Proof That Women Give HORRIBLE Dating Advice
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about trauma and how it can affect a man's ability to be a good father and husband. We also talk about why women are attracted to men who are emotionally unavailable and why men who open up more.
Transcript
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Well, and I think it also goes back to, like, women reproduce with aggressive men.
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You know that violent felons have more children than people that don't have a criminal history.
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I mean, that sounds a little sus, that they have a violent history and then they have more children.
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Look at what happened to Ted Bundy when he was in prison.
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I know, but I feel like that's a wild exception.
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If you take the percentage of men that reproduce that are violent felons, they reproduce more than people without a criminal history.
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And there's even, like, a trend of women falling in love with their captors or pursuing those men when they're in prison.
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Stockholm Syndrome is, like, pursuing your captor.
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You would be with the strongest man because they would kill your man and they would take you.
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So you had to, like, learn how to fall in love with the person that captured you if you wanted to survive and reproduce.
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But, like, I could not be with a man if he didn't open up to me, if he didn't have a soft side.
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And, like, if someone opens up to me early on, I take that as a positive sign that I've made them feel comfortable.
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I've never, ever, ever judged someone for that.
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And I don't think that men should be trying to be with the kind of women that would judge them for that.
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Like, I would never encourage my male friends to be with a girl who would, like, sneer at him for crying.
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Yeah, but I think, by and large, like, women lose respect for men the more that they open up.
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So I think it's, like, from a feminine point of view where, like, this is why they say women give bad dating advice.
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Because across the board, women don't respect men that open up more.
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I think it depends on a lot of factors, like age and stuff like that.
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Because I think maybe at 23, I would have been like, ooh, but you meet a man at 45, he's had children, he's had trauma.
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Like, you're going to have people come with more stuff.
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And I would be able to deal with it much more now than I would be able to.
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I wouldn't judge a man for opening up to me now.
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No, but there's studies that show that women lose respect for men the more they cry.
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The more they, like, that's one way that men open up is to cry in front of you.
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But it's still only a segment of society, right?
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They've done multiple studies with multiple different women in multiple regions.
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Because think about it, like, we don't, you don't want a guy that's crying every day.
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Not every day, but, like, something traumatic's having to him.
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Like, every time I bring up this example, that's always what women say.
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But every day, and we're saying, like, once, like, there's a, again, there's a spectrum.
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Like, when, how often are you, when something traumatic happens?
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I would say, I mean, I feel like he's going through a bad patch or something, and he's
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got depression, and, like, then, again, there's different circumstances.
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But if I was crying every day for three years, that's going to be tough.
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Girls cry once a month, if you know what I mean.
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Yeah, but that's not every day for three years.
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There's some women that put up with more, and there's some that put up with less.
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But if you're advising men, why would you tell them to do something that most women
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Because I wouldn't want them to be with most women, though.
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I'd want them to be with someone who's going to emotionally support them and love them,
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If your guy was unemployed for 10 years, you're staying.
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Obviously, it's situational when you get with somebody.
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Like, if something happened to my boyfriend, if my boyfriend got cancer and couldn't work
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and he was ill for 10 years, would I leave him?
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And one of the number one indicators of divorce is financial.
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And actually, one out of six divorces, women are spiteful and wreck men.
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That means they don't give them access to the children and they also financially ruin
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It's only like 20% of men try to get access to their children.
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But if I lost my children, I would fight for them.
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So I interviewed, and I'm doing a documentary on this.
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Um, so basically what a girl can do is she can put, it's a restraining order.
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I forgot what you, you guys, a non-molestation order.
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She can put in a non-molestation order and say he abused her.
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And by the way, she's incentivized to say this.
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So she gets free housing if she says that he abused her and free, um, lawyers.
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So one call, he's out of his house because he can't stay in the house.
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And now he doesn't get a court date for a year.
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So it takes him a year, six months to a year to even see his kid that she's not letting
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And he can't even legally go and try to see the kid.
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And by the way, these women's shelters, they know exactly what to say.
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Um, and so on top of that, and this is, this women can do this too, or men can do this too,
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but they're not typically the first ones who file.
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Women file 80% of the time, 90% of their college educated.
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So on top of that, if he wants to fight in court, he has to spend 20 to $30,000 or pounds
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So now he's in all this debt trying to get his kids.
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So he goes to court and there's only a 10% chance of him winning 10% of the time.
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So now he's just, and on top of that, he's still paying the mortgage on his house.
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And on top of that, he, he's now on child support.
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So he's probably paying like three, 400 bucks a month on top of maybe a $1,500 a month mortgage.
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He's paying a month and then he's got the court fees.
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This is where a lot of men kill themselves because they can't see their kids.
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There's only a 10% chance they'll get primary custody.
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He could go through the whole thing and probably, and if he's lucky, he gets six days a month with his kid and she can do it all over again with one call.
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But if you take that back to the beginning, to get a non-mol in the first place, you need probable cause that he was violent.
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I know a girl that got free housing and there was no man that did anything.
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And she just said that you don't need any evidence or proof because the differences in family court, it's not based off of evidence.
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And typically when women cry and say they were abused, the judge is just going to believe her.
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Because again, in family court, you don't need evidence where in criminal court, you do.
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So the question is, why aren't these women in criminal court?
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Now, what percent of cases did the women actually in the women's shelters, what percent of cases did the women actually file criminal court?
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Where like a man actually got a jury, a trial, all of that, what percent of cases do you think there is?
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Well, clearly, if that system is allowing them to lie, then they won't bother going for criminal.
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But I'm saying so, like if someone punches you in the face, most likely you're going to go to court, right?
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So what percent out of 10 women in these women's shelters, what percent of them actually went to criminal court?
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And with one phone call, she takes away his kids and financially ruins him.
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And now he's saying on top of the child support he's paying, on top of the restraining order, on top of all of these fees, on top of arguing with the mother for a year, he needs to fight for his kids and pay 20 to 30,000 pounds for a 10% outcome.
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I think there's men that would go to the ends of the earth for their children, but I think there's a lot of men that don't.
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I think that's easy to say in a place of privilege, but if you're making, at this point, most of the men are homeless.
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And on top of that, their entire community thinks they're an abuser with no evidence.
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Because you've said two things, like the woman's in the house and he's paying the mortgage or is she in a woman's shelter?
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No, no, they go, sorry, they go to the women's, it's not women's shelter.
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There's a name for it, but it's like, it's a women's group basically.
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And so she's in the house, he's officially homeless and now he's paying two grand a month.
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And one guy I interviewed, it was actually the saddest interview.
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He had three kids and he was a mile away and he couldn't see them.
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And he, this man was fighting, but he lost his job because he worked in electricity.
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And imagine if you're homeless and you can't see your kids and now like mentally, how are you going to do that?
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And so it's like, it's like we have this narrative and a lot of like feminists honestly push this narrative where it's like men need to be more, men need to do more.
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And he could go through all of that, not see his kid for a year.
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One more phone call, she can just do it again and sign him up for another year.
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And you know, I think, how long is he expected to do that?
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How long is he expected to financially ruin himself?
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