JustPearlyThings - Plus-Size Guys Couldn't Believe How The Panel ROASTED Them

00:00:00.000 That's negative. So that is so your health is a sacrifice. Yeah, yeah, you're you're you're willingly shortening your life for money

00:00:10.640 So it's that but you guys a sacrifice

00:00:16.480 Do that it's

00:00:22.480 Can I just let you know I've taught children to swimming I was a dance teacher

00:00:28.160 I'm like everything. I've done even me doing my entertainment work is active full of activities

00:00:34.080 And that's how I live my life to be active because I know when I go to a gym and when I kind of push myself

00:00:40.960 I fall apart and I go backwards because then I'm in pain for months and I'm in bed

00:00:47.400 That's what starts happening

00:00:49.400 Like the whole point is do plus-size models and maybe not sacrifice. Is it hard to become a plus-size models?

00:00:55.420 And before like I don't know if you've ever seen like the what I eat in a day from a Victoria's secret model before they were 0.92

00:01:04.140 Plus size like their workouts. It's hard. It was it required a lot of sacrifice

00:01:10.220 But it required a lot of sacrifice

00:01:11.980 But what those damn what those 0.90

00:01:15.100 Victoria's secrets girls have done to a lot of women is damage them as well because they tried being super fit like that 1.00

00:01:21.180 Although they had no potential some of them actually started taking drugs to look

00:01:25.820 It's less than less than three percent of the population is underweight or it's like five

00:01:31.180 No, but I think a lot of people's obesity is also related to taking a lot of this rubbish weight loss

00:01:37.740 Tablets and being sold be skinny be this be that and they have it and they get all these wrong

00:01:43.340 Because a lot of the obesity is from remember where how the 90s was how the noughties was you to actually think about how the decades

00:01:50.140 I think that's a victim mentality

00:01:52.140 Like I just think that's a victim

00:01:55.340 A lot of rubbish was put in food

00:01:57.340 A lot of rubbish was put in food, but at the end of the day people are fat because of their choices

00:02:02.220 That's it point-blank period. It's not because of the food

00:02:04.700 It's not because of the water because there's ways around all of this and with with the internet

00:02:09.980 With the internet, there's no reason you can educate yourself

00:02:13.500 What you're saying pal though like your initial point

00:02:16.060 I just think it's such a non-issue because one there just aren't that many plus size models. There are a few

00:02:23.020 Like in general I find people a lot of the comments I get are like oh my gosh

00:02:27.420 Thank you so much for modeling like particularly when I modeled a fitness wear for a bit. I did a plus size fitness weight

00:02:33.580 Range for a well-known brand and people were like oh

00:02:35.660 This is great because I actually know what it's gonna look like on me now as a fat person who wants to go to the gym

00:02:40.060 Which is what everyone wants is these fat people to go to the gym. What was the most well-known fashion show? 0.99

00:02:46.060 Fenty

00:02:51.260 Five ten years ago, what was it?

00:02:53.740 And what happened?

00:02:55.740 They started putting plus-size models on the runway and everyone hated it 0.99

00:02:59.980 Correct. So we're seeing some of the biggest fashion brands incorporate this

00:03:05.660 That's because people have struggled finding certain bits of books

00:03:09.820 I just don't think you could say it's a non-issue when I see them on the cover of magazines all the time

00:03:14.780 I see them in stores. They even make mannequins that are plus size now

00:03:17.980 Because there's a new market for these companies to make more money

00:03:20.380 Well that's the point

00:03:22.060 Why is there a market for plus-size now? Why do you guys think there's a market for plus-size now?

00:03:28.140 What's the motive behind it?

00:03:29.500 Market for plus-size what exactly?

00:03:31.820 Models or plus-size clothing or like when you go on online shopping and you see a bigger person modeling the clothing

00:03:39.100 Why is that?

00:03:39.980 Because fat people have to wear clothes. No, it's because when you think it's because fat people have to wear clothes

00:03:43.420 No, when you when you basically buy the clothes

00:03:46.300 The fitting is wrong and you know a big person didn't make it because the cut is usually funny

00:03:51.740 And it's not like that with normal clothes

00:03:54.380 So okay because fat people have to wear clothes, but that's that's the body positivity movement because you're now encouraging people to be at that weight

00:04:02.060 Because you can buy clothes and and look like this whereas if I see a fat model 1.00

00:04:08.620 You know advertising clothes. I'm more inclined not to buy it. I actually click off

00:04:12.860 Don't fat people deserve to know what like if they're considering buying

00:04:16.060 I don't know a top a dress a laundry set a pair of shorts whatever don't they deserve

00:04:20.380 To know what they may look like. I'm sure it's all well and good. It's great. It's great for them

00:04:25.100 But it's unhealthy for them. It's also like to see what they might look like

00:04:29.420 I remember 10 years ago a woman used to 1.00

00:04:32.460 Want a tree and to look good in their wedding dress

00:04:35.340 Is there plus-size wedding dress now? I don't know

00:04:38.060 Um, I want to say I want to add something to the conversation in terms of why there are more

00:04:43.500 Plus-size models plus-size campaigns and clothing. I think it's if you look at it from the business angle

00:04:48.300 Corporations are only going to go where the money is, right? Exactly. So if they can see the trends and see that people are getting fatter

00:04:54.940 So obviously they're going to be more fat people to sell to

00:04:58.540 So that also incentivizes them to create and to support and to fund this fat

00:05:05.660 Or this positivity

00:05:08.380 Then it creates even more fat people. That's the point. So that's why it's actually dangerous

00:05:12.380 It's not because you guys are looking at it from a personal angle of or it makes me feel better

00:05:16.700 But on the larger society for money, there are nefarious acts being done behind the scenes to make sure that these things continue

00:05:25.340 Would you think it's more positive for for a company to get a plus-size model or a company

00:05:31.500 To encourage you to lose weight? It's not that it's

00:05:33.580 Hold on. We're talking about corporate social responsibility now

00:05:35.980 And it's not like it's not a company's responsibility

00:05:39.420 Per se to encourage fat people to lose weight

00:05:41.820 Their priority is to make profit by selling their product

00:05:44.860 Why is it a company's responsibility to tell you not to litter?

00:05:47.900 Or why is it a company's responsibility to tell you should accept pride?

00:05:51.740 Firstly

00:05:52.380 Why do they do that?

00:05:53.020 Okay, can I say something?

00:05:53.740 I don't think they should like I don't think so

00:05:55.580 You've got let's say lloyd's bank right pride month comes around and all these 1.00

00:05:59.340 Companies who actually have nothing to do with sexuality lloyd's bank is just an example that I have

00:06:03.820 They throw up a different logo with the pride flag incorporated

00:06:07.100 That is um like a lot of people would call it virtual signal

00:06:10.060 Do you realize a lot of people call you a bigot now?

00:06:12.540 Because just for more clients

00:06:13.580 Because you said companies shouldn't do that

00:06:15.260 No, I didn't say that they shouldn't do that

00:06:16.700 I'm saying if that no no no no no listen very carefully

00:06:19.900 I want you to listen very carefully because I don't think what I'm saying is actually that complex

00:06:23.580 So a company that has nothing to do with like let's say health and fitness

00:06:29.260 Let's say I don't know like a oral b right they make toothbrushes should they 1.00

00:06:34.380 Is it their responsibility to encourage people to lose weight and eat healthy?

00:06:38.140 No, they should just sell toothbrushes and toothpaste

00:06:40.540 Right then so why are we having this conversation because you just answered your own question?

00:06:43.900 What was my question?

00:06:45.740 If you don't remember it, why should I answer?

00:06:47.100 No, so it was it was is it if they're going to do it and and hire fat models to advertise the clothing 0.98

00:06:52.860 And and it's going to be on magazines everywhere and it's going to be pushed in the media that it's okay to be fat

00:06:58.700 Then is it better to do that or is it better for them to encourage people to lose weight?

00:07:02.300 But they're already doing one

00:07:05.820 Should they encourage yellow the actual healthier out the companies that you're talking about?

00:07:09.580 And not only companies who actually have business marketing to fat people like clothing companies

00:07:14.380 We're talking like they might be advertising train tickets and they'll have a plus-size couple

00:07:18.380 And people in one school of thought would say that's terrible. You're encouraging people to be fat and buy train tickets

00:07:24.460 It's not the train tickets company to encourage people to lose weight

00:07:27.660 We've all just said the onus is on the individual if you want to talk about corporate social corporate social responsibility

00:07:34.220 We have to look at the companies who actually profit from people being fat

00:07:37.340 What about what about what about marketing to kids?

00:07:39.900 Yeah, because they don't get any a good good message to kids

00:07:42.540 So I would say it's okay to be fat

00:07:44.300 I would say that the weight loss industry are the people who profit most from people being fat

00:07:48.540 Because they like slimming world for example

00:07:51.260 It's designed so that you keep going back into it and back into it and back into it

00:07:54.780 That's why they give you these point systems and they do these things that keep you trapped because they want you to remain losing weight forever

00:07:59.740 They don't actually want you to get fit

00:08:01.100 I'd rather a society

00:08:02.220 The weight loss industry is worse

00:08:03.260 I'd rather a society that sells weight loss pills than a society that tells you hey, it's okay get fat and die early

00:08:08.780 That is I'm not gonna that is the most silliest thing you've said

00:08:11.900 What you should prefer is a world full of greens

00:08:15.820 Fresh things fresh vegetables organic stuff

00:08:18.380 That's how you know you've been watching too many magazines and too many internet things

00:08:21.820 What do we have?

00:08:24.460 Pills are never good pills are just made up in a lot of chemicals

00:08:31.340 Because his point is at least you're going towards the ideal and say instead of saying you're okay as is

00:08:37.100 Not saying that the pills are good

00:08:38.620 But he's saying he would rather live in a world where we are at least trying to be thin

00:08:42.060 You just acknowledged how people go back to being fat

00:08:45.900 You acknowledge that

00:08:46.780 You know the fashion

00:08:47.500 That's true yeah

00:08:48.380 The fashion industry doesn't actually care about plus size 0.56

00:08:52.060 Because they don't

00:08:53.020 When you order plus size clothes it's poorer quality

00:08:56.620 And the cuts are just basic

00:08:58.940 So the brands are just doing what they're doing

00:09:00.860 And the biggest thing for me is

00:09:02.620 Why are they still trying to keep big people like trans? 1.00

00:09:05.900 Because they make more money

00:09:07.820 No, they don't make money because they're just selling

00:09:09.500 They're not actually promoting plus size

00:09:10.940 They're just making their quick buck

00:09:12.140 It's actually popular now they make more money

00:09:13.980 No, they're just making their quick buck because they don't actually care

00:09:16.460 They make more money

00:09:17.580 It's not effort effort

00:09:21.420 It's not even brands caring about trans

00:09:23.900 I think the whole point isn't should they push it

00:09:27.180 It's that they do

00:09:28.780 And right now they do

00:09:30.140 I don't think they do for men

00:09:32.540 You're right

00:09:33.180 It's mostly to pander to women 0.99

00:09:35.340 I agree body positivity is not a male movement

00:09:38.460 It's absolutely a female movement 1.00

00:09:40.380 I agree with you

00:09:42.300 There's plus size male models 1.00

00:09:43.580 There are like on online shopping sites

00:09:45.340 There's plus size male models 1.00

00:09:46.380 But 100% is targeted to more towards women

00:09:48.940 Because men idolize people in good shape

00:09:52.060 Fitness trainers

00:09:53.420 People with good physiques online

00:09:55.180 Because they want to go the opposite route

00:09:57.340 And get a good body to attract a high quality woman 1.00

00:10:00.780 Well, isn't it because the market spend sits with women? 1.00

00:10:03.500 Women are like the consumers 1.00

00:10:06.540 When it comes to fashion

00:10:09.740 Women make 80% of consumer buying decisions 1.00

00:10:11.820 You're right

00:10:12.220 Right

00:10:12.460 So it's not it's not necessarily that men

00:10:14.700 It's like nothing to do with men and being attractive

00:10:17.180 It's just that like women spend more money on looking good 1.00

00:10:19.740 No facts

00:10:20.380 Yeah, I would say yeah

00:10:21.740 In terms of fashion 100%

00:10:23.580 That's why there's more female plus size models 1.00

00:10:25.980 But men go in the opposite direction 0.60

00:10:27.660 And want to shred as much as they can

00:10:29.340 Or get in the best shape possible

00:10:30.620 Who's buying more protein supplements? 0.97

00:10:32.460 Who's buying more weight

00:10:34.140 Probably not weight loss supplements

00:10:35.420 But just who's looking to get big in the gym?

00:10:37.740 Men

00:10:40.780 And not the not the big like fat big

00:10:43.100 But good physique big

00:10:44.700 We're not we're not stupid

00:10:46.140 We know what you mean

00:10:46.940 Like we yeah like I'm pretty sure like

00:10:49.660 We're all in this conversation

00:10:50.940 And we we understand the terminology around it

00:10:53.100 I think there's also something to be said around

00:10:55.660 Treating bigger people who clearly like are not PTs

00:10:59.340 And are not in the gym as much as you guys

00:11:01.020 Or healthier fitter people

00:11:02.860 As if they were born yesterday

00:11:04.700 A lot of us like we know the fact

00:11:06.860 It's just that certain people

00:11:08.300 Are not doing anything about it actively

00:11:10.300 Or some people are on that journey

00:11:11.500 And still look big

00:11:12.860 But there's a certain amount of arrogance

00:11:15.900 I think around people who are fit

00:11:18.300 And the way that they perceive people who are unfit

00:11:21.740 And how that manifests as treatment of others

00:11:23.980 Which is why

00:11:25.340 Have you heard of that woman who like 1.00

00:11:27.020 She was really big and she wants to buy it

00:11:28.940 She thinks that plane seats should be like three seats wide

00:11:31.980 Because oh my god we spoke about that last time

00:11:34.380 Right because she can't like fit in a single plane seat 0.99

00:11:37.580 Like that there's a certain amount of ignorance

00:11:40.380 From fit people towards unfit people

00:11:43.740 And I think that's why it manifests

00:11:45.820 What do you mean ignorance?

00:11:46.940 Arrogance and ignorance like just that clarification

00:11:49.580 It's like we know what you mean by getting big in the gym

00:11:51.820 It's like there's context

00:11:53.660 I think I don't think I don't think he was being arrogant

00:11:56.700 No not at all

00:11:57.900 I'm more so I think I think it's the other way around

00:12:00.620 I think the fat who are asking for extra removal on the plane 1.00

00:12:04.060 Are claiming to be victims

00:12:05.260 They're they're the ones walking around with arrogance

00:12:07.740 And saying hey I deserve better treatment

00:12:09.420 Yeah

00:12:09.820 Whereas the fit don't look down on you

00:12:11.820 They just look at you maybe that you have a lack of discipline

00:12:14.220 Or maybe maybe you could make healthier choices

00:12:17.180 I would encourage all my fat mates to lose weight

00:12:20.620 And get in better shape

00:12:22.300 That doesn't mean I look down upon him

00:12:24.220 Do you think there's a back and forth between the fit and the unfit?

00:12:26.860 And it's sort of like the anti gets up

00:12:29.100 Where you've got people asking for like three literal plane seats

00:12:32.540 So that they can sit comfortably on a plane

00:12:34.140 And then you've got fit people who are antagonizing fat people

00:12:37.820 For the way they look

00:12:38.540 Do you not think there's a back and forth between those two halves of society?

00:12:41.260 What do you call antagonizing though?

00:12:42.620 I don't think fat people are antagonized

00:12:44.460 I think like we're talking about victimhood

00:12:46.620 A lot of people who are big and feel particularly sensitive about being big

00:12:50.460 They would see particular comments as antagonizing

00:12:53.660 Whereas you guys might see it as like a healthy bit of bullying

00:12:55.980 And it gets you to where you want to be

00:12:58.140 But people like being fat is a very sensitive issue

00:13:00.620 Because it stems from an emotional deficit

00:13:03.260 And that's something that I think a lot of people would accept as being true

00:13:06.380 So if it stems from an emotional deficit

00:13:08.940 You know that it's a sensitive subject

00:13:11.420 I think fit people are trying to help

00:13:14.700 I really do

00:13:16.780 I think most fit people

00:13:19.260 I mean I've even offered us at any day

00:13:20.940 You guys want to work out

00:13:22.060 11 a.m.

00:13:22.780 11 a.m.

00:13:23.660 Come here

00:13:24.060 I swear to god I'll do it

00:13:25.100 Even one of my

00:13:28.700 One of my other producers struggles with his weight

00:13:30.940 I make him go up the stairs with me

00:13:32.460 Like I think most fit people

00:13:34.540 I don't make him

00:13:35.500 He does it out of his free will

00:13:36.540 Don't clip that

00:13:37.580 But no

00:13:39.180 But like most fit people will help you

00:13:41.900 Like most fit people are encouraging

00:13:43.980 But like I just think we get to a point where fat people don't want to talk about what's reality

00:13:48.620 And the reality is it is an early grave

00:13:50.620 The reality is you shouldn't be content at it as is

00:13:53.340 The reality is a lot of people will have problems because of the choices that you make

00:13:58.300 Nobody has denied that though

00:13:59.820 But I would say maybe

00:14:03.020 I'm not saying they're denying it

00:14:04.540 I'm saying the movement in general

00:14:06.300 I'm not talking about you guys personally

00:14:07.980 Says to be content as is and focuses on mental health

00:14:12.300 I don't think we should focus on mental health

00:14:14.300 I think we should focus on physical health first

00:14:16.780 I just think that both things can exist at once

00:14:19.500 And that's my standpoint

00:14:20.540 Like I

00:14:21.020 I think that you can want to be better and you can improve yourself

00:14:23.660 And you can also not hold yourself back from things that you want to do

00:14:26.940 And with the plain seat thing

00:14:28.140 That's that's a really complicated one because

00:14:29.980 I can empathize with the pain that they must feel how embarrassing that must be

00:14:33.100 And I can understand the jerk reaction to be like

00:14:35.340 Oh well the seats should just be bigger

00:14:36.380 I understand that but like when I couldn't go down a slide

00:14:39.100 My thought was not this slide should be bigger

00:14:41.340 Right

00:14:41.660 It was I should be smaller

00:14:43.500 Right

00:14:43.740 Like this is not normal that I can't go down this slide

00:14:45.820 But I've also sat on a plane before where I've had a bigger person next to me

00:14:49.020 And they've apologized for their weight

00:14:50.460 And I felt really sad that they felt like they had to do that

00:14:52.860 Don't don't you think like all of these adjustments are enabling it

00:14:56.860 Like making bigger clothes making bigger seats making like putting models in the media

00:15:02.300 Like it isn't in a way it's enabling it the same way

00:15:04.860 It's the same the same way handing alcohol and making it easy easy to drink is enabling

00:15:09.420 People used to train to fit in a wedding dress for a couple of years ago now

00:15:15.740 People used to go to their personal trainer and be like listen I want to get in this wedding dress

00:15:19.180 I want to be at a certain weight

00:15:21.020 Everyone still does that

00:15:22.140 No I think they are plus size uh

00:15:25.180 No no no girl come on 0.99

00:15:28.060 60% of us are overweight like they do not 0.89

00:15:30.700 Yeah but when people get married they I don't know anyone who's got married and not

00:15:34.540 Tried to lose weight for their wedding day

00:15:36.620 No but Pearl's question was is it enabling people to get fatter

00:15:40.060 To a degree

00:15:40.700 No I don't I don't think that anybody like I have a lot of skinny friends

00:15:44.060 Most of my friends are skinny and I don't think any of my skinny friends have ever looked at me

00:15:47.820 And been like do you know what I'd like to get fatter

00:15:50.060 They've never it's just never happened

00:15:52.460 No but it's enabling you it's enabling you they're not saying I want to get fatter

00:15:55.980 They're saying because you're seeing it every oh and it's okay we can do this

00:16:00.300 That it's enabling them to get fatter

00:16:02.300 I don't even if it's subconsciously I can still eat like this

00:16:05.180 Honestly like because I mean my big thing is I have a sugar addiction

00:16:08.860 I kind of like it when people like when I'm eating something bad and someone says something to me about it

00:16:14.060 Like because I'm like yeah I probably shouldn't like I think it's helpful

00:16:16.860 Makes you feel guilty

00:16:17.500 Yeah

00:16:19.500 I think those things are part of normal conversations though

00:16:21.740 I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with that specifically

00:16:25.020 Like my boyfriend is skinny and I'll say that to him because he has a major sweet tooth and he eats a lot of crap

00:16:31.100 Like and I'll be like that is your second piece of cake today

00:16:34.060 You know like and he's not fat like I think that's a normal conversation

00:16:38.220 But we're both mentally stable people you can't say that to everyone

00:16:40.620 Do you know skinny people could have a high visceral fat?

00:16:43.580 Yeah

00:16:44.620 That's a huge thing that is missed out in the body positivity movement and I think it gets to a point where we have to stop

00:16:49.980 It's much deeper than what they want to be helped and help them how they need to be helped

00:16:53.980 It's like we talked about it earlier right when people have a really serious drug addiction

00:16:58.380 There comes a point where your loved ones you have like a bit of an intervention right and you your people they sit you down

00:17:03.740 They say you need help you're going to die your kids need you around

00:17:07.820 So off you go you're going to rehab for six to 12 months and you're not coming back until you sort yourself out

00:17:13.100 So at what point do we stop helping people how they want to be helped and help them how they need to be helped?

00:17:17.820 How do fat people need to be helped? 0.59

00:17:20.780 Well it depends on the person doesn't it?

00:17:21.980 Well you said no they want to be that's how so depending on the person is how they would want to be helped

00:17:26.140 No it depends

00:17:26.700 How do fat people in general need to be helped?

00:17:29.020 Do the government need to come in and say okay no more mcdonalds

00:17:32.860 Their friends family and people around them need to care

00:17:35.980 Their friends family and people around them need to care

00:17:38.300 From like a plus size model how could people encourage 1.00

00:17:42.300 What is the best way to encourage people to lose weight?

00:17:46.140 For me I found what I did encouraged a lot of people a lot of people were like oh yeah

00:17:50.860 I should lose weight too from the video I made there was a really positive video about wanting to help myself

00:17:55.340 Like I got a lot of positive response from that

00:17:57.260 I got a little negative response from people being like it makes me really sad that you call yourself fat because

00:18:01.980 I'm bigger than you because I made a few jokes

00:18:03.980 I like picked fun at myself and I called myself fat in the video and that made some people feel bad

00:18:07.740 Well they should tell them they're fat too and they should work out

00:18:11.740 It's not how I think though I just don't think like that and I don't think

00:18:16.460 I don't think accommodating is necessarily enabling in the same way if you want to compare it to drug addiction

00:18:21.580 I would say that there are healthy ways to use drugs and like I think it's in the netherlands

00:18:25.580 They have places you can go where you can shoot up with clean needles and things like that

00:18:29.100 And I think that harm reduction is much better than just saying no it's like celibacy

00:18:33.500 It just doesn't work. I mean as like I had I had a cousin that died from like drug addiction

00:18:39.100 I'm sorry to hear that. I mean it's okay

00:18:41.020 It was a while ago, but I just don't think that enabling is like

00:18:44.300 I wouldn't look at someone that gave him drugs in a healthy way and say oh, thank you for that

00:18:49.420 I think I think it was it would actually be a negative thing

00:18:52.540 I think there's a difference between enabling and accommodating and and one is realistic

00:18:57.980 Yeah, is it a means to an end accommodating and like safe usage? That's a means to an end, right?

00:19:03.660 The end is that you'd hope that the person stops using drugs accommodating fatness

00:19:07.740 The end is that you hope that the person changes in the same vein

00:19:11.020 How is a person going to stop using drugs if they've been given it safely?

00:19:14.700 And how is a fat person going to stop getting fat or maintain his weight if he doesn't stop or he or she doesn't stop eating?

00:19:21.020 Something interesting that I came across recently was as a plus-size model 1.00

00:19:25.420 I was thinking like I want to make my own brand

00:19:27.660 I want to invest a lot of money into something and start producing something and I thought about making plus-size lingerie

00:19:32.620 I thought about making plus-size clothes

00:19:34.140 I just some financial advisors

00:19:35.820 I spoke to a few people and everybody told me do not do it because there's no money

00:19:40.460 In staying fat like that is what I was taught by professionals

00:19:43.740 They were like the money isn't losing weight

00:19:46.460 But why because he asked you a question like what's the best way to help fat people isn't it diet and exercise isn't that

00:19:52.140 The best way to lose weight is

00:19:58.380 To first start telling yourself that it's one step at a time one step at a time

00:20:03.900 Um have a plan give yourself okay imagine I do 10 sit-ups today tomorrow

00:20:09.740 I'm going to go for 15 if it's still hard

00:20:12.140 I'm going to do 15 on the third day then I'm going to push myself to do 20

00:20:16.380 And along with that he's even trying new foods and just eating fresh things diet and exercise

00:20:21.820 It's diet and exercise, but a lot of people that don't lose weight. It's because of mobility issues

00:20:27.420 So it's again if I can't do this with my knee. What can I do? How can I move my upper?

00:20:33.020 But not everyone has a mobility issue

00:20:35.020 Like for the last three years

00:20:37.660 Like governments have put out ad campaigns

00:20:40.220 You should you should take this it's safe or you know smoking ads are put up on television

00:20:46.460 Would you guys be opposed to a government ad saying?

00:20:49.660 If you continue eating this way, you're going to die. That's why they had that

00:20:53.900 I just I just want to say

00:20:56.220 Losing weight is 20% fitness and it's 80% nutrition. So when you're talking about mobility

00:21:03.340 It has nothing to do with sit-ups. It has nothing to do with running or in the gym

00:21:06.780 It's 80% diet anyway, so

00:21:10.380 If you want to lose weight then know where the 80% is, know where the 20% is and you personalize your program to that

00:21:19.100 I need to come in because there are a couple of things that I want to push back on

00:21:22.460 From something that Pia said it goes back to every like a lot of these things tie back to each other

00:21:27.740 You said both things can exist at the same time that that that's in my opinion is a very wrong ideology because

00:21:34.380 If you say you can

00:21:36.460 Want to lose weight and at the same time enjoy your body the way it is

00:21:41.340 In its current state, I I think that is you

00:21:44.540 Actually stopping yourself from actually losing weight because both things can't actually exist at the same time

00:21:49.020 It goes back to the same thing we talked about on this podcast where women want everything you can't have everything in life 1.00

00:21:54.460 So if you really want to lose weight, you need to

00:21:57.980 Um, how will I put it? You need to basically starve yourself of certain things

00:22:02.380 Put that time in, put everything

00:22:03.100 So you can't be enjoying those things

00:22:05.820 And trying to lose weight because you wouldn't lose weight

00:22:08.460 So for instance, like you said a bikini should be earned

00:22:11.260 When you stop yourself from wearing a bikini till you earn it, you would actually get that goal

00:22:16.300 You're saying disappointment

00:22:17.100 But if you yeah, but if you're if you're

00:22:19.500 Able to wear the bikini on a sunday and say you're gonna go to the gym on a monday

00:22:24.620 You're not gonna work as hard in the gym

00:22:26.220 I think that you're confusing like um aesthetics and health there because for me those things aren't particularly linked

00:22:32.700 I want to lose weight because I want to be healthy, but I don't dislike the way that I look

00:22:35.740 I'm not confusing it. I'm not confusing you know why because a lot of times we try to be um

00:22:40.940 Deeper than we actually should be a lot of these things are actually very soft

00:22:43.420 Trying to make it more complex

00:22:46.140 Before you can talk about all these things about the mind

00:22:48.940 Your eyes are the first thing that you used to see so your your brain is going to work on what it sees

00:22:54.380 So no matter what you try to tell yourself in your head

00:22:57.900 Your eyes still see what you look like and that's the reason why I wanted to ask the question to the personal trainers

00:23:03.260 Because it's very funny. Pearl asked

00:23:05.340 What is the best way to lose weight? And with all due respect, I don't think

00:23:10.060 You're in the right position to answer that question um

00:23:12.620 No, but he did say

00:23:15.100 Partially it was correct. No, I know

00:23:17.100 I know but the reason why I'm saying that is because this is the thing you um, it's like

00:23:24.780 That question should have been answered by the personal trainers in my opinion

00:23:27.820 Because one they have worked with people that help people lose weight

00:23:30.380 So they know if even if if you haven't done it you saying it is kind of like, okay

00:23:37.260 It kind of counteracts your argument. There are personal trainers

00:23:41.740 Who actually don't understand

00:23:44.380 Injuries they don't literally they don't understand it because they keep on working with fit people and that's why they just ain't no

00:23:51.420 But there's a lot of there's a lot of

00:23:54.780 Locally like people

00:23:56.460 Because there's something you said that makes me know that you don't really understand this because you said something like

00:24:02.060 When you go to the gym, it's scary you see these people working out the reality is because I walked in the gym the reality is

00:24:06.860 So the fittest people are actually the most empathetic. Okay, okay, because they've had to do the hard work

00:24:12.140 They know just just last

00:24:13.740 And they think we don't get to that's why we do just last week

00:24:17.020 I think what you do what you've done essentially is you've you put a mental block on yourself

00:24:21.660 So you see things that actually not there you're going to the gym

00:24:24.300 You see people looking at you and you think oh my god, they're judging me

00:24:26.860 The reality is most people don't even care about other people

00:24:29.580 Okay, so I joined the gym a week and a half ago in Essex

00:24:35.020 Now it's my induction and some things obviously I know how to use because I use it 0.93

00:24:40.940 But because I want to improve myself

00:24:43.500 I was like, so are you going to show me around like he's like, yeah, that's that

00:24:47.740 That's that and I'm like, so are you going to show me how to use it because I at least want to use it

00:24:52.620 And then he goes, well, you're not going to use it. Are you I'm like, why am I joining then?

00:24:56.940 I'm like, you need you you shouldn't be working with you by literally talking

00:25:00.060 Yeah, you changed him that's a bad experience

00:25:02.860 Yeah, that's just a bad experience

00:25:03.820 No, but no, but it happens a lot and it's not large because that's what I mean by encouragement

00:25:09.420 When people aren't used to working with people

00:25:11.420 Hey, hey, 11 a.m. tomorrow, you come

00:25:14.940 11 a.m. tomorrow

00:25:16.380 I was just going to say this this this you offered this same thing the last time I was here

00:25:22.460 And between then and now we haven't seen you here

00:25:25.020 Can I say why?

00:25:25.820 That's it. Can I tell you why why my dad's got cancer and he's been in hospital and this week

00:25:33.020 I actually gave him his a sponge bath and

00:25:38.460 When you're gonna lose a father and when you're seeing them deteriorate

00:25:43.660 You ain't like

00:25:45.660 It's like I've just been going out. It's like I don't have any emotions

00:25:49.820 So sorry to hear about I've just been keeping busy and a part of keeping busy is I know I need to drink water

00:25:57.020 and and actually care for myself, which is keeping active and

00:26:02.140 Getting good sleep and literally eating healthy and that's the way I'm living now

00:26:06.700 And when I go to work stuff that you see on instagram tick tock events and stuff like that

00:26:11.020 I only go there get the picture done take a few say hello to a few people and leave and then I wake up

00:26:17.020 I've been hospital then I've got errands to do

00:26:20.140 Like I live a life at hannah montana so I cook and clean at home

00:26:24.540 I do I do the caring when my when my nephews are here. I'm an uncle

00:26:29.260 I actually read books to them

00:26:31.100 I teach them how to cook because I want them to have real skills

00:26:34.140 So when they go out and I take them out to like we learn about things nature all these things so you don't have any personal time for yourself

00:26:42.700 I don't actually know and and and that's the thing when when p when someone's losing their life

00:26:48.940 Or they will hopefully they don't you just have to be positive and there needs to be that and I'm someone who cares about my dad

00:26:55.740 And I have and I have a lot of like empathy for that

00:26:58.860 But it's like you're sitting on a couch for three hours here. So it kind of just shows where your priorities are

00:27:06.460 Can I say something?

00:27:08.460 You've been here like twice and you know keep coming. You're very good content

00:27:12.540 Social media as well nothing nothing like personal, but it kind of shows like where your priorities are because you have time

00:27:20.060 Without sounding rude as much as I love this podcast

00:27:23.740 When Romeo asked me I was like Romeo na na na na

00:27:27.580 Oh na na na because I actually really wanted to watch and dubstynat because why because it helps me keep active

00:27:34.380 I'm gonna dance. I'm gonna be like

00:27:37.100 Grooving I swear it's I have a good time

00:27:40.380 Podcast ain't really me but coming on your podcast because I enjoy you. Yeah, that's why I'm here

00:27:45.580 My point is my point isn't about the podcasting. It's just I think we all make choices and okay

00:27:57.580 Sorry, I just need to I want to share personal experience. So this might help you

00:28:03.260 When I started working here, I went through certain personal things in my life

00:28:06.300 Which I'm not going to disclose and disclose but I think probably knows a few of them

00:28:09.740 But the point I'm trying to make is for the longest time even after I started getting my life back on track

00:28:15.580 I wasn't working out

00:28:17.020 I'm someone you might look at me you might think I'm fit, but I'm only just starting to get my fitness back

00:28:21.660 But the reality is the reason why I wasn't working out was because of all this life stress and all of that

00:28:26.700 And even when I kind of started getting my life on track

00:28:29.660 I still wasn't working out

00:28:30.860 But the reality is because that was happening because I wasn't prioritizing it

00:28:34.620 Once I start I got punched in the ribs when we're sparring the other day

00:28:37.980 And I kind of woke up and I was like, you know what I'm gonna make time for the gym

00:28:41.660 And I have been able to create the time

00:28:43.420 So the reality is no matter what you're going through in life

00:28:45.820 You can always create time for the things that are most important

00:28:50.460 Because I was depressed most of my life

00:28:53.100 I've been in bed most of my life

00:28:54.780 Okay, great

00:28:55.180 So being active is actually a thing

00:28:57.420 Can I just add to that?

00:28:59.660 I just want to ask one question

00:29:01.100 What's the one thing that you spend most money on

00:29:05.100 When you don't have time?

00:29:07.180 Travel and food

00:29:08.220 Travel and food

00:29:09.100 Would you say that if you want to lose weight and get better?

00:29:12.140 Why not spend that money on a nutritionist? 1.00

00:29:15.500 So whereas it's not physical

00:29:17.180 It's something a little bit more personalized program where

00:29:19.900 This person could help you even if you don't have time

00:29:22.540 Which is what Bill's saying priorities

00:29:24.940 Listening to you guys

00:29:26.380 I know why I am also plus size

00:29:29.180 It is because literally I am busy

00:29:31.820 And I've always been busy

00:29:33.020 Which is fine

00:29:33.580 And I can't fully share how it is for me

00:29:38.620 Because once I do my goals that I need to do in my career

00:29:41.900 That's why I can share my story

00:29:42.940 But I've suffered and I suffer

00:29:45.420 And I don't take mental health as an excuse

00:29:48.780 I hear what mental health experts have got to say

00:29:51.820 But to me, I'm like, no

00:29:53.020 If I hear what mental health experts have to say

00:29:55.740 Although I go through it

00:29:57.740 I'm like, no

00:29:59.020 Because if I hear that

00:29:59.980 That's it, I'm falling into

00:30:01.260 And the brain, I learned the power of the brain

00:30:04.460 Just remember

00:30:05.020 In the last two years

00:30:06.620 I learned the power of the brain

00:30:08.540 You can really push yourself

00:30:10.780 There are things like

00:30:12.460 And um

00:30:13.020 11 a.m. tomorrow

00:30:14.460 Let's push yourself

00:30:15.660 Come on

00:30:16.300 Tomorrow I need to get on a coach

00:30:18.460 11 a.m. the next day

00:30:19.900 No, but just remember

00:30:20.620 There is always a way

00:30:21.980 And do not sit on a second

00:30:23.500 I understand

00:30:24.060 Yes, yes, you're right

00:30:25.020 There is no way

00:30:25.900 And I'm stressing and suffering

00:30:28.860 I don't want to play devil's advocate

00:30:32.060 But like

00:30:33.020 You know, I think everyone suffers

00:30:34.300 Everyone has a point of suffering

00:30:35.340 Of course

00:30:35.980 Would you guys say that

00:30:37.820 Overweight people tend to have more excuses?

00:30:41.660 I don't even

00:30:42.300 Okay

00:30:42.620 Especially when it comes to fitness

00:30:44.620 Or should I?

00:30:45.660 I mean, I think just in this

00:30:47.100 Like conversation

00:30:48.140 We could say yes

00:30:49.580 Sometimes

00:30:51.180 I'm not gonna lie

00:30:52.300 When you're not feeling it

00:30:53.820 It's like when you're big

00:30:55.020 You're always constantly feeling heavy

00:30:57.740 And even like exercising is heavy

00:30:59.900 And then the muscle pain

00:31:01.180 No, I know

00:31:01.580 In five minutes

00:31:02.220 You literally get muscle pain

00:31:03.500 But I could say the same

00:31:04.620 I have a sugar addiction, right?

00:31:05.980 And there's this

00:31:06.940 Um

00:31:07.340 There's a

00:31:08.620 Like sort of a nutrition guy

00:31:10.220 That like texts me

00:31:11.180 And he's like

00:31:11.420 How's your sugar?

00:31:12.060 And I'm like

00:31:12.460 Bad

00:31:13.180 Bad

00:31:13.580 And it's because of my own choices

00:31:15.100 It's because I lack discipline

00:31:16.780 That's it

00:31:17.660 It's because I lack discipline

00:31:19.020 And I keep making that choice

00:31:20.460 To drink pure sugar coffee

00:31:21.900 In the morning

00:31:22.460 There is that

00:31:23.180 But how about I tell you

00:31:24.300 When you

00:31:24.780 When like

00:31:25.340 And now that I've got it

00:31:26.860 And like I'm better

00:31:28.460 But in the past

00:31:30.060 When I've exercised

00:31:31.420 That exercise session

00:31:32.620 Will put me into bed

00:31:34.460 For a week

00:31:35.340 I wouldn't be able to walk

00:31:36.620 So that's why I've been walking

00:31:38.380 And that's why I say

00:31:39.580 My best way of is

00:31:40.700 But so

00:31:41.180 So we got to figure out

00:31:42.220 Maybe it's diet

00:31:43.820 Maybe it's just diet

00:31:44.780 I know what it is

00:31:46.140 It's me

00:31:46.540 It's me actually

00:31:47.420 What do you guys think

00:31:49.180 Is more effective

00:31:49.980 Someone being strict in the gym

00:31:51.500 Or strict with their diet

00:31:52.700 Diet

00:31:53.260 Diet

00:31:53.580 I've been saying it

00:31:55.180 You don't even need to go to gym

00:31:56.380 That's the truth

00:31:57.020 But I did lose eight stones

00:31:59.100 Yeah

00:31:59.340 No

00:31:59.620 That's great

00:32:00.540 But even when you were saying

00:32:01.500 Like you're one of your number one

00:32:02.940 Expenses is food

00:32:04.300 Like I

00:32:04.780 I noticed when my food bill is high

00:32:06.580 That's when I gain weight

00:32:07.580 Because I've been eating out

00:32:08.780 Actually healthy food

00:32:10.220 The car don't drive it out

00:32:12.060 Gas

00:32:13.100 What?

00:32:13.660 The car don't drive it out

00:32:14.620 Gas man

00:32:16.060 Healthy food is expensive

00:32:17.340 You need fuel to be able to move

00:32:18.860 No it's not

00:32:19.740 Okay no

00:32:20.300 Okay look at

00:32:20.940 Okay look at the average

00:32:22.620 Juice

00:32:22.940 You want to buy a good

00:32:24.380 A natural pressed juice

00:32:27.020 And you want to buy that much of it

00:32:28.540 You know what's cheaper

00:32:28.860 You know what's cheaper

00:32:29.660 Water

00:32:30.380 Yes

00:32:30.940 Okay

00:32:31.500 Yeah

00:32:32.220 I do drink water

00:32:33.260 I do enjoy water

00:32:33.900 And I love

00:32:34.460 I love juice and sugar

00:32:35.740 Like that's like my kryptonite

00:32:37.580 So I get it

00:32:38.380 But at the end of the day

00:32:39.500 It's just a choice

00:32:40.300 Like we could drink water

00:32:41.740 It is a choice

00:32:42.860 Addictions

00:32:43.420 People do have addictions

00:32:44.540 It's different for different people

00:32:46.220 How I've got willpower

00:32:47.740 Some people may not

00:32:48.700 And it's just the way it is

00:32:50.220 I think there's a lot more willpower

00:32:51.980 For a lot of people

00:32:52.860 They think that the willpower

00:32:54.620 Is in going to the gym

00:32:55.660 But it is actually in what you eat

00:32:57.420 Because I think one of the super chats

00:32:59.100 Said this

00:32:59.500 And this was the point I was going to make

00:33:01.820 You have to discipline the one thing you rely on

00:33:04.140 Right

00:33:04.380 We're talking about drug addiction

00:33:05.420 We're talking about smoking

00:33:06.380 People don't need to smoke to live

00:33:07.500 But you do need to eat to live

00:33:08.780 Thing is you cannot out exercise a poor diet

00:33:11.740 Right

00:33:11.980 Because there's only so many hours in the day

00:33:13.980 And your body has a physical limit

00:33:16.220 You could eat 12 cheeseburgers

00:33:17.900 And then like get on the treadmill

00:33:19.820 For as long as you can

00:33:20.780 And you know you can't really

00:33:22.460 You can't out exercise the 12 cheeseburgers

00:33:24.620 That you ate

00:33:25.020 Which is why

00:33:26.380 It probably does need to start with diet

00:33:28.140 And we were talking about companies

00:33:29.500 And corporate social responsibility earlier

00:33:31.660 Look at how much

00:33:33.420 Like the cheapest burger from McDonald's

00:33:35.100 Is like less than a pound or something

00:33:36.540 Or at least it was

00:33:37.580 And that then if you go and buy

00:33:39.420 Like a lot of people would compare

00:33:40.780 And I've seen this all over Instagram

00:33:42.620 Like McDonald's is really cheap

00:33:44.140 Compared to fruit or vegetables

00:33:46.300 Or a gym membership

00:33:47.500 And that's what a lot of people

00:33:49.980 Who like really support the body positivity movement

00:33:52.140 Would come back with

00:33:53.820 Like it's about cost and convenience

00:33:56.060 And that's why going back to poor people 0.97

00:33:57.820 Are fatta

00:33:58.700 Because it's cheaper

00:33:59.580 Eggs are cheap

00:34:00.700 Oatmeal's cheap

00:34:01.820 Well eggs yeah

00:34:03.420 Yeah the rubbish eggs are cheap

00:34:05.900 But if you're gonna buy free wage

00:34:07.420 That's like

00:34:07.980 That is not cheap

00:34:08.860 You know and honestly

00:34:09.420 My dad

00:34:10.060 He's always been like thinner

00:34:12.380 Like in shape pretty much

00:34:13.660 Like never really struggled with it

00:34:15.340 He lives on fast food

00:34:16.940 But he just doesn't eat a lot

00:34:18.460 Some people are just blessed

00:34:19.900 No he's not blessed

00:34:20.860 He just runs and

00:34:21.820 Do you think

00:34:22.460 And he also eats a lot of like chicken

00:34:25.260 From those places

00:34:25.980 So do you think being fat

00:34:27.580 Is a result of your environment too

00:34:29.900 Because my dad

00:34:31.020 Oh sure

00:34:31.580 My dad runs a gym

00:34:33.100 And that's how I got into the gym

00:34:35.260 Do you guys feel like

00:34:36.380 Maybe it's because of the environment

00:34:37.500 Of course

00:34:38.140 Actually that's that's my

00:34:39.260 My next one question I had

00:34:41.020 Is 0.88

00:34:42.220 Is 0.88

00:34:44.620 Obesity for children child abuse

00:34:47.660 Yeah

00:34:47.820 Absolutely

00:34:49.100 Wait hold on

00:34:50.460 Obesity for children

00:34:51.420 Yeah so if a child's obese

00:34:52.940 Is because the adult is feeding them

00:34:54.620 Yeah

00:34:55.340 When they're aware

00:34:56.220 Yes

00:34:56.540 If they're not aware

00:34:57.500 No because some

00:34:58.460 Because some parents are like

00:35:00.060 My child has to eat

00:35:01.260 They have to have this

00:35:02.220 They have to have that

00:35:02.940 How young

00:35:03.900 How young

00:35:04.300 I noticed

00:35:04.860 So you guys all said yes immediately

00:35:06.700 Do you feel like you're in the position you're in

00:35:08.620 Because you were fed bad food as a child

00:35:11.100 Absolutely not

00:35:11.820 Because

00:35:12.460 And I said this last time

00:35:13.660 I hate to sound repetitive

00:35:14.860 For the people who love the show

00:35:16.300 But like your circumstances may not be your fault

00:35:19.340 But it's your responsibility to change it

00:35:21.180 If you don't like it

00:35:21.900 I'm at an age where I can

00:35:22.940 I just correct right

00:35:24.300 But I'm saying like when you were younger

00:35:25.660 Did that

00:35:26.060 Were you always big

00:35:27.020 Or did you get big when you were older

00:35:28.780 Um

00:35:29.260 I was

00:35:30.220 Smaller when I was younger

00:35:31.340 And then it just like every year

00:35:32.940 Like

00:35:33.420 I've just gotten bigger

00:35:35.100 Okay

00:35:35.420 I was just wondering if the food you ate at home

00:35:37.660 Affected that or no

00:35:39.740 I think to a degree it did

00:35:41.180 But I think a lot of it is just adult

00:35:43.500 Okay

00:35:43.740 Like

00:35:44.060 I really think fried chicken and

00:35:46.860 Chicken and chip shops in East London ruined me

00:35:51.100 No I'm just being honest

00:35:52.220 Because growing up in my household

00:35:53.740 There was fish

00:35:54.460 There was vegetables

00:35:55.340 There was everything

00:35:55.980 And it was home cooked

00:35:57.260 And my mum was always health conscious as well

00:36:00.380 So it is what's

00:36:02.380 It's again

00:36:02.940 It just goes to show

00:36:03.820 If you grow up in a community

00:36:05.180 Where there are things like that

00:36:06.540 And they're promoted

00:36:07.340 And they're cheap

00:36:08.300 You will eat it

00:36:09.100 And you will get big

00:36:09.980 And that's what exactly what happened

00:36:11.500 Um

00:36:12.060 What do you guys think

00:36:12.860 Child abuse

00:36:15.500 100%

00:36:16.140 Yeah for sure

00:36:16.700 I'd say it

00:36:17.740 Like it's a parent's responsibility

00:36:19.180 To care

00:36:20.300 For their kids

00:36:21.180 And if you're

00:36:22.220 Getting them to a point

00:36:23.020 Where they're extremely unhealthy

00:36:24.140 Or obese

00:36:24.860 Then it is child abuse

00:36:26.220 Oh my god

00:36:26.780 Yes

00:36:27.260 Because I mean

00:36:27.980 I have a niece back home

00:36:29.500 And every time I'm

00:36:30.300 On a political call with my parents

00:36:32.620 And they're feeding that child

00:36:33.660 I'm like

00:36:33.900 Don't give her

00:36:34.780 Too much of macaroni

00:36:35.980 Don't give her too much of this

00:36:37.020 And that

00:36:37.420 Like make sure she's eating

00:36:38.540 Small portions

00:36:39.260 Make sure she's eating healthy

00:36:40.620 So you're

00:36:41.420 Your family's obese

00:36:43.740 What is this like

00:36:44.860 Conversations like with you

00:36:46.780 No no no

00:36:47.340 I mean

00:36:48.460 I'm saying my niece

00:36:49.420 Yeah

00:36:49.660 When I see them feeding her

00:36:50.940 No you've just

00:36:51.500 Every time you've

00:36:52.220 Been on the show

00:36:53.100 A couple times

00:36:53.740 You always mention

00:36:54.380 You're overweight

00:36:55.100 Like family

00:36:56.700 So I'm just wondering

00:36:57.420 Like what do you

00:36:58.460 What are your conversations like

00:37:00.220 Like do you

00:37:00.780 Tell them

00:37:01.180 With my family

00:37:01.660 Yeah

00:37:02.060 All the time

00:37:02.700 Oh yeah

00:37:03.260 Yeah even my cousin

00:37:04.300 That died

00:37:05.820 She saw the last um

00:37:07.260 Podcast

00:37:08.300 And she even came to me

00:37:09.500 And she was like

00:37:10.060 Oh my god

00:37:10.540 Everything you guys

00:37:11.260 Was talking about

00:37:11.980 Was right 0.86

00:37:12.380 And I was like

00:37:13.660 Great

00:37:13.980 So you should be

00:37:14.860 Giving yourself

00:37:15.580 That type of advice

00:37:17.100 But again

00:37:18.700 It wasn't up to me

00:37:19.740 Yeah

00:37:20.460 It was up to her

00:37:21.180 To take the advice

00:37:21.980 Upon herself

00:37:22.700 You know what I mean

00:37:23.740 One of the um 0.99

00:37:25.260 Things that I would say

00:37:26.380 On terms of like

00:37:27.180 Children

00:37:27.660 Like I was a skinny kid

00:37:29.180 Like I grew up skinny

00:37:30.460 Uh but one thing

00:37:31.580 That I will never do

00:37:32.620 That my parents

00:37:33.260 Did with me

00:37:33.580 That I think a lot of

00:37:34.220 Parents do

00:37:35.020 Of people who get

00:37:36.140 Overweight as adults

00:37:37.020 Is um

00:37:38.140 Food was like a reward

00:37:39.340 If I did well at school

00:37:40.620 I got to go for a nice dinner

00:37:41.980 Um I got a treat

00:37:43.500 If I did good at something

00:37:44.700 And so when I was

00:37:45.820 In university

00:37:46.700 In like drama school

00:37:47.660 Um and I got into this

00:37:49.100 Binge purge

00:37:49.900 Restrict routine

00:37:50.940 Um that was partly

00:37:52.460 Where like the dopamine rush

00:37:53.580 Came from

00:37:54.060 Eating junk food

00:37:54.940 Was because when I grew up

00:37:56.300 Because I ate so healthy

00:37:57.500 As a kid

00:37:58.060 Junk food was a reward

00:37:59.820 And when I have kids

00:38:01.420 Like I'd like to have

00:38:02.140 As many of you know

00:38:03.100 I was just banned

00:38:04.380 On tiktok

00:38:05.740 And we are demonetized

00:38:07.020 On a daily basis

00:38:08.380 On this platform

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JustPearlyThings - October 18, 2023

Plus-Size Guys Couldn't Believe How The Panel ROASTED Them

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