JustPearlyThings - July 14, 2023


Post Wall Woman Offers $5000 For A Husband


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Length

12 minutes

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150.26047

Word count

1,846

Sentence count

127

Harmful content

Misogyny

25

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

20

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A woman is offering $5,000 to find her husband at 35 if she can find him a husband. What are the odds of her getting a husband at that point in her life if she doesn t have kids?

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00:00:00.000 There is a litigation attorney that is offering $5,000 to any woman that can find her a husband.
00:00:09.820 She is offering a $5,000 bonus. Let's pull up the video, King.
00:00:16.500 So I made this bet with my boss a couple years ago and I've now added my best friend, her husband, and a couple other friends.
00:00:21.700 But I feel like I'm just going to open it up to the general public because I'm good for it.
00:00:24.820 So the bet slash offer is if you introduce me to my husband and I marry him, I will give you $5,000.
00:00:29.320 I don't have to stay married to him for long. I can get divorced in 20 years. It doesn't matter.
00:00:33.180 But if you introduce me to a man that I walk down the aisle and get married to, I will give you $5,000.
00:00:39.940 My DMs are open.
00:00:41.280 Do you notice how she says I don't have to be married to him for long?
00:00:46.280 This is the mindset. Women want the wedding more than they want the marriage. 1.00
00:00:52.380 She doesn't, do you hear that? She doesn't even care about being married to this man for long. 0.61
00:00:57.620 All she wants is a husband. Now let's, let's go through her requirements. 1.00
00:01:02.900 I bet they're very deep and like, I bet, you know, they're very reasonable.
00:01:09.080 Okay. At 35, being a 35 year old litigation attorney, knowing, knowing that what you bring to a marriage at 35 years old is in all honesty, nothing.
00:01:20.300 Even if you're a hottie, which she, she seems like an all right looking chick, you know, even if you're a big hottie at 35, most men get married because they want children. 0.50
00:01:31.580 Would you ever get married if no kids were involved? No.
00:01:34.520 She's shaking, the guys are shaking their head. So women know this, right? The men look at you and they got to think, could this woman raise some kids? Right.
00:01:43.340 And if you're not bringing children to the table, most men don't really see the point of marriage.
00:01:49.760 So at 35, geriatric pregnancy starts that year.
00:01:55.160 So her odds of even having kids like first, he has to get to know her.
00:01:59.480 So it'll be like till 37. Right. Most men want to get, how long you want to get in, get to know a girl before marrying her?
00:02:05.320 Like one to two years. Yeah. Roughly. Okay.
00:02:07.960 So now it's 37. She's pushing 40. And that's really, you're really a depreciating asset at that point.
00:02:15.240 So, you know, at this point you would think she would be desperate.
00:02:19.280 Now, like, let's, I really want to ask ladies at what age should we be desperate? 0.99
00:02:25.960 Like why is desperation, why is it always labeled as a bad thing?
00:02:30.960 Sometimes desperate times, the men know this, right?
00:02:34.340 Like desperate times, if they're really broke, if they just aren't looking the best, they might date a whale for a bit.
00:02:42.740 You know what I mean? They might marry an ugly chick. 1.00
00:02:45.500 Like men understand that really, in all honesty, when you think about it, all men are in desperate times. 0.95
00:02:52.780 When you think about it, when you think about it, all men have really adapted to the times.
00:02:57.720 Okay. Because a hundred years ago, what would the man, so the man would come to the table and he said, here's your protection, here's your provisioning.
00:03:06.000 Now, a hundred years later, men still, by and large, out-earn women, men still, by and large, run society, and they run all of the mechanisms that protect women in society. 0.53
00:03:16.740 So women are still getting the protection and provisioning. 1.00
00:03:20.740 And before, the men would get like five kids out of the deal in exchange, they would get a virgin, or at least a chick that hadn't slept with like, I mean, 85% of women said they were virgins on their wedding night.
00:03:36.780 Let's just say some were lying.
00:03:38.340 Still, still, two out of three, even if it was 50%, that's better than today.
00:03:44.480 All right?
00:03:45.380 And so they would know, all right, my girl hasn't been with that many guys.
00:03:50.040 And they would get femininity, a girl that wanted to stay home, raise the kids. 1.00
00:03:57.620 Now, what do men get?
00:04:00.500 A girl that has a high body count, the average woman's 170 pounds, 5'4". 1.00
00:04:12.500 Men understood, you know what, this is what the market's giving us, we're adapting to the times.
00:04:19.180 Now, women at 35 years old still won't adapt to the market. 1.00
00:04:24.080 She can't find a 5'11 dude that wants her, that she finds attractive. 0.85
00:04:28.040 So it might be time to be desperate.
00:04:32.540 Why is desperation always a bad thing?
00:04:35.260 You know what I mean?
00:04:36.680 Now, she also said she's been on the dating apps for five years.
00:04:41.740 Now, the issue you're going to have on dating apps is that women only swipe right on dating apps 5% of the time. 0.98
00:04:48.860 So if you're going on a date, on a dating app as a woman, you're probably at a disadvantage.
00:04:55.180 Not because you're at a disadvantage throughout all of dating apps, but the guy you're on a date with probably has a ton of options and isn't going to treat you very special.
00:05:09.560 All right?
00:05:09.800 I'm just being honest because the guys that we tend to swipe on have all the women are swiping on. 0.98
00:05:16.480 So I don't know if dating apps are the best, you know, way, but whatever.
00:05:22.660 So she said, so I feel like paying $5,000 for a husband who's vouched for meets my needs and is ready for a real relationship is totally worth it.
00:05:34.860 Do you notice how she didn't say anything she would bring?
00:05:37.960 She said he has to meet my needs, but what about you meeting his needs?
00:05:43.220 But this is the thing, women, we'll get to, society has told us, chase the career, be successful, whatever. 1.00
00:05:50.520 And she did that, and she makes it to 35 years old, never having once thought about what men want.
00:05:56.400 And this is why the red pill is so important, because we go through our whole lives, never having even heard what men want.
00:06:06.280 She also said, can't be his second wife. 0.99
00:06:10.980 Lady, like, lady, like, you're ruling out, you're 35 years old, and you're going to rule out men because they've been married before?
00:06:25.400 And then the second thing is that 5'11 are taller.
00:06:33.480 Nowhere, did you hear anything about character?
00:06:36.280 Did you hear anything about values?
00:06:40.000 In fact, she doesn't care about political beliefs, religious beliefs, or ethnicity.
00:06:47.780 So nothing about culture, nothing about values.
00:06:51.880 5'11 can never have been married before, and he has to meet my needs.
00:06:58.460 And we wonder why marriage sucks today, when in the last 100 years, we have had more mate selection than ever.
00:07:07.240 Women have had more freedom in the last 100 years to choose husbands and partners. 0.98
00:07:13.620 And you know what? 0.99
00:07:14.620 We suck at it. 1.00
00:07:15.980 We are absolutely terrible. 1.00
00:07:18.300 We don't know what we want.
00:07:20.000 We just pick for looks.
00:07:22.100 And the funny thing is, she says, a 35-year-old woman says, Hollywood heartthrobs.
00:07:31.100 These are examples of the men she would want.
00:07:34.740 Gossip Girl star Chuck Vass, Oscar-winning Matthew McConaughey.
00:07:39.460 So you tell me, is this reasonable?
00:07:43.240 Do you think this is a reasonable list?
00:07:45.800 You know, I appreciate that she's bringing money to the table.
00:07:48.800 But it's funny how women, it's like our solution is to pay people to do work for us, 1.00
00:07:54.760 instead of putting in the work to becoming better wives and mothers. 1.00
00:07:58.780 Instead of learning skills that would give us the outcome we want.
00:08:03.360 It's funny, because they'll call men incels in the red pill, right?
00:08:08.740 They'll say, all these red pill men are just incels, they can't get women. 1.00
00:08:11.680 A lot of men will agree and say, you know what?
00:08:14.920 I can't get women. 1.00
00:08:16.000 I'm broken. 0.99
00:08:16.760 I'm fat.
00:08:17.800 And they'll take a path towards improvement.
00:08:20.980 But where are all the real women's improvement classes? 1.00
00:08:25.320 Genuinely, I don't see them.
00:08:27.280 I see women going to some feminist therapist that makes us worse, okay? 1.00
00:08:33.040 I see us going to some feminist therapist that just makes us worse people, 1.00
00:08:38.380 going to the gym a bit, posting some selfies on Instagram,
00:08:43.660 learning how to do your makeup a little better,
00:08:46.060 and then slapping a selfie on Instagram saying, I've healed.
00:08:50.660 Oh, and taking a trip to Aruba.
00:08:52.860 Yes, I forgot about the trip to Aruba,
00:08:56.400 where they just learned to be the best version of ourselves, a wife, a mother.
00:09:01.200 And yeah, that's what I see.
00:09:03.040 But the men, I at least see improving.
00:09:07.960 You know, there's many testimonials from guys like Fresh and Fit
00:09:11.940 and all these other self-improvement guys, where they get in better shape.
00:09:15.980 They make more money.
00:09:17.440 Have you seen a self-improvement, like women losing weight and cookbooks 0.99
00:09:23.220 and, like, going back to more traditional values?
00:09:26.440 And the funny thing is, men are much more traditional than women nowadays. 0.70
00:09:31.180 Yet the conservatives and the trad cons will say,
00:09:35.180 oh, well, the men just need to be better.
00:09:38.600 They need to be better.
00:09:39.600 When it's like, all right, men pay 80% of the taxes. 0.96
00:09:42.640 Men run the entire infrastructure of society, 0.99
00:09:46.000 which one out of two men is in an industry that runs the infrastructure.
00:09:50.460 So protection and provisioning, from a societal standpoint, men are doing more.
00:09:56.260 The women are the ones that aren't holding up our end of the bargain. 1.00
00:10:01.280 We're having 1.4 children or 1.2, roughly.
00:10:05.300 We're not even having an average of two kids.
00:10:08.000 It's like, all right, so the men pay all the taxes. 0.75
00:10:11.620 They run the entire infrastructure of society.
00:10:15.480 They have made systems that protect us, like the police, the military,
00:10:21.040 and the judicial system that will also protect us.
00:10:24.520 And all they want in return is some kids.
00:10:27.460 And we can't even do that, is the crazy thing.
00:10:31.620 And then they want to get mad at me for pointing things out and saying,
00:10:36.700 you know what, trad cons, I don't think women and men are offering equal value to society. 1.00
00:10:42.960 I don't think women are helping run society. 1.00
00:10:46.320 I think nowadays we have less value.
00:10:50.000 And the funny thing is, oh, the funny thing is,
00:10:53.260 these ladies will come in and say, I am trad con.
00:10:57.420 But if you went to college, you cannot be, you can't be traditional.
00:11:02.640 Because college is a feminist institution for women. 1.00
00:11:06.860 Yes, if you look at the birth rate and the rate of women having children, it's inverse. 0.69
00:11:13.860 They're trying to program us to not have kids.
00:11:16.340 This is the crazy thing.
00:11:18.180 Now, my point is this.
00:11:20.620 Why do we have a society that is always focused on the men,
00:11:25.160 and the men need to be better, but never the women?
00:11:28.280 And if anyone says anything about the women, they get attacked mercilessly.
00:11:35.260 Maybe I'm crazy, though.
00:11:36.740 I don't know.
00:11:37.500 Maybe I just don't know what I'm talking about.
00:11:39.920 I'm just grifting, making some things up.
00:11:44.240 I'm just reiterating what I see.
00:11:47.140 I don't know what I see.