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Summary
In this episode of Pearly Things, we discuss the concept of hooflation and how it relates to modern men. Do you think it's a good or bad thing that modern men work five times harder than their grandfathers? Is it better than what their grandmothers were?
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hoflation yes but before we get into that we're gonna do intro so everybody do your
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name your age your relationship status and a fun fact about yourself starting
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here and then going around oh gosh my name is Melissa Todd I'm 46 I'm married and
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I've been a sex worker now for 27 years wow how's that you're married as a sex
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worker is that like the first question people ask usually when you announce
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that possibly yeah top 10 okay good hi I'm Shanayla James I'm an artist I'm 28 no
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29 now not me forget my age but anyway um happens to all of us yeah no you just
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kind of losing count what kind of artist a musician okay like guitar singing I
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sing okay cool yeah I'm a rapper so I get it yeah are you laughing I don't get the
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joke oh no no no no is it funny do I stutter no no no rap girl thank you go
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ahead hi I'm Chantelle and I'm 20 and I'm also a student okay what are you
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studying nursing cool I'm Rebecca I'm 30 name age relationship status fun fact um I'm in a
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relationship fun fact um I don't like pigeons you don't like pigeons I do not
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like pigeons sorry I do not like pigeons yeah this is Kevin I'm a business
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entrepreneur I own silverback group and also um I rap I'm an artist um 32 um fun fact I speak
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four different languages wow what four uh speak Dutch um because I lived in Holland my okay my
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parents live in Holland I was brought up in Holland and I speak tree which is my
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original language I'm from Ghana originally and I speak English and I was to speak
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guapanese wow yeah that's impressive you know I'm gonna ask what's guapanese but yeah
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cool we let that fly yeah it's just money just money guapanese oh okay yeah okay right then me too
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yeah go ahead hi I'm Claire and I'm mature I'm an actress and I am the owner of any occasion
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florist can we speak into the mic please can you bring it close to your mouth sorry hi yeah my name
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is Claire I'm mature I'm an actress and I own a florist online um any occasion
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a florist you said florist a florist I think he's a forest no no I'm a florist why do you why do you
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say mature are you embarrassed of your age no I'm not embarrassed of my age but a lady never gives
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their age away oh really I feel like that's what people say when they're old maybe all right go
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ahead it's interrogation boss and I'm 25 and fun fact about me is I was born in a yellow mercedes
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no no okay um so today's topic hoflation yes so does anyone know what hoflation is
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no you've never heard of this topic okay so this is something that has been going around online
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that the men have been saying modern men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers did
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for women 20 times worse than what their grandmothers were it's called hoflation
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do you guys think that's true no no extraordinary idea worse in what way better in what way
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um I would say worse in that we offer less kids we're more promiscuous we're fatter and um I would
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just say in general most people like a third of us didn't grow up in two-parent homes so a lot of us
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weren't trained or like told how to be a wife oh okay well I don't think being promiscuous makes
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you necessarily worse and I think probably fewer children is a good idea oh less kids is good yeah
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I think so because the world's imploding so you know the world so what about like the replacement
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birth rate yeah well again I think less is definitely better than more okay who who would
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fill the jobs oh there's enough of us for that I'm sure AI as well also of course okay the robots
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will do it okay but what about like building the buildings oh running the infrastructure you know
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45 percent of men are in infrastructure jobs so okay I'm sure robots will help with that okay robots
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yeah all right so f them kids yeah all right all right all right all right what uh what about you
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do you think that's true uh repeat again because I'm not gonna lie okay it's all right I got you I got
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you modern men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers did for women 20 times worse than
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what their grandmothers were yeah I just don't I don't what even is that like how okay what do
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what do men want they want a woman that supports them okay do you think women today are more supportive
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than our grandmothers to be honest I don't know whose grandma was what back in the day okay what about
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what about what about your grandma I know that it all depends on the person that you are I mean
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there's I'm gonna I'm gonna make one caveat for the show I'm sorry to cut you I'm gonna let you
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finish I'm gonna say no it depends I'm banning it depends I'm banned it like we have to pick a side
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just so we can this is a conversation in general not for everyone so we're just talking about the
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average man average woman but sorry go ahead okay well um now I've been thrown off because I'm just
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thinking of a bit more of a so you said support you said support like men want support and I agree
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with you yeah do you think women today are more supportive than our grandmothers some of them ain't
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supportive at all some of them want everything just handed to them okay without doing anything
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okay I wasn't about to swear so then you would you would agree with this then right
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yes yes to a certain extent to a certain extent to a certain extent okay go ahead I agree you agree
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tell me why I well of course with inflation and everything I do believe that men are working 10
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times if not 20 times harder than our grandfathers did and definitely as women we are offering a bit
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less especially with the lives we have today in what way do we offer less we always want less kids
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because we want a career before we even want to enter marriage by the time we enter marriage we
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don't really have the capacity to bear as many children as the men would like so yeah okay um I would
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agree as well with who with the statement okay um yeah because I find that women actually want too
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much which is why men have to work harder okay yeah how do women typically want too much well not
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necessarily too much but they want a lot more now than they wanted back then okay what do we want
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today that we didn't want yesterday pretty much everything can we list a couple things I'll give
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you one I don't know if six foot was on the table a hundred years ago I don't know if that's what the
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the grandmothers and great-grandmothers were like you need a man that's six foot they need to drive
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they need to have the good job they need to have the money and the expenses to be able to afford the
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woman okay so I feel like that's what a lot of women in society want do you think men do you think
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men used to have to afford a woman no you know a little bit yes but not as much as I don't think
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it was asked for as much okay as it is now you think a woman was more willing to work with a man
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yeah okay what do you think um well I'm not sure if it's the correct term to use hopefully and I also
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feel like it's been the same it's just more amplified now because we can see it like for example
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if my parents or let's say my grandparents had an issue I would never find out like I'm finding out
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things now what my granddad did after he passed but now I think things are more transparent because
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on social media what happened in in LA I think we are sort of easy to to to get information
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rather than how it was before I think women have been the same uh and men have also been the same
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I think the only difference is we we can see it now is the problems have been more um magnified than
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the worst back then did your grandma stay with your grandpa yeah he did but she did so do do women
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today stay with their husbands um not many no so wouldn't you say it's different I think it's
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different um it's not different as in what the perception of it my grandmother stayed but don't
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mean that she was fully happy with the situation right but she committed through it all but I feel
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like women lately sort of feel like why do I need to stay in misery if I can just go and if I can just
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capitalize on on life itself let's say my grandmother didn't have that um that space or that that world
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to even navigate through freely um freely as a woman to even you know just do things for herself
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so I guess she felt more dependent she couldn't do things for herself I mean not that she couldn't it's
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just the world wouldn't allow her to navigate through life as it is now they wouldn't allow her to
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navigate yeah through life I say this is what do you mean allow allow a scene for example this is
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book I read I think it's got a thousand a thousand candles in the sand I'm not sure but it's to do
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with something happening happening in um Afghanistan where this woman this woman weren't allowed to
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travel about a man being with them so imagine just imagine coming from that world how are you
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supposed to leave your husband you can't even go to the shop without being um being with a male figure
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they wouldn't allow you you get sent back home what what was the reason for that law it was I don't know
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it's just well because the world well the world used to be a more dangerous place too
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it's so dangerous not right but I'm saying like we have institutions that protect women that depending
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on the time period and where you were in the world didn't always exist like the police force like legal
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systems that could you know what I'm saying so it was sometimes we judge like laws of the past by the
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times of today you know what I mean so I don't know that law I was just asking it's not I don't think
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it's a law I think just more culturally this is this is in Afghanistan this is a book I read
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oh okay about 1920 okay is the girl that wrote the book was actually in the story that she was telling
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about I just feel like well I just when I hear allow like it sounds like we couldn't work back
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then and we could no it could work but I'm just saying back to your you saying that did my grandmother
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stay yeah and I'm trying to bring it back is maybe if she had opportunity to go out there and
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navigate as how women can today right you know she may have not stayed so it's a circumstances but
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I feel like the world has always been a bit terrifying for for just I guess just people not
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knowing how to stay together I feel like men have been men and women have been women but just not
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women didn't have the platform to say what they're saying now