Red Pill Millionaire DROPS The Realest Marriage Advice EVER
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why women lie about their sexual history and why it doesn t matter. We also talk about when we stop dating because of our past and why we don t want to be with someone who has slept with multiple men.
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Okay, for the guys, have you ever stopped dating a girl because of her past?
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So I found out, I was 18, found out that the girl.
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18, I found out the girl had slept with, like, multiple men.
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And this was through a conversation that I had heard from one of my friends saying,
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Like, I know she's been with this guy and that guy.
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And as soon as I heard that, I said to the girl, why did you tell me a strange number?
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You told me this number, and now I'm finding out it's more than likely this.
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And she broke down and said, oh, I didn't want to talk to you about all these girls and blah,
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Why do women say body count doesn't matter if they don't want to tell you what it is?
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A woman wouldn't tell you, I've slept with 8,000 men and I still want to be with you.
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Like, I understand what you're saying about it doesn't matter, it shouldn't matter, etc.
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But when push comes to shove, if you get the ideal man in front of you,
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you're not going to tell him, I've slept with 800 men.
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There is no woman on this earth that's actually going to do that.
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You're going to downplay it or you're going to gaslight, like you were saying before,
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and you're going to say, actually, do you know why you're asking me these questions?
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There's actually something we say that's kind of funny.
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I'm like, there is a kind of girl that will lie about her number and lie up, and that's a whale.
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Like, me personally, I think, like, because me, I've broke it off one time with a girl,
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but it was mainly, it wasn't even the body count.
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Like, I knew it was high-ish, but it's like doing something with someone I know, I think.
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It wasn't like a, it was a friend, but he's not like one of the brothers,
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But it's more like you've done stuff for him, and I don't think I can be with you after that.
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Like, I know what he's like as a person, you know what I mean?
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Like, I know him from being a player, you know what I mean?
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I mean, like, for me, my, like, standards, I think that's where, like, standards comes in.
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Like, you've been with that guy, and now I'm with you.
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Like, was it because he was more high status than you or less high status?
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So if you thought he was a quality guy, would it have been different?
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I wouldn't think it would have been different, but just because I know him,
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If I didn't know the person, then probably, like, I would have been like,
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Just because I know him personally, it's like, that guy, really.
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Have you ever stopped speaking to a woman because of some things she did before?
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I only had one girl, which was, like, secondary, so it wasn't a proper relationship.
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Did you have any other girls that happened to you or the one?
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Yeah, I just learned to recognize, it's like, you just learned to recognize the sign quicker.
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But, you know, as a man, when I was single, it doesn't mean that I disqualified her from sex.
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It just means that's what it was and that's all it was.
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What signs for guys that are watching this, like, what signs should they look out for?
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Man, that's a, I mean, I'm going to, yeah, tattoos would be a pretty big sign.
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Just any, like, I'll tell you why tattoos are a big sign.
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You might say, well, that's not nice because I have tattoos.
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I'll tell you why it's a big sign because if you had a good relationship with your dad,
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he would not let you get tattoos when you were 18.
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Because, like, that's literally, it's like, it just tells me you don't have a good relationship
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with your dad, which it doesn't mean for everybody, but it raises those numbers.
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There's, there's obviously, the thing about social intelligence, it's very hard to describe it
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because it's so nuanced, like, and you really have to sort of conflate a big number of variables
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all into one, and that's what comprises, like, the social intelligence thing.
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So it's hard to say, like, oh, because of this and this and this and that.
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But there's definitely signs, and when you know, you know.
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But it's like the dad thing, or like, what if she didn't have a dad?
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Not our fault, he goes to the shop and don't come back.
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Well, that also tells me, of course, look, I'm not saying it's her fault.
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There, I understand it's not her fault, but it is her responsibility.
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And it may be like, well, I was young, whatever.
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Yeah, of course, but I'm not responsible for walking out.
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But even when I hear you talk, like, you sort of blame it on everyone else but you.
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Like, you kind of, you kind of blame, like, your situation and, like, this is, like,
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Um, it was just earlier when you were saying it's because of, like, this or because of
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My, my, my, my child and stuff, it's kind of moulded me into a bit of a mess.
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I think she means, like, if you, if you get, like, a young guy who doesn't have his dad there,
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some of those guys end up, like, alcoholics in prison and some of them end up, like,
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So, like, you can come from the same background and have two different, completely different,
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Not getting at you, but that's just what she means.
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I came from a life which was, if I put, like I said, I put it on camera before and what,
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Like, I didn't want to be, like, the man that brought me into this world.
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And I didn't want to be and let my mom down, even though my mom, I haven't seen her for
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So, I have no remorse for people when they say, oh, well, this happened.
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I've got no remorse for that because you don't have to.
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One of the best women I know came from a single parent home and she was abused as a
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And she's, like, genuinely one of the best women I know because she, like, went to the
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church and she sought after, like, women she could look up to.
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And she ended up getting married and having a family.
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But it's, like, you can be from the same situation and have completely different
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He's saying, like, it's your responsibility what you do with your life.
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It's your responsibility, but not everyone's strong.
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And I'll admit it, I've had times in my life where I've felt so weak.
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But why would a guy want to be with a girl that's weak?
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When he's speaking to men, like, a lot of men watch this show.
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And it's not, even for women, like, honestly, like, I think it's better to date people from
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Because it's easier when you've had a model, like, something you look up to.
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So I've spent a significant amount of my time in my youth thinking about this because I
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realized I was a really bad judge of character of women.
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Because when I was, like, young, like, coming out of high school, going to college and stuff,
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I remember the girls I was falling for and trying to be in relationships with, they just
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And I thank the good Lord above every day that I didn't get what I wanted when I wanted
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Because if I had gotten what I wanted, I would have signed up for a life of massive regret.
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And you see a lot of those guys, they get married young, and then they just get
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And sometimes, you know, I'll go on the show, and then guys will comment, like, that guy
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is going to get what's coming to him, blah, blah, blah.
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Here's, if you're a guy, here's how you can tell what a girl is like, okay?
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Make it your mission to go out in your early 20s and just sleep with as many girls as you
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Because what you're going to learn, first of all, you're going to learn about the nature
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And I'm not saying do that for your whole life.
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Eventually, you will want to pursue a higher purpose.
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But in order to pursue that higher purpose valiantly, you have to understand the game
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And you don't understand the game you're playing if you've been with one or two girls.
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No, that's exactly the advice I'll give my sons.
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Now, I'll give my daughters the opposite advice.
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If you want to know about the seriousness of men, don't put out with them.
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Then you'll absolutely learn what men are really after.
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But if you want to learn what women are after, go out as a man.
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Remember, it's not your job to protect the sexual marketplace as a man.