JustPearlyThings - March 23, 2023


Sara Garvey warns pearl about this


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

146.01993

Word Count

1,451

Sentence Count

136

Misogynist Sentences

18

Hate Speech Sentences

13


Summary

In this episode, we discuss the fallout of feminism and how it will affect women in the next 10-15 years. We also discuss why it s a good idea to not get married when you re in your late 20s or early 30s.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 As a matter of fact,
00:00:01.580 bless it.
00:00:04.220 There is a video,
00:00:06.280 the YouTube video.
00:00:07.880 As a matter of fact,
00:00:09.380 let's see what it's going to be looking like
00:00:12.200 in the next maybe 10 to 15 years.
00:00:18.060 This is what I'm talking about.
00:00:19.440 The fallout of feminism.
00:00:20.940 Blessing, let us know.
00:00:21.720 Are you ready?
00:00:23.540 All right, one sec.
00:00:25.560 Because consequence and accountability
00:00:28.460 is a thing, Pearl.
00:00:30.000 And for me,
00:00:32.400 the modern day woman,
00:00:34.140 she lacks it.
00:00:35.880 She lacks the consequences.
00:00:37.960 She lacks the accountability.
00:00:39.200 But in the next 10 to 15 years,
00:00:40.780 we're going to be seeing more of videos like this.
00:00:43.440 That blessing is going to play right now.
00:00:45.360 Yeah, there we go.
00:00:46.540 Oh, I think.
00:00:48.620 Yeah.
00:00:49.620 Listen to her.
00:00:51.220 Hey, TikTok.
00:00:54.080 You know, it's crazy because
00:00:56.000 I joke a lot about
00:00:58.900 being single
00:01:00.620 and
00:01:01.720 you know,
00:01:06.240 I, um,
00:01:07.520 I laugh it off.
00:01:12.000 but I'm 46 years old
00:01:21.380 and while I'm getting ready
00:01:25.140 for surgery and everything,
00:01:26.560 it dawned on me.
00:01:29.880 Hold on.
00:01:30.680 I'm sorry.
00:01:32.220 It dawned on me
00:01:34.840 that I'm 46 years old
00:01:38.880 and I don't have a husband to take care of me.
00:01:43.020 I don't have a husband to help me
00:01:50.620 get ready.
00:01:57.420 I'm 46 years old
00:01:59.280 and I still need my mama
00:02:02.680 to take care of me post-op.
00:02:09.660 I still need my sister,
00:02:12.040 which,
00:02:12.940 whether I had a husband or not,
00:02:14.280 they would,
00:02:14.880 they would be there.
00:02:16.040 it sucks.
00:02:27.760 Being single
00:02:28.760 and 46
00:02:30.420 sucks.
00:02:32.560 It sucks.
00:02:32.660 and I'm fucking tired.
00:02:50.100 And I make
00:02:53.720 jokes about
00:02:55.360 the fucking
00:02:57.280 buffoons
00:02:58.360 that I
00:02:59.180 have been encountering
00:03:00.780 in,
00:03:02.120 in dating.
00:03:03.820 But in reality,
00:03:05.480 this is,
00:03:06.100 this is my reality.
00:03:11.820 This is my reality.
00:03:13.100 This is my reality
00:03:18.120 and this,
00:03:19.340 those stories
00:03:20.380 are the shit
00:03:21.600 that's available
00:03:23.220 because all the good men
00:03:25.500 have gotten married
00:03:27.220 in their 20s and 30s
00:03:29.980 because they're good men.
00:03:35.420 I'm not blaming it all on men
00:03:37.120 because women are fucking shit.
00:03:39.220 They fucking batshit crazy too,
00:03:41.520 so,
00:03:41.720 but,
00:03:42.980 this is my reality,
00:03:44.360 not anybody else's.
00:03:47.600 Yeah.
00:03:48.880 That's all.
00:03:51.280 Wow.
00:03:52.660 See?
00:03:54.940 Notice the hoop earrings.
00:03:56.800 You know,
00:03:57.140 you know.
00:03:58.640 But,
00:03:59.120 but even without the hoop earrings,
00:04:01.860 that,
00:04:03.080 that realization
00:04:04.280 is coming for so many women
00:04:07.080 within the next 10 to 15 years.
00:04:10.240 Yeah.
00:04:11.220 Yeah,
00:04:11.440 no,
00:04:11.560 that's really sad.
00:04:14.020 And that's the thing.
00:04:14.840 Do you think it's selfish
00:04:15.540 to not get married
00:04:16.600 because then your family
00:04:17.740 has to take care of you
00:04:18.780 and then you're
00:04:19.300 your family's responsibility?
00:04:21.200 Okay,
00:04:21.500 so,
00:04:22.000 we can talk about marriage.
00:04:22.940 We've spoken about marriage,
00:04:23.840 right?
00:04:23.940 Or long-term,
00:04:24.980 long-term relationship.
00:04:26.420 Yeah,
00:04:27.280 because the bottom line is,
00:04:29.820 who's going to look after you?
00:04:30.840 Yeah.
00:04:31.160 Like,
00:04:33.100 who's looking after you?
00:04:34.460 Like,
00:04:35.360 are you just going to be single?
00:04:36.640 And it's like your mom
00:04:37.520 and your dad's problem.
00:04:38.300 Your mom,
00:04:38.800 your dad,
00:04:39.420 like,
00:04:39.720 maybe if you've got children,
00:04:40.840 they're going to look after you.
00:04:41.380 And they're older than you,
00:04:42.380 like,
00:04:42.540 that shouldn't be their job.
00:04:43.780 It's not their job.
00:04:44.320 But she probably lived
00:04:45.900 a hot girl summer
00:04:47.340 for what?
00:04:48.260 10 years?
00:04:49.140 She said 46.
00:04:50.580 She's 46 now.
00:04:51.880 I was like,
00:04:52.260 oh,
00:04:52.360 she looked good for 46.
00:04:53.740 She looks good for 46,
00:04:54.980 but she probably,
00:04:55.720 and that's probably
00:04:56.400 what the problem is.
00:04:57.240 Yeah,
00:04:57.620 and then I was like.
00:04:58.160 She thought,
00:04:58.560 oh my God,
00:04:58.960 I look young
00:04:59.720 and I'm going to live
00:05:00.300 my hot girl summer.
00:05:01.700 Yeah,
00:05:02.260 like,
00:05:02.540 that's 25 years
00:05:04.020 of bullshit.
00:05:06.180 Yeah.
00:05:06.940 Literally.
00:05:07.660 And that's the thing.
00:05:08.460 That is what is coming.
00:05:10.040 I wonder if she had
00:05:10.660 an ex-husband.
00:05:12.260 Say again?
00:05:12.680 I wonder if she had
00:05:13.300 an ex-husband.
00:05:14.320 I mean,
00:05:17.700 look,
00:05:18.800 when I see,
00:05:20.140 and the thing is,
00:05:20.780 that video
00:05:21.420 is not
00:05:23.180 in isolation.
00:05:25.240 There are so many videos.
00:05:26.940 There's so many.
00:05:27.260 There's so many videos
00:05:28.280 of women
00:05:28.960 hitting the wall,
00:05:31.100 right?
00:05:31.900 As Kevin Samuel says,
00:05:33.380 may you rest in power.
00:05:35.500 And realizing,
00:05:36.720 oh my God,
00:05:37.900 like,
00:05:38.160 what I was doing
00:05:39.000 is not working
00:05:40.680 and now I'm single
00:05:42.120 at this age
00:05:42.980 and it's not working
00:05:43.640 and it's like,
00:05:44.320 that is,
00:05:45.340 like I said,
00:05:45.900 depression,
00:05:47.440 anger,
00:05:49.100 bitterness,
00:05:49.640 it's coming.
00:05:50.700 Like,
00:05:50.920 what did they say?
00:05:51.380 What did Kevin Samuel say?
00:05:52.340 Winter is coming.
00:05:54.280 Winter is coming
00:05:55.420 for you,
00:05:55.980 ladies.
00:05:56.620 Okay?
00:05:57.100 It's coming for you.
00:05:58.220 But the thing is,
00:05:59.040 because you're so stubborn
00:06:00.020 and because you don't
00:06:01.360 want to listen
00:06:01.960 and because everyone's
00:06:03.140 a misogynist
00:06:03.940 and everybody hates women,
00:06:05.560 you are not going
00:06:07.180 to take it on
00:06:08.900 until the last minute.
00:06:11.340 I'm just a big believer.
00:06:12.560 Like,
00:06:12.740 I feel like you should
00:06:13.500 always try.
00:06:14.660 And a lot of times,
00:06:15.560 like,
00:06:15.780 modern women have given up
00:06:16.900 before they've even tried.
00:06:18.500 What do you mean?
00:06:19.220 Like,
00:06:19.560 they don't listen,
00:06:20.320 like,
00:06:20.480 they've never taken a second
00:06:21.480 to listen to what men want.
00:06:23.160 And they'll complain
00:06:23.680 about their outcomes,
00:06:24.580 but you,
00:06:24.840 like,
00:06:25.000 you didn't even try.
00:06:26.920 And like,
00:06:27.460 that's half of what,
00:06:28.300 like,
00:06:28.500 men want to see from women.
00:06:29.720 They just want to see women
00:06:30.440 that,
00:06:30.620 like,
00:06:30.860 try.
00:06:31.360 They're so used to,
00:06:32.020 like,
00:06:32.580 not having girls
00:06:33.380 that don't try at all
00:06:34.360 in the relationship
00:06:35.040 where they're doing everything.
00:06:36.000 Even women don't listen,
00:06:37.360 Pearl.
00:06:38.100 You know,
00:06:38.740 they listen to their girlfriends.
00:06:40.020 They're in their echo chambers.
00:06:42.300 Yeah.
00:06:43.120 Oh my God,
00:06:43.780 he's,
00:06:44.280 men are this,
00:06:44.840 men are that.
00:06:45.420 Yeah,
00:06:45.660 yeah,
00:06:45.820 yeah,
00:06:46.120 girl.
00:06:46.820 All they do is confirmation bias.
00:06:48.540 And they'll always sabotage,
00:06:49.840 like,
00:06:50.060 unless the guy is an absolute simp,
00:06:52.180 they're going to sabotage,
00:06:53.260 like,
00:06:53.800 women's relationships
00:06:54.700 that they do have
00:06:55.500 when they are happy.
00:06:56.660 Unless they're,
00:06:57.180 like,
00:06:57.320 they'll only not do it
00:06:58.360 if the guy's an absolute simp
00:06:59.740 who lets her do
00:07:00.340 whatever she wants.
00:07:01.320 So let's do a,
00:07:02.080 let's do a hypothetical scenario.
00:07:03.760 Pearl,
00:07:04.280 you find a guy,
00:07:05.200 you get married,
00:07:06.460 right?
00:07:07.700 And
00:07:08.180 you speak the way you speak
00:07:10.620 within this space.
00:07:11.720 Okay.
00:07:12.420 Right?
00:07:14.340 Those,
00:07:15.100 those modern day women,
00:07:17.140 those
00:07:17.560 super saiyan feminists,
00:07:20.580 right?
00:07:21.300 They're going to try
00:07:22.440 and destroy your relationship
00:07:24.300 just to make themselves,
00:07:26.160 you said,
00:07:26.500 need to be right?
00:07:27.400 Yeah.
00:07:27.620 Just to make themselves be right.
00:07:29.460 Oh,
00:07:29.840 well,
00:07:30.080 she couldn't even
00:07:30.920 hold her relationship down
00:07:32.460 because now they're on
00:07:33.820 why is Pearl not
00:07:34.980 in a relationship?
00:07:36.060 What's wrong with her?
00:07:37.340 Why is she not married?
00:07:38.580 So they're trying to destroy you already.
00:07:40.020 It's always the personal attacks,
00:07:41.560 but like,
00:07:42.080 is what I'm saying true
00:07:43.200 or is it not true?
00:07:44.420 That's it.
00:07:44.680 And that's,
00:07:44.940 and that's like,
00:07:45.600 that's the,
00:07:46.280 that's all you need to know.
00:07:47.020 And you could,
00:07:47.680 they could go after
00:07:48.700 anything.
00:07:50.600 Everything.
00:07:51.240 No,
00:07:51.620 I actually,
00:07:52.480 I was thinking,
00:07:53.580 I like,
00:07:53.900 I feel like
00:07:54.460 I'd rather date a guy
00:07:56.340 that has no idea
00:07:57.200 like what my YouTube channel is.
00:07:58.960 Right.
00:07:59.180 Because if they see
00:08:02.200 you in a happy relationship,
00:08:04.160 do you think they're not going
00:08:04.780 to try and come for that?
00:08:06.080 Oh,
00:08:06.340 no,
00:08:06.480 they will.
00:08:06.980 Oh,
00:08:07.200 they'll come for that.
00:08:08.220 I mean,
00:08:08.440 I've been in like
00:08:09.300 a public relationship before
00:08:11.520 and I kind of,
00:08:12.240 I've seen the problems
00:08:13.240 that come with it.
00:08:14.680 They're vindictive.
00:08:15.740 there,
00:08:16.080 it's,
00:08:16.580 there's a lot of problems
00:08:17.660 that come with it.
00:08:18.480 They are vindictive
00:08:19.260 and evil,
00:08:19.820 man.
00:08:20.140 Like,
00:08:20.440 I even remember
00:08:21.200 after doing the,
00:08:22.000 the show that we done
00:08:23.520 on the passport bros,
00:08:24.980 right,
00:08:25.320 a few weeks ago,
00:08:26.340 some of the comments
00:08:27.680 that I got
00:08:29.180 from women.
00:08:30.180 I'm just like,
00:08:30.720 listen,
00:08:31.720 if you,
00:08:32.180 because women are like,
00:08:33.200 we don't care about guys
00:08:34.660 going abroad.
00:08:36.760 And then,
00:08:37.420 and on the other hand,
00:08:38.280 they're making whole videos
00:08:39.260 about guys going abroad.
00:08:40.060 I'm just saying
00:08:40.560 we should learn from them.
00:08:41.900 Like,
00:08:42.080 that's what I say.
00:08:42.780 Like,
00:08:43.160 why on earth,
00:08:43.920 if someone's winning,
00:08:45.640 okay,
00:08:46.020 like,
00:08:46.500 if you see a,
00:08:47.520 a particular demographic.
00:08:49.560 Winning,
00:08:50.000 yeah.
00:08:50.260 Winning.
00:08:51.160 Stop me then.
00:08:51.960 Let's,
00:08:52.340 yeah,
00:08:52.540 let's,
00:08:52.920 let's take notes.
00:08:53.980 I'm like,
00:08:54.260 what the,
00:08:54.660 what recipes y'all know
00:08:56.060 that are making these men
00:08:56.920 fall in love with me?
00:08:57.420 Right,
00:08:57.900 yeah,
00:08:58.100 exactly.
00:08:59.180 But the thing is,
00:09:00.020 it's the pride of the,
00:09:01.160 especially if they're average looking,
00:09:03.200 I'm like,
00:09:03.720 but it's the pride of the ego,
00:09:05.580 right?
00:09:06.180 Of the modern day woman.
00:09:07.160 The pride in the ego makes them think
00:09:09.580 that they are the ones that know everything.
00:09:12.420 Everyone outside of them doesn't know ish.
00:09:15.920 They don't know shit.
00:09:17.000 Right?
00:09:18.020 So it's like,
00:09:18.860 what do those Filipino women know?
00:09:21.000 What do those Thai women know?
00:09:22.540 Something.
00:09:22.840 They're the most swiped,
00:09:23.700 like Asian chicks are the most swiped right
00:09:25.480 on dating at something.
00:09:27.060 No,
00:09:27.340 they don't know nothing because I know.
00:09:28.980 And that's the,
00:09:29.840 and that is the ego of the one.
00:09:31.400 And that's what they say.
00:09:32.940 Pride becomes,
00:09:33.740 pride comes before the fall.
00:09:37.280 That's what's going to happen to modern day women.
00:09:39.740 Pride's going to come before the fall.
00:09:41.040 I was just banned on Tik TOK.
00:09:43.500 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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