JustPearlyThings - S3x Worker Exposes The Root Cause Of S3XLESS Marriages

00:00:00.000 is modern women should stay if high-value men cheat.

00:00:04.300 So there was a certain footballer that is in the news,

00:00:08.220 and he's in the news because his wife divorced him for cheating.

00:00:11.860 Oh, yeah.

00:00:13.260 However, all of the money was in his mom's name.

00:00:18.700 So in hindsight, being 20-20,

00:00:24.160 knowing that he was taking fully, 100% taking care of her,

00:00:28.440 should she have stayed,

00:00:30.000 why don't we start with the couch,

00:00:36.240 and then we'll get the women's opinions, 1.00

00:00:38.480 and then we'll get the men's.

00:00:39.540 So start here.

00:00:41.300 I don't know.

00:00:42.220 I think it's all about the principle.

00:00:45.020 I get that it's like 20-20 free.

00:00:48.200 I get that, I don't know,

00:00:50.320 we're moving towards more liberal times.

00:00:53.180 You've got to do what you've got to do.

00:00:54.780 But I just feel like,

00:00:57.180 if it was me,

00:00:58.920 I wouldn't want to know things like that.

00:01:00.620 I wouldn't want to know that it was coming.

00:01:02.980 I don't know.

00:01:04.000 I feel like...

00:01:04.720 I need a yes or no.

00:01:06.360 I need a yes or no.

00:01:07.640 Are you team stay or team go?

00:01:10.520 I think go.

00:01:11.960 Go?

00:01:12.300 Yeah, it's not very manly.

00:01:14.080 It's not manly to cheat?

00:01:16.280 No, I guess...

00:01:17.520 You don't think it's manly to sleep with multiple women? 1.00

00:01:21.700 It's like a masculine trait?

00:01:23.880 I guess so.

00:01:25.720 You know what?

00:01:26.160 The more I hear it,

00:01:27.140 the more I feel like,

00:01:27.920 you know what?

00:01:28.280 I'm going to have to accept that

00:01:29.460 if I want a high value man,

00:01:32.080 if I want a man, 0.83

00:01:33.800 they're going to exercise the options.

00:01:35.700 How do I feel about that?

00:01:36.980 I don't know.

00:01:37.880 But I guess it seems like

00:01:40.140 the reality that we live in.

00:01:43.180 So, I don't know.

00:01:44.780 It's hard.

00:01:45.800 Do you think she should date a footballer

00:01:48.220 and expect him to be faithful?

00:01:49.720 Is that a good bet?

00:01:50.340 Do you know what?

00:01:56.100 Do you know what?

00:01:56.740 I think this might be my idea

00:01:59.140 of a high value man.

00:02:00.360 I don't know about everyone else's opinion.

00:02:02.000 But my idea of a high value man

00:02:04.600 is that you have to be so certain in yourself

00:02:08.640 and closed off

00:02:10.080 because I don't consider high value

00:02:13.040 if everybody else can have you.

00:02:15.600 Because why would you want something

00:02:17.140 that everybody else can have?

00:02:18.300 That's not special.

00:02:19.260 Do you know what I mean?

00:02:20.400 Do you see what I mean?

00:02:21.400 Then why do women keep sleeping with them? 1.00

00:02:24.080 If women in general don't... 1.00

00:02:26.000 Sleeping with them knowing 0.99

00:02:27.380 that he's a cheater,

00:02:29.500 a serial cheater or not knowing. 0.56

00:02:30.900 Do you think women sleep with Drake 1.00

00:02:32.200 and are worried about his monogamy?

00:02:34.180 Do you think Drake has a shortage of women? 1.00

00:02:36.400 No, absolutely not.

00:02:37.520 I don't.

00:02:37.840 I think he's got a whole reel of girls 1.00

00:02:40.000 that he could just call up

00:02:41.060 and be like,

00:02:41.620 yo, you're trying to slide or what.

00:02:43.500 Do you know what I mean?

00:02:44.320 So would you say in general,

00:02:46.180 high value men do tend to cheat

00:02:48.020 and women don't care? 1.00

00:02:50.220 I think it comes down

00:02:52.020 to the type of guy that person is.

00:02:53.960 If you're that guy saying,

00:02:55.300 yeah, I'm high valued,

00:02:57.000 I'm high valued.

00:02:59.420 Are you though?

00:03:00.620 Are you?

00:03:02.240 Yes.

00:03:03.240 Usually if they're rich enough

00:03:04.680 and famous enough

00:03:05.660 and successful enough, yeah.

00:03:06.840 That's when you decide

00:03:08.160 is high value meaning your success,

00:03:10.260 what you can provide,

00:03:11.260 who you can protect,

00:03:11.940 what you can do for your family,

00:03:12.940 what car you drive,

00:03:13.640 what house you live in

00:03:14.480 or is high valued

00:03:15.800 the way you're raised,

00:03:17.560 the morals your mum brought you up in.

00:03:19.860 I would say it's the men

00:03:21.060 that are the men that women pick. 1.00

00:03:23.580 Yeah, it's the market.

00:03:24.340 It's demand and supply, isn't it?

00:03:25.880 You know, you've got to look at

00:03:26.700 what is the market demand.

00:03:28.000 If everybody,

00:03:28.740 if all these women 1.00

00:03:29.220 want to sleep with Drake,

00:03:30.340 then regardless of what

00:03:31.120 we may think of that,

00:03:32.060 that demand would indicate

00:03:33.520 that Drake is high value.

00:03:35.580 Spoiler alert, 0.96

00:03:36.280 I'm a sex worker

00:03:37.340 so that means

00:03:39.240 I get paid to

00:03:40.280 have men that cheat

00:03:42.200 on their wives 0.97

00:03:43.500 or their girlfriends

00:03:46.200 and I get them

00:03:47.240 every single day.

00:03:49.340 Most of the time

00:03:49.860 they do it with a sex worker 1.00

00:03:51.560 because they feel like

00:03:52.340 there's no strings attached

00:03:54.740 to it

00:03:55.960 and

00:03:57.060 they're a lot.

00:04:00.160 Most of the time

00:04:00.960 I don't even see

00:04:02.420 the WhatsApp picture

00:04:03.500 on their number

00:04:04.860 because they have

00:04:05.580 a wife and kids

00:04:06.540 but then when they come to you

00:04:08.760 and then they feel like

00:04:09.500 too comfortable enough

00:04:11.680 they're going to tell you

00:04:12.460 even like the story

00:04:13.200 of their life

00:04:13.840 and most of the time

00:04:16.580 there's like

00:04:17.640 a very lonely man

00:04:20.320 inside of a marriage.

00:04:23.160 I'm not saying

00:04:24.160 like cheating

00:04:24.840 it's a good thing

00:04:26.120 because it's not.

00:04:27.240 I've been in a relationship

00:04:28.380 and I've been cheated as well

00:04:30.120 even though I'm a sex worker

00:04:31.860 and even like

00:04:33.640 my job

00:04:34.920 has been used

00:04:35.880 against me

00:04:36.840 from my exes

00:04:38.660 like

00:04:39.080 I was like

00:04:39.940 oh yeah

00:04:40.620 you shouldn't be caring 1.00

00:04:41.920 because you're a sex worker 1.00

00:04:43.440 so that's why I'm cheating 0.99

00:04:47.780 or that's why I'm having

00:04:49.780 like a free time around.

00:04:51.440 Do you think that's unfair?

00:04:52.140 I mean it's unfair

00:04:56.320 from my point of view

00:04:58.320 yes

00:04:59.280 because as I said

00:05:00.400 it's my job

00:05:01.600 and like

00:05:02.940 if I go into a relationship

00:05:04.180 to get to know someone new

00:05:06.480 I always like

00:05:08.020 a disclaimer

00:05:08.940 I'm this

00:05:09.780 this is me

00:05:11.180 so you let them know up front

00:05:12.420 yeah

00:05:12.740 always 0.98

00:05:13.660 but you're still having sex at work 0.97

00:05:15.920 yeah 0.95

00:05:17.200 but like

00:05:17.700 that's my job

00:05:18.500 yeah

00:05:19.360 but it doesn't take away

00:05:20.320 that you're sleeping with other people

00:05:21.640 yeah

00:05:22.280 but I get paid

00:05:22.920 no

00:05:23.540 so I had

00:05:24.220 a question more about

00:05:26.080 the men that cheat on their wives

00:05:28.100 yeah

00:05:28.420 but that's why

00:05:29.060 would you

00:05:29.540 would you say those men

00:05:31.020 would you

00:05:33.700 are they

00:05:34.100 like what percent

00:05:34.860 would you say

00:05:35.320 are in like sexless marriages

00:05:36.660 out of every

00:05:38.240 like

00:05:38.440 maybe

00:05:38.700 like around a 75%

00:05:40.580 really

00:05:41.060 yes

00:05:41.420 wow

00:05:41.740 because like

00:05:43.360 most of the time

00:05:44.420 is like

00:05:44.880 oh we've got kids

00:05:45.940 after the third kids

00:05:48.340 like

00:05:48.680 the sparkle

00:05:50.760 wasn't there anymore

00:05:51.520 and then

00:05:53.120 she stopped sleeping with him

00:05:54.600 or it's mutual

00:05:55.460 it's mutual

00:05:56.380 most of the time

00:05:57.380 then like

00:05:58.060 in most of cases

00:05:59.840 like

00:06:00.320 it's

00:06:00.880 her

00:06:01.900 not

00:06:02.720 feeling comfortable

00:06:04.500 with herself

00:06:05.300 enough

00:06:05.920 to go to the men

00:06:07.560 most of the time as well

00:06:08.800 because like

00:06:09.260 they get

00:06:09.860 you know like

00:06:11.320 I think like

00:06:12.020 the self esteem

00:06:13.300 of a woman

00:06:13.940 depends as well

00:06:14.660 on the environment

00:06:15.680 you've got at home

00:06:16.660 like

00:06:18.080 yeah

00:06:19.000 I need to love myself

00:06:20.640 to love someone else

00:06:22.120 like

00:06:22.500 if as well

00:06:22.940 like the men

00:06:23.820 with whom I'm living with

00:06:25.620 doesn't make me feel love

00:06:27.560 I agree with that

00:06:29.300 I think that's

00:06:29.920 where I'm team go

00:06:31.000 I think I'm team go

00:06:32.560 because I think

00:06:33.360 as a woman

00:06:33.960 if you can sense

00:06:35.200 that your man

00:06:35.900 isn't being faithful

00:06:36.900 no matter how much

00:06:39.160 self love

00:06:39.700 we give ourselves

00:06:40.400 we automatically

00:06:41.680 think

00:06:42.440 what's wrong with me

00:06:44.000 why am I not good enough

00:06:45.240 what do I

00:06:45.860 what does she have

00:06:46.540 that I don't

00:06:47.220 this this this

00:06:47.920 all these thoughts

00:06:49.020 run through our brain

00:06:50.080 and that knocks

00:06:51.560 your confidence

00:06:52.100 so obviously like

00:06:53.320 you can't be

00:06:54.200 in a happy home

00:06:55.040 in a happy environment

00:06:55.780 no matter what

00:06:56.640 your husband brings 0.69

00:06:57.340 to the table

00:06:57.900 that does something

00:06:59.980 to a person mentally

00:07:01.000 and that's why

00:07:01.580 I'm just team go

00:07:02.500 sorry

00:07:03.460 team go

00:07:04.080 what about you

00:07:04.600 I mean

00:07:06.220 I agree with Rue

00:07:07.660 in terms of

00:07:09.180 like a high value

00:07:11.060 man

00:07:11.440 I think

00:07:12.460 it depends

00:07:13.140 of what you

00:07:14.000 call like

00:07:14.740 class that as

00:07:15.680 because if you're

00:07:16.280 going around

00:07:16.600 saying I'm a high

00:07:17.060 value man

00:07:17.540 are you really

00:07:18.540 if you're just

00:07:19.200 going around

00:07:19.660 doing anything

00:07:20.240 that you would

00:07:20.900 want to do

00:07:21.440 I feel like

00:07:22.320 yeah

00:07:22.520 they still are

00:07:23.540 they still are

00:07:24.560 high value men

00:07:25.360 no they still are

00:07:26.200 yeah but

00:07:26.720 so I feel like

00:07:27.580 so you say

00:07:28.060 are you really

00:07:28.620 and the answer

00:07:29.140 is yes

00:07:29.600 they still are

00:07:30.340 but who says

00:07:31.180 this

00:07:31.700 the women 0.97

00:07:32.640 by picking

00:07:33.540 them 0.98

00:07:33.820 through sex 1.00

00:07:34.840 I get that 0.81

00:07:36.960 sometimes

00:07:37.420 women don't 1.00

00:07:38.440 live

00:07:39.040 extremely clear

00:07:41.520 I just don't

00:07:44.580 so I would say

00:07:45.060 like if Drake

00:07:45.780 went out and said

00:07:46.440 I'm a high value

00:07:47.180 man I would say

00:07:48.020 yes

00:07:48.820 he is

00:07:49.740 because he has

00:07:50.340 a plethora of

00:07:51.160 women 1.00

00:07:51.440 but then it goes

00:07:53.440 back to what you

00:07:54.340 deem a high

00:07:55.360 valued man

00:07:56.480 yeah but you're

00:07:57.200 you're just trying

00:07:57.840 to shift the

00:07:58.300 definition of

00:07:59.220 high value man

00:07:59.960 you're trying

00:08:00.560 to make it

00:08:00.880 more cuddly

00:08:01.340 and friendly

00:08:01.760 like oh

00:08:02.360 he's a really

00:08:02.800 nice guy

00:08:03.440 he's like

00:08:03.920 super honourable

00:08:04.700 and blah blah blah

00:08:05.360 but the truth

00:08:06.180 of the matter

00:08:06.440 is like

00:08:06.940 as Paul said

00:08:07.720 I mean if the

00:08:08.160 market is selecting

00:08:08.980 for guys

00:08:09.700 like that

00:08:10.600 like Drake

00:08:11.420 that that indicates

00:08:12.860 that he's high value

00:08:13.760 in the definition

00:08:14.980 that's most commonly

00:08:15.820 accepted

00:08:16.360 okay so if you

00:08:17.840 revert it back

00:08:18.740 to like

00:08:19.360 say

00:08:19.820 say you have

00:08:21.220 a daughter right

00:08:21.940 she turns 18

00:08:23.240 she comes to you

00:08:23.820 and says dad

00:08:24.380 listen I've started

00:08:25.180 dating this guy

00:08:26.060 things happen

00:08:27.500 he's dating

00:08:29.160 whoever

00:08:29.540 he's sleeping

00:08:30.060 with whoever

00:08:30.640 would you

00:08:31.320 deem him

00:08:31.960 a high value

00:08:32.760 fan

00:08:33.200 I wouldn't be

00:08:35.900 happy

00:08:36.060 I'm sure

00:08:36.860 I wouldn't

00:08:37.260 I'm sure

00:08:37.840 I wouldn't

00:08:38.060 be happy

00:08:38.360 about that

00:08:38.720 in that

00:08:39.080 scenario

00:08:39.540 but that

00:08:39.980 doesn't

00:08:40.400 that doesn't

00:08:41.080 detract

00:08:41.480 from the

00:08:41.860 fact that

00:08:42.320 in terms

00:08:42.880 of

00:08:43.220 societally

00:08:44.120 that dude

00:08:44.580 is still

00:08:44.940 gonna be

00:08:45.240 if he was

00:08:45.580 Drake

00:08:45.880 or somebody

00:08:46.240 like that

00:08:46.640 he's still

00:08:47.020 gonna be

00:08:47.260 regarded

00:08:47.680 generally

00:08:48.400 as high

00:08:48.760 value

00:08:49.020 I mean

00:08:49.320 my feelings

00:08:49.860 as the

00:08:50.160 father

00:08:50.440 would not

00:08:50.860 really

00:08:51.180 undermine

00:08:52.360 that

00:08:52.660 if my

00:08:53.040 daughter

00:08:53.340 came home

00:08:53.860 with Drake

00:08:54.460 or

00:08:55.220 I don't

00:08:56.560 know

00:08:57.020 that's so

00:08:57.360 what

00:08:58.120 or was

00:09:01.720 dating a

00:09:02.200 footballer

00:09:02.880 I would

00:09:03.420 say what

00:09:03.620 did you

00:09:03.820 expect

00:09:04.400 like

00:09:05.000 you see

00:09:06.340 them in

00:09:06.600 the media

00:09:07.000 they all

00:09:07.520 cheat

00:09:07.900 usually

00:09:08.800 yeah

00:09:09.440 typically

00:09:10.380 when men

00:09:10.960 can cheat

00:09:11.580 they do

00:09:12.300 and I

00:09:14.380 don't know

00:09:14.740 why you

00:09:15.060 would expect

00:09:15.640 a man

00:09:16.120 that has

00:09:17.080 beautiful

00:09:17.880 women thrown 1.00

00:09:18.400 at him 0.96

00:09:18.740 every single

00:09:19.380 day to be

00:09:19.800 faithful

00:09:20.140 and if you

00:09:20.820 don't want

00:09:21.140 that why

00:09:21.420 would you

00:09:21.620 pick a

00:09:21.880 footballer

00:09:22.240 as many

00:09:22.600 of you

00:09:22.820 know

00:09:23.020 I was

00:09:23.340 just

00:09:23.760 banned

00:09:24.240 on

00:09:24.700 tiktok

00:09:25.500 and we

00:09:26.020 are

00:09:26.180 demonetized

00:09:26.860 on a

00:09:27.360 daily

00:09:27.640 basis

00:09:28.100 on this

00:09:28.900 platform

00:09:29.560 if you

00:09:30.600 want to

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00:09:31.240 please

00:09:31.660 consider

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JustPearlyThings - May 19, 2023

S3x Worker Exposes The Root Cause Of S3XLESS Marriages

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