JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


Sales Taught Pearl This Fact About Men


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Length

8 minutes

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218.93346

Word count

1,790

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

sentences flagged

Hate speech

9

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about gender equality in the workplace and the challenges faced by women in the construction industry. We also discuss the Red Pill and what it means to be a woman in a male-dominated workplace.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 like there are some women that are maybe at the more masculine end of the scale that do really 0.57
00:00:04.300 thrive in that kind of environment right and i say have them do it but have them do it like
00:00:09.220 naturally right yeah so without pushing them into it yes and that's what i think i can get on board
00:00:14.100 with that and that's what i think i think the feminists that are trying to make it equal in 1.00
00:00:18.320 like engineering and all these fields i think that's a meme and i think i think it harms the
00:00:22.800 women because we spend all this money and then we find out we don't even like this yeah oh no 1.00
00:00:28.400 just going to be a stay-at-home mom now but i think it's still good for there to be like
00:00:32.720 equal access to the opportunities so you know not necessarily pushing people into it or like
00:00:37.880 forcing them in with money or like any kind of incentive but i think it would still be nice for
00:00:42.560 there to be like equal opportunities to do those things if they want to there is but do you think
00:00:48.840 a woman feels comfortable going into like a construction how does her feeling comfortable
00:00:52.740 having to do with there being equal access that's the that's because i feel like surely if they if
00:00:57.780 they don't feel comfortable to go into it then they can't necessarily i'll tell you i'll tell you
00:01:01.100 a lot of men don't feel comfortable going to the gym a lot of men don't feel comfortable i don't
00:01:04.420 think anyone feels comfortable exactly so that's a personal problem it has nothing to do with reality
00:01:09.100 but i think if they're going to face like gender-based violence or like harassment or anything to do
00:01:12.880 with that then that could be maybe an issue that would stop why would you go to that as the
00:01:17.700 argument like if they are going to face they might feel like they're more likely to face like
00:01:22.240 gender-based harassment though like a woman walking into like a construction 0.99
00:01:25.100 personal problems but i mean if you've been catcalled on the construction site the day before
00:01:28.980 and then you're you're walking into a construction classroom with the same kind of people are you
00:01:33.200 going to feel comfortable doing that as a woman you're conflicting two different things because
00:01:38.620 first of all you're saying if you've been catcalled so does it mean that the the construction site she
00:01:44.500 was catcalled on is the site she's going to walk on no but you might it's like you might then kind of i guess
00:01:50.780 if something like that happens to you you might then kind of view it fruit have you ever have you
00:01:55.680 ever been in um in like a situation where like have you ever been on like a job site of a construction
00:02:02.300 like me working not just like walking by like actually interacting oh no no so so i used to sell
00:02:08.140 plumbing tech yeah okay so i used to sell like parts to plumbers basically like the pipe hangers on
00:02:14.300 plumb yeah just very unique but whatever and so yeah and so what we would do is we would go to the
00:02:20.020 schools and we would teach them how to use our product so it was me and a room full of men and
00:02:25.340 we were like here you go and what i couldn't believe was going to these they're like training
00:02:31.380 centers was how mean men are to each other when we're not around right yeah they bully each other
00:02:37.300 they make fun of each other they harass each other but men don't whine right so what women do 1.00
00:02:43.920 is they expect to go in the men's space and not get harassed bullied yeah but you feel like they're
00:02:50.640 just treating them equally in the same way that they're treating the men right yes that's a really
00:02:55.120 interesting and so what happens is women say let me into the man's world yeah and then the men say
00:03:00.240 okay come into our world and they say no no not like that you can't do that this is all wrong and 0.90
00:03:06.020 then my thing is if you're gonna go into a man's world like that would be like me being in the red pill
00:03:11.180 space yeah and saying i don't like the way the men are talking then get out but then i'm kind of
00:03:16.260 my point was you know if it's gender-based harassment so if it's like groping or anything
00:03:21.840 like that do you feel like that's kind of a different story too if they're just like you know
00:03:26.160 having a joke is there well one my first question is do men get gender-based harassment yes so men get
00:03:33.960 bullied much harder by other men than they would ever do to a woman yeah i think a woman in a male
00:03:39.600 workplace is going to get way more favors yeah and also is that because it's for like sexual gain 0.99
00:03:45.680 from their boss or whatever well i think all men will let sleep with you if you let them yeah pretty
00:03:50.760 much yeah just yeah you know uh if you're half attractive anyway um i don't think men should
00:03:57.300 be grabbing you at work yeah so we could do a no touching the women policy but a lot of times 1.00
00:04:03.080 women will be flirting with the men right they'll have their boobs out like half the time these chicks 1.00
00:04:09.640 are dressed like hookers right and then they're like well why did the men grab my well i mean it's
00:04:16.700 kind of confusing to the i know nowadays like the ass grabbing is like taboo the men don't even do it
00:04:23.480 anymore but like 10 15 years ago that used to be like you know like people just kind of like did that
00:04:29.420 you know what i mean like it's the environment's changed yeah and so the women will be half naked 1.00
00:04:34.320 yeah boobs out and then be like why are the men deserve to like have that kind of well i'm saying 0.54
00:04:40.040 it's mixed signals because you're signaling to the guy flirt with me hit on me and then say oh but
00:04:45.880 don't do it so do you feel like they're kind of asking for it in a way because of the way that
00:04:49.560 they're dressed i i would say they're signaling that they want it i would not say they're asking for
00:04:54.980 it i would say they're signaling like if i go out i i dress a different way when i go to work than if
00:05:01.420 i go out yeah you know and so and it i think one sends the signal of professionalism one sends that
00:05:09.460 you're going out to talk you know yeah but then i think most women don't go to the office like with 1.00
00:05:13.420 their boobs out like most people do wear like professional dress in the workplace surely really 1.00
00:05:18.360 is that like isn't there rules on that like skirt has to be like below the knee i don't know i've 0.91
00:05:21.980 never worked in an office but then so what happens when they say they give those dress codes do the
00:05:27.540 women say that's so reasonable or do they cry sexism well if it was equal for men and women if 0.97
00:05:32.360 the dress code was like an equal one then will they say it's reasonable if it was equal then yeah
00:05:38.420 do we have how can the dress could be equal when we don't wear the same things well just as in like
00:05:44.420 you know if they're saying that women have to wear a skirt for example and can't wear trousers
00:05:48.460 but like if a woman wants to wear trousers then she should be able to okay so my you know it's 1.00
00:05:53.740 funny my high school we had pants yeah and everybody had pants i went to catholic school
00:05:58.800 so we had uniforms oh nice and the issue was in the other high schools and the reason they did that
00:06:04.920 was because before they had skirts and the girls would roll them up yeah come on you all did it at
00:06:10.200 school yeah you can't make this shit up so you know women won't follow the dress code anyway 1.00
00:06:15.500 school yeah school is a professional environment right right yeah you're actually like people don't
00:06:21.060 hook up in the workplace you know what i mean it's like so they roll the skirts up and then the teachers
00:06:26.080 say hey you got to roll them down and how many times do we get videos on social media of the girls 1.00
00:06:31.120 saying oh this is sexist right okay well you want it to be in a man's world yeah and then they say okay
00:06:37.520 we don't want the attention from men we don't want to be harassed so they say okay let's protect you
00:06:42.460 from that here are some dress codes and they say well i don't want the dress codes i want my ass 0.99
00:06:46.680 out but then i feel like the dress code doesn't even protect you from that the amount of times i've
00:06:51.120 been like shouted out in the street catcalled when i'm literally wearing no makeup and sweats like i
00:06:55.560 wear no makeup on a daily basis and that's like when i get catcalled the most sometimes i feel like
00:07:00.160 it doesn't even they don't even pay like take into consideration what you're wearing well just wait
00:07:04.740 10 years you know you're still 25 you know what i mean my mom's 57 and she's still a cat i think
00:07:10.940 you're conflicting a bit a bit of the argument because the reality is how many we say this like
00:07:15.940 men are really going to their workplace to try and jeopardize their where they are getting their 0.69
00:07:22.120 bread from the reality is even if anyone is going to sexually harass you at work it's going to be
00:07:28.280 someone that deserves to get what they are going to get but the reality is a lot of women go to work 1.00
00:07:32.500 and make the workplace not conducive for most men not for abusers they make the workplace
00:07:39.780 non-conducive for most men by coming with all these complaints this um attitude and all of that
00:07:47.540 and then they also still at the same time want to be able to dress however they want so it's like okay
00:07:54.440 you don't want the rules you want to be able to signal give off all these sexual signals at work
00:08:01.600 but then you also want to complain when the men reciprocate and respond to your signals so it's
00:08:08.580 kind of like you can't eat your cake and have you
00:08:10.320 you ever
00:08:10.540 you ever