JustPearlyThings - Security JUMPED Dillon Danis During Match With Logan ｜ @christinegracesmith

00:00:00.000 hey happy wednesday welcome back to pearl daily again no i am not pearl my name is christine grace

00:00:05.600 and i'll be hosting pearl daily again today pearl is still in miami as i'm sure you've all seen so

00:00:10.960 make sure you're keeping up to date with all of her content in london we are business as usual so i'm

00:00:17.000 going to be covering this week's treachery debauchery all of the nonsense going on in society

00:00:22.380 i have a very special guest with me today everyone please welcome nazarin hi nazarin is helping me

00:00:30.740 out today and she's also going to be giving her thoughts on the treachery debauchery going on in

00:00:36.000 society today so yeah let's get straight into it today the first topic on today's agenda is the

00:00:42.520 logan paul dylan danis fight now me and our lovely producer king were actually at this fight so make

00:00:47.980 sure you go check out my channel at christine grace smith um for all of the latest footage covering

00:00:53.340 the fight but yeah it was a really great experience and i'm sure you've all seen the clips so yeah let's

00:00:59.300 roll the clip

00:01:17.980 so yeah i mean as i said me and king were actually at the fight so we saw this all unfold

00:01:33.400 in person and it kind of just happened really really quickly like the fight pretty much ended

00:01:40.160 and then next thing you know it to me it seemed like dylan was just fuming with the situation and

00:01:45.700 then took everything too far and stepped outside of boxing and tried to like tackle him down to the

00:01:51.140 floor next thing you know there's like one security guard and then as you saw like the whole thing is

00:01:55.800 just completely flooded yeah i've been told what he was attempting to do was a guillotine so for me it

00:02:01.300 just looked like he was trying to rush him yeah well i don't know anything about boxing it doesn't

00:02:05.760 really look like a boxing match should look so yeah no it's definitely not boxing i think at the end of

00:02:12.800 the day dylan was talking a lot of shit before the fight he was antagonizing logan paul about his

00:02:18.840 fiancee and it was really entertaining but i think because he didn't really do much in the fight

00:02:24.000 maybe he just thought he'd provide us with one last bit of entertainment i don't know a bit like

00:02:29.900 watching a school classroom fight yeah yeah when there's like a fight and the teachers come in

00:02:35.700 everyone floods over everyone crowds over that is it literally but to be fair i will say from

00:02:41.640 actually seeing the fight myself logan was dominating logan was throwing the majority

00:02:46.480 of punches however logan's a fairly big dude from the punches and everything that he was actually

00:02:53.080 throwing i would have thought dylan would have got knocked out so the fact that dylan was still

00:02:56.820 standing i'd have to give him props for that and hey look conor mcgregor said that he was impressed

00:03:02.040 by dylan's performance now whether he's talking about his boxing or not i don't know he could just

00:03:05.800 be talking about the fact that he's an entertainer he definitely put on a good show with all of the

00:03:10.480 build-up the the song he came out to was uh free from desire as well so he really got all of the

00:03:16.760 british crowd up and jumping so he's definitely an entertainer a boxer i don't know i don't know

00:03:22.420 anything about boxing either so yeah you guys can can let me know in the comments what you thought

00:03:26.860 on that because i just thought the whole thing was a bit of a mess really but hey here we are

00:03:31.460 it's like other people did as well yeah i don't think i've seen too many people actually happy

00:03:36.460 with the fight it was pretty disappointing i think when you have something that has so much

00:03:40.360 build-up so much tension you're hoping to see someone get knocked out obviously you expect a bit

00:03:45.600 more from it yeah no one did so here we are so this is a comment from from someone regarding the fight

00:03:52.780 all that talk for the fight to be like this yeah i i completely agree it was a bit boring

00:04:00.580 actually a dark day for boxing we need the greats to come back and get rid of these social butterflies

00:04:07.380 anyone can tell this was some bad acting and script terrible it does look scripted to be honest it

00:04:13.420 looks like actors um in a tv show i was saying this to king the whole time i was saying i can guarantee

00:04:20.300 that when it gets to the main fights it's gonna be pretty bland they've probably got in their

00:04:25.100 contracts how many punches they can each throw especially when you look at the production level

00:04:29.300 as well for example ksi came out in a lamborghini because you know he's got that song lamborghini he's

00:04:34.520 got a song called lamborghini he came out in an actual lamborghini oh to that song and then he

00:04:40.320 bought out gigs as well so the amount of money that's gone into this you know i just i definitely think it

00:04:46.980 was a performance um rather than yeah the other fights however um as i said go go check out my

00:04:54.340 channel to to see the footage were really entertaining and they were what seemed like to me at least

00:04:59.540 someone who doesn't know a thing about boxing really good fights and we did see a fight yeah we saw it

00:05:05.120 near enough knockout i don't know if actually classes as a knockout but to me it seemed like a knockout

00:05:09.280 yeah someone else says dylan tweeted more than punches he threw it's true i think he probably

00:05:17.340 only threw like three punches so yeah that's as it stands you know that the fight was pretty boring

00:05:23.740 again i just think when you have all of that hype and all of the beef that was going on beforehand

00:05:28.200 you're hoping to see some kind of spectacular display but we just we didn't see that and it was

00:05:34.740 rather anticlimactic maybe that's why we saw the brawl at the end maybe that's what that was for

00:05:39.240 to kind of satisfy people give them something but aren't celebrity fights usually more staged and

00:05:45.720 not really like they don't live up to their expectations i mean from what i've seen yeah i

00:05:50.340 don't know if that's like an actual thing but i it wouldn't surprise me if that was like well in

00:05:55.920 their contracts yeah it's it's a show rather than an actual boxing match i think so there we are there

00:06:02.420 we have it moving on to the next topic today we're going to be taking a look at a video of a woman

00:06:08.580 who she basically got taken on a date by a guy and he brought her to the cheesecake factory which

00:06:14.320 is i think is like a i don't know if they actually do cheesecake but i think it's like a tgi fridays

00:06:19.440 type place as well yeah that's what i've heard anyway it's a restaurant nonetheless and this lady

00:06:25.260 got taken to this restaurant and she is very unhappy with her situation right even though she's on a date

00:06:30.580 and you you would think it would be ladylike and polite to just be happy to be on the date

00:06:35.620 but uh she seems to have a different idea let's let's take a look

00:06:39.720 let me just get the door for you okay

00:06:45.720 can you rest here you want to talk about it

00:06:50.380 so you expect a man to go all out on the first date is that right i mean you're supposed to look at i

00:06:59.900 mean wow yeah speechless at that it's just the entitlement you know she she's she's admitting

00:07:12.220 to everything that she did wrong and she's saying that she's not ready for him to come up to her

00:07:19.280 apartment so he says okay fine if we're if we're not ready for that then maybe you're not ready for

00:07:24.400 me to splash all my money out on a fancy date and well i think that's fair enough yeah i think i

00:07:29.800 understand what she's saying on a first date you don't want someone don't want me anyway i would

00:07:35.000 sort of feel a bit uncomfortable having a man come into my place because obviously you know it leads

00:07:40.020 to things and but be on time then because he's saying he was waiting for her for a whole hour so

00:07:45.740 be on time if you don't want him coming inside your flat be on time be downstairs at the right time

00:07:51.160 that you both agree to be there for and you know go on a date don't keep him waiting around because

00:07:57.040 then yeah he's not going to take you to a fancy restaurant he's going to take you to the cheesecake

00:08:00.540 factory and also i'm sorry but are you thinking what i'm thinking she's saying she's doing everything

00:08:09.660 that she should be doing for a woman and she's basically acting like she's a 10 yeah and she's

00:08:14.500 very clearly not a 10 i mean she was like does it look like i belong in the cheesecake factory yes

00:08:20.040 kind of yeah you look like pretty much any other girl like you're you're nothing special

00:08:25.640 and from what i know of the cheesecake factory it's just a normal restaurant i'm trying to think of

00:08:30.660 what the equivalent is over here maybe like harvester or like i have never heard you've

00:08:34.640 never heard a harvester i don't know have you heard like lola's cupcakes sure even lola's cupcakes

00:08:40.900 but i mean we can both agree she is acting like she is the type of woman that is

00:08:49.640 we're talking a nine a ten a model she's just not and i think something really important to note

00:08:56.700 here is this woman is not interested in this man not even remotely yeah you can tell because if she

00:09:03.020 was interested in him he could have taken her anywhere okay women when they are interested in

00:09:08.580 a man it doesn't matter where you are you're just grateful to be around him i remember when me and my

00:09:14.620 boyfriend first started dating he he made a joke once and he was like uh i'm taking you to the golden

00:09:19.720 arches and i thought oh my god that sounds so like fancy i i'd never heard this joke before i'd never

00:09:25.420 heard mcdonald's be referred to as the golden arches yeah i was like wow like what's the golden

00:09:30.020 arches um and we turned up at mcdonald's and when he said it i was kind of thinking like i'm not

00:09:35.180 dressed for a golden arches type place like what is this place and then we turned up at mcdonald's

00:09:39.880 not only was i relieved because i thought oh you know i am not dressed for a fancy place but you

00:09:44.880 were happy it didn't matter because i was just happy to be with him yeah it wasn't about where

00:09:50.420 we was going and any girl who's actually interested in a guy it doesn't matter where you are it doesn't

00:09:55.160 matter what you're doing it could be a walk in the park it could be a coffee it could literally be

00:09:59.140 anything you're just happy to be around them yeah so you know i think this guy has dodged a billet

00:10:03.420 here um she was using him she's of course she's using him and she probably does this to

00:10:08.300 to many guys yeah and you can tell just from her entitlement entitlement and her attitude the

00:10:12.820 type of woman she is but uh yeah these are these are what the comments are saying he should have

00:10:17.020 just taken her to a factory forget the cheesecake part get her doing some hard labor with that dollhouse

00:10:24.640 mindset yeah true completely agree i'd love to watch that part two another one says she looks

00:10:33.560 dressed for mcdonald's she's lucky yeah yeah she looks dressed like she's going to the cheesecake

00:10:41.260 factory she does though that's what i said like you know it's nothing special she doesn't look

00:10:46.660 dressed up um so i'm a bit confused as to why she thinks that she belongs in a fancy restaurant when

00:10:52.700 she doesn't even and this is what we're doing to women is that we're telling all women yeah you can

00:10:57.280 be a 10 we're telling all women beauty has nothing to do with about we're telling all women beauty has

00:11:02.160 nothing to do with how you look beauty is a feeling and as long as you can emulate that feeling of

00:11:07.040 empowerment and self-love and confidence then that somehow equates to how you look on the outside but

00:11:13.560 the reality is you look how you look yeah it's good if you are happy within your own skin i would never

00:11:19.600 wish for anyone to be uncomfortable in their own skin but you look how you look and that is a fact

00:11:24.760 and you just have to accept your circumstances for what they are be grateful that you are in the

00:11:30.180 position that you are because let's not forget you know you might not be the prettiest person in the

00:11:34.140 world but not everyone can use their arms and legs you know exactly yeah there's always going to be

00:11:38.480 someone worse than you and we've seemed to have fallen prey to this mindset of of teaching girls that

00:11:44.500 we're on a pedestal and that all men have to kind of flock and climb on top of each other to try and

00:11:49.880 anything we want yeah and it it expects nothing of the women which is completely unfair to the men and

00:11:57.000 i actually feel really bad for this guy because he's he's waited around an hour for her he's bought

00:12:02.300 her somewhere and he even got out of the car to open the door for her yeah oh i didn't even see that

00:12:07.220 he got out of the car he says do you want me to open the door for you but she had locked the door

00:12:10.920 to his car yeah that's crazy you can tell he's so genuine and she's just like deluded but she

00:12:17.140 looks like mentally ill i don't know it's kind there's kind of something weird there the way

00:12:20.980 she's filming herself the entire time and making faces like she's a celebrity yeah it's really like

00:12:25.980 i think she's deluded in more ways than one like she thinks she's better than she is as well which

00:12:30.120 is also a delusion i think what's scary is the fact that she's not a rare type of woman i think

00:12:34.600 what's scary is the fact that there's probably loads of these videos out there this just happens to be

00:12:38.900 one that's that's blown up there we go moving swiftly on topic number three on today's agenda

00:12:45.660 we have a video of a man calling his friend to tell him that his girl is no longer his girlfriend

00:12:51.100 i actually haven't seen this clip so yeah let's check it out tiffany's no longer my girlfriend

00:12:57.400 thank god dude that woman was the craziest person i've ever met oh hold up hold up hold up she's

00:13:04.820 actually we're engaged now she's my fiance it's uh she's no longer my girlfriend she's

00:13:08.800 my fiance what the hell mike i am so sorry that she's your fiance oh my god

00:13:15.560 i have seen that clip i actually have seen that before that is really awkward um i don't even know

00:13:27.040 what to say i think surely he should have spoke to the people around him before making a life-changing

00:13:33.600 decision like proposing to someone i think it's kind of worrying that he's called his friend and

00:13:39.340 his friend isn't already aware of the situation um and i think if his friend was aware of the

00:13:44.740 situation at least it seems like to me if this man had any sense about him if he had his head screwed

00:13:49.720 on properly he probably wouldn't be calling to say that she's my fiance because he would have already

00:13:53.880 had the conversation of yeah i'm thinking of getting engaged to her and his friend would have

00:13:58.500 communicated look i don't think she's good for you i think she's headache yeah in which case if he was

00:14:03.080 in a good mindset he would trust the people around him and perhaps not have proposed i mean the fact

00:14:09.400 she said she's the craziest girl he's ever met in his life it kind of um makes you think why like

00:14:15.640 what what's she done but it could be also a fake video it could be it could be because i if if my

00:14:24.020 friends had expressed that they feel that way about my partner and then i went against their judgment and

00:14:30.780 you know did something they told me not to i probably wouldn't record myself with my partner

00:14:36.620 next to me telling my friend that i know doesn't approve of my partner yeah i think if it is real

00:14:42.780 at least i mean it's the internet we can never really know for sure these days yeah but if it is

00:14:46.420 real i think unfortunately a lot of people especially in our generation they don't speak to their friends

00:14:52.780 and family and people around them who they should trust about life decisions true they just kind of

00:14:58.000 take things into their own hands i think we live in a very individualistic culture at the moment i

00:15:02.160 think everything has become very selfish and everyone has this idea that they know best um you know we

00:15:08.000 had that trend of calling older people boomers and you know when when an older person said something

00:15:12.380 it was okay boomer you know which is you know funny we can all laugh about it this was during the time

00:15:17.300 of vine i i happened to love vine and thought it was hilarious but the point is is that actually

00:15:22.040 you're never going to get anywhere in life unless you accept and understand that there are always

00:15:26.380 going to be people who have been around longer than you so therefore they probably know something

00:15:30.800 you don't and it's why it's really important who you surround yourself with because it's better to

00:15:35.800 have two people in your corner who you you trust their opinion no matter what and you know that

00:15:41.100 they've got their your best interests at heart and 20 people around you who actually don't care

00:15:46.200 about what you do with your life and i can guarantee you if he did tell anyone that he was going to

00:15:50.060 propose to this woman they were probably very bad friends because they probably didn't give the

00:15:54.820 right kind of advice and just said oh amazing i'm so happy for you you're going to get married

00:16:00.040 you know a lot of people don't give their true feelings because again we live in a very soft

00:16:06.040 culture where people are scared of offending people exactly one of the comments says she thought

00:16:12.280 her past was behind her yeah i mean we don't know the situation there makes you wonder

00:16:18.400 is mike's friend settling or is mike just hating i got to know something better call bro by the side

00:16:26.580 putting calls on loudspeaker is definitely not my thing anything could pop out true but also if you

00:16:31.980 have to live your life like that that just indicates to me you're surrounding yourself with

00:16:35.240 the wrong people if you have to hide everything from everyone you know you know you probably you

00:16:40.580 should probably take a look at that yeah if i were him i wouldn't have done that like i said as me

00:16:45.400 i wouldn't be afraid to do that because i don't i know that i don't have anything to hide i know that

00:16:50.140 you know people i surround myself truly have my best interests at heart can't relate to him

00:16:54.840 no can't relate but i think unfortunately there's probably a lot of people who who can and and that's

00:17:01.700 a real shame that that's where we're at in our culture and something needs to change guys start

00:17:06.020 surrounding yourself with better people and speak to your friends and family about what they think about

00:17:11.140 your partner because yes they're going to be biased because they care about you you know a little bit

00:17:15.620 of bias is kind of good in that scenario because they're probably going to tell you the truth and if

00:17:19.820 they're all saying bad things well you should probably look at your circumstances and maybe make a change

00:17:24.820 or don't you have the freedom to live your life as you wish what do i know but i'm just i'm just

00:17:29.840 trying to help like a therapist moving on so i'm sure you've heard of the whole jada smith and

00:17:39.660 yeah i've heard of small things but i don't really know the full story neither do i i don't think

00:17:46.680 anyone does i actually saw a meme the other day um someone sent me a meme and it was like uh jada smith

00:17:52.480 says she's actually never met will smith um which really tickled me because uh it wouldn't surprise me

00:17:57.520 if that hit the news the next day but from what i know that whole thing happened with will smith

00:18:03.240 punched him chris rock and kind of since then i think all of this stuff has come out about their

00:18:07.940 relationship a lot of people on the internet are calling will smith a simp um it does seem like he's

00:18:13.180 really trying his best to make this relationship work and she just seems to be this kind of tyrannical

00:18:18.820 dictator that's standing above him and just keeping him very much at a distance um but yeah we have a

00:18:25.260 video of jada smith in an interview um discussing this relationship so let's take a look if you find

00:18:31.700 another great love or if will finds another great love there's no finding another great love and i

00:18:37.240 think that's the point it's like we are in a place now that we are in a deep healing space and we are

00:18:43.860 really concentrating on healing the relationship between us so it may not be the divorce on paper

00:18:50.140 there's no divorce i mean not on paper there might not be a divorce in theory anymore yeah no we really

00:18:55.820 have been working hard oh okay well i didn't know that i was trying to take well i totally missed that

00:19:05.440 on the home that that's the whole thing so wait so wait just so i'm 100 clear you were divorced not

00:19:11.040 on paper but now we might be a point where we're back together we are working very hard

00:19:17.600 at bringing our relationship yes bringing our relationship together back to a marriage again

00:19:24.680 back to a life partnership yes because here's the thing about tell me husband wife marriage for me

00:19:33.040 for my healing process i came into that with very specific ideas very specific ideas that were blocks

00:19:41.900 to me just seeing will as who he is he can't be this perfect idealized husband yes of course i have

00:19:49.960 to be able to accept him for the human that he is he accepts me for the human that i am and we want

00:19:55.860 to love each other there okay so you might like live in the same house and have this yeah okay oh well

00:20:03.300 and those poor kids i just really want to point out how uh she's all about her and her expectations

00:20:13.340 of the marriage and it seems like she's indicating that he fell short of her expectations um but she

00:20:21.020 doesn't seem to have any concern for what his expectations were and maybe not to be cheated on

00:20:25.780 yeah exactly because i heard she's been around yeah i think that's true and it wouldn't really

00:20:32.160 surprise me just going off of off of this it wouldn't surprise me if she's the kind of woman

00:20:35.640 that's been around she definitely seems like the kind of woman that is not hair bonded to her partner

00:20:39.600 so that would suggest that she's been around the block a few times but i i really have a problem with

00:20:45.040 people who air out their dirty laundry i really really don't like it when people as i said they air

00:20:51.720 out their dirty laundry they put all of their problems in the public eye um i just think it's bad

00:20:57.080 taste i think it's tacky it makes me cringe um and even if someone close to me did it i would just

00:21:03.540 have to act like i didn't see it because i'm not going to get involved in that i'm not going to jump

00:21:08.200 on the bandwagon of say a friend post something about her boyfriend she's slagging him off or whatever

00:21:13.680 i'm not going to then jump on that bandwagon and pop up and be like can't believe he did this

00:21:18.700 because you're just fueling the fire um and really relationship problems should be within the

00:21:24.680 relationship it should be the the couple versus the problem and especially in a marriage because

00:21:30.120 you know that's the whole thing sanctity of marriage yes two people and all problems should

00:21:37.060 be resolved between you two within the context of that yeah and sometimes when you actually go to

00:21:42.460 other people and go against your partner or husband in this case it can actually have a bad effect

00:21:48.340 because some people don't have your best interests at heart and then they can advise you the wrong

00:21:52.140 things and lead you to do to make bad decisions and ruin your marriage so definitely not um the

00:22:00.120 right way to go about it i mean i agree with what she's saying about you know you can't have

00:22:04.700 unrealistic expectations of your husband and you need to love him for who he is because you know

00:22:09.700 in a marriage you're both sinners you're both you're not perfect no one's perfect we're all imperfect

00:22:14.480 so you have to accept that but you know she hasn't actually treated her marriage with that with

00:22:20.400 that same attitude because yeah if you believe that you shouldn't be cheating on your partner

00:22:24.640 i don't understand that like a marriage isn't for that yeah i mean i think it's all very hypocritical

00:22:29.800 and i think it's really important what you said you know when you take problems outside of the

00:22:33.780 relationship you you're really running a real risk because the truth is not everyone does have your

00:22:37.760 best interests at heart and i think especially with the fact that what we're seeing is the half of

00:22:42.600 this relationship that is outsourcing the problems is is the female half and i think it's especially

00:22:47.800 dangerous in this day and age when women go to their friends about relationship problems because

00:22:53.460 the truth is we've we've seen already with the other topics on on today's agenda you know a lot

00:22:59.240 of women out there are messed up right now they've been fed so much bullshit by the mainstream media by

00:23:04.700 social media and even with the way that we're raising kids today a lot of women actually don't like it

00:23:10.820 when their friend is in a relationship especially if they're part of today's culture of things like

00:23:15.800 going out clubbing and everything's for the instagram pictures they don't want their friends

00:23:20.140 to be in a relationship because that means oh well i'm i'm not going to be able to go out and get

00:23:25.960 drunk with you as much yeah of course they're going to encourage you to bin off a relationship

00:23:31.260 because they they don't actually care about your happiness they care about what you mean in relation

00:23:36.920 to them yeah so yeah i think that's a really important point jealousy exactly well they they want it

00:23:43.040 they pretend they don't want it that's it they want it because they know they can see how happy

00:23:47.280 you are and they don't seem to understand that because maybe they've never had that before yeah

00:23:51.720 so they try and discourage you from um pursuing something meaningful yeah um and they try and make

00:23:58.600 you trade it for something which is you know less meaningful definitely because they know that they

00:24:03.980 can't attain that for themselves but i know there's a there's a continuation from this interview so so

00:24:10.180 let's see what else it has so in the comments we've got their relationship sounds like a trauma

00:24:14.660 bond oh this term this time is driving me nuts i like to say that trauma bond uh is um the excuse

00:24:24.580 that people use for being with someone who doesn't make them happy i've never heard of this before so a

00:24:31.420 trauma bond is this idea that uh so say you get with a gentleman and this gentleman starts breaking

00:24:40.540 your heart maybe you unfortunately go through some kind of abuse it's not working the relationship

00:24:46.120 is dysfunctional the idea of a trauma bond is that the reason you stay is because psychologically

00:24:53.000 you're kind of addicted to the stress of it so it's this whole idea of like chasing the highs and

00:24:58.820 those the roller coaster of a relationship and how you know movies and everything will tell young

00:25:02.960 girls to go after the toxic guy because that's where the roller coaster is yeah um yeah but you

00:25:09.380 know and we've told kids that having a healthy relationship is boring and that it's better to

00:25:14.080 have a toxic relationship because at least then it's thrilling but yeah i think it's just an excuse

00:25:18.900 trauma bond is just a way to go i don't like my circumstances i'm too addicted to it to change them

00:25:25.120 i actually used to believe that myself um but i've woken up to that as well and i now know that

00:25:33.160 you can always remove yourself from something like if you always have that choice like you're in

00:25:38.000 complete control of your actions and yeah yeah making excuses isn't going to get you out of anything

00:25:43.220 and it's just going to make you more unhappy and yeah lead to bad things don't agree with that

00:25:48.540 i'm not even denying the psychology behind it because you know when you look at things like

00:25:55.060 addiction why do people get addicted it is because of things like a release of oxytocin a release of

00:26:00.800 dopamine and i think when you are in a toxic relationship that definitely can be the case that

00:26:05.320 you kind of get maybe it's similar to addiction maybe it is an addiction but you can very you can

00:26:11.060 very much get lost in the ordeal of it all you can get lost in the roller coaster to the good parts

00:26:17.520 and you keep wanting the good parts to come and you chase the highs no matter how low the lows are

00:26:23.960 however like you say whether or not we can always set ourselves free you know because some people may

00:26:32.820 argue well what about crackheads and heroin addicts you know i just think it's better to at least perhaps

00:26:40.180 it's delusional but if you can tell yourself that no matter what you can always change your

00:26:44.300 circumstances chances are you're going to be better off in life because even when the odds are

00:26:48.680 completely against you if you have that mindset of i can always change my circumstances you're going

00:26:53.620 to try harder to do that so it's just a better mindset to have in general but yeah another comment

00:26:59.760 says i saw a tiktok of a therapist who dissects how narcissistic people speak and how they speak on

00:27:05.220 both sides so that they are never wrong right or can be caught in a lie i dismissed the tiktok

00:27:13.440 until i saw this video she is choosing her words so very delicately so very delicately yeah i can kind

00:27:22.240 of see that she just looks a bit psychopathic i mean i just think it's you're obviously chasing

00:27:28.460 something if you have to constantly go on tv and talk about your relationship and she she just

00:27:35.100 constantly seems to be slandering will like it just seems like all the time she's just shitting on him

00:27:40.580 and sometimes she disguises it as she's trying to say oh we're like this one we're healing and we're

00:27:46.880 working together it's like but don't act like you haven't done all of these other interviews

00:27:51.520 previously where you've been making him look like a weak man like you've really damaged his reputation

00:27:57.760 but it probably helps her because then she feels stronger she feels stronger because you can tell

00:28:02.600 she's very masculine like yeah the way that she presents herself the way that she speaks the way

00:28:07.700 that she talks even you can tell that she has full control in that relationship and he's just like

00:28:13.500 hopelessly in love with her and like trailing behind her like a little dog

00:28:18.180 um and yeah sadly he hasn't realized that he can break himself through from that but

00:28:24.040 100% agree with you i do also think that because of marriage and like the sanctity of it i do believe

00:28:30.320 that you know once you marry someone you've made that you stick by them yeah so i think will

00:28:35.920 is keeping up with that yeah i think will is keeping his side of the agreement um and i don't know if

00:28:42.560 will is a religious man but maybe that comes into it maybe that's probably isn't i mean i don't

00:28:48.140 think they're quite the opposite of religious i think they yeah worship something else

00:28:52.400 we we've got to do an episode on that because

00:29:00.200 yeah i i agree with you there but look something's keeping him there whether it be you know the

00:29:08.440 sanctity of marriage or maybe just pure embarrassment something's keeping him around

00:29:13.120 and i can't help but feel bad for the guy perhaps that's because i'm a woman

00:29:16.800 so i'm empathetic and emotional about it i'm sure a lot of guys would sit here and say

00:29:22.160 he needs to leave her um and i agree but i can't help but feel bad for him because he's just like you

00:29:28.100 say trailing along like a a lost puppy another comment says why is she always speaking in riddles and

00:29:34.060 avoiding the truth entanglement working hard to bring our relationship together divorced but not

00:29:39.240 divorced i'm tired honestly she reminds me of boris

00:29:42.440 we're on youtube so we'll say no more but if you know what i mean you know what i mean i know what

00:29:52.040 you mean we always do this at the end of pal daily um there is a surprise reddit story um we were just

00:29:57.920 having a conversation before the show nazarin didn't know what reddit is so i think i've now got

00:30:01.900 you up to date yeah it's just a forum people tell their stories and uh yeah we get to read those

00:30:08.560 stories so let's take a look my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a decade and i genuinely

00:30:13.900 love him he is the nicest person i know but due to some differences between us during the past few

00:30:19.400 months i used sex with other people as an outlet and cheated on him he found out and broke up with me

00:30:25.760 and i fully understand and respect his decision i'm seriously not this type of person and i'm a good

00:30:31.580 human being i just happen to do something bad his mother and i have been close for a long time she

00:30:37.340 absolutely adores me and i love her too we have a very close relationship she has taught me how to

00:30:42.140 knit and i have taught her how to make presentations and stuff we bond really well we are really close

00:30:47.480 and i asked my ex if he could hide my cheating it is something between me and him and no one else

00:30:52.740 needs to know about it thankfully he agreed and told his mum that we had an amicable breakup due to

00:30:57.780 mutual differences i still visit his mum at times and he ignores me which hurts a lot but he is

00:31:04.000 friendly enough at times and even smiles at me when i'm around his mother i explained to my friend

00:31:08.360 the complex situation i'm in and she told me that i'm being an asshole by letting my ex not have any

00:31:12.560 room to vent since he has told everyone that it was an amicable breakup and we are still friends

00:31:16.700 honestly it was a mutual decision and he agreed to it so i do not think i've done anything wrong when

00:31:21.260 it comes to keeping it between ourselves would love a fresh perspective thanks this is crazy i feel

00:31:29.500 like when someone really needs to justify that they're a good person chances are they're probably

00:31:33.920 not if you if you have to constantly say i promise i'm good chances are you've done a lot of stuff that

00:31:41.240 would suggest that you're not now we don't know this lady really and truly this is all we know but

00:31:45.780 from this i i would not class her as a good person um and i actually think that she is surrounded by

00:31:52.480 amazing friends because the friends have told her the truth the friends have said you're being a dick

00:31:58.620 yeah you've you've put him in a position where he has to lie to everyone about what's actually happened

00:32:03.920 he can't get the emotional support that he probably needs during this very distressing time

00:32:09.220 and you're being out of order and what a great friend to tell her that because how many

00:32:14.020 friends in this day and age would actually be that brutal and honest with you usually it's like you

00:32:18.680 go girl well done for cheating whoever this girl is you you've got an amazing friend the friend who

00:32:24.840 said this to you is a keep her around because that is a very good friend i'm sorry this isn't an

00:32:30.580 accident because it wasn't just once i used sex with other people people people what so it wasn't an

00:32:37.700 accident it's not a mistake like if it just happened once i would be much more um not i mean not

00:32:43.400 understanding because i still don't understand it but i'd be a little bit more understanding

00:32:47.640 but the fact it's like multiple people i just can't that it's not an accident also this whole

00:32:54.020 thing is about her you know there is nothing about him so the only thing that she actually mentions as

00:32:59.240 to why this happened um because i think we all know like if a woman cheats chances are that that's

00:33:05.380 because something was was going wrong for well down the line and then she's instead of being an

00:33:12.960 adult about it and bringing it up she she's gone and cheated on him because she's not able to have

00:33:17.520 a conversation about things but you know she just seems to be overcompensating for a lot he is the

00:33:22.860 nicest person i know but due to some differences between us during the past few months she doesn't

00:33:27.700 then go to clarify what those differences are she doesn't tell us what's actually happened she's she

00:33:32.420 wants a fresh perspective actually what i think she wants is to be reinforced that don't worry you're

00:33:38.940 a good person because she didn't get that from the friend so now she's come on the internet and

00:33:42.940 aired out her dirty laundry gross because she wants someone online to to do it for her instead of just

00:33:48.520 accepting no i messed up i have been awful i'm very ashamed of myself i should probably fix myself to

00:33:56.020 make sure i don't hurt someone like this in the future and again the whole middle section is just

00:34:00.260 about her relationship with his mom she's not even recognizing what her friend is saying she's

00:34:05.940 literally come online and told the internet what her friend is saying and she can't even say do you

00:34:10.880 know what i see i do see what she's saying there's no acknowledgement or responsibility here no but also

00:34:16.940 if you love him and you love his mom and you love being around his family why did you cheat on him

00:34:21.560 because you know i mean you would know that he's going to air that to them and if you have that

00:34:29.280 much respect he hasn't even been able to do that i know exactly but he probably would have if she

00:34:33.800 tell him not to like it's so there's something not right there she's put her own relationship

00:34:38.940 with a guy's mother before his relationship also he's not being strong enough to be like

00:34:45.480 no yeah you know i completely agree f off you did this to me i'm now going to cut you out of my life

00:34:51.620 and yeah life and i'm going to tell her what you did because you know people deserve to know what

00:34:57.220 you're really like why why is he even allowing her around his mom knowing that she's got the

00:35:02.080 capability to hurt people no that's very true manipulate people that's very true no he needs to

00:35:07.340 completely get this girl out of his life completely both in the wrong yeah they are both in the wrong

00:35:13.340 it's just i guess my heart just goes out to him because he's already been through

00:35:16.540 so much um but no you are completely right he needs to completely bin this girl off and get her out of

00:35:23.220 his life just straight up tell the mom because i can guarantee you the mom would not be having this

00:35:28.640 relationship with her if she knew what what actually happened so it's almost like he's joining in on the

00:35:33.240 manipulating yeah he's almost hurting himself further and by allowing this to happen and his mom because

00:35:39.720 it's it's ultimately a lie isn't it yeah anyway we have an edit on this story so she's come back to

00:35:44.780 give us all an update i feel like a lot of you are calling me a bad person because i cheated oh my god

00:35:49.560 what people are calling you a bad person because you cheated how could you how could they if my boyfriend

00:35:56.360 broke up with me i think i have suffered the consequences i am a good person and i try to be a better one each

00:36:03.320 day it's complicated i genuinely want opinions on the mutual decision my boyfriend and i made not to

00:36:09.980 tell his mother i did beg and plead in the end it was an agreement from both sides so i did use my

00:36:16.980 tactics of feminine manipulation which we all know are the the tears and the i'm just a weak frail little

00:36:23.460 girl that doesn't know any better so not only have i manipulated him into a situation

00:36:28.880 um but i'm also gonna sit here and say that it was mutual

00:36:32.960 what look guy if you happen to come across this and see us reading this story please get rid of her

00:36:46.260 please tell your mom please tell your mom and tell your mom please tell your mom and she'll get rid of

00:36:51.780 her for you if you are not in the position to be a man right now that is what your mom is for

00:36:58.020 yeah it's just like i understand people are flawed like yeah we sin we we make mistakes but not

00:37:05.440 multiple times like it's multiple people she's cheated with it's not that that's the thing that's

00:37:10.920 and she says everyone has come back and said that she's a bad person and instead of listening obviously

00:37:16.480 to everyone this this is how you know that that a lot of modern women are narcissistic because

00:37:21.420 if loads of people are screaming something at you chances are it's true it's true so

00:37:28.440 instead of coming back to edit and try and justify again i'm still a good person why are you all

00:37:35.720 saying i'm not maybe you should look and go oh shit maybe i've fucked up here but no the delusion

00:37:43.980 wins again yeah so much delusion it's actually hard to it's hard to live in this society when

00:37:51.880 everyone's just like it seems like everyone's crazy but you sometimes yeah yeah and that's why it's great

00:37:58.620 to have you here nazarine because you remind me that there are other people who are not completely

00:38:04.340 bewildered with delusion so yeah what did you guys think of that why don't you let us know in the

00:38:10.980 comments below um nazarine thank you so much for for joining me here today um obviously i'm i'm

00:38:17.280 covering for pal so it's it's always great to have someone else along my by my side um where can

00:38:23.260 people find you um so i'm on twitter and instagram um and youtube as well but i don't really use that

00:38:29.340 as much but my username is at nazarine veronica yeah yeah go check her out she's definitely got some

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JustPearlyThings - October 20, 2023

Security JUMPED Dillon Danis During Match With Logan ｜ @christinegracesmith ｜ Pearl Daily Ep. 57

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