Can you put the mic close to your mic?

00:03:19.940 Can you hear me?

00:03:21.440 Yeah.

00:03:21.840 Prolific official, singer-songwriter, businesswoman, and I am single, and I'm 42.

00:03:29.280 Hi, my name is Talisha Matherin.

00:03:31.560 I'm a legal consultant, so I specialize in criminal defense.

00:03:34.820 I represent a lot of the known London rappers.

00:03:38.160 I'm up against serious crimes, such as murder, manslaughter, et cetera, and I am also single.

00:03:44.240 I'm a successful businesswoman.

00:03:46.400 That's an interesting fact.

00:03:48.680 Have you ever defended someone that you know is guilty?

00:03:52.660 I mean, I never know that they're guilty, so I take their instructions as it comes, and I represent them.

00:03:57.580 Don't they have to be honest?

00:04:00.140 Isn't there some law where you can be honest with your lawyer, and they can't tell anyone?

00:04:04.280 They're honest with me, and they give me their instructions, and I would follow them and carry them out.

00:04:08.300 Okay.

00:04:09.220 Prove them as best as I can.

00:04:10.700 I had a cousin who is a defense lawyer, and he said he preferred clients that were guilty.

00:04:16.040 Really?

00:04:16.340 Yeah, because he said if he lost, he's like, well, they were guilty anyway, and if he won, I'm like, if he won, he's like, well, I did my job.

00:04:24.300 Yeah.

00:04:25.520 I mean, no, I like a challenge, and I like to argue for what's right, so I especially stick up for, you know, people that are arrested and accused of things that they haven't done.

00:04:34.860 I mean, I've got to say I'm a little taken aback by this podcast because I wasn't given the name or the topic in advance.

00:04:41.040 I was told it was something completely different.

00:04:43.000 Okay.

00:04:43.420 But I'm going to stick it out anyway.

00:04:44.860 So do you, like, reject people that you know are guilty?

00:04:48.000 Or, like, once you find out if you know that they're guilty, do you kind of, like, reject them?

00:04:51.760 Absolutely not.

00:04:52.560 I would advise them as the best possible way to take their case forward.

00:04:55.920 Just because somebody is guilty does not mean that they should face a significant sentence.

00:05:00.080 We would have to look at mitigation and reasons behind it, and that's the sort of things that the media doesn't cover.

00:05:06.160 So I cover a lot of cases that you see in the media today, and then, like I say, a lot of the known rappers, but you only see what the media produces, whereas I go behind, get the detail, get the mitigation, get the instructions, and we deal with it from there.

00:05:19.320 What's the biggest mistake that people make when it comes to, like, if they commit or if they're, like, accused of something, is it, like, talking too soon?

00:05:29.040 I mean, I wouldn't say talking too soon.

00:05:33.900 So I would go to the police station and be there to take instructions, and I would advise, based on that, they would have to wait.

00:05:41.380 I would advise to see what the evidence says before they disclose too much.

00:05:48.040 Christine?

00:05:49.320 Hey, I'm Christine Grace.

00:05:52.320 I am 23 years old in a relationship.

00:05:56.500 Fun fact about me, I'm actually a YouTuber here at the Audacity Network, so I work here with Pearl and all the guys.

00:06:03.620 Yeah.

00:06:04.480 Yeah, make sure you subscribe.

00:06:05.600 Tell them to subscribe.

00:06:06.280 Oh, yeah.

00:06:06.920 Subscribe to my channel.

00:06:09.900 Christine Grace Smith.

00:06:11.140 That's it.

00:06:11.580 Go find it.

00:06:12.380 You got a plug.

00:06:13.300 Yeah, I'm learning, guys.

00:06:14.420 Bear with.

00:06:15.520 It's like, I teach her.

00:06:16.600 What is she?

00:06:17.000 Oh, my God.

00:06:17.880 I'm BK, 32.

00:06:22.940 And fun fact about me, council culture, co-host, best council culture podcast in Birmingham going right now.

00:06:29.980 So, yeah.

00:06:31.180 Is Birmingham, I just found out today, someone told me Birmingham is like the Vegas of the UK.

00:06:37.080 No, no, no, no.

00:06:38.640 Is that true?

00:06:39.060 I don't know who told you.

00:06:40.200 Is that true?

00:06:40.740 I've been.

00:06:41.080 I live in a little bit.

00:06:42.140 That's hilarious.

00:06:42.220 All right, all right.

00:06:43.020 Calm down.

00:06:43.800 Calm down.

00:06:44.460 Calm down.

00:06:44.520 I don't think this is the YouTube channel.

00:06:45.600 Come on.

00:06:45.940 Let's not lie.

00:06:46.640 Is it?

00:06:47.100 Oh, no.

00:06:47.760 I didn't say it was like, well, why are you laughing?

00:06:49.880 Is it not as good?

00:06:50.680 No, no.

00:06:51.180 If you need to go, I will take you.

00:06:53.060 Is it like worse than Vegas or better?

00:06:56.700 No, there's nothing Vegas about it.

00:06:59.000 There's nothing.

00:07:00.480 So.

00:07:01.320 Come on, guys.

00:07:02.100 Come on, guys.

00:07:02.720 Don't lie.

00:07:03.300 Wait a minute.

00:07:03.920 Y'all from Birmingham now?

00:07:04.820 I'm from Leicester.

00:07:05.560 That's like next door.

00:07:06.720 I'm your neighbor.

00:07:07.220 Oh, that's why.

00:07:07.740 Because she's from Leicester.

00:07:08.580 The other city.

00:07:09.340 Okay.

00:07:09.720 Anyway.

00:07:10.280 Yeah.

00:07:10.680 Birmingham, it's all right.

00:07:11.840 I wouldn't say it's anywhere near Vegas, but it has its high and low.

00:07:15.420 Is it more wild than London or less wild?

00:07:19.240 Less.

00:07:20.100 Oh, it's not as crazy.

00:07:21.500 You sure?

00:07:21.640 Oh, so why did?

00:07:22.620 Actually, yeah, yeah.

00:07:23.340 I think.

00:07:23.620 You ever told you that?

00:07:24.780 I think it was the one thing.

00:07:26.540 I've never been, so I don't know.

00:07:28.260 You can actually drive in Birmingham.

00:07:29.860 Yeah, that's one thing.

00:07:30.880 It doesn't take you 20 years to get around five minutes of road.

00:07:34.780 Oh, gotcha.

00:07:35.400 That's one thing.

00:07:35.860 Gotcha.

00:07:36.460 Yeah, and you guys did some street interviews today for the network.

00:07:39.720 So, guys, make sure you subscribe to the Audacity Network to see their street interviews.

00:07:43.700 Yeah, it was pretty good.

00:07:45.480 Yeah, we may be cancelled, but cancel culture.

00:07:48.100 But that's your podcast.

00:07:49.700 That's what we do.

00:07:50.620 That's what we do.

00:07:51.280 Okay, what about you?

00:07:53.840 Yeah, I'm the other half of the cancel culture podcast, Lee, 30 years old and single.

00:07:58.600 Fun fact, we've done some content today for Pearl, so check that out, subscribe, and do

00:08:04.380 all this stuff, you know? 0.98

00:08:05.060 Okay, so today's topic is why do women love being whores? 1.00

00:08:12.920 Yes, yes, okay. 0.99

00:08:14.060 Now, I just have a question.

00:08:15.340 So, I made a PowerPoint, okay?

00:08:17.660 I made a PowerPoint today.

00:08:19.080 And this is just something I've noticed after a year of doing shows, okay?

00:08:23.420 So, I made, can we pull up this PowerPoint?

00:08:25.400 Look at me.

00:08:26.240 I wanted it to be a whiteboard, but we didn't have as much space today.

00:08:30.360 All right, so I made a PowerPoint called What Men Want.

00:08:33.420 And to me, I didn't really think this was super complicated.

00:08:36.380 I just thought this was kind of basic, right?

00:08:38.600 I'm not, I'm a very, I like simple things.

00:08:41.600 So, let's go to the, can you play it?

00:08:43.460 Like, you can do preview, like, play the slideshow.

00:08:46.740 No?

00:08:47.420 Okay, well, we'll try for next time, I guess.

00:08:51.840 It looks good so far.

00:08:53.060 Okay, so you go to the next one.

00:08:54.680 One, not fat.

00:08:58.000 Now, I didn't think this was crazy, right? 0.97

00:09:00.900 But I've had so much pushback when I say men don't like fat chicks. 0.99

00:09:06.140 Everybody's like, ah, Pearl, you're such a mean person and so evil. 0.97

00:09:11.360 And I thought to myself, I mean, I thought this was basic.

00:09:16.840 I think a lot of OnlyFans girls thrive off being BBW. 1.00

00:09:24.900 Do you think, do you think, do you think, by and large,

00:09:28.160 the richest, most successful men with the most options in choice tend to pick?

00:09:33.920 Okay, fair.

00:09:35.000 Yeah, I don't think.

00:09:35.660 Skinnier girls do more, like, do well, but I would say. 1.00

00:09:39.380 But so do BBWs. 1.00

00:09:40.480 So do some guys.

00:09:41.640 Some guys only like curvy girls. 0.94

00:09:43.340 I want to do a caveat.

00:09:44.400 I want to do, okay.

00:09:45.700 So, now, this is no personal offense.

00:09:49.160 Yeah.

00:09:49.860 What do you mean?

00:09:50.540 But, no, wait.

00:09:51.300 I need to prep this.

00:09:52.440 I need to prep this.

00:09:53.520 I think there's a difference between, like, porn OnlyFans and, like,

00:09:57.060 what guys want for wives.

00:09:58.660 Yeah.

00:09:59.220 Right?

00:09:59.620 So I don't think it's, like, a fair comparison.

00:10:02.260 So when men say, I want a wife. 0.73

00:10:04.620 In general. 0.99

00:10:05.240 In general, they're like, I don't want a fat chick. 1.00

00:10:08.560 I don't know. 0.95

00:10:09.800 Oh, no, oh, no.

00:10:10.640 I know some guys, yeah, that only go for curvy, bigger women. 1.00

00:10:14.300 Like, I know, especially one guy I know, all of his actors have all been, like, size 20 or over.

00:10:20.420 Is he married now?

00:10:21.120 He is married to a very curvy woman.

00:10:23.640 And what's his?

00:10:25.220 Is he hot, rich, and tall?

00:10:27.200 He's not hot and rich.

00:10:28.360 Okay, there we go.

00:10:29.900 There we go.

00:10:30.600 So we're talking about the hot, rich men.

00:10:32.480 Well, no, I think, okay, I'll give you an example.

00:10:34.940 I think we can see what men truly want when we look at the men with the most choice. 0.96

00:10:40.260 So if an ugly chick, right, and we can do this with women, too. 1.00

00:10:44.040 If we look at the women with the most choice, the most beautiful women, they tend to pick rich, tall, successful, handsome men, right? 0.70

00:10:51.620 That's true.

00:10:52.320 Right?

00:10:52.600 So I think when we look at men and we look at the men with the most choice, we can say, what do those guys tend to pick?

00:10:58.340 You know, and I would argue the women that look more like supermodels than Lizzo. 1.00

00:11:03.900 But they don't tend to laugh either, right?

00:11:07.420 Wait, I want to, we'll get to slide two, but I want to have this conversation first, King.

00:11:11.740 Yeah, thank you.

00:11:12.440 Are we looking at a Western perspective?

00:11:15.580 It depends, because culturally, different cultures.

00:11:16.880 I would say all over, yes.

00:11:19.160 I would say, I think this is a very, like, diverse studio here.

00:11:23.420 Like, we have people from, that were born in the Middle East, to Africa, to England, to Eastern Europe, all in the studio.

00:11:31.740 And I'd say if I pulled them and where they're from, typically they like not fat.

00:11:37.180 Now, some guys might like skinny with a butt, but we have the small weight.

00:11:42.740 Like, you need the skinny. 0.56

00:11:45.640 Like, predominantly then.

00:11:47.340 Because, I mean, the other day I was watching a documentary, and there's a village.

00:11:51.200 I can't remember where it is, but literally, the bigger they are, the bigger these women are, they're seen as the most beautiful. 0.90

00:11:58.520 And this lady couldn't get up off of her seat. 1.00

00:12:01.420 Okay. 0.99

00:12:01.960 So, we can all think of an exception of a really hot chick that married or dated a fat, broke loser. 1.00

00:12:09.300 Right? 0.97

00:12:09.820 We can all think of an exception, but that doesn't make the rule.

00:12:12.680 The rule, yes.

00:12:13.280 Right.

00:12:13.540 So, why, as women, are we always bringing up this, I've heard this, he put his hand on his head,

00:12:18.220 because I've heard so much about this tribe that I want to, oh, every time I have this topic, it's like the tribe.

00:12:24.680 That I want, I'm determined I'm going to go to this tribe.

00:12:29.840 I'm like, I'm starting, I'm like, what the hell? 0.97

00:12:33.620 So, but I would say in general, no, no, men don't want fat chicks. 1.00

00:12:38.340 Do you think it's, like, genetics, like, people just, like, people that are fit and attractive and can, you know?

00:12:44.960 Yes, I think people tend to like healthy, yeah, healthy people.

00:12:48.440 Yeah, women like strong men.

00:12:49.640 We like, yeah, exactly, they like skinny women. 1.00

00:12:52.360 I mean, women have more fertility issues the fatter they are. 1.00

00:12:55.680 Can I ask you something?

00:12:57.620 Yes.

00:12:57.980 I mean, these opinions that you have on men like fatter women and stuff, I mean, I'm indifferent.

00:13:02.940 No, I said, I said that men don't like fat.

00:13:04.620 Men don't like fat women, that's it. 1.00

00:13:06.340 I mean, I'm indifferent, so I'm all for if you want to be big boned or if you want to be slim, whatever is best for you.

00:13:11.960 You know, I don't judge anybody by what they are or how they are.

00:13:15.620 But where do you get this information from?

00:13:18.200 Do you research and see?

00:13:19.840 Do you speak to a number of males?

00:13:21.440 Because I think in this modern day and age, a lot of women are curvy. 1.00

00:13:26.160 And when you actually have a look at statistics and you have a look at what the UK say is actually obese, it's like a 10 to 12.

00:13:33.900 I mean, in America as well, there are a lot of bigger women. 1.00

00:13:37.020 And I've seen a lot of, you know, married, bigger women, you know, doing music and stuff. 1.00

00:13:47.160 I've often travelled.

00:13:48.440 And it's like, it's the norm to be bigger there.

00:13:51.560 So, I mean, in Europe, it's, you know.

00:13:53.440 So, so I'll tell you, I would say my number one source is real life. 0.98

00:13:58.120 When I say to any, any room, I say men, men in this room right here, raise your hand if you would prefer a fat chick. 1.00

00:14:05.100 Raise your hand. 0.98

00:14:05.760 Anybody?

00:14:06.520 What's fat?

00:14:07.520 Anybody?

00:14:08.420 Yeah, but that's not fair.

00:14:09.420 I mean, can you say what is fat?

00:14:11.860 What size is fat?

00:14:12.760 Um, I would say when you have an unhealthy BMI, I would say that's the baseline as a BMI.

00:14:18.820 I was going to say, there's a difference between what's being, there's a difference between being fat and being curvy though.

00:14:25.320 No, no, no, but I feel like you're seeing it in a, like, how you're explaining it is if like you are fat.

00:14:34.180 Like, obviously there's women who are slim, big bounded, I would call that curvy, you know what I mean? 1.00

00:14:39.100 Slim but, um, big back, sorry.

00:14:40.960 I would call that curvy, you know what I mean?

00:14:42.520 When there's fluffy coming.

00:14:42.600 Your weight isn't down here.

00:14:44.180 What would you, what would fluffy be?

00:14:45.980 What would fluffy be?

00:14:46.600 What size would fluffy be?

00:14:47.940 Fluffy.

00:14:48.620 Michelin, um, man.

00:14:49.920 Michelin man.

00:14:51.420 Do you know what?

00:14:52.160 I think that maybe back in the day, there were, you know, men preferred slimmer women.

00:14:58.000 But I also think that some of it was because maybe they would be embarrassed to say, you know, who they really like and sort of thing.

00:15:04.860 But I think today, I see a lot of men saying that they prefer, you know, they like their preferences.

00:15:10.300 I feel like it's just the fact that men just ain't as honest with women no more because women sometimes can't take that honestly. 0.99

00:15:17.560 But when you see in the comments and they're discussing, you know, what they like, there's just as much men that say they like bigger women than as there are that say that they like smaller women.

00:15:27.200 Most of them don't, most of them don't have a choice though.

00:15:29.460 That's what they have access to.

00:15:30.520 I mean, I don't know because I don't know, I don't know all of these men.

00:15:33.520 I'm just saying that, you know, unless I've gone out into the world and interviewed them.

00:15:35.440 But this is why, this is why, this is why I go back, this is why I go back to, what are the men with the most choice pick?

00:15:41.560 I think it's each to their right.

00:15:43.340 But that's such a small percentage of men compared to the general.

00:15:46.660 I want to simplify this.

00:15:48.160 Do you guys think that men tend to like fat women?

00:15:51.420 I think some men do.

00:15:52.740 I think it's each to their own.

00:15:54.380 I think unless you've spoken to everyone.

00:15:57.460 Try again, try again, try again.

00:15:58.400 By and large, by and large, by and large.

00:16:01.000 Do men tend to look? 0.74

00:16:01.900 They prefer skinnier, in my opinion.

00:16:03.480 They do.

00:16:03.780 Most of them.

00:16:04.520 There is a section of them that prefer bigger, but I'd say the most, if you're going to say percentage, majority prefer smaller.

00:16:11.960 I don't know, because I don't interact with that many men to be able to give a good enough point of view.

00:16:19.140 So, I mean, I guess you would have.

00:16:20.700 From my work.

00:16:22.560 I see the girls that do the most successful on Instagram that have the most followers are normally like really, really slim girls.

00:16:29.680 They're models. 0.94

00:16:30.300 They're way slimmer than me, like really skinny.

00:16:32.520 And actually, actually, girls with bigger bums as well. 1.00

00:16:36.480 As well, BBLs.

00:16:36.820 Like you're talking about, you know, a bit bigger. 0.57

00:16:40.780 You know, they do like big bums. 0.80

00:16:42.700 But normally, weights like this. 0.72

00:16:44.680 They like women, you know, like not stick thing. 1.00

00:16:48.660 No, stick thing do well, I think, really well.

00:16:51.440 I mean.

00:16:52.200 Can I just add?

00:16:53.020 I think it's the way you said it. 0.98

00:16:54.220 You said fat women. 0.99

00:16:56.360 Are they fat? 0.98

00:16:58.260 It's the tone. 0.93

00:16:59.900 It's the harshness.

00:17:01.100 But what about the information?

00:17:03.160 The information, I guess, if you ask someone with a lot of choice.

00:17:07.720 Okay.

00:17:08.140 They wouldn't go for someone bigger.

00:17:09.800 Okay.

00:17:10.260 But it doesn't necessarily mean that they're ugly.

00:17:12.800 But why can't we use words to describe things?

00:17:16.200 Why do we always have to soften it?

00:17:17.820 Like, why do we always have to like it?

00:17:18.540 Actually, actually, everyone on the soul, everyone in here has not said fat.

00:17:22.740 They've said big and heavy.

00:17:23.400 I know, like, I'm not.

00:17:24.560 That's crazy.

00:17:25.440 I've been smiling the whole time.

00:17:27.320 This is a problem.

00:17:27.900 I think.

00:17:29.120 Yours is more direct.

00:17:30.140 No, no, I just, I like to, I just, here's my problem.

00:17:33.100 So, I feel like whenever women don't like words, they, like, change them. 1.00

00:17:38.000 So, instead of fat, we say plus size, bigger, chubby.

00:17:41.580 You know, and I'm just like, well, let's just.

00:17:43.200 It's an excuse.

00:17:43.820 That just kind of.

00:17:44.580 It's a reason.

00:17:45.280 I don't think it's just expecting people's feelings.

00:17:48.200 It's what?

00:17:48.640 Sorry.

00:17:48.920 I mean, I brought up a suspect.

00:17:50.340 Well, do you know what's funny?

00:17:51.920 I didn't even call anyone fat. 0.93

00:17:53.340 I said men don't like fat women. 1.00

00:17:55.020 I didn't call anyone fat.

00:17:55.520 You know what the difference is, though?

00:17:56.720 Is that maybe Lizzo?

00:17:57.580 Well, come on.

00:17:58.040 And they do all mean the same thing.

00:17:59.580 No, hold on, no. 0.87

00:18:00.180 But if I need to be honest with my fellow man, I'm going to tell him he's fat. 0.92

00:18:04.400 That's the problem now.

00:18:05.620 Like you said it, I believe all women, you know, in bottom and I believe everyone should 0.92

00:18:09.980 be how they are.

00:18:10.760 But your solicitor, your job is to be honest with people?

00:18:13.680 My job is to be honest, not judge.

00:18:15.720 I mean, the thing that I do is that I don't judge or sit here and have the right to say

00:18:21.120 that anybody is fat.

00:18:22.600 So it's not about saying that they're fat.

00:18:24.200 Would you not?

00:18:24.800 Actually, I have a question.

00:18:25.960 Does a doctor, can a doctor tell a patient that they're fat?

00:18:29.300 A doctor will say that statistically they'll say that this class is obese.

00:18:33.320 But if a woman is happy within that skin. 0.98

00:18:35.060 OK, so if a doctor has a right to tell the patient that, isn't it kind to help your friends

00:18:41.740 by giving them information that's true?

00:18:44.020 That's going to help their life.

00:18:45.060 Well, it's a matter of opinion.

00:18:45.600 It's about your health.

00:18:46.620 If your friend is happy, can I just say something?

00:18:50.380 If your friend is happy, the shape and the way they are, and that may be your fat, but

00:18:54.520 not my fat.

00:18:55.780 But if your friend is happy in the way and the shape they are, then who are you to go

00:18:59.640 and tell that friend that they are fat?

00:19:01.060 I want to have longevity with that friend.

00:19:03.700 If I'm being a real friend, I'm supposed to be a friend.

00:19:08.160 So what, I lie to my friends now.

00:19:09.500 I tell them some facts sometimes that's true.

00:19:11.700 But if she's happy in her own skin, who are you?

00:19:14.360 She knows what she is.

00:19:15.500 But what if it's something different other than weight?

00:19:17.280 What if it's drugs?

00:19:18.640 Let me give you an example.

00:19:20.560 It's a dress of words.

00:19:21.100 You can describe something in many different words.

00:19:24.880 But if your friend's taking drugs, say your friend is taking crack and they're happy doing

00:19:28.720 crack, are you going to let them continue to take crack because they're happy doing it?

00:19:32.260 That's not the point.

00:19:33.100 I think everyone's got a different opinion on what that is.

00:19:35.220 I'm speaking about descriptive.

00:19:36.320 It's about being descriptive.

00:19:37.440 But we're talking about things that are unhealthy for you.

00:19:39.480 But it doesn't matter what it is.

00:19:40.560 It's a choice of words.

00:19:42.060 Okay, so what you're saying is, okay, please, friend, don't take the crack. 0.92

00:19:45.120 I could say to them, don't be a crackhead.

00:19:49.060 I could say to them, don't take narcotics. 0.98

00:19:52.040 So why can't I say don't be fat?

00:19:53.720 Precisely.

00:19:54.040 I'm not saying that you can't.

00:19:55.760 Like, okay, can we agree?

00:19:57.680 Can we agree?

00:19:58.360 300 pounds, that's fat.

00:20:01.360 What's that in stone during this?

00:20:04.060 There are ways to describe it, you know, to soften the blow.

00:20:11.560 You've got overweight.

00:20:12.620 You've got, you know, you're obese. 0.98

00:20:14.300 You've got your fat.

00:20:15.560 You know, yeah, just because how you describe it, it's just not, it doesn't.

00:20:21.460 Look, I think regardless of us all sitting here saying you're fat, you're not.

00:20:24.620 Okay, I have a question.

00:20:25.040 Everyone's got their own opinions.

00:20:25.980 21 stone, we can agree, fat, right?

00:20:28.740 21 stone?

00:20:29.960 All right, come on.

00:20:30.620 21 stone is.

00:20:31.120 Please, please be honest.

00:20:32.600 I mean, that's obviously, 21 stone, is that fat?

00:20:38.220 I mean, how big is 21 stone?

00:20:41.140 Girl, how big are you right now?

00:20:43.020 It's probably, okay, that's probably, I mean, I think that's like maybe three of you.

00:20:46.820 It depends on what fat is.

00:20:47.880 I think you're going from fat to obese to sort of bedridden.

00:20:50.920 No, no, no, no, no.

00:20:51.820 I'm asking you because I just think you're trying to argue here.

00:20:55.980 Like, I just think.

00:20:56.400 I'm just stating facts.

00:20:57.500 I'm quite indifferent to everything.

00:20:58.780 Okay, well, is it a fact that 21 stones is fat?

00:21:02.500 Dear God, please.

00:21:03.920 Probably.

00:21:04.600 It's unhealthy.

00:21:05.340 Are you judgmental?

00:21:07.000 I'm not judgmental.

00:21:08.020 Are you judgmental?

00:21:08.800 Never.

00:21:09.060 But you just made the judgment that they're probably fat.

00:21:11.480 Probably overweight at 21 stone.

00:21:13.680 But that would be, expect them to be in there.

00:21:15.280 I would not be judgmental enough to go and tell them, you are fat, you need to do this.

00:21:19.900 But I wouldn't say judgmental.

00:21:20.940 I would say honest.

00:21:23.580 But you're sitting here saying.

00:21:24.560 I would say that's dishonest. 0.99

00:21:26.100 But you're sitting here saying fat women do this. 0.99

00:21:29.380 Men don't want fat women. 1.00

00:21:30.380 You've got no substance to what you're asking. 0.93

00:21:32.520 No, I'll tell you.

00:21:33.000 I'll tell you what I said.

00:21:33.900 I said men want women that are not fat. 1.00

00:21:37.020 But where do you get that from?

00:21:38.360 Men.

00:21:38.680 I know a lot of men that want curvy women. 1.00

00:21:40.880 That's not the same thing, though.

00:21:41.860 And if you look up.

00:21:42.680 I feel like that's an internal decision.

00:21:44.540 You don't have to voice it.

00:21:46.220 What is fat?

00:21:47.280 It's an internal thing that you make.

00:21:49.760 Like you made your piece with it.

00:21:51.140 It's like you made that decision.

00:21:52.320 Okay.

00:21:52.460 I don't want someone who's fat. 0.90

00:21:53.640 Or I want someone who's fat. 0.98

00:21:54.960 But then you don't have to like verbalize it.

00:21:56.920 But why can't we verbalize things that are true?

00:21:59.300 If it's unnecessary.

00:22:00.600 Why is it unnecessary?

00:22:01.500 Isn't it helpful to women to know what men want? 1.00

00:22:03.780 Okay.

00:22:04.100 Let me clarify it.

00:22:04.920 So if I had someone in front of me, if I had someone who's fat, right?

00:22:10.800 And I could just make that decision and say, okay, I'm not going to approach her.

00:22:15.960 I'm not going to talk to her.

00:22:16.840 Right.

00:22:17.280 Right?

00:22:17.480 Because I'm not interested.

00:22:18.540 Because I understand that, for example, by your words, that I don't want someone who's fat.

00:22:22.560 All right.

00:22:23.520 So this person.

00:22:24.700 I don't have to voice. 0.96

00:22:25.480 I don't have to walk up to her and say, listen, I don't want to approach you because you're fat. 0.95

00:22:29.260 But nobody did that.

00:22:31.100 All I said, all I said, I said, I had one statement.

00:22:34.100 I think this is kind of a crazy.

00:22:34.880 I had one statement.

00:22:35.880 I said, men don't. 0.99

00:22:37.500 I said, men want women that are not fat. 1.00

00:22:40.720 That was it.

00:22:41.320 That was all I said.

00:22:41.880 I gave you a bad example.

00:22:43.820 Now, with your example, I'll use that example.

00:22:46.120 Yeah.

00:22:46.200 So say there's this girl, the one that you're not going to approach her.

00:22:49.220 Yeah.

00:22:49.400 And there's a lot of other people not approaching her.

00:22:51.560 In fact, people rarely approach her.

00:22:53.040 And she doesn't know why.

00:22:54.480 Wouldn't it be easy if someone actually said to her and didn't beat around the bush?

00:22:57.740 That's probably the reason why.

00:22:59.400 Wouldn't that be better for her?

00:23:00.600 Yeah.

00:23:00.840 But that's not my responsibility.

00:23:02.340 Okay.

00:23:02.680 Right.

00:23:03.060 I'll give you an example.

00:23:04.920 We had a nice young lady. 1.00

00:23:05.700 That's why I said it's unnecessary.

00:23:06.580 We had a nice young lady that came on her show. 1.00

00:23:09.080 She used to be over 300 pounds. 1.00

00:23:11.260 And she was a very nice young lady.

00:23:13.140 Yeah.

00:23:13.520 And she lost over.

00:23:14.640 And someone told her she was fat. 0.99

00:23:16.040 She lost over 100 pounds.

00:23:17.980 And now she has a boyfriend.

00:23:20.160 And I just personally believe that if someone.

00:23:22.280 And I think that information was helpful.

00:23:24.720 You don't think that would be helpful?

00:23:26.320 No, it would be.

00:23:27.080 It would be.

00:23:27.900 But it might crush someone's spirit to complete.

00:23:30.120 Like it might.

00:23:30.800 It's like you're driving them like to a corner.

00:23:33.160 And you're saying, listen, I told you the truth.

00:23:35.220 So now you can either change or you can just stay the same.

00:23:37.940 You know what else crushes your spirit?

00:23:40.080 You know what else crushes your spirit?

00:23:41.680 A heart attack.

00:23:45.240 Okay.

00:23:45.740 Fair enough.

00:23:46.260 Fair enough.

00:23:46.800 You got me there.

00:23:46.980 Which is, you know, I mean, and that's like why.

00:23:49.400 I think especially like we need people to be honest.

00:23:53.680 And it doesn't help us to.

00:23:55.160 Like the thing is, I come from like a history of like my family has diabetes.

00:23:59.080 So I kind of like try to be careful with my weight.

00:24:01.660 You know?

00:24:02.020 So these are things that I constantly and actively like think about in terms of like that.

00:24:06.500 Because I understand it.

00:24:07.400 You went to the extreme.

00:24:08.360 No, like no one's going to walk.

00:24:09.480 But I feel like we were talking about the extreme.

00:24:11.280 No, no.

00:24:11.500 But nice people are not just going to walk over to a random person.

00:24:14.120 Because we didn't even define the parametric.

00:24:16.020 Like what defines fat?

00:24:17.740 Where is the scale?

00:24:18.420 I did.

00:24:18.980 I mean, ultimately the question.

00:24:20.140 I did define it.

00:24:21.140 I did define it.

00:24:22.020 I said a healthy BMI.

00:24:23.680 That's what I said.

00:24:24.640 I said men want women that are not fat. 1.00

00:24:27.480 I didn't even, I didn't call anyone in here fat.

00:24:29.640 I didn't call any.

00:24:30.600 Okay, Lizzo, I might have.

00:24:32.320 But it's like, that's pretty fat.

00:24:34.020 That's pretty, you know.

00:24:34.980 I actually get called fat all the time on TikTok.

00:24:37.860 Like, I get called fat on live a lot.

00:24:40.920 And I get called it on my comments on TikTok a lot.

00:24:43.860 Like all the time I get told I'm overweight.

00:24:46.000 It's because they just want to hurt you.

00:24:47.060 Fat is their main word though.

00:24:48.720 Fat. 0.94

00:24:49.160 It's always, you're fat. 1.00

00:24:50.660 You're too fat. 0.98

00:24:51.660 Why are you in a bikini? 1.00

00:24:52.700 You're too fat.

00:24:53.640 And I do think that's where the word fat almost becomes like. 0.71

00:24:57.020 People don't want to say it because they know it gets thrown around in ways that it shouldn't be thrown around almost.

00:25:02.840 Not even just to people that you'd say have an unhealthy BMI.

00:25:06.200 Because my BMI is not unhealthy.

00:25:08.020 But I get thrown a lot of fat hate. 0.97

00:25:10.700 Well, yeah, they're trolls. 0.98

00:25:12.100 Yeah. 0.90

00:25:12.300 I could see it in that.

00:25:12.920 But I think that's where it comes from, where people don't like to use that word.

00:25:16.260 It's like, where do you draw the line?

00:25:18.500 I think I just, I don't even, I'm not even a big.

00:25:23.060 I really just think we should be able to say that men like not fat women. 0.97

00:25:28.240 Okay.

00:25:28.520 I mean, and you can have your opinion.

00:25:30.080 Like, think about this.

00:25:30.880 We had, this was 24 minutes over one sentence.

00:25:36.240 I was just wondering.

00:25:38.060 I mean, I feel like if we just said men like healthy women, we would have just moved on.

00:25:43.020 What's a healthy woman? 1.00

00:25:44.220 Is a healthy woman fat? 1.00

00:25:45.400 And then we, and then that's when we start defining it.

00:25:48.000 You know, that's when we start saying.

00:25:49.040 Not fat.

00:25:49.980 Yeah, yeah, exactly.

00:25:50.800 But I did define.

00:25:51.680 I said healthy BMI.

00:25:52.980 Let me test the energy of the room then.

00:25:54.460 The women, the women, the women like. 0.95

00:25:58.720 What are you going to say?

00:25:59.680 I'm going to test.

00:26:00.500 The women like broke men. 1.00

00:26:02.460 Ooh. 0.68

00:26:03.760 The women like broke men. 1.00

00:26:05.820 I don't think it's about how much money he's got.

00:26:08.480 In general.

00:26:09.360 You think women like broke men? 0.99

00:26:10.400 I can't tell you what other women like. 1.00

00:26:11.980 But for me personally, no, it's the truth.

00:26:16.140 Because I've been with someone before that, you know, they might not necessarily be in

00:26:20.600 the greatest position in life.

00:26:21.900 Did you like him?

00:26:23.340 Yes, I did.

00:26:24.280 So why aren't you still with him?

00:26:25.980 Because we, we didn't.

00:26:28.000 That's the plane.

00:26:29.200 That's the plane.

00:26:30.340 No, it's not.

00:26:31.240 That's a very immature point of view.

00:26:33.040 Why is it immature?

00:26:33.920 Because it is.

00:26:34.600 Because that's very shallow.

00:26:35.960 It's not shallow.

00:26:36.660 It is shallow.

00:26:37.180 No, no, I've accepted.

00:26:38.400 I have a question.

00:26:39.020 I have a question.

00:26:39.720 I have a question.

00:26:40.260 It wasn't about his financial status.

00:26:41.920 Okay, two men.

00:26:42.720 Two men exactly the same.

00:26:44.220 They're exactly the same personality, everything.

00:26:46.740 One makes 100K.

00:26:48.180 Thank you for being honest.

00:26:49.660 One makes 100K at a bank and one works at Tesco.

00:26:54.560 Who are you picking?

00:26:55.440 Rich.

00:26:55.920 Big man.

00:26:56.940 I think great guys tend to be lazy.

00:26:59.560 We have the same values.

00:27:01.260 No, they're both men exactly the same.

00:27:03.320 One's rich, one's poor.

00:27:05.700 Then if they're exactly the same, then I am going to go for the one that I'm

00:27:10.260 that I can build with more and that is more ambitious.

00:27:14.780 Yeah.

00:27:15.080 But that's not, you know, in life you're never going to meet two people exactly the same.

00:27:22.460 No, my point is, my point is, it's like, I don't know why we just can't be honest.

00:27:26.860 You are giving her an unrealistic scenario.

00:27:29.500 I'm honest.

00:27:30.740 Ambition is attractive.

00:27:31.900 No, I'm not saying that.

00:27:36.680 But you're saying, you're sitting there and you're saying, why can't people be honest?

00:27:39.620 I'm telling you, I am being honest.

00:27:42.380 Right.

00:27:42.580 It's not just about money.

00:27:43.580 But you're arguing with me about the question and I'm not saying it's only money.

00:27:47.300 There's other things women select for. 1.00

00:27:49.020 It's not the only thing.

00:27:50.060 But I'm saying it's a factor, right?

00:27:53.460 It is a factor.

00:27:54.160 A massive factor.

00:27:55.000 You're giving her an unrealistic scenario.

00:27:57.640 No, you know, you know, you know, what's actually realistic, the fact that whenever we say something

00:28:02.040 about a general thing, like we say generally, the first thing you ladies do is bring it 1.00

00:28:06.940 back to yourself.

00:28:07.940 Yeah.

00:28:08.500 I wouldn't say the same thing.

00:28:09.980 No, but the reality is, you can only go by your own experience.

00:28:13.580 No, but that's not true.

00:28:14.720 Because, no, no, no.

00:28:15.780 And the question was, would you?

00:28:16.500 No, that's not.

00:28:17.360 No, I didn't say, would you?

00:28:18.320 No, I didn't.

00:28:19.020 I didn't say, would you?

00:28:20.200 I said, do women? 1.00

00:28:20.840 The reality is, I didn't say, would you?

00:28:22.260 The reality is, as adults, we can look at the world around us and make inferences.

00:28:27.640 So, whenever we make a general statement, we're not saying this is the way it is for

00:28:31.280 every single person.

00:28:32.400 It is just, if you look out there, what do you see normally?

00:28:35.580 What do you see women normally select for? 1.00

00:28:37.320 Even in your entertainment industry, what do you see women select for? 1.00

00:28:40.640 In your business, what do you?

00:28:43.140 It's connection, isn't it?

00:28:44.200 But with who?

00:28:45.200 Who do they usually look for to make the connection?

00:28:47.720 I think it's not fair.

00:28:49.100 I think it's not fair.

00:28:49.780 I think it's not fair.

00:28:50.420 If you want to hear what I've got to say, then let me know.

00:28:53.660 And women are starting to not, the more they are, basically, what am I trying to say? 1.00

00:29:00.480 No, basically, women are starting to look for no connection, basically. 1.00

00:29:06.880 They just want money, basically.

00:29:08.760 I've connected with broke people and non-broke people. 0.95

00:29:12.360 And I find people, I've been in love with a broke person before.

00:29:16.460 I've been in love with someone that's not broke before, to be completely honest.

00:29:19.440 It's the only two people I've ever lived.

00:29:21.020 And the broke person had no ambition.

00:29:23.380 They didn't care about anything.

00:29:25.120 And that was a complete turnoff and something I don't want to deal with.

00:29:29.740 So, like, being broke is no ambition, and that's not attractive.

00:29:32.520 Correct.

00:29:32.900 And I didn't say it was the only thing.

00:29:34.780 Women select for other things, too. 1.00

00:29:37.080 Yeah.

00:29:37.300 And it depends on the woman which one she values. 0.98

00:29:39.720 But to act like it's no factor, you're not going to be...

00:29:42.060 It's a factor, to me.

00:29:42.940 You're not going to be, you're not going to be, you're not going to be...

00:29:45.200 Ambition, ambition, ambition...

00:29:47.080 Ambition's big.

00:29:48.020 No, ambition's the same thing.

00:29:49.860 Ambition is the same thing.

00:29:50.800 To be broke, you're not, to be broke, you're not ambitious.

00:29:53.300 Ambition is a characteristic that equates to money.

00:29:55.920 It's a characteristic that, if followed through, is likely going to make you rich.

00:29:59.500 And I also feel like in the current climate...

00:30:01.700 It depends on where that person is in their life.

00:30:03.060 I also feel like in the current climate...

00:30:04.240 If they're ambitious, they're going to, as a result, create wealth.

00:30:07.520 You might meet someone, for example, yeah, that person might have gone through, I don't

00:30:13.600 know, maybe a loss, yeah, and they had everything, and then they've gone through this really bad

00:30:20.780 time, and they're not focusing, they're not concentrating, and they're, you know, they're

00:30:26.080 not as ambitious at that time.

00:30:28.020 And I've seen it.

00:30:28.980 But do they have a big general change?

00:30:30.660 But then, you know, they've come out the other side, and they're back on their game.

00:30:37.120 So they would have money again.

00:30:38.500 So then they are ambitious.

00:30:40.020 It doesn't mean...

00:30:41.020 But the point is, you're not going to be with a broke guy forever.

00:30:43.720 No.

00:30:44.040 No, I'm not saying that.

00:30:45.520 Also, I'm trying.

00:30:47.320 Exactly.

00:30:47.960 So it's like, what do we...

00:30:49.080 If I said...

00:30:49.520 What are we debating on?

00:30:49.960 I know nothing.

00:30:51.340 Broke men. 0.98

00:30:52.260 Okay, I want to do a PowerPoint with what women want, and I'll see if the men argue. 1.00

00:30:57.400 We're not going to argue.

00:30:58.360 We know what they want.

00:30:59.500 Okay, so let's go to the next one, okay?

00:31:02.660 Let's...

00:31:03.660 All right, so the next thing that...

00:31:07.120 Men typically want... 0.99

00:31:09.140 Let's show...

00:31:10.500 Next one.

00:31:11.240 Not a single mom.

00:31:12.680 Oh, my God.

00:31:13.400 This one comes up all the time.

00:31:14.580 So, okay, okay.

00:31:15.640 Let's...

00:31:16.260 I'm going to...

00:31:17.480 So, a single mother. 0.65

00:31:19.060 Single mothers. 0.99

00:31:19.980 And this is from Dr. David Baker's research.

00:31:22.920 This is a man that has researched the history of sex and produced multiple books on the topics,

00:31:27.000 right?

00:31:27.740 And it's roughly about only 15-ish percent of single moms will ever get a guy to remarry them. 1.00

00:31:35.620 No, the grass is not greener on the other side most of the time, except for 15% of women. 1.00

00:31:41.960 If you're Sierra, you might be turned out okay, but probably not.

00:31:45.760 Now, 22% of single mothers will get a man to live with them again. 0.87

00:31:52.200 Yes, so you might get a guy to live with you, but most single moms know there is no happy ending, 1.00

00:31:58.240 no light at the end of the tunnel.

00:32:00.040 I'm sorry, don't shoot the messenger.

00:32:02.160 I feel like...

00:32:02.880 Have you ever been to, like, a council of things?

00:32:04.500 It happens all the time.

00:32:06.260 Single moms get... 1.00

00:32:07.840 All of it.

00:32:09.060 Well, I'm telling you...

00:32:10.260 They get a lot of...

00:32:10.720 People do...

00:32:12.480 I have heard guys say, oh, she's got a baby, I don't want to. 0.95

00:32:15.760 But I think they're just scared of commitment.

00:32:17.640 That's the thing.

00:32:18.300 Guys are scared of commitment.

00:32:19.380 So, men in general don't want to raise other men's kids.

00:32:22.760 Wait, can you say single dad?

00:32:24.440 I would, what?

00:32:25.140 Can you apply it in, like, reverse?

00:32:26.580 No, no, I would say it's not the same.

00:32:29.160 She's a woman. 0.82

00:32:30.220 Single dad. 0.58

00:32:30.720 But I have a friend who's going through something like that, so...

00:32:33.680 So, I would, I would...

00:32:35.520 And it complicated his relationships that came...

00:32:38.460 One person at the time.

00:32:39.280 Oh, yeah.

00:32:39.480 So, I would argue that, no, it's not the same.

00:32:43.040 And there's biological reasons for this.

00:32:45.520 Typically, if a man has children, it signals to women that other women have selected him.

00:32:50.500 So, historically, the concubines weren't really too concerned with the king's wife.

00:32:55.340 They just were concubines, right? 1.00

00:32:56.980 No way.

00:32:57.600 But, yeah, yeah, yeah, they never...

00:32:59.020 Shallow.

00:32:59.240 I'd get rid of him.

00:33:00.800 No way.

00:33:01.540 Shallow.

00:33:02.040 But this is evolutionary biology.

00:33:03.760 We have to acknowledge that we...

00:33:05.020 We can acknowledge the fact that human beings, we are animals, and we have progressed in such a way

00:33:10.360 that we can observe general patterns about our species, and this is a general pattern.

00:33:14.680 Generally, men, male animals, don't want to have a woman that's got other children. 0.99

00:33:20.600 And it's the same way that men generally don't want a woman who's more promiscuous, 0.99

00:33:24.160 because you can't guarantee whose child it is when it comes out.

00:33:27.720 Women, on the other hand... 1.00

00:33:28.580 You know, I've heard a fun fact.

00:33:29.760 It's like they say...

00:33:30.360 You tell me if this is true.

00:33:31.460 For example, they say white males with blue eyes tend to go for other females with blue eyes

00:33:36.340 because they feel insecure.

00:33:37.560 That is so true.

00:33:37.960 They want to clarify that it's their child.

00:33:42.040 Oh, no, I ain't got blue eyes.

00:33:43.140 I ain't heard that before, still.

00:33:44.420 Well, that doesn't work.

00:33:45.060 No, that is true.

00:33:46.060 I feel like white males do always go for, like, girls who look similar to them.

00:33:50.820 I think in general, people might do that anyway.

00:33:52.920 So there's, like, a whole study about people, like, their eye colour and how that affects

00:33:56.900 their choice of relationships as well.

00:33:58.800 Oh, wow.

00:33:59.520 Some couples look like brother and sister, I won't lie. 0.94

00:34:02.020 Like, sometimes I meet couples and I'm like, you look related.

00:34:05.040 This is weird.

00:34:05.980 So do we have any disagreements?

00:34:07.420 Do men prefer women with no kids, right? 0.68

00:34:12.180 I prefer men with no kids, too, because I'm jealous. 1.00

00:34:15.940 I will kill her. 1.00

00:34:16.940 There are some women that do have that, right? 1.00

00:34:21.100 But I'm saying it's not the same across the board.

00:34:24.220 It usually doesn't hinder a man's dating prospects like it does a woman. 1.00

00:34:28.860 It's not the same.

00:34:30.520 There are some women that will disqualify men for it, but I would argue not the same.

00:34:35.860 Yes.

00:34:36.000 Okay, so next one.

00:34:37.840 Next one.

00:34:40.240 Because I wanted to ask her why it's shallow.

00:34:43.360 All right, so the next one.

00:34:44.120 You want to ask me what's shallow?

00:34:45.420 Why it's shallow?

00:34:46.660 I want to know why it's shallow.

00:34:47.760 Go, yeah, go back.

00:34:48.980 Go ahead.

00:34:49.460 Go ahead.

00:34:50.060 What's shallow?

00:34:51.280 I think when she was saying that men generally don't want women with kids, you said it was 1.00

00:34:55.440 shallow.

00:34:56.220 I'm wondering why.

00:34:57.780 It's like tunnel vision.

00:34:59.280 You see, we're in 2023, so a lot of things have developed.

00:35:01.820 I think it's very rare nowadays for you to find anybody over 20, whether male or female,

00:35:09.560 that doesn't have children. 0.91

00:35:12.020 70% of women under 30 don't have kids.

00:35:14.420 Where do you get this statistic from?

00:35:16.160 This one, this one again was from the evolution of sex, Dr. David Baker.

00:35:20.260 And I'm pretty sure the Office of National Statistics were the one that have just predicted that

00:35:24.640 by 2030, 50.1% of women in England won't have kids.

00:35:33.400 So that means more women won't have kids than do have kids. 1.00

00:35:36.060 So in general, the numbers are going down.

00:35:38.360 I mean, for that age group.

00:35:40.000 I think it's more than ever that young people don't want kids.

00:35:43.180 I have so many friends that don't want kids now.

00:35:45.020 None of my friends have kids.

00:35:46.180 It's a lot, but I'm just still confused by why it's shallow that they wouldn't want that.

00:35:51.420 There's a lot of reasons why.

00:35:52.660 I mean, like I say, in the job that I do, I'm quite indifferent.

00:35:55.200 So I would never favour one and not favour the other.

00:35:57.540 But what I will say is that I have two children of my own and that I am a successful businesswoman

00:36:03.580 who is not looking for a man, but rather focusing and building my own thing.

00:36:08.680 And I think this conversation is about a man, what a man wants, whether a man wants your...

00:36:12.180 I mean, I think for me, and I think a lot of women out there, it's pretty irrelevant. 0.98

00:36:17.460 Well, if you don't care what men want, then why do you keep arguing with it? 0.99

00:36:21.140 I would say what I think is right.

00:36:23.640 I think a lot of things that what I'll say is...

00:36:25.420 What I don't like is when somebody's got tunnel vision.

00:36:28.120 And when you've got your opinion and you focus on that, but when you're neglecting to notice

00:36:31.620 what's actually around you.

00:36:32.880 It's not, but I think we need to talk about general truths in the world, right?

00:36:36.960 Your truths.

00:36:37.720 It's not my truth, it's the truth.

00:36:39.840 I do think that you're talking about a specific age group as well.

00:36:42.940 No.

00:36:43.380 In general, I think.

00:36:45.740 I'm talking about men of all ages, there's patterns and trends, and men don't tend to

00:36:50.560 like single mothers. 0.99

00:36:51.600 Now, some single mothers are hard enough to get away with it. 1.00

00:36:55.020 Only about 15% though.

00:36:56.580 I think men with kids though, men with kids would never say no.

00:37:00.280 Well, I actually know, like I have friends and stuff, that they would say that they want

00:37:05.320 to date, they'd rather date a woman that has had children.

00:37:09.500 So that they can understand, you know, whether they've got kids.

00:37:13.580 I think if they've got kids, they're happier.

00:37:16.860 If they've got kids, if a guy's got kids, I think they're happier to get a woman that's 1.00

00:37:21.000 got kids.

00:37:21.340 But if a guy's not had kids, I think they get scared of it, and then that's when they don't.

00:37:25.700 No, I would say even men with kids, if they can.

00:37:28.680 They don't want a woman with kids. 1.00

00:37:29.580 I would say the preference, I think the preference for men is always no kids, with rare exceptions.

00:37:35.480 I have no knowledge of that.

00:37:36.960 I would argue.

00:37:37.600 It must be hard enough raising your own kids without raising other people's kids. 0.99

00:37:41.700 Exactly.

00:37:42.880 I don't know, I don't have kids, this is probably nothing to do with me, but that's what I guess.

00:37:47.540 It's because the guy can't raise the kid really how he wants to raise the child.

00:37:51.300 That's the main problem.

00:37:52.820 Because obviously, people that have children, you're not going to let him discipline your child.

00:37:56.540 You're going to have an issue with that.

00:37:57.960 So obviously, to a man, it's a problem, because you can't discipline him how he wants to discipline

00:38:02.080 the child.

00:38:02.360 Even if we look at the science of it, it's always going to be difficult to raise a child

00:38:05.340 that isn't biologically yours.

00:38:06.680 I mean, I'm adopted, and I know a fair amount about adoption statistics, and adopted kids

00:38:11.540 are the hardest kids to raise because of that dynamic.

00:38:13.660 Because even when you're adopted very young, I mean, I was adopted at nine months old,

00:38:18.300 even babies younger than me, taken from birth, the biology isn't there.

00:38:21.900 It's the same reason if you have a surrogate mother, that baby has only known the woman 0.99

00:38:26.600 it's been inside.

00:38:27.440 Even though biologically, it's the same as the other mother, it's only been inside this

00:38:31.520 one woman.

00:38:32.080 So then when you change that up, it does change the dynamic, and it makes it difficult.

00:38:35.960 So I think, you know, we can sit here all day and argue about whether it's right, whether

00:38:41.380 it's shallow or not, but there is a biological fact that raising a child that isn't biologically

00:38:45.820 similar to you is going to be more difficult than raising one that is.

00:38:49.900 I can imagine it's difficult.

00:38:52.360 Yeah.

00:38:53.040 Thank you, Christine.

00:38:54.340 So the next one, the next one, now let's see, I want to see how far we can take this.

00:38:59.820 So the next thing that men want, or you hear me out, no abortions. 1.00

00:39:03.540 If men can pick between a woman, if men can pick, if men can pick between a woman that 1.00

00:39:10.520 has killed her child and not killed her child, you know what, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,

00:39:17.220 wait, I'll give you, wait, let me, let me finish.

00:39:21.080 They may not find out, but if they do find out, they would prefer no abortions to having

00:39:28.380 abortions. 0.94

00:39:29.080 That's absolutely insane.

00:39:31.080 And I want to clarify, remember, as I said earlier, this is for a wife and a mother,

00:39:39.320 not a chick that's fun for a couple of months. 1.00

00:39:42.100 Wait, does that matter to you if you were going to marry her?

00:39:45.820 No, no.

00:39:46.680 Say that again, sorry.

00:39:47.540 Would that matter to you if you were going to marry her and she had an abortion? 0.99

00:39:50.560 If I was going to marry her?

00:39:51.360 I mean, with an ex-partner.

00:39:54.420 I think the question is if you had a choice between a woman who has and a woman that hasn't.

00:40:00.780 It really bother you?

00:40:02.540 No, I'm saying if you had the choice.

00:40:04.660 Obviously, if you don't know, you don't know.

00:40:06.680 But if you know, it does change your perspective.

00:40:09.460 Anything you know, if I don't know, you've slept with 10 people, but then I find out you've

00:40:14.600 slept with 10 people.

00:40:15.300 So you're talking about if she'd slept with a lot of people and accidentally got pregnant,

00:40:21.520 you would prefer a woman that slept with no people and didn't get pregnant? 1.00

00:40:26.080 Is that what you're trying to say?

00:40:27.100 Run that question by me one more time.

00:40:28.480 So you would prefer that a woman slept with nobody and never got pregnant or someone that 0.98

00:40:35.600 slept with 10 people and got pregnant? 0.59

00:40:37.240 How can she get pregnant if she gets pregnant? 1.00

00:40:38.440 And then had an abortion? 0.98

00:40:39.240 No.

00:40:39.520 And then had an abortion? 0.98

00:40:40.800 She's saying a virgin or she's saying got pregnant.

00:40:44.420 Because that would have to be your choice because girls get accidentally pregnant all 1.00

00:40:50.620 of the time.

00:40:51.300 Yeah.

00:40:53.580 Define accidentally.

00:40:55.200 Define accidentally.

00:40:56.420 What do you mean accidentally?

00:40:57.400 All the time.

00:40:57.820 You can be on contraception and accidentally get pregnant, of course. 0.70

00:41:00.580 Yeah, but I mean, that's not like all the time.

00:41:02.860 But you need to be specific in accident because there's a difference between missing the pill one

00:41:06.760 day and getting pregnant.

00:41:07.500 That's not an accident.

00:41:08.540 That is a fault that you've made.

00:41:10.760 So there's a big difference between actual accident and the one.

00:41:13.640 And then that leads then into the mentality.

00:41:15.860 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:41:17.060 I think it depends on how many abortions it has. 1.00

00:41:18.980 What did you say?

00:41:19.500 Isn't the pill like 99.7% though?

00:41:22.460 Isn't there still that one chance?

00:41:23.920 The pill is about.

00:41:25.040 Why do you go to the 1%?

00:41:26.960 No, no, no, no.

00:41:28.080 Come on.

00:41:28.820 Come on.

00:41:29.140 Let's grasp about what we can.

00:41:31.680 There is some poor woman that accidentally got pregnant. 1.00

00:41:34.120 Okay, okay.

00:41:34.660 But what are we talking about?

00:41:35.800 What are we?

00:41:36.120 Put it into perspective.

00:41:38.620 I think it really depends on how many abortions they've had and what was the reasoning behind

00:41:43.900 why they've had the abortion.

00:41:45.280 Because I'm not going to lie, if I was a male and I know some females that, you know, like 1.00

00:41:51.440 sometimes you get men, right?

00:41:52.680 And they're like, oh, I don't want to be with this woman because she's got kids or she's 1.00

00:41:58.120 got kids for how many people or whatever it is.

00:42:00.520 And then they might go for a female that maybe has one child or has no children. 1.00

00:42:06.000 But little do they know, that woman.

00:42:08.680 Yeah.

00:42:09.680 I'm going to try not to swear.

00:42:11.200 All right.

00:42:11.420 So that woman goes home with somebody every weekend when she goes out. 0.98

00:42:15.700 She's probably had flipping 10 abortions as she's come out of Mary Stokes or whatever. 1.00

00:42:20.380 Her brethren's driving her down the road and she's hollering at man out the window as she's 0.73

00:42:25.720 just come out of Mary Stokes.

00:42:27.180 Do you know what? 0.98

00:42:27.440 I know some disgusting people. 0.96

00:42:29.500 Do you know what I mean?

00:42:29.960 So it really depends on what you're talking about.

00:42:31.640 But we're talking about preference, like if we know, if we know, if we had a choice.

00:42:35.300 I would ask you, if I had to talk to my brothers and I said, Adam, Austin, they're really great

00:42:43.000 guys.

00:42:43.820 And they really are.

00:42:45.420 They're awesome.

00:42:46.080 And really, they're amazing.

00:42:47.400 They're really good people.

00:42:48.900 They're engineers.

00:42:50.040 They're very successful at a young age.

00:42:52.540 They're really, I would argue, husband material for most women, right? 1.00

00:42:57.860 I mean, I come from good cloth, you know?

00:42:59.940 And they're very smart and helpful, kind, everything really, I would argue, most women 0.98

00:43:06.680 want in a guy.

00:43:07.340 And I said, okay, what would I recommend? 1.00

00:43:09.580 I would say, if you ever hear a woman's head in abortion, you've got to leave her ass. 1.00

00:43:13.280 You've got to leave her ass. 1.00

00:43:14.240 Yeah, I'll tell you because I'll tell you why. 1.00

00:43:16.160 I'll tell you why.

00:43:16.960 Wait, wait, wait. 0.89

00:43:17.920 Because if she's going to kill her kid, what's she going to do to you? 0.98

00:43:20.780 Oh, my God. 0.99

00:43:21.360 No way.

00:43:22.440 I've never had one.

00:43:23.220 Hear me out.

00:43:23.920 Hear me out.

00:43:24.620 Hear me out.

00:43:25.240 Your kid is like you're supposed to love it more than anything.

00:43:27.620 Wait, it's not a child, though.

00:43:28.920 I've never had one, but I disagree.

00:43:31.360 I've never had one, but I disagree.

00:43:33.400 So, who said it's a clump of cells?

00:43:35.240 Who said that?

00:43:35.820 Who just said it's a clump of cells?

00:43:37.340 I was...

00:43:38.920 No?

00:43:39.280 A clump of cells.

00:43:39.740 A clump of cells.

00:43:41.080 Have you seen an abortion take place at six weeks?

00:43:43.800 It depends on how far along it is.

00:43:45.340 Wait, hold on.

00:43:46.240 They have a heartbeat.

00:43:47.020 Am I wrong?

00:43:47.380 They have a heartbeat.

00:43:49.020 Can we get up a picture of an abortion?

00:43:51.720 Guys, guys, guys.

00:43:52.720 Is it fog?

00:43:53.220 Guys, okay.

00:43:54.260 Christine, who said the clump of cells?

00:43:56.340 Me.

00:43:56.580 Who said it?

00:43:57.060 Okay, go ahead.

00:43:57.760 Christine didn't talk to her.

00:43:58.880 What is it?

00:43:59.900 A baby.

00:44:00.540 Have you seen a fetus?

00:44:02.200 Can we get up a picture of a six-week-old fetus?

00:44:04.900 Are you joking?

00:44:05.180 They have a heartbeat from five weeks old.

00:44:07.620 Yeah, I think you can.

00:44:08.840 We could show it.

00:44:09.940 They do.

00:44:10.820 The thing is, you don't want babies.

00:44:12.160 I don't think you really associate yourself or attach yourself with babies.

00:44:16.360 It's not even that, though.

00:44:18.080 Yeah, but I...

00:44:18.880 If a woman wants an abortion and she's not ready to have a child, I think she should have a 1.00

00:44:24.040 fucking abortion. 1.00

00:44:25.140 Like, you're all fucking crazy. 1.00

00:44:27.000 They've all got heartbeats at five weeks old. 1.00

00:44:28.680 It's a little lump of cells.

00:44:30.100 No, stop a minute.

00:44:30.980 I'm not crazy.

00:44:31.900 I'm telling you a fact.

00:44:33.160 A scientific fact is that they have a heartbeat. 0.99

00:44:34.640 I don't give a shit about the scientific facts. 1.00

00:44:37.000 If a woman wants an abortion, they should have a fucking abortion. 1.00

00:44:40.120 I'm not saying they shouldn't. 1.00

00:44:41.460 However, you can't call somebody crazy for stating a fact.

00:44:44.380 So, scientifically, a baby has...

00:44:45.840 I'm not calling you crazy.

00:44:45.860 They have a heartbeat from five weeks old.

00:44:48.100 That's what I'm saying.

00:44:49.400 Right, cool.

00:44:49.940 Whether you want to deny it or not.

00:44:51.580 And also, I'd argue that a majority of abortions are not from conception failing.

00:44:56.900 I would say it's from, like, mistakes in general.

00:44:58.940 And also, there's, like, 40% of women who have abortions have had more than one.

00:45:02.560 Two or more.

00:45:03.160 Yeah, I would say most of the time, it's, you know, sloppiness or accident.

00:45:07.600 It's not from the...

00:45:08.240 Oh, Paul.

00:45:08.440 You know, Sherlock.

00:45:10.860 It's not from the pill failing, personally.

00:45:13.020 Also, if we're going to talk about, like, the efficacy of contraception, I think someone

00:45:17.840 in the middle mentioned the pill.

00:45:19.960 The pill is generally the most popular one.

00:45:23.240 It's the one that generally everyone tends to be on.

00:45:25.580 The most effective form of contraception is the implant, which is about 99% effective.

00:45:31.020 But actually, natural contraception, if used correctly, is also 99% effective.

00:45:36.200 So...

00:45:36.480 There's always a percentage that you could get pregnant.

00:45:38.560 Of course, but if you don't want to get pregnant, then you don't have sex. 0.95

00:45:41.480 I feel like they make that percentage.

00:45:42.740 But I'll tell you why.

00:45:45.040 I'll tell you why I would say...

00:45:46.280 But it's a risk you take.

00:45:47.620 Yeah, I would tell you...

00:45:48.280 You take that risk knowing that. 0.97

00:45:49.280 We all want to have sex. 0.98

00:45:50.240 Okay, okay, okay. 0.98

00:45:50.920 I'll tell you why I would say... 0.96

00:45:54.480 I would say to my brothers, hey, guys, stay away from those chicks. 1.00

00:45:57.620 I'll tell you why.

00:45:58.420 I don't say...

00:45:58.940 Because...

00:45:59.600 No, because I believe...

00:46:01.180 I believe as a mother and a wife, you're supposed to be selfless, right?

00:46:05.500 You're supposed to be the kids before me.

00:46:08.040 And you're supposed to love your kids more than anything in the world.

00:46:11.200 And so, you know, my mother actually had an accidental pregnancy when she was quite young.

00:46:17.540 But my mother is a selfless person. 0.97

00:46:19.900 And she loved that child.

00:46:21.380 And she gave him up for adoption.

00:46:22.740 I met him when I was 22.

00:46:24.400 And so being...

00:46:25.380 And we've also adopted kids in my family.

00:46:27.460 So I've been on both sides of adoption.

00:46:29.520 And it's because my parents are very selfless people.

00:46:32.800 They are kind, selfless people.

00:46:34.360 And I think when you choose a wife and a mother, the most important trait is that she's kind and selfless.

00:46:39.480 I don't think this...

00:46:40.140 And I think when you're making decisions that are selfish, I don't think it's the best wives and mothers.

00:46:46.040 Also, Bonnie, you said that you be...

00:46:47.460 You don't think that there's always a certain percentage of, like, bias when it comes to, for example, like...

00:46:52.620 I hope I'm not being insensitive by saying this.

00:46:54.520 But, like, since you have, for example, parents that want to have children but then still choose to adopt,

00:47:00.220 isn't there always some sort of, like, bias?

00:47:01.800 No, they actually didn't want to adopt.

00:47:03.540 It was these kids were in, like, bad situations.

00:47:06.220 And they basically saved a lot of their, like, lives, if I'm being honest,

00:47:09.400 because they're in really rough situations.

00:47:11.220 And they took...

00:47:11.540 They weren't even looking to adopt.

00:47:12.680 They just knew them.

00:47:14.160 But, I mean, everyone's biased.

00:47:17.200 So, I mean, I just don't think, like, wife and mother aborts kids.

00:47:23.680 Can I ask you what your opinion is on females that have gone through a traumatic experience?

00:47:28.960 I can't remember what you told me to say, but I can't say a word.

00:47:30.960 So, what do you think about women that have had that experience and then they've fallen pregnant?

00:47:39.220 Well, I think that's a really sad situation.

00:47:42.020 And it's less than 1%.

00:47:43.320 So, I think it's kind of used as, like, a gotcha.

00:47:46.080 No, I mean, I'm asking.

00:47:47.500 I'm going to answer.

00:47:48.780 Just wait.

00:47:49.760 So, in that situation, I think it's best to either keep the kid or give it up for adoption.

00:47:54.920 I don't ever think it's right to end a human life.

00:47:58.180 That's just my opinion.

00:47:58.860 And so, what about if that child, so, and I understand what you're saying about being selfless and bringing a child into the world regardless.

00:48:09.220 But what about then if that child has trauma because they can't get over the fact that, you know, why their mother gave them up for adoption?

00:48:18.840 Why didn't my mom want me? 0.95

00:48:20.300 Oh, well, it was because of this, this, this.

00:48:21.860 But, you know, I'm still her child sort of thing.

00:48:24.260 What about that trauma?

00:48:25.260 Do you think it's okay to then adopt a child and they're searching and they're seeking for their biological parents?

00:48:32.720 Can I speak on this as someone who has that specific trauma?

00:48:35.220 Okay, yeah, I'm genuinely asking.

00:48:36.420 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:48:36.800 So, that is, it's a wound that never goes away.

00:48:39.160 No matter how old you are, growing up, you're always going to think, well, why wasn't I wanted?

00:48:43.860 So, for example, I was very much wanted.

00:48:46.040 I was taken away by social services.

00:48:47.680 But even still, I'm like, but why wasn't I wanted?

00:48:50.580 It's a wound that's never healed.

00:48:52.040 I get that.

00:48:52.440 However, it's a wound I have, alive and living.

00:48:55.960 Yeah.

00:48:56.940 That's the difference.

00:48:58.060 I'm here.

00:48:58.620 Yeah.

00:48:59.060 But you know that you were wanted.

00:49:01.440 So, what I'm saying.

00:49:02.180 By someone.

00:49:02.640 And there are kids I know who, people who have been in the care system their whole life, they were never found.

00:49:08.600 Okay, if we're going to put it bluntly.

00:49:09.800 They were never found.

00:49:10.560 They were never chosen, right?

00:49:11.640 Yeah.

00:49:11.820 I'm very lucky because I'm part of the statistic that gets picked.

00:49:15.160 You know, I'm a white female who was born, who was adopted before the age of one.

00:49:19.140 Okay?

00:49:19.520 So, I'm very lucky.

00:49:20.500 But I'm aware there's a huge group of people that don't have that.

00:49:22.940 However, we have to acknowledge every single one of us in this room and every human being on the planet has some kind of trauma or some kind of wound in their life.

00:49:31.440 But isn't it better that we're all here?

00:49:34.520 Because we're all going to have one wound or one trauma one way or the other.

00:49:37.720 I mean, I don't know.

00:49:38.480 But we're here with it.

00:49:39.320 We are here, but, you know, for some people it's a challenge to be here living with their trauma.

00:49:43.660 It is a challenge, but isn't it a leap of faith to state and to believe that it's better to be here than it's not to be?

00:49:52.380 I mean, if that's how you feel.

00:49:54.420 That's how I feel.

00:49:55.240 I think it's good to...

00:49:56.540 I know people that have taken their lives because of that.

00:49:59.100 And I would much rather that they were here.

00:50:00.460 Right.

00:50:00.720 I would much rather that they were here, but we're talking about how that person feels and how...

00:50:04.520 But they don't have to...

00:50:05.400 Feelings aren't permanent.

00:50:06.700 It's a temporary solution.

00:50:08.240 It is.

00:50:08.440 It's a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

00:50:10.320 I just feel like we always go extreme.

00:50:12.780 No, but because you know what?

00:50:13.780 In the real world, things can be extremely extreme.

00:50:16.260 That's why people are blessed their lives.

00:50:18.380 Well, even to address that point, even if we want to speak about people that have trauma, people that take their lives, it still comes down to the same principle.

00:50:28.280 If we even want to go religious about it, this life doesn't belong to us. 0.60

00:50:31.500 Oh, 100%.

00:50:32.220 So, even people that take their lives shouldn't be taking their lives because it doesn't belong to them.

00:50:37.980 100%.

00:50:38.340 So, it's even worse.

00:50:39.840 I will understand that.

00:50:40.540 You will understand that.

00:50:41.300 I understand that.

00:50:41.660 Not everyone thinks that way.

00:50:42.700 I get it.

00:50:43.200 But the fact of life is that suicide, as bad as it might be, is not the right choice, right?

00:50:50.040 So, if we know that that's true, that people shouldn't be taking their lives, so why should we even support other people deciding to take their life for someone else?

00:50:58.400 But remember, that's your view.

00:51:00.420 No, I know it's my view.

00:51:01.260 I personally have the same view, but not everyone thinks like that.

00:51:04.260 And all I was saying is about, you know, people living with trauma and not to everybody.

00:51:09.260 I mean, it's a fact.

00:51:10.040 I'm just speaking facts.

00:51:11.040 Not everyone can cope with living with trauma.

00:51:13.040 And that's why people, you know, do take their lives, unfortunately.

00:51:16.720 And that's down to destiny because at the end of the day, if someone decides, okay, I have all this trauma and I can't live anymore and I want to take my own life, that is that person's destiny.

00:51:26.980 And that is what that person has chosen to do.

00:51:28.780 It's not up to us to now say, well, it would have been better if they were not born.

00:51:32.740 No, 100%.

00:51:33.660 Also, can we go back to the general point of it?

00:51:36.920 Sorry to reduce it back to the general.

00:51:39.860 But Bonnie mentioned something that I thought was really important.

00:51:43.400 You said like, you know, everyone just wants to have sex.

00:51:46.860 Yeah, clearly. 0.64

00:51:49.360 Otherwise, we wouldn't exist, would we?

00:51:50.840 Of course, it's a natural tendency.

00:51:52.720 We wouldn't have only fans.

00:51:53.740 The main nature of life, really. 0.70

00:51:55.320 However, so you can have sex, right, of course. 0.84

00:51:58.960 Like, I'm not going to sit here and tell you what you can or can't do.

00:52:01.320 But if you, let's say, I don't know your personal opinion, but let's say, like, you really don't like the idea of having abortion.

00:52:07.200 You said yourself, if you was that 1% that was taking contraception religiously, you never missed a pill, you did everything right and you got pregnant, you said you'd be fuming.

00:52:14.920 Does that not indicate to you that you're having sex with people that you probably wouldn't want to have children with?

00:52:20.060 So, therefore, shouldn't you be only having sex with people that you would see yourself having a child with? 0.93

00:52:24.080 Otherwise, you're being negligent to that life that would then be here.

00:52:26.980 Okay, so I'd say 90% of my partners, I would say, if I would have, in the past, been a young girl, especially when I was, like, 18.

00:52:36.900 Back then, I was probably with guys I shouldn't have been with. 1.00

00:52:40.380 That, like, when you're 18, you're stupid. 1.00

00:52:42.180 You're with guys, you freaking hate them. 1.00

00:52:44.040 So isn't that a societal problem that we have, that we're teaching young girls that's okay? 0.98

00:52:47.620 Yeah, but, like, if I was on the pill back then, if I would have got pregnant with them kind of guys, yes, I would have been fuming.

00:52:53.740 Because back then, as a naive child, as a teenager, I would have been so annoyed.

00:53:00.140 But, like, as I'm 28, if I got pregnant now, whether it was a one-night stand or a partner, if I got pregnant now, I would keep it because I'm old enough and I know that is my...

00:53:10.500 So what do you say now is that you're 20...

00:53:12.520 I'm 28.

00:53:13.220 28.

00:53:13.640 What would you say now to 18-year-old girls who are perhaps naive students?

00:53:18.080 Wear condoms. Take the pill and wear condoms.

00:53:20.000 But you even said yourself there's a 1% chance, even if you do it correctly, you still might. 0.57

00:53:23.660 So isn't it better to tell them only have sex with people that you're willing to have a child with?

00:53:27.300 No, of course not, because you have to experiment to live, like, I feel like if you're going to say to people only have sex with people... 0.96

00:53:32.340 You have to experiment sexually to live?

00:53:34.400 No, well, in a way, yeah.

00:53:36.200 I mean, that's a way to get STDs.

00:53:38.240 No, but I feel like a part of growing up is experimenting with different things.

00:53:43.100 Like, some girls experiment with girls, some girls experiment with guys. 0.99

00:53:46.020 You can't get pregnant that way. 1.00

00:53:46.940 Wait, so what?

00:53:48.520 So you're saying sexual experience is all the late in pregnancy?

00:53:49.960 What, you just have one partner that you want to have a kid with and get married to and that's it?

00:53:53.920 Have you only had sex with one person? 0.98

00:53:55.460 Have you only had sex with one person that you want to marry? 1.00

00:53:59.000 That's fucking bullshit. 1.00

00:53:59.860 No, obviously not. 1.00

00:54:01.440 Well, that's what I mean. 0.99

00:54:02.320 Well, what the fuck, then? 0.99

00:54:02.480 That's what you're saying, though. 1.00

00:54:04.140 You should only have sex with someone you're willing to have a child with. 0.99

00:54:08.000 What's the problem with having that kind of mentality? 0.93

00:54:10.220 There's nothing wrong with that.

00:54:11.600 But the way you hear you're coming at her, like, oh my God, so have you been like that?

00:54:14.680 It's like, well, wait a minute.

00:54:15.660 You're saying it like it's a problem?

00:54:16.840 You should tell to 18-year-old girls that you should have one partner. 0.98

00:54:19.400 I didn't say that. 0.99

00:54:19.940 I said you should have sex with someone you're willing to have a child with. 1.00

00:54:23.220 I have a question. 1.00

00:54:25.460 That's crazy. 0.99

00:54:26.240 Do you think it's better to have sex with men that you don't want children with? 0.99

00:54:30.540 No, of course not. 1.00

00:54:31.340 No, I'm not saying that, but it's not fucking possible. 0.86

00:54:33.120 We're not all living like that. 0.99

00:54:34.920 Nobody fucking lives like that. 0.99

00:54:36.800 Are you saying it's impossible? 1.00

00:54:39.200 I'm not saying it's impossible. 0.99

00:54:40.440 I'm saying people don't fucking live like that. 0.99

00:54:41.660 I've not had sex like that many people. 0.99

00:54:43.120 Like, out of the most of the girls I speak to, my body count is very low.

00:54:47.300 Okay, I don't.

00:54:48.040 But they're not all, they're not, I know.

00:54:50.240 I know, but like, what I'm going to say to you, what I'm going to say to you is they're

00:54:54.400 not all people I've been like, right, you could, I could be with you for 80 years.

00:54:59.000 But you do think when you're 18, yes, you're hot and I'll easily lose my virginity.

00:55:03.780 You don't think I'm going to marry you.

00:55:05.260 But that's the thing.

00:55:07.080 I think that what she's saying is, I don't know, obviously you've got your journey.

00:55:11.920 I think generally, generally, you meet someone and you get to know that person and then you

00:55:20.620 decide to take that step because you can see a long term, or you think at the time, you

00:55:25.480 know, you're going to have a long term relationship with that person.

00:55:28.000 Are we all acting like one night stands aren't a thing?

00:55:29.000 Not for everyone.

00:55:30.040 No, not for everyone. 0.99

00:55:31.400 Are we all acting like one night stands are a fucking thing? 0.98

00:55:32.560 Is everyone in? 0.99

00:55:33.320 They're not for everyone. 0.93

00:55:34.200 I love sex. 0.54

00:55:35.920 Have you had a one night stand? 0.99

00:55:37.660 Are we all having one night stands?

00:55:38.520 Do you know what it is?

00:55:40.800 I don't want to have one night stands.

00:55:43.060 Do you know why?

00:55:43.460 Because I believe in energy.

00:55:44.500 Have you had one, though?

00:55:44.900 Energy transference.

00:55:46.340 And I don't want to share my energy with someone.

00:55:48.420 Number one, I don't know where you've been, where you've come from.

00:55:51.760 I'm not in it.

00:55:52.560 So you can't make one mistake in your whole life?

00:55:54.720 No, I'm not saying you can't.

00:55:56.400 I'm just saying my preference is to not have one night stand.

00:55:59.380 You must have done things like this in your past, though.

00:56:02.980 Why are you using one night stands as a justification for giving the right information? 0.89

00:56:05.760 Because we're talking about marrying people that you have sex with. 1.00

00:56:08.360 Because you're saying you shouldn't have sex with anyone that you don't want to fucking marry. 0.99

00:56:10.760 The question was, at 18, if you was 18, giving an 18-year-old advice now, would you tell them that you shouldn't have sex with anyone but the person that you feel like? 0.98

00:56:21.900 The way you're saying it is like, okay, but the fact is, you know, I can't justify that because, you know, they're going to go out and have one night stands.

00:56:28.220 You're justifying it.

00:56:29.060 You've been talking to me when I was 18, so I don't have sex with one night stands.

00:56:31.920 Okay, I want to use a different, I'm going to use a different example.

00:56:35.640 It's a justification.

00:56:36.300 If I say to an 18-year-old, I say, hey, do not get blackout drunk.

00:56:40.820 That's not a good idea.

00:56:42.100 It could put yourself in a situation you don't want to be in.

00:56:45.320 You don't want a guy to take advantage.

00:56:47.040 Like, if I list all the reasons, do not get blackout drunk.

00:56:51.600 Are you guys going to argue?

00:56:53.380 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:56:55.800 I actually, I actually, wait, wait.

00:56:58.140 I actually know many people that have never lived that lifestyle.

00:57:02.080 I do.

00:57:02.780 I know women. 1.00

00:57:03.720 I know women. 1.00

00:57:04.340 I know women that were virgins on their wedding days. 1.00

00:57:07.580 I know.

00:57:08.020 I know women. 1.00

00:57:08.720 Yes, they exist.

00:57:09.880 Old school.

00:57:10.900 They exist.

00:57:12.420 Yes, yes, yes.

00:57:13.620 I know women that have never touched alcohol. 0.98

00:57:16.580 They exist.

00:57:17.440 People make different choices.

00:57:19.200 And so does it, that 18-year-old might, that 18-year-old might go on to become an alcoholic.

00:57:25.280 I can't.

00:57:25.800 I can't stop her.

00:57:26.760 But at least I'm giving her the correct information.

00:57:31.660 And the issue we have is we've had, we've had, wait, wait, we've had not one, not two,

00:57:36.540 but I would argue three generations of women that have given the women today bad information 0.99

00:57:43.380 because we can't say water is wet, the sky is blue.

00:57:46.680 Don't get blackout drunks and have one night stands.

00:57:49.960 That's bad.

00:57:50.820 That is not helpful.

00:57:52.040 I just feel like we need to stop basically glorifying this like wild face because not

00:57:59.680 everyone needs to have a wild face in their life.

00:58:01.900 If they want to have it, then it's up to them.

00:58:07.080 I'll tell you something crazy, though.

00:58:11.300 If a guy deals drugs when he goes to jail when he's younger, okay, when he talks to the younger

00:58:16.940 men, he'll say, stay away.

00:58:18.300 You literally can see like interviews in prison of men talking about this.

00:58:22.380 They'll say, hey, young guys do not go down that path.

00:58:25.300 You don't have to do that.

00:58:26.700 But older women will justify doing it for younger women. 1.00

00:58:30.860 Older men will say, hey, that's a bad path. 0.99

00:58:34.180 Don't go down.

00:58:34.880 They won't justify and say, no, you have to sell drugs.

00:58:37.280 You have to commit crimes.

00:58:38.860 No, they'll give the men the right information.

00:58:41.340 Now, some men will take that advice and some won't.

00:58:45.040 They can't really help who does.

00:58:46.340 But at least they have the correct information.

00:58:48.660 But this is the reality. 0.99

00:58:50.660 Older women will tell younger women not to go out and be whores. 1.00

00:58:55.020 That's what they will tell them. 0.98

00:58:56.080 If you've got any moral compass and respect and dignity, then you will tell a young woman. 1.00

00:59:00.500 Not true.

00:59:01.620 Not true.

00:59:02.280 We've spoken to.

00:59:04.680 Really?

00:59:05.700 It depends who you talk to.

00:59:07.200 We've done.

00:59:08.240 Listen, listen, listen.

00:59:10.080 I don't know.

00:59:11.820 Hold on.

00:59:12.840 This is episode 151.

00:59:15.460 There's nothing that has been said in this room today that we're hearing for the first time.

00:59:18.980 This is the thing.

00:59:20.320 When women speak, they always think that they are the first person to come up with this thing that they are saying. 1.00

00:59:24.340 We hear this every single week, week in, week out.

00:59:27.020 We do street interviews.

00:59:28.640 And street interviews, we don't cast people.

00:59:30.540 We literally see random people on the street.

00:59:33.220 Office people, strippers, all sorts of women. 1.00

00:59:36.480 You lot don't realize that you all say the same exact thing.

00:59:41.380 I should hope so.

00:59:42.220 That's a brilliant thing.

00:59:43.220 If there's women saying what I'm saying. 1.00

00:59:45.280 No, not what you're saying.

00:59:46.540 I'm saying this narrative.

00:59:48.280 That's why this show exists.

00:59:49.880 I'll give you a picture.

00:59:51.120 Wait, wait, wait.

00:59:52.020 I was going to make a point.

00:59:52.940 I was going to make a point.

00:59:54.080 My point is, my point is, what they are saying is actually a very good reflection of what society is today.

01:00:00.660 It's disruptive.

01:00:01.000 You don't see it.

01:00:01.680 No, but you don't see it because probably you're in a different circle.

01:00:04.440 Yeah, 100%.

01:00:05.240 That's one.

01:00:05.540 I'm not with that.

01:00:06.380 I don't want to be around that.

01:00:07.040 I'll tell you why it's a very, this is actually a good representation.

01:00:10.660 The reality is, in the Western world, what we have now is families, loads of generations have been raised with our fathers.

01:00:17.340 And even the women that were raised with fathers still didn't have fathers because their fathers had no backbone and couldn't say anything in the house.

01:00:26.340 Do you know what?

01:00:26.680 You're probably absolutely right.

01:00:27.840 I was actually raised by my father and he taught me.

01:00:31.740 Exactly.

01:00:32.700 But the point I'm trying to make is that because I've had tons of women sit on this couch and say that when they went to their parents to tell them that they're going to do OnlyFans, their parents supported them.

01:00:42.920 Really?

01:00:43.560 I feel like that must be rare.

01:00:45.780 I feel like it's not rare.

01:00:47.020 My mom's number one supporter.

01:00:50.280 Wait, wait, wait.

01:00:50.800 I've got to say.

01:00:51.600 Wait, wait, wait.

01:00:52.280 Can you say that?

01:00:53.120 My mom loves that I do OnlyFans.

01:00:55.220 By the way, my OnlyFans is Only.

01:00:56.780 Okay, okay, okay.

01:00:58.400 So, okay.

01:01:00.860 Out of the horse's mouth.

01:01:02.080 Not rare.

01:01:02.700 We don't just make it.

01:01:03.440 And the thing is, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:01:11.420 Okay.

01:01:11.820 And the point, the point I'm making is I just went to an event, like literally like an hour and a half before this.

01:01:17.300 It was like, I would argue women over the age of 35 to 45, 50, trying to figure out how to get younger women to have more abortions.

01:01:28.520 They're trying there.

01:01:29.480 They said they said in a PowerPoint that their goal was to make that.

01:01:32.980 I asked this question and then they didn't like me too much when I started asking questions.

01:01:37.560 But I raised my hand and I'm like, let me get this straight.

01:01:40.720 You want to make it like these abortion pills like Advil? 1.00

01:01:44.180 And they said, yeah, they said over the counter.

01:01:46.800 Well, they want to, they want to, well, and they want to go to countries.

01:01:52.560 They want to go, wait, wait.

01:01:53.920 They want to go to countries whose cultures don't like that and send these abortion pills. 1.00

01:01:59.460 These are the older women that we have teaching us. 1.00

01:02:02.820 And even the women that maybe told women not to sleep around, oftentimes they'll say to never rely on a man and always have a backup plan. 0.99

01:02:11.340 Really?

01:02:11.740 That is very, very.

01:02:13.920 When they say have a backup plan, what do they mean?

01:02:15.940 They always want women to have a backup plan in case the marriage doesn't work. 1.00

01:02:21.060 That is terrible advice.

01:02:23.240 I'm sorry.

01:02:24.080 But if you can trust a man to have kids with, you should be able to trust him with money.

01:02:29.700 Why do we have, why do we, why do we have a society where we said, I can trust you to be the father of my child, but I can't trust you with money.

01:02:37.300 That innately says that money is more important than family.

01:02:41.180 And I think I can agree with you.

01:02:43.480 If you're talking about going into a relationship as a whole, someone you're going to have sex with, have children with, and be serious with.

01:02:50.120 And then, of course, I think that finances should be shared.

01:02:52.540 I mean, but I don't see, is anyone disputing that?

01:02:54.540 I'm saying that is a common thing that older women say to younger women. 0.99

01:03:04.400 I'm not saying it's every older women, but I'm saying older women. 0.98

01:03:08.460 And we have, who is 28, right?

01:03:11.380 Am I older woman?

01:03:12.600 Oh my God.

01:03:13.500 Lesson, lesson, lesson, lesson, lesson, lesson, lesson.

01:03:15.340 Wait, I'm saying you're older.

01:03:17.700 The idea was it was, wait, wait, stop getting offended.

01:03:20.940 Stop crying.

01:03:21.620 All right.

01:03:24.000 Wait, wait, wait, let me get, okay, wait, Jesus Christ.

01:03:27.900 So at 2018 is younger than 28.

01:03:30.580 You are going to know way more at 28 than you did at 18.

01:03:34.280 That is, that is enough of an age gap to give advice and wisdom, right?

01:03:38.720 But by older women, this is everything. 1.00

01:03:40.260 I'm saying, I, I, I, because there's a difference between a 28 year old and a 50 year old.

01:03:45.340 The 28 year old telling me what to do, you know.

01:03:47.040 Older is older than the person you're giving advice to.

01:03:50.200 Dear God, I didn't say a grandma.

01:03:53.960 I said older.

01:03:54.660 Who's the oldest in the room?

01:03:56.160 Because I'll listen to you.

01:03:57.640 18, 18, 18, 18, 18, 20.

01:04:01.120 That's 10 years.

01:04:02.080 Mommy.

01:04:02.780 That's 10 years, right?

01:04:04.960 And so my point is, she was just arguing that they can't not have a one night stand.

01:04:10.840 This is a trend.

01:04:11.940 Older women, oftentimes, I'm not saying there's not exceptions. 1.00

01:04:15.620 Do not help younger women. 1.00

01:04:17.560 This is why a lot of times when we, we do have older women on the show and they give go advice, 1.00

01:04:22.240 good advice, they go stupid viral. 0.99

01:04:25.180 Do you not think about a good example? 1.00

01:04:27.480 So I'm 28.

01:04:28.800 My cousin, a very attractive young lady, very pretty, very gorgeous.

01:04:35.080 She's 19, messaged me the other day and said, I want to start an OnlyFans.

01:04:40.560 I said, no freaking way.

01:04:43.140 Do not. 0.59

01:04:44.020 Do not.

01:04:44.960 You dare. 1.00

01:04:45.840 I will kill you. 1.00

01:04:47.380 Correct. 1.00

01:04:47.540 She's like, you do it.

01:04:48.780 I'm like, but I'm 28.

01:04:50.600 I've got thick skin now.

01:04:52.420 Like, I get it.

01:04:53.420 I take all of the stuff that comes with it.

01:04:56.100 It destroys your life when you start it and you get over it.

01:04:59.200 If you started, only if I'm 18.

01:05:00.740 I'm like, if I started that when I was her age, I don't know if I would survive.

01:05:05.260 I probably wouldn't be here.

01:05:06.260 So I'm like, I've been the older woman.

01:05:08.400 So what's keeping you going?

01:05:09.100 But you see.

01:05:09.560 If you understand that it.

01:05:10.580 I'm mature enough to tell the men to shut the hell up and ignore it.

01:05:15.460 And I'm tunnel vision on my own life. 0.92

01:05:17.200 I do not give a F what anyone says.

01:05:19.960 Is it just a mom?

01:05:20.500 But you see, but this is the point of, this is the point of the fact that older,

01:05:23.700 that women typically don't give good advice. 1.00

01:05:25.960 I'm giving good advice.

01:05:26.840 Do not do it.

01:05:28.080 No, that's not good advice.

01:05:28.880 Because you understand the reality.

01:05:29.720 But you're not trying to change it.

01:05:30.620 Can I land my point?

01:05:31.860 You think my cousin's not me?

01:05:33.180 Are you going to wait for me to make my point?

01:05:35.360 You can go, hun.

01:05:36.680 Thank you.

01:05:37.400 So my point is, you said to her, oh, don't do it because this and that.

01:05:43.600 And then she said, you do it.

01:05:44.740 And then your response was, yeah, but I have thicker skin now.

01:05:48.000 That is literally the worst thing you can say.

01:05:50.560 I guess what you're saying is you're not treating it by example.

01:05:53.160 And this is different between men and women.

01:05:54.760 I'll tell you why.

01:05:55.640 If you give me a second and listen, you will hear why.

01:05:58.520 If a man is giving advice to a young person and he's saying this is bad,

01:06:03.060 he's going to tell him this is bad because,

01:06:05.640 it's simple and you'll give him the reasons why it's bad.

01:06:08.020 There is not going to be any caveat for why it could have been good

01:06:11.520 or why maybe now it works for me.

01:06:13.780 It is bad.

01:06:14.360 It is bad.

01:06:15.080 Don't do it.

01:06:15.760 Don't do it.

01:06:16.540 But what you're doing is you're saying it's bad.

01:06:18.520 Okay.

01:06:19.040 But there are certain circumstances under which it could work.

01:06:22.120 Okay.

01:06:22.340 Like for instance, when you have thicker skin.

01:06:24.860 That is the way women approach. 1.00

01:06:25.420 You have, I've told you the very brief story.

01:06:28.540 No.

01:06:28.940 To what I told her.

01:06:29.980 I told her that I had very bad mental health.

01:06:33.640 I didn't want to be alive when I first started it.

01:06:36.120 It went very deep.

01:06:37.200 Good.

01:06:37.300 And I understand that.

01:06:37.460 And I said a lot of deep stuff.

01:06:39.080 But what you don't understand is that.

01:06:41.100 I went very deep with my cousin.

01:06:43.020 So I've not said this on the podcast, but I'll say it now.

01:06:45.660 No, but that's good.

01:06:46.040 But you still put the caveat.

01:06:47.460 And I'm not saying this to you specifically.

01:06:49.200 I'm saying it because it's a trend I've seen with women, 0.99

01:06:51.600 even on different other kinds of topics.

01:06:54.040 Like for instance, a woman will ask a question like, 0.97

01:06:56.380 do you think sex work is good?

01:06:58.900 Or do you think women should be promiscuous? 1.00

01:07:00.480 And then she'll say, well, for me, I don't think it's a good thing.

01:07:04.920 But if other women want to do it, that's fine. 1.00

01:07:07.260 That is the way women give advice. 1.00

01:07:08.480 And that is wrong.

01:07:09.520 If something is your principle, you need to stand by it.

01:07:12.940 I think it's a choice.

01:07:14.160 But can I just say something?

01:07:15.920 In her defense, she didn't actually say that it was okay to do.

01:07:21.180 What she said is she wouldn't have done it.

01:07:24.380 Basically, if she'd known then what she knows now,

01:07:28.380 she wouldn't have done it.

01:07:29.540 I would not do it.

01:07:30.240 And she wouldn't advise someone to do it.

01:07:34.460 And she has had to grow thick skin. 0.96

01:07:36.720 But she didn't say that anyone should do it.

01:07:38.600 She's basically saying something that a lot of women are saying. 1.00

01:07:41.600 I have a question.

01:07:42.200 You said none at that age.

01:07:43.980 At any age.

01:07:44.860 She said none at that age.

01:07:46.640 No, but I feel like you're kind of picking.

01:07:48.880 You're not a woman at 18.

01:07:50.040 But you didn't mean in general, you know,

01:07:52.500 because she's given the age of, you've said an 18-year-old,

01:07:56.160 what advice would you give?

01:07:57.740 No, I don't.

01:07:58.780 But this is the point.

01:07:59.720 Like, if she put the caveat, I wouldn't at that age.

01:08:03.680 And that is the point that he is making.

01:08:05.340 So, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, I'm going to let you go.

01:08:09.980 But wait, you guys cannot talk over the host.

01:08:12.200 I've told you guys 10 times.

01:08:14.120 Okay, so if he says, I'm going to drug deal, I wouldn't do it at that age.

01:08:18.540 That is a completely different message than I wouldn't do it.

01:08:21.620 Do it.

01:08:21.940 That is a completely, you can mean one thing, but like, it's not what you are saying.

01:08:26.440 When you communicate it like that, it gives a completely different implication.

01:08:30.900 If I said, oh, I wouldn't drug deal, it can work in some situations.

01:08:36.880 If you maybe are good at avoiding cops or are very slick, that is justifying it.

01:08:43.800 But if you say no, do not do it, do not do it, do not do it, that is clearly being against it.

01:08:51.260 Be definitive.

01:08:51.760 The other one is excusing it in some way, even if you do not mean to.

01:08:56.760 Therefore, one advice is better than the other.

01:08:59.580 Yeah, 100%.

01:09:00.300 I agree with that.

01:09:01.800 Because we're talking about abortion, we're talking about another life. 0.72

01:09:05.140 So, it is your responsibility if you're not trying to have a baby,

01:09:12.240 but you're going to have a baby with someone that you don't want to have a baby with,

01:09:16.120 outside of marriage, let's say, because that person is not secure in your life.

01:09:20.140 Like, I'm not saying your choices are wrong, I'm just saying that when it comes to abortion,

01:09:25.600 you need to think of not just yourself, you have to think of the child and also...

01:09:30.080 It's not a child.

01:09:31.640 It's literally not a child, though.

01:09:33.500 I think every woman should be able to advise, you know, I think what you say is right,

01:09:38.040 you're going to want to advise a younger...

01:09:40.960 You're going to talk in your...

01:09:41.920 I'm sorry.

01:09:43.020 I think you're going to want to advise every young girl, you know, not to sleep around, etc. 0.81

01:09:47.840 And I think in terms of abortion, I think it's such a sensitive topic.

01:09:51.780 I think each has their own and there are reasons and there are backgrounds that we don't know about today

01:09:56.540 and I think that it will be very difficult for any of us to sit here and be like,

01:10:01.060 ah, it's just a fetus, ah, it's just a baby, let's just...

01:10:04.700 I think, you know, I don't think that any of us have the right to comment on abortion

01:10:08.660 and whether or not it's right because of the circumstances.

01:10:10.140 I agree, though, that you definitely shouldn't.

01:10:13.480 Everyone should advise a woman to do better and not to be. 1.00

01:10:16.600 But they're not as forward, though.

01:10:17.940 And it proves at the start of the show when we were talking about the fact that we don't tend to be forward.

01:10:23.160 Well, that's different because this is talking about the influence on younger children growing up

01:10:27.100 and how they are in society.

01:10:28.160 And I don't like this idea that we can police what people can and can't talk about.

01:10:32.600 Like, we can't have an opinion on things.

01:10:34.600 That's the whole point of podcasting is to have an opinion on everything.

01:10:37.200 Yeah, and so I think when it comes to abortion, you certainly can't.

01:10:41.100 I think it's wrong.

01:10:42.180 I don't think there's any exceptions.

01:10:44.000 I think it's always wrong, no matter your situation.

01:10:46.660 Yeah, but here's what I get.

01:10:47.060 I mean, you have a unique DNA code that's separate from the mothers and fathers. 0.94

01:10:52.820 That it determines eye color.

01:10:54.920 This is from conception.

01:10:56.320 Eye color, height, personality traits.

01:10:59.080 It's completely different from the mom and the dads.

01:11:02.520 I mean, you know, some people, I'm just saying,

01:11:04.920 I know you're going to say that it's, like, very, very rare.

01:11:08.880 But I'm just saying there are sometimes cases where, you know,

01:11:12.180 people can't have the child. 0.55

01:11:13.420 It's either you have to take the child's life or the mother's life. 0.97

01:11:17.380 In that, what would you say then?

01:11:21.620 From what I've read on that, that's very, very rare.

01:11:25.320 I knew you.

01:11:25.580 I just said you were going to say that.

01:11:26.860 I know.

01:11:27.220 Wait.

01:11:27.700 Wait.

01:11:28.120 Jesus.

01:11:29.020 Wait.

01:11:30.420 Because I'm going to get to the answer.

01:11:32.500 Wait.

01:11:32.700 It's really rare.

01:11:35.040 But what I would say is that if it was me,

01:11:39.120 I would always want the kid to live.

01:11:41.160 That's just my, that's my, like, I just think as a mother,

01:11:43.860 you're supposed to be selfless.

01:11:45.820 And we have a generation of mothers that are selfish. 1.00

01:11:48.520 It's me, me, me, me first, my career first, my feelings first,

01:11:52.200 and my happiness first.

01:11:54.320 So if you got pregnant tomorrow.

01:11:56.460 I would, look, I just genuinely think when you have a kid,

01:11:59.700 you're supposed to love it more than yourself.

01:12:01.220 Well, you can't love it if you're dead.

01:12:04.340 Well, isn't that the ultimate act of love, though?

01:12:07.880 Sacrificing your life for it?

01:12:09.280 I know what you're saying.

01:12:09.760 But you asked me what I would do.

01:12:12.260 I think there's some.

01:12:14.920 Do you not think it would be a really sad life without a mother?

01:12:18.720 Yeah.

01:12:19.300 It would be really sad.

01:12:20.360 But we go back.

01:12:21.420 Does that mean they can't?

01:12:22.760 Have a life.

01:12:23.340 Yeah, they can't have a life.

01:12:23.920 What about if you already had a child,

01:12:26.220 and then you fell pregnant again,

01:12:27.640 and it was your life or that child's life?

01:12:28.340 Why did I say fall pregnant?

01:12:29.880 I hate that phrase.

01:12:31.120 Like, what?

01:12:31.440 Okay.

01:12:32.120 She fell over and got pregnant. 1.00

01:12:33.880 She fell over on that dick. 1.00

01:12:35.500 She knew what she was doing. 1.00

01:12:38.200 You asked me what I would do.

01:12:40.600 I believe that the child's life's more important than my own.

01:12:43.960 That's what I would do if I was in that situation.

01:12:47.020 I was just genuinely curious.

01:12:48.600 Yeah.

01:12:49.080 I think we should just have baselines on things as well.

01:12:51.080 Like, can't we just have a baseline of, look, that's bad,

01:12:52.960 and then maybe we can listen to if it's grape or whatever.

01:12:55.680 Yeah, but that's the thing.

01:12:56.580 There's what's bad.

01:12:57.340 I'm just saying the baseline should.

01:12:58.700 I might make the rules.

01:12:59.480 You're not God.

01:13:00.180 I might start making rules.

01:13:01.740 There's so many different scenarios.

01:13:03.460 So you don't think that the baseline is bad?

01:13:05.180 I'm going to start making bad rules.

01:13:06.680 Having abortion?

01:13:07.500 Yeah.

01:13:07.960 Just, is it bad?

01:13:09.600 Is it bad?

01:13:10.460 Forget the scenario just for a second.

01:13:11.960 Is it bad?

01:13:13.260 For me personally,

01:13:14.140 It's an opinion.

01:13:14.760 I think that it depends on the situation.

01:13:17.960 It's a bad way.

01:13:18.700 That's what he's asking.

01:13:19.180 But see, but this is the point.

01:13:20.640 But that's my opinion.

01:13:21.540 We know you're entitled to an opinion.

01:13:26.220 We know.

01:13:27.140 Like, duh.

01:13:29.440 Obviously.

01:13:30.680 But the whole point is like women can't say that things are bad. 1.00

01:13:34.460 So it's not, they don't give,

01:13:35.880 even older women don't give good information to younger women 1.00

01:13:38.760 that we can't even say killing your kid is bad.

01:13:41.100 You know what's even funnier? 0.98

01:13:43.040 And it's funny that a lot of women don't even realize this. 1.00

01:13:46.000 The effect of abortion,

01:13:48.080 the effect abortion has on women

01:13:50.060 is actually even more devastating

01:13:51.740 than going through the pregnancy.

01:13:54.080 And it's funny how,

01:13:55.320 and it's crazy because,

01:13:56.340 it's crazy.

01:13:57.040 It sounds like from experience

01:13:58.680 that you're saying this.

01:14:00.920 I'm an adult male

01:14:02.440 who can do research

01:14:03.600 into things I'm interested in.

01:14:04.900 But you're not a woman though. 1.00

01:14:05.760 You've never been through it.

01:14:06.640 How can you say that?

01:14:07.320 Unless you've been through it.

01:14:08.100 I don't know.

01:14:08.540 There's actually research out,

01:14:12.080 there's actually research on these things.

01:14:13.440 Research does nothing towards the real thing though.

01:14:15.860 Anyways, as I was saying,

01:14:17.300 Yeah, go on, now go on.

01:14:18.140 It's like facts and research.

01:14:19.840 There's effects that abortion has on women. 1.00

01:14:23.640 There's psychological effects.

01:14:25.280 There's physical damage effect.

01:14:27.160 There's the fact that

01:14:27.800 you might never be able to have kids again.

01:14:30.060 So, it's funny how,

01:14:32.020 the reason why you don't know

01:14:32.980 that this exists

01:14:33.560 is because they purposely

01:14:34.760 don't push it out

01:14:35.640 because they want more abortions. 1.00

01:14:37.060 And that's why you don't know.

01:14:37.880 Not because it doesn't exist.

01:14:38.980 Why would they want more abortions? 1.00

01:14:40.240 It's because you're ignorant to the fact. 0.99

01:14:41.920 Do you know why? 0.98

01:14:41.940 You know more than me.

01:14:42.800 It's a whole industry.

01:14:43.880 Do you know why?

01:14:44.500 It's true.

01:14:45.000 That's why you thought

01:14:45.780 that they were just tissues.

01:14:47.320 Because they don't actually tell you

01:14:48.600 what consists of the procedure.

01:14:51.500 Do you know where contraception

01:14:52.720 and Planned Parenthood

01:14:53.480 and abortion came from? 0.92

01:14:55.440 Do you know what eugenics is?

01:14:57.280 Yes.

01:14:57.600 That's what it is. 0.73

01:15:00.020 It's literally to eradicate people.

01:15:01.560 It was invented as a form of genocide.

01:15:03.620 Yeah.

01:15:03.980 They're not going to push that out there

01:15:05.140 because then they're not going to be able

01:15:06.080 to sell it, are they?

01:15:07.500 So, everyone who has an abortion 0.91

01:15:08.940 is basically Hitler. 0.66

01:15:09.520 Some people need it,

01:15:09.540 but some people need it. 0.99

01:15:11.240 That's ridiculous. 0.92

01:15:12.320 As in, I don't need to go for it. 0.98

01:15:14.680 Why don't you go for it?

01:15:15.540 Why don't you go for it?

01:15:15.680 Why don't you go for it?

01:15:15.840 I actually can't believe it. 0.99

01:15:16.780 I think rape it. 1.00

01:15:17.460 This has even been said. 0.99

01:15:18.380 I think rape it. 1.00

01:15:18.700 Sorry. 0.87

01:15:18.940 I think we're talking about women a lot here. 0.89

01:15:21.120 I think often in circumstances

01:15:22.580 what we get in this day and age

01:15:24.020 is that a woman would get pregnant 0.99

01:15:26.060 and be willing to mother the child,

01:15:27.880 et cetera, but a man would ask

01:15:30.120 that that child get pregnant. 0.88

01:15:30.800 How many abortions do you feel

01:15:31.940 could happen if men could get pregnant? 1.00

01:15:34.060 But why are they sleeping with those men? 1.00

01:15:35.440 A lot more than fucking women. 1.00

01:15:36.740 I'm just putting it out 1.00

01:15:37.560 that they're sleeping with each other.

01:15:39.020 There's probably equal liability

01:15:41.140 on each side.

01:15:42.340 No, I think women have the option 1.00

01:15:44.160 to be on birth control plan B

01:15:45.980 and other forms of contraception. 0.99

01:15:47.060 Men can wear a condom.

01:15:47.340 Contraception.

01:15:48.200 But the thing is,

01:15:49.100 the only person that has all the information

01:15:51.560 when it comes to getting pregnant

01:15:53.820 is the woman.

01:15:54.840 So the woman knows 0.70

01:15:55.640 if she's on contraception.

01:15:56.900 The woman knows 0.92

01:15:57.500 if she's going to take a plan B.

01:15:58.900 The man, she could lie about that to the man.

01:16:01.160 If the condom,

01:16:01.980 the woman knows 0.92

01:16:03.880 if he's wearing a condom or not.

01:16:06.340 Right?

01:16:06.860 So does the man.

01:16:08.160 I understand,

01:16:09.260 but the man doesn't know for sure

01:16:10.680 if she's on birth control.

01:16:12.120 So that's why I think

01:16:13.620 the woman has more responsibility 1.00

01:16:15.240 because she knows

01:16:16.460 if she's ovulating or not.

01:16:18.460 Yeah.

01:16:18.840 That's only three days a month.

01:16:20.100 Not just that,

01:16:20.660 but who has...

01:16:21.580 I agree with that.

01:16:23.480 I agree with that.

01:16:24.200 Who ends up with the baby?

01:16:26.860 Who goes through more

01:16:27.700 of the traumatic...

01:16:28.860 Well, isn't it...

01:16:29.700 Hold on.

01:16:30.420 Who goes through more being pregnant? 1.00

01:16:32.600 So after we've had sex here,

01:16:33.800 who goes through more, 0.83

01:16:34.540 me or you?

01:16:35.520 Well, this is why

01:16:36.380 your decision influences a female, 1.00

01:16:38.220 isn't it?

01:16:38.680 And I'm sitting here saying...

01:16:39.680 No, but you know what I'm saying?

01:16:40.120 I'm trying to figure out

01:16:41.480 who goes through more.

01:16:42.680 Who should be more responsible

01:16:45.000 over-contraception?

01:16:46.120 And that's what I'm saying.

01:16:47.160 This is why I'm wondering

01:16:48.120 how some men influence

01:16:49.700 a woman's decision

01:16:50.580 about whether they should

01:16:52.080 keep a baby,

01:16:52.780 whether they should not

01:16:53.480 keep a baby,

01:16:54.620 when in fact they both made it.

01:16:56.060 Both took the same risk.

01:16:57.100 I don't think it's fair.

01:16:58.780 But I'm saying...

01:16:59.400 If you've been deliberately

01:17:00.740 deceived, it's different.

01:17:02.240 Have we both made the same risk?

01:17:03.600 But the woman has all the choice. 0.74

01:17:06.160 So the woman gets to choose 0.99

01:17:07.320 whether or not she's on birth control.

01:17:08.840 The woman gets to choose 1.00

01:17:09.780 whether or not she's on the plan.

01:17:11.340 It's not the same.

01:17:11.860 The woman... 1.00

01:17:12.880 If you check and you carry out...

01:17:14.620 Okay, okay, okay.

01:17:15.380 Question, question.

01:17:16.220 Wait, wait.

01:17:17.220 Question.

01:17:18.140 Whose choice is it

01:17:19.160 to be on birth control or not?

01:17:20.380 Man or woman? 0.95

01:17:21.320 The woman's. 0.63

01:17:22.120 Okay, okay, okay.

01:17:22.900 Please, please.

01:17:23.620 One word answer, please.

01:17:25.460 Whose choice is it

01:17:26.280 to take the plan B?

01:17:27.180 Man or woman? 0.95

01:17:27.860 A woman would take the pill. 1.00

01:17:29.160 Okay, okay.

01:17:29.500 Whose choice is it...

01:17:30.360 Wait, wait, wait.

01:17:31.540 Whose choice is it

01:17:32.700 to get an abortion? 1.00

01:17:34.640 The woman's. 0.63

01:17:35.480 It should be the woman's. 1.00

01:17:36.420 Okay, whose choice is it

01:17:38.080 to give up the kid

01:17:39.240 for adoption or not?

01:17:40.800 The woman's, definitely. 0.98

01:17:41.560 Okay, so the woman 0.95

01:17:42.500 has more choice.

01:17:44.000 Yeah.

01:17:44.460 Therefore, it comes

01:17:45.760 with more responsibility.

01:17:47.620 It does for the woman.

01:17:48.780 I agree with you on that point.

01:17:49.680 Who generally gets child support,

01:17:51.200 men or women?

01:17:52.440 I agree with you on that point.

01:17:53.520 My point is that

01:17:54.260 men influence some women

01:17:55.480 in their decision.

01:17:56.560 Excuse me.

01:17:57.040 I don't think so.

01:17:57.760 Who control sex?

01:17:58.660 I think that...

01:17:59.320 Who controls sex? 1.00

01:18:00.240 Men.

01:18:00.700 What?

01:18:01.220 Men.

01:18:01.340 What?

01:18:01.620 What?

01:18:02.520 Who has the key to sex? 0.74

01:18:04.060 Both participants

01:18:05.460 control sex. 0.96

01:18:07.160 It depends on...

01:18:08.280 Anyway, we're not going to go there.

01:18:09.620 But no, definitely.

01:18:10.900 I think that, you know,

01:18:13.120 it is definitely

01:18:13.900 the woman's responsibility. 0.98

01:18:15.820 I'm not going to lie

01:18:16.540 because it's...

01:18:18.300 I've always felt that myself.

01:18:19.440 Can I just say something?

01:18:19.960 No, hold on.

01:18:20.300 Why?

01:18:20.920 Hold on.

01:18:21.340 Hold on.

01:18:21.560 Hold on.

01:18:21.780 Hold on.

01:18:22.060 Hold on.

01:18:22.560 Hold on.

01:18:22.680 Hold on.

01:18:23.000 Hold on.

01:18:23.560 Hold on.

01:18:24.060 Guys, guys, guys.

01:18:26.120 She's trying to make a point.

01:18:26.840 That is why I'm saying

01:18:29.140 that, you know, 0.98

01:18:30.700 to have frivolous sex 0.98

01:18:33.140 with people, 0.99

01:18:34.420 like, okay,

01:18:35.440 that is your decision

01:18:36.300 whether or not you want to.

01:18:37.840 But ultimately,

01:18:40.020 that comes with a risk,

01:18:41.900 you know,

01:18:42.260 of you falling pregnant.

01:18:43.680 It is up to you

01:18:44.580 whether you have the child.

01:18:46.020 I've known people

01:18:47.100 that have lied to men

01:18:48.260 and said that they're

01:18:48.900 on contraception.

01:18:50.320 You know,

01:18:50.540 and unfortunately,

01:18:51.540 there are a lot of men

01:18:52.780 out there that have children.

01:18:54.160 I'm not saying

01:18:54.680 they couldn't have strapped up,

01:18:55.720 but at the same time,

01:18:57.600 you know,

01:18:58.040 it's your body.

01:18:59.100 You're the one

01:18:59.480 that's going to carry the child. 0.91

01:19:01.000 Do you know what I mean?

01:19:01.500 So you have to take responsibility

01:19:03.620 as to who you're lying down with.

01:19:07.800 Yeah.

01:19:08.220 You know,

01:19:08.540 you can't,

01:19:09.800 you do.

01:19:10.340 Yeah, you do.

01:19:11.520 Women do control that. 1.00

01:19:12.800 You control sex. 0.93

01:19:13.760 Women control sex. 1.00

01:19:14.680 Yeah, come on. 0.96

01:19:15.580 I think there's no

01:19:16.320 black and white answer.

01:19:17.320 No, they do.

01:19:18.160 They do.

01:19:18.720 I think there's no

01:19:19.540 black and white answer.

01:19:20.620 I think it's,

01:19:22.100 you know,

01:19:22.300 there's a number

01:19:23.280 of different scenarios here

01:19:24.700 as to what can happen.

01:19:25.360 I want to point out

01:19:26.500 something.

01:19:28.900 Whenever it's like

01:19:29.460 an answer that

01:19:30.140 makes women look bad, 0.96

01:19:31.880 the gut reaction

01:19:32.720 is always

01:19:33.140 there's no

01:19:33.580 black and white answer.

01:19:35.140 Like that's always,

01:19:35.860 that's always.

01:19:36.480 No, I agree

01:19:37.160 that it's bad

01:19:37.900 if a woman influences

01:19:39.060 a child

01:19:39.980 as to say

01:19:40.380 that it's okay

01:19:41.000 to be having sex 0.91

01:19:42.140 unprotected. 0.97

01:19:42.860 I think that's bad.

01:19:43.780 I acknowledge that.

01:19:44.820 But I'm just saying

01:19:45.360 that in general terms,

01:19:47.680 that when it comes

01:19:48.200 to abortions

01:19:48.940 and sex 0.89

01:19:49.560 and having unprotected sex, 0.97

01:19:50.820 I think it's very

01:19:51.920 black and white

01:19:52.540 and you would need

01:19:53.140 to know the circumstances

01:19:54.100 of each

01:19:54.800 and every individual.

01:19:56.460 Well, they have it.

01:19:57.140 They survey women 1.00

01:19:57.960 on the reasons

01:19:58.540 they got abortion.

01:19:59.320 98% are elective.

01:20:02.900 And this is from

01:20:03.580 the NHS website.

01:20:05.080 But I mean,

01:20:05.480 ultimately,

01:20:06.080 you know,

01:20:06.740 the woman houses 0.97

01:20:07.560 the child

01:20:08.280 so it is

01:20:09.040 her decision.

01:20:10.860 It doesn't matter.

01:20:11.560 You know,

01:20:11.940 ultimately,

01:20:12.780 if a man could sit there

01:20:14.020 and tell you,

01:20:14.360 I don't want a child

01:20:15.120 or, you know,

01:20:15.980 it's not the right time

01:20:16.920 or whatever it is

01:20:17.700 that they're going to say

01:20:18.320 and try and convince you

01:20:19.340 until they're blue in the face.

01:20:20.440 But ultimately,

01:20:21.240 it's your decision

01:20:22.320 whether or not you go

01:20:23.520 and have that procedure.

01:20:24.900 It is.

01:20:25.780 Okay.

01:20:26.140 We're going to go

01:20:27.200 to the next one.

01:20:28.460 So now imagine,

01:20:29.160 imagine.

01:20:30.400 I want to point out,

01:20:35.020 I want to point out,

01:20:36.180 I want to point out

01:20:37.000 if I had a list

01:20:37.900 of what,

01:20:39.280 I'm going to try

01:20:40.120 this one show,

01:20:40.980 a list of what men want

01:20:42.700 or what women want 1.00

01:20:43.920 from men.

01:20:44.980 I just,

01:20:45.360 I don't think

01:20:45.980 we would be this many. 1.00

01:20:47.220 A big fat cock. 1.00

01:20:50.280 Yeah, 1.00

01:20:50.580 I don't.

01:20:51.400 Okay.

01:20:54.400 To buy my anything.

01:20:56.560 So the next thing

01:20:58.320 that this is something,

01:21:00.400 the next thing I have

01:21:01.240 is something

01:21:01.640 that men do compromise

01:21:03.040 on in 2023.

01:21:04.580 They really do.

01:21:05.540 Oh, really?

01:21:06.060 But it would be a plot.

01:21:07.160 Men compromise? 0.89

01:21:08.240 That's new to me.

01:21:09.340 Well, well.

01:21:11.140 Sorry,

01:21:11.660 one second.

01:21:12.500 Ladies, 1.00

01:21:13.860 I'm just going

01:21:14.400 to give one more warning,

01:21:15.340 please.

01:21:15.660 Let's try

01:21:16.860 and just be decent here.

01:21:19.000 Like,

01:21:19.280 if she's trying

01:21:19.740 to make a point,

01:21:20.380 we're just over-talking

01:21:21.220 and then,

01:21:21.880 you know what,

01:21:22.240 people at home

01:21:22.680 are not hearing anything.

01:21:24.020 All right.

01:21:24.460 So, yeah,

01:21:24.940 I get it.

01:21:25.480 It's a conversation

01:21:26.180 we want to all chip in,

01:21:28.060 but let's just try

01:21:29.500 and be civil here.

01:21:30.520 Thank you.

01:21:31.020 Okay.

01:21:31.600 So,

01:21:32.260 thank you, King.

01:21:33.120 So,

01:21:33.660 all right,

01:21:34.020 this is something

01:21:34.760 that men do compromise

01:21:35.980 in 2023.

01:21:37.840 Yes,

01:21:38.100 I know you guys

01:21:38.960 are kidding around

01:21:39.860 and saying men,

01:21:41.400 well,

01:21:41.700 men compromise.

01:21:42.520 Oh,

01:21:42.640 they compromise a lot.

01:21:43.660 The average woman's 0.98

01:21:44.300 170 pounds.

01:21:45.560 90%,

01:21:48.820 you know,

01:21:49.680 one out of threes

01:21:50.280 had an abortion,

01:21:51.280 one out of threes

01:21:51.900 had an STBD,

01:21:53.300 and 90% have been

01:21:54.680 on birth control

01:21:55.360 at some point

01:21:55.900 in their lives.

01:21:56.440 So,

01:21:56.700 a hundred years ago,

01:21:58.100 the average woman 0.99

01:21:58.720 was 120 pounds

01:22:00.200 and would give him

01:22:01.520 seven children.

01:22:02.700 Now,

01:22:02.960 the average woman 0.99

01:22:03.460 gives 1.5.

01:22:05.420 So,

01:22:05.980 men do,

01:22:06.540 men do compromise,

01:22:07.760 and men are compromising

01:22:08.800 on this in 2023.

01:22:10.500 I know it.

01:22:10.820 But this is pretty nice

01:22:12.100 if they get it.

01:22:12.860 Let's point,

01:22:13.420 let's bring it up.

01:22:14.880 Maybe some domestic skills.

01:22:16.880 Men would really,

01:22:21.440 they do enjoy

01:22:22.440 when the women 0.99

01:22:23.040 can cook,

01:22:24.000 clean,

01:22:25.180 and really have

01:22:25.880 traditional,

01:22:27.540 maybe we're a nanny 0.94

01:22:28.840 or something.

01:22:29.940 I've heard from the guys,

01:22:31.380 they like the nannies,

01:22:32.560 they're nice,

01:22:33.400 you know,

01:22:33.940 good with the kids,

01:22:35.280 domestic skills.

01:22:36.420 Isn't that like standard?

01:22:37.820 Don't you have to cook

01:22:38.680 food to eat,

01:22:40.280 like to live?

01:22:41.240 You'd be surprised

01:22:42.140 how many people

01:22:42.840 come on here

01:22:43.460 and can't.

01:22:44.580 I don't understand.

01:22:45.260 You'd be,

01:22:45.720 I mean,

01:22:45.980 well,

01:22:46.200 if you look at the,

01:22:47.120 like,

01:22:47.440 takeout orders

01:22:48.460 are going up,

01:22:49.780 you know,

01:22:50.280 I mean,

01:22:50.560 you can eat out

01:22:51.280 a million times.

01:22:52.400 But it's not healthy.

01:22:54.260 Yeah,

01:22:54.420 but this is the world

01:22:55.120 we've created.

01:22:55.780 For example,

01:22:56.300 like my generation,

01:22:57.580 Gen Z,

01:22:58.080 we've grown up

01:22:59.220 in a world

01:22:59.780 where you've got

01:23:00.940 fast food on your doorstep

01:23:02.120 in seconds,

01:23:02.680 you've got Amazon delivery

01:23:03.620 the next day.

01:23:04.220 How old are you?

01:23:05.400 I'm 23.

01:23:06.580 So,

01:23:06.920 my daughter's 21

01:23:07.760 and she cooks 1.00

01:23:08.860 every single day.

01:23:10.000 She's likely

01:23:11.300 got that from you

01:23:12.660 though,

01:23:12.840 I presume.

01:23:13.380 And she cleans 0.84

01:23:14.200 every day.

01:23:15.260 My point is

01:23:15.760 that not everyone

01:23:16.380 is like that.

01:23:17.020 I don't know.

01:23:17.640 So,

01:23:17.860 I'll say that.

01:23:18.500 I'm saying a lot

01:23:19.200 of people who come here,

01:23:20.260 especially my generation,

01:23:21.520 will say,

01:23:22.160 like,

01:23:22.260 I'm not going to cook,

01:23:24.520 I'm not going to clean.

01:23:25.260 They don't have that.

01:23:26.720 They don't have that.

01:23:27.360 But fast food tastes

01:23:28.380 so plastic,

01:23:28.960 like I said.

01:23:29.380 It doesn't taste well.

01:23:29.660 I know,

01:23:30.100 but people love it.

01:23:30.640 You can't season it yourself.

01:23:31.380 People love it.

01:23:32.680 I agree with you.

01:23:33.880 It's a clarify.

01:23:34.540 Not everyone can cook though.

01:23:36.500 Really?

01:23:36.880 Like,

01:23:37.100 some people are generally

01:23:37.820 really bad in a kitchen.

01:23:38.740 That is a basic skill

01:23:40.240 to have.

01:23:41.260 There are some people

01:23:43.120 that can't just take it.

01:23:44.380 Hold on,

01:23:45.000 it's a skill.

01:23:45.720 You don't stand in the kitchen

01:23:46.800 with your aunties

01:23:47.820 and everyone watch them

01:23:48.820 season up the food.

01:23:49.560 I never had that,

01:23:53.600 like,

01:23:53.720 when I was growing up.

01:23:54.520 I have a question.

01:23:55.280 I have a question.

01:23:55.680 Do you really think,

01:23:56.440 please God,

01:23:57.440 please God.

01:23:58.000 Do you really think

01:23:59.420 in 2023,

01:24:00.620 most women 0.99

01:24:01.440 under 30

01:24:02.700 know how to cook?

01:24:03.640 Yeah.

01:24:04.220 Yeah.

01:24:04.420 I'm being honest with you.

01:24:05.820 So you're teaching me something

01:24:07.400 because to me,

01:24:08.220 that's normal.

01:24:08.920 We would hope that they can.

01:24:10.400 Even my 14-year-old

01:24:11.980 can cook.

01:24:12.560 Yeah,

01:24:12.920 no,

01:24:13.380 that's not.

01:24:13.800 No,

01:24:14.040 that's not good.

01:24:15.000 I think it depends.

01:24:16.480 Standard.

01:24:17.320 No.

01:24:17.600 I would teach my little one

01:24:18.720 how to cook.

01:24:19.400 The most popular,

01:24:20.120 if you haven't had that,

01:24:21.840 if you haven't had that,

01:24:22.960 then.

01:24:23.340 The most popular phrase

01:24:24.200 in 2023 is,

01:24:25.000 I don't need no man. 0.98

01:24:25.860 You really think

01:24:26.720 these women are cooking for. 1.00

01:24:27.620 Let's think of a popular song.

01:24:29.900 Why would this resonate

01:24:31.000 with so many people?

01:24:32.520 I don't cook,

01:24:33.440 I don't clean.

01:24:34.420 Like why?

01:24:36.540 Like the only reason

01:24:37.840 songs get popular

01:24:39.160 is because people

01:24:39.940 resonate with them.

01:24:42.620 Who is that?

01:24:43.120 Cardi B or something?

01:24:43.940 Cardi B.

01:24:44.220 Yes,

01:24:44.500 yes.

01:24:45.040 There's a reason this song.

01:24:46.340 Oh, you know.

01:24:46.980 Don't act like you didn't know.

01:24:48.340 Don't act like you didn't know.

01:24:49.540 I have to think about it

01:24:50.300 for a second.

01:24:50.820 But that says it all.

01:24:53.280 No,

01:24:53.460 but what's so funny

01:24:54.180 is Offset posted a video

01:24:55.400 of her actually cooking

01:24:56.580 and cleaning. 0.97

01:24:57.040 Exactly.

01:24:57.600 Like why are you

01:24:58.260 lying to people?

01:24:59.440 Same with the answer.

01:24:59.920 It's even easier.

01:25:00.920 Same with the answer.

01:25:02.060 Yes,

01:25:02.280 yes.

01:25:02.560 That's what happens.

01:25:03.400 These music influencers

01:25:05.380 tell you all of these

01:25:06.340 to the left,

01:25:06.860 to the left.

01:25:07.360 Again,

01:25:07.780 it's older women 0.98

01:25:08.600 telling younger women

01:25:09.480 things that they don't stand by.

01:25:10.620 But do people actually listen

01:25:10.960 to that and think

01:25:11.520 that that's real life?

01:25:12.300 Yes.

01:25:12.580 Yes.

01:25:13.020 Yeah.

01:25:13.400 She tells you to put

01:25:13.980 the box in the left

01:25:14.820 and goes back to Jay-Z.

01:25:15.640 Goes back to Jay-Z.

01:25:16.460 I don't believe that that should be

01:25:18.940 I don't believe that

01:25:19.520 that should be real life.

01:25:20.420 This is the world we live in.

01:25:21.920 That's not saying

01:25:22.560 Instagram is real.

01:25:24.280 My generation

01:25:25.220 thinks their Instagram page

01:25:26.660 is a personality.

01:25:27.880 Are you too?

01:25:28.660 Yes.

01:25:28.980 More guys now

01:25:30.600 are becoming a little bit

01:25:31.900 more willing to do

01:25:32.860 house chores.

01:25:33.860 They want to like

01:25:34.400 split the chores.

01:25:35.200 Oh, yeah.

01:25:35.840 Like my brother's like 16.

01:25:37.600 He's like when I get married

01:25:38.520 like she doesn't have to cook. 0.98

01:25:39.680 Oh,

01:25:40.000 I'll tell you.

01:25:40.860 I'll tell you.

01:25:41.440 I'll tell you.

01:25:41.780 I'm going to tell you

01:25:43.000 about this new dynamic

01:25:44.040 we're going to see.

01:25:45.240 I'm going to I'm going to

01:25:45.820 I want to I want to tell you

01:25:46.780 about this new dynamic.

01:25:47.920 So we're right now

01:25:49.660 we have a lot of women 1.00

01:25:50.780 that are earning more and more.

01:25:52.580 And I would argue

01:25:53.720 they're in mostly useless jobs

01:25:55.560 that we don't really need

01:25:56.840 like HR

01:25:57.660 and really diversity hires.

01:25:59.580 Like if you see Twitter

01:26:00.660 before and after

01:26:01.640 they hired all these women 1.00

01:26:03.160 in tech

01:26:03.800 that really like 0.70

01:26:05.000 were kind of useless 0.86

01:26:05.860 and then they fired them 0.94

01:26:06.840 when the rubber hits the road.

01:26:08.080 That's how you can tell

01:26:08.720 if they're really needed or not.

01:26:10.040 But not all.

01:26:11.140 Not all.

01:26:11.560 There are some high

01:26:12.360 high earning women 1.00

01:26:13.280 that are very smart

01:26:14.120 and intelligent too.

01:26:15.300 And what you're going to see

01:26:16.220 with those women 0.59

01:26:16.840 I see this a lot

01:26:17.580 with lawyers actually

01:26:18.740 is what the lawyers will do.

01:26:20.680 I'm going to I'm going to

01:26:21.160 use this example

01:26:21.900 as they tend to date

01:26:24.540 the lower earning men

01:26:26.180 because a lot of the lawyer

01:26:27.140 chicks can't get the men 1.00

01:26:28.280 at the law firms

01:26:29.160 or men that make equal money

01:26:30.720 because they tend

01:26:31.440 to be more argumentative

01:26:32.780 and that's not typically

01:26:33.780 what men want.

01:26:34.660 No offense.

01:26:35.700 I'm going to

01:26:36.040 wait, wait, please wait.

01:26:37.720 Thank you.

01:26:38.560 And so what I see they date

01:26:39.980 they tend to go for looks

01:26:41.360 so it's like personal trainers,

01:26:43.500 entertainers and musicians

01:26:45.580 that just seems to be

01:26:46.740 the three they like to go for.

01:26:48.900 Now you're going to see

01:26:50.480 this dynamic

01:26:51.160 where young men

01:26:52.040 will realize

01:26:52.860 that if they just get jacked

01:26:54.760 and learn how to cook and clean

01:26:56.000 that they can just date

01:26:56.740 one of these high earning women 1.00

01:26:57.860 and that's way easier.

01:26:59.400 Yeah.

01:26:59.760 I think for me

01:27:00.600 when it comes to standards

01:27:01.880 and men

01:27:02.620 and if you're a lawyer

01:27:03.360 and you've got these standards

01:27:04.340 I think for me

01:27:05.680 I am

01:27:06.340 but I've got

01:27:06.960 I don't have standards

01:27:08.240 like that.

01:27:08.720 For me I still look for

01:27:09.840 and I can't speak

01:27:10.440 on behalf of all female lawyers

01:27:11.880 but on behalf of me

01:27:13.960 I feel like

01:27:14.780 I'm successful

01:27:15.520 in what I do

01:27:16.100 but I don't look for a man

01:27:17.320 that can match my success

01:27:18.700 but more so

01:27:19.460 for a man

01:27:20.340 that I can connect with

01:27:21.560 and that supports that success

01:27:23.120 and then who we could

01:27:24.420 build with together

01:27:25.320 as opposed to saying

01:27:26.220 he needs to earn

01:27:27.020 this much money

01:27:27.880 he needs to match me

01:27:29.620 I think those are

01:27:30.640 unrealistic expectations

01:27:31.920 and that's not what I do

01:27:33.620 or believe in.

01:27:34.420 That's my point

01:27:35.280 so women 0.99

01:27:35.940 typically high earning women 1.00

01:27:37.600 cannot get the men

01:27:38.720 on their level

01:27:39.400 they typically cannot

01:27:40.940 get men

01:27:41.680 that earn as much

01:27:42.560 as they do

01:27:43.100 typically

01:27:43.600 so what I see them

01:27:45.360 tend to go for

01:27:46.420 is they go

01:27:47.000 they call it connection

01:27:48.320 but it really just means

01:27:49.460 he's hot

01:27:49.980 and he can talk to me

01:27:51.440 It's there only for that

01:27:52.560 I mean

01:27:52.960 I look for somebody

01:27:54.120 that could 0.68

01:27:54.600 Yeah

01:27:55.220 I'm not

01:27:56.700 I'm not talking about

01:27:57.620 you personally

01:27:58.380 Yeah

01:27:58.660 Okay but go ahead

01:27:59.500 I know

01:28:00.280 I'm just saying

01:28:00.900 that me personally

01:28:01.860 and talking about

01:28:02.340 me personally

01:28:02.840 because this is

01:28:03.360 obviously about

01:28:04.060 lawyers and so forth

01:28:05.640 I'm just saying

01:28:06.840 that in terms of me

01:28:07.740 I do not

01:28:08.260 I'm not one of them

01:28:08.700 lawyers that say

01:28:09.260 okay I earn

01:28:10.500 X amount of money

01:28:11.700 so I need a man

01:28:12.500 that can earn

01:28:13.060 double that amount

01:28:14.360 of money

01:28:14.700 I need a man 0.62

01:28:15.440 that can respect

01:28:16.200 what I do

01:28:17.160 encourage me

01:28:18.900 in what I do

01:28:19.560 and simply be there

01:28:20.400 and have the connection

01:28:21.200 and that's it

01:28:21.840 and provide that

01:28:22.720 and be successful

01:28:23.900 with me

01:28:24.260 And typically

01:28:24.840 they're good looking

01:28:25.840 which goes back

01:28:26.700 to my point

01:28:27.600 Oh yeah

01:28:28.260 they would be good looking

01:28:29.960 Exactly

01:28:30.480 For me anyway

01:28:31.220 but everyone

01:28:31.880 has their own opinion

01:28:32.700 I agree with that

01:28:33.640 So that doesn't work

01:28:34.640 So you backed up

01:28:37.280 what exactly

01:28:37.860 the trend

01:28:38.540 that I see now

01:28:39.740 and what I'm going to

01:28:40.740 you are going

01:28:41.900 not the majority

01:28:42.800 of men

01:28:43.260 but you're going

01:28:43.860 to see a group

01:28:44.920 of men

01:28:45.520 that realize

01:28:46.480 it is easier

01:28:47.340 to just learn

01:28:47.980 domestic skills

01:28:48.980 and find a high earning

01:28:50.860 woman 0.99

01:28:51.240 than to get a job

01:28:52.660 But what is that

01:28:53.300 make a ton of money

01:28:54.140 and they'll

01:28:54.400 I don't understand

01:28:55.320 how the domestic skills

01:28:56.880 and the looks

01:28:57.420 of a man

01:28:57.860 are relating here

01:28:58.780 Well because

01:28:59.660 because they typically

01:29:01.160 the women 0.97

01:29:01.800 that are high earning

01:29:02.940 women 1.00

01:29:03.340 I see

01:29:03.940 and just

01:29:04.380 this is just

01:29:04.900 from doing

01:29:05.340 all of these shows

01:29:06.340 and I just see

01:29:07.680 patterns of behavior

01:29:08.860 and what I found

01:29:09.700 is a lot of

01:29:10.260 high earning women 1.00

01:29:11.100 tend to pick

01:29:12.220 some sort of musician

01:29:13.440 you know

01:29:13.860 it's usually

01:29:14.140 the hot guy

01:29:14.780 with the guitar

01:29:15.400 other times

01:29:17.240 the trainer

01:29:18.040 is the most common

01:29:19.060 one that I see

01:29:19.920 a personal trainer

01:29:21.000 and I want to

01:29:27.340 tell you another

01:29:28.000 thing

01:29:28.360 so typically

01:29:29.080 typically

01:29:29.600 if women 0.99

01:29:31.000 have a gut reaction

01:29:32.120 and say

01:29:32.600 I hate that person

01:29:33.840 or that job

01:29:34.680 how would they

01:29:35.620 hate that person

01:29:36.620 if they hadn't

01:29:37.220 dealt with them

01:29:37.820 in the past

01:29:38.500 you'd have to

01:29:39.540 spend time

01:29:40.280 with them

01:29:40.820 and so at some

01:29:41.580 point usually

01:29:42.280 those chicks 1.00

01:29:43.140 have dated

01:29:43.700 or spent time

01:29:44.860 with personal trainers

01:29:45.760 Do you feel the same

01:29:45.780 about men

01:29:46.720 with only fun skills

01:29:47.680 what do you

01:29:49.240 explain that

01:29:49.920 you have to

01:29:50.460 spend time

01:29:51.160 with them

01:29:51.620 to get to know

01:29:52.540 them

01:29:52.800 I feel like

01:29:53.940 you don't

01:29:54.420 no

01:29:54.640 no

01:29:54.920 I don't

01:29:55.460 understand

01:29:55.860 the question

01:29:56.460 you're saying

01:29:57.100 you have to

01:29:57.500 spend time

01:29:58.020 with a personal

01:29:58.680 trainer

01:29:58.960 to get to

01:29:59.420 know them

01:29:59.920 and to have

01:30:00.780 a relationship

01:30:01.520 with them

01:30:01.880 no

01:30:02.080 is that not

01:30:02.960 what you

01:30:03.160 no

01:30:03.520 well I think

01:30:04.080 I think

01:30:04.420 men will spend

01:30:05.380 time with

01:30:06.060 an only fans

01:30:06.740 girl 0.91

01:30:06.960 if you know

01:30:07.260 what I mean

01:30:07.660 yeah for sure

01:30:07.800 yeah yeah

01:30:08.420 that's not

01:30:10.300 the point

01:30:10.820 that's not

01:30:11.660 the point

01:30:12.180 no no

01:30:14.260 I just

01:30:14.600 I find

01:30:15.260 so women 0.99

01:30:15.820 will say

01:30:16.220 oh I hate

01:30:16.900 insert

01:30:17.620 and it's always

01:30:18.080 a profession

01:30:18.720 that women 0.97

01:30:19.320 tend to love 0.64

01:30:20.100 so I hate

01:30:20.680 bouncers 0.86

01:30:21.680 I hate DJs 0.99

01:30:23.020 I hate 0.67

01:30:23.600 personal trainer

01:30:25.380 and it's always

01:30:25.980 like a profession

01:30:27.260 that tends

01:30:28.200 to get women 0.99

01:30:28.960 and usually 0.53

01:30:29.740 they hate them

01:30:30.460 because they've

01:30:30.980 dealt with them

01:30:31.480 at some point

01:30:32.120 and they had

01:30:32.480 like 10 chicks

01:30:33.180 you know

01:30:33.500 I get what

01:30:34.020 you're saying

01:30:34.420 and I think

01:30:35.020 that a lot

01:30:35.920 of

01:30:36.160 okay I'll just

01:30:37.140 speak on behalf

01:30:37.740 of me

01:30:38.120 because I can only

01:30:38.760 really speak

01:30:39.180 on behalf

01:30:39.540 of me

01:30:39.840 but I have

01:30:40.700 realistic expectations

01:30:42.020 I think if there's

01:30:42.600 a professional

01:30:43.120 like you say

01:30:43.700 a lawyer

01:30:44.060 or something

01:30:44.460 out there

01:30:44.800 that's got

01:30:44.980 expectations

01:30:45.580 that a man

01:30:46.940 earns more

01:30:47.560 than her

01:30:47.980 or a man

01:30:48.360 does this

01:30:48.640 I think that's

01:30:49.020 unrealistic

01:30:49.560 and she's not

01:30:50.000 going to match

01:30:50.380 it or she wants

01:30:51.040 a man in the gym

01:30:51.780 I have obviously

01:30:52.980 my personal

01:30:53.760 preferences

01:30:54.280 but for me

01:30:55.540 I would like

01:30:56.140 a man

01:30:56.400 that I can

01:30:56.700 you know

01:30:57.100 you want a man 0.84

01:30:57.580 that you can

01:30:57.880 connect to

01:30:58.580 I don't

01:30:59.220 I don't mind

01:30:59.960 cooking

01:31:00.240 I like cooking

01:31:00.900 cleaning

01:31:01.400 as well as

01:31:02.060 going out

01:31:02.520 and providing

01:31:03.100 you know

01:31:04.140 and I think

01:31:04.800 that's

01:31:06.040 that's what

01:31:06.440 I like

01:31:06.680 and I think

01:31:06.900 that's balanced

01:31:07.380 I'm not out

01:31:07.880 there saying

01:31:08.220 I need a man 0.62

01:31:08.720 that goes

01:31:09.020 to the gym

01:31:09.500 I won't lie

01:31:10.140 but the problem

01:31:11.900 is I think

01:31:12.260 what she's trying

01:31:12.700 to say

01:31:12.900 is then

01:31:13.620 those type

01:31:14.860 of women

01:31:15.160 are then

01:31:15.700 going to get

01:31:16.140 the men

01:31:16.620 who are looking

01:31:17.800 for women

01:31:18.260 like you

01:31:18.980 who are successful

01:31:19.820 because they

01:31:21.060 can't be bothered

01:31:21.720 to be more

01:31:23.080 successful

01:31:23.660 if that makes sense

01:31:24.820 again it goes

01:31:25.940 down to connection

01:31:26.620 I think I would

01:31:27.200 know if there

01:31:27.920 was a man

01:31:28.340 that was with me

01:31:28.780 just for my

01:31:29.680 success

01:31:30.180 well and that's

01:31:32.740 that's the

01:31:33.180 the whole point

01:31:34.040 is women 0.99

01:31:34.460 what do women 1.00

01:31:34.960 pick for

01:31:35.500 right

01:31:35.920 wait wait

01:31:37.820 wait

01:31:39.140 wait

01:31:39.860 so what

01:31:40.420 what do

01:31:40.640 women pick 1.00

01:31:41.120 for

01:31:41.400 it's usually

01:31:41.940 looks

01:31:42.480 right

01:31:42.980 or money

01:31:43.980 or maybe

01:31:45.080 humor

01:31:45.520 right

01:31:46.000 right

01:31:46.840 I'm not one

01:31:47.560 person that looks

01:31:48.220 for money

01:31:48.620 I'm one that looks

01:31:49.420 for connection

01:31:50.420 care

01:31:50.960 do you usually

01:31:51.840 do you usually

01:31:52.300 feel that with men

01:31:53.180 you're not attracted

01:31:53.860 to

01:31:54.220 feel what

01:31:55.600 the things that you

01:31:57.040 listed with men

01:31:58.020 that you're not

01:31:58.460 attracted to

01:31:59.200 no I've got a

01:32:00.400 specific type

01:32:01.060 but doesn't

01:32:01.500 everyone have a

01:32:02.000 specific type

01:32:02.520 exactly

01:32:02.900 but this is my

01:32:04.960 point

01:32:05.320 that's what I'm

01:32:05.880 saying

01:32:06.120 high earning

01:32:06.800 women tend 0.99

01:32:07.840 to choose for

01:32:08.660 looks because

01:32:09.380 they tend to

01:32:10.140 not compete

01:32:11.060 when it comes

01:32:11.720 to money

01:32:12.260 because the men

01:32:13.200 that earn a lot

01:32:13.960 of money

01:32:14.300 typically don't

01:32:15.140 want argumentative

01:32:16.240 women which 1.00

01:32:17.340 tend to be the

01:32:18.320 women that make 1.00

01:32:18.940 a lot of money

01:32:19.640 not all

01:32:20.120 there's exceptions

01:32:20.840 but in general

01:32:21.840 I agree

01:32:22.660 looks is 100%

01:32:23.720 important

01:32:24.160 but not looks

01:32:25.220 alone though

01:32:25.720 I couldn't have

01:32:26.220 a man who's

01:32:26.680 got the looks 1.00

01:32:27.180 and he's shit 0.99

01:32:27.940 everywhere else 1.00

01:32:28.800 have you ever

01:32:30.440 experienced

01:32:31.200 right

01:32:31.700 have you ever

01:32:33.420 experienced like

01:32:34.020 being with a guy

01:32:34.740 and he just

01:32:35.360 actually looks

01:32:36.020 after you

01:32:36.300 and you don't

01:32:36.620 have to work

01:32:37.100 you can if you

01:32:37.660 want but you 0.66

01:32:38.060 don't have to

01:32:38.500 have you ever

01:32:38.820 experienced that

01:32:39.400 I wish

01:32:39.480 because I'm

01:32:41.060 telling you now

01:32:41.580 I've had a man

01:32:42.920 give him my

01:32:43.640 number

01:32:44.180 I actually

01:32:46.140 generally have

01:32:46.820 had a man

01:32:47.280 that wanted me

01:32:47.920 and you still

01:32:48.380 wanted to work

01:32:48.980 what he wanted

01:32:49.540 me to do

01:32:50.040 is give up

01:32:50.820 my career

01:32:51.300 and let him

01:32:51.820 be the sole

01:32:52.400 income earner

01:32:53.220 and bringing that

01:32:53.600 in but for me

01:32:55.040 I mean I did

01:32:55.640 have a man

01:32:55.980 that did that

01:32:56.360 but for me

01:32:56.940 it was about

01:32:57.540 doing what I

01:32:58.420 wanted and what

01:32:59.020 I was passionate

01:32:59.520 about and being

01:33:00.500 independent

01:33:01.040 because recently

01:33:01.760 I was with

01:33:02.960 someone who had

01:33:03.580 that mindset

01:33:04.060 yeah and then

01:33:04.760 they experienced

01:33:06.640 suffer life

01:33:07.100 what they would

01:33:07.640 call it

01:33:08.060 and all that

01:33:08.820 independent woman

01:33:09.500 thing went out

01:33:10.000 the window

01:33:10.580 I would like to

01:33:13.460 get happily married

01:33:14.340 but my priorities

01:33:15.640 are different

01:33:16.140 so my priorities

01:33:17.080 are not that I

01:33:18.400 need a man to 0.98

01:33:19.240 build me up

01:33:19.740 but my priorities

01:33:20.280 are that I will

01:33:20.980 build me up

01:33:21.600 I will build my

01:33:22.420 kids up and I

01:33:23.220 will do what I

01:33:23.620 got to do for me

01:33:24.280 and make myself

01:33:24.960 successful

01:33:25.600 can I say

01:33:27.560 something

01:33:28.760 do you know

01:33:29.620 what it is

01:33:29.920 it's because

01:33:30.220 you've got a

01:33:30.600 passion

01:33:30.980 I think maybe

01:33:32.040 a woman that 0.96

01:33:33.500 doesn't have a

01:33:34.220 passion that she

01:33:34.960 wants to pursue

01:33:35.860 then maybe

01:33:37.400 no no she had

01:33:38.940 passion

01:33:39.280 she just 0.65

01:33:39.820 a passion

01:33:41.440 not passion in

01:33:42.600 general

01:33:42.880 did she have

01:33:43.500 something that

01:33:43.960 she wanted to

01:33:44.700 pursue

01:33:45.000 independent woman

01:33:45.800 yeah don't need

01:33:46.500 no man

01:33:47.020 no that's not

01:33:48.500 a passion

01:33:48.820 had passions

01:33:49.800 made money

01:33:50.280 all that stuff

01:33:50.860 no I'm not

01:33:50.880 talking about

01:33:51.500 had passions

01:33:52.220 I'm talking about

01:33:53.080 a passion

01:33:53.860 for example

01:33:54.760 when you were a

01:33:55.760 kid

01:33:56.000 what did you

01:33:58.200 want to be

01:33:58.760 me

01:33:59.340 as a kid

01:34:00.240 footballer

01:34:00.820 right so

01:34:01.600 what I'm saying

01:34:02.940 but the best

01:34:04.880 women want to 1.00

01:34:06.280 be mothers

01:34:06.840 yeah and I

01:34:07.640 want to chill

01:34:08.060 the best women 0.73

01:34:08.620 why can't you

01:34:09.560 be both

01:34:10.080 because you

01:34:11.780 cannot have

01:34:12.880 everything

01:34:13.800 but you can

01:34:14.600 if you work

01:34:15.200 hard

01:34:15.420 I am

01:34:15.820 who

01:34:16.320 okay wait

01:34:17.900 wait

01:34:18.660 wait

01:34:18.860 Jesus

01:34:20.260 stop

01:34:21.060 stop

01:34:21.780 Jesus

01:34:23.000 like I've

01:34:24.020 warned you

01:34:24.380 so many

01:34:24.820 times

01:34:25.080 stop over

01:34:25.720 talking me

01:34:26.440 oh my god

01:34:28.220 all right

01:34:29.820 you said

01:34:30.580 you can have

01:34:31.100 both

01:34:31.480 who's watching

01:34:32.480 the kids

01:34:33.040 when you're

01:34:33.480 working

01:34:33.800 so the way

01:34:34.920 it works

01:34:35.280 is that

01:34:35.560 because

01:34:36.300 and I

01:34:37.480 don't want

01:34:37.720 to sound

01:34:38.020 a type of

01:34:38.520 way but

01:34:38.860 I'm just

01:34:39.060 going to

01:34:39.240 say it

01:34:39.560 as it

01:34:39.780 is anyway

01:34:40.220 but if

01:34:41.160 you work

01:34:41.620 hard enough

01:34:42.260 and you

01:34:42.580 are successful

01:34:43.300 as I am

01:34:43.860 I work

01:34:44.320 for myself

01:34:45.020 so I am

01:34:45.940 able to have

01:34:46.500 a good

01:34:46.840 work-life

01:34:47.780 balance

01:34:48.160 where I can

01:34:48.880 provide for

01:34:49.840 my children

01:34:50.380 be there

01:34:50.880 for them

01:34:51.100 take them

01:34:51.480 out

01:34:51.600 but also

01:34:51.960 go in

01:34:52.340 the office

01:34:52.660 when I

01:34:52.920 need to

01:34:53.380 and that

01:34:54.180 could be

01:34:54.500 when they're

01:34:54.940 in school

01:34:55.500 and when

01:34:56.240 they are

01:34:56.520 in extra

01:34:57.000 education

01:34:57.620 and things

01:34:58.460 like that

01:34:58.700 but I'm

01:34:58.980 still there

01:34:59.680 for my

01:35:00.480 children

01:35:00.820 and I

01:35:01.300 think that

01:35:01.700 that is

01:35:02.500 my priority

01:35:03.100 as opposed

01:35:03.620 to finding

01:35:04.740 a man

01:35:05.140 that could 0.68

01:35:05.440 carry me

01:35:06.040 or anything

01:35:06.560 but you

01:35:07.420 see this

01:35:07.740 is

01:35:08.460 a legal

01:35:09.240 consultant

01:35:09.620 so I

01:35:10.720 represent

01:35:11.480 I want

01:35:12.980 to address

01:35:13.340 what you

01:35:13.620 said

01:35:13.820 so like

01:35:14.620 the reality

01:35:15.800 of life

01:35:16.240 is like

01:35:16.720 she said

01:35:17.040 you can't

01:35:17.460 have

01:35:17.640 everything

01:35:18.000 and this

01:35:18.620 is the

01:35:18.800 problem

01:35:19.020 a lot

01:35:19.260 of women

01:35:19.500 face

01:35:19.880 women 1.00

01:35:20.140 think

01:35:20.660 they can

01:35:21.000 have

01:35:21.200 everything

01:35:21.620 now the

01:35:22.620 first point

01:35:23.180 is

01:35:23.620 can you

01:35:27.960 stop

01:35:28.220 interrupting

01:35:29.440 me

01:35:29.780 so the

01:35:31.120 point

01:35:31.360 is

01:35:31.680 it's

01:35:32.440 literally

01:35:32.880 impossible

01:35:33.260 to have

01:35:33.700 everything

01:35:34.100 even as

01:35:34.720 men

01:35:34.940 we know

01:35:35.340 this

01:35:36.040 you have

01:35:36.760 to make

01:35:37.140 sacrifices

01:35:37.700 in life

01:35:38.280 absolutely

01:35:38.860 now here's

01:35:40.360 the thing

01:35:40.740 a dynamic

01:35:41.980 that a lot

01:35:42.280 of women

01:35:42.520 don't understand

01:35:43.040 about relationships

01:35:43.720 is

01:35:44.140 relationships

01:35:44.980 only work

01:35:46.420 when there

01:35:47.860 is a masculine 0.84

01:35:48.780 and a feminine 0.74

01:35:50.300 energy

01:35:50.820 now what

01:35:52.440 you women 1.00

01:35:52.840 tend to always

01:35:53.640 say is

01:35:54.020 you want

01:35:54.440 a masculine

01:35:55.460 man

01:35:55.900 that is

01:35:56.760 feminine

01:35:57.160 at the same

01:35:57.700 time

01:35:57.960 which is

01:35:58.360 impossible

01:35:58.780 and doesn't

01:35:59.280 exist

01:35:59.780 now

01:36:00.760 if

01:36:01.900 and I

01:36:03.120 said masculine

01:36:03.660 and feminine

01:36:03.920 note I didn't

01:36:04.500 say man

01:36:04.880 or woman

01:36:05.280 because in

01:36:05.960 lesbian

01:36:06.280 relationships

01:36:06.740 if you

01:36:07.080 notice

01:36:07.320 there's

01:36:07.620 always

01:36:07.880 the masculine

01:36:08.580 and the

01:36:09.640 feminine

01:36:09.920 not always

01:36:10.960 but yeah

01:36:11.420 the ones

01:36:12.400 that work

01:36:12.860 that's the

01:36:14.100 point

01:36:14.360 so

01:36:15.080 so if

01:36:16.680 the woman 0.98

01:36:17.260 now has

01:36:19.180 the masculine

01:36:19.720 energy

01:36:20.200 what you're

01:36:20.640 going to find

01:36:21.180 is she's

01:36:21.700 always going

01:36:22.200 to attract

01:36:22.680 feminine

01:36:23.220 men

01:36:23.640 a masculine

01:36:24.880 woman 0.99

01:36:25.260 is never

01:36:26.300 going to

01:36:27.140 attract

01:36:27.460 a masculine

01:36:28.000 man

01:36:28.420 but what

01:36:29.300 should

01:36:29.480 and this

01:36:29.800 is the

01:36:30.080 reason why

01:36:30.720 women tend 0.99

01:36:31.660 to fall

01:36:32.120 into the

01:36:32.500 same traps

01:36:33.020 over and

01:36:33.820 over again

01:36:34.460 because you

01:36:35.500 go

01:36:35.840 you want to

01:36:37.220 have everything

01:36:37.640 so you chase

01:36:38.340 success

01:36:38.960 thinking that

01:36:39.940 you can get

01:36:40.580 success

01:36:41.000 and get the

01:36:41.680 man you

01:36:42.080 want

01:36:42.480 I don't

01:36:43.400 see for me

01:36:44.080 go hand

01:36:44.620 in hand

01:36:45.000 okay let me

01:36:45.560 respond if

01:36:46.180 you're finished

01:36:46.840 though because

01:36:47.180 I want you to

01:36:47.560 finish

01:36:47.840 okay for me

01:36:49.000 I don't

01:36:50.040 chase success

01:36:50.900 to get the

01:36:51.700 man that I

01:36:52.200 want

01:36:52.540 okay

01:36:53.000 I chase success

01:36:54.360 because I

01:36:55.040 have

01:36:55.540 expectations

01:36:56.700 that I set

01:36:57.180 for myself

01:36:57.780 and a life

01:36:58.320 that I want

01:36:58.720 to provide

01:36:59.160 my children

01:36:59.740 with or

01:37:00.680 without a

01:37:01.180 man by

01:37:01.520 my side

01:37:02.040 and so I

01:37:02.920 work for

01:37:03.520 that in

01:37:04.160 terms of

01:37:04.580 a masculinity

01:37:05.360 and a man

01:37:06.240 and provide

01:37:06.540 of course

01:37:06.980 I have a question

01:37:10.660 did you say

01:37:11.740 you're not

01:37:12.440 married though

01:37:13.000 right

01:37:13.320 I'm not

01:37:13.780 married

01:37:14.060 no

01:37:14.240 but wait

01:37:14.660 how old

01:37:15.060 are you

01:37:15.280 again

01:37:15.500 34

01:37:16.060 but that's

01:37:16.680 the point

01:37:17.200 you can't

01:37:17.600 have everything

01:37:18.280 no but

01:37:18.940 I'm not

01:37:19.260 asking for

01:37:19.740 everything

01:37:20.040 no but

01:37:20.480 that's my

01:37:21.200 point

01:37:21.680 is typically

01:37:22.520 you have to

01:37:23.200 make a

01:37:23.560 sacrifice

01:37:24.100 and in your

01:37:24.900 case you

01:37:25.420 don't have

01:37:25.980 a husband

01:37:26.540 yeah

01:37:27.340 that's okay

01:37:27.880 and that's

01:37:28.560 okay

01:37:29.000 I'm not

01:37:29.480 I'm not

01:37:29.880 you know

01:37:30.340 to each

01:37:30.800 their own

01:37:31.480 but the

01:37:32.140 point is

01:37:32.580 you don't

01:37:33.040 have it

01:37:33.440 all

01:37:33.580 you can't

01:37:34.100 have everything

01:37:34.860 but who

01:37:35.540 says that

01:37:35.980 I'm looking

01:37:36.360 for everything

01:37:36.840 but the

01:37:37.380 point is

01:37:37.860 earlier

01:37:38.260 you said

01:37:38.840 you could

01:37:40.040 have it

01:37:40.420 all

01:37:40.740 and I'm

01:37:41.440 saying

01:37:41.640 you cannot

01:37:42.140 have it

01:37:42.560 all

01:37:42.580 I think

01:37:42.640 if you

01:37:42.680 rewind it

01:37:43.140 back

01:37:43.440 what I've

01:37:43.860 always said

01:37:44.580 is that

01:37:45.200 I aim

01:37:45.720 to provide

01:37:46.140 my children

01:37:46.760 and myself

01:37:47.640 with a certain

01:37:48.120 type of

01:37:48.380 lifestyle

01:37:48.740 without relying

01:37:49.480 on any

01:37:49.940 man

01:37:50.360 if I meet

01:37:51.400 a man

01:37:51.680 I get

01:37:51.940 married

01:37:52.220 then great

01:37:52.600 but I'm

01:37:52.960 not going

01:37:53.260 to sort

01:37:54.000 of wait

01:37:54.680 hold back

01:37:55.560 and then

01:37:56.200 sort of

01:37:56.580 do it

01:37:56.880 but that's

01:37:57.460 the whole

01:37:57.760 point

01:37:58.100 the cost

01:37:59.660 is your

01:38:00.020 children

01:38:00.560 because

01:38:01.880 who's hurt

01:38:03.380 the most

01:38:03.820 in this

01:38:04.160 situation

01:38:04.700 the kids

01:38:05.200 that don't

01:38:05.660 have a dad

01:38:06.240 in the home

01:38:07.220 who says

01:38:07.620 they don't

01:38:08.020 have a dad

01:38:08.580 in the home

01:38:08.920 I thought

01:38:09.640 you said

01:38:09.960 you're single

01:38:10.400 am I wrong

01:38:10.920 that doesn't

01:38:11.480 mean they

01:38:11.720 don't have

01:38:11.980 a dad

01:38:12.320 does he

01:38:13.700 live with

01:38:14.080 you

01:38:14.300 he doesn't

01:38:15.380 live with

01:38:15.720 me

01:38:15.840 but he's

01:38:16.160 active in

01:38:16.540 their life

01:38:16.700 that's

01:38:17.120 the point

01:38:18.300 it is better

01:38:19.220 for kids

01:38:19.960 to have

01:38:20.260 both parents

01:38:20.960 in the home

01:38:21.360 always

01:38:21.860 because you

01:38:22.280 need to

01:38:22.640 know the

01:38:22.920 personal

01:38:23.300 situation

01:38:23.900 of the

01:38:24.240 relationship

01:38:24.780 between the

01:38:25.360 mom and father

01:38:25.900 the majority

01:38:26.340 of breakups

01:38:27.040 70%

01:38:28.020 only 30%

01:38:29.340 are

01:38:29.600 I forgot

01:38:30.520 what they

01:38:30.820 called it

01:38:31.180 but the

01:38:31.420 argumentative

01:38:32.160 ones

01:38:32.420 70%

01:38:33.220 are like

01:38:33.840 I feel like

01:38:35.040 you're implying

01:38:36.220 that I'm

01:38:36.540 argumentative

01:38:37.040 I don't

01:38:37.800 I don't

01:38:38.240 know

01:38:38.420 no I said

01:38:39.140 most of

01:38:39.960 breakups

01:38:40.420 are not

01:38:40.920 argumentative

01:38:42.000 ones

01:38:42.480 if you

01:38:43.220 I don't

01:38:44.100 know you

01:38:44.480 but

01:38:44.700 I feel like

01:38:46.260 you are

01:38:46.900 yeah

01:38:47.100 do you know

01:38:50.500 what I like

01:38:50.920 to argue

01:38:51.340 for what

01:38:51.780 I think

01:38:52.540 is right

01:38:52.840 and what

01:38:53.020 I believe

01:38:53.440 in and what

01:38:53.880 I think

01:38:54.320 is the wrong

01:38:54.820 thing to do

01:38:55.440 and you know

01:38:56.180 that's just

01:38:56.700 in my line

01:38:57.300 of work

01:38:57.600 and that's

01:38:57.880 why I'm good

01:38:58.200 at what I do

01:38:58.640 but that's the

01:39:00.900 point it came

01:39:01.440 at a cost

01:39:02.200 and the cost

01:39:02.860 is there's

01:39:03.260 no relationship

01:39:04.140 not really

01:39:05.800 I mean the thing

01:39:06.540 is I'm not

01:39:07.180 willing to go

01:39:07.720 into my

01:39:08.120 personal

01:39:08.960 relationship

01:39:09.520 on here

01:39:10.340 but what I

01:39:11.200 can tell you

01:39:12.060 is that my

01:39:12.780 children are not

01:39:13.640 at a loss

01:39:14.120 but actually

01:39:14.640 in a better

01:39:15.080 position

01:39:15.560 if you're in

01:39:16.540 a relationship

01:39:17.240 with a mother

01:39:18.000 and father

01:39:18.440 and it's not

01:39:18.860 a great

01:39:19.120 position to be

01:39:19.660 and you don't

01:39:20.240 know all the

01:39:20.760 circumstances

01:39:21.400 then it wouldn't

01:39:22.240 be good to raise

01:39:23.200 a child in that

01:39:23.900 relationship

01:39:24.260 I'm not even

01:39:24.800 talking

01:39:25.140 I'm not even

01:39:25.720 I'm not even

01:39:27.020 sorry what's up

01:39:28.800 again

01:39:29.100 sorry

01:39:29.400 can we go back

01:39:38.060 to what's going

01:39:38.820 on

01:39:38.980 because I feel

01:39:39.400 lost

01:39:39.860 now wait

01:39:40.500 you guys

01:39:41.160 okay I don't 0.99

01:39:42.400 then shut up 0.98

01:39:43.460 until you 1.00

01:39:44.020 can understand

01:39:44.700 what's going on

01:39:45.800 you know what's

01:39:46.240 happening

01:39:46.540 they are so used

01:39:47.680 to getting attention

01:39:48.500 that when the

01:39:49.040 attention is not

01:39:49.720 on them

01:39:50.060 they can't stand

01:39:51.380 it

01:39:51.660 this is mad

01:39:52.440 this is what

01:39:53.260 talking about

01:39:53.720 something and you're

01:39:54.420 literally derailing

01:39:55.160 the conversation

01:39:55.820 just because you

01:39:56.540 want the camera

01:39:57.040 to be on you

01:39:57.780 like literally

01:39:59.520 just grow up

01:40:00.300 five times

01:40:01.100 and you told me

01:40:01.740 shut up the whole 0.94

01:40:02.480 time 0.99

01:40:02.900 I haven't told you 0.83

01:40:03.560 to shut up once

01:40:04.500 you told me 0.97

01:40:05.460 to shut up 0.98

01:40:06.120 earlier twice

01:40:06.940 I haven't

01:40:07.960 literally said

01:40:09.720 to us

01:40:10.080 stop talking

01:40:11.120 every time

01:40:11.620 we talk

01:40:11.880 and how does

01:40:12.880 stop talking

01:40:13.980 mean shut up 1.00

01:40:14.780 right okay 0.99

01:40:16.500 I think we're

01:40:16.960 going to leave 0.97

01:40:17.380 shut up 0.99

01:40:19.580 I feel like I'm 0.98

01:40:19.960 just sat here

01:40:22.240 not talking

01:40:22.940 it's just

01:40:23.540 humour

01:40:23.840 thank you

01:40:26.380 but you see

01:40:33.120 my point

01:40:33.460 most people

01:40:34.140 can't have

01:40:34.700 everything

01:40:35.220 I see your point

01:40:35.920 I agree with

01:40:36.680 your point

01:40:37.000 the point is

01:40:37.760 the point is

01:40:38.240 that you always

01:40:38.600 have to sacrifice

01:40:39.340 something

01:40:40.080 of course

01:40:40.940 I sacrifice

01:40:41.620 time

01:40:42.120 exactly

01:40:43.120 I agree with

01:40:44.300 that though

01:40:44.560 exactly

01:40:45.180 that's the whole

01:40:46.140 point

01:40:46.600 absolutely

01:40:46.900 you can't

01:40:47.400 have everything

01:40:48.280 but who said

01:40:49.340 that they're

01:40:49.600 going for

01:40:49.900 everything

01:40:50.240 I didn't say

01:40:50.900 that

01:40:51.040 you said

01:40:51.880 something along

01:40:52.640 those lines

01:40:53.300 earlier

01:40:53.800 it didn't say

01:40:54.400 I'm going for

01:40:54.880 everything

01:40:55.160 I said

01:40:55.580 I'm going for

01:40:56.260 the best life

01:40:58.260 that I can give

01:40:58.720 my children

01:40:59.200 with or without

01:40:59.760 a man

01:41:00.140 and also

01:41:00.800 not even

01:41:01.240 just about

01:41:01.720 my children

01:41:02.120 but

01:41:02.340 but the best

01:41:03.160 life is

01:41:03.740 two parents

01:41:04.440 in the home

01:41:05.080 that's the

01:41:06.160 best life

01:41:06.660 that's what

01:41:07.100 you see

01:41:07.700 let me just

01:41:08.740 point something

01:41:09.380 out

01:41:09.580 point blank

01:41:10.140 period

01:41:10.560 there are

01:41:11.040 no better

01:41:11.620 outcomes

01:41:12.000 there are

01:41:13.120 no better

01:41:13.780 outcomes

01:41:14.400 there are

01:41:14.800 no better

01:41:15.320 wait

01:41:15.560 wait

01:41:16.080 wait

01:41:16.400 wait

01:41:16.740 there are

01:41:17.740 no better

01:41:18.360 outcomes

01:41:18.940 for children

01:41:19.840 than having

01:41:20.560 two parents

01:41:21.500 in the home

01:41:22.100 you see

01:41:22.400 coming from

01:41:23.080 a wealthy

01:41:25.760 individual

01:41:26.380 has been

01:41:26.680 brought up

01:41:27.060 into their

01:41:27.440 parents

01:41:27.860 well

01:41:28.060 there's no

01:41:28.500 better

01:41:28.920 there's no

01:41:30.000 better

01:41:30.400 situation

01:41:31.480 than two

01:41:32.440 healthy

01:41:33.500 parents

01:41:34.600 in a

01:41:35.100 healthy

01:41:35.580 relationship

01:41:36.360 in a home

01:41:37.120 I'll agree

01:41:37.700 with that

01:41:37.880 what's a

01:41:38.600 better solution

01:41:39.480 wouldn't it

01:41:40.100 be better

01:41:40.460 to work

01:41:41.000 it out

01:41:41.320 and figure

01:41:41.800 out a way

01:41:42.260 to get along

01:41:43.060 absolutely

01:41:43.500 wait

01:41:44.040 can you guys

01:41:44.900 let me finish

01:41:45.660 a sentence

01:41:46.280 thank you

01:41:47.260 wouldn't it be

01:41:48.220 better for you

01:41:49.060 to figure out

01:41:49.800 how to get

01:41:50.300 along

01:41:50.740 than to

01:41:51.380 separate

01:41:51.780 in general

01:41:52.620 absolutely

01:41:53.300 if you can

01:41:53.720 do that

01:41:53.980 then great

01:41:54.260 thank you

01:41:55.000 thank you

01:41:55.460 if you can do that

01:41:56.000 that's amazing

01:41:56.380 why is it so

01:41:57.280 impossible

01:41:58.000 can I just

01:41:59.740 say

01:41:59.900 because I need

01:42:00.740 to understand

01:42:01.320 because I just

01:42:02.100 feel like

01:42:02.540 you know

01:42:03.960 in the real

01:42:04.700 world

01:42:05.180 people come

01:42:07.160 from all

01:42:07.580 different types

01:42:08.100 of backgrounds

01:42:08.700 yeah

01:42:09.180 but the fact

01:42:10.200 is that

01:42:11.020 not every

01:42:12.280 relationship

01:42:13.000 is healthy

01:42:13.800 and if

01:42:14.800 you're in

01:42:15.240 a relationship

01:42:15.780 for example

01:42:16.560 where a man

01:42:17.220 is beating 1.00

01:42:17.780 the crap 0.99

01:42:18.340 out of you 0.99

01:42:19.040 minority

01:42:20.080 minority

01:42:20.680 no no no

01:42:21.380 no no

01:42:22.460 no no

01:42:22.640 no no

01:42:23.760 no no

01:42:24.440 no no

01:42:25.300 no no

01:42:25.780 no no

01:42:25.840 no stop

01:42:26.320 stop stop

01:42:27.580 stop stop

01:42:27.800 no I'm

01:42:28.120 saying no

01:42:28.520 because I

01:42:29.260 told you

01:42:29.660 no exceptions

01:42:30.380 we're talking

01:42:30.960 about the

01:42:31.360 rule

01:42:31.580 I'm talking

01:42:32.720 about the

01:42:33.060 real world

01:42:33.380 no no

01:42:33.780 I'm talking

01:42:34.320 about the

01:42:34.800 rule

01:42:35.000 we're talking

01:42:35.600 about the

01:42:35.860 majority

01:42:36.240 of relationships

01:42:37.120 I mean

01:42:37.820 every time

01:42:38.680 this whole

01:42:39.940 show

01:42:40.240 every time

01:42:40.760 we try to

01:42:41.260 have a

01:42:41.500 conversation

01:42:42.140 about general

01:42:42.820 relationships

01:42:43.400 you keep

01:42:43.880 bringing up

01:42:44.320 you know

01:42:44.660 because you're

01:42:45.220 talking about

01:42:45.740 statistics

01:42:46.220 and I'm talking

01:42:47.160 about the

01:42:47.660 rule

01:42:47.840 can I say something

01:42:50.480 are you saying

01:42:51.460 that most men

01:42:52.140 beat their

01:42:52.640 partner

01:42:53.140 no no no

01:42:53.640 can I say

01:42:56.220 something

01:42:56.520 can I say

01:42:59.760 something in

01:43:00.280 general

01:43:00.620 can I say

01:43:01.520 something in

01:43:01.800 general

01:43:02.000 yeah go

01:43:02.320 all right

01:43:02.980 in general

01:43:03.740 yeah I'm

01:43:04.340 somebody that

01:43:04.740 can relate

01:43:05.140 with a lot

01:43:05.480 of people

01:43:05.980 okay and

01:43:06.960 I'm saying

01:43:07.680 that no

01:43:08.580 speaking to

01:43:09.400 a woman 0.57

01:43:09.780 I don't think

01:43:10.400 a high

01:43:11.260 powered attorney

01:43:12.700 am I allowed

01:43:13.360 to finish

01:43:13.800 no it's not

01:43:14.060 your show

01:43:14.840 wait wait

01:43:16.000 no no

01:43:17.420 I will

01:43:18.600 give you

01:43:19.100 I don't

01:43:19.440 stop

01:43:21.800 chill out

01:43:22.760 chill out

01:43:23.220 all right

01:43:23.440 I don't

01:43:24.040 I don't

01:43:24.620 think that

01:43:25.180 a high

01:43:25.620 powered

01:43:26.100 attorney

01:43:26.700 is the

01:43:27.440 typical

01:43:27.840 situation

01:43:28.620 of

01:43:28.840 UK

01:43:29.880 women 1.00

01:43:30.620 go ahead

01:43:31.280 I'm just

01:43:32.600 literally

01:43:32.920 trying to

01:43:33.400 say

01:43:33.760 that

01:43:34.060 isn't it

01:43:35.040 so

01:43:35.280 that

01:43:35.480 I mean

01:43:35.780 I think

01:43:36.320 I've even

01:43:36.560 lost my

01:43:36.940 point

01:43:37.140 now

01:43:37.300 but

01:43:37.440 I'm

01:43:37.600 just

01:43:37.740 trying

01:43:37.920 to

01:43:38.040 say

01:43:38.240 that

01:43:38.440 isn't

01:43:39.080 it

01:43:39.180 a

01:43:39.300 point

01:43:39.500 that

01:43:39.640 if

01:43:39.920 you

01:43:40.240 if

01:43:40.660 you're

01:43:40.860 sort

01:43:41.000 of

01:43:41.160 working

01:43:41.800 hard

01:43:42.340 and

01:43:42.500 that's

01:43:42.660 what

01:43:42.740 you

01:43:42.840 do

01:43:43.040 and

01:43:43.140 you're

01:43:43.260 providing

01:43:43.620 for

01:43:43.780 your

01:43:43.900 kids

01:43:44.220 you're

01:43:44.380 providing

01:43:44.680 whether

01:43:45.620 they're

01:43:46.020 got

01:43:46.260 if

01:43:46.600 they

01:43:46.740 haven't

01:43:46.880 got

01:43:46.980 both

01:43:47.240 parents

01:43:47.580 in

01:43:47.740 their

01:43:47.880 life

01:43:48.080 there's

01:43:48.280 obviously

01:43:48.500 reasons

01:43:49.020 for

01:43:49.240 it

01:43:49.340 I

01:43:49.400 think

01:43:49.580 coming

01:43:50.080 from

01:43:50.400 you

01:43:51.160 I've

01:43:51.520 done

01:43:51.640 a little

01:43:51.780 bit

01:43:51.900 of

01:43:51.940 research

01:43:52.320 and

01:43:52.480 I

01:44:14.680 what's

01:44:15.080 all right

01:44:15.300 what's

01:44:15.580 more

01:44:15.760 important

01:44:16.160 money

01:44:17.620 or

01:44:18.000 parents

01:44:18.620 okay

01:44:21.440 I would

01:44:22.200 also

01:44:22.460 I would

01:44:24.340 also

01:44:24.580 argue

01:44:25.020 that

01:44:25.320 healthy

01:44:25.880 parents

01:44:26.480 on the

01:44:27.000 two

01:44:27.140 things

01:44:27.380 if

01:44:27.540 you're

01:44:27.680 not

01:44:27.800 in

01:44:27.960 an

01:44:28.060 actual

01:44:28.400 solid

01:44:28.920 foundation

01:44:29.660 of

01:44:29.840 a

01:44:29.940 relationship

01:44:30.260 why are

01:44:30.660 you

01:44:30.720 having

01:44:30.920 kids

01:44:31.180 with

01:44:31.320 that

01:44:31.460 person

01:44:31.800 or

01:44:32.000 giving

01:44:32.160 that

01:44:32.320 person

01:44:32.560 kids

01:44:32.800 that

01:44:32.940 is

01:44:33.440 the

01:44:33.660 most

01:44:34.040 naive

01:44:34.400 question

01:44:34.880 I've

01:44:35.060 ever

01:44:35.200 heard

01:44:35.420 can

01:44:36.040 I

01:44:36.200 just

01:44:36.380 say

01:44:36.580 that

01:44:36.740 you

01:44:37.240 literally

01:44:37.600 some

01:44:38.000 people

01:44:38.360 in

01:44:38.600 a

01:44:38.720 relationship

01:44:39.180 for

01:44:39.420 10

01:44:39.820 15

01:44:40.420 years

01:44:40.860 and

01:44:41.380 the

01:44:41.520 statistics

01:44:44.680 children

01:44:44.960 is

01:44:45.220 very

01:44:45.500 low

01:44:45.900 and

01:44:46.540 so

01:44:46.680 if

01:44:46.800 you're

01:44:47.000 that 0.99

01:44:47.180 naive

01:44:47.600 to

01:44:47.780 not

01:44:48.260 acknowledge

01:44:48.800 why are

01:44:49.420 you

01:44:49.920 with

01:44:50.140 someone

01:44:50.440 for

01:44:50.680 10

01:44:50.980 15

01:44:51.460 years

01:44:52.160 if

01:44:52.600 it's

01:44:53.460 not

01:44:53.620 a

01:44:53.740 healthy

01:44:54.080 relationship

01:44:54.840 nothing

01:44:55.700 starts

01:44:56.160 off

01:44:56.360 as

01:44:56.500 an

01:44:56.640 unhealthy

01:44:57.120 relationship

01:44:57.740 then

01:44:58.160 you

01:44:59.500 would

01:44:59.640 avoid

01:45:00.020 it

01:45:00.320 of

01:45:01.060 course

01:45:01.500 people

01:45:04.580 will only

01:45:05.120 show you

01:45:05.600 what

01:45:05.780 they

01:45:05.920 want

01:45:06.160 to

01:45:06.300 show

01:45:06.520 you

01:45:06.720 you

01:45:06.820 know

01:45:07.000 you

01:45:07.380 things

01:45:07.700 change

01:45:08.380 and

01:45:08.580 I

01:45:08.660 think

01:45:08.900 this

01:45:09.260 is

01:45:09.460 what

01:45:09.580 I'm

01:45:09.680 saying

01:45:09.900 yeah

01:45:10.260 I

01:45:10.540 agree

01:45:10.780 I

01:45:10.980 think

01:45:11.180 when

01:45:11.380 you

01:45:11.480 come

01:45:11.740 from

01:45:14.680 why

01:45:19.700 do

01:45:19.820 you

01:45:19.920 guys

01:45:20.100 always

01:45:20.480 have

01:45:20.700 excuses

01:45:21.280 for

01:45:21.640 bad

01:45:21.920 decisions

01:45:22.240 why

01:45:22.420 can't

01:45:22.660 we

01:45:22.760 just

01:45:22.980 admit

01:45:23.180 wait

01:45:24.340 wait

01:45:24.980 wait

01:45:25.580 like

01:45:26.060 how

01:45:26.440 do

01:45:26.580 you

01:45:26.680 guys

01:45:26.860 not

01:45:27.060 able

01:45:27.260 to

01:45:27.460 listen

01:45:27.680 to

01:45:27.880 a

01:45:28.040 sentence

01:45:28.320 and

01:45:28.600 not

01:45:28.840 interrupt

01:45:29.180 we

01:45:29.800 give

01:45:29.980 you

01:45:30.120 one

01:45:30.460 rule

01:45:30.880 before

01:45:31.240 the

01:45:31.440 show

01:45:31.600 don't

01:45:31.880 interrupt

01:45:32.180 the

01:45:32.340 host

01:45:32.480 that's

01:45:32.760 it

01:45:32.920 it's

01:45:33.060 not

01:45:33.220 that

01:45:33.360 hard

01:45:33.660 no

01:45:34.180 everyone

01:45:34.540 else

01:45:34.840 can

01:45:35.020 follow

01:45:35.340 it

01:45:35.520 but

01:45:35.660 you

01:45:35.860 guys

01:45:36.340 okay

01:45:36.740 why

01:45:37.380 do

01:45:37.620 you

01:45:37.720 keep

01:45:38.300 giving

01:45:38.720 excuses

01:45:40.480 for

01:45:40.800 every

01:45:41.080 bad

01:45:41.440 decision

01:45:41.860 and

01:45:42.380 why

01:45:42.680 can't

01:45:43.000 we

01:45:43.100 just

01:45:43.300 talk

01:45:43.560 about

01:45:43.800 in

01:45:44.120 general

01:45:44.560 it

01:45:45.140 is

01:45:45.280 better

01:45:45.540 to

01:45:45.720 have

01:45:45.880 two

01:45:46.120 parents

01:45:46.560 in

01:45:46.740 the

01:45:46.860 home

01:45:47.140 and

01:45:47.620 in

01:45:47.820 general

01:45:48.120 it

01:45:48.320 is

01:45:48.460 bad

01:45:48.780 to

01:45:49.000 leave

01:45:49.400 I

01:45:50.220 think

01:45:50.460 because

01:45:50.820 in

01:45:51.200 general

01:45:51.560 there's

01:45:51.820 a lot

01:45:52.000 more

01:45:52.220 to

01:45:52.440 it

01:45:52.560 than

01:45:52.740 to

01:45:52.920 looking

01:45:53.180 at

01:45:53.320 it

01:45:53.420 with

01:45:53.520 a

01:45:53.660 tunnel

01:45:53.880 vision

01:45:54.220 and

01:45:54.700 saying

01:45:55.020 when

01:45:55.580 you're

01:45:55.760 brought up

01:45:56.100 with a

01:45:56.360 silver

01:45:56.560 spoon

01:45:56.860 in

01:45:56.980 your 0.91

01:45:57.060 mouth

01:45:57.280 it's

01:45:57.460 saying

01:45:57.640 in

01:45:58.100 general

01:45:58.620 this

01:45:59.000 is

01:45:59.120 how

01:45:59.300 it

01:45:59.560 is

01:45:59.600 what

01:46:01.080 does

01:46:01.220 money

01:46:01.880 have

01:46:02.160 to

01:46:02.360 do

01:46:02.540 with

01:46:02.720 family

01:46:03.200 what

01:46:04.220 is

01:46:04.360 money

01:46:04.580 this

01:46:05.000 is

01:46:05.160 the

01:46:05.280 biggest

01:46:05.520 this

01:46:05.740 is

01:46:05.840 the

01:46:06.000 biggest

01:46:06.280 this

01:46:06.540 is

01:46:06.680 the

01:46:06.820 biggest

01:46:07.080 like

01:46:07.380 lie

01:46:07.920 it's

01:46:08.500 not

01:46:08.620 about

01:46:08.780 money

01:46:09.120 it's

01:46:09.180 a

01:46:09.240 Western

01:46:09.560 ideology

01:46:10.000 because

01:46:10.320 here's

01:46:10.580 the

01:46:10.700 thing

01:46:10.960 you

01:46:11.520 were

01:46:11.640 saying

01:46:12.060 something

01:46:12.300 about

01:46:12.760 growing up

01:46:13.500 in

01:46:13.680 I

01:46:14.800 was

01:46:15.280 born

01:46:15.480 in

01:46:15.620 Nigeria

01:46:15.980 I

01:46:16.160 only

01:46:17.120 moved

01:46:17.300 to

01:46:17.400 this

01:46:17.720 country

01:46:18.000 in

01:46:18.140 2019

01:46:18.620 the

01:46:18.980 reality

01:46:19.400 is

01:46:19.800 when

01:46:20.400 you

01:46:20.560 see

01:46:20.900 families

01:46:21.600 that

01:46:22.200 are

01:46:22.320 even

01:46:22.540 living

01:46:22.780 in

01:46:22.960 poverty

01:46:23.320 like

01:46:24.680 abject

01:46:25.080 poverty

01:46:25.440 and

01:46:25.660 they stick

01:46:26.060 together

01:46:26.440 money

01:46:27.060 is

01:46:27.220 not

01:46:27.380 an

01:46:27.540 issue

01:46:27.820 they

01:46:28.420 don't

01:46:28.580 have

01:46:28.800 mental

01:46:29.100 health

01:46:29.420 issues

01:46:29.780 they

01:46:29.960 don't

01:46:30.060 have

01:46:30.240 any

01:46:30.480 of

01:46:30.600 this

01:46:30.740 crazy 1.00

01:46:31.020 shit 1.00

01:46:31.220 we 0.99

01:46:31.320 have

01:46:31.460 in

01:46:31.560 the

01:46:32.020 UK

01:46:32.300 and

01:46:32.580 the

01:46:32.780 US

01:46:33.060 they

01:46:33.800 grow up

01:46:34.240 fine

01:46:34.520 a lot

01:46:34.960 of

01:46:35.060 them

01:46:35.200 sometimes

01:46:35.580 you

01:46:35.740 can

01:46:35.860 see

01:46:36.040 kids

01:46:36.340 coming

01:46:36.540 from

01:46:36.780 poor

01:46:37.780 income

01:46:38.200 backgrounds

01:46:38.620 actually

01:46:39.040 growing up

01:46:40.380 to

01:46:40.500 do

01:46:41.140 something

01:46:41.480 with

01:46:41.660 their

01:46:41.800 lives

01:46:42.000 and

01:46:42.180 become

01:46:42.420 better

01:46:42.780 but

01:46:43.480 the

01:46:43.640 point

01:46:43.920 is

01:46:44.340 when

01:46:45.540 women 1.00

01:46:46.840 say

01:46:47.180 people

01:46:50.080 have

01:46:50.680 healthy

01:46:50.920 relationships

01:46:51.600 I

01:46:51.880 have

01:46:52.040 an

01:46:52.200 issue

01:46:52.440 with

01:46:52.620 that

01:46:52.800 statement

01:46:53.140 because

01:46:53.540 the

01:46:53.960 reality

01:46:54.260 is

01:46:54.580 if

01:46:54.960 you

01:46:55.080 know

01:46:55.320 a

01:46:55.460 lot

01:46:55.600 about

01:46:55.800 families

01:46:56.280 there

01:46:57.060 is

01:46:57.200 no

01:46:57.360 family

01:46:57.680 that

01:46:57.860 is

01:46:57.960 healthy

01:46:58.300 there

01:46:59.480 is

01:46:59.620 none

01:46:59.940 women 1.00

01:47:00.660 keep

01:47:00.960 chasing

01:47:01.260 this

01:47:01.460 idea

01:47:01.740 of

01:47:01.880 they

01:47:01.980 want

01:47:02.200 to

01:47:02.300 have

01:47:02.500 the

01:47:02.720 perfect

01:47:03.240 relationship

01:47:04.000 or the

01:47:04.280 perfect

01:47:04.540 man

01:47:04.700 before

01:47:04.900 they

01:47:05.060 can

01:47:05.200 stay

01:47:05.420 in

01:47:05.520 their

01:47:05.640 marriage

01:47:05.940 there

01:47:06.340 is

01:47:06.480 no

01:47:06.680 perfect

01:47:07.020 relationship

01:47:07.480 there

01:47:07.880 is

01:47:07.980 no

01:47:08.080 perfect

01:47:08.360 man

01:47:08.600 everybody

01:47:09.160 has

01:47:09.380 their

01:47:09.500 problem

01:47:09.740 we

01:47:10.080 are

01:47:10.180 all

01:47:10.340 human

01:47:10.500 we

01:47:10.800 all

01:47:10.940 have

01:47:11.080 traumas

01:47:11.620 absolutely

01:47:12.080 wait

01:47:14.760 wait

01:47:15.120 wait

01:47:15.320 and I

01:47:15.880 want to

01:47:16.140 point

01:47:16.380 something

01:47:16.740 out

01:47:17.000 guys

01:47:17.300 this

01:47:17.500 is

01:47:17.620 what

01:47:17.740 I

01:47:17.860 mean

01:47:18.000 when

01:47:18.120 this

01:47:18.280 is

01:47:18.400 bad

01:47:18.660 advice

01:47:19.160 this

01:47:19.400 is

01:47:19.540 bad

01:47:19.820 advice

01:47:20.180 from

01:47:20.360 older

01:47:20.660 women 1.00

01:47:21.120 34

01:47:22.160 wait

01:47:22.720 34

01:47:23.840 42

01:47:24.460 and

01:47:25.240 you're

01:47:25.440 giving

01:47:25.640 wait

01:47:26.080 we

01:47:26.380 didn't

01:47:26.520 give

01:47:26.660 any

01:47:26.820 out

01:47:26.940 of

01:47:27.000 because

01:47:27.960 when

01:47:28.380 you

01:47:28.480 are

01:47:28.620 talking

01:47:29.080 about

01:47:29.400 the

01:47:29.580 decisions

01:47:30.120 that

01:47:30.520 younger

01:47:30.860 women 1.00

01:47:31.200 will

01:47:31.440 make

01:47:31.700 you

01:47:31.840 are

01:47:31.960 giving

01:47:32.340 them

01:47:32.660 cop

01:47:33.000 outs

01:47:33.240 you're

01:47:33.380 saying

01:47:33.540 it

01:47:33.740 depends

01:47:34.140 they

01:47:34.300 need

01:47:34.460 to

01:47:34.540 have

01:47:34.620 a

01:47:34.700 healthy

01:47:34.940 relationship

01:47:35.580 instead

01:47:36.400 of

01:47:36.740 giving

01:47:37.040 us

01:47:37.280 the

01:47:37.480 right

01:47:37.840 information

01:47:38.720 and

01:47:39.440 the

01:47:46.380 because

01:47:46.740 I'm

01:47:46.900 trying

01:47:47.100 to

01:47:47.220 understand

01:47:47.580 you

01:47:47.760 and

01:47:47.840 I

01:47:47.920 can

01:47:48.020 actually

01:47:48.220 understand

01:47:48.500 your

01:47:48.700 points

01:47:49.020 but

01:47:49.520 is

01:47:49.660 your

01:47:49.880 advice

01:47:50.240 to

01:47:50.440 say

01:47:50.640 that

01:47:50.880 you

01:47:51.300 should

01:47:51.480 maintain

01:47:52.000 an

01:47:52.220 unhealthy

01:47:52.800 relationship

01:47:53.500 for the sake

01:47:54.080 of the

01:47:54.360 children

01:47:54.580 which

01:47:54.860 I

01:47:55.340 experience

01:47:56.000 in my

01:47:56.320 work

01:47:56.680 a lot

01:47:57.140 of

01:47:57.300 I

01:47:57.600 instruct

01:47:57.940 a lot

01:47:58.140 of

01:47:58.260 psychiatrists

01:47:58.920 and

01:47:59.060 psychologists

01:47:59.560 to

01:47:59.900 examine

01:48:00.200 my

01:48:00.440 clients

01:48:00.880 and

01:48:01.720 when

01:48:01.940 I

01:48:02.120 do

01:48:02.420 a

01:48:02.620 lot

01:48:02.740 of

01:48:02.800 it

01:48:02.880 comes

01:48:03.100 from

01:48:03.260 their

01:48:03.400 background

01:48:03.860 and

01:48:04.060 the

01:48:04.160 sort

01:48:04.300 of

01:48:04.420 relationship

01:48:05.020 and

01:48:05.200 household

01:48:05.580 that

01:48:05.800 they

01:48:05.920 brought

01:48:06.180 up

01:48:06.380 in

01:48:16.380 and

01:48:16.580 I

01:48:16.740 think

01:48:17.120 people

01:48:17.580 throw

01:48:17.920 in

01:48:18.100 the

01:48:18.240 towel

01:48:18.600 too

01:48:19.000 soon

01:48:19.460 and

01:48:20.040 I

01:48:21.920 think

01:48:22.280 it's

01:48:22.640 because

01:48:23.180 older

01:48:24.100 women 1.00

01:48:24.480 give

01:48:24.900 us

01:48:25.260 excuses

01:48:25.880 I

01:48:26.480 think

01:48:26.680 that

01:48:26.900 is

01:48:27.060 why

01:48:27.220 because

01:48:27.900 women 1.00

01:48:30.180 respond

01:48:30.680 to

01:48:31.200 social

01:48:31.760 shame

01:48:32.300 very

01:48:32.860 quickly

01:48:33.440 women 1.00

01:48:34.340 like

01:48:34.660 that's

01:48:34.960 why

01:48:35.140 do

01:48:35.520 you

01:48:35.620 think

01:48:35.800 we

01:48:36.000 change

01:48:37.020 the

01:48:37.240 fashion

01:48:37.680 trend

01:48:38.040 so

01:48:38.340 quick

01:48:38.680 women 1.00

01:48:39.000 respond

01:48:39.480 very

01:48:39.800 quickly

01:48:40.180 to

01:48:40.440 media

01:48:40.820 and

01:48:41.080 social

01:48:41.480 shame

01:48:41.880 so

01:48:42.340 we

01:48:42.520 have

01:48:42.680 a

01:48:42.940 culture

01:48:43.380 that

01:48:44.020 bails

01:48:44.380 out

01:48:44.720 women 1.00

01:48:45.020 of

01:48:45.220 our

01:48:45.360 bad

01:48:45.720 decisions

01:48:46.280 by

01:48:46.600 telling

01:48:46.980 them

01:48:47.220 they're

01:48:47.420 not

01:48:47.680 bad

01:48:48.280 and

01:48:48.700 older

01:48:49.120 women 1.00

01:48:49.440 do

01:48:49.840 this

01:48:50.280 then

01:48:50.960 you

01:48:51.200 have

01:48:51.440 a

01:48:51.580 bunch

01:48:51.820 of

01:48:51.980 single

01:48:52.360 mothers

01:48:52.760 who

01:48:53.260 make

01:48:53.540 excuses

01:48:54.200 for

01:48:54.680 their

01:48:54.900 poor

01:48:55.160 decisions

01:48:55.740 can I

01:48:56.060 just

01:48:56.220 say

01:48:56.360 I agree

01:48:56.860 can I

01:48:57.520 just

01:48:57.680 say

01:48:57.780 I agree

01:48:58.660 with what

01:48:59.160 you've

01:48:59.460 said

01:48:59.820 however

01:49:00.260 can I

01:49:03.260 just

01:49:03.500 say

01:49:03.720 though

01:49:04.000 reality

01:49:04.360 is

01:49:04.580 different

01:49:04.900 reality

01:49:05.860 is

01:49:06.240 different

01:49:06.420 this

01:49:07.640 isn't

01:49:09.040 right

01:49:09.520 you

01:49:10.500 literally

01:49:11.380 cannot

01:49:12.060 say

01:49:13.900 that

01:49:14.340 it's

01:49:15.280 all

01:49:15.540 no

01:49:15.900 I

01:49:16.000 mean

01:49:16.120 you

01:49:16.280 can

01:49:16.480 say

01:49:16.680 whatever

01:49:16.960 you

01:49:17.200 want

01:49:17.380 to

01:49:17.500 say

01:49:17.700 and

01:49:17.920 ultimately

01:49:18.380 this

01:49:18.720 is

01:49:18.860 your

01:49:19.020 show

01:49:19.280 and

01:49:19.420 we

01:49:19.540 all

01:49:19.680 have

01:49:19.860 to

01:49:20.000 behave

01:49:20.440 do you

01:49:21.000 understand

01:49:21.140 what I'm

01:49:21.460 saying

01:49:21.720 no

01:49:22.200 because

01:49:22.360 it is

01:49:22.620 what it

01:49:22.860 is

01:49:23.080 but however

01:49:23.900 life isn't

01:49:27.140 so cut

01:49:27.560 and dry

01:49:27.920 it's not

01:49:28.500 it's really

01:49:29.220 not

01:49:29.460 relationships

01:49:30.060 aren't so

01:49:30.600 cut

01:49:30.820 and dry

01:49:31.080 and that's

01:49:31.500 typically

01:49:31.920 what women 1.00

01:49:32.540 say

01:49:33.160 that's

01:49:33.520 typically

01:49:33.900 I do

01:49:34.240 so many

01:49:34.580 of these

01:49:34.760 shows

01:49:34.960 guys

01:49:35.480 this is

01:49:35.840 literally

01:49:36.140 wait

01:49:36.560 can you

01:49:38.400 give us

01:49:38.720 the ideal

01:49:39.240 advice

01:49:39.580 wait

01:49:39.960 wait

01:49:40.340 wait

01:49:40.940 wait

01:49:41.440 wait

01:49:41.940 wait

01:49:42.440 wait

01:49:42.940 my lord

01:49:43.580 it's like

01:49:44.500 what

01:49:44.700 I don't know

01:49:45.940 how any

01:49:46.260 guys in a

01:49:46.680 relationship

01:49:47.100 with you

01:49:47.480 guys

01:49:47.660 you can't

01:49:47.980 get a

01:49:48.180 sentence

01:49:48.640 we give

01:49:54.500 you

01:49:54.700 we give

01:49:55.140 you

01:49:55.300 one

01:49:55.560 rule

01:49:56.000 we give

01:49:56.920 you

01:49:57.080 one

01:49:57.360 rule

01:49:57.780 one

01:49:58.260 rule

01:49:58.680 oh my

01:50:00.400 gosh

01:50:00.680 okay

01:50:01.080 so I

01:50:01.660 don't even

01:50:01.900 remember

01:50:02.120 what I was

01:50:02.320 talking about

01:50:02.720 what do

01:50:02.960 you guys

01:50:03.300 think

01:50:03.540 what do

01:50:04.020 you guys

01:50:04.300 wait

01:50:04.580 it's just

01:50:04.960 to say

01:50:05.300 that advice

01:50:05.860 is sometimes

01:50:06.480 I want

01:50:07.260 to hear

01:50:07.720 from you

01:50:08.100 guys

01:50:08.320 okay

01:50:09.600 let's go

01:50:10.140 to the next

01:50:11.200 one

01:50:11.520 let's go

01:50:11.920 to the next

01:50:12.420 rule

01:50:12.780 I just

01:50:18.340 think

01:50:18.540 we're talking

01:50:18.740 about what

01:50:19.180 men want 0.97

01:50:19.880 but nobody's

01:50:20.620 asked the

01:50:20.960 men

01:50:21.200 like any

01:50:21.780 question

01:50:22.120 ever

01:50:22.720 we've

01:50:23.880 just been

01:50:24.260 looking at

01:50:24.880 each other

01:50:25.040 well at least

01:50:26.440 at least

01:50:27.020 they know

01:50:27.660 you know

01:50:28.280 they've got

01:50:29.460 a good idea

01:50:30.120 you know

01:50:30.940 I've had so

01:50:31.800 many opinions

01:50:32.380 but I was

01:50:32.700 just like

01:50:32.980 okay

01:50:33.320 now you deserve

01:50:35.240 to talk

01:50:35.620 my man

01:50:35.980 because you've

01:50:36.300 been waiting

01:50:36.660 to jump in

01:50:37.160 go ahead

01:50:38.040 I mean

01:50:38.700 it's just

01:50:39.220 that I don't

01:50:39.540 even want

01:50:39.900 to go back

01:50:40.340 to the topic

01:50:40.880 of like

01:50:41.200 abortion

01:50:41.540 that's

01:50:43.220 when it

01:50:43.420 was from

01:50:43.740 no this

01:50:45.620 one was

01:50:45.980 domestic

01:50:46.480 skills

01:50:47.080 sorry but

01:50:48.240 like

01:50:48.500 it's just

01:50:48.940 like

01:50:49.220 because I

01:50:49.580 feel like

01:50:49.900 when you

01:50:50.200 talk about

01:50:50.680 a lot of

01:50:51.080 things that

01:50:51.460 have to

01:50:51.840 do

01:50:52.100 especially

01:50:52.780 related to

01:50:53.440 like having

01:50:53.780 children and

01:50:54.400 abortion and

01:50:54.980 whatnot

01:50:55.260 like why is

01:50:56.360 why is the

01:50:56.900 opinion of the

01:50:57.460 man is like

01:50:57.960 is not relevant

01:50:58.640 like if he

01:50:59.320 wants to be

01:50:59.940 a father

01:51:00.400 and he genuinely

01:51:01.240 wants to have

01:51:01.840 a daughter

01:51:02.240 or a son

01:51:03.140 right

01:51:03.720 because I'm

01:51:04.400 not ashamed

01:51:05.020 to say this

01:51:05.460 I'm 27

01:51:06.020 and I've caught

01:51:06.840 myself the other

01:51:07.480 day just having

01:51:08.000 this thought

01:51:08.400 in my head

01:51:08.880 I was like

01:51:09.180 I wish I had

01:51:09.880 a daughter

01:51:10.160 you know

01:51:10.800 and there's

01:51:11.420 nothing wrong

01:51:11.900 with it

01:51:12.200 so it's like

01:51:12.800 if I was put

01:51:13.800 in that

01:51:14.080 situation

01:51:14.600 why am I

01:51:15.620 not allowed

01:51:16.180 to voice

01:51:17.920 my opinion

01:51:18.580 yeah

01:51:19.060 like to say

01:51:20.180 you know

01:51:21.440 because the

01:51:22.460 modern day

01:51:22.880 narrative is

01:51:23.580 her body

01:51:24.320 her choice

01:51:24.840 it fails to

01:51:25.420 acknowledge

01:51:25.700 like what

01:51:26.120 you said

01:51:26.480 that it

01:51:26.700 takes two

01:51:27.060 to turn

01:51:27.440 going

01:51:27.580 it's

01:51:29.080 two people

01:51:30.240 but unfortunately

01:51:31.740 that's the world

01:51:32.700 that we live in

01:51:33.540 men are basically 0.85

01:51:34.360 second class

01:51:35.020 citizens

01:51:35.260 I've honestly

01:51:35.780 had friends

01:51:36.380 that unfollowed

01:51:37.580 me because I

01:51:38.540 voiced my opinion

01:51:39.260 or something

01:51:39.680 like that

01:51:40.140 I don't think

01:51:40.900 you should

01:51:41.100 stop doing

01:51:41.560 that

01:51:41.800 100%

01:51:42.720 voice your

01:51:43.220 opinion

01:51:43.580 yeah

01:51:44.600 but

01:51:45.820 do you have

01:51:46.100 an opinion

01:51:46.460 you want to

01:51:46.820 give

01:51:46.960 no my opinions

01:51:47.660 have been

01:51:47.940 quite clear

01:51:48.740 today

01:51:48.980 I just want

01:51:51.020 to say though

01:51:51.560 that in terms

01:51:52.160 of what we're

01:51:52.660 saying we're

01:51:53.020 answering the

01:51:53.480 questions as

01:51:54.020 opposed to

01:51:54.620 you're not

01:51:55.500 asking can

01:51:56.260 you give

01:51:56.580 advice for

01:51:57.160 the youth

01:51:57.560 outlet

01:51:57.740 obviously

01:51:58.360 the ideal

01:51:59.040 advice is

01:51:59.620 one thing

01:52:00.060 but in

01:52:00.700 reality

01:52:01.240 it's

01:52:01.600 something

01:52:01.980 else

01:52:02.360 and it's

01:52:02.920 not possible

01:52:03.660 for a woman

01:52:04.800 or a man

01:52:05.720 to anticipate

01:52:06.500 what sort

01:52:07.620 of relationship

01:52:08.220 they're getting

01:52:08.500 or how

01:52:08.860 it's going

01:52:09.200 to turn

01:52:09.560 out after

01:52:10.020 a number

01:52:10.420 of years

01:52:10.940 but all

01:52:11.600 you could

01:52:11.860 do is

01:52:12.140 work with

01:52:12.500 it

01:52:12.600 and with

01:52:12.860 the children

01:52:13.420 as a

01:52:13.740 priority

01:52:14.140 if it's

01:52:15.020 unhealthy

01:52:15.380 then you've

01:52:15.780 got to

01:52:15.920 leave

01:52:16.100 but you can

01:52:17.440 make good

01:52:17.940 choices

01:52:21.080 absolutely

01:52:21.720 exactly

01:52:22.560 you don't

01:52:22.940 have to

01:52:23.220 choose to

01:52:23.740 leave

01:52:24.040 you don't

01:52:24.320 have to

01:52:24.580 choose to

01:52:24.960 be a

01:52:25.200 single

01:52:25.440 mother

01:52:25.760 these are

01:52:27.520 all choices

01:52:28.440 what if

01:52:29.660 let's

01:52:30.080 hypothetically

01:52:30.680 let's

01:52:31.160 give some

01:52:31.460 scenarios

01:52:31.900 then

01:52:32.180 to catch

01:52:32.620 you

01:52:32.780 on

01:52:32.900 this

01:52:33.060 point

01:52:33.340 so what

01:52:34.360 if

01:52:34.600 you

01:52:35.600 the woman 0.98

01:52:36.220 doesn't decide

01:52:37.020 to leave

01:52:37.460 but the male

01:52:38.260 then decides

01:52:39.480 to leave

01:52:39.800 should she

01:52:40.440 throw in a towel

01:52:41.280 continue to be

01:52:42.200 everything that she

01:52:42.840 should be

01:52:43.100 well why did

01:52:44.140 why did he

01:52:44.640 leave

01:52:44.980 because of the

01:52:46.040 woman are you 1.00

01:52:46.380 saying

01:52:46.640 I didn't

01:52:48.340 I didn't say

01:52:49.020 anything I asked

01:52:49.820 the question

01:52:50.500 why do you get

01:52:51.520 because the

01:52:51.880 relationship is not

01:52:52.480 healthy I think

01:52:53.120 okay but why

01:52:53.820 isn't it healthy

01:52:54.760 because of a

01:52:55.720 number of reasons

01:52:56.340 it could be

01:52:56.800 you can't give me

01:52:58.560 a fake scenario

01:52:59.340 and not give me

01:53:00.140 I can give you

01:53:00.660 scenarios

01:53:01.140 okay give me

01:53:01.740 the reason

01:53:02.180 it could be

01:53:03.280 for the male

01:53:03.980 or the woman

01:53:04.840 if either the male

01:53:05.800 or the woman

01:53:06.380 is for example

01:53:07.620 cheating

01:53:09.140 having an affair

01:53:09.960 or if the male

01:53:10.940 or the woman

01:53:11.780 because the woman 0.99

01:53:12.200 could be violent

01:53:12.680 as well

01:53:13.120 is violent

01:53:13.860 in the relationship

01:53:14.560 so in this

01:53:15.160 scenario what's

01:53:15.880 happening

01:53:16.260 any one of them

01:53:17.840 you're talking

01:53:18.720 generally for everything

01:53:19.760 I'm trying to be real

01:53:20.780 okay

01:53:21.320 I'm trying to

01:53:23.240 I'm trying to

01:53:23.820 but you keep

01:53:24.320 giving me a couple

01:53:25.160 I need a situation

01:53:26.320 what is the situation

01:53:27.300 it could be all of them

01:53:28.260 but what is

01:53:29.280 you made up the

01:53:29.960 situation

01:53:30.500 so what is it

01:53:31.540 what is the

01:53:32.120 so he's hitting her

01:53:33.300 she's hitting him 0.97

01:53:34.620 it's just unhealthy

01:53:35.700 it's an unhealthy

01:53:36.380 relationship

01:53:36.860 that's violence

01:53:37.960 that's not unhealthy

01:53:39.080 that's violence

01:53:39.800 yeah that's crazy

01:53:40.580 that's abuse

01:53:40.960 but then should you

01:53:42.140 stay together

01:53:42.860 for the sake of

01:53:43.640 the children

01:53:44.080 for the children

01:53:44.660 to witness that

01:53:45.400 or should you

01:53:45.820 aim for better

01:53:46.540 and maybe you

01:53:47.600 work better

01:53:48.300 outside of the

01:53:48.920 relationship

01:53:49.360 co-parenting

01:53:50.160 than you do

01:53:50.780 under one roof

01:53:51.720 I just think that

01:53:52.740 if that's happening

01:53:53.420 where people

01:53:54.080 got to the point

01:53:55.200 where they're having

01:53:55.840 blows with each other

01:53:56.820 I just feel like

01:53:57.820 there must have been

01:53:58.380 some sort of sign

01:53:59.280 somewhere

01:53:59.740 even if it's not

01:54:00.380 physical

01:54:00.740 you like knew

01:54:01.720 somewhere

01:54:02.500 that this was

01:54:03.760 going to get physical

01:54:04.340 at some point

01:54:04.940 there's normally signs

01:54:06.740 and then somebody

01:54:07.720 so what you're saying

01:54:08.560 is somebody

01:54:09.140 goes into relationship

01:54:10.160 and says

01:54:10.900 okay this relationship

01:54:12.360 is going to be toxic

01:54:13.140 I can see I'm going

01:54:13.860 to have children

01:54:14.440 and that my partner

01:54:15.160 is going to leave me

01:54:16.020 in 10 years

01:54:16.500 no I'm not saying

01:54:18.240 that

01:54:18.400 I'm saying

01:54:21.620 there's normally

01:54:22.140 signs that this

01:54:23.220 person has those

01:54:24.100 kind of traits

01:54:24.840 is what I'm saying

01:54:25.460 you can't tell me

01:54:26.580 that

01:54:26.740 sometimes

01:54:27.540 but

01:54:28.280 I'd say most of the

01:54:29.220 time they have signs

01:54:29.960 and people

01:54:30.280 they choose to ignore

01:54:31.160 my question is always

01:54:32.180 did your dad like him

01:54:33.380 and the answer is

01:54:34.580 typically no

01:54:35.380 typically

01:54:36.900 so if you didn't

01:54:37.960 get your dad

01:54:38.460 if you're

01:54:39.460 we know

01:54:40.840 if you didn't get

01:54:42.440 your dad involved

01:54:43.360 with helping pick

01:54:44.220 your partner

01:54:44.760 what if your dad

01:54:45.380 did like him

01:54:46.020 what if your dad

01:54:46.860 did like him

01:54:47.340 I've never gotten

01:54:48.220 to that stage

01:54:48.900 where somebody

01:54:49.800 like fully

01:54:50.540 like a girl 0.67

01:54:51.140 came up to me

01:54:51.700 and said okay

01:54:52.200 let's go and just

01:54:53.180 meet my father

01:54:53.740 meet my family

01:54:54.880 I don't think

01:54:56.040 that's something

01:54:56.520 that happens

01:54:57.080 but they should

01:54:57.700 bring that back

01:54:58.320 though

01:54:58.540 I know

01:55:00.580 but I'm saying

01:55:01.020 they would be

01:55:01.900 a good thing

01:55:02.540 right

01:55:02.780 if you want

01:55:03.280 if you want

01:55:03.940 to have a kid

01:55:04.540 like wouldn't it

01:55:05.340 be good to just

01:55:05.980 say hey family

01:55:06.660 is this a good

01:55:07.160 person

01:55:07.620 what about

01:55:08.000 if you don't

01:55:08.280 have a family

01:55:08.980 though

01:55:09.300 well whose fault

01:55:10.980 is that typically

01:55:11.880 if you're born

01:55:13.040 into if your parents

01:55:14.380 are both dying

01:55:14.920 but I'm going

01:55:16.300 but I'm going

01:55:16.940 back to it

01:55:17.620 typically the women 0.95

01:55:18.560 leave

01:55:19.080 so typically

01:55:20.280 that goes back

01:55:21.140 to women leaving

01:55:22.320 if I'm a child

01:55:23.320 and both of my

01:55:23.920 parents died

01:55:24.700 so I have no

01:55:25.760 guidance

01:55:26.320 now this

01:55:28.340 hypothetical

01:55:29.240 is an orphan

01:55:30.440 it's hypothetical

01:55:31.340 there's a lot

01:55:32.040 the fact is

01:55:33.100 there's a lot

01:55:33.540 of hypothetical

01:55:34.080 examples

01:55:35.080 there is a lot

01:55:36.140 but why

01:55:36.560 why is this

01:55:38.520 an abused orphan

01:55:39.960 it could be

01:55:40.860 anything

01:55:41.380 it could literally

01:55:42.320 be anything

01:55:43.320 100%

01:55:45.100 but the point

01:55:46.640 is we can't

01:55:47.160 speak out

01:55:47.660 for everyone

01:55:48.400 because there's

01:55:48.760 literally

01:55:49.020 circles

01:55:49.320 okay well

01:55:50.600 as an adult

01:55:51.440 having a conversation

01:55:52.760 do we not know

01:55:54.800 that we are not

01:55:55.580 talking about

01:55:56.280 every single person

01:55:57.320 does everybody

01:55:58.760 know that

01:55:59.380 yeah

01:55:59.680 so why do you

01:56:00.440 guys keep bringing

01:56:01.060 this up

01:56:01.420 we know

01:56:01.800 it's the exception

01:56:03.640 we know

01:56:04.140 we know there's

01:56:04.760 exceptions

01:56:05.200 we've said this

01:56:05.740 so many times

01:56:06.300 so if they are

01:56:06.920 if they are

01:56:07.580 an orphan

01:56:08.040 both their parents

01:56:09.140 have died

01:56:09.480 and they're beating

01:56:11.260 each other up

01:56:11.920 to the inch of death

01:56:13.040 yeah

01:56:13.340 fair enough

01:56:14.420 no no no

01:56:15.400 but listen

01:56:15.780 I will hold them

01:56:16.500 back in

01:56:17.040 I will back them

01:56:18.220 both of them

01:56:19.340 leaving

01:56:19.640 if they're orphan

01:56:20.240 those are

01:56:22.240 circumstances

01:56:22.600 I'm like

01:56:22.940 because I feel

01:56:23.420 like if you're

01:56:24.220 in a happily

01:56:24.700 married environment

01:56:25.840 otherwise

01:56:26.140 you're not going

01:56:26.500 to separate

01:56:26.940 unless there's

01:56:27.540 one of these

01:56:28.000 exceptions

01:56:28.760 most of the

01:56:29.440 most of the

01:56:29.860 reasons

01:56:30.080 just like

01:56:30.720 you know

01:56:31.200 that's crazy

01:56:31.980 I know

01:56:32.500 I know people

01:56:33.120 that have worked

01:56:33.680 through abuse

01:56:34.400 I know people

01:56:35.520 genuinely

01:56:35.940 that have worked

01:56:36.720 through it

01:56:37.360 that is good

01:56:38.000 that's the goal

01:56:38.660 I know people

01:56:39.740 I know people

01:56:40.400 that have worked

01:56:40.960 through cheating

01:56:41.580 I know people

01:56:43.100 that have worked

01:56:43.640 through toxic

01:56:44.340 relationships

01:56:45.080 but the problem

01:56:46.480 is we're told

01:56:47.080 you can't work

01:56:47.900 through these things

01:56:48.680 and if it's unhealthy

01:56:49.620 it can never

01:56:50.260 become healthy

01:56:51.000 and the best

01:56:51.600 option is to leave

01:56:52.620 when generally

01:56:53.800 the best option

01:56:58.480 is to work it out

01:56:59.580 let me just point

01:57:01.220 something out

01:57:01.680 but you see

01:57:02.180 this goes back

01:57:03.560 to the initial

01:57:04.040 point we made

01:57:04.700 of how we give

01:57:05.780 advice

01:57:06.240 because the reality

01:57:07.440 is you just said

01:57:08.520 you don't agree

01:57:09.100 with it right

01:57:09.700 agree with what

01:57:10.680 like you don't agree

01:57:11.760 that the first

01:57:12.800 option is to leave

01:57:13.780 that you should

01:57:14.220 work through things

01:57:14.940 no you should

01:57:16.280 try and work

01:57:16.740 but my point

01:57:17.640 is that it's not

01:57:18.060 impossible

01:57:18.380 and that's my

01:57:20.760 point

01:57:21.020 so you do

01:57:22.740 agree that you

01:57:23.600 should work

01:57:23.940 through things

01:57:24.360 but everything

01:57:25.360 you've been

01:57:25.780 arguing here

01:57:26.420 has been against

01:57:27.360 that

01:57:27.820 no it hasn't

01:57:29.720 it has

01:57:30.500 because every

01:57:32.820 time she says

01:57:33.440 something about

01:57:33.940 well you should

01:57:34.520 stay then you

01:57:35.040 bring up

01:57:35.480 you try to

01:57:36.380 look for a reason

01:57:36.840 why you should

01:57:37.440 leave

01:57:37.720 if you can

01:57:38.840 stay

01:57:40.080 if you said

01:57:41.280 straight lace

01:57:42.000 do you think

01:57:42.720 if you said

01:57:43.320 it in this way

01:57:44.020 that do you

01:57:44.820 think that you

01:57:45.580 should work

01:57:46.520 on a relationship

01:57:47.360 up until the

01:57:48.420 point you know

01:57:49.140 if it can be

01:57:49.900 worked out

01:57:50.360 should you

01:57:50.740 work on it

01:57:51.280 100%

01:57:52.500 100%

01:57:52.940 I think if you

01:57:53.580 can make something

01:57:54.180 work

01:57:54.500 make it work

01:57:55.420 but if it cannot

01:57:58.160 be worked out

01:57:58.820 if it is not

01:57:59.600 healthy

01:58:00.080 I'm saying

01:58:00.780 then that is

01:58:01.980 not the best

01:58:02.640 thing to do

01:58:03.200 I gave you the

01:58:03.800 best answer

01:58:04.380 make it healthy

01:58:05.040 no but the

01:58:05.600 point is

01:58:06.020 the point is

01:58:06.540 the point is

01:58:07.180 but you can't

01:58:07.680 you're saying it

01:58:08.340 like you can

01:58:08.880 just make it

01:58:09.600 healthy

01:58:09.940 the point is

01:58:12.680 if you do

01:58:13.240 not

01:58:13.540 the point is

01:58:14.560 the message

01:58:15.660 that needs to

01:58:16.140 be out there

01:58:16.880 what you're

01:58:17.260 saying

01:58:17.560 the message

01:58:17.900 that needs

01:58:18.260 to be out

01:58:18.460 there

01:58:18.580 if it can

01:58:19.400 work

01:58:19.720 make it

01:58:20.440 work

01:58:20.700 if it can't

01:58:21.640 and it's

01:58:22.000 unhealthy

01:58:22.380 walk away

01:58:23.120 for the sake

01:58:24.360 of the children

01:58:24.980 that is

01:58:25.840 giving a caveat

01:58:27.060 it's reality

01:58:29.300 it's not

01:58:30.500 it's reality

01:58:31.980 because that's

01:58:32.500 what we've

01:58:32.800 made it

01:58:33.380 the reality

01:58:34.360 is

01:58:35.540 for instance

01:58:36.240 we all know

01:58:37.040 that selling

01:58:37.980 drugs is bad

01:58:38.740 right

01:58:39.360 so if

01:58:40.420 for instance

01:58:40.920 we know

01:58:41.720 that

01:58:42.720 selling drugs

01:58:44.240 is bad

01:58:44.560 and we say

01:58:44.940 selling drugs

01:58:45.440 is bad

01:58:45.860 that is the

01:58:46.460 baseline

01:58:46.960 it doesn't

01:58:47.840 mean that

01:58:48.240 I can still

01:58:51.500 go out there

01:58:51.980 and meet a

01:58:52.480 little boy

01:58:53.120 who tells me

01:58:53.940 his story

01:58:54.480 and he tells

01:58:55.420 me all he

01:58:56.240 went through

01:58:56.800 and I could

01:58:58.320 empathize with

01:58:59.300 him

01:58:59.560 on a

01:59:01.440 specific level

01:59:03.040 on a

01:59:03.600 one-on-one

01:59:03.980 level

01:59:04.320 but you would

01:59:05.100 never hear me

01:59:05.760 come out and

01:59:06.280 say well

01:59:07.100 there should be

01:59:07.820 situations where

01:59:08.520 I can

01:59:08.980 understand that

01:59:09.720 selling drugs

01:59:10.120 is bad

01:59:10.440 because that

01:59:11.100 is a wrong

01:59:11.540 message to

01:59:11.920 pass

01:59:12.160 even though

01:59:12.680 it's true

01:59:13.260 no it is

01:59:14.520 but it is

01:59:15.160 the same

01:59:15.480 concept

01:59:16.300 I would argue

01:59:18.420 it's worse

01:59:19.160 oh my god

01:59:20.020 it's absolutely

01:59:20.720 worse to break

01:59:21.600 up a family

01:59:22.240 because the

01:59:22.920 kids suffer

01:59:24.040 I agree

01:59:25.540 but so why are

01:59:27.000 you arguing

01:59:27.720 for every

01:59:28.380 excuse to

01:59:29.280 let kids

01:59:29.960 suffer

01:59:30.340 yes you

01:59:31.400 are

01:59:31.680 no I

01:59:32.060 am not

01:59:32.420 what I'm

01:59:32.840 saying is

01:59:33.400 I agree

01:59:34.080 if it can

01:59:35.320 work out

01:59:35.980 then yes

01:59:36.940 work it out

01:59:37.840 I'm a great

01:59:38.420 believer of

01:59:39.040 keeping families

01:59:39.820 together

01:59:40.260 100%

01:59:41.720 all I'm

01:59:42.520 saying

01:59:42.860 period

01:59:43.180 all I'm

01:59:43.760 saying

01:59:44.040 period

01:59:44.320 it's not

01:59:46.880 I said this

01:59:47.760 at the

01:59:47.940 start of the

01:59:48.540 show

01:59:48.720 just have a

01:59:49.680 baseline

01:59:50.020 this is bad

01:59:51.140 and then yes

01:59:51.960 there might be

01:59:52.420 other reasons

01:59:53.280 why you might

01:59:53.780 leave but just

01:59:54.240 have a baseline

01:59:55.120 it's bad

01:59:55.920 so you mean

01:59:57.340 say what we

01:59:58.080 want you to

01:59:58.600 say and then

01:59:59.260 end it there

02:00:00.020 no no no

02:00:00.920 you mean

02:00:01.440 disregard reality

02:00:03.280 let me ask you

02:00:04.240 a few questions

02:00:04.840 disregard reality

02:00:05.920 and focus on

02:00:06.720 the hypothetical

02:00:07.400 perfect ideal

02:00:08.740 no no no

02:00:09.500 I'm going to

02:00:09.920 ask you some

02:00:10.220 questions then

02:00:10.800 yeah

02:00:11.060 yes or no

02:00:12.180 answers right

02:00:14.260 is abortion 0.80

02:00:15.180 bad

02:00:15.540 like I said

02:00:18.080 here we go

02:00:18.780 there it is

02:00:20.280 that's the

02:00:20.580 thing again

02:00:20.940 that's why

02:00:21.280 because it's

02:00:22.280 not realistic

02:00:22.760 yes or no

02:00:24.040 in general

02:00:24.720 in general

02:00:25.480 is abortion 0.80

02:00:26.640 bad

02:00:26.960 simple

02:00:27.160 not everything

02:00:28.120 is black

02:00:28.620 or white

02:00:29.000 in life

02:00:29.520 can I ask

02:00:30.240 you a question

02:00:30.620 can I just

02:00:31.060 ask everyone

02:00:31.440 a question

02:00:31.720 how many

02:00:32.900 people in

02:00:33.540 this room

02:00:34.100 have children

02:00:35.160 how many of

02:00:36.060 you have

02:00:36.360 children

02:00:36.740 okay you have

02:00:37.460 children

02:00:37.740 how many of

02:00:38.680 you have

02:00:39.000 ever been

02:00:39.620 in a

02:00:40.580 relationship

02:00:41.180 where you've

02:00:41.700 got into

02:00:42.060 the relationship

02:00:42.540 you thought

02:00:42.940 it was going

02:00:43.260 to be healthy

02:00:43.740 for example

02:00:44.360 and that

02:00:45.300 person maybe

02:00:46.040 turned out

02:00:46.620 to be

02:00:47.080 then indifferent

02:00:47.820 and it

02:00:48.260 didn't work

02:00:48.780 out

02:00:49.080 how many

02:00:50.260 yeah

02:00:50.700 there's anyone

02:00:51.440 in one of my

02:00:52.180 relationships

02:00:52.520 there's always

02:00:52.960 been signs

02:00:53.520 hold on

02:00:53.860 that's what I was

02:00:54.580 going to say

02:00:55.000 there's always

02:00:55.520 been signs

02:00:56.520 are you happily

02:00:57.160 are you happily

02:00:57.780 married

02:00:58.120 I'm not

02:00:59.240 oh

02:00:59.680 is anyone in

02:01:00.640 here married

02:01:00.920 well to be

02:01:02.620 no

02:01:03.280 is anyone in

02:01:04.760 here married

02:01:05.180 no one's

02:01:06.520 going to be

02:01:06.840 married

02:01:07.220 look at

02:01:07.720 we're in a

02:01:08.140 I can give you

02:01:08.820 the numbers

02:01:09.840 we're in a

02:01:10.240 post-marriage

02:01:10.760 society

02:01:11.420 I'm not

02:01:12.260 I'm not

02:01:13.180 interested in

02:01:13.660 the numbers

02:01:14.080 I'm saying

02:01:15.560 like under

02:01:15.980 40 people

02:01:16.700 generally aren't

02:01:17.360 married

02:01:17.600 I'm going to

02:01:18.260 get it back

02:01:18.600 though

02:01:18.800 because I have

02:01:20.660 to ask people

02:01:21.260 to marry

02:01:21.600 to

02:01:22.000 you have to

02:01:23.540 get someone

02:01:23.840 to ask you

02:01:24.360 which

02:01:24.880 what does

02:01:25.780 what does that

02:01:25.940 mean

02:01:26.260 what does that

02:01:26.940 mean

02:01:27.160 I have to

02:01:27.660 get someone

02:01:28.020 to ask me

02:01:28.540 I have to

02:01:29.500 get someone

02:01:30.260 to ask me

02:01:30.820 about people's

02:01:32.640 backgrounds

02:01:33.140 because I'm

02:01:33.700 just because

02:01:34.120 everything is

02:01:34.880 about statistics

02:01:35.640 who cares about

02:01:36.480 backgrounds

02:01:36.960 the question

02:01:38.720 is

02:01:40.100 the question

02:01:41.500 is is the

02:01:42.240 information

02:01:42.900 true

02:01:43.360 I don't care

02:01:44.620 who's saying

02:01:45.400 it or what

02:01:45.880 their background

02:01:46.480 is

02:01:46.880 I don't care

02:01:47.500 no it's not

02:01:49.100 important

02:01:49.580 wait wait

02:01:52.000 what is important

02:01:52.920 is is the

02:01:53.800 information

02:01:54.580 true

02:01:55.260 I think

02:01:56.060 I don't know

02:01:56.820 anything about

02:01:57.540 anyone in this

02:01:58.300 room

02:01:58.660 wait wait

02:02:00.460 I don't know

02:02:01.440 anything about

02:02:02.160 anyone in this

02:02:02.840 room I have no

02:02:03.560 idea what your

02:02:04.180 backgrounds are

02:02:05.000 I just want to

02:02:06.220 know what is

02:02:06.840 true and what

02:02:07.480 is not true

02:02:08.220 and we can never

02:02:09.320 get to that

02:02:09.960 because we're too

02:02:10.620 busy arguing

02:02:11.380 about the

02:02:11.880 exception

02:02:12.220 I don't think

02:02:13.240 it's arguing

02:02:13.900 I literally think

02:02:15.700 if we're talking

02:02:16.380 about in general

02:02:18.000 what's the best

02:02:18.860 advice to give

02:02:19.560 to an 18 year

02:02:20.460 old in general

02:02:21.640 what's the best

02:02:22.480 family life you

02:02:23.420 can provide for

02:02:24.080 children we would

02:02:25.280 all agree I

02:02:25.900 think what we're

02:02:26.460 simply doing is

02:02:27.760 exploring those

02:02:29.300 minorities of

02:02:31.200 what's that that's

02:02:32.020 not always

02:02:32.460 what did we

02:02:33.360 say what did

02:02:35.980 we what did

02:02:36.500 we didn't we

02:02:37.240 I had I had a

02:02:38.100 whole thing

02:02:38.620 earlier where I

02:02:39.200 said everybody

02:02:39.680 knows as an

02:02:40.580 adult there are

02:02:41.320 exceptions right

02:02:42.340 but why can't

02:02:43.160 okay okay okay

02:02:44.060 okay because

02:02:44.980 that's not what

02:02:45.900 we do here we

02:02:46.680 talk about the

02:02:47.360 rules I can tell

02:02:48.040 you why you

02:02:48.420 shouldn't explore

02:02:48.980 minorities it's

02:02:50.520 it's literally

02:02:51.120 scientific like

02:02:52.180 the brain doesn't

02:02:53.800 understand negatives

02:02:55.060 and this is what

02:02:56.180 people don't

02:02:56.500 understand when

02:02:57.340 you try to bring

02:02:58.360 up things that

02:02:59.160 are little and

02:03:00.240 insignificant the

02:03:01.560 point is that you

02:03:02.360 would tend to

02:03:02.860 focus on that

02:03:03.480 there's a reason

02:03:04.280 why the loudest

02:03:05.460 majority on the

02:03:07.180 social media is

02:03:07.840 actually the

02:03:08.320 minority of

02:03:08.940 people let me

02:03:10.340 tell you something

02:03:10.940 okay in my job I

02:03:13.020 represent the

02:03:13.700 minorities so when

02:03:14.920 I'm here I'm not

02:03:15.760 here to talk about

02:03:16.460 those that are

02:03:17.360 fed off a silver

02:03:18.060 spoon or whatever

02:03:18.880 those that are

02:03:19.320 wealthy but I'm

02:03:20.240 here to talk about

02:03:20.940 minorities in my

02:03:22.120 job I represent the

02:03:23.240 minorities and

02:03:23.940 those that are

02:03:24.280 looked down upon

02:03:25.060 but the people

02:03:26.320 that are born with

02:03:27.860 a silver spoon are

02:03:28.680 also minorities

02:03:29.540 they look

02:03:31.440 favourably on

02:03:32.500 no they're not

02:03:33.420 because you don't

02:03:34.320 even look

02:03:34.660 favourably on

02:03:35.320 them and that's a

02:03:36.320 majority of people

02:03:37.220 think the way you do

02:03:38.040 they look at people

02:03:38.980 with silver spoon and

02:03:40.140 think that they

02:03:40.940 shouldn't have

02:03:41.440 opinions

02:03:41.920 no no see I

02:03:42.840 pal I think your

02:03:43.820 opinions are great

02:03:44.620 and I think that

02:03:45.280 they're ideal and

02:03:46.200 perfect but I think

02:03:47.400 that they're just not

02:03:47.940 reality that's

02:03:48.760 different

02:03:49.140 wait wait wait

02:03:51.880 it used you know

02:03:53.660 it used to be

02:03:54.440 reality yes it

02:03:56.460 used to be reality

02:03:57.480 you cannot tell me

02:03:58.460 it can't be reality

02:03:59.500 and it's not reality

02:04:00.460 wait wait wait

02:04:01.800 I'm gonna let you

02:04:02.600 go I'm gonna let you

02:04:03.500 go one second

02:04:03.920 it used to wait

02:04:05.160 it used to be

02:04:06.420 reality a hundred

02:04:07.260 years ago 85% of

02:04:08.840 people were married

02:04:09.700 and everybody

02:04:11.060 stayed married

02:04:12.100 they got married

02:04:13.020 and they stayed

02:04:13.660 married so it

02:04:14.900 used to be a

02:04:15.560 reality for poor

02:04:16.540 people and for rich

02:04:17.620 people and I think

02:04:18.620 that's a beautiful

02:04:19.100 thing yeah and you

02:04:20.600 know this is why

02:04:21.360 and I'm gonna I'm

02:04:22.340 gonna let her go 0.97

02:04:23.120 because she hasn't

02:04:23.840 gone go ahead

02:04:24.460 so I have a

02:04:26.500 traditional mindset

02:04:27.480 where if I'm gonna

02:04:29.040 have a child it has

02:04:30.320 to be within

02:04:30.760 marriage and

02:04:31.800 me too

02:04:33.440 go queen

02:04:34.400 the last resort

02:04:35.260 is divorce

02:04:36.020 because I care

02:04:37.740 about my child

02:04:38.500 and their

02:04:39.200 upbringing

02:04:39.560 and I do

02:04:40.040 believe that

02:04:40.640 two parents

02:04:41.460 is better than

02:04:41.960 one

02:04:42.240 yes

02:04:42.640 you can get

02:04:44.180 obviously there's

02:04:45.480 exceptions

02:04:46.220 there's abuse

02:04:47.760 there's physical

02:04:49.020 abuse

02:04:49.340 whatever you want

02:04:50.140 to call it

02:04:50.480 but that's an

02:04:51.820 exception

02:04:52.260 then I would

02:04:53.260 choose to leave

02:04:53.860 but it will be

02:04:54.360 the last resort

02:04:55.080 and you've said

02:04:55.980 exactly what we've

02:04:56.920 just sat there

02:04:57.400 and said

02:04:57.680 exactly what we're

02:04:58.180 saying

02:04:58.400 she explained

02:05:01.460 the difference

02:05:02.800 between the

02:05:03.180 exception and the

02:05:03.840 rule is what

02:05:04.400 she did

02:05:04.880 she didn't just

02:05:05.660 say she wasn't

02:05:06.380 just blurting

02:05:07.560 random facts

02:05:08.280 he was

02:05:08.620 understanding the

02:05:09.660 difference between

02:05:10.460 the two

02:05:10.940 she understands

02:05:11.780 what we were

02:05:12.580 doing

02:05:12.960 because what you

02:05:14.240 guys were doing

02:05:14.820 I think what

02:05:17.140 happened was you

02:05:17.740 was being more

02:05:18.120 argumentative

02:05:19.020 we weren't being

02:05:19.720 argumentative

02:05:20.460 it is because

02:05:20.760 what we've said

02:05:22.120 no no what we've

02:05:23.160 said is very

02:05:23.720 I feel like

02:05:24.660 we've all kind of

02:05:25.460 been very clear

02:05:27.260 everyone actually

02:05:27.900 agrees just in

02:05:28.600 their own way

02:05:29.180 no I don't think

02:05:30.020 we do though

02:05:30.480 because again

02:05:31.220 you're looking at

02:05:32.160 the exception

02:05:32.800 instead of

02:05:33.500 the rule

02:05:34.100 I always look

02:05:35.140 at the minority

02:05:35.480 hold on one

02:05:36.080 second say

02:05:36.660 what you said

02:05:37.140 again

02:05:37.440 in a traditional

02:05:39.220 mindset

02:05:39.880 two is better

02:05:41.260 than one

02:05:41.680 right

02:05:42.000 so divorce

02:05:43.080 would be my

02:05:43.560 last option

02:05:44.480 right

02:05:44.800 just so I

02:05:45.900 don't break

02:05:46.340 that family

02:05:46.880 dynamic

02:05:47.300 right

02:05:47.700 and the child

02:05:48.740 gets that

02:05:49.300 normal upbringing

02:05:50.440 yes

02:05:50.840 both parents

02:05:52.080 yes unless

02:05:52.880 unless there's

02:05:53.720 exceptions where

02:05:54.660 there's abuse

02:05:55.340 which were

02:05:55.720 right okay

02:05:56.340 so

02:05:56.640 we said

02:05:58.340 exactly the

02:05:59.520 same thing

02:06:00.280 they did say

02:06:00.720 that everyone

02:06:01.120 said the same

02:06:01.700 no but what

02:06:03.880 I'm saying

02:06:04.220 is when

02:06:04.940 you're giving

02:06:05.440 when you're

02:06:05.880 giving out

02:06:06.220 advice

02:06:06.640 just have a

02:06:07.280 base

02:06:07.620 no no no

02:06:08.460 she didn't

02:06:11.220 have a base

02:06:11.840 no no did

02:06:12.600 you hear

02:06:13.020 she didn't

02:06:13.800 she didn't

02:06:14.260 say with the

02:06:15.140 adopted orphan

02:06:16.380 that's my point

02:06:17.920 is that you

02:06:18.740 don't go for

02:06:19.320 a whole road

02:06:20.140 okay okay

02:06:21.060 okay we're done

02:06:22.040 we're done

02:06:22.420 no no no

02:06:22.960 we're done

02:06:23.320 we're done

02:06:23.600 we're done

02:06:23.840 okay we're

02:06:24.820 gonna go to

02:06:25.160 the next one

02:06:25.820 the next thing

02:06:26.380 that men

02:06:26.740 want

02:06:27.220 okay

02:06:27.720 I thought

02:06:28.080 we were past

02:06:28.600 that

02:06:28.960 no no

02:06:29.760 I've been

02:06:30.600 trying to go

02:06:31.380 back

02:06:31.780 now man

02:06:33.140 I want to

02:06:33.480 hear from

02:06:33.780 the men

02:06:34.220 first

02:06:34.600 you can

02:06:34.880 tell me

02:06:35.280 if I'm

02:06:35.640 wrong

02:06:36.100 or maybe

02:06:36.760 I'm

02:06:37.000 right

02:06:37.160 maybe I

02:06:37.980 know

02:06:38.200 nothing

02:06:38.600 and I

02:06:38.820 just don't

02:06:39.180 look at

02:06:39.500 facts

02:06:39.940 ever

02:06:40.320 just

02:06:40.640 terrible

02:06:41.200 let's

02:06:41.900 let's

02:06:42.200 show the

02:06:42.880 next one

02:06:43.560 not a

02:06:44.480 complete 0.99

02:06:44.800 whore 1.00

02:06:45.200 yeah so 0.99

02:06:46.300 we're in

02:06:46.620 2023

02:06:47.280 so just

02:06:47.880 so you

02:06:48.100 guys

02:06:48.280 know

02:06:48.480 100

02:06:48.840 years

02:06:49.240 ago

02:06:49.560 most

02:06:50.240 women 1.00

02:06:50.520 were 0.98

02:06:50.740 virgins

02:06:51.220 on their

02:06:51.580 wedding

02:06:51.880 days

02:06:52.240 zero

02:06:52.660 partners

02:06:53.220 now the

02:06:54.180 men

02:06:54.400 are

02:06:54.680 able to

02:06:55.140 compromise

02:06:55.680 now on

02:06:56.420 this

02:06:56.680 and

02:06:57.260 really

02:06:57.600 these

02:06:57.960 days

02:06:58.420 they

02:06:59.020 just

02:06:59.280 want

02:06:59.680 not a

02:07:00.360 complete 0.99

02:07:00.840 whore 1.00

02:07:01.360 they're 0.99

02:07:03.300 like you

02:07:03.660 know

02:07:03.960 I mean

02:07:04.340 honestly

02:07:04.860 three

02:07:05.580 partners

02:07:06.120 was

02:07:06.460 considered

02:07:06.880 the town

02:07:07.420 bicycle

02:07:07.960 back in

02:07:08.560 the day

02:07:08.860 now that

02:07:09.960 is a

02:07:10.280 godsend

02:07:11.160 so yeah

02:07:14.020 zero to

02:07:14.540 five is

02:07:15.040 the new

02:07:15.340 virgin

02:07:15.720 which used

02:07:16.280 to be

02:07:16.580 the town

02:07:17.040 bicycle

02:07:17.620 so men

02:07:18.460 do

02:07:18.640 compromise

02:07:19.280 they

02:07:19.760 I know

02:07:19.980 they were

02:07:20.180 saying

02:07:20.380 earlier

02:07:20.700 men

02:07:20.980 don't

02:07:21.260 compromise

02:07:21.680 they do

02:07:22.380 so now

02:07:23.220 they say

02:07:23.640 not a

02:07:23.960 complete 0.99

02:07:24.300 whore 1.00

02:07:24.640 men 0.97

02:07:25.060 true

02:07:25.420 or

02:07:25.640 false

02:07:26.080 true

02:07:27.140 true

02:07:27.940 true

02:07:28.280 true

02:07:28.920 women 1.00

02:07:29.280 true

02:07:29.580 or

02:07:29.760 false

02:07:30.200 true

02:07:31.060 true

02:07:31.420 wow

02:07:32.700 this is

02:07:33.300 amazing

02:07:33.900 now the

02:07:35.980 next one

02:07:36.620 we really

02:07:37.160 needed the

02:07:37.580 other two

02:07:37.980 for this

02:07:38.380 one

02:07:38.660 they almost

02:07:42.380 made it

02:07:43.340 you know

02:07:43.820 yeah

02:07:44.540 they just

02:07:44.900 yeah

02:07:46.140 okay

02:07:46.560 well

02:07:47.000 you know

02:07:47.540 all right

02:07:47.940 the next

02:07:48.460 one

02:07:48.960 does not

02:07:50.560 argue

02:07:51.300 yeah

02:07:51.880 men

02:07:52.660 would just

02:07:53.180 rather be

02:07:53.960 with a

02:07:54.360 chick 0.95

02:07:54.720 that is

02:07:55.100 not

02:07:55.480 argumentative

02:07:56.760 and doesn't

02:07:57.860 argue

02:07:58.340 then they

02:07:58.740 should

02:07:58.900 be

02:07:59.020 with

02:07:59.180 a

02:07:59.280 man

02:07:59.560 because

02:08:01.140 every

02:08:01.480 woman 0.99

02:08:01.740 is

02:08:01.920 opinionated

02:08:02.560 no

02:08:03.140 they're not

02:08:03.420 whoa

02:08:03.720 that's not

02:08:04.300 true

02:08:04.440 wait wait

02:08:06.480 wait

02:08:06.740 I've given you

02:08:07.680 guys a lot

02:08:08.160 of airtime

02:08:08.880 I want to let

02:08:09.960 the men

02:08:10.380 speak

02:08:10.740 I'm going to let

02:08:12.580 the men

02:08:12.900 and I'm going to let

02:08:13.420 you go next

02:08:14.620 go ahead

02:08:15.580 yeah women 1.00

02:08:16.140 that all women 0.95

02:08:17.980 are opinionated

02:08:18.660 that's not true

02:08:19.520 I feel like a woman

02:08:20.340 that's deep into

02:08:21.360 her femininity

02:08:21.940 will understand

02:08:22.860 about being

02:08:23.880 not argumentative

02:08:24.980 I wouldn't say

02:08:25.580 that there's anything

02:08:26.120 wrong with having

02:08:26.900 an opinion

02:08:27.840 on something

02:08:28.540 but being

02:08:29.000 argumentative

02:08:29.660 and having an

02:08:30.620 argument with

02:08:31.060 someone is very

02:08:31.700 different than

02:08:32.240 having an opinion

02:08:32.980 on something

02:08:33.480 what a lot of

02:08:35.280 women don't 1.00

02:08:35.720 understand

02:08:36.180 is we're not

02:08:37.020 saying sit there 0.98

02:08:37.820 shut up 0.99

02:08:38.160 and never ever 1.00

02:08:38.920 talk

02:08:39.100 I'm the captain

02:08:40.540 you're the first

02:08:41.300 mate

02:08:41.580 and if I respect

02:08:42.660 you I'll take

02:08:43.380 your opinion

02:08:43.720 on board

02:08:44.060 but ultimately

02:08:44.780 the decision's

02:08:46.000 mine

02:08:46.240 but people don't

02:08:47.180 want to do

02:08:47.540 that

02:08:47.720 but that's

02:08:48.800 how it should

02:08:49.260 be

02:08:49.400 and I believe

02:08:49.800 that's when

02:08:50.400 women are the 0.99

02:08:50.880 happiest

02:08:51.240 to be honest

02:08:51.720 with you

02:08:51.880 they don't

02:08:52.100 really want to

02:08:52.520 think and plan

02:08:53.080 things a lot

02:08:53.580 of the time

02:08:54.060 so I don't

02:08:55.320 know

02:08:55.500 maybe I'm

02:08:56.220 wrong

02:08:56.420 well the

02:08:57.300 one's laughing

02:08:57.920 I want to let

02:09:02.340 the men go

02:09:03.040 go ahead

02:09:03.540 go ahead

02:09:04.020 no for me

02:09:04.800 I feel like

02:09:05.380 it's the tone

02:09:07.100 it's the voice

02:09:08.140 because at some

02:09:08.680 point it gets

02:09:09.720 to a point

02:09:10.100 where there's

02:09:10.500 a disconnect

02:09:11.480 and it's just

02:09:12.380 whose voice

02:09:12.920 is louder

02:09:13.380 so that's

02:09:14.440 kind of like

02:09:14.880 where I lose

02:09:15.660 complete focus

02:09:16.800 you know

02:09:17.680 so I feel

02:09:18.540 like if you're

02:09:19.220 if you're

02:09:19.480 talking about

02:09:20.040 you know

02:09:20.700 like whether

02:09:21.100 the fact

02:09:21.900 that men

02:09:22.300 prefer like

02:09:22.900 women that 1.00

02:09:23.320 don't argue

02:09:23.840 as much

02:09:24.240 it's probably

02:09:24.800 because of

02:09:25.280 that single

02:09:25.880 like thought

02:09:26.960 in their minds

02:09:27.440 that if we

02:09:27.980 get to an

02:09:28.440 argument

02:09:28.720 it becomes

02:09:29.300 a contest

02:09:29.760 of who's

02:09:30.320 louder

02:09:30.620 like whose

02:09:31.440 voice is

02:09:31.880 louder

02:09:32.100 so we're

02:09:32.620 not even

02:09:33.020 discussing

02:09:33.460 the topic

02:09:34.020 anymore

02:09:34.420 we're just

02:09:35.100 trying to

02:09:35.500 like impose

02:09:36.300 like okay

02:09:36.980 my opinion

02:09:37.580 is above

02:09:38.000 yours

02:09:38.300 game

02:09:39.400 what do you

02:09:39.960 guys think

02:09:40.620 then I'll

02:09:40.980 let you go

02:09:41.560 yeah I mean

02:09:44.460 I agree

02:09:45.540 I think

02:09:46.580 yeah I mean

02:09:48.080 why would you

02:09:48.560 want to be

02:09:48.860 with a woman

02:09:49.260 who argues

02:09:49.920 so much

02:09:50.580 like you

02:09:52.340 just you

02:09:52.920 know you

02:09:53.440 want to

02:09:53.700 come home

02:09:54.240 to like

02:09:54.740 peaceful

02:09:55.420 environment

02:09:56.080 you know

02:09:57.660 someone who

02:09:58.140 makes you

02:09:58.520 feel comfortable

02:09:59.340 and you

02:09:59.960 don't

02:10:00.400 constantly

02:10:00.800 need to

02:10:01.180 be like

02:10:01.620 fighting

02:10:02.100 with them

02:10:02.720 or but

02:10:04.160 at the same

02:10:04.580 time I feel

02:10:05.400 like if

02:10:07.500 you want a

02:10:07.940 woman to be 0.92

02:10:08.380 like that

02:10:08.740 you also

02:10:09.280 need to be

02:10:10.520 showing that

02:10:11.300 you have

02:10:12.600 the qualities

02:10:13.260 to be this

02:10:14.640 masculine

02:10:15.400 guy that

02:10:16.040 you're saying

02:10:16.680 and the

02:10:18.160 issue that

02:10:18.620 women face 0.94

02:10:19.200 at the

02:10:19.540 moment is

02:10:20.440 we're not

02:10:20.900 seeing those

02:10:21.620 qualities in

02:10:22.240 the men

02:10:22.540 so we're

02:10:23.240 going no

02:10:24.200 I'm gonna 1.00

02:10:25.620 run shit 0.99

02:10:26.460 basically 0.99

02:10:27.080 I'm not

02:10:29.260 sitting here

02:10:29.680 saying it's

02:10:30.020 right but

02:10:30.580 that is the

02:10:30.980 reality and

02:10:32.180 this is why

02:10:32.660 we have these

02:10:33.280 problems right

02:10:33.900 now where

02:10:34.320 women are 1.00

02:10:34.720 just kind of

02:10:35.160 like no

02:10:35.500 I'm not

02:10:35.980 going to

02:10:36.240 listen to

02:10:36.580 the man

02:10:36.820 because they

02:10:37.440 feel like

02:10:37.900 the man

02:10:38.280 is not

02:10:38.780 capable

02:10:39.460 of leading

02:10:40.420 I actually

02:10:40.780 don't agree

02:10:41.180 we had

02:10:41.620 the conversation

02:10:42.180 right

02:10:42.520 the reality

02:10:43.640 what I have

02:10:44.520 noticed in

02:10:45.280 the west

02:10:45.620 is women 0.99

02:10:46.820 actually are

02:10:47.840 shying away

02:10:48.580 from masculine

02:10:49.180 men because 0.99

02:10:49.700 women want 1.00

02:10:50.380 to be in

02:10:50.760 control

02:10:51.100 so most

02:10:51.860 women are 1.00

02:10:52.440 picking feminine 0.96

02:10:53.300 men whether

02:10:54.480 they know it

02:10:55.020 or not

02:10:55.380 the reality

02:10:56.340 is most women 1.00

02:10:56.900 want to be

02:10:57.580 able to have

02:10:58.440 their same

02:10:58.860 relationship

02:10:59.240 and when

02:10:59.740 they're with

02:11:00.040 a man that

02:11:00.540 doesn't let

02:11:00.920 them have

02:11:01.220 their way

02:11:01.680 they look

02:11:02.600 at it as

02:11:03.060 he's being

02:11:03.560 misogynistic

02:11:04.120 he's being 0.74

02:11:04.500 controlling

02:11:05.000 he's being

02:11:05.520 this

02:11:05.760 he's being

02:11:06.240 that

02:11:06.460 look at

02:11:06.740 the Pete

02:11:07.060 Davidson

02:11:07.440 trend

02:11:07.840 but I feel

02:11:10.360 like those

02:11:12.020 are certain

02:11:12.960 types of

02:11:13.440 women and 0.99

02:11:13.800 I would say

02:11:14.480 that those

02:11:14.880 type of

02:11:15.200 women have 0.95

02:11:15.620 things like

02:11:16.100 hyperindependency

02:11:17.180 and things

02:11:17.640 like that

02:11:18.000 they come

02:11:18.380 with all

02:11:18.720 sorts of

02:11:19.080 trauma

02:11:19.400 I feel

02:11:20.000 like a

02:11:20.480 woman who's 1.00

02:11:21.060 just fully

02:11:21.700 in her

02:11:22.120 feminine

02:11:22.380 energy

02:11:22.800 she would

02:11:23.480 be happy

02:11:23.900 for the

02:11:24.180 man to

02:11:24.500 leave

02:11:24.640 for example

02:11:27.620 when I'm

02:11:28.140 with my

02:11:28.460 partner

02:11:28.820 I'll give

02:11:29.400 an example

02:11:29.900 I'm very

02:11:30.660 successful

02:11:31.020 in my

02:11:31.380 line of

02:11:31.700 job

02:11:31.980 and when

02:11:32.300 people see

02:11:32.760 me talk

02:11:33.180 you see

02:11:33.660 people usually

02:11:34.640 say I'm

02:11:34.940 quite dominant

02:11:35.440 when I'm

02:11:36.100 with my

02:11:36.400 partner

02:11:36.700 I want

02:11:37.320 to switch

02:11:37.640 my brain

02:11:38.180 off

02:11:38.700 like I

02:11:40.040 will do

02:11:40.540 what he

02:11:40.920 says

02:11:41.220 he will

02:11:41.920 direct me

02:11:42.600 he will

02:11:43.120 tell me

02:11:43.380 where we're

02:11:43.640 going today

02:11:44.220 oh we're

02:11:45.320 getting on

02:11:45.580 a plane

02:11:45.960 he's got

02:11:46.360 the passports

02:11:46.800 you know

02:11:47.080 what I mean

02:11:47.260 I don't

02:11:47.540 want to

02:11:47.760 think

02:11:48.240 and I

02:11:49.460 want to

02:11:49.900 feel like

02:11:50.500 he can

02:11:51.080 just lead

02:11:51.880 and I

02:11:52.640 know that

02:11:53.060 a lot of

02:11:53.460 women want 1.00

02:11:53.900 that feeling

02:11:54.440 with men

02:11:55.260 but they're

02:11:55.740 not getting

02:11:56.120 that and I

02:11:56.600 don't know

02:11:56.920 what the

02:11:57.220 problem is

02:11:57.720 I really

02:11:58.060 don't

02:11:58.660 I agree

02:12:00.300 with everything

02:12:01.820 she said

02:12:02.360 we would

02:12:02.960 love to

02:12:03.400 just switch

02:12:03.840 our brains

02:12:04.260 off 0.65

02:12:05.440 and I

02:12:06.140 would say

02:12:06.420 this

02:12:06.700 I'm not

02:12:07.220 even trying

02:12:07.600 to poke

02:12:08.000 into your

02:12:08.260 relationship

02:12:08.580 but the

02:12:09.000 reason why

02:12:09.560 you are

02:12:10.000 in that

02:12:10.320 situation

02:12:10.760 is because

02:12:11.440 your man

02:12:11.900 I mean

02:12:13.360 I might

02:12:13.920 be spitballing

02:12:14.700 here

02:12:14.920 but your

02:12:15.460 man probably

02:12:15.840 has a lot

02:12:16.300 of money

02:12:16.680 I would

02:12:17.660 say if

02:12:18.160 he didn't

02:12:18.440 have the

02:12:18.780 money he

02:12:19.180 did

02:12:19.560 no matter

02:12:20.540 how

02:12:20.740 masculine

02:12:21.180 he is

02:12:21.680 you wouldn't

02:12:22.100 give him

02:12:22.380 that respect

02:12:22.900 so you're

02:12:24.100 talking about

02:12:24.540 oh I just

02:12:25.000 want to switch

02:12:25.440 off and give 0.97

02:12:26.060 him the

02:12:26.300 passport

02:12:26.600 the moment

02:12:27.000 you said

02:12:27.300 passport I

02:12:27.740 just knew

02:12:28.020 the kind

02:12:28.240 of man

02:12:28.440 you're

02:12:28.540 speaking

02:12:28.740 about

02:12:29.060 and the

02:12:29.600 reality is

02:12:30.180 women of

02:12:30.820 old would

02:12:31.780 be with

02:12:32.160 an average

02:12:32.600 man and

02:12:33.000 still respect

02:12:33.820 him

02:12:34.060 I agree

02:12:35.720 with that

02:12:36.060 a lot of

02:12:36.780 the time

02:12:37.180 women don't 1.00

02:12:38.320 give an 0.81

02:12:39.060 actual safe

02:12:39.940 space for

02:12:40.560 them to be

02:12:40.980 masculine

02:12:41.440 how many

02:12:42.360 modern women

02:12:42.980 do we know

02:12:43.520 that would

02:12:43.960 submit to a

02:12:45.020 30k

02:12:45.580 look at the

02:12:46.080 start of the

02:12:46.520 show like we

02:12:47.040 can't even

02:12:47.400 just be direct

02:12:48.180 and just say

02:12:48.980 it is how it

02:12:49.640 is without

02:12:50.180 people saying

02:12:50.680 oh no you

02:12:51.200 can't talk

02:12:51.660 like that

02:12:52.140 so it's not

02:12:52.880 you're not

02:12:53.140 creating and

02:12:53.600 even like even

02:12:54.400 to lead like

02:12:55.000 not everyone's

02:12:55.660 gonna be the

02:12:55.940 perfect leader

02:12:56.580 but if you

02:12:57.220 don't make

02:12:57.540 it a safe

02:12:57.920 space to

02:12:58.540 make mistakes

02:12:59.300 and then

02:12:59.640 rectify those

02:13:00.380 mistakes

02:13:00.760 yeah

02:13:01.040 but the problem

02:13:02.740 is money

02:13:03.200 equals power

02:13:04.080 and that's

02:13:05.660 probably why

02:13:06.440 the women 0.97

02:13:06.980 respect the

02:13:07.620 men better

02:13:08.380 who have

02:13:08.840 more money

02:13:09.580 but the thing

02:13:11.320 is though

02:13:12.880 the issue

02:13:13.840 is we have

02:13:14.380 average women 0.94

02:13:15.140 that won't

02:13:15.560 respect average

02:13:16.460 men

02:13:16.820 I'll give you

02:13:17.620 an example

02:13:18.100 the TV

02:13:18.880 I don't know

02:13:19.560 if you're

02:13:19.720 you might have

02:13:20.100 been on that

02:13:20.500 show

02:13:20.720 the Ebony

02:13:21.260 Williams

02:13:21.860 Ebony

02:13:22.460 Williams

02:13:22.900 she's in a

02:13:24.280 similar line

02:13:25.300 of work to

02:13:25.860 us

02:13:26.580 TV presenter

02:13:27.180 39 40

02:13:28.140 years old

02:13:28.720 objectively

02:13:30.020 that's a

02:13:30.520 below average

02:13:31.380 woman by that

02:13:32.080 age

02:13:32.460 men aren't 0.81

02:13:33.100 exactly lined

02:13:33.940 up to date

02:13:34.880 40 year old

02:13:35.680 women in general

02:13:36.880 right

02:13:37.320 and she's saying

02:13:38.720 that she won't

02:13:39.280 respect or date

02:13:40.100 a bus driver

02:13:40.800 but really

02:13:41.680 you know

02:13:42.260 the bus driver

02:13:43.020 can still have

02:13:43.660 a normal family

02:13:44.460 she can't

02:13:45.540 and so

02:13:45.980 the issue

02:13:46.780 I would argue

02:13:47.760 is that

02:13:48.320 women that are 1.00

02:13:49.800 I would argue

02:13:50.440 below average

02:13:51.340 and following

02:13:52.100 are mad at

02:13:53.020 men for being

02:13:53.600 below average

02:13:54.360 and leading

02:13:54.880 but it's like

02:13:55.860 everyone's

02:13:56.300 below average

02:13:57.000 I would argue

02:13:58.660 even in two

02:13:59.180 parent homes

02:13:59.840 most people

02:14:00.980 didn't see

02:14:01.520 traditional

02:14:02.020 relationships

02:14:02.680 so everyone's

02:14:03.500 just trying

02:14:03.800 to figure it

02:14:04.320 out

02:14:04.520 but it's like

02:14:05.160 the women 0.97

02:14:05.480 have no grace

02:14:06.260 for the men

02:14:06.880 I agree

02:14:07.480 I think

02:14:07.920 for a relationship

02:14:08.740 to a man

02:14:09.460 has to feel

02:14:10.540 masculine

02:14:11.040 I mean

02:14:11.800 he has to feel

02:14:12.320 masculine

02:14:12.580 he don't want 0.51

02:14:12.980 to come home

02:14:13.500 I mean

02:14:14.080 I voice my

02:14:14.940 opinions

02:14:15.380 okay

02:14:16.040 but when it

02:14:17.100 comes to

02:14:17.380 relationship

02:14:17.740 I know how

02:14:18.260 to cook

02:14:18.740 I know how

02:14:19.580 to bake

02:14:20.080 and I know

02:14:20.620 how to make

02:14:21.060 a man feel

02:14:21.520 respected

02:14:22.000 and I think

02:14:23.620 that there is

02:14:24.300 sort of

02:14:25.320 you know

02:14:25.580 I think that's

02:14:26.200 general

02:14:26.660 if you want

02:14:26.980 a relationship

02:14:27.300 to work

02:14:27.720 then you've

02:14:28.020 got to have

02:14:28.300 a man

02:14:28.720 that feels

02:14:29.260 more masculine

02:14:30.260 than a woman 0.97

02:14:30.740 and I personally

02:14:31.460 wouldn't like to feel

02:14:32.160 in a relationship

02:14:32.700 like I'm

02:14:33.920 more masculine

02:14:34.680 I do think

02:14:35.440 there are roles

02:14:36.160 as well

02:14:36.540 if everyone

02:14:37.520 plays their role

02:14:38.480 I was just saying

02:14:38.980 you've said

02:14:39.900 quite a lot today

02:14:40.780 that you don't want

02:14:41.600 no man

02:14:42.000 and that's like

02:14:42.520 very off putting

02:14:43.100 for a guy

02:14:43.520 as well

02:14:43.880 I didn't say

02:14:44.560 I don't want

02:14:44.920 no man

02:14:45.320 it's not that

02:14:49.280 it's not that

02:14:49.860 just independent

02:14:50.600 lady not looking

02:14:51.200 for a man

02:14:51.800 it's that focused

02:14:53.080 if a right man

02:14:53.760 comes along

02:14:54.280 and we got

02:14:54.560 connection

02:14:55.000 and we get on

02:14:55.600 then great

02:14:56.560 but I'm not

02:14:57.040 going to lose

02:14:57.440 my focus

02:14:58.000 and focus

02:14:58.500 on trying

02:14:59.360 to find a man

02:15:00.140 so it's not

02:15:00.660 I'm not looking

02:15:01.120 for a man

02:15:01.360 I don't want

02:15:01.600 of course

02:15:02.000 I want a man

02:15:02.520 everyone wants

02:15:03.060 a man

02:15:04.000 of course

02:15:04.800 but you know

02:15:05.740 I'm a man

02:15:06.460 I'm getting that vibe

02:15:07.200 I don't know

02:15:07.480 if everyone

02:15:07.780 I'm just getting

02:15:08.400 the independent

02:15:08.940 lady

02:15:09.260 don't need

02:15:09.680 no man

02:15:10.100 vibe

02:15:10.360 that's all

02:15:10.700 that's just

02:15:11.060 all

02:15:11.240 that's cool

02:15:12.460 because you know

02:15:13.840 it is what it is

02:15:14.780 so I'm independent

02:15:15.340 I can focus

02:15:15.860 on my own

02:15:16.420 but the point

02:15:16.920 is of course

02:15:17.460 having a relationship

02:15:18.120 is nice

02:15:18.700 and I know

02:15:19.480 how to respect

02:15:20.160 a man

02:15:21.140 treat a man

02:15:21.720 cook for a man

02:15:22.740 bake for a man

02:15:23.380 you know what I mean

02:15:23.920 I know how to treat a man

02:15:24.840 but the point

02:15:25.560 is that if I don't

02:15:26.640 have a man

02:15:27.180 or I haven't found

02:15:27.820 anyone that I ain't

02:15:28.380 got that connection

02:15:28.960 with

02:15:29.320 I'm not going

02:15:30.300 to just sit

02:15:31.180 around and be like

02:15:32.020 oh my god

02:15:32.300 I will focus

02:15:33.780 on providing

02:15:34.340 my kids

02:15:34.780 with a life

02:15:35.220 that I don't

02:15:35.720 have a man

02:15:36.160 that can provide

02:15:36.740 that life

02:15:37.100 to my kids

02:15:37.620 for

02:15:37.880 and I will do

02:15:38.600 that

02:15:38.800 and then I

02:15:39.520 hopefully

02:15:39.920 meet a man

02:15:40.920 who can come

02:15:41.560 I have an interesting

02:15:42.800 question for you

02:15:43.480 I have an interesting

02:15:44.040 question for you

02:15:44.920 your success

02:15:46.060 yeah your success

02:15:46.920 you've gotten

02:15:47.400 in your business

02:15:48.140 your law firm

02:15:49.060 and all of that

02:15:49.700 did you get it

02:15:51.080 by being passive

02:15:53.280 and be like

02:15:53.800 well I don't need

02:15:54.640 this law firm

02:15:55.260 I don't need this

02:15:56.200 absolutely not

02:15:56.900 yeah there's a point

02:15:57.660 that's not how it is

02:15:58.620 just by working hard

02:15:59.520 no but

02:15:59.940 exactly

02:16:00.600 so my point is

02:16:01.620 you get what you focus

02:16:02.980 and work towards

02:16:03.840 absolutely

02:16:04.260 just about it

02:16:05.220 so by the fact

02:16:06.060 that you've already said

02:16:07.100 I'm not even trying

02:16:08.240 to go on

02:16:09.240 but the fact that you've already

02:16:09.900 said that you

02:16:10.360 well you're not focused

02:16:11.440 on having a man

02:16:12.280 if he comes

02:16:12.860 he comes

02:16:13.940 yeah because that's not

02:16:14.840 what you're looking

02:16:15.260 the focus is different

02:16:15.840 but that's my point

02:16:16.560 but that's literally

02:16:17.220 the reason why

02:16:17.820 you're probably

02:16:18.180 not going to get one

02:16:18.840 it's terrible advice

02:16:19.820 it's terrible advice

02:16:20.680 as well

02:16:20.920 let's compare it

02:16:21.820 so if

02:16:22.300 if I was

02:16:23.500 focused on having a man

02:16:24.960 and therefore

02:16:25.940 I would have to be

02:16:26.820 less focused on my career

02:16:28.100 I would be broke

02:16:29.700 and single

02:16:30.900 not necessarily though

02:16:32.620 but it will be

02:16:33.520 I'm just saying

02:16:34.060 yeah it's just

02:16:34.440 it's bad advice though

02:16:35.340 because for me

02:16:36.120 we keep referring to advice

02:16:38.100 who's giving advice

02:16:38.880 no I'm saying

02:16:39.360 like

02:16:39.600 I'm just saying

02:16:40.300 in general

02:16:40.840 it brings up people

02:16:41.900 so I would just say

02:16:42.660 that if you're focusing

02:16:43.700 on you want to attract

02:16:44.520 a certain partner

02:16:45.100 you have to kind of be

02:16:46.100 the way that person

02:16:47.360 that you're trying

02:16:47.700 to attract

02:16:48.700 wants you to be

02:16:49.940 I would literally

02:16:50.880 so just a lot of women 1.00

02:16:51.860 talk about walk

02:16:52.380 and say

02:16:52.640 oh the right man

02:16:53.200 will come in my life

02:16:53.740 now it's probably

02:16:54.320 not the case

02:16:54.780 you probably have to

02:16:55.360 attract the guy 0.69

02:16:56.000 that you want to attract

02:16:56.820 you would just look

02:16:57.560 that's all I'm saying

02:16:58.100 you know what the numbers

02:16:59.840 are actually

02:17:00.760 it's actually

02:17:02.040 it's going to be

02:17:02.640 very sad

02:17:04.280 for most women 0.95

02:17:05.320 yeah

02:17:05.880 it's going to be

02:17:06.500 pretty bad

02:17:06.960 yeah I mean

02:17:07.740 they're predicting

02:17:08.280 and these are banks

02:17:09.420 right

02:17:09.840 so banks

02:17:10.940 are making

02:17:11.460 invest

02:17:11.920 these are people

02:17:12.520 that have no

02:17:13.060 skin in this game

02:17:14.900 all right

02:17:15.260 they're just trying

02:17:15.860 to make money

02:17:16.500 and they're predicting

02:17:17.600 half of women 0.99

02:17:18.400 are going to be

02:17:18.880 single and childless

02:17:19.840 50%

02:17:20.800 so half of the women 1.00

02:17:22.720 are we're not going

02:17:23.480 to have kids

02:17:24.160 and the other half

02:17:25.420 that get married

02:17:26.080 half will divorce

02:17:27.040 arguably higher

02:17:28.460 than that

02:17:29.140 you know

02:17:29.880 they followed

02:17:30.340 40 year marriages

02:17:31.380 found 67%

02:17:32.720 divorce

02:17:33.280 and a quarter

02:17:34.740 of marriages

02:17:35.260 are sexless

02:17:36.080 so I mean

02:17:37.300 if we're going

02:17:37.600 to count

02:17:37.860 successful marriages

02:17:38.920 it's really

02:17:39.320 only 10%

02:17:40.060 of us

02:17:40.780 which

02:17:41.260 so you know

02:17:42.820 the future

02:17:43.640 is pretty grim

02:17:44.220 for everybody

02:17:44.860 so

02:17:45.200 anyways

02:17:46.160 twist

02:17:46.640 but it's all right

02:17:50.360 it doesn't have

02:17:51.000 to be grim

02:17:51.560 for you

02:17:52.020 because I

02:17:52.860 can tell you

02:17:53.500 exactly what

02:17:54.140 guys want

02:17:54.760 let's pull

02:17:55.540 to the next

02:17:56.140 let's pull

02:17:56.660 to the next

02:17:57.120 let's go

02:17:57.880 to the next

02:17:58.460 one

02:17:58.840 so

02:17:59.240 now again

02:18:00.180 usually we used

02:18:01.260 to get this

02:18:01.820 information

02:18:02.400 from our mothers

02:18:03.280 and grandmothers

02:18:04.300 but unfortunately

02:18:05.500 our mothers

02:18:06.200 and grandmothers

02:18:07.060 have all led

02:18:07.920 us astray

02:18:09.200 they've told us

02:18:10.300 to always have

02:18:11.100 a backup plan

02:18:11.920 and have never

02:18:12.540 told us what

02:18:13.400 men want ever

02:18:14.580 because most women 1.00

02:18:15.900 are too selfish 1.00

02:18:16.760 to even care 0.81

02:18:17.900 and are more

02:18:18.820 focused on other

02:18:19.820 things

02:18:20.340 now the next

02:18:21.380 thing that men

02:18:22.000 want let's pull

02:18:22.700 it up

02:18:22.920 drum roll please

02:18:23.920 all right

02:18:25.920 all right

02:18:26.580 not old

02:18:30.260 yes

02:18:31.060 yes

02:18:32.020 yes

02:18:32.360 I had a

02:18:33.120 legendary tweet

02:18:34.120 that got 15

02:18:35.360 million views

02:18:36.560 and I still

02:18:37.480 couldn't believe

02:18:38.140 it all right

02:18:38.820 I had a tweet

02:18:39.540 that said

02:18:40.000 25 year old

02:18:41.460 women are hotter 1.00

02:18:42.440 than 35 year old 0.99

02:18:43.980 women 1.00

02:18:44.320 yes and I

02:18:45.560 still have women 0.99

02:18:46.680 tweeting their

02:18:47.360 selfies at me

02:18:48.380 proving to me

02:18:49.660 how hot

02:18:50.520 they are

02:18:51.340 in their old

02:18:52.140 age

02:18:52.740 now when you

02:18:54.080 think about it

02:18:54.740 the average

02:18:55.280 lifespan is about

02:18:56.880 77 years old

02:18:58.780 let's just

02:19:00.100 round it and

02:19:00.760 say 80

02:19:01.460 35 you're

02:19:02.700 almost halfway

02:19:03.320 through your

02:19:03.840 life why do

02:19:05.120 we keep saying

02:19:05.860 that is young

02:19:06.540 that is not

02:19:07.200 young you're

02:19:07.780 almost over the

02:19:08.620 hill you're

02:19:09.580 almost done

02:19:10.360 yes or over

02:19:11.860 halfway yes but

02:19:13.720 we keep selling

02:19:14.660 and I would argue

02:19:15.920 that the ultimate

02:19:16.640 way to sell

02:19:17.620 anything is to

02:19:18.380 convince women

02:19:19.180 they're young

02:19:19.860 forever they do

02:19:21.300 this with Instagram

02:19:22.220 filters Botox and

02:19:23.960 plastic surgery and

02:19:25.340 a bunch of

02:19:25.900 makeup to the

02:19:27.080 point that half the

02:19:27.900 time chicks come on 1.00

02:19:28.900 my show if I

02:19:29.700 follow them on

02:19:30.360 Instagram

02:19:30.780 oftentimes I

02:19:32.120 don't recognize

02:19:32.840 them it's super

02:19:34.380 crazy I'm like

02:19:35.460 wow now men 0.71

02:19:38.380 like young women 0.99

02:19:39.660 does anybody

02:19:40.340 disagree not

02:19:41.400 too young

02:19:42.060 please please

02:19:43.420 don't give me

02:19:44.080 any underage

02:19:44.800 arguments that's

02:19:45.660 not what I'm

02:19:46.380 saying of age

02:19:48.180 but younger

02:19:49.200 anybody disagree

02:19:50.780 20 and I'd like

02:20:08.380 to actually go

02:20:08.940 even further I

02:20:09.820 had this thought

02:20:10.700 because all these

02:20:11.340 women were tweeting

02:20:12.000 at me their selfies

02:20:12.880 right and it was

02:20:13.980 35 year old women 0.99

02:20:15.160 and these were the

02:20:16.400 most beautiful 35

02:20:17.940 year old women I

02:20:18.880 would say tip of

02:20:19.720 the top and I

02:20:20.780 still thought to

02:20:21.640 myself if I go to

02:20:22.600 any college campus I

02:20:24.160 could find a chick 0.80

02:20:25.000 hotter yeah and it 0.95

02:20:26.700 wouldn't be hard it

02:20:27.660 would be easy it'd be

02:20:28.480 like there's one

02:20:29.160 there's one there's

02:20:30.000 one yes by 35 you're

02:20:32.160 on sale discount I

02:20:34.740 guess I'm not getting

02:20:35.320 married then I mean

02:20:36.380 that's not what I

02:20:37.660 said what you said

02:20:38.680 that's not 25 no well

02:20:40.300 I said 25 is hotter

02:20:41.720 than 35 I would argue

02:20:43.040 20 is hotter than 25 0.92

02:20:44.720 typically in general men

02:20:45.980 are going to be more

02:20:46.720 attracted to yeah I

02:20:48.080 I didn't you know

02:20:49.400 statistically yeah most

02:20:51.080 of us it'll be a

02:20:51.940 negative situation most

02:20:53.160 of us no happy ending

02:20:54.560 sorry guys but but

02:20:57.140 there's hope because

02:20:58.420 the next thing we can

02:20:59.880 learn let's go back to

02:21:01.200 the power point so we

02:21:03.360 have a summary I was

02:21:04.760 summary to summarize men 1.00

02:21:06.740 do not want fat whores 1.00

02:21:08.380 I should have put don't 1.00

02:21:12.460 want old fat whores I 1.00

02:21:14.080 thought yeah I'm trying 1.00

02:21:15.080 to start a riot yeah

02:21:16.080 yeah yeah it's that

02:21:17.560 absolute pandemonium in

02:21:18.920 it yeah no no no

02:21:19.800 pandemonium I don't think

02:21:20.920 this is our like we

02:21:21.860 should agree right

02:21:22.740 everyone agree no no no

02:21:23.780 no we agree I'm just

02:21:24.820 saying can I can I add

02:21:27.620 something I just feel like

02:21:29.400 we talked a lot about

02:21:30.560 like the word masculinity

02:21:32.020 has been thrown around a

02:21:33.520 lot but we we didn't even

02:21:34.740 try to define what

02:21:36.260 masculinity is for like 0.94

02:21:37.840 most men because in that

02:21:39.460 sense like I feel like it

02:21:41.020 might give a wrong

02:21:42.640 impression or a wrong

02:21:43.640 idea that masculinity is

02:21:45.180 about over exerting your

02:21:46.780 dominance or like trying

02:21:48.060 to you know like stop

02:21:49.020 problems I'm not saying

02:21:50.680 that that's the case but

02:21:52.120 I'm just saying that some

02:21:53.440 people could take it the

02:21:54.280 wrong way so maybe we

02:21:55.340 could try to like you

02:21:56.580 know now people that are

02:21:57.660 emotional and like that

02:21:58.540 they're not masculine when

02:21:59.440 you're masculine you can

02:22:00.180 control your emotions so

02:22:01.760 all these people out here

02:22:02.840 chinging and doing all this

02:22:03.800 stuff they're not

02:22:04.340 masculine men they're 1.00

02:22:05.640 over emotional men for

02:22:06.680 example I write music I

02:22:07.800 write music and that's like

02:22:09.040 an emotional experience for

02:22:10.240 me so does that take a

02:22:11.000 take away from that's

02:22:11.640 not the same from what

02:22:12.340 you're talking about

02:22:12.860 over exerting yourself

02:22:13.640 and being violent like 0.53

02:22:14.420 masculine men I would 0.92

02:22:15.280 say most musicians are a

02:22:16.780 little more feminine yeah

02:22:18.560 I'm getting slight

02:22:19.420 feminine yeah I'm not

02:22:20.720 gonna lie I'll be honest

02:22:21.820 with you bro I'm not

02:22:22.720 gonna I'm getting slight

02:22:23.800 I'm not saying you but

02:22:25.620 I'm saying like I mean

02:22:26.680 maybe maybe a little bit

02:22:27.660 but I'm getting slight

02:22:28.720 I'm getting slight that's

02:22:29.720 all I'm a tomboy so

02:22:31.020 it's like no no who's

02:22:32.320 who's no one's perfect

02:22:33.280 right but I'm saying

02:22:34.600 like um like I don't

02:22:36.340 know typically when I

02:22:37.120 look at the guys in

02:22:38.080 music today YouTube too to

02:22:40.320 be honest I think YouTube

02:22:41.560 kind of like a lot of

02:22:42.860 guys are more feminine 0.98

02:22:43.600 yeah like Harry Styles

02:22:45.660 Harry Harry Styles

02:22:47.240 I don't know to defend

02:22:48.840 him a little bit I

02:22:49.560 actually don't think like

02:22:51.660 music and all of that

02:22:53.120 makes any more feminine 0.99

02:22:54.060 I actually think

02:22:54.960 masculinity is more

02:22:55.940 about taking responsibility

02:22:57.840 being someone of your

02:23:00.140 word being like having

02:23:02.440 like we've been saying

02:23:03.680 having a baseline value

02:23:04.920 that you don't stray from

02:23:05.960 yeah and no one no

02:23:07.460 matter what anyone says

02:23:08.420 about you you know what

02:23:09.300 no matter what how people

02:23:10.660 try to push you off your

02:23:11.580 square you stand your

02:23:12.800 ground that's what

02:23:13.780 masculinity is you say

02:23:14.960 you preach sir you

02:23:15.880 preach can I can I just

02:23:17.580 try to like explain

02:23:18.700 myself on this one because

02:23:20.120 like for example I'm

02:23:20.900 North African I'm from

02:23:22.040 Libya so I had a very

02:23:23.380 different upbringing

02:23:24.200 probably to most people

02:23:25.420 over here you know and

02:23:27.340 growing up for example

02:23:28.420 or experiencing a civil war

02:23:30.200 and whatnot I'd like it's

02:23:31.620 it's just like you know

02:23:33.320 what I mean like it you've

02:23:34.580 seen certain things or

02:23:35.580 you've seen men go like

02:23:37.640 and transform in a way

02:23:39.460 or do things that they

02:23:40.840 can't you know go back

02:23:42.380 from so it's like at

02:23:43.760 some point the idea of

02:23:46.060 masculinity even within

02:23:47.460 those spaces has just

02:23:48.860 become that like of

02:23:50.160 violence it's just

02:23:51.760 become yeah yeah you

02:23:53.400 know it's just become

02:23:54.300 like it's my way or

02:23:55.780 nothing because it's so

02:23:57.200 accessible to just say

02:23:58.800 like you know how you

02:23:59.920 say cancel culture I

02:24:00.920 cancel you but there it's

02:24:02.340 like you're dead like it's 0.88

02:24:03.640 like you know what I

02:24:04.380 mean it's that to that

02:24:05.360 point to that extreme in

02:24:07.120 certain places so when I

02:24:08.640 when I bring in that

02:24:09.760 perspective I'm looking at

02:24:11.500 that and relating it to my

02:24:13.280 background from what I

02:24:14.280 know yeah but obviously

02:24:17.100 masculinity there is an

02:24:18.280 aspect of you know

02:24:20.160 violence with that but I'm

02:24:21.340 just saying to be

02:24:23.100 masculine because I've

02:24:23.740 been through an experience

02:24:24.600 where I've almost

02:24:25.360 personally died and that

02:24:26.260 was the last time I've

02:24:27.020 ever went back to Libya

02:24:27.920 which was like in 2014

02:24:29.320 yeah yeah but I'm saying

02:24:31.040 like for me I'm just

02:24:31.900 saying masculine would be 0.59

02:24:33.120 someone who can control

02:24:34.180 their emotions yeah that's

02:24:36.840 masculine well I think I

02:24:37.820 think I guess my point

02:24:38.900 with the musician thing was

02:24:40.200 more in music they're just

02:24:41.340 pushing feminine dudes 0.99

02:24:42.480 nowadays yeah you know

02:24:43.820 what I mean like it's I

02:24:45.980 mean the way I see for

02:24:47.220 example for me music and

02:24:48.480 I'm not trying to be like

02:24:49.620 rock stars you know what I

02:24:51.220 mean like that was kind of

02:24:51.980 more of a masculine thing

02:24:53.180 but now it's like it's like

02:24:55.000 guys that kind of are

02:24:55.980 singing like women a lot 0.89

02:24:57.300 I'm kind of guilty of that

02:25:00.960 DBE they sound like women 1.00

02:25:02.760 Dblock Europe is really

02:25:04.580 popular with like women 0.91

02:25:06.300 my age they sound like

02:25:07.820 women I'm thinking of

02:25:08.100 Harry Styles that's why

02:25:09.240 I just keep I keep getting

02:25:10.240 him in my head no I'm not

02:25:13.020 I'm not they're both very

02:25:14.080 similar both artists but

02:25:15.680 well both groups of artists

02:25:16.780 very I don't know who that

02:25:17.740 is but yeah that's what I

02:25:18.900 mean that's what I'm trying

02:25:19.560 to throw out there that

02:25:20.140 you're not too far off

02:25:21.080 anyway they're both really

02:25:22.040 similar or even like One

02:25:23.080 Direction you rap but you

02:25:25.920 don't know who DBE is

02:25:27.300 and you're a rapper

02:25:28.980 well I mean I do dabble

02:25:31.080 I don't know nobody's

02:25:34.200 asked me to be on a track

02:25:35.480 yet I don't like rating

02:25:36.720 can't you two collab

02:25:38.640 I don't know why I've

02:25:39.760 I've had Auntie Jenny at

02:25:40.900 some point tell me that

02:25:42.000 she wanted to hear us

02:25:43.040 play oh no way

02:25:44.600 yeah yeah yeah

02:25:45.480 you should do the

02:25:46.280 freestyle you should play

02:25:47.340 and she should freestyle 1.00

02:25:48.120 I was watching your

02:25:48.720 freestyle oh yeah I got

02:25:51.120 I got in trouble for the

02:25:52.460 freestyle

02:25:52.820 we all agree for once

02:25:57.560 what we all agree for once

02:25:58.920 yeah

02:25:59.300 we've done really well

02:26:00.300 it's been hard though

02:26:00.960 can I say something about

02:26:02.380 masculinity

02:26:02.840 yeah

02:26:03.420 I think that you know the

02:26:05.940 argumentative women that 1.00

02:26:08.660 only happens if a man 0.59

02:26:09.900 doesn't bring peace so if a

02:26:12.120 man knows his role the

02:26:13.600 woman will automatically 1.00

02:26:14.500 submit

02:26:15.000 oh no oh no oh that's

02:26:16.860 the furthest thing from the

02:26:18.040 truth no no no no I think

02:26:20.380 that's an excuse argumentative

02:26:22.020 women use to be honest is 1.00

02:26:24.160 because you're disagreeing

02:26:25.560 well yeah but it's like a

02:26:26.620 discussion I need a man he

02:26:28.560 can can charm me no no no

02:26:30.940 just stop being arguments

02:26:32.100 deeply

02:26:32.560 but didn't you say you

02:26:33.960 have to respect the women

02:26:34.900 I just feel like arguing is

02:26:36.660 like a cry for help sometimes

02:26:38.300 with women because they've

02:26:39.820 they've probably overlooked some

02:26:41.740 signs that the guy wasn't

02:26:42.880 right for them and then when

02:26:45.020 they're arguing it's what do

02:26:46.280 you guys expect marriage to be

02:26:47.860 like you're gonna have those

02:26:49.120 masculine man ever you don't

02:26:50.580 think you're gonna argue but

02:26:51.680 you shouldn't have I mean Tom

02:26:52.760 Brady got divorced what was

02:26:54.200 his wife whining about you 0.99

02:26:57.800 know what I mean you're

02:26:58.120 telling me Tom Brady's not

02:26:59.240 masculine really yeah I think

02:27:03.000 he I think he was an orphan and

02:27:05.240 they was beating each other

02:27:06.080 senseless

02:27:06.540 okay I'm gonna read super

02:27:11.940 chats then we're gonna close

02:27:13.120 out the show okay all right

02:27:15.060 90 free till pie says the

02:27:18.280 homely is XX men or women oh 1.00

02:27:21.680 shit okay the homely women are 1.00

02:27:23.180 lying are lying when they 1.00

02:27:24.600 stated when they when standing

02:27:26.400 they are the same things to

02:27:28.960 prove it ask them whatever

02:27:30.200 question but before they answer

02:27:31.880 they have to repeat the

02:27:33.100 question

02:27:33.680 dragon stallion 1001 at some

02:27:37.420 point in marriage you're going

02:27:38.460 to love and dislike the person at

02:27:40.280 the time but because the woman is 0.96

02:27:42.120 unhappy she'll leave and file for

02:27:43.940 divorce instead of working it 0.95

02:27:45.260 out 90 free toe pie pearl I've

02:27:48.100 advised many of times that after

02:27:49.660 a woman asks a question to stay 0.89

02:27:51.860 quiet and watch them explode also

02:27:53.820 abortion is is evil 90 free toe 1.00

02:27:56.780 pie thanks to Planned Parenthood

02:27:58.300 more basketball Americans have

02:27:59.780 deleted so much that their numbers

02:28:02.060 would be two times if Planned

02:28:03.460 Parenthood it didn't exist the

02:28:06.980 puffy Vegas to the lawyer women are 1.00

02:28:10.140 more unfaithful than the men Chris

02:28:12.920 to fake lawyer thanks for pushing

02:28:15.380 back at pearl I'm a rich man who

02:28:17.400 relies on women like you to co-sign 1.00

02:28:19.700 the bullshit I tell my side chicks so 1.00

02:28:21.780 that I can pump and dump them on 1.00

02:28:23.200 birth control thanks again holiday

02:28:25.420 tone delusional women over 9,000 on 0.87

02:28:28.080 this panel puffy puffy Vegas this 0.91

02:28:31.780 lawyer is insane she's 34 and has two 1.00

02:28:34.040 kids and I am a high value man none of 0.92

02:28:36.720 us would take her seriously the lawyer 0.98

02:28:39.000 is delusional she'll die alone wait

02:28:41.940 wait I'm gonna let you respond but I

02:28:43.380 need to get through them puffy Vegas

02:28:45.720 all the friends and girlfriends wives 0.59

02:28:48.600 offered wait wait puffy Vegas all my

02:28:51.560 friends and girlfriends wives offered 1.00

02:28:53.780 sex puffy Vegas can we stop the lies 0.98

02:28:56.620 all with oh can we stop the lies all 0.99

02:28:58.440 women she all of my girlfriends and 1.00

02:29:00.440 wives have been offered sex from the 1.00

02:29:03.260 friends okay Chris notice how immature 0.99

02:29:06.140 the two blondes in the middle are they 1.00

02:29:07.800 sulk in their seats and say I'm just

02:29:09.340 not going to talk after they get

02:29:10.820 corrected narcissists Chris men do a

02:29:13.520 better job of giving advice because men 1.00

02:29:15.680 see themselves and other men while

02:29:17.220 women see other women as competition 1.00

02:29:20.060 December 08 ladies you can convince the 1.00

02:29:22.840 entire world being a whore isn't bad but 1.00

02:29:25.020 evil is still evil telephone 92 65 0.99

02:29:28.940 sleeping with multiple people multiple

02:29:30.680 people is not accidental I'm shocked

02:29:33.180 holiday tone holiday tone I'm shallow

02:29:38.840 she's cap you're not living in real

02:29:40.680 life Chris says ladies if I say most 0.98

02:29:47.240 people have 10 fingers are you gonna say

02:29:49.400 that I can't have that because some

02:29:51.280 people have nine figures fingers stop

02:29:53.960 arguing just to argue let me refresh it

02:29:57.100 really quick and see if there's any more

02:29:58.740 super chats before we close out this show

02:30:00.940 think of any final thoughts that you

02:30:02.900 guys have in the time and then I will

02:30:05.100 let you guys respond in a second Dakota

02:30:07.420 still slart Pearl if you ever come to

02:30:11.440 the west coast of Canada I want to take

02:30:13.680 to you to dinner 63 jack-of-all-trades in

02:30:16.880 a business owner Wow what it sounds like

02:30:21.900 the ultimate guy 90 frito pie a beautiful

02:30:26.220 35 year old will never be an ugly 19 year

02:30:29.960 old Patrice O'Neil also red shirt is a

02:30:33.500 beta being a man is doing what's right no

02:30:36.640 matter what sorry guys sorry 90 okay

02:30:41.480 that's all of them anyways I think that's

02:30:44.620 it I'm gonna refresh it real quick

02:30:46.600 yeah you know anyways why don't we do

02:30:55.040 final thoughts we'll start here go around

02:30:58.280 and then we'll do second row you feel free

02:31:00.120 to plug any social media or only fans but

02:31:03.560 they laugh go ahead my final thoughts men

02:31:10.640 and women both have responsibility when 1.00

02:31:12.540 it comes to children marriage and

02:31:15.740 divorces but I think the traditional way

02:31:19.440 works so we should bring that back and you

02:31:23.720 can't hear me so the traditional way works

02:31:27.240 for a reason so we should try and bring

02:31:29.320 that back but I'm a Muslim so I do think

02:31:31.960 traditionally and so that's where my

02:31:35.260 point of views come from and stem from

02:31:37.860 but ultimately it's down to respect if you

02:31:41.680 respect your partner you'll treat them

02:31:44.000 well and you'll have a healthier

02:31:46.300 relationship overall that's my two pence

02:31:49.520 or firstly Pearl thank you for having me

02:31:55.660 on the show again yeah no it was really

02:31:58.320 interesting to hear everyone's point of

02:32:00.540 view and I definitely understand that

02:32:04.600 life is just not black and white but

02:32:08.260 yeah I am again same as you very

02:32:11.620 traditional and just I just think it's

02:32:14.100 all about respect and you know we all

02:32:17.840 need to know our our roles to live in a

02:32:21.640 healthy partnership or marriage so yeah

02:32:25.320 and you're coming on the therapy episode

02:32:27.380 I am can you tell like I'm like preparing

02:32:29.900 myself right it's gonna be it's gonna be a

02:32:32.100 fun one like thinking a lot tonight like

02:32:34.660 you know yeah yeah probably probably end of

02:32:37.060 October we'll film it so it'll be fun yeah

02:32:39.440 okay yeah and if you want to keep keep up to

02:32:43.040 date with me I'm on all socials Instagram

02:32:45.600 Skena TV Tiktok Skena Louisa and yeah just catch me on another podcast

02:32:51.380 yeah what was I supposed to say oh we do fun any final thoughts you have on the show anything anything you want to say and then socials if you have them yeah I mean it's it's just like I said it's like we talked a lot about I feel like the realities that exist within the western world and then obviously we don't want to go back and forth and saying there's exceptions

02:33:21.380 there's social there's certain like social slash cultural structures that provide a much more guidance for men and women because I'm a Muslim as well so like depending on like how the families get involved etc like guiding them for example it's not that the women don't date they do but it's very controlled it's supervised there's a proper manner of how things get done because I got three sisters as well so for example I look out for my sisters too and I make sure that everything is kind of like you know you know I

02:33:51.380 like I'm involved within their lives so I feel like I'm involved within their lives so I feel like yeah so it's just a matter of like understanding that the parents as well need to be very involved within their children's lives and kind of like supervise and manage that you know help them sorry manage that and then if there's one last thing that I'd like to say because I feel like people back home would just be angry at me if I didn't which is like you know if um it's kind of like this thing happened in Darna where like the Daniel storm hit and if anybody wants to support you know Libya in any way

02:34:21.360 there's uh multiple organizations in the UK there's like the Islamic relief and that's probably one of the most trusted ones you can donate there if you want to support people in North Africa and Libya that were like affected by the storm

02:34:32.680 thank you

02:34:35.360 Prolific official thank you for having me I've really enjoyed my time and it's been interesting listening to everybody's opinions I've actually learned a lot today

02:34:46.300 um you know our point was helpful

02:34:48.360 it was great it was great and it was nice to listen to the younger generations as well do you know what I mean

02:34:55.440 um but ultimately I would say that as much as we can go by statistics so on and so forth

02:35:01.960 like this gentleman said you know there's a lot to life and everything isn't black and white it depends

02:35:08.980 on you know your cultural background it depends on you know what part of the world that you come from

02:35:15.160 everyone's got different experiences do you know what I mean life is definitely not black and white

02:35:19.060 um yeah so I'm prolific official p-r-o-l-i-f-i-c official on all social platforms

02:35:26.860 hi um so I'm just going to say that out of all the conversations I probably agreed with everything

02:35:34.780 I mean look I mean it was nice to be on the show so thanks for inviting me um I've never done anything

02:35:49.780 like this before um I'm quite passionate female but I'm also passionate about um what goes on the

02:35:57.380 streets outside and you guys will know about the knife crime and a little um 16 15 year old girl and

02:36:03.620 the 16 year old boy followed by the 22 year old you know what's happening with that um and there is

02:36:10.460 so much more to me other than debates but about you know knife crime on the streets but also about

02:36:16.480 representing those that are arrested when they're actually innocent for things so you know I am here

02:36:21.920 um I work for SVS listeners I've got a shout out to my colleagues otherwise they won't forgive me

02:36:26.120 so that's Junaid Khan and James so we sort of win cases together um but yeah no it's nice to be on the show

02:36:33.620 yeah well thanks for letting me hop on again uh I always like coming on because it's I believe

02:36:42.540 you can't learn about the world unless you you speak to people when you speak to people you disagree

02:36:46.380 with it's only through disagreements that we can broaden our knowledge of the space that we live

02:36:50.620 in and and strive for better um you know a couple of things look perspectives matter of course and

02:36:58.520 it's important that we acknowledge exceptions in life however it doesn't matter if Newton said it

02:37:04.600 if Einstein said it or if I said it gravity is gravity what goes up must come down and I think

02:37:09.380 it's important that in society we can acknowledge broad statements about the world and decide what the

02:37:16.000 best way forward is broadly we don't always have to go into the exceptions so if you're interested

02:37:21.720 in broad statements and learning about patterns in society and what we can do about it come and check

02:37:28.200 out my youtube channel I have a series called debunking the lunacy where we debunk some of the

02:37:33.320 mess going on in society right now and we try and figure out a way to move forward broadly yes

02:37:39.060 but for hopefully the best so if that sounds like something you'd be into check me out my name is

02:37:43.860 christine grace smith you can find me on instagram or on youtube

02:37:46.940 can i forget i forgot to mention my um i forgot to mention my instagram by the way it is lawyer dolly

02:37:54.720 if anybody wants to follow him took my time there lawyer dolly not very happy about that

02:38:00.120 um great being back on the show just.bk socials um part of the council culture team my opinions

02:38:08.480 um my thoughts today i mean look we need to stop delusion i think that's it mainly for me

02:38:13.720 let's start lying to each other ladies i feel like if you're more honest with your fellow girl

02:38:17.640 you will feel a lot more happier i don't know what could be more better like me me me being a girl

02:38:23.420 and i am a girl going off on holiday and i feel good and she looks good and we're both looking good

02:38:28.300 instead of me just looking good and she looks big and i'm just like no girl you look good no

02:38:31.940 no that's not good i feel like more honestly be be straight and that means in anything you know if

02:38:37.360 you want a man with money you want a man that's rich you want a man that can look after you be real

02:38:40.940 about it don't don't hide about it be straight about it i feel like you're looking at me

02:38:44.740 i am i am you've been the most argumentative so i am looking at you but i know you haven't

02:38:49.160 said that my job is to argue what's right i'm argumentative but you know a lot of the points

02:38:53.060 are really i'm straight down the middle mutual i'm not purposely i'm just saying like in general

02:38:57.260 now but in all fairness i've had a great time love love coming on the pod and you know

02:39:01.860 love hearing everyone's perspective as an idea make sure you're tuning to council culture

02:39:05.800 podcast we're all one two one birmingham podcast best podcast in birmingham so make sure you tune

02:39:11.260 in and check it out yeah i mean i agree with darn all gentlemen to my left um i think we need to

02:39:18.360 stop the delusion life is black and white and um yeah if you're interested in hearing less delusion

02:39:23.680 and arguing that life is black and white obviously check out the council culture podcast you like what

02:39:27.600 i did there yeah you did do you know we can do so it's the council culture podcast on instagram

02:39:32.280 on youtube go subscribe to that go follow that and um yeah and final thoughts on the show

02:39:36.320 uh it's just the usual a lot of delusion and by the end of the show people kind of come to terms

02:39:41.880 and gets a lot easier so yeah and and it's like it's like you guys you're gonna be on

02:39:47.060 oh yeah it's like i can't i get these we're gonna be on the audacity network as well we went out today

02:39:54.900 um asking people about abortion actually um and yeah it was um we'll see you'll see you'll see

02:40:02.460 so guys we're compiling a bunch of footage from um people that have been on the show

02:40:09.860 um so it's it's gonna be interesting you'll have you'll see like fan favorites i know

02:40:14.340 i know you guys have a love hate relationship with denelva okay i know you do i know you do

02:40:19.780 but we love her we love her here so um you know she's gonna do some stuff um i think carnivore

02:40:26.480 fitness is gonna do some stuff for us um basically some of the familiar faces china you know that

02:40:32.900 you've seen in the past year we're gonna put on the network page and it's just gonna be really cool

02:40:36.960 and fun um so if you want to be involved in any of those projects you can message me on instagram

02:40:41.800 just pearly things one um it's not always gonna be the super serious stuff some of it's gonna be

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02:41:16.820 super chat which is from 90 frito pie pearl re reads super chat so bad that you treat them like a fetus

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JustPearlyThings - October 06, 2023

Pearl vs Onlyfanz ｜ WHY DO WOMEN LOVE BEING HOES？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP151

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JustPearlyThings - October 06, 2023

Pearl vs Onlyfanz ｜ WHY DO WOMEN LOVE BEING HOES？ ｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP151

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Pearl vs Onlyfanz ｜ WHY DO WOMEN LOVE BEING HOES？｜ THE PREGAME SHOW EP151