JustPearlyThings - March 23, 2023


Sara Garvey warns pearl about this


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Length

9 minutes

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146.01993

Word count

1,451

Sentence count

136

Harmful content

Misogyny

18

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the fallout of feminism and how it will affect women in the next 10-15 years. We also discuss why it s a good idea to not get married when you re in your late 20s or early 30s.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 As a matter of fact,
00:00:01.580 bless it.
00:00:04.220 There is a video,
00:00:06.280 the YouTube video.
00:00:07.880 As a matter of fact,
00:00:09.380 let's see what it's going to be looking like
00:00:12.200 in the next maybe 10 to 15 years.
00:00:18.060 This is what I'm talking about.
00:00:19.440 The fallout of feminism.
00:00:20.940 Blessing, let us know.
00:00:21.720 Are you ready?
00:00:23.540 All right, one sec.
00:00:25.560 Because consequence and accountability
00:00:28.460 is a thing, Pearl.
00:00:30.000 And for me,
00:00:32.400 the modern day woman,
00:00:34.140 she lacks it.
00:00:35.880 She lacks the consequences.
00:00:37.960 She lacks the accountability. 0.96
00:00:39.200 But in the next 10 to 15 years,
00:00:40.780 we're going to be seeing more of videos like this.
00:00:43.440 That blessing is going to play right now.
00:00:45.360 Yeah, there we go.
00:00:46.540 Oh, I think.
00:00:48.620 Yeah.
00:00:49.620 Listen to her.
00:00:51.220 Hey, TikTok.
00:00:54.080 You know, it's crazy because
00:00:56.000 I joke a lot about
00:00:58.900 being single
00:01:00.620 and
00:01:01.720 you know,
00:01:06.240 I, um,
00:01:07.520 I laugh it off.
00:01:12.000 but I'm 46 years old
00:01:21.380 and while I'm getting ready
00:01:25.140 for surgery and everything,
00:01:26.560 it dawned on me.
00:01:29.880 Hold on.
00:01:30.680 I'm sorry.
00:01:32.220 It dawned on me
00:01:34.840 that I'm 46 years old
00:01:38.880 and I don't have a husband to take care of me.
00:01:43.020 I don't have a husband to help me
00:01:50.620 get ready.
00:01:57.420 I'm 46 years old
00:01:59.280 and I still need my mama
00:02:02.680 to take care of me post-op.
00:02:09.660 I still need my sister,
00:02:12.040 which,
00:02:12.940 whether I had a husband or not,
00:02:14.280 they would,
00:02:14.880 they would be there.
00:02:16.040 it sucks.
00:02:27.760 Being single
00:02:28.760 and 46
00:02:30.420 sucks.
00:02:32.560 It sucks.
00:02:32.660 and I'm fucking tired.
00:02:50.100 And I make
00:02:53.720 jokes about
00:02:55.360 the fucking
00:02:57.280 buffoons
00:02:58.360 that I
00:02:59.180 have been encountering
00:03:00.780 in,
00:03:02.120 in dating.
00:03:03.820 But in reality,
00:03:05.480 this is,
00:03:06.100 this is my reality.
00:03:11.820 This is my reality.
00:03:13.100 This is my reality
00:03:18.120 and this,
00:03:19.340 those stories
00:03:20.380 are the shit
00:03:21.600 that's available
00:03:23.220 because all the good men
00:03:25.500 have gotten married
00:03:27.220 in their 20s and 30s
00:03:29.980 because they're good men.
00:03:35.420 I'm not blaming it all on men
00:03:37.120 because women are fucking shit. 1.00
00:03:39.220 They fucking batshit crazy too,
00:03:41.520 so,
00:03:41.720 but,
00:03:42.980 this is my reality,
00:03:44.360 not anybody else's.
00:03:47.600 Yeah.
00:03:48.880 That's all.
00:03:51.280 Wow.
00:03:52.660 See?
00:03:54.940 Notice the hoop earrings.
00:03:56.800 You know,
00:03:57.140 you know.
00:03:58.640 But,
00:03:59.120 but even without the hoop earrings,
00:04:01.860 that,
00:04:03.080 that realization
00:04:04.280 is coming for so many women
00:04:07.080 within the next 10 to 15 years.
00:04:10.240 Yeah.
00:04:11.220 Yeah,
00:04:11.440 no,
00:04:11.560 that's really sad.
00:04:14.020 And that's the thing.
00:04:14.840 Do you think it's selfish
00:04:15.540 to not get married
00:04:16.600 because then your family
00:04:17.740 has to take care of you
00:04:18.780 and then you're
00:04:19.300 your family's responsibility?
00:04:21.200 Okay,
00:04:21.500 so,
00:04:22.000 we can talk about marriage.
00:04:22.940 We've spoken about marriage,
00:04:23.840 right?
00:04:23.940 Or long-term,
00:04:24.980 long-term relationship.
00:04:26.420 Yeah,
00:04:27.280 because the bottom line is,
00:04:29.820 who's going to look after you? 0.93
00:04:30.840 Yeah.
00:04:31.160 Like,
00:04:33.100 who's looking after you?
00:04:34.460 Like,
00:04:35.360 are you just going to be single?
00:04:36.640 And it's like your mom
00:04:37.520 and your dad's problem.
00:04:38.300 Your mom,
00:04:38.800 your dad,
00:04:39.420 like,
00:04:39.720 maybe if you've got children,
00:04:40.840 they're going to look after you.
00:04:41.380 And they're older than you,
00:04:42.380 like,
00:04:42.540 that shouldn't be their job.
00:04:43.780 It's not their job.
00:04:44.320 But she probably lived 0.97
00:04:45.900 a hot girl summer
00:04:47.340 for what?
00:04:48.260 10 years?
00:04:49.140 She said 46.
00:04:50.580 She's 46 now.
00:04:51.880 I was like,
00:04:52.260 oh,
00:04:52.360 she looked good for 46. 0.99
00:04:53.740 She looks good for 46,
00:04:54.980 but she probably,
00:04:55.720 and that's probably
00:04:56.400 what the problem is.
00:04:57.240 Yeah,
00:04:57.620 and then I was like.
00:04:58.160 She thought,
00:04:58.560 oh my God,
00:04:58.960 I look young
00:04:59.720 and I'm going to live
00:05:00.300 my hot girl summer.
00:05:01.700 Yeah,
00:05:02.260 like,
00:05:02.540 that's 25 years
00:05:04.020 of bullshit.
00:05:06.180 Yeah.
00:05:06.940 Literally.
00:05:07.660 And that's the thing.
00:05:08.460 That is what is coming.
00:05:10.040 I wonder if she had
00:05:10.660 an ex-husband.
00:05:12.260 Say again?
00:05:12.680 I wonder if she had
00:05:13.300 an ex-husband.
00:05:14.320 I mean,
00:05:17.700 look,
00:05:18.800 when I see,
00:05:20.140 and the thing is,
00:05:20.780 that video
00:05:21.420 is not
00:05:23.180 in isolation.
00:05:25.240 There are so many videos.
00:05:26.940 There's so many.
00:05:27.260 There's so many videos
00:05:28.280 of women
00:05:28.960 hitting the wall,
00:05:31.100 right?
00:05:31.900 As Kevin Samuel says,
00:05:33.380 may you rest in power.
00:05:35.500 And realizing,
00:05:36.720 oh my God,
00:05:37.900 like,
00:05:38.160 what I was doing
00:05:39.000 is not working
00:05:40.680 and now I'm single
00:05:42.120 at this age
00:05:42.980 and it's not working
00:05:43.640 and it's like,
00:05:44.320 that is,
00:05:45.340 like I said,
00:05:45.900 depression,
00:05:47.440 anger,
00:05:49.100 bitterness,
00:05:49.640 it's coming.
00:05:50.700 Like,
00:05:50.920 what did they say?
00:05:51.380 What did Kevin Samuel say?
00:05:52.340 Winter is coming.
00:05:54.280 Winter is coming
00:05:55.420 for you,
00:05:55.980 ladies. 0.75
00:05:56.620 Okay?
00:05:57.100 It's coming for you.
00:05:58.220 But the thing is,
00:05:59.040 because you're so stubborn
00:06:00.020 and because you don't
00:06:01.360 want to listen
00:06:01.960 and because everyone's
00:06:03.140 a misogynist
00:06:03.940 and everybody hates women, 1.00
00:06:05.560 you are not going
00:06:07.180 to take it on
00:06:08.900 until the last minute.
00:06:11.340 I'm just a big believer.
00:06:12.560 Like,
00:06:12.740 I feel like you should
00:06:13.500 always try.
00:06:14.660 And a lot of times,
00:06:15.560 like,
00:06:15.780 modern women have given up 1.00
00:06:16.900 before they've even tried.
00:06:18.500 What do you mean?
00:06:19.220 Like,
00:06:19.560 they don't listen,
00:06:20.320 like,
00:06:20.480 they've never taken a second
00:06:21.480 to listen to what men want.
00:06:23.160 And they'll complain
00:06:23.680 about their outcomes,
00:06:24.580 but you,
00:06:24.840 like,
00:06:25.000 you didn't even try.
00:06:26.920 And like,
00:06:27.460 that's half of what,
00:06:28.300 like,
00:06:28.500 men want to see from women. 1.00
00:06:29.720 They just want to see women 1.00
00:06:30.440 that,
00:06:30.620 like,
00:06:30.860 try.
00:06:31.360 They're so used to,
00:06:32.020 like,
00:06:32.580 not having girls 0.94
00:06:33.380 that don't try at all
00:06:34.360 in the relationship
00:06:35.040 where they're doing everything.
00:06:36.000 Even women don't listen, 1.00
00:06:37.360 Pearl.
00:06:38.100 You know,
00:06:38.740 they listen to their girlfriends.
00:06:40.020 They're in their echo chambers.
00:06:42.300 Yeah.
00:06:43.120 Oh my God,
00:06:43.780 he's,
00:06:44.280 men are this,
00:06:44.840 men are that.
00:06:45.420 Yeah,
00:06:45.660 yeah,
00:06:45.820 yeah,
00:06:46.120 girl.
00:06:46.820 All they do is confirmation bias.
00:06:48.540 And they'll always sabotage,
00:06:49.840 like,
00:06:50.060 unless the guy is an absolute simp,
00:06:52.180 they're going to sabotage,
00:06:53.260 like,
00:06:53.800 women's relationships
00:06:54.700 that they do have
00:06:55.500 when they are happy.
00:06:56.660 Unless they're,
00:06:57.180 like,
00:06:57.320 they'll only not do it
00:06:58.360 if the guy's an absolute simp
00:06:59.740 who lets her do
00:07:00.340 whatever she wants.
00:07:01.320 So let's do a,
00:07:02.080 let's do a hypothetical scenario.
00:07:03.760 Pearl,
00:07:04.280 you find a guy,
00:07:05.200 you get married,
00:07:06.460 right?
00:07:07.700 And
00:07:08.180 you speak the way you speak
00:07:10.620 within this space.
00:07:11.720 Okay.
00:07:12.420 Right?
00:07:14.340 Those,
00:07:15.100 those modern day women, 0.93
00:07:17.140 those
00:07:17.560 super saiyan feminists, 0.96
00:07:20.580 right?
00:07:21.300 They're going to try
00:07:22.440 and destroy your relationship
00:07:24.300 just to make themselves,
00:07:26.160 you said,
00:07:26.500 need to be right?
00:07:27.400 Yeah.
00:07:27.620 Just to make themselves be right.
00:07:29.460 Oh,
00:07:29.840 well,
00:07:30.080 she couldn't even
00:07:30.920 hold her relationship down 0.87
00:07:32.460 because now they're on
00:07:33.820 why is Pearl not
00:07:34.980 in a relationship?
00:07:36.060 What's wrong with her? 1.00
00:07:37.340 Why is she not married? 1.00
00:07:38.580 So they're trying to destroy you already.
00:07:40.020 It's always the personal attacks,
00:07:41.560 but like,
00:07:42.080 is what I'm saying true
00:07:43.200 or is it not true?
00:07:44.420 That's it.
00:07:44.680 And that's,
00:07:44.940 and that's like,
00:07:45.600 that's the,
00:07:46.280 that's all you need to know.
00:07:47.020 And you could,
00:07:47.680 they could go after
00:07:48.700 anything.
00:07:50.600 Everything.
00:07:51.240 No,
00:07:51.620 I actually,
00:07:52.480 I was thinking,
00:07:53.580 I like,
00:07:53.900 I feel like
00:07:54.460 I'd rather date a guy 0.78
00:07:56.340 that has no idea
00:07:57.200 like what my YouTube channel is.
00:07:58.960 Right.
00:07:59.180 Because if they see
00:08:02.200 you in a happy relationship,
00:08:04.160 do you think they're not going
00:08:04.780 to try and come for that?
00:08:06.080 Oh,
00:08:06.340 no,
00:08:06.480 they will.
00:08:06.980 Oh,
00:08:07.200 they'll come for that.
00:08:08.220 I mean,
00:08:08.440 I've been in like
00:08:09.300 a public relationship before
00:08:11.520 and I kind of,
00:08:12.240 I've seen the problems
00:08:13.240 that come with it.
00:08:14.680 They're vindictive.
00:08:15.740 there,
00:08:16.080 it's,
00:08:16.580 there's a lot of problems
00:08:17.660 that come with it.
00:08:18.480 They are vindictive
00:08:19.260 and evil,
00:08:19.820 man.
00:08:20.140 Like,
00:08:20.440 I even remember
00:08:21.200 after doing the,
00:08:22.000 the show that we done
00:08:23.520 on the passport bros,
00:08:24.980 right,
00:08:25.320 a few weeks ago,
00:08:26.340 some of the comments
00:08:27.680 that I got
00:08:29.180 from women.
00:08:30.180 I'm just like,
00:08:30.720 listen,
00:08:31.720 if you,
00:08:32.180 because women are like, 1.00
00:08:33.200 we don't care about guys
00:08:34.660 going abroad.
00:08:36.760 And then,
00:08:37.420 and on the other hand,
00:08:38.280 they're making whole videos
00:08:39.260 about guys going abroad.
00:08:40.060 I'm just saying
00:08:40.560 we should learn from them.
00:08:41.900 Like,
00:08:42.080 that's what I say.
00:08:42.780 Like,
00:08:43.160 why on earth,
00:08:43.920 if someone's winning,
00:08:45.640 okay,
00:08:46.020 like,
00:08:46.500 if you see a,
00:08:47.520 a particular demographic.
00:08:49.560 Winning,
00:08:50.000 yeah.
00:08:50.260 Winning.
00:08:51.160 Stop me then.
00:08:51.960 Let's,
00:08:52.340 yeah,
00:08:52.540 let's,
00:08:52.920 let's take notes.
00:08:53.980 I'm like,
00:08:54.260 what the,
00:08:54.660 what recipes y'all know
00:08:56.060 that are making these men
00:08:56.920 fall in love with me?
00:08:57.420 Right,
00:08:57.900 yeah,
00:08:58.100 exactly.
00:08:59.180 But the thing is,
00:09:00.020 it's the pride of the,
00:09:01.160 especially if they're average looking,
00:09:03.200 I'm like,
00:09:03.720 but it's the pride of the ego,
00:09:05.580 right?
00:09:06.180 Of the modern day woman. 0.88
00:09:07.160 The pride in the ego makes them think
00:09:09.580 that they are the ones that know everything.
00:09:12.420 Everyone outside of them doesn't know ish.
00:09:15.920 They don't know shit.
00:09:17.000 Right?
00:09:18.020 So it's like,
00:09:18.860 what do those Filipino women know? 1.00
00:09:21.000 What do those Thai women know? 1.00
00:09:22.540 Something.
00:09:22.840 They're the most swiped,
00:09:23.700 like Asian chicks are the most swiped right 1.00
00:09:25.480 on dating at something.
00:09:27.060 No,
00:09:27.340 they don't know nothing because I know.
00:09:28.980 And that's the,
00:09:29.840 and that is the ego of the one.
00:09:31.400 And that's what they say.
00:09:32.940 Pride becomes,
00:09:33.740 pride comes before the fall.
00:09:37.280 That's what's going to happen to modern day women. 1.00
00:09:39.740 Pride's going to come before the fall.
00:09:41.040 I was just banned on Tik TOK.
00:09:43.500 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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