JustPearlyThings - Post-Wall Divorcé Gives TERRIBLE Advice To Young Women ｜ @christinegracesmith ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 66

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00:00:48.900 Christine. Hello. Christine is our talent here at the YouTube network, the Audacity network.

00:00:56.280 Here at the Audacity network, indeed. You should go check out my channel at Christine Grace Smith

00:01:00.580 and I also discuss the treachery, debauchery of today's society, but more trying to tell you the

00:01:06.920 things that the mainstream media doesn't want you to know. So if that sounds like something you'd be

00:01:11.100 into, go check it out. Yeah, you just hit 25k. I did, yeah. Thank you so much. Yeah, keep growing.

00:01:16.960 It's amazing. I call you my conspiracy theory chick. Yeah, the specific compliment you gave

00:01:23.000 me the other day is actually the best compliment I've ever gotten in my life. So yeah, I'm running

00:01:26.800 with that. Yeah, like I say Alex Jones is like her guy. Because I can tell you about the history of

00:01:33.440 feminism, but I'm like, if I want to know something about conspiracy theories. You want to know about 1.00

00:01:38.360 MKUltra, I'll tell you. Yeah, yeah. It's you and Nazarene both, you guys. Honestly. Rachel Wilson is

00:01:44.140 another one. Have you talked to her? Yeah. Yeah, 100%. So today, a lot of my topics get inspired

00:01:50.300 by Twitter, as you know. Okay. I'm a big tweeter. Really? I'm a big tweeter. No way. Which, go follow

00:01:56.340 me on Twitter, pearly things with a Z. So there was a woman that decided to tweet her dating history. 0.85

00:02:03.180 I know. I know. Let's pull it up. Let's pull it up. A politician. Finance. Finance. Finance. Six,

00:02:11.680 four. Engineer. Business founder. Finance. Doctor. Engineer. Company founder. Artist. CEO. Surgeon.

00:02:19.780 Not sure. Never said. Six, four. Go to the next one. I think it keeps going. It's more. I think it

00:02:25.400 keeps going. Finance. Corporate lawyer. Doctor. Business founder. Politician. Model. Finance.

00:02:32.080 Investment banker. Surgeon. University professor. Data analyst. Six, five. Pilot. Pilot.

00:02:38.900 She's been with. Oh, my gosh. Oh, it keeps going. I thought we were done. Oh, shit. Okay. Investment

00:02:47.060 banker. Bioengineer. Ran a startup. Professor. Surgeon. Finance. Corporate lawyer. Politician.

00:02:54.620 An NGO. Researcher. Aristocrat. Engineer. Politician. Investment banker. Wow. Okay.

00:03:02.920 I counted like 48, I think. 48? Was it that many? I think so. I might have counted wrong.

00:03:10.200 I think there's a couple things that I find interesting. One, obviously the number is crazy.

00:03:15.980 Yeah. Two, you know, there used to be a sense of shame about these types of things. You know,

00:03:21.600 I actually know someone in London, I can tell you after, where this guy actually married an ex-stripper

00:03:28.200 and he was a famous guy. Okay. And he didn't know that she was a stripper before. Oh, gosh. Now,

00:03:33.500 I'm not justifying this. But women used to have like a sense of shame. Yeah. They at least knew like, 1.00

00:03:40.560 this is right. This is wrong. It's probably wrong to date 48 men. Yeah. That's probably,

00:03:46.780 that's a lot. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. And now we're at a point where they're bragging

00:03:52.360 about it. Yeah. I just, I don't understand the mindset. Also, what just irks me is I really hate

00:03:58.040 people who air out their dirty laundry. So like, she's doing it as, as you say, as a way to brag, 0.96

00:04:03.800 but I don't see it like that. I see it as you're airing out your dirty laundry because you're just

00:04:07.200 showing like how many people have said no to you. It's like, you think that this is making you look

00:04:12.040 really good. Actually, that's just showing that with 48 encounters, you've still not managed to

00:04:19.060 find success with someone. Yeah. And it's also like, they're dating down. That's what's happened.

00:04:25.160 I don't know what she looks like, but I'm just assuming she's a normal looking chick. 1.00

00:04:28.560 And you're talking to, and it almost ruins the women for their husbands. Yeah. Because, 1.00

00:04:33.540 because how are, how is any guy going to measure up to the surgeon? And what was her reason for

00:04:39.960 posting this? Does she say like, why? Wait, go back to the, go back to the first one, King.

00:04:44.480 Oh, just dating history. Yeah. Wow. Finance, CEO. Yeah. She's really cheating herself here because, 1.00

00:04:52.360 you know, how many men are over six foot? That's a small percentage in itself. How many men are going 0.99

00:04:57.660 to be surgeons, doctors, politicians? Like these are very, you know, not everyone can have these jobs.

00:05:03.420 And in fact, the majority of people aren't going to be in these types of jobs. So she's actually

00:05:07.020 slimming down her chances. One, by showing the world that 48 times, she still can't find success.

00:05:13.300 Two, by airing out her dirty laundry. That's, that's unattractive. No one's going to want that 1.00

00:05:17.700 in a partner. And three, how many people, like you say, are going to be able to live up to that?

00:05:22.800 Well, and it's really competitive too. It's interesting to see The Bachelor.

00:05:26.720 Have you ever watched The Bachelor? You don't have that here in the US? Like, okay,

00:05:32.520 The Bachelorette. Have you heard of it? I think it's, I think I know what it is. Is it kind of

00:05:36.900 like, like Geordie Shore type? Okay. Okay. Basically they have a guy or a girl and then a bunch of men

00:05:43.380 and a bunch of women come to compete to like marry them usually. Okay. Yeah. We use those kinds of 1.00

00:05:48.040 shows. Yeah. Usually at the end, someone proposes. So, um, I remember there was a, I think his name was

00:05:53.880 Matt and Rachel. Um, so there was a season where there was a guy named Matt and he was like a six,

00:05:59.720 four, investment banker, Jack. And it's interesting because you actually see the real

00:06:05.080 competition for these men. Right. Because you, you literally see all the women that are applying to

00:06:10.420 be these guys' girlfriend. Right. And you see like 50 women that come to these things that are 0.75

00:06:16.560 beautiful. They're fit, feminine, friendly. I mean, obviously they throw a couple of crazy chicks 1.00

00:06:21.320 in there for good tea. Yeah. Yeah. Obviously. But you see in real time how competitive it is. Yeah.

00:06:26.480 And to end up with one of the guys that she's talking about, like you have to compete. Yeah.

00:06:31.740 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And women today don't see it as a competition. No. Because they think they're 1.00

00:06:36.420 the prize. Exactly. And so it's kind of like she had 48 job interviews. And hasn't managed to keep

00:06:43.220 one. Exactly. Yeah. And maybe it's like, maybe you have a high school diploma and you're applying for

00:06:50.440 like a professor position or something. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This is a list of the men

00:06:55.860 she effed. Somebody tell her that dating is something else. I'm going to the next one. That's 1.00

00:07:01.260 a good point. It's very instinctual how women always refer to the men they've dated by their job 0.97

00:07:06.460 title. Oh, I didn't even think about that. That is very telling. That's a really good insight.

00:07:11.020 It's almost like she refers to the guys based on what she valued about them. And what they bring for

00:07:16.720 her. Yeah. Because the other ones, she said job titles, but the tall guys, she just said 6'4".

00:07:22.540 True. Yeah. Haha. She has a list of professions and then just 6'5 for one of these guys. What a 0.52

00:07:28.320 blessing to a guy to be born tall. Right. Yeah. Is that Nina? And the thing is, you know,

00:07:37.660 she can attract this level of guy in her 20s, but what are her 30s going to be like? Exactly. And then 0.97

00:07:43.380 this is why the men get so frustrated dating women in their 30s. You know, I've actually

00:07:47.860 talked to guys where they say, you know, I don't even, it's not about looks. Right. It's not even

00:07:53.180 a looks thing why we don't date women in their 30s. Now that's cap a little bit, obviously. But you 1.00

00:07:58.580 can get some somewhat attractive. But what they say is by the time they're in their 30s, their

00:08:03.660 standards have gotten so high. That's it. Most women are in debt. Most of them haven't been doing 1.00

00:08:09.660 anything. They're stuck in their ways. Yes. And so they meet the girl in their 30s. You have to

00:08:15.280 get on her program. And she has this high list of demands because of all of these men she's dated

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00:09:09.060 You won't regret it. It's interesting to see the level of like savagery that these young kids are

00:09:16.520 doing. Right. Like they've been watching the internet for so long. Oh yeah. That they have

00:09:21.220 just learned to roast from like the youngest age. 100%. 100%. So I saw a clip of a 15 year old

00:09:30.020 destroying chicks on a podcast similar to like whatever, Fresh and Fit. Oh, I think I know

00:09:36.040 we're going to pull it up. I thought it was so funny. I didn't know that I was going to be sitting

00:09:39.520 talking to a bunch of illiterate people who don't know how to read. You're literally 15. What do you

00:09:43.760 know? You know how to read? Yes. I do know how to read. Name 10 books. Are you serious? Yes.

00:09:49.360 100%. Name 10 books. Well, I read Game of Thrones. I'm obsessed with like the Twilight series.

00:09:54.220 What's the book called? Game of Thrones? The series? What's the book called? It's not called

00:09:59.060 Game of Thrones. She's just trying to come up with a bunch of nonsense and she can't name

00:10:03.140 any actual books. No, shut up, kid. 10 books. You're changing the subject. Okay. Three books. 1.00

00:10:08.540 Three books. Okay. Well, the Game of Thrones series. It is a book. It is a book. No, but

00:10:14.000 I want the name of the book. I'll Google the book right now. You want me to show you?

00:10:17.600 That negates the point. Let me show you the series since you don't believe me. I'll show

00:10:22.280 you since you don't believe me. The book is called The Song of Ice and Fire. Now before

00:10:25.940 you embarrass yourself by looking up the name of a book. She couldn't even actually name a single

00:10:30.840 book. She doesn't know how to read. She's clearly illiterate. Like where did these kids come 1.00

00:10:35.700 from? It is hilarious though. It is hilarious because she, she is making a bit of a tip of 1.00

00:10:43.520 herself. I'm like, I think it would have gone over better if she's like, look, I'm not a big

00:10:49.640 reader. You know what I mean? Yeah, just to be honest. It's the fact that she's so insistent and

00:10:52.960 she can't believe the fact that there is any possibility on this earth that he could one be

00:10:58.300 right because, you know, he's pointing out the fact that her life choices means that she's just 0.99

00:11:02.940 basically an internet whore. She doesn't want to accept that. And also she doesn't want to accept 1.00

00:11:06.920 the fact that someone who's younger than her could be smarter than her. Let's look at the comments

00:11:10.940 here. We have, she's saying you're just 15 and then pulls out the reading list of a 10 year old

00:11:16.600 girl. Yeah. Yeah. Oh no. She tried to bring him down for her ignorant level and beat him with 1.00

00:11:23.200 experience. It failed miserably. Her t-shirt told her reality and background without even trying. 0.99

00:11:29.080 That's what made it even better is it said poor stuff on her shirt. Do you think that selling 1.00

00:11:34.880 your nudes online and like using the money that you make from that translates to any sort of

00:11:38.500 intelligence or skill or do you accept the fact that you have no skill and maybe lack a lot of

00:11:42.940 intelligence, which is why you had to go down that path? That is not why I had to go down that path.

00:11:47.060 I have a degree. A degree in what? Philosophy. You could have become a very well-respected lawyer,

00:11:52.240 had a good career. What do you think your kids are going to think when they said,

00:11:54.900 oh my mom had two options. They could have been a philosopher and a lawyer who made a lot of money 1.00

00:11:59.200 but they decided to be an online host for two years and then when they got ugly now nobody wants

00:12:03.700 to hire them anymore because they ruined their name and their reputation.

00:12:11.880 Didn't even know what to say. That's the thing. It's like I would have so much more respect for

00:12:16.940 these women if they could at least acknowledge the facts of their choices. Yeah. Like if she could just 0.98

00:12:23.820 say like yeah like you know this is the choice I made to me it was more important to have money

00:12:29.360 straight away and I don't really care about working and I don't have a good work ethic that's why I'm

00:12:34.340 not willing to go down the path of becoming a lawyer. I would go wow fair fucking play like you 0.98

00:12:40.280 you you live that life and you accept the facts of it. Exactly but instead they want to say there's 0.95

00:12:46.200 no consequences. This is the problem. That's what it just drives me mad. It's the thing is it's always

00:12:51.100 like you know people will always come for people like you and you know I'm only at 25k so no doubt

00:12:56.440 they'll come for me soon but the point is is that like they come after people like us and they say

00:13:01.560 oh you're you're judging and you're putting yourself on a pedestal and all of this and da da da da da

00:13:05.520 it's like no no no no no no we're just asking to live in a world of truth. Yeah because that's the

00:13:10.720 most important thing to me it's like what is true. What's true. And they want to lie to women so 1.00

00:13:17.420 like they just they're constantly putting lies on TV. And that's actually not kind. It's not. That's

00:13:22.320 not kind to lie to people and to say that it's okay to live in delusion and that it's okay to to

00:13:29.280 live in a lack of accountability and and lack of regard for reality because ultimately that only

00:13:35.480 leads down a path of destruction. So it's actually a lot kinder to admit the truth of things even if the

00:13:42.900 truth makes you feel bad because I'm sure her saying look I don't have the work ethic or the

00:13:47.940 ability to strive to be a lawyer. I'm sure that would probably make her feel a bit shit about 1.00

00:13:53.280 herself but the truth is she then protects other people from having to go down that route because 0.96

00:13:58.000 people can then think about it. Well and then you can kind of adapt accordingly. Yeah. Like if you're

00:14:02.980 important I don't expect any guy to take care of you the rest of your life. If it if it happens it

00:14:08.460 happens. Yes. Great. But the odds are not in your favor. You probably will not be happily married.

00:14:14.820 No. So develop a plan. Yeah. And act accordingly. I saw a video the other day of like a 92 year old

00:14:21.500 um ex like um hooker. Okay. It was so weird to see this old lady like talk about all the shit. Right. 1.00

00:14:29.080 Yeah she used to do. It was so funny. Um and it was sort of like the way she was talking was so

00:14:37.560 different than how the younger women talk. Yeah. Because she sort of was just like yeah I was a

00:14:42.800 whore. Yeah. Yeah. There wasn't no am I was I know she's like yep. Yeah. I did what I did. There were 1.00

00:14:49.140 consequences. That is it. That's exactly right. It's all good when we are young and have the goods but

00:14:54.480 when you are no longer wanted as a nude you will have to return to real life but your nudes are out

00:14:59.660 there still. What employer will hire you? What man will date you? A man doesn't want all of his friends 0.98

00:15:04.720 looking at his girlfriend's nudes. And the other issue that I think we get you do get women that 0.99

00:15:09.900 it works out for. I'm gonna give you a couple examples. So Kim Kardashian was a famous rapper's

00:15:15.560 wife. Yeah. And how many times on the show do bitches bring up Kim Kardashian all the time? 1.00

00:15:20.080 And they see it work out for them. And they they look at the exception but they don't look at the 0.99

00:15:26.460 rule. Yes. And even the exception it still doesn't work out for them long term. No. Because long term

00:15:33.220 they still end up by themselves. Because they're too damaged to stay in the relationship. Kim

00:15:39.280 Kardashian will die alone. Now is she really gonna be miserable as a billionaire? Meh. I don't 0.99

00:15:47.220 know. That's speculative. You could have worse problems. Yeah. Exactly. But but my point is that

00:15:54.100 is not what is going to happen to the average chick. No. The average chick will literally die 1.00

00:15:59.100 alone. Yeah. Which is why it's not kind to not take accountability for the circumstances of your

00:16:05.740 life. Because then other people will see that and think that they can do the same. And then it's just

00:16:09.900 a cycle that repeats. Well and think about the average OnlyFans model makes less than $500 a month.

00:16:16.560 The average OnlyFans model makes less than the average McDonald's employee. No way. Wow. I never even

00:16:23.640 thought of that. So I think it's in the States that that statistic is from. I think it's in the States

00:16:27.940 the average OnlyFans model makes less than $15 an hour. And I think that's about the average

00:16:32.700 the average wage for a McDonald's employee. Wow. But it's that idea of it's not actually about

00:16:38.260 money. They always use this coat that I needed money or they'll make up some reason why they were

00:16:43.840 in these positions that all that was the last thing they could resort to. And it's like no no no no

00:16:48.060 you're missing out the part where you say you don't want to work. The issue is you don't want to

00:16:53.020 have to go and work an eight hour shift. Well I think that women would do it for free. I think they 1.00

00:16:57.360 would do it for attention. Women do. Look at their Instagrams. Yeah. Yeah. And this is the 1.00

00:17:02.280 but they look at Kim Kardashian and Kim Kardashian got money fame. She got all of this stuff. She got

00:17:09.700 high net worth individuals wanting to marry her. And it's like for every one Kim Kardashian there is

00:17:15.900 there's what a thousand women that it doesn't work out for. Or even what's her face like call her 1.00

00:17:23.060 daddy. Do you know who that is? Alex Cooper. She basically put her sex life on the internet and 1.00

00:17:28.980 she's getting married. But she's yeah like there's no sex tapes or anything. But she had like a podcast 1.00

00:17:34.520 with another chick. Yeah. Where they said really raunchy stuff. Yeah. And that's the problem. She

00:17:39.680 got 50 million for it. Okay. Maybe that was a good trade-off. Debatable. Debatable. But you could

00:17:45.640 you could at least see the argument. Yeah. But most chicks do that for free. So they said if 1.00

00:17:51.960 they're upset about it they can cry in one of their four Ferraris. None of these bitches are good. 1.00

00:17:56.340 Do any of them look like they have any business set? You think they know how to add? Like okay. 1.00

00:18:02.760 How petty of everyone in the comment section to shame a woman they don't know personally.

00:18:07.140 I mean why the hell do we have to judge someone for their personal choices when we ourselves don't like

00:18:11.900 to be judged. She made her choice and she has every right to. As a human being having morals is one thing

00:18:16.900 but expecting the other person to have lived the way you're living is just a petty way to establish

00:18:22.480 you are superior in every way. One thing that I don't like shame comes from within. It's so

00:18:29.820 interesting when you see interviews where one person's trying to shame the other. Yes. And they're

00:18:34.860 just like yeah. So nobody can make you feel shame. No. You it comes from within. So you can't blame

00:18:42.600 other people for the way that you feel. Exactly. Only you control how you feel. And it's like when

00:18:48.120 you know women get asked about their body count and then they they get all like funny about it and 0.93

00:18:52.280 then they say oh like I'm not ashamed. It's like well clearly you are. And also no one is is saying

00:18:58.540 that by having things like shame and the concept of tolerance and all these different things no one

00:19:04.840 is saying that that's about establishing any kind of dominance over anyone to say that you are

00:19:09.700 superior in one way or another. It's just having a universal code of truth that means we all adhere

00:19:15.240 to a code of truth where we can all acknowledge what we've done in our lives. It is true no one likes

00:19:22.020 to feel shame but like you say the first point is you only feel shame if you decide to feel shame and

00:19:25.860 if it if it bothers you you will feel shame. And the second point to be made is that no one is saying

00:19:32.000 that this woman in this video has to have lived how the 15 year old boy is saying or even like the way

00:19:39.420 that we are saying because we we would say yeah you probably should have gone down the lawyer route.

00:19:43.440 And no one is saying that what we're saying is correct. We are just saying that if you are going to

00:19:49.980 go down a path you have to own it. That's it. And it's the fact that every opportunity they get they try

00:19:55.780 and cope out of it. He says you could have been this. Why didn't you? And instead of her just being

00:20:00.140 honest and saying I didn't because of this this and this and this is my choice and I'm proud of it.

00:20:04.380 And you know you can you can respect that at least she knows where she's at. It's the fact that she

00:20:08.740 goes straight to but I am I am intelligent. I have a degree and it's like she obviously feels shame in

00:20:14.340 herself if she feels the need to have to say she is something. I've noticed this pattern in so many

00:20:19.220 people who come on the show they constantly feel the need to tell the room what they are.

00:20:24.180 I'm this I'm that like you know I'm I'm a good person. How how often do we hear that? You know

00:20:29.400 I'm intelligent. I've got a degree. How often do we hear that? You know right and also another one I

00:20:34.980 hear all the time is uh like oh I'm just real about things or um wow I never thought about it's like if

00:20:42.560 someone has to tell you what they are chances are they're not. The smartest people I know never say

00:20:47.660 that they're smart. You know they're never like because I think of my I think of the smartest

00:20:52.380 people I know were like literally my dad and my brother Adam and even Austin's really like my

00:20:57.500 brothers really and I've never heard them say that they're smart because when you ask when you tell a

00:21:02.580 smart person that they're smart or like say you're so smart they kind of are like oh whatever because

00:21:07.580 they know people smarter than them. Yes you know yeah yeah and it's like the person in the room who

00:21:12.540 constantly feels a need to say what they are is saying that because it's a projection of the fact

00:21:18.480 that they're not. So they project it outwards and they say this is what I am because they're inside

00:21:23.160 like this is just psychoanalysis whether they're conscious of this or not is a different issue but

00:21:27.200 the the truth is at least from what I've seen it's they can't feel it in themselves so they feel a

00:21:33.780 need to have to say it because at least that way if they convince if they can convince other people

00:21:38.040 of it that validates what they're missing. Yeah because the people that always say this is one

00:21:43.320 I've noticed I'm so real oh they're never real no they're never real or or um I I'm uh what is it

00:21:53.600 it's always something or I'm a I'm a traditional woman they never look traditional yeah yeah yeah

00:21:59.020 because traditional women I mean they're rare anyways but it's like they have one trait they have 1.00

00:22:04.480 this humility and they're always thinking well I could be better you know and that's the thing it's

00:22:09.760 like people that are actually skilled in something they don't need to say that they are no and

00:22:14.280 typically they know people that are better than them because that's who they're around like the

00:22:18.860 most traditional women are around the most traditional women the smartest men are around

00:22:23.220 the smartest men so they're always reminded yeah that they are not the smartest person well it's like

00:22:28.340 if you if you have a job that say the example that comes to mind is for example a surgeon do you

00:22:33.180 think a surgeon walks into the room and feels the need to tell everyone that he saves lives no

00:22:37.260 absolutely not because every day people thank him for saving their lives whereas you have something

00:22:42.860 else I don't know say just like a a mundane normal job a normal person job if that person really feels

00:22:49.680 unfulfilled in their job I can guarantee you that they go around telling people that you know I I

00:22:56.060 save lives in this job or I do this or they find some way to make out that what they do is so

00:23:01.660 important ultimately the only reason they do that is because it's not fulfilling them in the way that

00:23:06.240 it needs to when people are fulfilled they don't feel the need to spread to the rest of the world

00:23:11.200 what they have because they already had it have it why do you need to project what you have if you

00:23:15.540 already are that or yeah like people that brag about money are the same way they never have so many

00:23:21.060 people come on the show and they say like you know like I'm quite well awful I do this or

00:23:24.980 or like you know I get this I get that they realize that we can google their company I know

00:23:30.440 okay so you know I got a lot of heat because I said basically you getting heat never never never

00:23:40.780 I say that basically women's jobs are pretty much useless right now again there are exceptions now I 1.00

00:23:48.240 always say I use Ivanka Trump as an example that's a Donald Trump's daughter right I would imagine she's 1.00

00:23:54.360 better at business than a lot of people being raised by a Trump of course I'd imagine I don't

00:23:58.600 actually know too much about her maybe she doesn't you just assume by association that she would be 1.00

00:24:03.060 yeah and there's women that are super smart like the same way you have children right and in general 1.00

00:24:09.760 adults are smarter than children yeah but occasionally you'll get a child prodigy yeah that's amazing

00:24:15.120 it's it's phenomenal you can't even believe you can't even believe they're a kid I feel the same way

00:24:19.260 about women yeah nice I feel like by and large men are smarter occasionally you get a female prodigy

00:24:25.460 that is really smart but typically the same way the smartest adults are always smarter than children

00:24:33.900 the smartest men are always going to be smarter than women yeah and when I came to this conclusion that 1.00

00:24:40.780 a lot of women's jobs are useless and the reason I came to this conclusion was I started thinking about 1.00

00:24:47.700 women's sports you know I play volleyball here and I know that women's sports always operates at a 1.00

00:24:54.040 loss and it's funny I are I was arguing actually with a couple of my teammates about this I swear I

00:25:00.000 was arguing with some of my teammates on the way up to our game last weekend okay and they were saying

00:25:05.100 how there are profitable women's leagues places and I was saying no no no they're not and I was saying

00:25:11.580 if women if women's leagues are profitable it's always because of either drama sexuality or 1.00

00:25:17.620 male investors subsidizing yeah being nice yeah basically in the same way actually I found an 0.96

00:25:23.340 investor for our team and they did it to be nice wow exactly you can't make this shit up and and I was 0.99

00:25:29.620 telling them that they basically don't know what they're talking about and I was thinking like you 0.96

00:25:34.360 know I actually run shows so I have to think about what would be profitable and I've literally thought

00:25:38.980 about how can I make just because I really like my coaches I think they're nice people I try to help

00:25:43.560 them out when I can yeah yeah yeah so I've thought about how can we make our league more profitable

00:25:48.220 because all the players have to play yeah or pay to sign up and the idea is typically you get picked

00:25:53.540 up by like a European team okay so it's like and which was what I was gonna do until you know this all

00:25:59.420 whatever and basically like they really believed that and I was I was comparing women's sports to

00:26:04.280 charity work right well it essentially is isn't it because they they need the outside help to

00:26:10.180 do anything and I thought about the WNBA what the WNBA does is it takes the top guys say here's our

00:26:16.480 charity work women's sports we're gonna take pay from the men yeah and give it to the women and I 0.99

00:26:21.920 thought about how this probably happens where men's wages are being stolen from by women but the men don't 0.99

00:26:29.500 even know it because it's not their decision right and what I thought about was in corporate America

00:26:34.400 the before and after of Twitter yes so the before picture there was a bunch of women there yeah there's 1.00

00:26:40.060 a bunch it was like half women and then when the rubber met the road and they said oh shit we need to 1.00

00:26:45.500 cut our expenses so we can make money which resulted in a lot of women losing their jobs yeah the women 1.00

00:26:50.760 were the ones that went because they're not doing the actual work and now the company is innovating

00:26:56.280 yes and what backed up this claim also was that I would see these women with their what I do in a 1.00

00:27:02.840 day oh at TikTok yeah yeah and it was always like well I went to a meeting and then I got my latte and

00:27:09.440 so I'm thinking maybe they're not really doing that much work and I think this is everywhere I think

00:27:16.320 and again yes there are exceptions even in Twitter you know it's funny I was I was not surprised at all

00:27:23.720 there was like five chicks that made it like that was it and it was anyways but there was a couple 1.00

00:27:29.940 chicks that made it they're hard workers whatever so okay my thought is I think this just goes on in

00:27:35.420 society yeah so this is the reason I think that to back up this claim even further 25 percent of

00:27:42.300 Iceland's population went on strike mostly women okay which you also see when we go by the hospital

00:27:49.320 it's always women protesting right so 25 percent of Iceland's population went on strike and nobody 0.98

00:27:55.320 even noticed pull up the video

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00:28:27.320 like did you hear about that no I want to know what it is that they're fighting for they're

00:28:31.880 fighting for equality but what okay what do you mean what are you well if they were so not

00:28:37.960 have if they were so needed why didn't the economy tank right I mean you could look at any business

00:28:44.640 right this looks like an excuse to have a street party yeah like like you could look at any business

00:28:49.760 if people didn't show up to work shit starts to go south absolutely you notice it like 25 percent of 0.99

00:28:56.320 bloody oil workers and or even here 25 percent of the staff it would be like oh fuck yeah and they 0.99

00:29:03.400 didn't even notice 0.97

00:29:04.400 so this further backs up my claim yeah that I really do think the majority of women have 0.99

00:29:11.960 useless jobs well yeah well they had to invent a bunch of useless jobs because they had all these 0.98

00:29:16.840 women who wanted to work they're not going to put these women in say jobs that need to be done by men 1.00

00:29:21.520 for the sake of society not collapsing yeah they had to invent a bunch of useless jobs

00:29:25.960 human resources human resources project manager right and twitter's health and what is it uh

00:29:33.140 diversity and inclusion diversity and inclusion there's another one as well it's the uh the one

00:29:38.040 that was censoring all the people on twitter that was all women like 80 90 percent women yeah so the 0.88

00:29:44.100 do you know rachel wilson yeah yeah friend of the show she comments on this and says people have raged

00:29:50.020 against me and pearly things for saying that the world would actually be fine if women didn't go to 1.00

00:29:54.400 work well it actually happened and we were right nobody gave a shit plus iceland was already ultra 0.87

00:30:00.580 egalitarian epic patriarchy w yep the next comment says and you know what's interesting just to add to

00:30:08.540 that in egalitarian societies where the like access to equal opportunity is a lot more equal the women 1.00

00:30:15.900 tend to do more feminine jobs and the men tend to do more masculine jobs and actually the separation

00:30:20.460 between the sexes is much greater so that actually just reinforces what you're saying because that

00:30:26.620 means those women chances are they were in very much women's jobs so it's not like it's not the same 0.91

00:30:32.440 as saying over here if 25 percent of the population went on strike because over here you know you've got

00:30:38.460 more women in in masculine sectors yeah but that just shows you that these women are women who would 1.00

00:30:43.660 have been in likely feminine positions and even with them disappearing like nothing nothing changed no

00:30:50.880 one noticed you know what else too i was reading some of the early anti-suffragists writing yeah did

00:30:57.500 you know they equated women voting to communism because that makes sense yeah because they said 0.98

00:31:02.440 it indicates that it's the vote of the individual and not the vote of the family yeah yeah it's the

00:31:07.600 family yeah and i never even thought about that it that's it's more communism like i never even

00:31:14.120 thought about that it's marxism and communism at its core because it's the idea that the family is

00:31:19.100 this oppressive unit and the idea that we we have to be all of these individuals in a pot rather than

00:31:25.520 having like family units that are derived from hierarchies it's it's ultimately the destruction of a

00:31:31.320 hierarchy which is marxist and communist at its core so they said women deserve the liberty to go to 1.00

00:31:37.180 work if they want and denying them this is evil most women would be happier at home if women left 1.00

00:31:42.920 the job market and pass pay would skyrocket for men allowing more most families to live comfortably on 0.97

00:31:50.760 one income both are true at the same time i never even i never even say that women should be banned from

00:31:58.500 the workforce except in police officers that hill i will die on get them out of the oil rigs get them out of 0.97

00:32:05.940 yeah and the sas yeah that that hill i will die on what's hilarious is that with the with the sas thing 0.99

00:32:13.760 in particular i think they're making it it's either happened or it's going to happen uh where women can 1.00

00:32:19.460 can you know join the sas but the thing is is that to join the sas um that's the special forces in the

00:32:26.680 uk um so like the top of the top like the people who are in this group you you have to be a specific

00:32:32.400 type of human being to get into that group it doesn't really make a difference for the sas because

00:32:36.440 it's like we can say oh yeah women come along and join they won't pass the training they won't make 1.00

00:32:41.380 it no but they lower it for them that's what they did in the u.s they they won't they as far as from

00:32:46.940 what i know from someone who knows quite a lot about this um they won't for the sas they might for

00:32:51.980 the army and they might for the police but because the sas is such a high up thing i don't think they

00:32:57.280 will yeah hopefully well if they do we're really well and it takes away from the women that actually 0.87

00:33:02.580 pass those requirements yes when there's quotas because then people just assume she's just there

00:33:07.840 because she's a woman and then you have incompetent people in positions of power exactly women can marry 1.00

00:33:12.460 the government but they don't see the government as the actual patriarchy they blame men under the

00:33:16.960 same system who were raised by single mothers married to the government yes uh probably the most

00:33:23.140 peaceful day men have had in centuries oh can you imagine they were able to go back to their old 0.89

00:33:29.080 school banter they were able to have a laugh they were able to say what they thought without worrying

00:33:34.160 about a woman listening they're like thank god these chicks are out here that's the thing i don't think 1.00

00:33:39.860 women realize how much they police men's speech i was talking about this on an interview yesterday we

00:33:45.080 did an interview for the audacity network me and shahara with a guy called mike bell and he's the founder

00:33:50.420 of an appg in the uk and he talks about men's rights we was talking about the fact that men don't

00:33:57.220 have men's spaces anymore there's more than enough women's spaces there's more than enough places that 1.00

00:34:01.960 are just for women in most gyms you've got areas that are women only you know you don't have any men's 0.82

00:34:06.700 only gyms in the uk there's a women's minister there's no men's minister and even in jobs where they 0.89

00:34:12.240 were predominantly before mostly men women have now infiltrated those spaces and what happens is men

00:34:18.500 can't talk how men talk even in places like the fire brigade you know you've got women firefighters 1.00

00:34:23.480 come in men are used to having a particular type of banter and and they can't when the women are 1.00

00:34:28.480 around and i think it's it's what me and you have had this conversation before most women haven't heard

00:34:33.480 how men talk when women aren't around the locker room talk so when they do hear it it triggers them 0.51

00:34:38.580 and they make a problem out of it but it's like you know i i sort of i i mentioned this on the

00:34:42.700 interview i i sort of it really irks me and i want to shake these women sometimes and be like 0.98

00:34:46.940 do you not think your dad your granddad oh yeah your brother has said stuff that if you heard

00:34:52.860 in another room you would be shocked and let's not act innocent it's not like women don't say 1.00

00:34:59.120 things to each other that if the men heard they would be shocked too we totally have locker room

00:35:06.420 talk this this guy totally yeah exactly this guy mike bell made made a very very funny point what was

00:35:12.140 he said um men men insult each other and don't mean it but women compliment each other and uh don't 0.99

00:35:18.020 mean it i was just like that is so true yeah that is so true yeah and that's what that's what frustrates

00:35:24.880 me is then like the women go to hr and they cry and do all this stuff and i'm like okay you've asked 0.99

00:35:30.720 to be in a man's world and i know some tough ass women i know some women that don't do this bullshit 1.00

00:35:36.700 and they're they're just tough women you know what's interesting in the 1900s they actually had 1.00

00:35:42.320 the same like women have been policing men's speech even before like media they're in the workforce 1.00

00:35:47.660 they would try to police men's like bars oh that doesn't yeah like the 1900s there's like writings 0.97

00:35:53.000 of them trying to get yeah it's like the men are just like leave us alone bitches let us have a laugh 1.00

00:36:00.100 the thing that's the point like men don't mean half the things they say yeah yeah and that's the 0.94

00:36:06.740 bad things they say but it's like women don't mean the good things they say so we don't even have a 1.00

00:36:12.520 leg to stand on yeah and uh come on guys like i'm like okay if you recorded women's locker like i grew

00:36:19.260 up an athlete like women talk very raunchy when it's not in like a public i'm like come on guys yeah 0.96

00:36:25.760 there's not stuff you've said you're god you've never said anything behind the scenes

00:36:30.580 inappropriate come on like get out of my face so there is a video going viral right now and it was

00:36:37.900 this woman with a small amount of subscribers she had one video that just took off and it was titled 0.71

00:36:42.100 i'm a 33 year old woman with no life this is my advice to young women okay and the reason i think

00:36:48.220 it's important is because it kind of highlights everything that i just kind of touched on it brings

00:36:54.080 it together okay so this woman essentially got divorced now she's unemployed in her 30s with no 1.00

00:37:00.260 kids and the reason it went so viral is it resonates with people oh that's why things do go viral exactly

00:37:08.120 that's that's the thing like people think you can just make shit up and it'll go viral no no you have

00:37:13.760 to connect with people and you can figure out what's going on in society by figuring out what is 0.90

00:37:18.560 going viral in women's songs what is going viral in female youtubers because people want people they 1.00

00:37:25.580 can relate to yes especially female influencers so let's pull it up i am a 33 year old woman with no

00:37:32.440 direction in life and i want to talk about it i will give you some advice at the end of how to deal with

00:37:38.760 this and cope with no sense of direction but for now i kind of just want to tell you my story of how

00:37:46.560 i got here and it's not long and it's not that sad and it's not like i'm not gonna try to make you cry

00:37:53.460 when i was maybe late teens to my 20s to like college age i had a vision in my head of what i

00:38:01.900 wanted out of my life of what my life was going to be like when i reached the age i'm at now and

00:38:07.960 some of the things i wanted were okay of course i was going to graduate college which i did thank god

00:38:14.420 and then i was going to get married i got married and then divorced there's more to that story but

00:38:20.940 that's for another video i wanted a big career i started having a nice okay career and then that

00:38:28.560 pummeled again i can talk about that later but that's how my life has been so up and down

00:38:38.320 that i no longer know what i want even though i've planned this life since i was really young

00:38:48.720 and then when i graduated college i had an internship which is again that's pretty normal you graduate

00:38:54.100 college you get an internship i got a really good internship when i was in college i studied video

00:38:58.460 production i studied um basically a very interesting version of journalism and i wasn't i didn't know i

00:39:06.140 wanted to be in journalism but um i knew for sure that i didn't want to tell like sad stories so i didn't

00:39:13.540 really aim to do journalism but that's what basically my major was that's what i studied and i graduated

00:39:20.700 that idea i was an okay student you know i got an internship for digital media coordinator and that

00:39:27.420 went really well and then i was like okay this is good i graduated college i got an internship

00:39:33.260 this is life is gonna be good life is gonna be good and then i never got jobs that's when i was around

00:39:44.980 maybe 23 24 23 um i never was able to get a job that made sense with my career what i wanted

00:39:57.400 so instead of going into a direction of entertainment news reporter or working at a huge production

00:40:06.060 company or working in some sort of film movie capacity working in entertainment or anything

00:40:11.980 like that like i wanted i never got any of those jobs so the first five years i graduated in 2015

00:40:20.140 2015 so the first five years of after my graduation it was constantly looking for work and constantly

00:40:26.440 looking for jobs i never got them i never i had a few interviews but i never got jobs i never got jobs

00:40:34.140 and it just never nobody wanted to hire me nobody wanted to give me opportunities nobody wanted i don't

00:40:40.980 know if they thought i was too dumb to do the work they kept the thing i kept getting was

00:40:46.260 this is literally what i keep getting today in my 33 years is you don't have enough experience

00:40:52.600 you don't know what you're doing so we can't hire you but it's like well how am i going to get

00:40:57.340 experience if i don't if you don't hire me and that's still the struggle today which i will get into

00:41:04.380 later about the state of my job hood and how i ended up having no direction that's exactly what it

00:41:13.300 was like when i got out of college it was constantly you don't have a job you don't have enough

00:41:17.160 experience we can't hire you no job nothing i wanted i applied for you know companies like

00:41:22.820 brick buzzfeed yahoo like all their like fun media department jobs i applied for them nobody video i

00:41:31.820 applied for video editing jobs nobody i went into the direction of getting a job just to live which is

00:41:37.120 which is fine sometimes you do have to do that so i ended up getting like retail jobs i got a customer

00:41:44.440 service job i got a sales job like things like that even though it wasn't really what i wanted

00:41:49.920 i still ended up getting those jobs i stayed in those in that direction for a while and those were

00:41:57.040 fine even though i knew that it wasn't really what i wanted to do and then at 25 i got married the

00:42:04.200 marriage did last five years which was great but unfortunately it didn't work out and there's

00:42:08.560 the end of that i may talk about that in another video but for now that's where i was at 25 i got

00:42:13.360 married at 25 by the time i was 30 the marriage was over and then i had to kind of restart my life again

00:42:21.500 so i ended up moving i ended up moving across this across the state i was in san francisco and then now

00:42:29.160 i moved down to los angeles in the middle of covid and then last year literally a year ago after i

00:42:37.300 was looking and struggling and trying to find work that i really liked i found a job as a project

00:42:44.460 manager at a tech company and i was really scared when i first started that job something about the job

00:42:52.720 didn't feel right but i i did it anyway i was really happy i had everything i needed i was i had

00:42:59.820 insurance i was going somewhere with my life even though i didn't have a boyfriend or or a partner

00:43:04.840 anymore i was really happy because i was like i was making good money and i was i had friends i i was

00:43:11.280 socializing i was i was i was excited even though i in the back of my head i knew something was wrong

00:43:16.940 i still kind of just went through my life as best as i could about a year ago i got fired which is how

00:43:25.360 i'm in my position right now about a year later is because i got fired from that job and it was really

00:43:35.340 devastating and ever since then i'm back to my college days or early 20s where i'm having a hard time

00:43:43.720 finding a job i haven't been able to find a good full-time solid benefits all those kinds of jobs

00:43:52.780 in the corporate realm i did get a few contract jobs um right after i got fired but again there

00:43:59.440 were contract jobs they didn't that means it didn't last they weren't permanent they didn't have any

00:44:03.800 benefits but one job lasted six months and another job lasted two months so i was able to kind of cover

00:44:08.820 my bills in that way it feels like again that nobody wants to hire me it feels like again that

00:44:13.860 nobody wants anything to do with me it feels like and i'm still getting that same thing i'm getting

00:44:17.940 the same like you're not good enough you don't have enough experience we can't hire you you don't have

00:44:23.680 enough experience even though my experience has demonstrates everything on my resume they're still

00:44:28.720 saying i don't have enough experience for the job so that's how i'm here now is i am 33 no job

00:44:38.260 no family living off of unemployment i barely i could barely make ends meet thank goodness i don't

00:44:45.580 have any children i only have my cat to take care of but i still struggle financially again i'm on

00:44:53.000 unemployment and food stamps i should make clear that i'm on food stamps right now i'm not happy

00:44:57.140 because i'm struggling emotionally mentally i just can't seem to get my life together so i'm hoping that

00:45:05.120 trying to create content for youtube and trying to put my story out there will resonate with some

00:45:11.100 people that are probably feeling the same way i'm feeling as far as where i'm going i'm hoping to

00:45:17.420 you know start creating more content on youtube and making more videos and putting more time towards

00:45:25.400 something i really want to do versus waiting for companies to tell me that they don't want me and

00:45:30.460 they don't want to hire me and they don't want to work with me and i'm not good enough

00:45:34.340 because when i'm doing youtube and i'm doing my own content nobody's gonna tell me that nobody's

00:45:39.540 gonna say to me hey you're not good enough you're fired you're not good enough you're not you know

00:45:44.200 you're not worth it you're not worth the investment nobody's gonna tell me that so i'm really hoping

00:45:48.780 that going on to some sort of video production on youtube will get me to where i want to go

00:45:59.100 mentally emotionally financially and hopefully something will come out of this even if it's

00:46:06.760 just knowing that somebody out there is going through this and knows that they're not alone when

00:46:11.420 it comes to having a very directionless life so that's that's what i'm hoping to get out of this

00:46:17.280 so you might be wondering what i do all day with now without having any sort of direction

00:46:21.820 i spend a lot of my days inside the house which sucks sometimes but it's really nice to have

00:46:29.220 peace i do a lot of cooking i do a lot of cleaning i shop a lot i'm always shopping for

00:46:36.420 like groceries or clothes or um when i say clothes i mean more like window shopping i'm not really out

00:46:41.460 here like buying bags or shoes or you know things like that i do more window shopping during the

00:46:47.520 day i went to rosie rodale drive and that was really fun um some days i get really lonely but i

00:46:55.840 power through it by watching tv reading my books i look for jobs all day every day um that also kills

00:47:05.480 time i talk to my friends on the phone um things like that so as as far as advice goes for young

00:47:14.060 people i think that everybody in their life will have a time in their life where they just don't

00:47:19.820 know where they're going and they don't have any control of what life is bringing i think that's a

00:47:26.340 thing i think that's possible in um every young person or older person's life you know some

00:47:32.600 like you know when women um when their children leave for college and they're feeling you know

00:47:39.240 they they're empty nesters that's something that feels very directionless because you're like what

00:47:43.580 do i do now that my kids are out of the house you know when you get fired and you have you have to

00:47:48.800 wait for your next gig as far as advice goes what i would say is these three things number one have a

00:47:55.580 solid good support system know that there are people in your life that you can go to to talk to about

00:48:00.740 anything and everything no matter what time no matter what you know where you are you can talk

00:48:06.880 to them always have something planned and something to look forward to something i do a lot of that i

00:48:11.500 did a lot of this year is i went to a lot of shows i was able to go to a lot of my favorite shows i saw

00:48:16.160 beyonce yes amazing so that was something to look forward to um when the barbie movie came out i made

00:48:23.140 sure to plan an event with my friends and we had a really good time because again i was looking forward

00:48:27.740 to that okay so my third and probably final advice is knowing that this phase of life is not permanent

00:48:38.340 and even though it feels permanent even though it feels very long i'm assuming that i'm not gonna do

00:48:45.360 this in like five years five to ten years i may be like this in the next year or two but knowing that

00:48:51.740 i won't be like this in five to ten years is kind of also what keeps me going it again it feels very

00:48:58.880 permanent it feels like crap i don't have a direction i need help um it feels like that but

00:49:07.100 at the end of the day i know in my head that it's not even though my brain is telling me like 0.57

00:49:12.000 girl what are we doing if i am here in the next five to ten years

00:49:16.340 i need to realize really reevaluate what is happening in my life because that's a that's

00:49:25.420 going to be a huge problem if this video helped you in any way shape or form please subscribe like

00:49:32.280 the video and i'm happy to kind of go into more detail about more stuff and where i am or where i'm

00:49:40.180 going and i would love to share more so just make sure to subscribe and follow along with me as i

00:49:46.980 try my best to figure out this life so what i thought of this video is this is what's next for

00:49:56.420 modern women i think there's going to be a huge economy crash i think it's going to leave a lot of 1.00

00:50:01.980 women unemployed i i don't think she's alone i think we're already starting to see it i think it's

00:50:06.800 going to get worse especially in america yeah i mean i think a video like this is important because

00:50:17.760 i think it's perhaps the first step to resonating with people to get people to realize that perhaps

00:50:23.620 we're making the wrong decisions in my personal opinion i don't think she said enough i don't think

00:50:28.220 she took enough accountability for her circumstances oh to say that you are you're you're not getting a

00:50:34.080 job you know she she did do the right step she didn't she didn't go on only fans so i will give

00:50:37.960 her that yeah she did go and get jobs in retail but it's like she seems to be very adamant on the

00:50:43.920 path of she mentioned you know specific media jobs very specific yeah she hasn't tried anything else

00:50:50.600 and the way i see it if you are unhappy with your life and you're unhappy with the results that you've

00:50:54.740 got that means you need to try something new so i think what she could have done is perhaps tried a

00:51:01.060 different career path she had what sounded like you know most people's degrees nowadays very broad

00:51:06.100 transferable skills that could have been applied to anything second thing she's saying that she

00:51:10.200 applied to people like buzzfeed now they are most more than likely i'm assuming one of the top

00:51:15.060 companies you can go for she could have started with applying with something else another thing i 0.78

00:51:19.280 didn't hear from her was offering to work for free and i always say this to you know younger people

00:51:24.060 who are starting out um just as as i you know i was very lucky um i was willing to work for free

00:51:29.580 i didn't have to but you must be willing to work for free if you're not getting anywhere and people

00:51:33.840 are saying you've got no experience you need to gain that experience the only way you're going to

00:51:37.920 do that is making yourself worth their time so you say to an employer look you got a job

00:51:43.740 they say no okay why not well we need someone with this experience blah blah blah okay what if i

00:51:50.920 come and work for you for free for this amount of time and you train me up and then if i'm competent

00:51:56.800 enough for you after say three months six months a year then we negotiate a salary there are things

00:52:01.920 you can do to get somewhere and unfortunately i don't think she's done enough well i was even

00:52:09.200 thinking her editing skills are so bad that's what i was thinking during i'm like you've had 10 years

00:52:14.400 to learn how to edit like on youtube as harsh as it sounds like i was thinking i could edit a little

00:52:20.400 bit better i mean i definitely couldn't and i'm not even not my skill no i know that's what i was

00:52:24.720 gonna say i'm not even gonna no okay the other thing i was i do appreciate her being honest i do

00:52:30.080 so i don't i'm not even trying to like on her it's good that it will resonate but but what i kept

00:52:36.080 hearing was the job was a success if she got to make friends if she had this work-life balance i never

00:52:43.440 heard her talking about skills like if you talk to me about media i i don't even really talk about

00:52:50.640 that i talk about how excited i am for that project yes because i'm really like today right guys i had

00:52:56.320 this idea of i want to do an american idol talent show but for youtubers so if you want to apply dm

00:53:01.840 me on instagram you got to be in london but you know what i mean like that's what gets me excited

00:53:06.160 because to me it's so fun but she it doesn't even sound like she's passionate about the job it's more

00:53:13.280 more passionate about the status of the job the kind of company is and the kind of people and fun

00:53:17.840 things she gets and then the other thing she said i wasn't given an opportunity and i'm so create one

00:53:23.360 that's exactly and she said you know i spend my days calling my friends listening to i'm like how do you

00:53:30.280 have the money to do all of this stuff yeah she went to a beyonce concert yeah how did you have the

00:53:35.180 money to do that i'm like why are you on food steeps and going to a beyonce concert like clearly not

00:53:41.220 good money management her first thing was window shopping well it's like if you're window shopping

00:53:46.020 you're gonna buy something inevitably what though then why are you shopping so i i was thinking like

00:53:53.220 when i was in i was in milwaukee um and i was working in sales and i hated it and i didn't know

00:53:58.380 what i wanted to like do in life and i was trying to figure it out and you know i ended up messaging

00:54:03.400 and like calling fortune like 500 c-level executives and i literally got like three to meet with me

00:54:10.740 i nothing like came out of it but i was so amazed at how like willing people are to help you when you

00:54:17.220 just show initiative and ask another thing i did this was when i was um just wanting to be a youtuber

00:54:23.980 and this i didn't even want a job but i wanted to see if i could get a job okay just by going into

00:54:29.720 rich neighborhoods and go door to door asking yeah i remember you told me about this yeah and i actually

00:54:35.260 i got um uh i mean i didn't get a job offer because i would have had to go in and apply and

00:54:41.000 i just didn't want to do all that you know i don't want to waste their time yeah but literally

00:54:45.060 the recruiter like their head recruiter called me because i knocked on the door of like a big

00:54:50.400 fortune or like a big i don't know i guess he had a big company around there i don't even know

00:54:54.780 another thing i've not seen from her and i i say this to people all the time younger people

00:55:00.260 if you want to get a job you need to get ahead of the game everyone right now is implying on

00:55:05.520 indeed total jobs whatever everyone's trying to do it online how many people these days print off a

00:55:12.440 cv and go in and ask for the manager and shake their hand look them in the eye and give them a

00:55:17.320 smile you do that you're not you're automatically ahead of the game because not only have they got

00:55:21.560 your cv in front of them they can't ignore it not like indeed where they can just swipe off of it

00:55:25.680 they've got a face to the name they've got a feeling from the interaction you have like and

00:55:32.260 people you so many people aren't actually willing to do that that's how i got my first sales job

00:55:37.300 i printed out i moved to an area didn't have a job no i had part-time jobs but i wanted something

00:55:43.400 full-time as well and i printed out 10 cvs i found 10 estate agencies that i thought i'd like to work

00:55:50.300 for and uh i walked in i said is your manager here introduced myself this is my cv i'm looking for

00:55:56.400 work don't know if you're hiring if they then said we're not hiring at the moment i would say okay can

00:56:01.540 i get some experience can i work here for a certain amount of time and maybe then you think about hiring

00:56:06.920 me um but i i was very lucky after doing all of that i got the call from the first estate agency i

00:56:12.120 walked into and you know they were it takes a day like that's it's so funny you said that because i did

00:56:17.500 the exact same thing every summer in college all of my friends would be applying online and i would

00:56:22.880 just think that's too much work yeah let me just go door to door take an hour out of my day and some

00:56:29.340 yeah and some people said no it happens but it would never take me more than say like a week to at least

00:56:35.380 get an interview you're always ahead of the game like that because in a world where everyone's on the

00:56:39.980 internet you know the difference it makes shaking someone's hand giving them a smile eye contact having a

00:56:45.740 conversation you're automatically ahead of the game and the other thing i noticed from this video

00:56:51.000 was it's like this is what's on the other side ladies of divorce you know now she's living on food 1.00

00:56:57.140 stamps she's clearly not good with money no and she's unemployed in her apartment that's another 1.00

00:57:03.340 thing i didn't like you know she's willing to talk about it just shows where her priorities are at

00:57:08.480 because all she's talking about is the career she just very quickly brushes over a five-year 0.64

00:57:14.800 marriage no tell us tell us more about what happened there i know she said she was willing

00:57:19.900 to to say more so perhaps she does at some point but you can't just make a video like that and and

00:57:25.120 not give the full story yeah yeah and it was just kind of amazing to me because this is what's going

00:57:31.440 to happen to so many chicks i know they're not actually providing real value at her job i i didn't 0.93

00:57:37.060 hear any anything about her pursuing skills no and i'm like i and you know i actually think she's on the

00:57:43.540 right track i think she's gonna do well as a youtuber i actually think she will resonate with

00:57:48.060 so yeah yeah and i think there's some reward for being honest 100 you know and there's something she's

00:57:53.480 i think i don't even think that she's necessarily being i would hope anyway i don't think she's

00:57:58.120 necessarily being willfully ignorant i don't think she's i just don't think she's come to the

00:58:02.640 realization yet to look back in hindsight and go maybe i should have tried another area maybe i should

00:58:08.500 have moved outside maybe i should have lowered my standards a bit maybe i should have offered to

00:58:12.920 work for free i am i think she actually is being as honest as she can be right now yeah i just think 0.92

00:58:18.320 hindsight's a bitch and i think maybe a year or two down the line she will come to the revelation of 1.00

00:58:23.740 the things that we've just said um but like you say i think she probably will do well on youtube because 0.98

00:58:29.020 she is being honest like she did seem pretty authentic i just think it's a shame that maybe she didn't

00:58:33.320 have the people around her to say hey lower your standards hey try something new well and it's

00:58:38.180 funny too because the same thing happened to me with media like i totally applied to the daily wire

00:58:43.040 of course dave i i emailed dave rubin like three summers in a row about being an intern yeah um i i you

00:58:50.200 know i emailed so many people and actually what made my stuff you gotta try your luck what you've got

00:58:55.360 to try your luck yeah and what what kind of took everything off was um i mean you know like my old

00:59:01.020 manager basically what happened was i i messaged him and asking for youtube advice and i was like

00:59:09.340 hey i see you work for the daily wire at the time can you please give me advice advice and that's how

00:59:14.980 it started i was was he he just said he thought that i was talented he thought that i was good and

00:59:19.860 he said just give me like an ad revenue percentage okay and then um like yeah and then we worked something

00:59:25.740 out and at the time it was like i was making zero dollars so i was like yeah go ahead but it worked

00:59:30.320 out for him you know of course yeah yeah yeah it's interesting because that that's the future

00:59:36.780 for a lot of women there's going to be a lot of homeless women and it also showed that she's looking

00:59:43.100 for a bailout she's saying i need help men don't get help women do she's on food stamps which most

00:59:50.920 women are on it's mostly women on food stamps and this is this is the one what is her what would 1.00

00:59:56.500 her life be like if there was no bailout yeah exactly and this is the one mistake the biggest

01:00:03.320 mistake that mostly women but a lot of young people will make in life it's putting all your 1.00

01:00:09.480 eggs in one basket and failing at the first hurdle because we live in a culture now where it's just so

01:00:15.440 easy to do that because of how many bailout options there are because of how much help that there is it's

01:00:21.360 too easy for people to just put all of their eggs in the daily wires in the buzz feeds of the world

01:00:26.560 and go well if i don't get that then i guess i'm stuck and then they can rely on the help the best

01:00:31.240 thing you can do for yourself is no doubt give it a go you can't not give it a go apply for the daily

01:00:37.720 wires apply for the buzz feeds apply for the top companies but when it doesn't work and chances are

01:00:43.100 it won't especially if you're young you need to put your eggs in multiple baskets you need to try

01:00:49.580 different things don't tell yourself that you know what you're going to enjoy don't tell yourself i'm

01:00:54.740 only going to enjoy this field focus on skills because skills are transferable and try them in 0.88

01:01:00.620 different things when you are young you can afford to fuck up but when you are this woman and you are in 0.95

01:01:06.720 your 30s and you're in a situation where you're homeless divorced and unemployed yeah you're dealing with a 0.98

01:01:11.600 different kettle of fish and that's the that's the thing if we can be honest and say hey okay you want

01:01:16.900 to live the rest of your life alone let's actually develop some real skills yes and then at least you

01:01:23.740 can pay for it but my issue is when people choose what they're going to choose and they expect everyone

01:01:28.820 else to pay for it and when you could have instead of spending your time at beyonce like imagine if she 0.97

01:01:36.020 spent the time she spent at beyonce concert online training free courses she could learn everything's on

01:01:41.240 you cannot tell me it's not online right i learned everything i know online yeah and i run a tighter

01:01:48.380 media company than most places i have gone to yeah everything you learn is online correct it's all free

01:01:55.660 it's all out there yeah out there but you have to be willing to like sift through the information

01:02:00.940 100 but she wants to be given the opportunity um i hope it let's look at the comments i actually hope

01:02:07.000 it works out for her because i i really think it's important that people are honest yes um you know

01:02:12.900 33 looking 20 i wouldn't say not knowing what you want to do is bad thing i'm 25 in the same boat

01:02:18.580 life is all about experience we don't have it all together i would say i'm a late bloomer

01:02:22.820 i would say that being a late bloomer is very real and that may become the norm i do think that it's

01:02:28.920 going to become the norm i think you're even listening to her talk she kind of sounded like

01:02:32.920 a teenager yeah yeah i'm 20 and dropped out of college rice i feel pure dread about my future but

01:02:40.360 seeing how you are about this is very relatable i think i'll be okay this is very honest and makes

01:02:45.480 me very grateful guys it's only okay how is she affording to live alone it looked like it was her

01:02:52.260 own apartment i don't know this is this is what i'm saying about the help you know you just said that

01:02:57.520 she comes across like a teenager yeah well the reason for that is because of all the help yeah

01:03:02.300 people don't have to grow up anymore because they they don't need to because if if you can't look

01:03:06.560 after yourself the state will look after you yeah i'm thank you for this i'm 27 almost 28 and i have

01:03:11.920 to move back in with my mom twice the past year due to a failed relationship lack of job opportunities

01:03:17.420 and severe mental health struggles this is only temporary and you know what the other empathy i have

01:03:23.460 is is our generation was really taught wrong like the women of our age group were not taught this

01:03:30.060 stuff some were you know there's exceptions but they don't make the rule nobody taught us how to

01:03:35.420 get into relationships nobody taught us how to submit to their husband most mothers actually sabotage 1.00

01:03:42.400 their daughter's relationships they and i've even um like when i was reacting to tyrese gibson's like

01:03:49.240 ex-wife or whatever he even said her mom sabotaged her relationship this woman was married to tall jacked 0.81

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01:05:28.900 you will not regret it so as i was saying before you know women really do lead other women astray 0.98

01:05:34.520 all right and so we used to be able to go to our elders and get wisdom from them so you know you

01:05:40.700 could talk to the 50 year old woman and she would say stay in that marriage this is how you can work 1.00

01:05:45.700 it out don't do what i did correct and that's one benefit that men have that women don't men

01:05:51.280 see themselves in young men yeah so they actually want to help them yeah where women see younger women

01:05:56.980 as competition that's it yeah so they lead us astray now in times past the dad would fix this

01:06:04.060 because the dad would actually look out for their daughter yeah but now you have issues where mothers

01:06:08.980 will alienate the kid and say all these bad things to the child about the dad even if they're still

01:06:14.100 married this goes on a lot yeah um the other thing that happens is the mom divorces the dad or was never

01:06:21.480 married to the dad to the begin with and there's no male figures in that person's life that can help

01:06:27.340 them no um so i saw an article from psychology today that says the 10 benefits of being single

01:06:33.800 single people have more time to use how they want they can focus more they're in charge of themselves

01:06:39.620 they're not getting hurt life is steady they are calm they can see whomever they want they can use

01:06:45.900 their resources as they want to they're excused from many undesirable couples activities and they

01:06:52.300 manage their own eating let's see the caption for this whether by choice or circumstance singlehood

01:06:58.820 comes with opportunities that for some make it quite appealing and this is coming from psychology today

01:07:04.560 and it's interesting because actually i'm gonna i'm gonna give them their half credit okay they make

01:07:11.380 some points for men okay but they don't for women these things that they're talking about can be

01:07:18.040 helpful to men i'm not saying but i do think it's better for a man to be alone than with a harlot

01:07:23.700 and unfortunately there are a lot of harlots on the market today true but this is not the right message

01:07:29.240 for women because women are on antidepressants as they get older yeah sure it is fun being single 0.99

01:07:36.400 in your 20s yeah but your 30s 40s and especially 50s are a completely different animal you don't

01:07:43.780 have the friends you used to you don't typically have the community you used to you don't have a

01:07:48.340 family and it's very lonely yeah and older women will not even admit that to us um the comments say 0.98

01:07:57.760 provided you have a healthy relationship many of these points are incorrect i don't see any point of

01:08:03.180 encouraging singlehood in a society that is already struggling with relationship uh yeah that was that

01:08:08.620 was gonna be my point biggest cope ever and theresa has written the same wretched pt article every month 1.00

01:08:16.380 for about five years we get it you're single why not just live your life rather than try to justify it

01:08:22.200 to everyone else yeah it it just seems a bit uh narcissistic in its nature yeah which is that other

01:08:29.040 people are nothing but objects to me and those objects must bring value it ignores the whole point

01:08:35.720 of a human relationship in my opinion and i don't i don't think it's good to advise men or women that

01:08:40.640 relationships are bad i think we can be honest about things especially with regards to men and say look

01:08:45.500 with the current dating market chances are that you know a woman can have certain factors that might

01:08:52.620 indicate certain things are going to happen just as we can for men but i think at the for women but at the

01:08:57.340 moment it's definitely more women to be warned yeah well women can control it yeah like i i think that 1.00

01:09:04.100 women really dictate the relationship market because we get the most power when we're young yeah so we can 1.00

01:09:11.660 indicate we can dictate the future of relationships how many players were born because a young woman broke

01:09:17.600 his heart 100 yeah you know what i mean i even um i think i'm not gonna say his name but i think of

01:09:23.060 someone i know pretty closely and he wanted nothing but to be a traditional guy yeah that was all he

01:09:29.640 wanted he had one girl he met in high school he wanted to marry her and then she wanted to go be a 1.00

01:09:35.260 in college he got dumped now this man is the biggest man or and that's you know that's that's the one

01:09:43.120 thing is players typically come from harlot women yeah and men women choose to be lonely men do not 0.92

01:09:52.320 no that's true yeah because typically a woman can get a guy to do traditional things protect provide

01:10:01.340 at at its basic a man can't magically get an 120 pound not ran through a childless chick you know so it's

01:10:13.120 but it's unfortunate because what they're pushing really psychology today you know women are the 1.00

01:10:19.020 ones reading that yep i wonder who wrote that article a woman it's probably a cat lady 1.00

01:10:25.020 without a doubt so um the other thing we do now on pearl daily is i read the top comment from the

01:10:31.980 last show oh cool yeah so guys if you want your comment to be read next show make sure that you hit

01:10:38.240 the like button on your favorite comment below and leave your comment gg the backyard herbalist says

01:10:44.120 i pray for the day when women can be ladies wives mothers and homemakers without being looked down

01:10:49.960 upon it's the most important job for women be proud of being a wife and a mother yes because women are so

01:10:56.540 influenced by culture i know and right now we have no women in the culture role models who i mean 1.00

01:11:03.060 they're all none yeah and the culture that we see on tv i hate to say it does reflect society in some

01:11:11.440 way absolutely because the people do elevate that people can relate to absolutely like we saw with

01:11:17.280 that youtuber earlier yeah guys thank you so much for watching thank you christine for coming on you for

01:11:22.860 having me um tell the people where they can find you yeah you can check me out on youtube at christine

01:11:28.440 grace smith uh i've got a reaction series that's currently ongoing um also check out my series

01:11:33.720 debunking the lunacy where i give my in-depth analysis to show you the flip side of the media

01:11:39.080 the things that they don't want you to know the things that they don't want us talking about but

01:11:42.460 we're going to talk about it anyway so yeah go check it out and you're on twitter too now oh yeah i'm

01:11:46.780 on twitter too christine grace x is my my twitter i'm uh i'm still getting familiar with it so i'm not

01:11:52.600 tweeting as much as say pearl does yet but you're getting the hang of it you're getting the hang of

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JustPearlyThings - November 02, 2023

Post-Wall Divorcé Gives TERRIBLE Advice To Young Women ｜ @christinegracesmith ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 66

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