JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023


S3x Worker Exposes The Root Cause Of S3XLESS Marriages


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

174.84694

Word Count

1,685

Sentence Count

50

Misogynist Sentences

16

Hate Speech Sentences

10


Summary

In this episode, we discuss if modern women should stay in a relationship if a high value man cheats on their significant other. We have a special guest, a sex worker, to give her opinion on this topic.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 is modern women should stay if high-value men cheat.
00:00:04.300 So there was a certain footballer that is in the news,
00:00:08.220 and he's in the news because his wife divorced him for cheating.
00:00:11.860 Oh, yeah.
00:00:13.260 However, all of the money was in his mom's name.
00:00:18.700 So in hindsight, being 20-20,
00:00:24.160 knowing that he was taking fully, 100% taking care of her,
00:00:28.440 should she have stayed,
00:00:30.000 why don't we start with the couch,
00:00:36.240 and then we'll get the women's opinions,
00:00:38.480 and then we'll get the men's.
00:00:39.540 So start here.
00:00:41.300 I don't know.
00:00:42.220 I think it's all about the principle.
00:00:45.020 I get that it's like 20-20 free.
00:00:48.200 I get that, I don't know,
00:00:50.320 we're moving towards more liberal times.
00:00:53.180 You've got to do what you've got to do.
00:00:54.780 But I just feel like,
00:00:57.180 if it was me,
00:00:58.920 I wouldn't want to know things like that.
00:01:00.620 I wouldn't want to know that it was coming.
00:01:02.980 I don't know.
00:01:04.000 I feel like...
00:01:04.720 I need a yes or no.
00:01:06.360 I need a yes or no.
00:01:07.640 Are you team stay or team go?
00:01:10.520 I think go.
00:01:11.960 Go?
00:01:12.300 Yeah, it's not very manly.
00:01:14.080 It's not manly to cheat?
00:01:16.280 No, I guess...
00:01:17.520 You don't think it's manly to sleep with multiple women?
00:01:21.700 It's like a masculine trait?
00:01:23.880 I guess so.
00:01:25.720 You know what?
00:01:26.160 The more I hear it,
00:01:27.140 the more I feel like,
00:01:27.920 you know what?
00:01:28.280 I'm going to have to accept that
00:01:29.460 if I want a high value man,
00:01:32.080 if I want a man,
00:01:33.800 they're going to exercise the options.
00:01:35.700 How do I feel about that?
00:01:36.980 I don't know.
00:01:37.880 But I guess it seems like
00:01:40.140 the reality that we live in.
00:01:43.180 So, I don't know.
00:01:44.780 It's hard.
00:01:45.800 Do you think she should date a footballer
00:01:48.220 and expect him to be faithful?
00:01:49.720 Is that a good bet?
00:01:50.340 Do you know what?
00:01:56.100 Do you know what?
00:01:56.740 I think this might be my idea
00:01:59.140 of a high value man.
00:02:00.360 I don't know about everyone else's opinion.
00:02:02.000 But my idea of a high value man
00:02:04.600 is that you have to be so certain in yourself
00:02:08.640 and closed off
00:02:10.080 because I don't consider high value
00:02:13.040 if everybody else can have you.
00:02:15.600 Because why would you want something
00:02:17.140 that everybody else can have?
00:02:18.300 That's not special.
00:02:19.260 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:20.400 Do you see what I mean?
00:02:21.400 Then why do women keep sleeping with them?
00:02:24.080 If women in general don't...
00:02:26.000 Sleeping with them knowing
00:02:27.380 that he's a cheater,
00:02:29.500 a serial cheater or not knowing.
00:02:30.900 Do you think women sleep with Drake
00:02:32.200 and are worried about his monogamy?
00:02:34.180 Do you think Drake has a shortage of women?
00:02:36.400 No, absolutely not.
00:02:37.520 I don't.
00:02:37.840 I think he's got a whole reel of girls
00:02:40.000 that he could just call up
00:02:41.060 and be like,
00:02:41.620 yo, you're trying to slide or what.
00:02:43.500 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:44.320 So would you say in general,
00:02:46.180 high value men do tend to cheat
00:02:48.020 and women don't care?
00:02:50.220 I think it comes down
00:02:52.020 to the type of guy that person is.
00:02:53.960 If you're that guy saying,
00:02:55.300 yeah, I'm high valued,
00:02:57.000 I'm high valued.
00:02:59.420 Are you though?
00:03:00.620 Are you?
00:03:02.240 Yes.
00:03:03.240 Usually if they're rich enough
00:03:04.680 and famous enough
00:03:05.660 and successful enough, yeah.
00:03:06.840 That's when you decide
00:03:08.160 is high value meaning your success,
00:03:10.260 what you can provide,
00:03:11.260 who you can protect,
00:03:11.940 what you can do for your family,
00:03:12.940 what car you drive,
00:03:13.640 what house you live in
00:03:14.480 or is high valued
00:03:15.800 the way you're raised,
00:03:17.560 the morals your mum brought you up in.
00:03:19.860 I would say it's the men
00:03:21.060 that are the men that women pick.
00:03:23.580 Yeah, it's the market.
00:03:24.340 It's demand and supply, isn't it?
00:03:25.880 You know, you've got to look at
00:03:26.700 what is the market demand.
00:03:28.000 If everybody,
00:03:28.740 if all these women
00:03:29.220 want to sleep with Drake,
00:03:30.340 then regardless of what
00:03:31.120 we may think of that,
00:03:32.060 that demand would indicate
00:03:33.520 that Drake is high value.
00:03:35.580 Spoiler alert,
00:03:36.280 I'm a sex worker
00:03:37.340 so that means
00:03:39.240 I get paid to
00:03:40.280 have men that cheat
00:03:42.200 on their wives
00:03:43.500 or their girlfriends
00:03:46.200 and I get them
00:03:47.240 every single day.
00:03:49.340 Most of the time
00:03:49.860 they do it with a sex worker
00:03:51.560 because they feel like
00:03:52.340 there's no strings attached
00:03:54.740 to it
00:03:55.960 and
00:03:57.060 they're a lot.
00:04:00.160 Most of the time
00:04:00.960 I don't even see
00:04:02.420 the WhatsApp picture
00:04:03.500 on their number
00:04:04.860 because they have
00:04:05.580 a wife and kids
00:04:06.540 but then when they come to you
00:04:08.760 and then they feel like
00:04:09.500 too comfortable enough
00:04:11.680 they're going to tell you
00:04:12.460 even like the story
00:04:13.200 of their life
00:04:13.840 and most of the time
00:04:16.580 there's like
00:04:17.640 a very lonely man
00:04:20.320 inside of a marriage.
00:04:23.160 I'm not saying
00:04:24.160 like cheating
00:04:24.840 it's a good thing
00:04:26.120 because it's not.
00:04:27.240 I've been in a relationship
00:04:28.380 and I've been cheated as well
00:04:30.120 even though I'm a sex worker
00:04:31.860 and even like
00:04:33.640 my job
00:04:34.920 has been used
00:04:35.880 against me
00:04:36.840 from my exes
00:04:38.660 like
00:04:39.080 I was like
00:04:39.940 oh yeah
00:04:40.620 you shouldn't be caring
00:04:41.920 because you're a sex worker
00:04:43.440 so that's why I'm cheating
00:04:47.780 or that's why I'm having
00:04:49.780 like a free time around.
00:04:51.440 Do you think that's unfair?
00:04:52.140 I mean it's unfair
00:04:56.320 from my point of view
00:04:58.320 yes
00:04:59.280 because as I said
00:05:00.400 it's my job
00:05:01.600 and like
00:05:02.940 if I go into a relationship
00:05:04.180 to get to know someone new
00:05:06.480 I always like
00:05:08.020 a disclaimer
00:05:08.940 I'm this
00:05:09.780 this is me
00:05:11.180 so you let them know up front
00:05:12.420 yeah
00:05:12.740 always
00:05:13.660 but you're still having sex at work
00:05:15.920 yeah
00:05:17.200 but like
00:05:17.700 that's my job
00:05:18.500 yeah
00:05:19.360 but it doesn't take away
00:05:20.320 that you're sleeping with other people
00:05:21.640 yeah
00:05:22.280 but I get paid
00:05:22.920 no
00:05:23.540 so I had
00:05:24.220 a question more about
00:05:26.080 the men that cheat on their wives
00:05:28.100 yeah
00:05:28.420 but that's why
00:05:29.060 would you
00:05:29.540 would you say those men
00:05:31.020 would you
00:05:33.700 are they
00:05:34.100 like what percent
00:05:34.860 would you say
00:05:35.320 are in like sexless marriages
00:05:36.660 out of every
00:05:38.240 like
00:05:38.440 maybe
00:05:38.700 like around a 75%
00:05:40.580 really
00:05:41.060 yes
00:05:41.420 wow
00:05:41.740 because like
00:05:43.360 most of the time
00:05:44.420 is like
00:05:44.880 oh we've got kids
00:05:45.940 after the third kids
00:05:48.340 like
00:05:48.680 the sparkle
00:05:50.760 wasn't there anymore
00:05:51.520 and then
00:05:53.120 she stopped sleeping with him
00:05:54.600 or it's mutual
00:05:55.460 it's mutual
00:05:56.380 most of the time
00:05:57.380 then like
00:05:58.060 in most of cases
00:05:59.840 like
00:06:00.320 it's
00:06:00.880 her
00:06:01.900 not
00:06:02.720 feeling comfortable
00:06:04.500 with herself
00:06:05.300 enough
00:06:05.920 to go to the men
00:06:07.560 most of the time as well
00:06:08.800 because like
00:06:09.260 they get
00:06:09.860 you know like
00:06:11.320 I think like
00:06:12.020 the self esteem
00:06:13.300 of a woman
00:06:13.940 depends as well
00:06:14.660 on the environment
00:06:15.680 you've got at home
00:06:16.660 like
00:06:18.080 yeah
00:06:19.000 I need to love myself
00:06:20.640 to love someone else
00:06:22.120 like
00:06:22.500 if as well
00:06:22.940 like the men
00:06:23.820 with whom I'm living with
00:06:25.620 doesn't make me feel love
00:06:27.560 I agree with that
00:06:29.300 I think that's
00:06:29.920 where I'm team go
00:06:31.000 I think I'm team go
00:06:32.560 because I think
00:06:33.360 as a woman
00:06:33.960 if you can sense
00:06:35.200 that your man
00:06:35.900 isn't being faithful
00:06:36.900 no matter how much
00:06:39.160 self love
00:06:39.700 we give ourselves
00:06:40.400 we automatically
00:06:41.680 think
00:06:42.440 what's wrong with me
00:06:44.000 why am I not good enough
00:06:45.240 what do I
00:06:45.860 what does she have
00:06:46.540 that I don't
00:06:47.220 this this this
00:06:47.920 all these thoughts
00:06:49.020 run through our brain
00:06:50.080 and that knocks
00:06:51.560 your confidence
00:06:52.100 so obviously like
00:06:53.320 you can't be
00:06:54.200 in a happy home
00:06:55.040 in a happy environment
00:06:55.780 no matter what
00:06:56.640 your husband brings
00:06:57.340 to the table
00:06:57.900 that does something
00:06:59.980 to a person mentally
00:07:01.000 and that's why
00:07:01.580 I'm just team go
00:07:02.500 sorry
00:07:03.460 team go
00:07:04.080 what about you
00:07:04.600 I mean
00:07:06.220 I agree with Rue
00:07:07.660 in terms of
00:07:09.180 like a high value
00:07:11.060 man
00:07:11.440 I think
00:07:12.460 it depends
00:07:13.140 of what you
00:07:14.000 call like
00:07:14.740 class that as
00:07:15.680 because if you're
00:07:16.280 going around
00:07:16.600 saying I'm a high
00:07:17.060 value man
00:07:17.540 are you really
00:07:18.540 if you're just
00:07:19.200 going around
00:07:19.660 doing anything
00:07:20.240 that you would
00:07:20.900 want to do
00:07:21.440 I feel like
00:07:22.320 yeah
00:07:22.520 they still are
00:07:23.540 they still are
00:07:24.560 high value men
00:07:25.360 no they still are
00:07:26.200 yeah but
00:07:26.720 so I feel like
00:07:27.580 so you say
00:07:28.060 are you really
00:07:28.620 and the answer
00:07:29.140 is yes
00:07:29.600 they still are
00:07:30.340 but who says
00:07:31.180 this
00:07:31.700 the women
00:07:32.640 by picking
00:07:33.540 them
00:07:33.820 through sex
00:07:34.840 I get that
00:07:36.960 sometimes
00:07:37.420 women don't
00:07:38.440 live
00:07:39.040 extremely clear
00:07:41.520 I just don't
00:07:44.580 so I would say
00:07:45.060 like if Drake
00:07:45.780 went out and said
00:07:46.440 I'm a high value
00:07:47.180 man I would say
00:07:48.020 yes
00:07:48.820 he is
00:07:49.740 because he has
00:07:50.340 a plethora of
00:07:51.160 women
00:07:51.440 but then it goes
00:07:53.440 back to what you
00:07:54.340 deem a high
00:07:55.360 valued man
00:07:56.480 yeah but you're
00:07:57.200 you're just trying
00:07:57.840 to shift the
00:07:58.300 definition of
00:07:59.220 high value man
00:07:59.960 you're trying
00:08:00.560 to make it
00:08:00.880 more cuddly
00:08:01.340 and friendly
00:08:01.760 like oh
00:08:02.360 he's a really
00:08:02.800 nice guy
00:08:03.440 he's like
00:08:03.920 super honourable
00:08:04.700 and blah blah blah
00:08:05.360 but the truth
00:08:06.180 of the matter
00:08:06.440 is like
00:08:06.940 as Paul said
00:08:07.720 I mean if the
00:08:08.160 market is selecting
00:08:08.980 for guys
00:08:09.700 like that
00:08:10.600 like Drake
00:08:11.420 that that indicates
00:08:12.860 that he's high value
00:08:13.760 in the definition
00:08:14.980 that's most commonly
00:08:15.820 accepted
00:08:16.360 okay so if you
00:08:17.840 revert it back
00:08:18.740 to like
00:08:19.360 say
00:08:19.820 say you have
00:08:21.220 a daughter right
00:08:21.940 she turns 18
00:08:23.240 she comes to you
00:08:23.820 and says dad
00:08:24.380 listen I've started
00:08:25.180 dating this guy
00:08:26.060 things happen
00:08:27.500 he's dating
00:08:29.160 whoever
00:08:29.540 he's sleeping
00:08:30.060 with whoever
00:08:30.640 would you
00:08:31.320 deem him
00:08:31.960 a high value
00:08:32.760 fan
00:08:33.200 I wouldn't be
00:08:35.900 happy
00:08:36.060 I'm sure
00:08:36.860 I wouldn't
00:08:37.260 I'm sure
00:08:37.840 I wouldn't
00:08:38.060 be happy
00:08:38.360 about that
00:08:38.720 in that
00:08:39.080 scenario
00:08:39.540 but that
00:08:39.980 doesn't
00:08:40.400 that doesn't
00:08:41.080 detract
00:08:41.480 from the
00:08:41.860 fact that
00:08:42.320 in terms
00:08:42.880 of
00:08:43.220 societally
00:08:44.120 that dude
00:08:44.580 is still
00:08:44.940 gonna be
00:08:45.240 if he was
00:08:45.580 Drake
00:08:45.880 or somebody
00:08:46.240 like that
00:08:46.640 he's still
00:08:47.020 gonna be
00:08:47.260 regarded
00:08:47.680 generally
00:08:48.400 as high
00:08:48.760 value
00:08:49.020 I mean
00:08:49.320 my feelings
00:08:49.860 as the
00:08:50.160 father
00:08:50.440 would not
00:08:50.860 really
00:08:51.180 undermine
00:08:52.360 that
00:08:52.660 if my
00:08:53.040 daughter
00:08:53.340 came home
00:08:53.860 with Drake
00:08:54.460 or
00:08:55.220 I don't
00:08:56.560 know
00:08:57.020 that's so
00:08:57.360 what
00:08:58.120 or was
00:09:01.720 dating a
00:09:02.200 footballer
00:09:02.880 I would
00:09:03.420 say what
00:09:03.620 did you
00:09:03.820 expect
00:09:04.400 like
00:09:05.000 you see
00:09:06.340 them in
00:09:06.600 the media
00:09:07.000 they all
00:09:07.520 cheat
00:09:07.900 usually
00:09:08.800 yeah
00:09:09.440 typically
00:09:10.380 when men
00:09:10.960 can cheat
00:09:11.580 they do
00:09:12.300 and I
00:09:14.380 don't know
00:09:14.740 why you
00:09:15.060 would expect
00:09:15.640 a man
00:09:16.120 that has
00:09:17.080 beautiful
00:09:17.880 women thrown
00:09:18.400 at him
00:09:18.740 every single
00:09:19.380 day to be
00:09:19.800 faithful
00:09:20.140 and if you
00:09:20.820 don't want
00:09:21.140 that why
00:09:21.420 would you
00:09:21.620 pick a
00:09:21.880 footballer
00:09:22.240 as many
00:09:22.600 of you
00:09:22.820 know
00:09:23.020 I was
00:09:23.340 just
00:09:23.760 banned
00:09:24.240 on
00:09:24.700 tiktok
00:09:25.500 and we
00:09:26.020 are
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00:09:28.100 on this
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00:09:29.560 if you
00:09:30.600 want to
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00:09:31.240 please
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