JustPearlyThings - Post-Wall Wife BREAKS DOWN In REGRET After Divorcing Husband Of 8 Years

00:00:00.000 Hey, y'all, it's Kory, and I'm finally ready.

00:00:04.300 I know a lot of you were probably cringing that I gave him another chance.

00:00:10.320 Like, where does a post-wall single mother have the audacity to say that she's giving him another chance? 1.00

00:00:18.220 I wish I could talk to this guy.

00:00:19.880 She will not behave until you say no and walk away. 0.97

00:00:23.380 She won't do it.

00:00:24.000 You can't negotiate with terrorists, guys.

00:00:25.920 You can't.

00:00:26.600 What up, guys?

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00:01:07.220 Okay, so we are going to watch a woman who can't stop crying. 1.00

00:01:10.560 These are papers for the forest.

00:01:13.180 These little pieces of paper, little flimsy pieces of paper, can break and end something that's so strong in somebody's heart.

00:01:25.260 I did it.

00:01:26.180 All right, ladies, we got to stop doing this. 1.00

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00:02:44.340 Welcome back, family.

00:02:49.380 Today, we are reviewing this modern woman who tried to test her husband by divorcing him, thinking that he will beg her to not leave him. 0.70

00:02:57.280 It all backfired when her husband got so tired of her childish behavior and didn't contest the divorce.

00:03:03.500 Now, she cannot stop crying and bling.

00:03:05.780 Yeah, I don't know why you guys break up with your, you break up marriages.

00:03:09.740 That's a game.

00:03:10.560 Why?

00:03:10.960 ...giving everyone for her reckless actions. 0.76

00:03:13.100 Let's first start by exposing the day she was getting ready to file.

00:03:16.940 So, here's this.

00:03:20.860 These are, uh, papers.

00:03:24.200 I just want to point out, she doesn't have heavy makeup, but big hoop earrings, Botox forehead. 1.00

00:03:29.220 You just kind of look for signals.

00:03:31.540 Women that tend to invest a lot in their appearance tend to divorce their husbands because they're so self-centered. 1.00

00:03:45.400 Now, I actually do think image is important.

00:03:48.240 Image matters.

00:03:49.020 But at a certain point, the image of your family is more important than the image of yourself.

00:03:53.300 And so many women want the latest Botox treatment rather than, I don't know, money for your children, college fund. 1.00

00:04:00.140 What you spend your money on does say a lot about you.

00:04:03.520 And it's funny because when I was younger, I'm not going to act like I never looked into any of this stuff.

00:04:07.660 I just always thought it would be better to spend my money on, like, guitar lessons, piano lessons.

00:04:13.820 That's just kind of what.

00:04:14.700 Now I can play guitar.

00:04:15.840 Yeah.

00:04:16.100 And piano a little bit.

00:04:17.180 A little bit.

00:04:17.620 I'm not as good.

00:04:18.160 And it's very sad.

00:04:24.000 I don't understand how eight years of trying my best to love somebody and fight for them to put up with so much abuse.

00:04:41.800 She's the problem.

00:04:43.480 Yeah.

00:04:43.840 And just be wiped out with little papers.

00:04:48.160 It's not easy.

00:04:56.220 Nails done.

00:04:57.520 And as much as I know that this needs to happen, it still hurts.

00:05:02.220 Yeah.

00:05:02.760 This is so many times chicks, like, it's like they're the star of a movie. 1.00

00:05:06.280 Like, they think their lives are just like movies.

00:05:08.400 This needs it.

00:05:09.040 Why does it need to happen?

00:05:10.500 Why?

00:05:10.880 And I bet she filed.

00:05:12.200 Because I never wanted this.

00:05:13.400 I actually did love him.

00:05:15.480 And then she wanted him to change and behave in a way that she deemed acceptable.

00:05:19.920 Maybe she doesn't have the Botox forehead, actually. 0.99

00:05:22.440 And I know you.

00:05:22.980 How can you love somebody that does those things to you?

00:05:24.960 I don't know.

00:05:26.200 I don't know why.

00:05:27.600 Maybe I see brokenness in people.

00:05:29.520 And I know that.

00:05:30.500 And also, like, there's no right, wrong way to.

00:05:32.700 Well, okay.

00:05:33.420 There's no.

00:05:34.440 So many times as women, we try to control men's behavior under the guise of wanting to be loved right.

00:05:40.460 And what we typically do is we will say, oh, I just want you to love me.

00:05:44.500 And unfortunately, ladies, we have negative qualities that cannot be loved.

00:05:48.220 And as we expect men to adapt to us and be the things that we want to date,

00:05:53.260 but we don't think we have to adapt to men and be the things that they want to date.

00:05:57.380 I don't care.

00:05:58.640 I don't care what they may think of me.

00:06:03.080 I'll be better people and heal if we want to.

00:06:06.020 Oh, healing.

00:06:06.980 Healing.

00:06:07.620 Oh, life is long.

00:06:08.900 We're going to live to be 80.

00:06:09.960 I'm sad because this is the dreams that I had for us as a family and as a husband and wife.

00:06:21.820 And these little pieces of paper, little flimsy pieces of paper can break and end something that's so strong in somebody's heart.

00:06:36.160 It's hard.

00:06:37.120 I'll get through, but I'm sharing my journey with you guys.

00:06:44.020 Every part.

00:06:44.440 Journey equals I just want to live in a movie.

00:06:47.300 Just so you know that you're not alone and you guys make me feel not alone.

00:06:51.900 Just so.

00:06:52.240 I'm not alone because of you guys.

00:06:54.420 I have replaced my family with TikTok.

00:06:57.080 Here it goes.

00:06:58.360 No, ma'am.

00:06:59.220 Nobody is forcing you to file those papers.

00:07:02.020 You are willingly deciding to divorce your husband.

00:07:05.000 This is a life-changing decision that you are making in real time.

00:07:09.020 It's a nice house, too.

00:07:10.140 Looks like a nice, you know.

00:07:11.300 You have to assume the consequences.

00:07:13.260 Guys, this woman thought that her husband was going to beg her to stay and accept all her needy demands if she threatened to file for divorce. 0.96

00:07:20.420 Check it out.

00:07:22.220 So, day one after filing.

00:07:29.920 And I feel so sad.

00:07:32.660 I know I'm going to go through different emotions, but right now I feel sad.

00:07:40.480 I think the last time I felt a pain like this was when my mom died.

00:07:45.500 And in a way, this is a death.

00:07:47.540 You guys like torture.

00:07:48.960 Yeah, I guess so.

00:07:50.060 Yeah.

00:07:52.000 I mean, if you're comparing your divorce to death, then why did you do it?

00:07:56.440 They're like, I don't want to do this.

00:07:58.040 But you don't.

00:07:58.620 Why?

00:07:59.060 Why?

00:08:01.420 Of hope.

00:08:02.600 And I look around and I see, I just want to scream.

00:08:06.440 Like, I see the Christmas trees that I put up and all this beautiful home and all my dreams I had for us.

00:08:15.840 I just want to scream.

00:08:17.040 I just want to, like, run away.

00:08:18.700 I want to get, I don't want to see any of this.

00:08:22.560 It hurts, you know.

00:08:24.280 I don't want to see it.

00:08:29.280 I know that this is going to be a process for me.

00:08:34.480 Ups and downs.

00:08:35.880 And I'm sure, you know, I kind of highlight Corey, smile, like, get over it, you know.

00:08:41.040 But this is my page to heal and to be brutally honest.

00:08:44.400 Heal and overshare.

00:08:46.040 Overshare.

00:08:46.480 She's going to talk about her dating and stuff.

00:08:48.020 About every piece of this journey.

00:08:52.200 So I barely slept last night.

00:08:54.080 I've got a migraine.

00:08:57.720 My heart's broken.

00:08:58.700 And so much of me wishes that he'd be like, I'll change, I'll fix this, I love you.

00:09:10.560 Yeah, you can't control your husband.

00:09:12.380 Look at, we don't want our husbands controlling us. 1.00

00:09:15.060 And I hear women say this over and over again. 0.97

00:09:17.200 She has a weak husband that she wants to exert control over. 1.00

00:09:21.080 And he's probably tried for years to make her happy and can't, so.

00:09:24.740 I'm sorry for all the things I said, you know, you never deserved it.

00:09:29.840 I'll never.

00:09:30.680 Yeah, so that's, that's simping right there.

00:09:32.680 A lot of times we do deserve to hear the truth.

00:09:34.840 Sometimes the truth is harsh.

00:09:36.000 We deserve to be told no.

00:09:37.160 Because us women, we're just a bit manipulative. 1.00

00:09:39.580 We are.

00:09:40.380 And men's job is to see through the bullshit and be the head of the household. 0.96

00:09:44.920 Again, I'll pay attention to you.

00:09:48.000 I'll, I'll, I'll communicate with you.

00:09:52.500 I'll lose my anger.

00:09:53.700 Okay, so now I'm hearing he's willing to work on the things you said.

00:09:56.780 It's not going to change.

00:09:59.320 But I guess I'm somebody that will always have.

00:10:02.120 And now this is allowing her to live in delusion because she thinks she's right.

00:10:05.140 She thinks she's right. 0.53

00:10:05.960 She's wrong.

00:10:07.520 Because not, not always have until the divorce.

00:10:12.660 You will not remarry.

00:10:13.720 It is very unlikely that you will remarry.

00:10:15.640 Very unlikely.

00:10:16.420 We choose truth over facts.

00:10:18.540 And I'll always have hope.

00:10:22.880 That things could change.

00:10:26.320 And I guess that's just me being stupid.

00:10:28.960 I'm sure many of you would say.

00:10:31.880 Or maybe it's just me trying to see the good in everybody.

00:10:34.420 I don't know what it is.

00:10:35.840 I'm not weak.

00:10:36.880 I don't know why I became this woman.

00:10:38.800 Who am I?

00:10:39.420 But this is...

00:10:42.380 Why is she naked in bed? 1.00

00:10:43.720 I'm at today, this morning.

00:10:46.480 I'm sad.

00:10:48.140 So, let me get this clear.

00:10:50.080 She doesn't know what she wants.

00:10:52.120 Okay.

00:10:52.760 One to ten.

00:10:54.280 This probably...

00:10:54.880 This woman probably was hot at one point. 1.00

00:10:57.880 She's like a four now.

00:10:59.320 What do you guys think is out in the dating market?

00:11:01.200 As a single mother of four.

00:11:06.020 Genuine.

00:11:06.520 Like, what do you think is on the other side of this?

00:11:10.920 Yeah, I don't know, man.

00:11:12.920 She doesn't know who she is.

00:11:15.060 She doesn't know if she made the right choice or not.

00:11:17.920 But she is the first person to tell her husband how he should treat her.

00:11:21.500 You just can't make this shit up.

00:11:23.260 This next clip is really going to show you how needy this woman really is. 1.00

00:11:27.280 So, I saw a comment.

00:11:28.500 I deleted it, but I need to respond to it.

00:11:30.280 But someone asked to hear my husband's side.

00:11:33.300 So, let me tell you.

00:11:35.040 My husband's side.

00:11:36.800 Well, he loved me and gave me everything he had.

00:11:40.920 Did everything in the world for me.

00:11:42.880 And you know what?

00:11:43.480 I have to tell you, though, actually, to his credit, he did do so much for me.

00:11:48.640 Except show me love and respect.

00:11:51.020 Okay.

00:11:51.660 Do you see this?

00:11:52.480 He did so much except give me, treat me exactly how I wanted to be treated.

00:11:56.520 Guys, why do you think you're entitled to perfect treatment all the time?

00:12:00.060 Sometimes we're annoying.

00:12:01.480 Sometimes we, and the other thing about us women is we interpret information. 0.95

00:12:06.680 Like, there have been so many times in my life, and I'll say this, okay, where I have

00:12:10.640 taken something to be offensive when it was not intended to be offensive.

00:12:14.920 And many times as women, we will overreact to something said to us when it was not meant

00:12:19.940 in that way.

00:12:20.440 And always in my life, I have never, if I've looked back at a situation, I've had situations

00:12:25.560 where I have regretted the way I behaved, and there have been situations where I was

00:12:29.760 proud of the way I behaved.

00:12:30.900 I have always been more proud of the situations where I have given someone the benefit of the

00:12:35.060 doubt.

00:12:35.340 Because when you get angry, you make assumptions, or you assume bad intent, typically it just

00:12:42.340 adds fuel to the fire.

00:12:43.340 It gets worse.

00:12:43.800 And attention, and hold me, and kiss me, and-

00:12:47.620 I mean, how often do you guys need- I'm sorry, maybe I'm just- maybe I'm just a tomboy.

00:12:52.820 And I'm not acting like we don't need that at all we do, but it's like ladies. 1.00

00:12:56.580 I mean, after a couple kids, what do you guys expect?

00:12:59.080 Look at me, and communicate with me, and try to have a conflict resolution ever.

00:13:12.100 He did everything in the world that money could do, or he could physically do, but emotionally,

00:13:19.100 he's been gone since month two, and I happen to be pregnant.

00:13:23.100 So, uh-

00:13:25.200 What does that even mean?

00:13:27.760 Yeah, see, heavy makeup.

00:13:29.920 And that's very typical of the personality type I'm dealing with.

00:13:35.300 There you have it.

00:13:36.460 She even admitted that her ex-husband did a lot for her, but she still wanted more.

00:13:41.380 Yeah, yeah, we just have this- this is why we have to marry men that say no.

00:13:45.180 And I know, ladies, men that give us anything, everything, we end up hating.

00:13:49.240 We end up hating. Guys without backbones, we end up hating.

00:13:53.580 That makes no sense.

00:13:54.680 ...not give enough affection to a broken woman. 0.96

00:13:56.960 She will always want more, because all she really wants is validation at all times, just for existing.

00:14:03.620 And the next clip will show you more proof that a broken woman knows deep down that she is inadequate, 1.00

00:14:09.480 and that is why she need attention all the time just to feel alive.

00:14:13.280 Okay, so I've got a business idea.

00:14:14.780 Um, we need to come up with a robot boyfriend or girlfriend, partner, whatever. 0.51

00:14:21.860 Oh, they're making those. They're making those.

00:14:24.260 ...for people that are, um, going through a divorce.

00:14:28.820 That way, you don't feel super lonely, and you can, like-

00:14:34.660 Or is there, like, a service-

00:14:36.740 Ladies, we're so crazy, we're getting replaced. 1.00

00:14:38.720 ...of men, or women, but for me it'd be a man,

00:14:41.820 that I could buy, um, to just give me compliments all day

00:14:47.100 and tell me he loves me and everything's gonna be okay

00:14:51.200 and call me and check on me and, like, just build me the hell up 0.71

00:14:55.840 and, because I don't actually want someone, I just want some affirmation.

00:15:02.900 I know, that's- that's the problem.

00:15:04.140 Women don't want the man, they want the attention from the man. 1.00

00:15:06.780 I mean, you just can't make this up!

00:15:08.840 ...no.

00:15:11.060 So is there- we need to create a service like this.

00:15:15.000 It used to.

00:15:15.960 It used to just be getting married and staying married.

00:15:18.720 ...right now.

00:15:20.220 This might come out as a joke,

00:15:22.060 but remember that it is the same thing she said about what was wrong with her ex-husband.

00:15:26.740 This means that it is in her belief that a man should compliment and validate her all the times.

00:15:32.940 Now, before the sweet tears of regret, I will show you one more clip that will illustrate how much this woman is confused. 1.00

00:15:40.760 After filing for divorce, she decided to come back in her ex-husband's life,

00:15:45.360 then decided to leave again by claiming her so-called abuse.

00:15:49.500 Her life is just such a mess.

00:15:51.240 Check it out.

00:15:51.760 Hey y'all, um, it's Corey.

00:15:56.020 And I'm finally ready.

00:15:57.860 I know a lot of you, um, were probably cringing that I gave him another chance.

00:16:04.720 Um.

00:16:05.460 Like, where does a post-wall single mother, four, have the audacity to say that she's giving him another chance? 0.99

00:16:13.360 I wish I could talk to this guy, look at-

00:16:15.240 She will not behave until you say no and walk away. 0.97

00:16:18.440 She won't do it.

00:16:19.100 Won't do it.

00:16:19.560 You can't negotiate with terrorists, guys.

00:16:21.580 You can't.

00:16:22.320 Silence!

00:16:26.100 I spent the past year, um, with the divorce filed, sitting in the court.

00:16:33.740 And, um, doing all the things on all the lists that he said I should do.

00:16:41.360 Um, and what I learned is that didn't stop the abuse.

00:16:48.500 What is it?

00:16:49.000 In fact, I'm-

00:16:50.120 What is abuse?

00:16:50.920 What is it?

00:16:51.560 I'm told that what I'm experiencing isn't abuse, and I'm making it up.

00:17:02.600 I have no words.

00:17:03.600 Um, an incident happened a few days ago, where he had an iPad, and he was holding it up, saying he was going to bash my effing face in.

00:17:15.060 So-

00:17:15.860 It's never-

00:17:16.440 Don't believe this.

00:17:17.180 I contacted the domestic violence center, um, and we have, we are getting a TPO, um, started.

00:17:26.460 Um, and that's-

00:17:27.320 I doubt it.

00:17:27.880 She doesn't go to criminal court.

00:17:29.360 I bet you she doesn't.

00:17:30.540 I'm going to be doing a lot of videos during this process, because this was so therapeutic for me before, um, to get this out.

00:17:41.400 And hopefully my story helps somebody else.

00:17:43.680 I've been in this for eight years.

00:17:46.060 I did believe it was all my fault, because that's what I was told.

00:17:48.720 Um, and now-

00:17:52.380 It probably was.

00:17:53.200 It probably was.

00:17:53.760 I know.

00:17:54.360 It's not.

00:17:55.180 And I know that this-

00:17:55.900 Yeah, it probably was.

00:17:56.660 ...actually, uh, abused.

00:17:58.020 This is-

00:17:58.580 She's a narcissist. 1.00

00:17:59.840 And, um, here we go.

00:18:04.580 Call me heartless, but I do not believe that this woman was abused. 0.57

00:18:09.440 And guys, trust me when I say that I do not encourage abuse in relationships, but you tell me after listening to this woman talking,

00:18:16.500 do you still believe a word that comes out of her mouth?

00:18:19.380 No, I don't believe anything.

00:18:20.720 I mean, she changes her mind all the time. 1.00

00:18:23.040 One minute she believes that she is the victim, and two minutes later she believes that she is actually the problem.

00:18:28.900 She got no mind of her own.

00:18:30.840 We are going to close with this video with a clip of her crying after getting a temporary restraining order against her husband.

00:18:37.180 And even at the end, she is still not sure about what she is actually doing.

00:18:43.540 I did it.

00:18:44.320 I did it.

00:18:46.500 I didn't need-

00:18:55.620 A four.

00:18:56.460 ...get to, like, tell everything.

00:19:01.780 But I didn't.

00:19:03.420 And it's so evil.

00:19:04.660 It's so evil because these institutions back up women's delusion, and so we really- 1.00

00:19:09.300 It really just makes us live in this, like, crazy delusion where we do nothing wrong.

00:19:12.900 I stood up for myself.

00:19:14.440 I told the truth.

00:19:16.120 Only a little bit of what's going on, and I'm sure I won't get a 12-month one, but...

00:19:20.560 I stood up for myself.

00:19:23.880 I stood up for my daughter.

00:19:27.220 You know, one day your kids will grow up, ladies, and they talk. 1.00

00:19:30.340 One day your kids grow up, and they will talk.

00:19:33.100 And what will they have to say about the decisions that you made?

00:19:36.520 It never hurt me again, because now he's on notice.

00:19:40.600 Yeah, I've seen enough, guys.

00:19:45.640 This is another crazy lady. 1.00

00:19:48.000 And you can tell.

00:19:48.760 It's so funny because the women that, like, go crazy when they're older, it, like, wears 1.00

00:19:52.540 on their face.

00:19:53.340 You just see it.

00:19:54.100 Like, they get these, like, crazy eyes.

00:19:55.980 She was bored.

00:19:56.800 She wanted to leave.

00:19:58.160 She wanted the excitement of this up-and-down journey, whatever.

00:20:02.100 She wants to be the star of her movie. 0.80

00:20:03.900 This is a guy that said yes.

00:20:05.420 She didn't know the word no, and he created a monster.

00:20:08.000 I was probably already there.

00:20:09.160 Let me know what you guys think in the comments.

00:20:10.740 Make sure you like the video on your way out.

00:20:12.400 Subscribe to the channel.

00:20:13.280 I'll talk to you next time.

00:20:14.540 Bye.

JustPearlyThings - December 13, 2023

Post-Wall Wife BREAKS DOWN In REGRET After Divorcing Husband Of 8 Years

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