JustPearlyThings - March 29, 2023


Pearl’s Warning To Modern Women


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

224.74303

Word Count

2,252

Sentence Count

157

Misogynist Sentences

30

Hate Speech Sentences

30


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 So you're going for guys that you already know that a lot of women want.
00:00:03.260 So these are men that are, obviously, they're high value in the sense
00:00:07.660 that a lot of women want them.
00:00:08.960 Whenever you go for these types of men, you have to understand
00:00:11.000 you can potentially be one of many, and you don't mind being one of many.
00:00:16.700 There's probably some guys across the years that have always probably
00:00:19.080 tried to holler at you, tried to take you out,
00:00:20.820 and you haven't given any time to these guys, these ordinary...
00:00:23.900 No, but it's fine.
00:00:25.440 But what I'm trying to say, all of these guys have watched you
00:00:27.900 deal with all of these guys one by one, one by one,
00:00:30.400 and it never amounts to nothing.
00:00:32.060 At some point, you need to say to yourself,
00:00:33.700 maybe I'm going for the wrong types of guys.
00:00:36.080 Maybe this guy's not right for me.
00:00:37.480 Maybe I need to stop going for what I like,
00:00:39.080 and maybe I need to stop going for what makes sense.
00:00:41.580 But this is the thing with females, I think.
00:00:43.500 I feel like they don't get to that stage until they're maybe more mature.
00:00:47.380 Like, I feel like...
00:00:48.400 No, they're running out of time.
00:00:51.260 No, you'll never run out of time.
00:00:52.440 And the guys they want don't want them.
00:00:53.880 That's what happens.
00:00:55.040 When their options start narrowing,
00:00:56.620 and that's when they start being a bit more pragmatic
00:00:58.220 about what guy makes sense.
00:00:59.660 Until then, they don't care.
00:01:00.760 Well, it's like...
00:01:01.480 You have to, what, 35 for geriatric pregnancy?
00:01:04.420 So it's like...
00:01:05.440 And unless you have $20,000 to put down
00:01:07.900 and maybe get a kid out of it, maybe.
00:01:10.760 Like, you got to...
00:01:12.400 At, like, 30, I feel like people start getting desperate.
00:01:15.460 I feel like when females get to the age of 30,
00:01:17.460 that's when they start looking at the guys around them
00:01:19.360 and they'll be like,
00:01:19.900 you know what?
00:01:20.600 I'm tired of being abused
00:01:22.860 or tired of going through the same old story.
00:01:25.260 So, do you know what?
00:01:25.820 Now, I might go for the good guy
00:01:27.600 that may not have wanted me beforehand.
00:01:29.540 I feel like the modern-day kind of girls
00:01:31.660 are a bit different, though.
00:01:32.880 It doesn't necessarily mean
00:01:34.180 that they're looking for a child or another husband.
00:01:36.320 Sometimes they're literally trying to get their money,
00:01:38.600 build their next generation for...
00:01:40.120 It doesn't necessarily have to mean
00:01:41.060 a child that comes from them,
00:01:42.420 they could adopt.
00:01:43.200 They can do other options.
00:01:44.420 It's not just...
00:01:45.400 They can, but the least happy demographic of women
00:01:48.460 is women over the ages of 45
00:01:50.120 that make between,
00:01:51.060 I think it's, like,
00:01:52.760 between $50,000 to, like, $70,000 per year
00:01:55.960 and are single and childless.
00:01:58.520 Like, life gets pretty...
00:01:59.420 Are they bothered about it, though?
00:02:00.240 What?
00:02:00.580 Are they bothered about being a child?
00:02:01.580 Yeah, they're the least happy demographic.
00:02:03.200 Like, life gets pretty lonely
00:02:04.220 after the age of 45.
00:02:05.740 Like, I don't think as women
00:02:07.120 we really understand
00:02:08.020 how different the world treats us
00:02:09.440 because we're pretty women.
00:02:11.320 And because one day
00:02:12.640 your looks are going to be gone.
00:02:13.740 You're going to get no attention from men.
00:02:15.800 Like, 40 to...
00:02:16.800 No men are lining up to date 50-year-olds.
00:02:19.440 It's a good thing
00:02:19.920 I've got personality, then, isn't it?
00:02:21.400 That won't work.
00:02:22.260 That won't work.
00:02:22.700 We don't care about personality.
00:02:23.760 Guys, guys, guys.
00:02:24.440 Do you care about a girl?
00:02:26.080 If a girl doesn't look good,
00:02:27.360 do you care about a personality?
00:02:28.520 Of course not.
00:02:29.120 Yeah.
00:02:29.760 What are you guys looking...
00:02:30.320 If you're trying to wife someone,
00:02:31.620 why would you not care about their personality?
00:02:32.880 No.
00:02:33.160 No, I said if she...
00:02:33.960 I'm careful with my words.
00:02:35.560 If she doesn't look good,
00:02:36.860 you have to start with looks.
00:02:38.480 Not necessarily.
00:02:39.520 For women.
00:02:40.220 For women.
00:02:40.780 You're looking at it
00:02:41.360 from a female point of view.
00:02:42.360 For the men,
00:02:43.200 it starts with looks.
00:02:44.620 It starts with sex.
00:02:45.400 So, you have to understand something.
00:02:47.100 Before you try to speak,
00:02:48.300 you have to understand
00:02:48.880 and accept what we're saying to you.
00:02:50.240 It starts with looks.
00:02:51.180 It does.
00:02:51.720 It does.
00:02:52.380 It's initial attraction.
00:02:53.480 It does, because
00:02:54.180 before I even come and get your number
00:02:56.780 or even want to speak to you,
00:02:58.000 I've assessed the way you look.
00:02:59.840 So, if I didn't like the way you look,
00:03:01.520 why would I come and speak to you?
00:03:02.760 In order for me to know your personality,
00:03:04.020 that would involve us having to work together
00:03:05.640 or be in a scenario where
00:03:06.780 we can speak enough for me
00:03:08.080 to know your personality.
00:03:09.280 If a guy comes up to you
00:03:10.520 out of the blue
00:03:11.160 and tries to speak to you,
00:03:12.340 are you going to be like,
00:03:12.680 oh my God,
00:03:12.980 he's got such a handsome personality.
00:03:14.740 You don't know his personality.
00:03:15.840 All you know
00:03:16.360 is the guy that's approaching you
00:03:17.680 and whether or not
00:03:18.120 you want to accept his approach or not.
00:03:19.700 Listen to him
00:03:20.240 or just give him air.
00:03:21.760 So, your first attraction
00:03:23.980 is based upon,
00:03:25.100 in that aspect,
00:03:26.300 in a nightclub
00:03:27.000 or outside setting,
00:03:28.120 based upon attraction
00:03:28.940 because you don't know
00:03:29.740 what the personal personality is.
00:03:31.380 And for females,
00:03:32.460 I feel like
00:03:33.020 a guy has to give
00:03:34.280 a certain image
00:03:35.300 before you even take him
00:03:36.580 into consideration.
00:03:39.280 Are you impressed?
00:03:40.580 I'm not impressed.
00:03:41.640 And that's the thing
00:03:42.260 girls always like to say,
00:03:43.120 are you impressed
00:03:43.540 or has someone hurt you?
00:03:44.660 But no,
00:03:45.500 that's just the reality of it.
00:03:46.980 Like for me,
00:03:47.460 I'm a short guy.
00:03:48.160 I'm five foot four.
00:03:49.120 For me,
00:03:49.480 if I approach a girl
00:03:50.360 in a club,
00:03:51.380 I'm not likely to get
00:03:52.500 the same reception
00:03:54.180 that my brother would over there
00:03:55.600 because he's taller than me
00:03:56.660 and he's more built.
00:03:58.080 Do you get me?
00:03:58.420 I'm short and I'm small.
00:03:59.540 So it's like,
00:04:00.060 it's going to be harder
00:04:00.900 for a man like me
00:04:01.680 to move to a girl
00:04:02.820 because she's going to look at me
00:04:03.920 and be like,
00:04:04.360 that's not really my type.
00:04:05.900 She won't even give me
00:04:06.660 the initial,
00:04:08.120 like,
00:04:09.240 I don't know,
00:04:09.760 the initial.
00:04:10.460 But you see my brother,
00:04:11.260 yeah,
00:04:11.380 you see that type of,
00:04:12.380 that blatant,
00:04:13.420 look,
00:04:13.580 you just assessed yourself
00:04:14.420 and you said,
00:04:14.840 right,
00:04:15.000 these are my strengths,
00:04:15.600 this is whatever.
00:04:16.760 Men,
00:04:17.180 we have no problem
00:04:17.780 in doing that.
00:04:18.440 Do you understand?
00:04:19.100 We can look at another guy
00:04:20.060 and say,
00:04:20.440 right,
00:04:20.640 this guy,
00:04:21.560 this is in comparison
00:04:22.980 to me or whatever.
00:04:24.440 His strengths are my weaknesses
00:04:25.700 or my strengths
00:04:26.640 and his weaknesses,
00:04:27.340 right?
00:04:27.760 Women will look at themselves
00:04:29.120 and they won't do
00:04:30.040 that same assessment
00:04:30.780 and it's that little bit of,
00:04:32.800 you have to have humility
00:04:33.760 and humbleness
00:04:34.520 and you'll get better results
00:04:36.180 but us men,
00:04:36.740 we can do that.
00:04:39.100 I feel like women can too.
00:04:41.040 Every woman says they're 10.
00:04:43.020 No.
00:04:43.440 Huh?
00:04:44.620 When you ask a woman
00:04:45.520 what about them,
00:04:45.940 I'm a 10.
00:04:47.060 Not every woman.
00:04:47.560 I feel like there's a little
00:04:48.360 animosity against women here.
00:04:50.320 Okay,
00:04:50.900 sorry Pearl,
00:04:51.440 can I just say something?
00:04:52.400 Okay,
00:04:52.860 so before,
00:04:53.700 I want to tell you
00:04:54.280 a little bit about me.
00:04:55.380 I have three sisters.
00:04:57.380 They're all married,
00:04:58.180 all with child.
00:04:59.020 My mum and dad are together.
00:05:00.420 They've been together
00:05:00.920 for over 40 years.
00:05:02.400 I come from an African
00:05:03.340 traditional upbringing.
00:05:04.140 My dad is a chief of all chiefs.
00:05:05.500 He was a diplomat,
00:05:06.340 very educated man.
00:05:07.540 I have three nieces
00:05:08.740 that I all directly look after.
00:05:10.980 When it comes to women,
00:05:11.960 I'm a protector.
00:05:12.880 I'm a lover of my women.
00:05:13.920 So we take it quite insulting
00:05:16.140 when a woman says,
00:05:17.260 oh,
00:05:17.400 we feel as if that you're
00:05:18.340 any type of hate towards women
00:05:19.660 because having a criticism
00:05:21.100 or not,
00:05:22.340 no,
00:05:22.500 but what I'm trying to,
00:05:23.080 any type of animosity
00:05:24.140 or anything,
00:05:24.600 that's not what we're here for.
00:05:25.440 What we're here for
00:05:26.080 is to show how much love
00:05:27.480 we have for women
00:05:28.020 and actual fact,
00:05:28.780 we need to have these conversations.
00:05:29.900 So I take it quite personally
00:05:30.900 when people try to create that image
00:05:32.560 or perpetuate that image
00:05:33.440 because if you don't know,
00:05:34.880 I'm actually very much
00:05:35.980 supportive of women
00:05:36.520 and we protect our women over here.
00:05:38.260 So I just had to just say that.
00:05:41.080 Did you know that women find
00:05:42.720 80% of men is unattractive?
00:05:45.740 I didn't know that.
00:05:47.380 So a lot,
00:05:47.940 have you ever heard the girl
00:05:48.960 say like medium ugly?
00:05:50.360 Like,
00:05:50.500 oh,
00:05:50.640 I gave him a chance.
00:05:51.640 He was medium ugly.
00:05:52.240 I say cute ugly.
00:05:53.600 It's like,
00:05:54.140 it's like,
00:05:54.500 no sis,
00:05:54.880 that was just your level.
00:05:58.820 Because women find 80%
00:06:00.140 of men is unattractive
00:06:01.140 and the question is,
00:06:02.240 if you find a guy attractive,
00:06:03.580 he's probably the top 20% of men.
00:06:06.140 Are you top 20% of women?
00:06:08.500 And that's what we have nowadays
00:06:09.860 and you can get this data
00:06:10.820 from dating apps
00:06:11.540 because women only swipe right
00:06:12.500 between five
00:06:13.080 and like 20% of the time.
00:06:14.540 And if you ask 100% of women
00:06:16.060 what they want in a man,
00:06:16.920 they list 20% of men.
00:06:18.220 That's where you have eternal
00:06:21.940 like side chicks basically.
00:06:28.080 Okay.
00:06:28.640 So we agree
00:06:29.840 you can't turn a hoe
00:06:30.860 into a housewife.
00:06:33.060 When,
00:06:33.640 when does a girl become a hoe?
00:06:37.480 You're shocked.
00:06:38.140 You want to take that?
00:06:41.120 I think to a certain degree,
00:06:42.360 it's,
00:06:42.940 it depends on who you're asking,
00:06:44.540 right?
00:06:45.260 I'm asking you.
00:06:45.960 You're asking me for me.
00:06:48.220 You can't skate the,
00:06:49.620 you can't skate.
00:06:50.100 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:06:52.500 Yeah, like I said,
00:06:53.240 a girl that just sleeps around.
00:06:54.240 She's not interested
00:06:54.920 in making a connection
00:06:55.680 with a guy
00:06:56.200 and she's got the mindset
00:06:57.660 that she can be like men
00:06:59.200 where she can have sex
00:07:00.140 without having any kind
00:07:01.160 of emotional attachment
00:07:02.060 to the guy,
00:07:03.480 you know,
00:07:04.180 then,
00:07:04.700 and she's not concerned
00:07:05.660 about racking up guy
00:07:07.220 after guy after guy.
00:07:08.700 And to me,
00:07:09.060 I consider that
00:07:09.680 to be hoeish behavior.
00:07:10.700 It's not behavior
00:07:11.780 of a woman
00:07:12.540 who's really interested
00:07:13.940 in the long term.
00:07:14.780 She's more interested
00:07:15.480 in the short term.
00:07:16.860 Do you ask girls
00:07:17.520 what their body count is?
00:07:18.660 No.
00:07:19.400 No?
00:07:19.900 No.
00:07:20.800 Do you?
00:07:21.360 No.
00:07:22.640 I never have.
00:07:23.480 I don't feel like
00:07:24.180 that's a good question
00:07:25.320 to ask
00:07:25.720 because if you do,
00:07:26.520 it's always going to come back
00:07:27.400 with a negative response
00:07:28.500 or a lie.
00:07:30.100 But Pearl,
00:07:30.440 the reason I don't ask
00:07:31.260 is because we don't have to ask.
00:07:33.080 So there's certain questions
00:07:34.100 you can ask
00:07:34.720 and you know the body count.
00:07:35.860 There's certain reactions
00:07:36.660 that women with high body counts
00:07:38.740 give off
00:07:39.280 and there's certain energy.
00:07:41.320 So we can just already
00:07:42.280 just,
00:07:42.920 we know.
00:07:43.680 So I want to ask the girls,
00:07:45.920 do you feel like,
00:07:46.960 because as women,
00:07:48.300 I think we know
00:07:48.980 a little bit more
00:07:49.600 behind the scenes
00:07:50.380 than men typically do.
00:07:52.760 Do you think that men
00:07:54.000 can tell a girl's body count
00:07:55.420 based off of like
00:07:56.860 your friends
00:07:57.440 and your friends' friends?
00:07:59.720 To a certain extent.
00:08:01.420 Yeah?
00:08:01.960 To a certain extent.
00:08:03.140 What extent?
00:08:04.400 In a way where
00:08:05.420 there's a lot of girls
00:08:07.900 that I knew
00:08:08.520 back in the day
00:08:09.340 that had no intention
00:08:11.140 of sleeping around
00:08:11.980 but maybe they might
00:08:13.580 have been with friends
00:08:14.440 that have possibly
00:08:15.340 done all of that
00:08:16.160 and then it makes it seem
00:08:17.780 as if like
00:08:18.420 you do that shit too.
00:08:19.960 Sorry, am I allowed to swear?
00:08:20.800 Sorry.
00:08:21.360 You do that stuff too.
00:08:22.780 So it kind of gets
00:08:24.700 looked upon like
00:08:25.480 you're one of them.
00:08:27.520 So no.
00:08:28.780 But like...
00:08:29.180 At the same time,
00:08:29.900 birds of a feather
00:08:30.440 do flock together.
00:08:31.260 They do.
00:08:31.900 But why can't,
00:08:32.600 it doesn't necessarily
00:08:33.480 have to mean that
00:08:34.100 the girl's doing the same thing.
00:08:34.820 It doesn't necessarily mean it
00:08:35.780 but sometimes you have
00:08:37.120 to carry yourself
00:08:37.740 with the kind of people
00:08:38.500 that you want to be
00:08:40.840 like,
00:08:41.840 I don't know how to say it
00:08:42.740 but...
00:08:43.900 So if you're with the hoes
00:08:44.780 you're at home.
00:08:45.740 So when you,
00:08:47.140 when the police
00:08:47.600 pulls over your car,
00:08:48.560 if he pulls over your car
00:08:49.400 and three people in the car
00:08:50.460 have known to for drugs
00:08:52.660 you're going to get searched as well.
00:08:54.120 That's because in your car
00:08:54.840 with three people
00:08:55.280 that are known for drugs.
00:08:57.060 You know a lot of times
00:08:58.020 in your area
00:08:58.760 there can be one good boy
00:08:59.920 you know what I mean
00:09:01.000 and he has some friends
00:09:02.380 but just because they're friends
00:09:03.240 you all stay together
00:09:03.940 and your mum might say to you
00:09:05.620 stop hanging around
00:09:06.280 those friends
00:09:06.580 stop hanging around
00:09:07.000 those friends
00:09:07.440 because they're not like you
00:09:09.000 but you hang around
00:09:09.840 because they're your friends
00:09:10.960 whenever you get stopped
00:09:12.400 or whatever happens
00:09:13.180 you're going to be
00:09:14.000 they're going to treat it the same
00:09:16.840 and that's because
00:09:17.420 a lot of the times
00:09:18.220 mud sticks.
00:09:19.720 So if you don't want to be
00:09:20.680 known as a hoe
00:09:21.600 or you don't want people
00:09:23.940 to treat you like one
00:09:25.220 then if you hang around
00:09:26.320 with girls like a lot of hoes
00:09:27.240 then it makes it a lot harder
00:09:28.360 for you to be the one
00:09:29.100 that's actually different
00:09:30.220 you know what I'm trying to say to you.
00:09:31.340 So it doesn't mean
00:09:31.980 you're a hoe
00:09:32.320 if you hang around with hoes
00:09:33.120 like there can always be
00:09:34.080 one good girl
00:09:34.600 that generally is a good girl
00:09:35.560 but by rule of thumb
00:09:37.280 you might not
00:09:38.040 you might not want
00:09:39.600 to hang around people
00:09:40.260 which don't have
00:09:40.900 the same type of interest
00:09:42.080 or activities
00:09:42.920 as you.
00:09:44.360 That's me personally.
00:09:45.220 As many of you know
00:09:46.000 I was just banned
00:09:47.240 on TikTok
00:09:48.120 and we are demonetized
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