JustPearlyThings - December 26, 2022


Problems With Men And Women In RELATIONSHIPS


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

245.73148

Word count

2,178

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

42

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Hate speech

29

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Summary

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Lizzie and Lizzie discuss the differences between men and women in the modern dating world and how to deal with it. We discuss the problem with men today and why women are playing the status game and how women are not accountable for themselves.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 what is the number one problem facing men today and what is the number one problem facing women today
00:00:08.960 i'm gonna say something come on come on the number one problem with men is that they don't
00:00:16.880 tell women the truth and the number one problem with women that they can't they can't handle the 1.00
00:00:20.000 truth simple oh that's a good that's a good paradigm to start from because it's actually
00:00:24.560 very interesting you say that a lot of women say i just want a man who's honest and then the second
00:00:28.080 you're honest she's like what you did it's like well then don't ask me for honesty of course i
00:00:32.400 fucking lie thank you so that's a good that's a good point i agree with that one that i don't 0.81
00:00:36.880 think it's the biggest problem but it certainly is a problem in relationships today that is a
00:00:40.400 problem the biggest problem with men today is that i think the world is becoming hyper competitive
00:00:45.600 most men are not aware and understanding of how quickly there's going to be a genuine shift in
00:00:50.560 between those who have things and those who do not have things not just finances but also female 0.50
00:00:55.360 status everything else and it's a status game right and it's becoming harder and harder for men
00:00:59.520 to play and that's all women's fault of course because no it is because women choose the winners 1.00
00:01:05.920 right women choose who the high status males are so women pretend to give a about men of course they 1.00
00:01:11.120 don't they give a about themselves and and and a woman and a woman and a woman a woman if you ask 0.90
00:01:17.840 her what she wants from a man she's like i don't want much i just want to find a nice man who's a 0.87
00:01:21.840 millionaire and six foot tall and funny and charismatic and interesting and spontaneous and
00:01:25.680 looks after me and doesn't cheat and and it's funny and good looking and strong i don't want much like
00:01:30.400 they name all this that most dudes are never going to have and it's becoming harder and harder and you
00:01:34.560 end up with people top g's who own everything on the planet they could ever possibly wish for and then 0.93
00:01:39.280 you've got other guys who have nothing and you're there's this large divide there's no longer any
00:01:42.640 middle ground you have dudes who can't get any and then you've got dudes who are just blocking
00:01:46.320 girls left right and center and that's what the problem with being a man is today what about the women 1.00
00:01:50.880 well i would say well everybody's got a chance to talk i'm gonna shut up and have my clementine 0.99
00:01:58.160 no i want to know i want to know i want to learn from you sir you want to learn from well i said
00:02:01.920 well i wanted to answer i feel like it goes for both it's not just one of the other i feel like
00:02:05.600 it's self-accountability definitely women are not accountable for themselves i agree with you there 1.00
00:02:11.040 why just women though it's both it's yeah it is definitely both it is both you're right but society 0.99
00:02:17.600 punishes men for not being self-accountable but society does not punish women for not being
00:02:21.200 self-accountable i'll give you an example if you're a man and you're arrogant and you think you're
00:02:23.920 something when you're not trust me society will teach you very quickly that you don't matter when
00:02:27.760 you don't get laid and you stay a fucking brokie if you're a chick and think you're something when 1.00
00:02:31.440 you're not you can run around with your ego still get dates still get laid still have a fairly
00:02:35.920 sensible social life society as a whole doesn't come along and slap you in the face with realizations
00:02:41.200 if you're a man and you think you're something you're not it is a ticking time bomb until society
00:02:45.360 teaches you a lesson that's the difference this is why men in general are more self-accountable
00:02:49.840 because the men who are not self-accountable get up so those who are successful are very
00:02:55.040 self-accountable people they look at themselves and go okay the only way i'm going to get and
00:02:58.400 progress further the reason she left me the only way i'm going to do better make more money etc etc is
00:03:01.840 i have to change most women don't want to do that they don't sit and think i have to change they 1.00
00:03:05.440 think oh he left me because it's him and i lost my job because my boss and this is this because of
00:03:10.960 this no you know women don't look in the mirror and change a thing they don't know because don't 1.00
00:03:15.280 forget what you're forgetting right nowadays they can't change it because it's all about
00:03:18.880 body positivity they can look sexy at a size 28. are you saying lizzo's not a 10?
00:03:26.960 are you guys trying to get me cancelled? see i'm not gonna i don't agree with what you just said because
00:03:32.480 90 of cosmetic surgery is by women women are trying to change as much as possible men don't want to 0.95
00:03:40.560 change they're not accountable for themselves they think that because because they're a man you're
00:03:45.280 going to be attracted to them no like you can you can't be fat you stay at home you're just playing
00:03:50.560 video games and you expect a woman to want to you no she's not going to want to you yeah but then she 1.00
00:03:54.560 won't this is the point and and and and then she won't and society will teach them a lesson they might 0.97
00:03:58.880 be able to pull off a little blag with a girl for a year or so but in general they're going to end up 0.92
00:04:02.640 lonely in general they're going to struggle to find partners i agree with you with the cosmetic surgery thing
00:04:06.720 women are happy to change how their appearance and change how they look but they're not happy to 1.00
00:04:09.840 change how they act most of them they're not happy to change no they're not the women are changing what 0.99
00:04:15.040 the men don't care about the men don't care about the big ol lips yes they do and no they do it the 1.00
00:04:19.840 women are doing that for themselves yeah because the men don't care about it the men would rather a 1.00
00:04:24.240 woman change your stinking attitude then put on all that makeup and hair and everything that's what 1.00
00:04:29.360 the men want but the women will go out there like oh i'm gonna change this i'm gonna change that if you look 0.77
00:04:33.440 look at a man and the man said yeah he's fat the man will most well if he's feeling bad about
00:04:37.080 himself he wants to make say he'll go and hit the gym what's the one gonna do go and do get a bbl
00:04:41.060 get her lips done put on her makeup put on her hair and say the big old fat person that she is 1.00
00:04:45.760 and say oh it's body positivity the men don't even want that and the women are not getting all this
00:04:50.700 cosmetic surgery for the men they're getting it for themselves you can't turn around what man wants 0.73
00:04:55.240 a woman that's gonna turn around don't have an operation they can't sit on a plane because her 1.00
00:04:58.680 ass has been injected or been interfered with she's got a lie there on her stomach you think 1.00
00:05:02.180 the men want that or wake up in the morning before you gotta hit the house she's gotta put on 1.00
00:05:05.880 i'm sure i worried about some of the men because they must go out with a woman 1.00
00:05:09.100 and then when they wake up in the morning they think who the hell is she the scar by the time you
00:05:13.760 take everything off women need to change their attitudes before they change their makeup i'm 1.00
00:05:18.440 sure that even more than that change your attitude because women have got there and they want to 1.00
00:05:23.420 change this they want to change that all the things that don't count if you learn to the same way how
00:05:27.540 women can go out there and learn to put makeup on learn to cook learn to wash by hand learn to please 1.00
00:05:31.720 that is so outdated girl that's outdated girl she's that girl that's outdated she's right for who 1.00
00:05:36.680 i'm saying it's like you're we had literally just talked about this off camera when we when you guys
00:05:41.160 came here from the airport when we were talking about oh what what's the value system or the point
00:05:45.080 system for a woman who cooks versus a woman who can suck good dick and fuck well but you can cook 1.00
00:05:50.460 and suck dick as well but i'm saying is is that pearl if you can correct me if i'm wrong but um quoting her 1.00
00:05:55.480 was that when she interviewed people on the street that there was more points given to something
00:06:00.100 like a sexual return as opposed to oh wash dishes by hand there's a dishwasher why cook we can eat 0.98
00:06:05.940 out there's a chef that people don't get they don't give a fuck about that that's what they think 0.78
00:06:08.920 but we literally just talked about this yesterday no it was okay i did a street interview and i asked
00:06:13.700 the guys would you rather have a girl that gave good head or a good cook and most guys they want this 1.00
00:06:19.000 but i think that's for the quick satisfaction but i think that's more for like a one night
00:06:23.540 but what i'm trying to say is that if you all the women out there and they're talking about
00:06:27.520 well some of the women want to be settled down they want a man right and you gotta think what 1.00
00:06:31.960 the man wants the money interested in that look at you when you're doing street interviews you're
00:06:36.360 in doing single people look at the people there that are happily married and ask them what they do
00:06:42.560 because all the things that the women out there are doing you can be a housewife you can be going out 1.00
00:06:46.840 you can suck just as good as any old tramp on the street and keep your man and have a man and i 1.00
00:06:52.220 can say that because i'm 32 years in canton auntie you can't say you can't say attraction is not
00:06:59.120 important though it is initially initially exactly you a man is not not gonna find you attractive
00:07:05.660 and then think oh because you you can cook well it's got a chef a man's gonna find you attractive 0.90
00:07:11.280 and he's okay let's let's ask andrew he's gonna would you be with a girl that's five out of ten 0.95
00:07:17.100 because she can cook well firstly that's not what she said to be fair and secondly i'd be with the 0.90
00:07:23.560 10 out of 10 who can cook because i'm top jeep but to make the point i think what you have to
00:07:28.700 understand is what men are looking for in a relationship so you did the the street interview
00:07:33.440 and you're asking single people probably young people probably idiots who know they're on camera
00:07:37.320 talking shit about good head all this garbage this bullshit what men are interested in in life 0.90
00:07:41.420 not just in their relationship but in their life as a whole is status i don't think most people
00:07:45.140 understand especially women how competitive the male world is and how competitive it is for status
00:07:48.880 this is why men do everything they do men buy the faster car not to drive any faster because of
00:07:54.160 status it's why we want a bigger house we don't give a shit where we live it's because status 0.61
00:07:57.080 so i want to go to the gym and get big and strong because of status everything we do is about
00:08:00.380 status that's why i want the better job so i want more money so i want to be respected so what's the
00:08:04.420 number one thing we want our female to give us status that's what we want so she can give us 1.00
00:08:07.780 status by being beautiful that's one thing she can do but another thing she could do is if i turn up 0.99
00:08:11.700 home and i come home with my boys and she says i'll cook you all a steak that's status that's all my
00:08:16.620 boys going ross you've just been out all night and she's here and she's going to cook for all of us
00:08:20.120 and she'll clean up and tidy up boom that's the kind of girl a man's not going to want to lose 1.00
00:08:23.880 because it makes him look good that's what i want status suck a dick blah blah blah listen dick can only 0.97
00:08:29.480 be sucked in so many ways i mean let's be serious about this because as many of you know i was just
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