JustPearlyThings - July 16, 2023


Sales Taught Pearl This Fact About Men


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

218.93346

Word Count

1,790

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 like there are some women that are maybe at the more masculine end of the scale that do really
00:00:04.300 thrive in that kind of environment right and i say have them do it but have them do it like
00:00:09.220 naturally right yeah so without pushing them into it yes and that's what i think i can get on board
00:00:14.100 with that and that's what i think i think the feminists that are trying to make it equal in
00:00:18.320 like engineering and all these fields i think that's a meme and i think i think it harms the
00:00:22.800 women because we spend all this money and then we find out we don't even like this yeah oh no
00:00:28.400 just going to be a stay-at-home mom now but i think it's still good for there to be like
00:00:32.720 equal access to the opportunities so you know not necessarily pushing people into it or like
00:00:37.880 forcing them in with money or like any kind of incentive but i think it would still be nice for
00:00:42.560 there to be like equal opportunities to do those things if they want to there is but do you think
00:00:48.840 a woman feels comfortable going into like a construction how does her feeling comfortable
00:00:52.740 having to do with there being equal access that's the that's because i feel like surely if they if
00:00:57.780 they don't feel comfortable to go into it then they can't necessarily i'll tell you i'll tell you
00:01:01.100 a lot of men don't feel comfortable going to the gym a lot of men don't feel comfortable i don't
00:01:04.420 think anyone feels comfortable exactly so that's a personal problem it has nothing to do with reality
00:01:09.100 but i think if they're going to face like gender-based violence or like harassment or anything to do
00:01:12.880 with that then that could be maybe an issue that would stop why would you go to that as the
00:01:17.700 argument like if they are going to face they might feel like they're more likely to face like
00:01:22.240 gender-based harassment though like a woman walking into like a construction
00:01:25.100 personal problems but i mean if you've been catcalled on the construction site the day before
00:01:28.980 and then you're you're walking into a construction classroom with the same kind of people are you
00:01:33.200 going to feel comfortable doing that as a woman you're conflicting two different things because
00:01:38.620 first of all you're saying if you've been catcalled so does it mean that the the construction site she
00:01:44.500 was catcalled on is the site she's going to walk on no but you might it's like you might then kind of i guess
00:01:50.780 if something like that happens to you you might then kind of view it fruit have you ever have you
00:01:55.680 ever been in um in like a situation where like have you ever been on like a job site of a construction
00:02:02.300 like me working not just like walking by like actually interacting oh no no so so i used to sell
00:02:08.140 plumbing tech yeah okay so i used to sell like parts to plumbers basically like the pipe hangers on
00:02:14.300 plumb yeah just very unique but whatever and so yeah and so what we would do is we would go to the
00:02:20.020 schools and we would teach them how to use our product so it was me and a room full of men and
00:02:25.340 we were like here you go and what i couldn't believe was going to these they're like training
00:02:31.380 centers was how mean men are to each other when we're not around right yeah they bully each other
00:02:37.300 they make fun of each other they harass each other but men don't whine right so what women do
00:02:43.920 is they expect to go in the men's space and not get harassed bullied yeah but you feel like they're
00:02:50.640 just treating them equally in the same way that they're treating the men right yes that's a really
00:02:55.120 interesting and so what happens is women say let me into the man's world yeah and then the men say
00:03:00.240 okay come into our world and they say no no not like that you can't do that this is all wrong and
00:03:06.020 then my thing is if you're gonna go into a man's world like that would be like me being in the red pill
00:03:11.180 space yeah and saying i don't like the way the men are talking then get out but then i'm kind of
00:03:16.260 my point was you know if it's gender-based harassment so if it's like groping or anything
00:03:21.840 like that do you feel like that's kind of a different story too if they're just like you know
00:03:26.160 having a joke is there well one my first question is do men get gender-based harassment yes so men get
00:03:33.960 bullied much harder by other men than they would ever do to a woman yeah i think a woman in a male
00:03:39.600 workplace is going to get way more favors yeah and also is that because it's for like sexual gain
00:03:45.680 from their boss or whatever well i think all men will let sleep with you if you let them yeah pretty
00:03:50.760 much yeah just yeah you know uh if you're half attractive anyway um i don't think men should
00:03:57.300 be grabbing you at work yeah so we could do a no touching the women policy but a lot of times
00:04:03.080 women will be flirting with the men right they'll have their boobs out like half the time these chicks
00:04:09.640 are dressed like hookers right and then they're like well why did the men grab my well i mean it's
00:04:16.700 kind of confusing to the i know nowadays like the ass grabbing is like taboo the men don't even do it
00:04:23.480 anymore but like 10 15 years ago that used to be like you know like people just kind of like did that
00:04:29.420 you know what i mean like it's the environment's changed yeah and so the women will be half naked
00:04:34.320 yeah boobs out and then be like why are the men deserve to like have that kind of well i'm saying
00:04:40.040 it's mixed signals because you're signaling to the guy flirt with me hit on me and then say oh but
00:04:45.880 don't do it so do you feel like they're kind of asking for it in a way because of the way that
00:04:49.560 they're dressed i i would say they're signaling that they want it i would not say they're asking for
00:04:54.980 it i would say they're signaling like if i go out i i dress a different way when i go to work than if
00:05:01.420 i go out yeah you know and so and it i think one sends the signal of professionalism one sends that
00:05:09.460 you're going out to talk you know yeah but then i think most women don't go to the office like with
00:05:13.420 their boobs out like most people do wear like professional dress in the workplace surely really
00:05:18.360 is that like isn't there rules on that like skirt has to be like below the knee i don't know i've
00:05:21.980 never worked in an office but then so what happens when they say they give those dress codes do the
00:05:27.540 women say that's so reasonable or do they cry sexism well if it was equal for men and women if
00:05:32.360 the dress code was like an equal one then will they say it's reasonable if it was equal then yeah
00:05:38.420 do we have how can the dress could be equal when we don't wear the same things well just as in like
00:05:44.420 you know if they're saying that women have to wear a skirt for example and can't wear trousers
00:05:48.460 but like if a woman wants to wear trousers then she should be able to okay so my you know it's
00:05:53.740 funny my high school we had pants yeah and everybody had pants i went to catholic school
00:05:58.800 so we had uniforms oh nice and the issue was in the other high schools and the reason they did that
00:06:04.920 was because before they had skirts and the girls would roll them up yeah come on you all did it at
00:06:10.200 school yeah you can't make this shit up so you know women won't follow the dress code anyway
00:06:15.500 school yeah school is a professional environment right right yeah you're actually like people don't
00:06:21.060 hook up in the workplace you know what i mean it's like so they roll the skirts up and then the teachers
00:06:26.080 say hey you got to roll them down and how many times do we get videos on social media of the girls
00:06:31.120 saying oh this is sexist right okay well you want it to be in a man's world yeah and then they say okay
00:06:37.520 we don't want the attention from men we don't want to be harassed so they say okay let's protect you
00:06:42.460 from that here are some dress codes and they say well i don't want the dress codes i want my ass
00:06:46.680 out but then i feel like the dress code doesn't even protect you from that the amount of times i've
00:06:51.120 been like shouted out in the street catcalled when i'm literally wearing no makeup and sweats like i
00:06:55.560 wear no makeup on a daily basis and that's like when i get catcalled the most sometimes i feel like
00:07:00.160 it doesn't even they don't even pay like take into consideration what you're wearing well just wait
00:07:04.740 10 years you know you're still 25 you know what i mean my mom's 57 and she's still a cat i think
00:07:10.940 you're conflicting a bit a bit of the argument because the reality is how many we say this like
00:07:15.940 men are really going to their workplace to try and jeopardize their where they are getting their
00:07:22.120 bread from the reality is even if anyone is going to sexually harass you at work it's going to be
00:07:28.280 someone that deserves to get what they are going to get but the reality is a lot of women go to work
00:07:32.500 and make the workplace not conducive for most men not for abusers they make the workplace
00:07:39.780 non-conducive for most men by coming with all these complaints this um attitude and all of that
00:07:47.540 and then they also still at the same time want to be able to dress however they want so it's like okay
00:07:54.440 you don't want the rules you want to be able to signal give off all these sexual signals at work
00:08:01.600 but then you also want to complain when the men reciprocate and respond to your signals so it's
00:08:08.580 kind of like you can't eat your cake and have you
00:08:10.320 you ever
00:08:10.540 you ever