JustPearlyThings - August 14, 2023


Red Pill Millionaire DROPS The Realest Marriage Advice EVER

Topics
life choices
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Delusional Woman Said This on Air And This Happened This Is Why Women Shouldn't Vote

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

234.6

Word count

2,040

Sentence count

182

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

sentences flagged

Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about why women lie about their sexual history and why it doesn t matter. We also talk about when we stop dating because of our past and why we don t want to be with someone who has slept with multiple men.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, for the guys, have you ever stopped dating a girl because of her past?
00:00:04.940 Yeah.
00:00:06.140 What happened?
00:00:07.140 What did you find out?
00:00:09.140 So I found out, I was 18, found out that the girl.
00:00:15.920 Yeah, is that better for you?
00:00:17.200 To it.
00:00:18.800 Yeah.
00:00:19.720 Okay, cool.
00:00:21.640 18, I found out the girl had slept with, like, multiple men.
00:00:26.460 And this was through a conversation that I had heard from one of my friends saying,
00:00:32.320 oh, what's that girl? 1.00
00:00:34.500 Like, I know she's been with this guy and that guy.
00:00:37.800 And as soon as I heard that, I said to the girl, why did you tell me a strange number?
00:00:41.380 You told me this number, and now I'm finding out it's more than likely this.
00:00:45.940 And she broke down and said, oh, I didn't want to talk to you about all these girls and blah, 0.85
00:00:49.480 all these men, sorry, blah, blah, blah.
00:00:51.040 And for me, that was the end of it.
00:00:53.040 Why do women say body count doesn't matter if they don't want to tell you what it is? 1.00
00:00:56.700 Exactly.
00:00:57.100 It does matter.
00:00:57.800 As far as I'm concerned, it does matter.
00:00:59.680 A woman wouldn't tell you, I've slept with 8,000 men and I still want to be with you.
00:01:06.160 She won't say that at all.
00:01:07.600 A woman will keep it at a certain level. 1.00
00:01:09.460 Like, I understand what you're saying about it doesn't matter, it shouldn't matter, etc.
00:01:12.740 But when push comes to shove, if you get the ideal man in front of you,
00:01:16.040 you're not going to tell him, I've slept with 800 men.
00:01:20.480 You're not going to do that.
00:01:21.180 There is no woman on this earth that's actually going to do that. 0.99
00:01:23.980 You're going to downplay it or you're going to gaslight, like you were saying before,
00:01:27.360 and you're going to say, actually, do you know why you're asking me these questions?
00:01:30.140 It's the modern day era.
00:01:31.500 You shouldn't ask me this.
00:01:32.420 That's what I think is going to happen.
00:01:33.820 There's actually something we say that's kind of funny.
00:01:36.080 I'm like, there is a kind of girl that will lie about her number and lie up, and that's a whale. 1.00
00:01:43.400 And it's sad.
00:01:44.500 Why are you nodding now?
00:01:48.460 You're a mystery flip-flopper on the couch.
00:01:52.720 Like, me personally, I think, like, because me, I've broke it off one time with a girl,
00:02:01.280 but it was mainly, it wasn't even the body count.
00:02:04.060 Like, I knew it was high-ish, but it's like doing something with someone I know, I think.
00:02:12.100 Who was it?
00:02:14.000 It wasn't like a, it was a friend, but he's not like one of the brothers,
00:02:18.340 but it's like a friend, like I know him.
00:02:20.160 But it's more like you've done stuff for him, and I don't think I can be with you after that.
00:02:26.540 Like, I know what he's like as a person, you know what I mean?
00:02:28.640 You're eating the same hole.
00:02:30.540 You're sharing the hole.
00:02:32.900 Is he kind of like a player, the guy?
00:02:34.680 Yeah, he's more like a player.
00:02:36.040 Like, I know him from being a player, you know what I mean?
00:02:38.020 But it's like you've been with him.
00:02:40.400 I mean, like, for me, my, like, standards, I think that's where, like, standards comes in.
00:02:45.000 Like, you've been with that guy, and now I'm with you.
00:02:47.780 Like, I'm more like, what's going on?
00:02:49.640 You know what I mean?
00:02:50.240 But I think that was one of my, like... 0.98
00:02:52.200 Was he kind of a loser?
00:02:53.120 Like, was it because he was more high status than you or less high status? 0.97
00:02:56.500 I think it was because he was less.
00:02:57.980 Okay.
00:02:58.980 So if you thought he was a quality guy, would it have been different?
00:03:03.200 I wouldn't think it would have been different, but just because I know him,
00:03:08.040 I think that makes a big difference.
00:03:10.460 If I didn't know the person, then probably, like, I would have been like,
00:03:13.680 okay, fair enough, that can slide.
00:03:15.140 I don't know.
00:03:15.440 Oh, but because you knew him?
00:03:16.580 Just because I know him personally, it's like, that guy, really.
00:03:20.000 You know what I mean?
00:03:20.580 What about you?
00:03:21.460 Have you ever stopped speaking to a woman because of some things she did before?
00:03:25.440 No, that never happened to me.
00:03:27.120 I only had one girl, which was, like, secondary, so it wasn't a proper relationship.
00:03:32.040 That's about it.
00:03:32.980 Okay.
00:03:33.360 Yeah.
00:03:33.640 Did you have any other girls that happened to you or the one?
00:03:37.520 Yeah, I just learned to recognize, it's like, you just learned to recognize the sign quicker.
00:03:40.700 But, you know, as a man, when I was single, it doesn't mean that I disqualified her from sex.
00:03:44.280 It just means that's what it was and that's all it was.
00:03:47.700 What signs for guys that are watching this, like, what signs should they look out for?
00:03:52.220 Man, that's a, I mean, I'm going to, yeah, tattoos would be a pretty big sign.
00:03:57.160 Just any, like, I'll tell you why tattoos are a big sign.
00:03:59.200 You might say, well, that's not nice because I have tattoos.
00:04:00.840 I'll tell you why it's a big sign because if you had a good relationship with your dad,
00:04:03.660 he would not let you get tattoos when you were 18.
00:04:05.780 No.
00:04:05.940 That's what it means.
00:04:06.800 That's what, that's why I don't have tattoos.
00:04:09.360 Right?
00:04:09.640 Yeah.
00:04:09.880 Because, like, that's literally, it's like, it just tells me you don't have a good relationship
00:04:12.360 with your dad, which it doesn't mean for everybody, but it raises those numbers.
00:04:15.240 There's, there's obviously, the thing about social intelligence, it's very hard to describe it
00:04:19.760 because it's so nuanced, like, and you really have to sort of conflate a big number of variables
00:04:26.000 all into one, and that's what comprises, like, the social intelligence thing.
00:04:28.880 So it's hard to say, like, oh, because of this and this and this and that.
00:04:32.140 But there's definitely signs, and when you know, you know.
00:04:34.780 But it's like the dad thing, or like, what if she didn't have a dad?
00:04:39.240 Not our fault, he goes to the shop and don't come back.
00:04:41.680 You know what I mean?
00:04:42.080 Like, what if she didn't have a dad?
00:04:43.100 Like, how would you look at it?
00:04:43.800 Well, that also tells me, of course, look, I'm not saying it's her fault.
00:04:46.640 It's still her responsibility.
00:04:47.580 There, I understand it's not her fault, but it is her responsibility.
00:04:50.240 And it may be like, well, I was young, whatever.
00:04:51.960 Okay, fine.
00:04:52.380 I'm not responsible for that, thank you.
00:04:53.900 I'm not.
00:04:54.740 You are now.
00:04:55.700 You are now.
00:04:56.980 You are responsible for your life choices.
00:04:57.560 You are responsible for your life choices.
00:04:58.320 Yeah, of course, but I'm not responsible for walking out.
00:05:00.820 I know, you're not responsible for that.
00:05:02.380 But even when I hear you talk, like, you sort of blame it on everyone else but you.
00:05:06.040 Like, you kind of, you kind of blame, like, your situation and, like, this is, like,
00:05:09.760 like, instead of, it's my life choices.
00:05:13.020 Who have I blamed?
00:05:14.140 Um, it was just earlier when you were saying it's because of, like, this or because of
00:05:18.340 that.
00:05:18.680 No, it adds to it.
00:05:20.020 My, my, my, my child and stuff, it's kind of moulded me into a bit of a mess.
00:05:25.000 And I'll admit that.
00:05:25.920 I think she means, like, if you, if you get, like, a young guy who doesn't have his dad there,
00:05:29.520 some of those guys end up, like, alcoholics in prison and some of them end up, like,
00:05:33.000 amazing dads.
00:05:34.300 Do you know what I mean?
00:05:34.760 So, like, you can come from the same background and have two different, completely different,
00:05:38.020 and that's choices.
00:05:39.900 Definitely is life choices.
00:05:41.040 I came from.
00:05:41.380 Not getting at you, but that's just what she means.
00:05:43.420 I came from a life which was, if I put, like I said, I put it on camera before and what,
00:05:49.580 the reaction from people.
00:05:50.680 I came from a life that was an absolute mess.
00:05:53.260 And I chose not to go down a certain path.
00:05:55.400 Like, I didn't want to be, like, the man that brought me into this world.
00:05:58.420 And I didn't want to be and let my mom down, even though my mom, I haven't seen her for
00:06:02.820 13 years because she's schizophrenic.
00:06:04.640 So, I decide I'm not going to prison.
00:06:06.660 So, I have no remorse for people when they say, oh, well, this happened.
00:06:10.980 So, therefore, I've become this.
00:06:12.520 I've got no remorse for that because you don't have to.
00:06:14.460 One of the best women I know came from a single parent home and she was abused as a 1.00
00:06:18.740 kid.
00:06:19.040 And she's, like, genuinely one of the best women I know because she, like, went to the
00:06:21.800 church and she sought after, like, women she could look up to.
00:06:24.640 And she ended up getting married and having a family.
00:06:26.660 But it's, like, you can be from the same situation and have completely different
00:06:30.320 life outcomes.
00:06:31.580 And that's what he's saying.
00:06:32.640 He's saying, like, it's your responsibility what you do with your life.
00:06:34.960 It's your responsibility, but not everyone's strong.
00:06:37.700 Like, not everyone has that mindset.
00:06:40.440 Some people are actually weak.
00:06:41.880 And I'll admit it, I've had times in my life where I've felt so weak.
00:06:44.540 I don't want to be anymore.
00:06:45.240 But why would a guy want to be with a girl that's weak? 0.99
00:06:47.840 Well, don't be with me.
00:06:48.760 No, I'm not.
00:06:49.800 But I'm saying that's his point.
00:06:51.340 Yeah, yeah, okay.
00:06:52.060 Cool, cool, cool.
00:06:52.580 When he's speaking to men, like, a lot of men watch this show.
00:06:55.540 So it's, like, these are the signs.
00:06:56.960 And it's not, even for women, like, honestly, like, I think it's better to date people from 0.95
00:07:02.140 two-parent homes if you can.
00:07:03.400 Yeah, no, definitely, definitely, definitely.
00:07:05.340 Because it's easier when you've had a model, like, something you look up to.
00:07:08.520 Yeah, yeah, yeah, definitely.
00:07:09.060 There is a way.
00:07:09.640 So I've spent a significant amount of my time in my youth thinking about this because I
00:07:14.440 realized I was a really bad judge of character of women.
00:07:17.000 Because when I was, like, young, like, coming out of high school, going to college and stuff,
00:07:19.680 I remember the girls I was falling for and trying to be in relationships with, they just
00:07:23.780 were horrible people.
00:07:25.360 And I thank the good Lord above every day that I didn't get what I wanted when I wanted
00:07:30.700 it at 20.
00:07:31.280 Because if I had gotten what I wanted, I would have signed up for a life of massive regret.
00:07:34.400 And you see a lot of those guys, they get married young, and then they just get
00:07:37.380 wiped out, right?
00:07:38.840 And sometimes, you know, I'll go on the show, and then guys will comment, like, that guy
00:07:41.960 is going to get what's coming to him, blah, blah, blah.
00:07:44.360 It's like, no, and I'll tell you why not.
00:07:46.260 Here's, if you're a guy, here's how you can tell what a girl is like, okay?
00:07:50.400 Make it your mission to go out in your early 20s and just sleep with as many girls as you 0.99
00:07:55.400 can.
00:07:55.780 And you might say, that's horrible advice.
00:07:57.040 No, that's great advice.
00:07:58.300 Because what you're going to learn, first of all, you're going to learn about the nature
00:08:01.280 of women.
00:08:02.440 And I'm not saying do that for your whole life.
00:08:04.140 Like, eventually, you will grow up.
00:08:05.400 Eventually, you will want to pursue a higher purpose.
00:08:09.200 But in order to pursue that higher purpose valiantly, you have to understand the game
00:08:14.100 you're playing.
00:08:14.700 And you don't understand the game you're playing if you've been with one or two girls.
00:08:17.980 And you might say, that's bad advice.
00:08:19.360 No, that's exactly the advice I'll give my sons.
00:08:20.860 Now, I'll give my daughters the opposite advice.
00:08:22.880 If you want to know about the seriousness of men, don't put out with them.
00:08:26.740 Then you'll absolutely learn what men are really after.
00:08:29.120 But if you want to learn what women are after, go out as a man. 0.96
00:08:31.680 Remember, it's not your job to protect the sexual marketplace as a man.
00:08:34.480 And it's the woman's job to protect. 1.00
00:08:36.220 She's the guardian to that.
00:08:37.680 You're the guardian to relationships.
00:08:38.960 You want to get socially intelligent?
00:08:40.820 Do it lots of times.