JustPearlyThings - April 22, 2023


Rude Bimbo Gets Triggered By Male Standards

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Lizzo
What Is A HIGH VALUE Woman？？ This Was The Most Honest Interview Ever

Episode Stats


Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

211.07

Word count

2,133

Sentence count

312

Harmful content

Misogyny

14

sentences flagged

Toxicity

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

9

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

In this episode, we talk about the issue of being overweight and how to deal with it. We are joined by a very special guest who is a health coach and personal trainer who has been in the fitness industry for a long time. We talk about her experience with being overweight, how she deals with it and how she has dealt with it in her own life.

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Toxicity classifications generated with s-nlp/roberta_toxicity_classifier .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
Hosts, guests, and mentioned names generated with spaCy (en_core_web_sm), reconciled against Wikidata.
00:00:00.000 I'm going to be, I'm just sat here being real.
00:00:02.000 I'm not trying to show up to any, I'm just being real.
00:00:04.420 And the facts are like, my partner's cousin is a top cardiologist in El Paso.
00:00:09.020 So he'll tell you with what pressure weight just does on your heart.
00:00:13.480 And if we want to go down that road, let's talk about medicine.
00:00:16.120 We'll talk about it in a real world, not just on anybody's facts and show.
00:00:21.600 Let's talk about medicine.
00:00:22.480 Those are statistics.
00:00:24.200 Can you tell something?
00:00:25.740 I'm a personal trainer.
00:00:27.120 So I've been in fitness industry for 15 years.
00:00:29.240 And most of my clients are moms after having a baby and they're overweight. 1.00
00:00:35.640 And we always, I'm a health coach, so always talk about that.
00:00:39.320 But the only thing is they are, they're very upset about their weight because they think most of them are single because they're overweight and they just want to lose weight because of, you know, they want to look good.
00:00:50.400 They want to look confident and therefore they want to find a good looking guy.
00:00:54.720 So I don't think there is any problem when we talk about, you know, people with, you know, overweight people because they are actually, they love to talk about it because they think because of social media, because of, let's say, even Victoria's Secret right now having like overweight, beautiful ladies advertising bikinis.
00:01:15.860 And I love it because I feel like now it's all the women around the world with any size, any color, any shape.
00:01:23.540 They can, you know, be seen.
00:01:25.680 I hate it. 0.83
00:01:26.980 I hate it. 0.88
00:01:28.200 I feel like why when they have overweight women as models, because I want to be inspired when I see a model. 1.00
00:01:34.540 I don't want someone that like, it's bigger than me.
00:01:36.740 I get what you're saying.
00:01:38.420 Can you finish my conversation?
00:01:40.480 But imagine if I was overweight, I mean, I used to think like you, I used to think, oh, but I think we need to be inspired.
00:01:47.840 Like as a personal trainer, I had a colleague who was very overweight and I was always thinking, I didn't want to be mean and say, you're a personal trainer.
00:01:56.080 You're supposed to inspire people.
00:01:58.900 You're supposed to be really fit.
00:02:00.120 I would agree, yeah.
00:02:00.880 But you are very like, you have a percentage of fat that is not acceptable as a trainer.
00:02:07.740 But now I'm coming to a point, maybe I'm getting older with lots of experiences.
00:02:12.140 Some people really can't lose weight.
00:02:14.360 You can't assume people at all.
00:02:16.740 You can't stereotype them.
00:02:17.740 I don't believe that.
00:02:18.520 What do you mean they can't lose weight?
00:02:19.880 They can reduce the amount of weight.
00:02:20.700 Oh my God, I can't believe we're going back into the, like the 60s and 70s.
00:02:25.140 Are you saying, let me, like, you don't understand about genetics.
00:02:28.620 What don't I understand?
00:02:30.840 So you don't understand about genetics, health, weight, how the body, and then I just, well, if you did, then you wouldn't have made that comment.
00:02:37.620 Yes, I would.
00:02:38.880 You still would.
00:02:39.620 I still make that comment because nothing's impossible.
00:02:42.480 You can't because then you have to look at.
00:02:44.480 Then you need to go to these women that can't do that and ask them the real ones. 1.00
00:02:48.660 Have you asked them?
00:02:49.500 I do help these women. 0.99
00:02:50.720 And I have had loads of women lose weight. 1.00
00:02:52.340 Absolutely.
00:02:53.060 No, have you asked these women that can't lose weight? 1.00
00:02:55.680 Have you asked them that question?
00:02:56.740 It's not true that they can't.
00:02:57.020 If they work with me, they can.
00:02:59.180 It's not true that they can't.
00:03:00.720 How can you say that?
00:03:01.620 That's like saying it's not possible for someone to be healthy.
00:03:04.280 I refuse to believe that.
00:03:06.040 That's just not right.
00:03:07.280 That's just giving up on so many people.
00:03:09.760 So in our room, who we're sat with now, who do you think is the unhealthiest?
00:03:14.040 I don't know.
00:03:15.280 Look around at the room.
00:03:16.820 I don't know and I'm not going to do that.
00:03:18.040 I thought you said a minute ago, it doesn't necessarily come down to how they look.
00:03:23.220 Someone that could be slimmer could be unhealthier.
00:03:26.160 I've coached.
00:03:26.960 So we can't really eyeball that.
00:03:28.380 You just said that all people that are overweight, that you can do.
00:03:32.260 That's it mentally.
00:03:33.540 You know what I'm going to say to you people out there, all of you who are overweight, come 1.00
00:03:37.220 to her and let her train you and show you, regardless of your ages, regardless of your
00:03:42.680 sizes, and let's put it out there.
00:03:44.480 Are you a trainer?
00:03:45.600 Are you a trainer?
00:03:46.160 No, I'm not a trainer.
00:03:46.860 I'm a life coach.
00:03:47.360 What do you do?
00:03:47.500 You do life coach?
00:03:48.520 Yeah.
00:03:48.960 Yeah.
00:03:49.140 Sign up, do a good stuff.
00:03:50.060 First of all, I'm a sports therapist.
00:03:51.120 I'm a business therapist.
00:03:52.120 I'm fraud the Insta, man.
00:03:53.080 I don't buy me anything possible.
00:03:54.740 The free promo.
00:03:55.820 Plug the socials.
00:03:56.800 I don't do social media.
00:03:58.340 The recommendations, I've been doing it for over 20 years.
00:04:00.840 I don't do social media.
00:04:01.500 She was telling me her story.
00:04:03.420 I don't know how you can stereotype against social media.
00:04:06.980 You just did.
00:04:08.100 Okay.
00:04:08.180 Okay.
00:04:09.300 Okay.
00:04:09.680 You can't ask men what they want. 0.76
00:04:13.760 And when they say not Lizzo, you say you're stereotyping.
00:04:16.940 But women don't like broke men.
00:04:20.680 We don't like short men.
00:04:22.460 We discriminate. 0.96
00:04:23.960 Why can't men have standards? 0.52
00:04:25.500 I don't care about if you're broke.
00:04:27.100 Because I make my own money.
00:04:28.860 All right.
00:04:29.240 So first of all, what does that have to do with anything?
00:04:31.580 So I don't need to lie if he's broke, if he's nothing, or if he's that.
00:04:35.580 Okay. 0.59
00:04:36.140 Date bums.
00:04:36.740 Have fun.
00:04:37.720 No.
00:04:38.220 Date bums.
00:04:38.820 Have fun.
00:04:39.680 Go ahead.
00:04:40.760 You said you make your own money. 0.60
00:04:41.840 Date bums.
00:04:42.820 Okay.
00:04:42.960 Let me finish my question.
00:04:44.380 But let me finish my answer, please.
00:04:46.520 I like somebody to just treat me right.
00:04:49.500 And if that's wrong, then a lot of women are wrong. 1.00
00:04:53.700 But what you define as being treated right will vary because of the stuff you're used to.
00:04:59.960 If you go on Netflix right now, there's this program called Rich Life or whatever.
00:05:05.540 The woman earns the most money. 1.00
00:05:07.520 She's being cussed because she's just cussed her husband because he stays at home and looks 0.86
00:05:11.520 after the kids.
00:05:12.160 That's less than 5% of relationships.
00:05:15.100 That's not a high percentage of relationships.
00:05:16.600 A lot of women stay at home and look after the kids. 1.00
00:05:19.180 Do you have children?
00:05:20.100 That's more common.
00:05:20.880 Do you have children?
00:05:21.660 No, I don't have kids.
00:05:22.480 And when you do, then we can probably make us just say, I have a 24-year-old daughter.
00:05:27.560 I've been down that road.
00:05:29.380 You've been down what road?
00:05:31.020 Of bringing up a child.
00:05:32.300 I don't even think I need to explain that.
00:05:34.860 No, you're being very random, so I don't know what that has to do.
00:05:38.160 We're talking about obesity.
00:05:39.820 And now you're saying I had a kid.
00:05:41.320 No, don't try and switch it.
00:05:43.680 What I'm saying to you is when we're looking at, we just change the conversation.
00:05:47.940 You know what?
00:05:48.320 I'm not even going to go down that road, do you?
00:05:49.680 There is no conversation.
00:05:51.000 Let's hear the men and see what they actually...
00:05:54.420 It was so funny because when I was getting married...
00:05:55.560 So the men are going to stick up for you.
00:05:57.280 When I was getting married about when I was 22, the first two things I said to my mom,
00:06:03.260 the guy I'm going to be married to, first of all, it shouldn't be short, fat and bold.
00:06:10.260 And I got married to the same person who was short, who was fat and who was bold.
00:06:16.180 And I got divorced after a few years, obviously.
00:06:18.560 But I'm just saying, I think that was my...
00:06:22.980 I think everyone is allowed to choose whether they want to be with someone tall.
00:06:27.360 Obviously, I love to be with a man who is tall, good looking.
00:06:30.480 Yeah, everyone's allowed to choose.
00:06:32.740 But we all know that women prefer men with good jobs.
00:06:36.300 We all know that women prefer men that are tall.
00:06:38.180 No, they don't.
00:06:39.480 No, they don't.
00:06:40.220 I do.
00:06:40.500 But generally, she's speaking generally.
00:06:41.940 That's your perspective.
00:06:42.700 Right.
00:06:42.980 You've got four women on this panel. 1.00
00:06:44.940 Okay.
00:06:45.240 So let's do the experiment.
00:06:47.040 What's your perspective?
00:06:48.520 What would you like out of a man?
00:06:49.520 Okay.
00:06:49.540 Okay.
00:06:49.780 This isn't your show.
00:06:51.520 I'm not playing on that show.
00:06:52.660 I'm asking your question.
00:06:53.660 Okay.
00:06:54.600 What would you like to a man?
00:06:55.700 What would I like?
00:06:56.500 Okay.
00:06:56.740 What would you like?
00:06:57.180 Okay.
00:06:57.780 I just want to...
00:06:59.020 I'm not going to keep you happy because it's your show.
00:07:01.860 I'll help you.
00:07:02.880 I'll help you.
00:07:03.260 Here you go.
00:07:03.700 Here you go.
00:07:03.940 You don't need to help me.
00:07:04.400 Just, okay.
00:07:05.380 Okay.
00:07:06.060 So, couch.
00:07:07.260 Just raise a hand.
00:07:07.980 I'm just curious.
00:07:09.000 Do you prefer men with jobs or no jobs?
00:07:11.640 So, raise your hand for jobs.
00:07:13.620 Jobs.
00:07:14.100 Okay.
00:07:14.780 She's difficult.
00:07:15.540 We don't care about that.
00:07:16.840 So, okay.
00:07:17.940 Do you prefer men five foot or six foot?
00:07:20.460 Oh, so you're being prejudiced now.
00:07:21.180 Raise your...
00:07:21.680 I mean, you're annoying.
00:07:22.800 So, okay.
00:07:23.300 So, five foot or six foot?
00:07:25.060 Six.
00:07:25.600 Six.
00:07:25.960 Six.
00:07:26.080 Six.
00:07:26.620 Okay.
00:07:27.420 You know, five foot?
00:07:28.460 So, how many in this room are six foot?
00:07:30.340 I would have said, if you had to pick one of the two.
00:07:32.560 Five foot or six foot?
00:07:33.320 Six foot, yeah.
00:07:33.820 Yeah, I mean, this is fine.
00:07:35.320 See, they're not offended.
00:07:36.380 Are you guys offended?
00:07:37.260 Just answer those questions.
00:07:38.700 Oh, no.
00:07:39.260 They're not offended right now because you're on your show, but they'll be offended when
00:07:42.160 they leave out something.
00:07:42.920 No one's going to be offended.
00:07:44.180 Why don't you just answer your question?
00:07:45.020 I'm not going to be six foot after the show.
00:07:46.360 Oh, don't worry.
00:07:46.520 You can just add on to the...
00:07:47.780 Why don't you...
00:07:48.380 Yeah, I'm not going to end this so that I won't be offended.
00:07:50.680 Okay, now...
00:07:51.240 Why wouldn't you want us to answer her questions?
00:07:53.420 She's just asking honest questions, man.
00:07:56.320 Five foot or six foot.
00:07:57.740 How tall are you?
00:07:58.560 Why does it matter?
00:07:59.340 Just answer the question.
00:08:00.500 How tall are you?
00:08:01.400 Just answer the question.
00:08:02.660 I don't need to.
00:08:03.440 I'm not mad.
00:08:03.780 You answer that, I'll answer it.
00:08:04.920 How tall are you?
00:08:05.520 If it's over six foot, are you going to be interested?
00:08:07.100 It wasn't directed to me.
00:08:07.960 I'm 5'7".
00:08:08.040 How tall are you?
00:08:09.140 I'm taller than you.
00:08:10.340 How tall is that?
00:08:11.500 Over 5'7".
00:08:12.700 How tall are you?
00:08:14.440 Taller than 5'7".
00:08:15.980 What's your hand?
00:08:16.740 Well, you won't answer my question, I won't answer yours.
00:08:18.860 I think she's answered his question.
00:08:19.400 All right, let's move on.
00:08:20.720 Exactly.
00:08:21.300 I think he should...
00:08:22.040 He doesn't want to because he wants to try and play games.
00:08:23.980 If she asks you a question, but you don't want to answer it.
00:08:26.940 So when you answer that, I'll answer that.
00:08:30.420 What is it?
00:08:32.020 How tall are you?
00:08:33.180 5'6".
00:08:33.860 How tall are you?
00:08:36.280 Why wouldn't you answer her question?
00:08:37.320 5'6".
00:08:38.040 It's not even my show.
00:08:38.800 Why are you asking me?
00:08:39.280 Let's go.
00:08:39.620 5'7".
00:08:40.040 No, I didn't ask your height.
00:08:41.880 I said, would you date a guy that was 5'6", if you had to pick?
00:08:44.820 Two guys, same guy.
00:08:45.720 Okay.
00:08:45.880 No, I'm asking you 5' or 6'0".
00:08:49.640 No, because I don't date people on that.
00:08:50.480 Okay, if you're not going to answer the questions, you can go.
00:08:53.160 Because it is very disruptive.
00:08:54.580 I don't...
00:08:55.040 5'6", or 5'7".
00:08:55.920 I like personalities.
00:08:58.080 No, I said 5'0", or 6'0".
00:08:59.780 6'0".
00:09:02.260 Okay, okay.
00:09:03.100 So you like taller...
00:09:03.940 What a surprise.
00:09:05.300 Okay, job or no job?
00:09:10.620 It depends what they can provide.
00:09:12.360 No, job or no job.
00:09:13.700 Would you rather have a guy that's unemployed, on benefits, or a guy with a job?
00:09:17.820 Come on.
00:09:18.260 What if he's got no job and he's doing it?
00:09:20.460 It depends when you say no job.
00:09:22.240 Your man's got a job.
00:09:23.080 Unemployed.
00:09:23.560 Yeah, my man's got a job. 0.88
00:09:25.080 The crackhead down the street. 0.82
00:09:26.360 I got one for you.
00:09:27.220 Okay, thank you.
00:09:28.060 So women do prefer men with money. 1.00
00:09:30.120 Okay, thank you.
00:09:31.060 Now the men.
00:09:31.640 Men, okay. 0.94
00:09:32.560 Would you rather have a girl that was 300 pounds or 120 pounds? 1.00
00:09:35.580 120 pounds.
00:09:36.680 Okay, okay.
00:09:37.500 Thank you.
00:09:37.840 So we can speak in generalities, and the whole couch agreed.
00:09:41.100 Okay, thank you.
00:09:41.880 So what would you give up for the right guy?
00:09:45.780 What would I give up for the right guy?
00:09:47.640 Yeah, because we all agree that you have to make sacrifices.
00:09:49.720 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok, and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
00:09:58.240 If you want to help, please consider sending a super thanks below.
00:10:02.520 Every donation helps, and it helps make what we do possible.