Post-Wall Wife BREAKS DOWN In REGRET After Divorcing Husband Of 8 Years
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Summary
A woman who can t stop crying after instantly regretting divorcing her husband. She is a modern woman who tried to test her husband by divorcing him, thinking that he will beg her to not leave him. It all backfired when her husband got tired of her childish behavior and did not contest the divorce. Now she cannot stop crying.
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I know a lot of you were probably cringing that I gave him another chance.
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Like, where does a post-wall single mother have the audacity to say that she's giving him another chance?
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She will not behave until you say no and walk away.
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Today, we are reviewing this modern woman who tried to test her husband by divorcing him, thinking that he will beg her to not leave him.
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It all backfired when her husband got so tired of her childish behavior and didn't contest the divorce.
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Yeah, I don't know why you guys break up with your, you break up marriages.
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Let's first start by exposing the day she was getting ready to file.
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I just want to point out, she doesn't have heavy makeup, but big hoop earrings, Botox forehead.
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Women that tend to invest a lot in their appearance tend to divorce their husbands because they're so self-centered.
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But at a certain point, the image of your family is more important than the image of yourself.
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And so many women want the latest Botox treatment rather than, I don't know, money for your children, college fund.
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What you spend your money on does say a lot about you.
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And it's funny because when I was younger, I'm not going to act like I never looked into any of this stuff.
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I just always thought it would be better to spend my money on, like, guitar lessons, piano lessons.
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I don't understand how eight years of trying my best to love somebody and fight for them to put up with so much abuse.
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And as much as I know that this needs to happen, it still hurts.
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This is so many times chicks, like, it's like they're the star of a movie.
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Like, they think their lives are just like movies.
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And then she wanted him to change and behave in a way that she deemed acceptable.
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Maybe she doesn't have the Botox forehead, actually.
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How can you love somebody that does those things to you?
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And also, like, there's no right, wrong way to.
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So many times as women, we try to control men's behavior under the guise of wanting to be loved right.
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And what we typically do is we will say, oh, I just want you to love me.
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And unfortunately, ladies, we have negative qualities that cannot be loved.
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And as we expect men to adapt to us and be the things that we want to date,
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but we don't think we have to adapt to men and be the things that they want to date.
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I'm sad because this is the dreams that I had for us as a family and as a husband and wife.
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And these little pieces of paper, little flimsy pieces of paper can break and end something that's so strong in somebody's heart.
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I'll get through, but I'm sharing my journey with you guys.
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Just so you know that you're not alone and you guys make me feel not alone.
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You are willingly deciding to divorce your husband.
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This is a life-changing decision that you are making in real time.
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Guys, this woman thought that her husband was going to beg her to stay and accept all her needy demands if she threatened to file for divorce.
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I know I'm going to go through different emotions, but right now I feel sad.
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I think the last time I felt a pain like this was when my mom died.
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I mean, if you're comparing your divorce to death, then why did you do it?
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And I look around and I see, I just want to scream.
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Like, I see the Christmas trees that I put up and all this beautiful home and all my dreams I had for us.
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I want to get, I don't want to see any of this.
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I know that this is going to be a process for me.
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And I'm sure, you know, I kind of highlight Corey, smile, like, get over it, you know.
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But this is my page to heal and to be brutally honest.
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She's going to talk about her dating and stuff.
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And so much of me wishes that he'd be like, I'll change, I'll fix this, I love you.
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Look at, we don't want our husbands controlling us.
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She has a weak husband that she wants to exert control over.
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And he's probably tried for years to make her happy and can't, so.
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I'm sorry for all the things I said, you know, you never deserved it.
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A lot of times we do deserve to hear the truth.
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Because us women, we're just a bit manipulative.
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And men's job is to see through the bullshit and be the head of the household.
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Okay, so now I'm hearing he's willing to work on the things you said.
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But I guess I'm somebody that will always have.
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And now this is allowing her to live in delusion because she thinks she's right.
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Because not, not always have until the divorce.
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Or maybe it's just me trying to see the good in everybody.
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What do you guys think is out in the dating market?
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Like, what do you think is on the other side of this?
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She doesn't know if she made the right choice or not.
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But she is the first person to tell her husband how he should treat her.
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This next clip is really going to show you how needy this woman really is.
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Well, he loved me and gave me everything he had.
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I have to tell you, though, actually, to his credit, he did do so much for me.
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He did so much except give me, treat me exactly how I wanted to be treated.
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Guys, why do you think you're entitled to perfect treatment all the time?
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Sometimes we, and the other thing about us women is we interpret information.
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Like, there have been so many times in my life, and I'll say this, okay, where I have
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taken something to be offensive when it was not intended to be offensive.
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And many times as women, we will overreact to something said to us when it was not meant
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And always in my life, I have never, if I've looked back at a situation, I've had situations
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where I have regretted the way I behaved, and there have been situations where I was
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I have always been more proud of the situations where I have given someone the benefit of the
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Because when you get angry, you make assumptions, or you assume bad intent, typically it just
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I mean, how often do you guys need- I'm sorry, maybe I'm just- maybe I'm just a tomboy.
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And I'm not acting like we don't need that at all we do, but it's like ladies.
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I mean, after a couple kids, what do you guys expect?
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Look at me, and communicate with me, and try to have a conflict resolution ever.
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He did everything in the world that money could do, or he could physically do, but emotionally,
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he's been gone since month two, and I happen to be pregnant.
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And that's very typical of the personality type I'm dealing with.
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She even admitted that her ex-husband did a lot for her, but she still wanted more.
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Yeah, yeah, we just have this- this is why we have to marry men that say no.
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And I know, ladies, men that give us anything, everything, we end up hating.
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We end up hating. Guys without backbones, we end up hating.
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...not give enough affection to a broken woman.
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She will always want more, because all she really wants is validation at all times, just for existing.
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And the next clip will show you more proof that a broken woman knows deep down that she is inadequate,
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and that is why she need attention all the time just to feel alive.
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Um, we need to come up with a robot boyfriend or girlfriend, partner, whatever.
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Oh, they're making those. They're making those.
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...for people that are, um, going through a divorce.
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That way, you don't feel super lonely, and you can, like-
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Ladies, we're so crazy, we're getting replaced.
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that I could buy, um, to just give me compliments all day
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and tell me he loves me and everything's gonna be okay
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and call me and check on me and, like, just build me the hell up
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and, because I don't actually want someone, I just want some affirmation.
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Women don't want the man, they want the attention from the man.
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So is there- we need to create a service like this.
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It used to just be getting married and staying married.
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but remember that it is the same thing she said about what was wrong with her ex-husband.
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This means that it is in her belief that a man should compliment and validate her all the times.
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Now, before the sweet tears of regret, I will show you one more clip that will illustrate how much this woman is confused.
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After filing for divorce, she decided to come back in her ex-husband's life,
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then decided to leave again by claiming her so-called abuse.
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I know a lot of you, um, were probably cringing that I gave him another chance.
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Like, where does a post-wall single mother, four, have the audacity to say that she's giving him another chance?
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She will not behave until you say no and walk away.
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I spent the past year, um, with the divorce filed, sitting in the court.
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And, um, doing all the things on all the lists that he said I should do.
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Um, and what I learned is that didn't stop the abuse.
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I'm told that what I'm experiencing isn't abuse, and I'm making it up.
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Um, an incident happened a few days ago, where he had an iPad, and he was holding it up, saying he was going to bash my effing face in.
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I contacted the domestic violence center, um, and we have, we are getting a TPO, um, started.
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I'm going to be doing a lot of videos during this process, because this was so therapeutic for me before, um, to get this out.
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I did believe it was all my fault, because that's what I was told.
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Call me heartless, but I do not believe that this woman was abused.
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And guys, trust me when I say that I do not encourage abuse in relationships, but you tell me after listening to this woman talking,
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do you still believe a word that comes out of her mouth?
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One minute she believes that she is the victim, and two minutes later she believes that she is actually the problem.
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We are going to close with this video with a clip of her crying after getting a temporary restraining order against her husband.
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And even at the end, she is still not sure about what she is actually doing.
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It's so evil because these institutions back up women's delusion, and so we really-
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It really just makes us live in this, like, crazy delusion where we do nothing wrong.
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Only a little bit of what's going on, and I'm sure I won't get a 12-month one, but...
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You know, one day your kids will grow up, ladies, and they talk.
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And what will they have to say about the decisions that you made?
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It never hurt me again, because now he's on notice.
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It's so funny because the women that, like, go crazy when they're older, it, like, wears
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She wanted the excitement of this up-and-down journey, whatever.
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She didn't know the word no, and he created a monster.
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Let me know what you guys think in the comments.